Father Dave I truly love your porch talks and this one is so very needed I pray it change s some lives let people wake up and live the life God intended them to God bless you Father for your knowledge and love
Thank you & God bless you, Fr Dave! When my son, who didn’t have a good father model, told me when he was about 14 yrs old that he thinks he’s attracted more to men than women, I told him simply that he’s still growing up, his body still in progress with yet ever-changing hormones, to wait & pray to God, Who does not make mistakes. I prayed, trusted in God’s will, encouraged him to date girls & also had male friends. He went to Medical School, married & now has 2 children, praise God 😊🙏🏽❣️ Happiness is just a state of mind, which can be manipulated by what one sees, reads, hears; fed by peers & the media. True happiness can only come from knowing God’s love ❣️
I really appreciate that you spoke on the controversial topic that's happening in this world now. I watch a lot of RU-vidrs who think conservatively and are Christians, but it means so much more coming from you! I hope you get a chance to make other videos on these topics in the future. We are hated right now and persecuted. Your guidance affects our thoughts and strengthens our faith. THANK YOU!
Father Dave, I will never forget when I had a visit from another state for a week. One night after supper, I see the dad on the sofa, on his phone internet. Mom is sitting beside him, on her phone internet. 2 kids, on the sofa, each on their tablets. All lined up on my sectional, each in their own world. That was an eye opener for me. And yet, here I am on you tube, while spouse is watching a movie on tv. It’s going to take something big, really big to bring us out of this cycle. Praying….
You are so right, I can go to my girlfriend's house and I can do the same thing, on my laptop or phone searching RU-vid, but I just found Fr. Dave. So it might not be bad depending on what they are searching for, it may be for self help.
Thank you for this Father Dave! You are definitely chosen by God to spread his good news and gospel to the world! Thank you for all you do especially for those who can’t get out to go to church or have difficulties!!!
I just love these catch ups Fr Dave, thank you. This topic is a tough one, it is very hard to filter out all these influences we are bombarded with. It must be difficult for those growing up now. I sometimes feel if it wasn't for my faith I would be very overwhelmed by it all. We must remember that raising our kids is a community effort & for Catholics that's raising our children with strong Christian values with the help of our community, the Church. Also teaching our children the value of reading & understanding the Bible as our reference guide to life, something I always found invaluable. This week will devote a Rosary to all those kids who feel in turmoil over the issue of their gender & sexual preference. I will pray that the Holy Spirit will guide them to life God has chosen just for them. Once again, I really enjoyed your post. Have a great week Fr Dave, pats for beautiful Cragly🙏❤️
I’m a mother of three teenagers and I admit that I put off the media/electronics devices for a long time, but noticed drastic changes especially in my youngest when they started using them. Less interest in toys, drawing and legos once they have the fancy light up “toys” like video games and now cell phones. It can be a battle to monitor screen time and I often ask myself WHY and WHEN did I allow this?! It’s a pain, and more seriously-you hit the nail on the head of it can be a danger to their psychological development, and even affect sleep cycles which are as we know important for physical and mental growth. My kids are pretty good kids, I’m pretty lucky, but that being said when I notice mood swings, the first thing I think of is how much screen time has this kid had today? And not just that but WHAT are they looking at? Now I get to be a detective and I pay for this?? Craziness that I have done to myself. Anyway, thank you for saying something, I think you are SPOT ON!!! And I absolutely agree with the analogy of the emperors new clothes-that is EXACTLY how it feels with todays society.
Parenting nowadays is fighting battles our ancestors never had, so no examples that way, meanwhile it's also a battle against other parents, lost themselves and a church gone woke with no priests left, it's like living in the desert
How did I miss this video? Well done. I practiced medicine before my injuries. Spot on, Fr. Dave. Great advice for grandparents, parents, siblings and loved ones. Healthcare providers. Truth in love.
You really hit the ball out of the park with this one Fr. Dave! THANK You so much. Jack K. And thank you for all the wonderful masses that you post for us who can not get to the church on Sundays. 33:30 33:30
We love you we are here and we hang on your ever word. You are so correct and so wise! You make us work harder to try to achieve and reach the light that our Father all wants us to be and that's the greatest gift ever we could receive Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!
