The men in a lot of these perfect looking homes we see are suffering. They go to work deal with a boss and come home and have to deal with another boss/wife. Marriage is what I consider “soft incarceration” these man can’t leave the house without telling wife where they going, they can’t go on vacation by themselves, they can’t buy what they want. The list goes on.
You lasted a long time. I'm 42, no kids no wife, enjoying life. Hit the gym, the world has changed, do not sit around not taking care of your body. Get very serious about your physique and enjoy your life.
Just turned 50. Ex-wife divorced me and took my 2 teenage sons, after her 3 year affair with a coworker. She was a covert narcissist and I had no idea until it was already over. With the levels of entitlement of modern day western women, and endless backdoor access to communicate via social media, marriage is a HORRIBLE idea. Don't do it, boys....stay safe, stay sane, stay single.
My story is similar my Ex parental alienated me by taking my kids outta state across the country. I travelled and wired money for 7 to them for years and still to this day ran my name through the mud and I barely have a relationship with my once healthy & happy to family. Selfish infidelity has completely destroyed our society
The same thing happened to my dad. Except my mother didn't want the kids. She had an affair with her boss at work for ten years and humiliated my father. She wasn't willing to work through things. My father is a good man. A religious man. Maybe that was the problem.
Between this, Covid and the trans movement, I honestly believe there's a push to get more people to stop procreating, which is not entirely a bad thing.
It's the best way to be everytime I've connected with other's whether of low energy matter or high energy matter both sides have proved to me time and time again as to why I'm better off alone the worst part is it hits you much harder when they claim to love you only to be switching upon you because they sense all of the hard work us real ones have put in while they choose to live within their little fantasy, narcissistic, driven bubble only to keep getting hit even harder by the world for attacking us rather than working alongside us.
MGTOW for 58 years now. All six of my brothers have been dragged through divorce court. They all struggle to put their lives back together. They tell me they wish they had gone MGTOW from the get go. It has been a great life for me. Young men stay single. Live the good life.
Seen it too with family, friends and co-workers. Exact same divorce statistics I've witnessed in my circle. Too many red flags are accurate. Too many of my intuitions have wound up being absolutely correct over time. Trust your intuitions. Men have a more accurate sense of reality and don't think with their emotions.
I am 57. Divorced 16 years ago. Spent nine and a half years paying support. Until Divorce laws change. Marriage is something I tell ALL Men and Boys to avoid it like the plague.
@@FathersLoveWithoutEnd more along the lines of all 6 being loaded while the sheep of today believe the lie that they're told that lie being one round is ready while the other 5 are empty but what they fail to mention is that the whole chamber was loaded and ready to go the whole time thus ultimately leading them to the slaughter house at a much faster pace to experience the truth the hard way just like I did throughout the years and still do on occasions they all laugh and joke making a mockery of life thinking that they're winning without thinking of the dangerous punishments/consequences that will eventually come catching upto them thus ultimately sitting heavy upon their shoulders crushing each and everyone of them thus turning their fake laughter along with joking and mocking to soon come crawling back crying, begging, and pleading to be spared/freed only to be denied and rejected for denying and rejecting GOD/JESUS CHRIST witnessed via The Holy Spirits Presence
being over 40 and single is fugging awwweeeesome. i concentrate on my work, saving and investing, and go on vacations whenever i want. not having a wife or kids is extending my life and keeping stress away.
I work remotely in a remote location (starlink) where the cost of living is ridiculously low (compared to my earnings) go hike or setup a quick teams meeting near a river or hop on a sailboat for some onboard living it never gets old to just be able to pack up and head out anywhere in the world ✈🛂
53 here, divorced for a year, and let me tell you young men something. Do not jeopardize what you’ve built and will continue to build by getting married. Are there rare gems out there? Yes, but they are few and far between. Trust me, starting over in mid life because of what females inherently are is difficult. We men build our value throughout our life, and having that stolen without a second thought on her part is something no man should never have to go through. If you do pull the trigger on marriage, you had better be damn sure she is one of those rare gems. You’re smartest move is to never get married. Living 53 years on their planet had given me the experience and wisdom to know exactly what women are. Heed my advice.
Mid forties, business owner, net worth around 3M outside my business and home. Do whatever I want, have a lot of fun hobbies. In a few years plan to sell my business then travel extensively and live abroad for a while. Freedom
Yup that exciting honeymoon phase “everything’s perfect “ feeling definitely does have an expiry date. And usually waaay sooner than expected. lol Just a matter of time. In most cases that is.
