Guys we all have things that we wished we could’ve done differently, but the only thing we could control is the moment Be the change that you want to see Do what you have to do to have a better future
@@ihatehearts That‘s true but I think that as soon as the pain from being stagnant is greater than the feared pain of change, most people decide to move forward.
@@eggyolk2708 Ihr seid alles Weicheier die keinen Biss haben und redet euch diesen ganzen Quatsch ein von wegen "du kannst ALLES schaffen wenn du es nur genug willst". Das ist einfach nur BULLSHIT. Versagen ist wenn man die ganze Zeit versucht nach dem "Sinn des Lebens" zu suchen anstatt sich um wirklich wichtige Dinge zu kümmern wie Familie, Freunde oder eben die tägliche Arbeit die einen manchmal vielleicht schon nervt aber eben das ermöglicht was einem im Leben sonst noch so gefällt. ARBEIT ALLEINE IST NICHT ALLES IM LEBEN! Holt euch eure Motivation aus ANDEREN Dingen anstatt ständig den Sinn nur in der täglichen Arbeit zu suchen. Arbeit ist IMMER anstrengend ganz egal was für eine Arbeit man macht.
@@ihatehearts it’s never easy getting out of comfort zone but worth to see where it might take you and maybe a lot easier than living in the comfortable yet weirdly uncomfortable stagnancy if you take a leap of faith.
I have never before had any relations with yo momma and I want to get a 1 mil $. By following your quote - I'm going to do your mom to get 1 million. Thanks for a useful advice.
I wish it was that easy. I'm in a 5yr dead end relationship nowhere. I want to see what else is out there but I'm 44 and scared of the risk. I don't know what to do anymore.
That's the hardest thing to realize an follow through on: If you're uncomfortable, if you're in a bad place, if you're suffering, DO SOMETHING. Because the outcomes are 1. You will continue suffering 2. You will continue suffering but your actions can make things better. Not "later", not "when I have time off", not "when the weather is warmer", not "when my mental health is better". Now. Now and now and now.
“A King may move a man, a father may claim a son, but remember that even when those who move you be Kings, or men of power, your soul is in your keeping alone. When you stand before God, you cannot say, "But I was told by others to do thus." Or that, "Virtue was not convenient at the time." This will not suffice. Remember that.”
This video came at the perfect time in my life. I’m on the edge of either failing or passing one of the hardest classes I’ve ever taken. It all comes down to me.
Im with ya. Freshmen college and i’m constantly failing my quizzes from bio and chem. Tried using studying techniques but never worked out, but im still finding my way out of the mess
I needed this video. Not going through my best moments right now, but just hustling to what is coming to my family and I. But it's hard, it's damn hard and lonely. I wish anyone that reads this, the best in their lifes. Edit: I don't remember exactly when I wrote this, and hadn't checked back in quite some time. Thank you to everyone that took their time to reply, wish you everyone the very best 🙌🏼 Btw, I am much, much better now. Life is good
“Never put off until tmrw of what can be done today”- Sensei Wu Edit: Im a college kid now and holy moly I did not expect this comment to blow up lmfao
1:53 this part with Theo really changed my outlook. I'm not here for motivation or to try "hustling" or anything just yet. I just want to live my life and be happy. Knowing that I'll never reach that perfect scenario when I feel like I can finally just "do something" gives me freedom to do it now regardless. I need to live in the present moment, not the future because the future doesn't exist.
@@tobysimmonds487fr. the present creates your future. i struggle with crippling social anxiety and all i think about is the fuckin future. that is going to change.
1:02 this hit hard. During the last days of my grandpa, I used to see him sit in his favorite chair in the backyard, talking about how he regrets most of his past when he had it all and thought he had none. He'd talk abt how all that energy, good health, long life ahead, new experiences he let down in the past now that he was weak, nothing to look forward to and on his last days. He's worked for the military and even raised a farm to meet the needs but through it all he believes he forgot to live because he was too busy chasing the mundane life of earning few wages to get a warm dinner at night. That's all he chased all his life, and he spent his last days thinking abt it. He also had a diary, where he wrote "I wish I could live the wrong way a bit so that I was less focused on what was right"
I don't know if you are religious or not but I'm sure your grandpa would be proud and happy if you don't make the same mistakes are him. He's gone now but living your life, in a way can make his life seem not "wasted" especially if you learned some lessons from him.