Thank you father Dave you are so right it’s all the media it confuses the kids completely. This is an amazing episode. God bless you father I worry about my grand children they’re still small, but I pray that their parents do a good job raising them and yes, my daughter doesn’t let them watch TV or those electricals Mickey Mouse equipment. I’m not from this generation.God Bless
Thank you for this. Our children are exposed to so many things /social media that they find intriguing and exciting. Most parents don’t understand how these influences mold their young minds. May God continue to Bless you , Father Dave.
I was in Turkey about 10 years ago and while kneeling in the Blessed Mother Sanctuary, I received a message in my left ear, "Pray for the Children. "I was totally surprised and wondered what it meant! Now I know! Who was that? I was the only one in the Sanctuary. I prayed for many years! Told the priest at my church. I never hear voices! I have cloudy pictures to prove someone was there!
Great video Father! My family and I have watched your mass videos for about a year or so since we don’t live near English speaking priests. We’d like to say how much we love your homilies, quirky jokes, and your lack of fear in speaking truth. We need more outspoken priests like you! Prayers and God Bless
Thanks Father Dave to talk about this real topic. Difficult topic, however you were very clear about it based in God’s teachings You are correct, the human being is the best God’s creation but the media puts darkness in kids minds. Thanks again Father Dave and God bless you for your wise messages and your mission🙏
Thank you so much. I am a grandparent and this message was so helpful to me as a grandparent of 14. Love all your messages and homilies. So insightful and very helpful.
I am a single parent raising 2 daughters, and the one in MS goes to a public school and they exposed to so many inappropriate things. Not only sexual content with graphic pictures, but also the role lgbt-"poop". She doesn't do anything physical and in quite protective of both of them, I try not to raise them "of this world." I don't let her date (maybe when she's 25, lol), but they took her innocence away😢. I was/am so angry that I am taking her out of the public school and sending her to a small catholic school next year! I will be working 3 jobs, and honestly don't know how I will pay for it, but I know I'm doing the right thing, and the rest, I let God take over, and He will provide!
I worked at a catholic school for 8 years. Hopefully the one you pick will be good. I quit and took my son out and put him in Regina Caeli Academy. Which is so much cheaper than a catholic school. It’s more catholic than any catholic school I know. They are many options. Please your daughters need you more.
What we’ve been saying to our adult kids is….Do you guys have a plan? What are you going to say to your kids about this subject when they see and hear about it in school and the world? Our grandkids are 5 months through 12 years old right now, and we are trying to figure out what and how much to say. In 60 years I have never come up against anything like this. I never stop praying about it, because it is everywhere and in everything, and seems to be especially aimed at young kids. Thanks for your words here Father Dave. I am going to watch again, and then pass this video on to my family.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this Father Dave. Your observations on the media, culture, and our young people's exposure to it (and it's influence) is spot on. There was a stunning recent study/poll that claimed that nearly 30% of Gen Z participants identify as Gay or Trans. I found this to not only be stunning, but also likely not equating to the percentage actually living that lifestyle amongst them (a far lower percentage). Add in the reports of children as young as 4 and 5 years old (some parents claim even younger) declaring themselves trans, even though any real form of sexuality is still years off. So why do so many claim to be? I believe it is, in part, to what you have stated here. The media, our schools, and our culture, now "celebrate" and put on a pedestal, the LGBTQ+ community in such a way, that I believe that children, who naturally yearn to be special, lauded, and praised (basic human condition), see that proclaiming themselves part of this group brings immediate satisfaction of this desire. Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, is the lack of God in these aforementioned places (media, school, govt, culture) where He once had been so prevalent. Where there exists a moral vacuum, it will inevitably be filled by immorality. The glaring change in numbers in just the last couple of generations (I was born in the 60s) is obvious and startling, and what has changed? Lack of God, and your well stated point, exposure to Media. Sadly, just discussing these things is difficult these days and ANY dissenting thought leads to shaming and judgement, even though as Christians we discuss in love and not condemnation, but it's so refreshing to be able to discuss this here, respectfully, lovingly, and honestly. So much has changed in the last decades, and so quickly, but thankfully on thing hasn't (and never will) .....and that's God. Gob bless you father Dave, much love.
Thank you Fr Dave for another informative and enlightening video. There are so many aspects in life where we need the church’s help. You convey the messages and we can then implement them into our lives.
That was a wonderful sharing, Fr. Dave! I shared this video to many teenagers I know. I know it would help them a lot with the many issues and questions they are dealing with right now.