As a 50 year old man who was married for 20 years, I can wholeheartedly advise you to NEVER MARRY. Post divorce, I lost: daily access to my kids, my home, lots of money, and more. Put it to you this way, I'll have to work until I'm 70 years old. Think about that. Let it sink in.
Since my wife passed away from cancer last year at 56, I'm not interested anymore. She was a one of a kind. Women are complex pains in the ass. Just friend zone 'em now. There's life to be lived! I'm 60 in December.
Sorry to hear of your loss, sounds like you were lucky to have found and experienced life with one of the rare good ones. I envy that. I’m sure you’d now be hard pressed to find another like her, they don’t make ‘em like they used to these days. It’s just not the same out there anymore.
Early 40s here, be very careful with women. Marriage is the end of the male life cycle. Imagine tiptoeing around, measuring everything you say around your woman, knowing that if you piss her off, your life is over. That’s totally insane. Don’t get married until the divorce laws are changed. If she wants to go her own way Because you don’t give her the tingles anymore, pack it up and hit the road. You’re not taking my house and half my stuff.
I'm 51 and divorcing as we speak. Never again, I have been humiliated, called gay, given 'suggestions' I could not refuse to accept (they're called orders). Had enough and left, now she's after my money and yelled at me that she's going to ask the judge for alimony until she dies.
Don't jinx it. I thought I was single forever when I was your age and the loneliness was killing me it drove me to depression and suicidal, but I met a woman who really love me and I end up married when I was 38 😅. You never know what future lies.
31 and single. Thank God. God has taught me that I don't need a woman, that life is much more peaceful without the wrong people in your life. That being said, I am not against getting married. I am not against marrying the "right" woman. I believe God will bring that woman into my life. And if not, that's ok too. But people make TERRIBLE choices in partners when they think they NEED to be with someone. This is stupid. No person is worth sacrificing your peace for. No person is worth being infatuated with. No person is worth pretending to be someone you're not. My life is GOOD and I have no wife, no kids and damn near no debt. And I'm not knocking life out of the park either. I have plenty of issues, but none of that bothers me because I've got Jesus Christ. Growing in the knowledge of who God is and what he has done is amazing. God is FOR me. He's my advocate. Jesus Christ died for me. He IS my life. I don't have to live my life for myself because God is already prepared the way for me. God has a plan for my life. I don't have to go "prove myself" or "get what's mine". God has a purpose and plan he is carrying out in my life. All I have to do is trust him.
I am in the exact same boat...struggled with depression for quite awhile, partly due to feeling a need for a woman in my life. Well, one came into it alright, and I was happier than a pig in sh*t for about 3 months, until she turned her back on me faster than most people walk away from feces. Left me at the lowest point of my life, nowhere to turn, so much internal suffering even my broken arm couldn't begin to compare in terms of pain. But the Lord did not leave me like that...He sent someone to read the Bible to me at work, for about a year. Juda was his name, funnily enough. I took to it after a few months and started reading myself, then praying, then finding faith. One night, over a year later, I felt such a warm light in my heart that I can barely even begin to describe it, and all the negativity, the depression, the hopelessness, the loneliness, the inadequacy, just evaporated from me in literal minutes...like a cleansing and warm fire. I had been gifted the Holy Spirit that night. I've worn a cross, praised the Lord, and told many people of my testimony since that day, almost a year ago now. The Lord truly is everything good in this world. Now I am as you said, content being "alone" while never TRULY being alone, but I would still love a good woman if God brings one into my life. Blessings brother
Im 48, single, live alone and im the happiest ive ever been. I do whatever i want, I go wherever i want, come home whenever i want, spend money on anything i want, i answer to no one but myself... its heaven. 😂🍻
61 and not so much as a single girlfriend through all that time. It took until age 44 to realize I had divine intervention into my life, and I’d better realize I should be grateful for it. These stories bring it on home.
I’m 42. And definitely feel like God blessed me by helping me avoid most women. I’ve been monk mode by choice for almost two decades and I have no regrets.
I am over 40 years old, and I am enjoying the single life. Been pretty much munkmode all my life. NO regrets. Would ever I get married or be in a relationship? NO WAY!!!!
@@nunyabaznus7851why is it sad? Because in your head it’s sad? Maybe he’s happy and doesn’t deal with female drama well. Happiness comes in all forms and not 1 persons view on happiness is the same as another’s. You sound like you’re projecting how you’d feel in this commenter’s situation.
