Once You Complain You've Already Lost

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This video comes from Gary's 2016 keynote at Web Summit. Watch the full keynote on his main channel here: • WEB SUMMIT GARY VAYNER...
Complaining is one of the least productive things you can do for yourself and your situation. By facing the reality of what things really are, you can get to correct the problems much faster than dwelling and complaining about them.
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@SaffronSageAstrology 5 лет назад

"If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you."

@amerkovac5247 4 года назад

And what if "you" are not and you're not aware of it?

@SaffronSageAstrology 4 года назад

Amer Kovač I guess that’s the work we all have to do to be successful. Cultivate the self awareness to know. I think it works the opposite way as well where a person can be naturally excellent at their craft but they don’t know it because it comes so easily to them.

@user-qn3ox9in1k 3 года назад

Translation "If you could, you would." Ignores logistics, reality, and passive aggressive sabotaging of other people.

@onelifepassport 5 лет назад

*So true when I realized this my life changed for the better. Take full responsibility and strive to become the best version of yourself and use all the energy on bettering yourself and not making excuses.*

@RepetitionFitness 3 года назад

just like Goku :)

@onelifepassport 3 года назад

@@RepetitionFitness exactly!

@Octocat77 3 года назад

Excuses on what?

@ogbobby89 2 года назад

So when I killed myself. Nobody cares

@cristianwithnoh2951 2 года назад

Take responsibility for something you didn't even do that is effecting you?

@markettree7772 5 лет назад

Absolutely! You’re either “solutions-oriented” and you’re actually valuable moving forward, or you’re “problems-oriented” and as you complain, you’re just another part of the problem. Never point out a problem, instead point out areas of opportunity with at LEAST 3 good solutions.

@acharich 5 лет назад

💣💣💣

@acharich 5 лет назад

*Never _just_ point out a problem (I'd say..)

@gcworldtv8525 4 года назад

You said facts!

@tdavis6260 8 месяцев назад

Barzzzzz!!🙌🏽🎯

@theofficelab 5 лет назад

Every time things don't go my way and I start pondering, little Gary appears on my shoulder and yells: 'Stop complaning. Do something about it. Cause nobody fucking cares!' - There's no better motivation!

@carlosalcazar2344 5 лет назад

I don't understand how this shit is free!! Thanks Gary!!

@NigelJ 5 лет назад

I think it boils down to acceptance more than anything. Many people complain bc things aren't the way they want them, so instead of accepting that reality, they deny it, and since it continually lets them down, they complain. Ultimately it gets them nowhere, which is why acceptance is liberating, even when we accept things we don't particularly like or want to.

@mypersonaltestgia2704 Год назад

Exactly: it frees you!

@NiceOCGuy1981 Год назад

And they expect others to help them because they're in a tough spot. WAKE UP!!! No one is going to help you. It may feel unfair, but that's life.

@WholeHealthConnections 5 лет назад

If we take the time that we use complaining to take actions towards our goals... things start to take a big shift for the better. Positivity, gratitude, patience, persistence, consistency. Let’s go!! Join the positivity train.

@johannmuster9726 5 лет назад

That's right that nobody cares. I work harder than everyone, life was never fair to me, i always found a solution BUT i complain at the same time! Of course i speak it out if something is not right!

@ShaneHummus 5 лет назад

That's why don't complain. Be happy when problems or obstacles arises. It's your leveling spot.

@WildSatoriForest 5 лет назад

5:48 The entire speech in 9 words.

@FM-to3gy 5 лет назад

nah, others are great

@SharonTseung 5 лет назад

So true. Gotta think macro and also take full responsibility!

@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308 5 лет назад

This is timeless wisdom from Gary. I'm going to forward this s*** to all the complainers I know. LOL

@noemiphung9394 3 года назад

Great talk Gary! I have applied my no complaining rule for 4 months now. It was hard in the beginning but feel like I am getting the hang of it. It has brought me joy and peace. It has given me the opportunity to see the good in every situation. Cheers to everyone trying to live the best life possible!

@melodicgod2382 5 лет назад

People complain so much at my school, but I feel like it’s a good thing in a way, to express what your going through inside and let it out. But yea most of the time I don’t care or people don’t care when I complain.

@xWe2s 5 лет назад

The greatest talk. And this is the best chunk of it.

