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Not what we planned for... | *Emotional* 3rd Trimester Updates + Breech Baby 

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@heynadine
@heynadine 3 года назад
Thank you everyone for your kind comments and personal stories ❤️ it means a lot . You are making me cry, again. I’ll try and make it through a bunch of reply’s as I can ❤️ it’s been a hard week ❤️
@travelwithtmc
@travelwithtmc 3 года назад
Nadine, check your DMs in Instagram. We've never met or chatted before so I'm guessing this will end up in your spam box in IG, which is why I'm also messaging here. I'm connecting you to two women I know from university who are well-versed in post-delivery recovery. They're both quite educated and passionate about women's health. Best of luck to you and here's hoping the little guy dives head first into this world!
@maxplanck9055
@maxplanck9055 3 года назад
Take it easy Nadine, yourself and baby are the priority,we on RU-vid can wait, health is more important,much love ❤️👍🇬🇧
@woltersworld
@woltersworld 3 года назад
Big supportive hug Nadine. Prayers for Little dude and mama that you two are both healthy. Big Big Big super supportive hug for all three of you.
@madelyntormasi6138
@madelyntormasi6138 3 года назад
Nadine I’ve watched you for so many years and your resilience has always inspired me. I haven’t finished the video yet either but I am sending you love and light. I hope you and baby are as safe as possible throughout this. You’re tough and I’m sure baby is too! 🥰🥰🥰
@Neonravekid
@Neonravekid 3 года назад
I was a breech bady very early on and never turned. My mom considered having me turned but there was a ton of risk. She had a c section. 30 years later I'm still doing great as is she. :) Hope that gives you some comfort. A healthy baby is the most important at the end of the day. You got this!!!! Stay strong.
@betsysullivan4706
@betsysullivan4706 3 года назад
Don’t give up hope Nadine! I had a c-section scheduled and the night before the baby flipped over and broke my water. 😆
@chrishomel9558
@chrishomel9558 3 года назад
We had a scheduled C-section with our second child, and where my wife could tell you more, it was a fast recovery. He's 18 now and learning to drive our 84 westy. Our daughter who is 23 now was not a C-section and probably should have been. Her birth was traumatic for both my wife and her. Thankfully all turned out okay, but the take away is you're doing the right thing and there are so many more positive experiences to look forward to in the course of your journey with him. Our daughter is also a van-lifer and will get the westy when I'm done fixing it up for her. Good luck with everything. You'll both be back traveling with baby and Clifford very soon.
@daniellesharpe9429
@daniellesharpe9429 3 года назад
I'm so sorry Nadine! I cried with you as I was watching! I know it's so tough when you're wanting, planning, and excited for something and then it all changes. You'll still have a beautiful baby soon and it's great you can research and have a planned C-section to keep you and the baby safe. Wishing you all the best!💗
@dzambran16
@dzambran16 3 года назад
Nadine 💛it’s awesome that you share your pregnancy experience. I haven’t experienced a breech baby but I have had family who have had scheduled C-sections. They’ve described them to be a very calm experience “in comparison” to an emergency C-section, as one would expect. Sending you and your family all the love on this final stretch!
@OnTheGoWithCarson
@OnTheGoWithCarson 3 года назад
I'm so sorry, Nadine. Sending you all and baby SO much love. I know so many people go in with a birth plan and it's discouraging when your plan does not work out. I'm sending you love that both you and baby are healthy and you have a pleasant experience with whatever happens. Can't wait to meet him!
@brianadestefano6826
@brianadestefano6826 3 года назад
Nadine I’m definitely praying for you and baby! I may not know what you’re going through but I know you’re a strong woman and everything will all be worth it once you have baby in hands.
@bethvansoup
@bethvansoup 3 года назад
Oh Nadine, my heart goes out to you. I wish I could hug you. Im sorry your journey isn’t going as hoped. You’re so strong and so brave for sharing this. Wishing you all the best in the next steps of this chapter!
@a00r
@a00r 3 года назад
This is so heart breaking to here Nadine, I hope and pray that everything works out and that both you and the baby are safe and have a safe and natural birth just like you wanted ❤️
@BOSSIIBIITCH
@BOSSIIBIITCH 3 года назад
Sending you all so much love and Prayers for a safe delivery❤️🙏🏻
@izilly26
@izilly26 3 года назад
Heyy, I completely understand how you're feeling.. I had the same issue with my first daughter. I was completely freaked out but she ended up flipping just 2 days before I gave birth! You can never plan for these types of things and worrie about all the factors that are ultimately out of your control. At the end of the day the most important thing is that you and baby are healthy and safe. Leave the rest up to God because He is the best of all planners. I pray everything goes well for you and please TRY to relax and enjoy the time you have before baby arrives.