I'm 41 years old. Single, no kids, never been married, spinning plates my whole life, and luv every minute of it. I'm smart enough to learn from other men's mistakes and not do the same dumb shit.
That what makes you smart, that you're learning from other ppls mistakes as well as any mistakes you may of done. It's the stupid that see other ppls mistakes and still make those mistakes
Their true nature was exposed and magnified. If you grew up with women like sisters or even female friends you always knew the reality you chose to pretend.
Married for 17 years with two daughters. Happy and blessed. Although i married back in 2007. I struck gold. The dating scene has DRASTICALLY changed sense then for both men and women. I worry about my kids every day.
@@djdigital3806is she promiscuous? I heard the Rand just be sleeping around, hard for commitment? Does career success outshine not being married for your daughter ?
42, just finished a 5 mile run taking my kids to the beach tomorrow. I’ll pass on tattoos, piercing, crazy hair, debt and head meds. That’s what’s out there…..no one correcting these women least of all the church which takes a big fat f for what’s going on between men and women.
That’s not all what’s out there, but yeah, I certainly feel for the men. The prospects are not fantastic. Word of advice: the people tend to look a lot cleaner and tend to be less cultured in less populated regions of the US. And as always, looking in areas different to where you live is always a great idea.
I'm almost 32, never married, had a few relationships.... every guy I know is either divorced, getting divorced or is doing the same thing I'm doing; staying single. Women really messed up.
I'm 40. I know of a single good relationship. However, I suspect that my friend in a good relationship probably doesn't demand much from her, because it's his first relationship ever. They are both kinda IT people and geeky, so maybe they're just a good match. Good for them, but I doubt I would want to be in his shoes if I knew the details. But maybe those men who stay with a single woman their entire lives in general are more patient of female bullshit? Of course the question is whether they're truly more happy that way than being single. I know for sure that I'm staying single.
@fjorddenierbear4832 I think it's entirely possible for 1 man and 1 woman to stay together for life. However, it requires a commitment and mutual investment and respect from both sides.... and so far, I see only one side doing that, and it ain't women. I think your friend might just be lucky, all I know is all the guys I know and some of their friends are all getting divorced, and it's the women doing it.
Women messed up but they were given massive power by the State to do so. What's happened is a perfect storm of women taking positions of influence which trickles down to every "girl-boss" out there that feels they're saving the world and curing cancer at the same time. In reality they're just oversized children. Make no mistake the tables will turn again but it'll require a revolution to do it.
You younger guys heed what he is saying; Ive been through a 21 yr marriage and lost everything imaginable, including my 2 daughters, the house and lost more in ca$h payments to the ex for alimony and child support. Imagine sitting in court and hearing your children SAY LIES ABOUT YOU prompted by the ex? Imagine the woman you still love (stupid I know but you cant turn your heart off!) taking you for everything you worked for because she didnt want you in the house arguing with the kids? Yeah, it gets worse, but you all get the drift. Dont ever trust them enough to marry them, dont live with them and remember to guard your fortune, the more you have the more she will take! Its rather easy when you remove the blinders society put on you and see these women as MERCENARIES, now you understand how they use charm, sex appeal and manipulation to first trap you, then poison the relationship and use the courts, "judges" and lawyers to legally rob you, sometimes for fucking decades! Dont ever let this be YOU!
As a 28 year old man who got HR called on him by a coworker for being amicable and friendly. I can’t wait to hit 40 and be single and happy. (Actually I don’t mind being alone or autonomous at this point.)
You ain't gotta wait bro im 32 and done with bullshit women are predictable af and like homie said in the video she gotta be special special ain't shit worth rushing out here it's the same shit with most women why waste your time 🤷🏾♂️
Back in the old days smacking a woman on the ass wasn't even sexual harassment as far as I can remember. That was what, about 10-20 years ago? I remember when a worker at my job would pick up a rather pretty secretary and carry her around the workshop. She loved it. Today however, "existing in her presence" constitutes sexual harassment. Only 6'8" pop stars with sub 10% body fat are safe today. I'm sooooo glad to not be working in an office. I can get along with people just great, but if someone tries to test my boundaries too much, I'll eventually tell them to go to hell and then I'll get in trouble. Even if that's the more proper reaction at the time. I have a thing with containing my anger in most situations in order to preserve harmony, but if people push me too hard, I'll get real pissed off. My valve can only handle 10 bar of insults or so, and then I blow up. Unfortunate characteristic of mine, but I inherited it from my father and it's hard to shake off. I do try to show my dismay as soon as possible, as that tends to defuse any escalation. But oh well. People should realize that "f**k around and find out" is a thing. Actually though, they are probably low-key trying to filter out competition. Like some monkey hierarchy stuff for them to promote themselves in the hierarchy by getting people like myself into trouble, with me looking like the bad guy because I'm the first one to get angry.