I had a friend who thought when he was in his 20's that he wanted to be a girl. By the time he was in his 40s he was comfortable in his own skin and happy being a guy!
Hahaha I went to a John Mellencamp concert last night. The crowd all stood up and sang Jack and Diane. Great performance, for a man who will be 71 yrs old this year. I think that social media is not just addictive to children, adults as well. Keeps us from others. Pretty bad when my 2 year old granddaughter knows how to find baby shark on her own. My kids played with pots and pans and wooden spoons. Making music
Thank You Father Dave! That was a lot to unpack and you did it in such a relatable way. It is hard to have these conversations, especially when many people want to be confrontational. I love what you said about being so much more than one thing. It is sad that some are reduced to seeing themselves only through their sexuality. I will continue to pray and seek understanding. Thank you for being a priest that teaches.
I had to kind of laugh at the Jack and Diane reference when talking about the dangers of social media. That was a very popular music video that got frequent play on MTV. MTV was the first real foray into a new kind of social media influence and it's easy to forget how much impact it had on darkening the lamp of the soul.
@@FatherDave I’m carrying my cross!! I’ve had mostly great days. The chemo was really rough this week. Means everything to hear from you. You are an inspiration to me. I hope you are enjoying the beautiful smells and sounds of Summer up there!! Hope Cragly is enjoying the warm water!! Mostly I hope you are well…so grateful for you!!!
Thank you. I have indeed been concerned that my grandchildren are going to become convinced that they are a mistake in their bodies and jump onto that bandwagon. So far, they are happy as they are. I pray for them daily. Again, thank you for your message.
Fr. Dave, thank you for speaking the truth that so many are afraid to address. I was sent this video by my sister who is now one of your new parishioners. She is elated to have such a great pastor. BTW I put a cage with tulle over my blueberries, clipped with clothes pins. The robins used to get mine in the past. May the Lord Jesus keep you strong against the world, the flesh and the devil. God bless!
Hi Fr Dave thank you for your sharing and explaining - we need to believe that we are God’s Lamp and our eyes need to see and follow God’s light. Fr Dave you are our shining light and for giving us direction. God Bless you always 🙏🏻😇🕯
I truly appreciate your viewpoint on this subject. It truly is a tough subject. I think it is important to not condemn those who are different. Thank you.
Thanks Father Dave ! I know hallo is coming out with a movie about peer pressure too! This was helpful! We all need prayer! Glad you mention how Jesus would difficult situations ! Instead of judgement , Jesus would be forgiving and empathic as U R too! Trying to be CHRIST like! I tell others who point out my wrg doings ( from past) that when “U point a finger at me there are three fingers point back at U”!! I am sure U can give us scripture that is similar! Maybe it is the one “ What is in the closet , will no longer be hidden!
Isaiah planted in a drought . he had the best harvest ever. Because he did what God wanted not people ... 100 fold blessed harvest. I see you are extremely smart father Dave . your so weighed down by people zapping your strength. Especially me. I'm sorry brother........ When i said Brotherrrrrrrrr it wasn't in disrespect . to you ... I forgot about your followers... I'll keep it in mind . Thanks father Dave. I'm a hermit . living carrying my ✝ in my lil way. God give father Dave strength especially his family . Not in my will but Jesus will be done... Because if we ask it will be given. Even 100 fold ... 🙏 🌹 ✝ 🌹 🙏
I plan to become a hermit when I retire at 75...so...not for a while. Stay close to Christ and intercede for the world. Also, make sure to read daily the desert fathers
@@FatherDave God bless you Sir... I became a hermit because of all the corruption in politics in our church with the mass media with the people.. It seems like everything is wrong i don't fit here. However i was brought to you a sign from God. A light in the darkness. I meditate on your daily remainders especially because they are so in tune with my life's problems and how to navigate thru them... So I've decided to become more like my dogs... They love unconditionally... They only love ... Never try to correct anyone . never show others failures... Even when you had a bad day And you treat them unruly they only live you back... It makes you think maybe that's why God gave dog's to shepherd's to protect the sheep and protect the shepherd... So i think I'm going to try and not judge only love. Just like my dogs... Because now i can keep a better prospective on what to do. Because your the answer and the answer was always right in front of my face all along. Now to take one minute at a time. Like my dogs 🐕... Like Jesus 🙏 🌹 ✝ 🌹 🙏 like father Dave 🙏 🌹 ✝ 🌹 🙏
Wow. What a homily, well, not a homily, but geesh, straightforward subject. I know a few transgenders, who are Christians and they are angry all the time. Angry. It's sad. But it was their choice. I believe we should be proud of who we are. I didn't like hearing what you said about there are some people who can't be married because of others. My other cheated on me several times, yet I forgave him and since our divorce, even pray for his soul everyday, I agree that children are exposed to way to much and the basic activities like kick ball in the street, bowling, jump rope, hula hoops, etc, etc , should be involved in children's playtime and keep them away from electronics. Thank you for this. A song I listen to a lot is Jupiter by Train, change the words a bit, it explains why people sometimes run to find their universe and come back only to be lonely.