@paulsalow5991
@paulsalow5991 3 года назад
I prayed for you today, that everything works out well with your pregnancy. I love your videos, they are very inspiring to me. You are strong and courageous.
@classicrockasmr
@classicrockasmr 3 года назад
I’m sorry Nadine. Baby was breech my last check up too and we are nearing the end. It’s hard when you put so much energy into preparing for something so big and important and then suddenly, those plans are deflated. Just remember all births are beautiful and valid. I hope you and baby stay healthy. Lots of love.
@angelac2052
@angelac2052 3 года назад
Aww -babies and children… they will bring you lots of unexpected / unplanned days!! Wishing you a healthy happy birth!! You got this!!! 🌸🌺
@Diana-lo6cx
@Diana-lo6cx 3 года назад
Im sorry Nadine, I am praying for a healthy delivery for you and baby. God bless sweetie, hang in there
@sdoyle3905
@sdoyle3905 3 года назад
I had 2 Cs, the first after 2 days of heavy labor pains. Piece of cake! The recovery was easy. I was able to fully function right away without pain meds, and I could fully enjoy my new baby! After the 2 days of labor, I’d choose a C anytime! Focus on the new little guy, not the fairy tale experience you wish you could have had. Trust me, after hours of hard labor you might have wishes for an epidural and not be able to have one!! Best of luck!
@SchlumpfeBlue
@SchlumpfeBlue 3 года назад
I didn't finish the video yet but I just wanted to send you so much love and strength! You deserve all the good things and your baby too
@samanthaleeh09
@samanthaleeh09 3 года назад
I just had my little girl 1 month ago, via emergency c-section, I had to get induced due to preeclampsia and failed to progress in labor. It was incredibly stressful for me, baby, and my partner. I felt the loss of not having a labor like I wanted after, but once you have baby, those feelings will subside and you will be so in love. C-section recovery sucked for about a week, after first week it gets better. I’m a month out and feeling back to my normal self already. I understand your loss, I had it too, it will be ok. 💕
@siminrupa2697
@siminrupa2697 3 года назад
I hope you guys are safe with all the fires!!!
@Roxie9x9Knox
@Roxie9x9Knox 3 года назад
I’m so sorry Nadine, but I send you all my love. Whatever has to happen I hope is for your baby and yours well-being
@misspepe7416
@misspepe7416 3 года назад
I am so sorry for all the disappointment and stress you are going trough. I really hope you can experience giving birth vaginally. Just know, that giving birth via c-section as different as it might be is equally as beautiful and a little miracle in itself, too! You've got this! 💪💕
@Skittl1321
@Skittl1321 3 года назад
I hope the delivery goes well for you. After my first pregnancy, a third trimester loss, I really wanted a non medicated birth, and ended up with emergency C-section under general anesthesia. My third pregnancy was going to be a planned C-section, I went into labor and while waiting for 8 hours since I ate, ended up with another emergency C-section. Those babies have their own plans.
@Lauren_aida
@Lauren_aida 3 года назад
I understand how you’re feeling so hard. Having that choice taken away is really sh*tty. Give yourself all the time and space to handle that. Everything you’re feeling about it is normal and valid ❤️
@dedicateddreamer9363
@dedicateddreamer9363 3 года назад
Hi! I’ve had two (plus an abdominal surgery) and am having my third in December! You’ve got this :). Try to move as much as you can and a belly band can give you amazing incision support.
@aidaissocoollike
@aidaissocoollike 3 года назад
Hey Nadine :) you should really try acupuncture ! I’ve never believed in those things but i’ve just started my gyn-ob residency in May and since then I’ve seen 10+ babies that turned thanks to that. Definitely worth a try 👶🏻
@Learningwithmarcus
@Learningwithmarcus 3 года назад
Nadine, first off I know I have limited input because I’m male, but I’m very sorry you’re going thru this. From what I’ve seen with the women in my life pregnancy is more than just bringing a life into this world (which is already incomprehensibly amazing) but it’s also about the experiences and the process involved in the pregnancy and birth. It’s evident that your emotionally distraught and with absolute good reason. I wish safety for you and baby. Sending positive vibes across borders! 💌🗺🤟🏽
@atopham4836
@atopham4836 3 года назад
You’ve got this mama! 💪 As soon as you see your little bundle, all of this anxiety and disappointment will disappear. Take it all in and enjoy the wild ride.