Be careful. She might claim you are in a common law marriage or are acting as the parent of her kids, and then she can claim either half or alimony for her kids.
@danieldaniels7571 Very few states have common law marriage laws. It's good to know if you're living in one of those states though. Currently it's only Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, Texas, Utah, and the District of Columbia.
Grounded and wise advice. Also worth mentioning, an ex-wife is only entitled to half of the assets/earnings established after the date of your marriage. Not half of the assets you had going into the marriage.
Me neither. A buddy of mine is so unhappy with his wife and one crazy ass 20yo daughter, he said if I knew then what I know now, I would have cut my dick off.
I’ve met one or two. And even then they have been few and far between. In my family there are no divorces but a lot of misery and unreasonable compromise.
40 years old and single and at peace no more marriage for me im living it up loving myself and living out my purpose no more fake love no more wasted time 😊😊😊
53 year old millionaire here. Never married, no kids. Since I was 5, my father would always tell me…”NEVER get married”. I date women from 25-55, there will always be women available for companionship if you need it. Trust me.
@a.f.s.3004 I'm going through same thing as you. I'm 30 and about to be a millionaire within next year with Crypto Trading/Bitcoin. Went to college and got my degree. But I have figured it out. Not even married lol. Most people.I know are married with less money than me and more responsibilities.
@@b.johnathanwarriorinagarde7980 Invest. If thats all you do is invest in the stock market, thats all you need. Its the easiest way to invest. Dont panic when the market dips, just leave it in there. I invested in real estate. Point is, INVEST in something.
I know a 50 year old guy. He's married, and divorced 3 times 2 kids. He's lucky he a has a great high paying cushy job, he's making 100k plus a year, he can retire with a nice full pension. He's gotta be worth a couple mill$. I scratch my head why he even married a 2nd time. I feel like telling him, stay single, just get a Fwb's, and enjoy life.
The beginning is wonderful and the ending is horrifying and deceiving. They can’t love you they just live a good moment in life with you. When they get bored of you the vows for a narc female don’t mean shit.. Im over 50 and she abandoned her marriage and everything we had after 30 years together.
Yup me too. 16 years together, 2 kids and things were going good for us. Caught her cheating, found out she was having her cake and eating it too while married to me. Asked her why she’d ever put everything on the line for a side fling, her words? “Yes I know our marriage was good, but it wasn’t great, and I want great”. Good isn’t good enough guys. Had both sides of friends and family scratching their heads at why she’d risk tearing a family apart with her cheating. Especially when it was clear to see our marriage was holding up just fine and was healthier than most. She lost sense of reality. One sign I noticed that started making her act different towards the end? Her hanging out with the young single girls at her work. She was in her mid 30’s, hanging out with girls in their early 20’s, “girls nights out” etc. If your wife suddenly starts acting like she’s 20 again, bad sign, shits going down. Be aware of this shift in her behaviour guys, it means she’s out there putting herself as available behind your back.
@@rpd2787 Yes , thats what happened to me . I look back and see that I was being set up for six months. It was over when she had the next guy lined up .
Oh believe me I've encountered these peasants close within my proximity plenty of times I could sense the boredom coming from them easily without warning these morons are way way way to predictable if you ask me and easily see through
I'm mid 50's, never got married. Growing up my dad was the head of the house had the last word my mom was submissive to him. Got out in the real world and found our real fast women were not submissive. I knew that a woman could ruin a mans life and his plans if he let her. I wasn't going to let that happen to me, so I never got married due to none of the women I wanted to be with were willing to submit to me. I would not compromise on that, so I stayed a bachelor.
My dad was the same, still is God bless him. My mother is submissive and caters to him while he provided for her and us (the children). I don't see many relationships like that anymore, it just worked.
Hey I bet a dog would submit to you. Eat out of your hand, eat something you throw on the floor. You should visit your local shelter and find true love❤
My mom is submissive, and my dad provides. She believes in the Bible first and to believe in God/Bible it says women be submissive to husband, so she said she can't live in her beliefs or truth if she couldn't follow that. The previous poster said something about go find a dog. I feel most women don't like cats cause cats are like them (picky, act like they like you when they want something, creeping). Women like dogs and want men to be submissive to them now.