For those who suffer from mental illness and need some encouragement, I eventually came to a place with my own bipolar disorder where I now live with it in such a way that I can watch videos like these and no longer feel like I am unable to achieve anything or that my mind will always prevent me from improving my life. It's a battle. It's taken years. I gave up a couple times but I got back up and now I have a life that I'm happy with, still improving because I have someone special and I just want to give them everything I can. They've done so much for me by their involvement in my life and that's why I get back up no matter how hard I've been knocked down. I don't deny the pain of life hurts sometimes to an unbearable degree. That's why I think it is okay for us to fail. If you can say you've never been knocked down by life, then you must not really be living.
Right now, I suffer under the pain of discipline. I wake up at 9 am, then I cycle to my my university and I am there at 10 am. I study from 10 am untill 8 pm everyday. Then I workout everyday other day form 8:30 pm untill 10 pm. Then I go to bed. This has been my schedule for the past weeks, and It will continue to be like this. I have almost no free time, but I must suffer right now, so that my future self with be happy about my hard work.
Do you think you’re suffering, is this a joke? I’m 20. I work from 14 to 23 pm everyday, gotta live my home to work at 13pm. My whole day is working, but if I don’t work, I won’t be able to pay my bills. Some people just have it all and starts to complain about it. I study from 6am to 10, it’s the time I have, and it’s exhausting.
@@PostalDude97 At times, one must suffer for the greater good. Because if you don’t suffer for the short time, then you will suffer for a long time, maybe forever. So right now, I suffer, so that I can enjoy my life later without being annoyed that I didn’t try harder when I could have. I have done it before, this time is no different
High neuroticism, extraversion and conscientiousness does wonders to the mental state of these people. These perfectionistic types always pushing their worldview and how things should be to other men, it gets tiring after a while, prioritizing external achievement as a way to live life instead of F-Ing living their OWN damn lives without caring about influencing impressionable randoids on the internet. Insanity. As it is, can also be always changing and never changing, the incessant need of movement, to always muh self improve and expecting that it does something in the grand scheme of things, yeah... insane, indeed.
I used walk into my local Walmart a few times a week, always seeing the same old man working as one of those greeters at the entrance. He always had a long, emotionless face on, and one day I went up to him and started talking to him. He didn’t say much, but he told me that regret is the worst feeling anyone can experience. He told me that it only took a few bad decisions and procrastination for him to end up working a miserable job instead of leading a meaningful life with his family elsewhere. Haven’t seen him in ages, but the few words he spoke to me always stuck. Point is that you should take advantage of your youth and vitality while you can so that you can enjoy life comfortably in the future, having felt satisfied with your life decisions. Don’t be 80 years old one day working as a Walmart greeter, weighed down with the thoughts of what could have been made of your life.
This is what i dont understand. How can some boomers be failing. When they had low price housing. Better paying jobs/dollar was worth more. Better quality food and materials. Like how bad did you have to mess up to fumble in the best times of our economy. 🙄
@@alejandroc7357 Same way many in our generation are messing up: refusing to do the hard work now and expecting everything to be handed to them on a plate. And then when they end up with nothing, when it’s too late for them to take advantage of their opportunities and resources, they refuse to acknowledge their mistakes, they co time to ignore the advice and wisdom of smart successful people, and rather resort to blaming those same successful people for their lot in life.