@cyndieteng7002
@cyndieteng7002 3 года назад
Had my baby on July 14 which ended in an emergency c section after pushing for several hours (baby’s heart rate wasn’t having it) and failed vacuum assisted delivery. Was desperately avoiding a c section as well partly due to the recovery process. First couple days were rough but by day 3 you start feeling a lot better and everyday gets easier. 3 weeks pp and I can honestly say I’m at 90% recovered. You got this mama!
@MrSmiles51
@MrSmiles51 3 года назад
I am sorry for you but you do have options to have a healthy mom and baby and that is a blessing
@mohamed_elshikh_
@mohamed_elshikh_ 3 года назад
Don't cry Nadine sure it's not a problem for the doctors and they will find a solution My heart with you ❤✌
@rebeccas9488
@rebeccas9488 3 года назад
Sending you love and prayers during this time. We all want to you to have a safe delivery and how that happens will be what it is. Also interesting use of a portable table!! Oh and Frank would be a great name!!
@LtNduati
@LtNduati 3 года назад
I know it sucks, and can feel like your choices have been made for you and not by you, but I think of it as a good thing that it's happening now, when medicine is capable of picking up and finding the best route for you and the baby to take so that you'll both be okay. I have a lot of allergies and bizarre medical issues, and I often joke that statistically I shouldn't be alive nor should I have made it this far, but here I am.
@staplerulerpen
@staplerulerpen 3 года назад
❤ I wish you all the best. I understand the pain, I got induced and the chord was wrapped out the little ones neck and after 21 hours of labor I ended up having a csection. That was the most defeated I ever felt. It's fair to be so upset.
@cy24
@cy24 3 года назад
All I want to say is it is ok to grieve the loss of what you were hoping to go through during childbirth. Once baby is here and healthy you'll look back on the experience and be grateful just to have him here.
@alejandrav5790
@alejandrav5790 3 года назад
Yes! Spinning Babies worked for us! He was breached on Thursday and when I went into labor on Saturday he had flipped! I was 39 weeks. It can happen, but either way if a csection is best for mom and baby then that's all that matters. Good luck and sending you positive vibes for a healthy delivery
@aryamanoharan
@aryamanoharan 3 года назад
God decides things that should happen for us, don't worry C section is not all that bad. I have had 2 c sections,one planned and the other emergency.But all that pain goes away when you get to see your little one. All the best wishes to have a healthy baby. We are all waiting to see the member 😊
@SOGTrueBeliever
@SOGTrueBeliever 3 года назад
Sorry to hear that your birth situation seems like it isn't going to be what you want it to be. I'm sending virtual hugs and prayers your way
@Piscoandmartinis
@Piscoandmartinis 3 года назад
I was terrified of the ECV so glad I decided not to have it. A c section was a lot safer (for the baby at least!) and everything turned out great! I can relate to your disappointment (though I wasn't really into having an all natural birth) but I was afraid of the longer pain of a C section. My girl stayed frank breech (yes we did spinning babies too, didn't work lol) but honestly by 2 weeks after my C section, I was almost back to normal! Scheduled C sections are the way to go! Just make sure your husband does ALL the heavy lifting, baby included! And walk a lot, you'll do great❤️
@anniehallmartin995
@anniehallmartin995 3 года назад
I know how you feel!! My baby boy is 3 weeks old now and he was breech at 37 weeks. I felt a lot of grief about the loss of the birth experience I wanted and I also felt guilty about being so upset about needing a C-section because of course safety/health for me and my baby was the top priority and I knew he and I would both be ok after a C-section in the long run. A lot of well-meaning people minimized my feelings while they were trying to make me feel better by saying things like, "I was a C-section, and I'm ok!", "What's most important is that you're both safe", or "a lot of people have c-sections and they're all fine", etc... technically those things are all true, but it's still valid for the mom in that situation to grieve the loss of the experience she wanted to have with her baby and everything that goes along with that. (And you're right, it's a shitty feeling to have that choice taken away from you!) My little dude decided to flip himself at 38 weeks, after I had already accepted that I'd probably need a C-section... but then when I was still pregnant at 41+1 and my fluid levels were low, I had to schedule an induction (which I also didn't want). Thankfully, I went into labor a few hours before my induction and was able to have the unmedicated birth I was hoping for... after I'd almost given up hope twice. Best of luck to you with your baby! I hope he flips and you get to have the kind of birth you're hoping for! And if not, I hope you can still have parts of your original plan. (Looking up things about "gentle c-sections" made me feel a lot better when my baby was breech!) 💛💛💛
@HelloKidney.
