I remember you almost did not even make it out there. I do not want to give details. You guys certainly have grit. No matter what your dream is, it will require hard work and sacrifice, and there will be plenty of learning curves. And there is always "more than one way to skin a cat" (achieve it) "Strike when the iron is hot" Good luck and best wishes.
A consistent income of some kind is crucial. Maybe some 4 to 6 six year window for fashioning and establishing some kind of buisness from and on the homestead that will bring good money. I dont know the full extent of your circumstances ,but like one comment said ,you must strike while the iorn is hot,now in your youth before the wear and tear of time and age brings you down and deludes your dreams abd abilities.