For the last week and some change, the first thing I do when I wake up I watch/listen to this video. And throughout the day if I start thinking negative or procrastinating or becoming fearful, I listen to this video and instantly hustle and grind again. It’s okay to be scared. The thing that sets me apart from the next person is who allows that fear to control them. I won’t and you shouldn’t either. 💯
You absolutely right about this, I slightly started to improve my life in baby steps, making goals, walking more, trying to get me not lazy and unmotivated anymore. And I have to say this it’s really hard, crying, stressing about the fear of unknown, scared of what Might happen idk why but I’m overcoming this day after day
I know things can get tough, but remember to focus on being just a bit better than you were yesterday. It’s a you vs you game, not you vs everybody you see on social media. Comparison is the thief of joy. You all got this, I’m rooting for you! ❤
i seriously took a piece of paper and noted down all the useful quotes that impacted me the most of this video and pinned it on my wall. i will make changes now because my life is valuable for me and i dont want to waste more time on it on wasting my potential and not becoming the best version of myself and appreciate the gift of existance by living it stoically like a man with purpose and focus and discipline and ambition. from this day on, i will set the rails for success! i wish you best in life to anyone who might reads this but this is more a self promising comment.
hii i hope your doing great and i absolutely love ur mindset you can do this just be consistent and always do it remember when u don’t feel well take rest but don’t stop taking actions
I cried a lot during this because I realised that I need to change something in my life. I’m depressed and lonely af since a very long time i need to free myself from the hole I’m in.
The time has come in my life when I begin to rethink a lot. There are so many simple and accurate lines in this short video. I saw a person's comment that he left as a reminder for himself to talk about the changes. I want to do the same. It could have been just a sudden wave of motivation, but I promise myself that I won't give up and be so afraid of the future. I've always wanted to look at the detailed history of a person who was able to overcome his fears, something like a diary. That's why I want to do something similar myself. good luck to everyone, you will succeed! I'll be back in a week. 17.11.2023
Hey! Man I’m in the same spot. It’s going to be really hard, especially for these first few days as I break out of my addictions and start to become the person I want to be. But fuck, life isn’t going to get the best of me. It’s either this or a lifetime of regret and mediocrity. I’ll be back in a week. 11/22/23
Weird how the comment was 6 days ago, the other comment who commented was 4 days ago while the other one was 2 days ago and now the last one is 2 hours ago.
I’m only 20, however, I’ve lived a wild life since birth and I’ve got a ton of stories to tell. I’ve got a lot of trauma, and still go through a lot of bs today, but I’ve always used drawing/painting/crafts, skateboarding, performance art, and most importantly written music, or poems as my therapy. I plan on releasing my own writings and art into a collection of punk scene-ish art with my little brother all over the Internet no matter if I blow up or not, I will never give up.
The first thing that we need to change is our Mind. Our thoughts are the starting point for basically everything we do. What we think and do is essentially who we are.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
@ToniMonteroroman Honestly it does sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, is it normal with BPD to be violent, maybe, even so, you should take actions to prevent anything like that happening. What exactly maybe telling someone else close to you and get him the help he needs.
Broo keep up with that kind of motivation because its just fuel me up📈 … every time i take gym i am listing to these videos and its better then music for me🥳
Advice : Fill a whole playlist with this type of vids. Listen to it for how long you feel comfortable or need to at the following times : - As soon as you wake up, while making coffee or breakfast, whatever; - Before gym/training/physical activity; - After lunch; - Before bed. Come back here after a month and be amazed at what you can accomplish when you keep your vision and goal at the forefront of your thoughts throughout the day, day after day.
SURAH AR-RA’D AYAT 11 (13:11 QURAN) ﴿لَهُ مُعَقِّبَاتٌ مِّن بَيْنِ يَدَيْهِ وَمِنْ خَلْفِهِ يَحْفَظُونَهُ مِنْ أَمْرِ اللَّهِ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمْ ۗ وَإِذَا أَرَادَ اللَّهُ بِقَوْمٍ سُوءًا فَلَا مَرَدَّ لَهُ ۚ وَمَا لَهُم مِّن دُونِهِ مِن وَالٍ﴾ For each one there are successive angels before and behind, protecting them by Allah’s command. Indeed, Allah would never change a people’s state ˹of favour˺ until they change their own state ˹of faith˺. And if it is Allah’s Will to torment a people, it can never be averted, nor can they find a protector other than Him. @@hamidhashemi4631
“A King may move a man, a father may claim a son, but remember that even when those who move you be Kings, or men of power, your soul is in your keeping alone. When you stand before God, you cannot say, "But I was told by others to do thus." Or that, "Virtue was not convenient at the time." This will not suffice. Remember that.”