@HelloKidney. 3 года назад
aww momma please don't cry! I'm a first time mom and I feel you. I felt the exact same way. By the end of it you do just want the baby out! haha. Not sure if that'll make you feel better. They told me I was going to have a C-section...was not in my agenda, neither to get an epidural but I did:) The doctor was no where to be found and luckily I ended up having my son come out naturally. But please don't let that word get to you. C-sections if needed, are best for you and your baby boy ^_^ best of luck. You will be much stronger than me if you get your stomach opened! Kuddos to you girl, girl power!!
@me-lg1yw
@me-lg1yw 3 года назад
Hang in there. You will soon have a healthy baby and all this stress will be forgotten. 👶
@NeverStopAdventuring
@NeverStopAdventuring 3 года назад
Praying for you all and the baby. It's ok to grieve the change in what you hoped for your labor and birth experience. Those feelings are valid and important to process. I can't wait to hear baby has arrived and that all is well! ❤️ ~Christine
@Lee-cs3mu
@Lee-cs3mu 3 года назад
I'm sorry that you are so disappointed. I had two emergency c sections, eleven months apart, and it isn't ideal. But you can definitely do it. My only advice is just to make sure you have lots of help. Getting out of bed and carrying things is hard. Most women are so used to doing so much but you just need to take the time and help offered. The more you rest, the quicker you recover. Also with a baby in a bad position, it is just more healthy for you and baby to do this option. If you ended up having a traumatic labour or an emergency c section like I did, it can also cause problems with producing breast milk. Which i know you had mentioned you had wanted to do.
@johndoe19203402020
@johndoe19203402020 3 года назад
Hoping for the best for you and new little dude.
@Emoritz417
@Emoritz417 3 года назад
Sending so much love your way!
@jonm6756
@jonm6756 3 года назад
Nadine everything is going to be OK, my first child was An emergency C-section, he just didn’t want to come out, it was a really cool experience, I got to sit by my wife well they did it and I almost passed out because they were cutting her open and she felt nothing. I got very dizzy. The anesthesiologist had to make me look at her face and not her stomach LOL.Enjoy it all, sending lots of love.
@marissayeldig7208
@marissayeldig7208 3 года назад
I just had my little girl 2 months ago and my entire pregnancy she was breeched. When i was 37 weeks (with preeclampsia) they tried to flip her, but she would not move! So we had to do a C-section. It was a good thing they did though because she had the umbilical cord wrapped around her whole body! She now is a happy healthy little girl🥰
@rabuie
@rabuie 3 года назад
At 23 weeks now, I feel you on wanting to experience it all, naturally. So sorry you had to change your plan. Crossing my fingers he flips for you.
@TheMimlis
@TheMimlis 3 года назад
Another youtube, Sierra, had a c-section. It wasent the plan but look at her video on there vlogg chanel? She was scerad off it, but it went fine. Both for her and the girl, it was in the end the safest way for them both.
@lucieherrick6934
@lucieherrick6934 3 года назад
My last child was frank breech and had to have a c-section. During delivery they discovered he had a large knot in umbilical cord and probably would have gone into distress during vaginal delivery. Sometimes things happen for a reason. I don’t know if this is the norm, but babies I know who were frank breech seem to be late walkers. When he starts to crawl, back sure he gets up on those knees. My son did Comanche crawl. Times have changed and a lot of women can now have vaginal births after c-sections. Once you hold him, all this will be forgotten.
@blueberryfrog894
@blueberryfrog894 3 года назад
As someone who has had both an emergency and a scheduled c section, scheduled is much easier to recover from. Two biggest tips I have are to ask for a abdominal binder for while you’re healing ( it SAVED my back), and when you check in, bring some kind of treats or snacks for the nursing staff. They’ll really appreciate it. Also? This sucks and seems really big right now, but it won’t be so big or sucky later.
