Oldish | 2x11 - Tori Spelling: Confrontation, Parenting and the Journey to Finding Her Voice 

Tori Spelling talking about how she feels about second guessing herself. I am so like her !! Thank you Tori for being so real and scared about pleasing everyone else than yourself. I have been doing this for so many years!! Thank you Brian Austin Green for putting this in the for front of mental health!! Thank you Randy, Tori and Brian for making me feel so much better!!

Did I just fall in love with Tori Spelling? Again? Thanks for sharing all of you - it’s great therapy, co-healing x

This is the third video that I have binge watched since coming across these today. I am 52 and I grew up with your show. I absolutely love love the rawness of these videos. Thank you for opening up because I can so relate to you guys on a real level. Very therapeutic. Keep doing these

Love Randy’s voice. It’s so calming.

You and Randy are super supportive with how much you care about Tori. I love how you and Tori reconnected after 18 years.

This is the best Podcast I've ever heard. Everyone gets to talk everyone is real and honest. Yes I'm a 90210 fan and a fan of all 3 of these people but it's still really great the conversations are natural. Like no camera is there. It's phenomenal. Thank you.

The conversation on how our parents raised us is so spot on

This was so good. A lot of people even though they dont know you personally want to see you be healed Tori. I walked thru my healing with Jesus. He loves ❤️ you with an unfailing love and i pray you find him to walk with you in your continued walk of healing, restoration and being healed theres nothing like it. It brought tears to my eyes when you Randy said that about you 2 who have known her and are here for her. Brian, you have become a real man and have matured and I love how loving and caring both of you are with Tori. I pray Tori you can open yourself up and receive from God his love and others. Tori people love you even though we dont know you personally and girl you are boosting their channel like crazy 😜 keep on the path of healing for yourself and all your personal relationships, especially your kids you wont be sorry. Fyi i love the idea of oldish bootcamp. More real than those other shows with fake therapy lol 😆 God bless you

Wow…such authenticity, so relatable. Thank you, thank you, thank you Tori, Randy & Brian for openly sharing with all of us and giving us encouragement in dealing with our own issues.

Totally agree with you guys about the generational differences in parenting. I grew up as part of your generation as well, and yes, we had respect,manners, standards, and values. Our parents, were first and foremost our parents, not our friends. I, for one, am so grateful to have grown up when I did because there’s something to be said for all those things that this current generation unfortunately won’t reap the benefits of. This episode was a great watch. It was great to see you guys together, and you should do it on a semi regular basis.

❤❤❤ So good to see you all together! It warms my heart. The best is yet to come T✨🔥

Cant covey how much I love this! Randy and Brain need to have every single former cast member from 90210 on the podcast- not just the original's. Randy is excellent at sharing wisdom for life now and as an outsider, but still slightly present figure with the cast as well! Ian with BAG and Randy would be amazing, Jennie with these 2- MUST LISTEN..Jason sitting down with with them- LOVE! Even would love to hear them talk with Gabriel. Dream would be to hear them with Vanessa (Gina) and Tiffani (Val), but those interview's would break the internet!

I loved this....this was a learning experience for me. Thank u!

100% agree with Brian, Tori you are amazing and I wish you to truly see it for yourself and drown all the world out. They don't matter!!! Only your family and "True" friends matter opinion wise and I know they ALL love you sooooo much.❤

18:38 -19:56 ! Very well said. 100% agree with Brian here.

It's so important to have an amazing support group!! I love the support that Randy and Brian give Tori. Its very special!!❤️

I'm sorry but the way Tori has shown and exposed her marriage and family life on TV ..shows how strong and amazing Tori is...she is great..come on !!!

It blows me away how dte Tori DESPITE coming from.such a wealthy background. She seems really nice, approachable etc.

Tori girl... I literally am you. I second guess everything i do, and everything i say, I don't even like to order food on the phone because it makes me so uncomfortable, I over apologize constantly. It's easy for someone to tell you screw those people, but it's hard to listen to that advice for people like us. But Bryan was correct so many of us, we are you, and that's because you are human. I really really loved and appreciated watching this, there are so many things I identify with that you are or you say. Thank you for putting yourself out there, I know it was super hard.

Tori and Randy ( and Brian ) grew up to be fantastic people. Randy looks so much like his father! Tori looks happy now that she and Dean are no longer together. Reminder that we should never let someone steal our joy - and if they do - they are NOT 'the one'.