I needed this I was just told I have a mild brain injury and today the girl I loved told me she was stringing me along but this is what I needed to hear instead of crying and feeling depressed this is motivation for me.
stay strong my brother! Were in this wild ride called "life" together. One of us get hit harder, some milder. In the end, what determines us and our future is: will we stand back up or will we stay on the ground? You my friend, you're pushing. I hope that this video gives you the feeling of motivation and determination. Brighter days will come. I wish you the best for your injury!
This video I always come back to to give me the motivation everyday thank you it’s still a wild ride rn but I will beat this and thank you for your words of encouragement I appreciate it!
"Fear is never reaching your potential." This cuts deep. I have to lock in. I have to be better. I don't want to be decent. I don't want to be good. I want to be great.
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed forever. I'm a single mother living in Vancouver Canada, bought my first house in October and hoping to retire soon if things keep going smoothly for me.
This video really came to me at the right time. I just got back into the workforce after a year of not working. It’s commercial cleaning so things are very busy and hard. I have to push myself to get things done and sometimes my lack of confidence gets the best of me that I want to give up. Anxiety ruins me everyday but if I give up now then nothing changes and I desperately need to change.
*I didn't become financially independent until I was in my late 40's, and I'm still in my 40's. In addition to having purchased my second home and earning money on a monthly basis through passive income, I've also achieved three out of five goals. I just hope this inspires someone to realize that it doesn't matter if you don't have any of these things yet, you can start today no matter your age. Change your future by investing! I made a rather big decision by investing in the financial market.*
Sure, investing is essential for maintaining your financial stability, but making any kind of legitimate investment without the correct advice of a professional can result in a significant loss as well.
Investing in many sources of income that are independent on government paychecks is the prudent thing that everyone should be thinking about right now, especially given the global economic crisis. Stocks, forex, and digital currencies are still good investments at this time.
It's really not easy trading this market. I read a lot of books, tried to study, watch some tutorial videos, did a little demo before funding my account and I still lost a lot. The financial market could be very tricky
Beginner traders sometimes make the error of trading on their own without the right guidance or knowledge, and they frequently come to regret it. You need a mentor and an expert to help you trade as a newbie.
I absolutely love this video. Even tho I feel too far gone. Even tho I lost every ounce of hope in my body. I still like this video. This video will help a lot of people. Thank you for putting it out there. Others need to hear this before it’s too late.
The end of the video resonated hard with me because I feel the same, very nearly. I don't know you, I don't know what you've done, and you don't know me or what I've done. But maybe there is hope for you yet. Only you can change yourself, only you can be the better version of yourself that you want, even if it doesn't feel good. Life goes on, and we change, for better or for worse is up to us after a certain point. Good luck, don't give up, be strong
It's a powerful reminder that growth and transformation require action. Sometimes, that means taking massive action - stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing change. Your words inspire me to not just dream but to actively pursue the changes I seek.
The pain of regret is so much greater than the pain from discipline. The pain of regret comes later where as the pain of discipline is in the beginning.
There’s always gonna be somebody doing things the easy way and it’s your choice to become that person once you realize nobody’s asking to prove your worthiness, you just have to accept it
You might currently feel more or less comfortably numb. You might "wake up" from that numbness from time to time and are angry with yourself. Stay calm, don't work yourself up about it. Instead go to work on your goals. Simply, quietly, determined, freed for the moment from your emotional conditioning.
I feel like I can do something amazing. Something inside of me claws at my conscience. I have no idea where to start or what i should do. But I know I can be great.
ive been depressed for probably the last 7 or so months. i weigh 248 pounds and am 5'8 maybe 5'9. at my heaviest i was 257. ive been intermittent fasting for a week maybe a week and a half and ive lost 4 pounds. i am going to lose the weight because i want to be able to love this girl and i want to be able to do anything and not be held back because im obese.