@katycoe9244
@katycoe9244 3 года назад
that sucks, i'm sorry you may not get the experience you wanted :( c-sections (well birth in any form) sounds horrifying to me lmao. hope things go well and you have a safe delivery/recovery ! love from Ottawa
@xoxo-dr3eo
@xoxo-dr3eo 3 года назад
After going through both, either way you bring that wonderful miracle into this world, doesn’t matter. Focus on breathing, you got this mama❤️❤️❤️
@PritiShikotraPhotography
@PritiShikotraPhotography 3 года назад
Once you hold your baby - none of this will matter as much. I feel for you that it’s not going accordingly for you but pregnancy is one of them things & sooo out of your control. Hope you and baby are safe & well once he arrives. Good luck!
@cherieglam
@cherieglam 3 года назад
I have no idea what you are going through just know that we are all here to support you and love you. I pray for a healthy and strong baby boy.
@vitaminmonica
@vitaminmonica 3 года назад
I feel for you, girl 💙
@ODriscolls
@ODriscolls 3 года назад
I'm so sorry Nadine. It does not sound stupid to want to experience labour. Grieving these losses are totally valid. I had two emergency c sections. The second time around I got up moving as soon as possible and it was 100 times better recovery than the first when I stayed in bed until coaxed out (I am a baby haha). I just mean go to the bathroom a few times day one. Take the pain killers they offer. I didn't want to at first but then I did and it was easier (I don't know why I didn't, it's all a blur). It will help you get through the first week or so. It's a big surgery and you are taking care of a baby. Your body is going to heal and feel totally normal again. Just give it time. Put a pillow on the incision when you sneeze. Be careful when eating and drinking that nothing gets caught in the wrong place to make you need to cough. Drink lots of water. Like waaaaay more than you think, bring a big water bottle, there will be a water filling station in the maternity ward and hubby can fill it for you. You got this!
@ashleyhood7479
@ashleyhood7479 3 года назад
I’m sorry to hear that your expectations have been let down! That must be very difficult. ❤️ I feel like Frank is an important name, but it’s either a love it or hate it situation! What do you think? Other boy names I love that I’m considering are: Arthur and George (nickname Georgie) they are family names and I love how princely both sound!
@SupaDupaFlyGirl
@SupaDupaFlyGirl 3 года назад
Nadine, you have always been a warrior! You are growing a human for goodness sake!!! And although the plans may have changed you will be holding him in your arms soon enough. I know it's disappointing but just focus on the healthy arrival for you both.. Hang in there, momma 💓for a name I suggest Luka, it means "bringer of light".
@derekcolman
@derekcolman 3 года назад
Hi, Liz. So pleased to see you messaged Nadine at this time. Love and encouragement from friends mean so much.
@jbhifiq
@jbhifiq 3 года назад
I know exactly where you're coming from. I was crushed when my Dr decided I needed an indication due to preclampsia. The induction did not go well and I ended up with an emergency c-section. I felt completely robbed of the end of pregnancy and birth experience. My second baby was completely different and my water ended up breaking at Toys R Us and I drove myself to the hospital where they didn't believe I was in labour because I was laughing and happy. I ended up delivering him on my own when the staff all left the room they put me in. Sounds worse than it was. I loved every moment of his birth. My third was similar to the second. Once again, hospital didn't believe I was in labour. I don't feel my contractions until the last 30 minutes and then pop! Dr was there for the third. So remember, you are allowed to be upset, but roll with it. In the end, you get baby. And you may have a polar opposite experience the next time (if you want a next time).
@xMajken
@xMajken 3 года назад
I was also frank breeched. My mom had me with c-section and I am her first child.
@samantha739
@samantha739 3 года назад
Name suggestions: Nathan/Nathaniel, Alexander, Logan, David, Luka/Lucas, Joshua, Jaxon, Zachary
@jaynechambers1492
@jaynechambers1492 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing! This is so refreshing to see a mum sharing her disappointment about her birth hopes not panning out. Totally relate!! I had a emergency c section and my biggest tip is your bed. Getting up from bed was the most painful thing I found so have something beside your bed to help you get upright and then out of bed. Have baby brought to you at night as much as possible at the start
@this_is_v_stoopid
@this_is_v_stoopid 3 года назад
I was a planned c-section, as was my brother, because my mother was too small and it was too unsafe for her to have natural births. She says never once did she ever feel bad about having c-sections because the experience of bringing home and raising healthy babies was more important to her than the experience of birthing babies. Now me... I went through 6 straight hours of nonstop pain med-free dilation... let me tell you THAT part is worth missing if you can work that out. And I didn't even get a baby out of it. 🤦‍♀️
@charlycheer
@charlycheer 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing your experience Nadine! We’re all here cheering for you, your baby and a healthy birth no matter how it happens. 🤗 💜
@oldfarmshow
@oldfarmshow 3 года назад
Praying
@JenniferOxyear
@JenniferOxyear 3 года назад
What about Jeremy or Oliver?