You never have to feel alone if you create the most important relationship out there, arguably the only reason we're here in the first place. A relationship with God. Saved me from depression, loneliness, hopelessness, the whole nine yards. I was so down and out I would've loved a car to just hit me and end my suffering...but I can thoroughly enjoy life again after putting my hope and trust in the Lord. I can give anyone pointers on achieving this themselves, just ask :D
47 married 15 years divorced father of 5 with 4 out of the 5 over 18 now officially off my payroll. My youngest will be off the books in 4 years. I still do for them, they all have money and property from me and other valuable assets/ inheritances from me. Gentleman DO NOT get married,....it's a waste remain single keep your sanity things and peace.
Wow.. you’re one sick dude. 15 years. 5 healthy children. (Potential grandchildren) and you just comment on payroll/assets and your financial loss. Wow.
All the older married men with kids I know are absolutely miserable, I talked closely with a guy who went through his second divorce and he told me it is not worth it and now their lives are pretty much ruined having kids with a girl ur not even with anymore. Terry is 100% right, it’s going to take a very very special person for something like this to actually last and not be misery after awhile
Was talking to a girl for almost 2 months, things were going well, then all of a sudden she started to change. Not as needy for my attention, we never hung out and had alone time. She claimed to “love me” but never really made time for me. Women change feelings like the seasons. She was like “I won’t forget about you” THEY’RE ALL FULL OF SH!T 😂🤣 I truly believe their was just another guy she came across. She told me her reason was because she has “a lot going on” … yeah okay 🤡 Dating brings me more sadness than it does joy. I’d rather spend time enjoying the things I enjoy.
@@Yaboifatback Another man will come up for him too. Women are like that nowadays. I live in france it' same shit in europe. They gave all power to women, so men are just disposable. Unless we're very lucky, there's no way to win this game.
I am example. Divorce over 9 year ago. Since then published a book, another two on the way, visit 30 different countries, complicated marathon, get fit body, work really hard on myself, dealing with family trauma and change my life complitly.. Most important is a purpose, goal, never allow your partner be your life goal and never chase a woman..
46 and single, divorced years go, Can’t imagine throwing a girlfriend or new wife into the mix now. I’ve been single for too long now and have come to realize it’s probably not worth the interruption of peace I’ve been experiencing during these single years of mine. No checking in with anyone anymore for any decision I make. I do what I want when I want. It’s wonderful. Finding someone new is not even a thought in my mind. In these current times it just doesn’t make sense to get back into the dating world. F that. I’m good.
Yep, all they do is disrupt peace and balance in your life. Without exception. It's amazing how stable, nice and wonderful life is when you keep them fully out of it!
I’ve been with my wife going on 10 years now. I had a few flings before that. We love each other totally. We don’t walk around on egg shells with each other. We support each other, and we fight for each other. We share most of the same basic core beliefs, chief among them the belief that people should be free to believe and go about life in the manner they want it. For the most part, neither of us have much in the way of friends. We don’t relate to most people. Most people don’t relate to us. But we are devoted to each other. What I learned from my other relationships was that you “need” to communicate with each other, and you need to sacrifice for each other. In an ideal relationship. The “fighting” has to be with the others best interest in mind. I see a lot of selfish immaturity out there, on both gender ends. If you’re a man, you need to work and focus on yourself. Use your intuition when dealing with people, chiefly other women. There’s a lot of trash out there, but look for someone who is willing to be a partner through all of life.
Better advice is if she is not a virgin, assume she is trained to cheat/divorce. It’s just a matter of time so be prepared for an inside job just when you think everything is fine.
Iam happy for you guys but western women today maybe 5%are good hell those are the same odds as a lottery ticket if brad Pitt Tom Brady are going thru the same shit think about it Iam going to stay safe and enjoying my money just bought another aircraft yesterday and I am not bragging just saying I'd rather fly and keep my sanity then get involved with humankind's most self center spoiled brats known to man cheers good luck
I'm 35, divorced (still single) with 2 daughters (8 & 5) with two different women. I'm here to tell these younger men, use your brain, not your pecker. Trust me. I love my daughters more than anything but dealing with two BM's takes a real toll at times. Which is why I'm staying single, raising my daughters, while investing in myself as well. I'm more interested in protecting my peace of mind than getting any female. I hang out with my daughters when I have them, then I do what I want when they're with their moms. It's the best of both worlds, considering the situation. USE YOUR BRAIN, NOT YOUR PECKER!!!!