If only life was so easy. Its all so confusing. Work hard but dont become bitter. Be yourself but be the best you, the strong you, the fighter. Be happy with the little we have but strive for more. Stay uncomfortable and on the edge but never forget lifes beauty Im not happy. I dont think i can be. Just pretend to be happy and you might forget for a time. Just dont think and move so the thoughts dont catch up. And when your down remember whats real to you. Sounds stupid but it might just hit the button in your head thatll let you be happy. Sorry for the monologue. We should just all talk more and worry less.
It's been about 2 weeks since the original post Just wanted to say to whoever reads this - If you're living in fear of what could go right or what could go wrong, then you aren't living at all. As childish as it seems to just do whatever seems right to you, as long as you think it right and you aren't hurting anyone, then you probably should. The anxieties and fear creep in, but the second you become a slave to them its over. Fear is like gravity pulling us down, just let go and you've got all the time in between now and the floor to live and it'll be ever sweeter knowing it's Limited. So why not use it while you've got it Live free, die regretless and do your best
Didn't think I'd see a corecore video on RU-vid but I'm here for it. Needed this rn, feel stuck i used to actually live and go out skating life doesn't have to be complicated it never used to be the best times in my life is when it was simple.
Its not your motivation, dont depend on vids like this for motivation. You motivate you and no one else. These vids are advice for you to mould you. remember that. remember that you make your discipline.
"Nothing changes if nothing changes". I have been saying this to myself since yesterday morning and have managed to avoid doing half of the stupid things I do for NO reason. So can you. Make the change for a better tomorrow.
Im 15 months clean from addiction but I still feel like I'm trapped in mediocrity, I'm still a lazy pessimistic fiend, I just dont drink or do drugs any more
"I just don't drink or do drugs anymore"; I hope you realize how powerful that milestone is, friend. I don't mean it to stop you from keeping on, but rather for you to look at yourself and notice how far you've come. I can understand your pain because I've been changing, too; the fact that you're not exactly where you hoped to be doesn't mean that you should chastise you in spite of your progress. You're getting better day by day, and that's amazing. Be proud of that.
keep this on repeat even if you don't take action, maybe one day it will speak to me every day. I feel the energy now, sometimes it goes away. Atleast we get to experience this life in some way or form.
I am wishing all of you the absolute best of luck and blessing in the world! I am going to become successful and achieve all of the my dreams. I promise to myself. I promise to work smart and hard. I leave this comment as a mark here on this day (15/11/2023 9:22 am) as the day I started and never looked back or quit. One day or soon I will come back to this comment to edit it and give you guys an update on my life on how everything went. Again I am wishing all the best of everything to every single one of you! See you guys soon! ♥
Whatever happens, keep morality and core values in the back of your mind and stay rational. No one can put you down for that and is something you can always hold above others who are riddled with emotions that arent born from fee will and that render a future where you are happy impossible. It takes discipline. It's not easy. And sometimes it takes imagining your worst enemy judging the actions you've taken that aren't of your free will
@wars6nheaven honestly it's specific to you. It doesn't have to be your worst enemy. But I'd like to think it's not myself. At least not the present me. Just choose a behaviour you are dissatisfied with and choose someone who would judge you for that. Maybe your worst enemy. Maybe your friend who thinks well of you. Or your competition. Trying to make a positive change- maybe the addition of beneficial behaviour or reducing frequency of negative behaviour.. its individual yjnow. Circumstantial. I like to remain impartial for the most part in my emotions but if you’re making the same mistakes continually ie like an addiction that you know isn't beneficial and repeated partially due to a will beyond your control, then imagining your worst enemy judging me, belittling me and generalising where I'm going in life, success and future relationships based on behaviour i consider to be a sign of an undisciplined mind does it for me. As I said it's not a long term fix. It's like cope really. As long as its beneficial tho to health, to success and happiness, that's all that matters.