@erinwebb2725
@erinwebb2725 3 года назад
I was a Frank Breach and 22 and a half inches long lol I was just too long to flip. I’m also 6 feet tall now so…. The length stayed 💗💗 ….either way. I know your baby is lucky to have 3 very caring and loving parents
@faithnew1919
@faithnew1919 3 года назад
I had the same issue with my son and we didn’t find that out until the last minute (I was fully dilated in just 3 hours). So I had an emergency c-section. Everything happened so fast that I didn’t have much time for thinking or preparing or struggling, especially when I was in labor pain, which might be a good thing though. And now my cute little pie just turned one and what I remember about that day is well, painful, yes, but no big deal, compared to the hard work of this past year, seriously no big deal!😂😂😂
@tricotmeringue
@tricotmeringue 3 года назад
I understand sooooo much… i wanted so bad to have a naturel birth.. but life decided otherwise, after 15 hours of contraction I finally ends up in C section, because my daugther was starting to have a low heart rate.. but don’t give up, the best is yet to come
@MTBIKEXC
@MTBIKEXC 3 года назад
If you name him Frank, I'll die laughing. Good luck!
@smokinggar714
@smokinggar714 3 года назад
Will you give him the middle name of breach. As for some of my female friends have gone and done acupressure out of the 17 girls it worked 9 times. Hope this helps. In Joy and great luck little one
@HeyImNatalia
@HeyImNatalia 3 года назад
Our pregnancies sound literally exactly the same. Our Bub was Frank breech the whole way through and after doing chiro, Moxibustion and spinning babies - the ECV was a success. I was a first time mum too and it was not painful at ALL. I also had an anterior placenta and the ECV is done under very controlled conditions and I believe there’s a team on hand on the off chance things start to go astray. Maybe it’s worth having a second opinion on the ECV and fluid? Breech births can also be done by experienced Obstetricians and Frank breech is the best position to birth in as well. Maybe request the scheduled c sec to be as far in the future as possible to allow your body the most amount of time to have Bub flip organically? I know exactly how you’re feeling though - I was in the exact same position and mindset in our third trimester. Thinking of you!!
@JackJackProductions
@JackJackProductions 3 года назад
What about Justin, after Justin Trudeau (Canadian Prime Minister)
@Hei_hey
@Hei_hey 3 года назад
Best wish for safe delivery, post birth care. Feeding wellness. Society invested in littleness life inherited tradition, & specific for each, like to angels for baby boy coming into world with all his uniqueness.
@satishmaliksaragthal9786
@satishmaliksaragthal9786 3 года назад
Very good
@FromFijitoHere
@FromFijitoHere 3 года назад
Girl I feel you! ❤ I ended up with an emergency c-section and struggled with so many feelings having not had the experience I had planned nor wanted. It definitely sucks especially when it's something you've envisioned for 9 months or more. It's not stupid at all, your feelings are so very valid ❤❤ I'm sending all of my good vibes and love. As for recovery; take. It. Easy. When they say not to lift anything heavier than baby, that includes the carseat! I found having gauze pads were also helpful for keeping the scar dry at night when trying to sleep. I also had sore/bloody gums! When it comes to names; we also didn't decide for sure until the recovery room after the c-section 🙈
@shelleyclark86
@shelleyclark86 3 года назад
I wish I was able to have a c section! I was scheduled in due to my boy being massive and breached but I went into labour 3 days before my appointment and 4 weeks before his due date ended up getting a 4th degree tear and long ongoing problems he was fine but also needed to stay for observation. I had to undergo full on surgery about 15 minutes after birth as I also started bleeding out due to the way he came out and the severity of the tear… at least if I had had that c section I may have been able to enjoy some bonding time with him after birth but ended up being super drugged up and just messed up from surgery for the first week after his birth. I didn’t even realise I was in labour and turned up at the hospital already just over 8cms dialated I thought it was Braxton hicks and he was out less than 2 hours later. I hope your birth even if it’s not to plan goes well though and that it’s still a beautiful experience for you even though the process won’t be the same as you originally imagined 😊
@jiyashah1678
@jiyashah1678 3 года назад
Names: Dimitri, Jovan Could you do a “What I eat in a day-pregnancy edition” video?