The upfront chemistry is just limerence. Its not real. Its a form of seduction. They’re acting out what they perceive to be what you want but its not who they are.
51yo divorced here. Do not get married! Why get the government involved only to get totally screwed over? Have a happy relationship with a woman if you can but place ALL your assets in a Trust and sign that PRENUP. The reward is not worth the risk
I’m 49 yrs old as of May 4th. No kids, never married. When ppl ask why, I simply say look around. From ex Navy to lineman to electrician and MRA, I saw alot at a young age. The younger guys I talk to I never tell them not to get married thru the state, and I always give them last thing that COULD happen. They tell me that’s extreme. I say “isn’t divorce thee extreme?”. I’ve seen men un-alive themselves over it & those chicks go on living like nothin ever happened
47, thankfully never got married and have zero desire to ever be in another relationship or even date at this point. I travel a lot, enjoy life without the 130 lb tumor by my side, and my money gets split one way
44 lifelong Bachelor. Monk mode, Bachelor life! Sure, everyone has some stress in life but this about keeping it as low stress as possible and the bachelor life is low stress! The cheeks aren't worth the squeeze!
Just turned 40. I shake my head at young dudes getting married or getting girlfriends. But I always have to remind myself that we were all that guy at one point. These dudes will be joining our ranks soon enough lol
FELLAS, I start my workout with my kettlebell tonight, and tomorrow my running starts. I got my journal, groceries, protein powder, shoes I spent top dollar too, I am gonna upload videos every now and then with my workout plan for myself and I am keeping it simple. We can do anything we put our minds to. You just gotta want it. More then anything.
40, making 100k a year, geomaxxing paying 1% income tax abroad. Never gonna be rich, but I will not depend on my government. I could probably retire now, assuming a frugal lifestyle. Indulging in excessive materialism means you get less time for life. Money is time, time is money.
When you hit 40, you start considering the high possibility that life is at least 50% over with. You also ought to think about how you can optimize your health to squeeze out quality living until at least 60. The chance of never hitting 60 is significant, although not a huge chance. But it's enough that living healthily is paramount to optimize chances. My own father died at just 63 a couple of years ago. It hit me hard, but the result of his death now is that I don't really expect or demand much from life anymore, I just hope to keep it going. I don't consider my own inevitable death that much of a big deal anymore, because there's nothing I can do about it anyway. When my father died, not only did the man I loved so much as a kid die, my childish feeling or fantasy of immortality died as well. This is a good thing. My father's death killed my delusions of immortality. Even if someone were an absolute selfish bastard, it's easy to choose between suffering and happiness and perhaps even deep satisfation from achieving various life goals. But the default path is actually to choose suffering by not mastering deferred gratification. Lots of poeple don't wake up to what they're doing to themselves until they've been diagnosed with diabetes type 2 or cancer. At 40 I feel basically as good as I did at 20, except that I have a minor knee issue and shoulder issue -- which do not detract from my day-to-day experience significantly. Just in case someone is 20 yrs old and reading this -- 40 doesn't have to be a big deal, and you can actually feel better than you did at 20 by tweaking your diet and doing a bit of exercise. I now have hope that I can enjoy 50 and 60, mainly through diet, sunlight and a modicum of exercise (at least 200 000 steps per month and some basic exercises). My life is missing a larger meaning right now, but I'm optimizing my finances, so at least I'm moving towards retirement, and the earlier I "retire" fully the more energy I can put into my hobby projects or some experimental business ideas (which may or may not ultimately fail). The problem of entrepreneurship is that a lot of people need to fail 3-4-5-6-7 times before they finally succeed. Most people cannot deal with that level of failure, but some people push through. Even an idiot would probably succeed eventually, but it's better to start young than to start at 60. A 60 year old might fail 2-3 businesses and then give up, while a 25-year-old has the time to fail 10 businesses while still having enough lifespan left to succeed in a major way. The amount of skills you are able to accumulate through 10 years of failing are immense. I guess the problem of starting a biz while young though is that you're broke. But if you can first secure a stable income steam and decide to live frugally, then you can be doing everything at once. It helps to have a crazy mindset like enjoying 60-80 hours of work per week though. When you're in the zone, this just happens automatically, and you thoroughly enjoy it. I've been in that zone, but I became rather jaded when I didn't make much money. It was my first biz though. I want to find a new thing and then pour all my energy into it. When you're truly making your own thing it really feels like you're "THE MAN" in a huge way, and it doesn't hurt to earn some money, since money = time. I think it's very hard to see the possibilities when you're trying to observe your success from a place of inaction. You need to develop fanaticism. When you work really hard, you will quickly upgrade your skillset, and you will start feeling like superman. It's not that you're the smartest; you just know that you're smart enough, and that you're putting in 15 times more effort than the average procrastinator. Man, this great motivational channel is making me remember my past self and I need to get back to it. A man should always be on a great mission, without any thoughts about bullshit like women or twiddling his thumbs wondering what to do in life.