I listened to part 1 last week and kept looking for part 2 and was glad to find it today! Maybe it’s because I’m around the same age as all of you but it’s just great to hear such an authentic exchange about the things in life that make the most difference to us. I’m also a coach so I loved Randy’s powerful questions!! Thank you all for your vulnerability and courage.

“What feels unsafe about confrontation?” has me all fucked up. I’m going to be mulling that over for a while.

How sad that she doesn’t see her greatness because we all have greatness in us. I don’t know her in real life but I see how she didn’t hear often how beautiful she was or how amazing she is, talented or any great sides she has since she was a child: and that is sad! And I mean said this thing by people that matter to her because I bet she has and had fans saying this to her all the times. Fans saying it is another thing. Tori you are worthy! Tori you are amazing! You are beautiful.

Replace "I want to" with may "I love to" or "I get to"❤

I love Tori's honesty and OMG! Randy's voice...easy to listen to and calming, but the other guy annoys me with his lecturing. I thought Tori's the guest star here. Shouldn't this be about her!!! (and Randy)

Didn't Brian abandon his oldest for awhile

Sorry for being dumb but I’m blanking on the intro song?

So beautiful conversation, love the questions. 🤩 Tori, you are so brave for sharing yourself ❤ I can hear that the world when you where small felt a bit dangerous from outside the family and that it wasn't safe to be yourself. Also see that you feel powerless. Not true, just learned words/behaviour. All the love to you, clever amazing woman!🎉 Also had these subconsious patterns running my life, now dissolved❤

Agree with Brian alot . I'm the same 💪💜

They should have fought their mother in court for the money. Their mother has always been a selfish person. They grew up in a lavish lifestyle and they don’t know how to survive the real life. Their dad shouldn’t have left all the money to mom, he knew how she was to those two kids.

great conversation. I like this Tori :) the guys were great too :)

Who takes breaks when opening up Christmas presents?? 😑

Shout out David Silver and Donna Martin. Legendary reunion

Brian.. Take it off!!! Take it off!! Crushing hard from South Africa - Love to Tori & bro! Take the compliment Tori!!

So.. not to the level of how we (the public) did Britney wrong, but.. we did Tori wrong.. She seems super sweet and loving.. and being in the public eye is hard. I hope she finds Tori 2.0.

I luv this conversation. About generation and conflicts. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Thank u♥️

THANK YOU Tori for making me not feel alone. I say SORRY to everyone for everything. I can relate to this so much. I hate conflict to the point I will do anything to avoid it. It would be helpful to see how your journey goes Tori but only if you feel up to sharing any of this journey.

WOW! You guys are full of such love for her. How awesome! Tori, thank uou for showing such vulnerability. Ypu are amazing 💜💜💜

Agree so much with Brian on apologizing to kids.

I was given a home tutoring. After being ill. It was the very best experience.

Wow this is super hard to watch I relate so much it’s incredible ❤

This is interesting to watch. Two people who essentially grew up in the same house that are completely different. One with no self esteem or confidence and the other who has so much confidence that he's a life coach. I hope Tori gets the counseling she deserves because her cry for help comes out in other ways. Too much plastic surgery, addicted to shopping that she has or had several storage units, etc.

I can't begin to tell you how much I appreciate and needed to hear everything that was discussed. Thank you ❤

I loved the entire 2 parts and I love the brotherly love and may she start to see herself with her God-given gifts & not worry so much about others. It’s hard enough for those of us not famous, can only imagine the caliber level when famous since before birth

I look forward to seeing powerful Tori who knows her worth.

Lol i knew you Tori, were going to say the word apple 🍎 cart, i guess some of us still use lol 😆

tori would be a great edition to this show 😢❤😮

i relate to tori sm

So good

Brian and Randy, you are so supportive of Tori that it's inspiring and very touching! ❤️ I know how uncomfortable this was for Tori. You guys were so loving with her that she was able to open up a little more towards the end. You guys are the friends I wish I had! ❤️

INSANE HOW HER MOTHER LEFT HER PENNYLESS!!!

I had no idea that a 53 yr old woman from Brooklyn, NY could have so much in common with a famous-Hollywood star. Thank you, T for your vulnerability!!! Onward & Upwards!!!👍

I agree with the parent first friend after….but once ur child becomes an adult it switches …friend then parent. That’s what has worked for me. As a parent of an adult child now it’s great to see her make her mistakes and I’ll be there in a non judge mental way …. And I’ve been vulnerable with my child too ..they deserve apologies as well,.. no parent should seem scary to their child or they relationship will disintegrate. U can still be firm but loving. ❤

Where they talk about Shannen? Part one or two?