@TSLDame-Crafts
@TSLDame-Crafts 3 года назад
Aawww Poor Nadine. Sorry. I have 4 c-sections. 1st one was not planned. But that lil baby is now 27 and I'm ... Alive. The other 3 c-sections were by appt. and they're all doing good too. In my case, once I had the 1st one, the doc just decided every time that was the way to go for me. I didn't question it really cause I had already had one and knew what was in store. You do recover and your very active, so recovery for you should be even better than mine was. If you really want to know the story of my 1st kiddo, message back. But its wordy and that's why I not going into it. I wanna tell you tho, you'll be ok and life doesn't always go as planned.
@maxplanck9055
@maxplanck9055 3 года назад
Cesarian births are standard in difficult births situations,you will be fine if needed, prepare for an emergency early should baby become awkward. sounds like baby will be an awkward birth it seems to late to change now, much love to you both 👍❤️🇬🇧
@MisplacedBelle
@MisplacedBelle 3 года назад
At the end of the day, the goal is a healthy baby and mom, whichever way you get there. I have had a c-section after 12 hours of labor and wish I would have been able to just schedule it. I have never looked back and regretted not having a vaginal birth. Hang in there. You’re almost there!
@jessbudgetcosmo
@jessbudgetcosmo 3 года назад
Sweetie, that it’s definitely not a safe position, but my older sister was born like that and I was born in a breech position. My second nephew was breech until the last week, my sister talked to him and he changed position. You are strong 💪🏻 and your baby will be worth it ❤️
@kameranpuster
@kameranpuster 3 года назад
I am truly sorry to hear about the hardships right now Nadine. Whatever operation happens I hope for the best safety for you and your baby. Stay strong you guys got this!❤️
@LornaWallace
@LornaWallace 3 года назад
Sending you so much love!
@perlaserrano1791
@perlaserrano1791 3 года назад
I understand what you say about being sad about not having a choice, it really sucks, but hey, C-section is not totally bad... there are many stars who chose it (for example Shakira had two C-sections). It cannot be that bad if people with a lot of money choose it. It has it advantages, too. (I don't know if it is true, but a friend of mine believes babies with C-sections have nicer head. :D) I wish you all the best with giving birth and finding peace with the situation! You will have a lovely little boy! :)
@kutie217
@kutie217 3 года назад
At my 34 week appointment with my Perinatologist my baby was head down. At 36 weeks I found out he was breeched. I thought I had to get a C section. At 37.5 weeks he turned back down. I was induced at 39 weeks and had delivered my baby boy vaginally on 7/15/21. I didn’t think he was going to turn and my OB and Perinatologist had told me it was unlikely he would turn around but he did! Don’t give up!! ❤️
@Jessssssssica
@Jessssssssica 3 года назад
First, I'm so sorry. Your feelings are 100% valid and take time for yourself to work thru that. In the end, it doesn't matter, you'll have a perfect little man and everything will be wonderful. The bad truth: I had an emergency c-section... I was extremely upset, I hated it when they told me. Everything went so fast, I was so drugged I barely remember anything so YES you're correct, a scheduled c-section is so much calmer, peaceful, and you make the experience because you'll be more aware and have input. The healing process is tough, you feel like you NEED to do more than you're capable of. Please, take care of yourself. Accept all help and be slow and peaceful with the little man at home. OH and my son didn't have a name for 3 days! I just couldn't make up my mind. :D You guys will figure out the name. You're going to be an amazing mom. You are clearly strong, determined, resilient, and a kind person. This kid is lucky no matter how he enters the world.