I’m Canadian and my child is 18.5. You are so right in everything you said. I lost my only child to transgenderism. I didn’t and don’t believe that God makes mistakes. We are only starting to see the peripheral damage to the kids claiming trans. Miriam Grossman was the first time I heard anyone stand up for the family. I love my child but she has chosen her father and omitted me from her life. In an argument at a children’s hospital and in front of the dr who agreed in demeanour (nodding head) when my ex said “why can’t you just play along until she hits university, gets some stick and decides she likes it”. Her teachers in a Catholic school system (that my great great grand-father began in 1883) all took to her like a lil broken bird and her psychiatrist said I was the problem. Absolutely I’m a problem. Problem is all I ever wanted in life was a family. The world I know tied my hands as a parent. What do you do when so many around you are self destructing. It overwhelms me often and I’m so grateful for the faith that I find so easy to understand in a world that darkly and often leaves me so cold. More videos like this need to be made. Who is looking out for the family while the woke folks look after the misled.
My heart goes out to you. I see so much, as you do about what is happening in one's family or in families 👪 you know. I'm in transportation and have been dealing with children for many years. Our public schools don't have God, or Jesus Christ or the Holy Spirit in them. And that is where our children are being taught about LGBT and transgender. Don't ever give up on your daughter and your family. May God's mercy be with you, through your trials. Peace and blessings 🙌
@@joegaylord87Key word being who “she” is. Her daughter is and will always be the female God created regardless of how she plays dress-up. True Love is 1st caring for the persons soul above everything and 2nd telling the truth as Christ is truth.
@@G-MIP but, if she identifies as a different gender, who created that identity? If that's an inborn trait (and most research says it is) then didn't that come from God, too? And the truth as Christ focuses pretty exclusively on love for those who society has rejected, and doesn't seem to include anything about trans identity...
@@joegaylord87You do not sound like you watched the video- especially as to the Brown peer reviewed study. All persons have dignity- but not all behaviors do. Regardless of how someone came to be LGBTQ, the attractions and temptations are not sins in themselves- but acting on them are. A person may have a predisposition, or attraction/lust to adultery- but acting on this is sinful. Potentially Mortally sinful to be exact. Only intimate relationships between one man (biological) and one woman (biological) in a sacramental marriage are accepted by God. Anything else is intrinsically disordered and evil. Yes- God loves everyone but a person who chooses to live outside the Will of God also risks living apart from God for all eternity. That is what he’ll is- freely choosing to live without God for all eternity by choosing your will over His Will. Love is shepherding all people to Heaven… rather than reinforcing their disordered lustful fleshy desires, including taking on the idea you are of the opposite gender when your biology says differently. This is at minimum mental illness- not truth. Peace.
Thank you so much, Father Dave. I am 71 years old. And I had no clue such a thing as homosexuality existed until I was a college freshman in 1969 and happened to see an on-campus movie which may have been called "The Boys in the Band." I can thank God that our 22-year-old grandson hasn't fallen for today's rhetoric.
A week has gone by and the opportunity to listen to the rest of your talk is here. POWERFUL !!! THANK YOU !!! I've received insights that I knew, however, I wasn't convinced.... I think I can begin to Pray For Specific Needs now @ God Bless you 🙏🙏🙏
Hope makes room for love in the world. We can all share it, we can all believe in it, even if we are radically different in every other way. We no longer need to fear our differences because we have common ground. We can hope together-therefore, hope liberates us. It frees us from our fear of the other. It opens our eyes to see love all around us. It unites us and breaks our isolation. When we decide to embrace hope-when we choose to make that our goal and our message-we release a flow of energy that cannot be overcome. Hope is a light that darkness can never contain. [2] Charleston/Richard Rohr