The real MVPs are the men giving us the honest truth, don’t be fooled by these other snakes trying to sell you marriage. Misery loves company, they don’t like seeing you with all this freedom, they’re jealous.
Every man has someone out there that is for them. The problem is that too many young men are seeking relationships before they have a solid foundation and a true relationship with God. Seek first the kingdom of heaven and all things shall be added unto thee. Facts y'all 💪
@@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax It does. We all have our struggles, and our darkness manifests itself in different ways when we live without God in our hearts. Different ways it warps us, different ways it drags us down. It all starts with reading the Bible through the eyes of a child. Read and believe, even if you have to fake it in the beginning a bit. Blessings brother
Yup im 37 divorced and best decision i made. Have custody of my kid because i make alot more money. Living like a king. When i was married it was traumatic and horrible. I was poor and depressed. Marriages might look nice first 5 to 15 years. Then it just ends. Its facts.
As I run out of time... I'm no longer wasteful with it. I spent 25 years in 2 marriages. The loss of millions of dollars was one thing... I can make more. However, I invested so much TIME taking care of others who were ultimately not here to take care of me in any way. It was a waste. I'm not rewarding some random feemale with my current life. Who deserves to win the lotto?
I love my peace and quiet. I learned long ago that you can't have peace without the quiet part, and you can't have the quiet part if a woman is around. Therefore, no woman = peace & quiet.
My last relationship was 15 years. I do believe she was the one and I do still love her. We grew up in the same city and are families were always friends and always connected long before we actually met each other. She has since moved on and got married and had a kid. This has made me keep to myself. Being together since high school, she will always be my first true love and probably my only. I’ll be 39 next month and I just don’t have another 15 years to just throw away. Life is too short. Keeping to myself the past few years has been a spiritual journey in finding myself again. With every bone still missing her and loving her, I haven’t been this happy in a while. It’s not that I want to be alone I just haven’t found that same connection since. A lot of it has to do with being wanted. In the beginning she really liked me and wanted to know more about me and wanted to be around me. I haven’t found any girls that give me this same vibe since. That was 20 years ago when I was 19. It’s not that I give up but with that state of mind that most girls have these days of feeling entitled and not needing a man, I feel that maybe I’m just better off alone
@@user-nf3db3hj2g Hahaha! How ironic. It's all cool though. When you wrote that you feel like you're better off alone I immediately thought of this song. I always liked it as well and ironically it makes me think of my ex too. Her name was Julia. Peace and good luck to you.
@@Maxamillion-ko5cl this is what I wanted and did it, then it back fired. It was with the wrong woman. If you want to do this, make sure she is a devoted Christian, who loves her dad, and dad is head of his household and her and mom have to run everything through dad first. If this is the case you may have a chance. Get good with her father. Be in church. Decicate your life to Jesus first. Then use the above when you find a decent church girl
A man that has a decent amount of money and a good job. They definitely are better off staying single until they find a match the same,otherwise you,ll be robbed.
Yes, beware broz. I'm many of your senior and agree with what jr. is saying. Be very careful. When I had my sales business, the number #1 problem I heard was divorce. I've seen guys who've lost it all. I'm single and can't imagine losing it all at this stage. Stay in God's word for his council.
That last sentence could change the world if enough people took it to heart. God is all that we need in our lives after all. I will NEVER feel lonely again. Once upon a time I knew near isolation...but God saw fit to save me from that hell I made for myself. All blessings be in His exalted name. Amen.
We have been lied to on spiritual deadly situation. The situation at hand transcends most people’s capacity for understanding-comprehension-critical thinking skills-true discernment-true wisdom.
I've spent all of my life in my 40's being single. I'm 43 and never been married. Since I've stopped simping I've bought a house, new car and now a top of the range mountain bike. To the young men, this is what you can achieve if you look the other way.