@cristinagarza1068
@cristinagarza1068 3 года назад
I had an unplanned c section. My labor didn’t progress, I couldn’t get past 7cm and baby was “sunny side up” so the back labor was very painful. I was so exhausted and I couldn’t go on with trying to progress to 10cm so I chose to get a C-section. In the moment I felt defeated and like my body couldn’t do the thing it’s “suppose” to do. But, now being 10weeks postpartum I’m very happy I did what I felt needed to be done. The recovery was painful, but I had so much help from my husband and family. I felt very blessed. By the 3rd week I could go up/down stairs very slowly and could take short walks outside. Just remember to take it easy! Don’t be in a rush to get back to “normal” right away, your body truly needs time to heal. The more patience and love you have towards your body, the better! Wishing you all the best and a quick recovery! ❤️
@showwlinn93
@showwlinn93 3 года назад
Hey Nadine! I was in the exact same position as you with my first born. Your sadness about not getting the birth you want is so valid. I was so upset that I couldn’t get that experience. It turned out that his cord was around his neck and he was just stuck. I went to the chiropractor and tried spinning babies, he just couldn’t turn. I prayed and prayed. After we had our last ultrasound and with a c-section date scheduled, our doctor said that we had to have him that same day (I was 37 weeks, and didn’t even have my bags packed!). But, I realized that it was for his health that it had to happen and God gave me peace throughout the whole process. I was excited to meet my son! You got this, God has a plan for you and baby and He is taking care of you! As for recovery.. I had a great recovery! I was able to go home as soon as a day. Get up and walk as soon as you can. Drink lots of water! Take your pain killers as needed, and don’t push yourself. Ask for help! I’m currently about a couple weeks behind you with my second baby boy and this pregnant has been completely different. I do have a c section scheduled just as a precautionary, but I’m trying my everything to have this baby naturally. VBACs are a thing, and I pray you get that labor feeling chance! ❤️❤️
@katieaway4183
@katieaway4183 3 года назад
Hey, I'm so sorry for you and I know how you feel!! My baby was breech too and my placenta was also anterior! It took me some time to get used to the thought of a c-section. But there was no other option … and then my water broke the night before my scheduled c-section….Obviously I still had a c-section but I just wanted to tell you that the birth of my girl was more beautiful than I had thought it would be and I finally made my peace with the fact that I couldn’t deliver her naturally 🤍🤍🤍 you will do amazing, Mama!!! The weeks before her birth I listened to a podcast called c-section strong, which empowers women who have a c-section! Sooo good!!
@Nadzglam
@Nadzglam 3 года назад
Love your channel. I'm Nadine who loves to travel the world and is 34 weeks pregnant to a baby boy living in Canada as well (Québec specificaly) 🙂 the name we picked for baby boy is Edward (Édouard in french) good luck for your birth. Remember, you are not less of a mother and you will give birth to your son even if you have a C-section. I know it's not the experience you wanted but the outcome is far more important than the process to get to it. Be gentle on yourself this is not something you can control. The most important thing is that you and baby are safe. Goodluck and have a great first encounter with your son ❤
@kristenklimpsch7671
@kristenklimpsch7671 3 года назад
Hey there, My first baby was exactly the same. Boy, Frank breech from 28 weeks and elective c section. I was so disappointed as I felt the same as you. The recovery was pretty straightforward - not as bad as I thought it would be. Just make sure after he is born they check his hips well. My boy had mild CHD and needed a harness for 6 weeks as it was hard for his hips to develop normally stuck in Frank breech for so many weeks. Hopefully all goes well for you. My boy is now 17! The days are long but the years are short! Good luck😊
@nicoleroberts7272
@nicoleroberts7272 3 года назад
I’m so sorry your not having the birth experience you desired. My first was an emergency C section. He’s now 32 years old. My daughter was a scheduled C section and she is now 30. My healing process was very good and, I feel easy. I had no problems holding and loving on both of them. A bonus for C sections - their heads are beautifully shaped 😊.
@stephiegrennell8440
@stephiegrennell8440 3 года назад
I’m sorry that you are disappointed with the possibility of of getting a C-Section. While I don’t have experience with having a c-section because I ended up giving birth to my daughter vaginally, I did experience the pain and disappointment of physically not being able to breastfeed her. It was a lot of hard decisions, grieving the dream, and feeling like I missed out. But at the end of the day, my daughter was fed and now she’s a brilliant little 2 year old. I will pray that he flips for you, because I understand those feelings. Just keep doing what your doing. And if you end up with a c-section, it just means you get to meet your little man sooner which is also exciting! But all the feelings your feeling is very normal. :/ Hang in there. 💜
@Tricia622
@Tricia622 3 года назад
It might sound a little weird but if you're stuck for names, try asking baby. Pick a couple, ask him which he likes and see if any pop up in weird places or dreams. My daughter told my Mom and I her name. One day the exact same name with the exact same spelling popped into our heads at the same time. She told us! Lol. Now when she says she hates her name we get to say she picked it! .... As for birth, both my babies were natural with a midwife and it was amazing but there's no reason a c-section can't be just as amazing. Maybe it could be fun and Dad could wear a birthday hat into the room or something. In the end, having baby in your arms is far more important than how he got there.
@meganpeoro3454
@meganpeoro3454 3 года назад
I’m late to seeing this but I know quite a few women who had their breech baby flip after chiropractic maneuvers. Please ask your obgyn obviously. I’m not a medical professional but it might be worth a shot!
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