@@shtfvan8084 "Who hurt you,?" .even if that were the case I wouldn't be sitting around with sour grapes to the point of completely obsessing over an entire group of people from one sex Tou guys seem to have a very bitter immature dicotomouse view of the world where you now view all women through a very negativisric screwed emotional lense because you have been hurt by a few.
@@janx8695 its not all, its just over 90% of you all. Stats dont lie plus the marriage laws arent equal. Men arent playing the game anymore and youre mad you cant find anotger to manipulate. Point blank period
@@janx8695 you mad because you can’t find a man to manipulate Jan? I’m sure there are a few simps left but you better find that simp fast because they are waking up in record numbers. Even the really weak ones are waking up. They say by 2030 that 50 percent of women will be single. And I hope so, it means less men screwed over.
40 here ... Ended a 10 year relationship a few months ago and the thought of dating again terrifies me. Even though I had success with women my whole life everything has changed and toxic femininity seems to be the new norm
I am a complete failure with women - and if this is what guys much better than me are experiencing, with better looks, younger and and more money and resources - the situation is hopeless. Even if I met a women I wanted to be with, odds are she would be just looking to take advantage.
I recently got out of a two year relationship with a woman who wanted to marry me. I said no and did a domestic partnership instead because of a few red flags. I was right. I’m pretty sure she got bored and then used some bs reason and created a narrative to leave. The commitment level and resiliency in women nowadays is flimsy. I was able to dissolve the domestic partnership the day of the breakup. Fast and easy. Now she’s calling me and telling me she misses me and loves me. Today she called and I let it keep ringing. Cutting her off cold. I started some Muay Thai and BJJ and have been keeping up with it. Women are giving me attention and things are going decent. Definitely staying single though and keeping my options open. I am way more intelligent when it comes to dating now, avoiding waste of time chicks. I was fortunate, could have wasted a decade.
You can have a conversation everyday for 7 years but she CAN and WILL change on you in a sec at any given point in time. What are you going to do? Financial stress, emotional stress. Most married men (80%) are not happy.
Another banger brother Terry. I'm 41, only had a girlfriend for 2 months in 2000 and she was lame asf, like a stiff dummy not showing affection, then the broad ghosts me not texting. I heard the reason why she broke it off is cause I was "immature" that broad was boring as hell and rarely communicated with me. 11 years later I went on 11 uninteresting dates, all of the females haven't contacted me after the first date, 5 years later I got to know a single mom that I messed with once and never saw her again. 2 years later I met a female that was "separated" from her husband and she lived with him. She did a lot of things to make me angry and jealous. This is the modern western female bro, no shame, guilt, and apology ever from them
Some people are meant to be coupled, others not. Generally, if you're not married by age 40, your chances are slim to none that you will be. Whenever I hear someone say, "I have to consult with my other half (or my better half) or this person "completes" me, I kind of cringe. I personally have never felt incomplete as a person. Perhaps some people need to be completed and that's fine. I'm a proud hunter, not a nester, and I thoroughly enjoy the thrill of the chase. I know a guy who has a wife, a girlfriend AND a boyfriend and he's the happiest bug on this planet, I assure you.
When buying a car, a wise consumer does their homework like knowing the going prices of a vehicle, overall reliability, common problems and being weary of salesman shenanigans. The same should be done by guys seeking a relationship.
As an old boomer i was married for 40 years when she became mental and cleaned out my various bank accounts. After tons of money to a lawyer and about a year of frustration i did manage to get a small part of my money back. Single for 9 years. Met many women with 3 serious relationships during that time. The vast majority were on head meds. Treated them like gold only to get ghosted. Young men please dont get married. That cute little puppy will grow in to a raging werewolf .You can loose everything your worked so hard achieve. There is nothing a married man has that you cant have except grief ,drama and losses. Learn from the old pros.
IM 45 SINGLE AND LOVING IT ! ❤ GETTING INTO ANY RELATIONSHIPS THESE DAYS ARE HARD AND ENERGY DRAINING ! I STILL LOVE PEOPLE AND ARE NICE TO PEOPLE BUT THE PEACE IS BLISS ! ❤
I'll be 45 years old in November, which is half the age my grandmother was when she transitioned in 2008. Incidentally, November is also the month in which she passed....on Election Day no less. Seeing that I'm now halfway there and have never been married, I don't see any reason for it now.