@MonicaSancio 5 лет назад

Absolutely! Gary Vaynerchuk rocks 👏💜I love listening to the truth: you are so right & right on the money on what to do now. We are lucky to be living NOW in the greatest era, being who we are really... "Who are you scared to fail in front of?... Own it or eliminate it. Put yourself in a position to succeed!... If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you!" 🙌💜

@inc0ntr0I 3 года назад

I have had a productive week, your videos are hitting me hard today gary! I am meeting with my old boss and hopefully future mentor! I wish happiness for everyone! LOVE

@hiphopheaven Год назад

Complaining is not only therapeutic but also the first step towards creating change

@mosaicmonk4380 5 лет назад

Those invisible coconuts almost took out my boy gary lol .

@acharich 5 лет назад

💀💀💀

@a7xfanben 5 лет назад

Gary's trying to squeeze his hand off his arm in the thumbnail 😂

@mrvincentpogi 5 лет назад

yes thats right i learn this from garyvee

@369jwillow 5 лет назад

Absolute truth for me and many others

@TimRoseOfficial 5 лет назад

Great stuff Gary!

@nathansegurakennedy8607 5 лет назад

The uncle I never had but always wanted. Thanks uncle Vee

@my_onlysunshine9143 5 лет назад

Thank you, I needed to hear that :))

@GorgonDrageil 5 лет назад

I will say though, love yourself and care for yourself. Suppressing trauma and baggage just to act tough will also hold you back. Fuck if nobody gives a fuck. Please give a fuck about yourself. 🙏 #Balance

@dmax1 4 года назад

"Eliminate Mom and Dad" got it gary, Thanks as always

@user-qn3ox9in1k 3 года назад

I take it you don't have Narc Parents.

@MornevanWykSubscribe 5 лет назад

Yeah I won't do that-i won't give up on my RU-vid dream. -i will keep grinding and pushing and become a youtube success

@dewadebadon 4 года назад

Daily Energy! Thank you Gary!

@shanethecoolestshortfilms 5 лет назад

I "fuckin" love this guy...I needed to watch this video

@ste7en777 3 года назад

all crying does is expose sadness

@annastayziaa 2 года назад

rewatching this in 2021 🤗

@Black7Bluebird 4 года назад

The coconut comparison was awesome. I love hoy Gary!

@shabanpasha 5 лет назад

Best speech ever!!!

@pavlostsangarides7500 5 лет назад

Best Gary Vee speech so far

@landonic81 5 лет назад

I just came to the comments to complain Gary! Here's me complaining!

@ste7en777 3 года назад

i love it when extremely important things go wrong

@austinsomogyi1437 Год назад

To be fair theres a difference between complaining and speaking up tbh

@rachitchoudhary6063 5 лет назад

I need to hear this

@epicmyth457 2 года назад

Oh thank you.

@joaquinben4458 3 года назад

Yeaaaaaaa i needed this!!!

@FeelGoodWithin 5 лет назад

Love it Gary😝😍👌

@RoadMover01 5 лет назад

I love this guy

@celiapryce2688 5 лет назад

Nothing but facts 👏🏽

@09070605uty 2 года назад

One of the best speeches ever!

@richmanni.motoring 5 лет назад

Facts 💯🔥

@baslielalene4702 2 года назад

Thank you.

@reverendbluejeans1748 Год назад

I think it was better to be a nerd 20 years ago. There was so much less competition back then, and technology barriers was much harder.

@starlife1441 5 лет назад

really nice that's so true

@flavianstanciu9952 5 лет назад

really true

@playmobilegames1626 5 лет назад

true

@korihayes3477 3 года назад

I needed this

@sphakhumalo3346 5 лет назад

this is power ever in my life motivation

@inshothekidd 5 лет назад

godbless this man

@mypersonaltestgia2704 Год назад

Yep truth : no one cares and no one is coming to save you U figure it out alone.. its sucks to accept this, but once u do, u become free to go be yourself and do wtf works for ya with no explanations, cause who cares wtf u do?! No one 🙌🙌🙌🙌

@AdamAlq 5 лет назад

As someone who’s been in business for a number years (nowhere close to as experienced nor as wealthy as Gary), I can tell you that he is 100% right! Along the journey of becoming an entrepreneur, you’ll meet all kinds of horrible characters. Suffer from immense stress and loss of wealth in chasing your dream. You’ll have more bad days than good in the beginning, and it’ll seem like everything and everyone is against you. Complaining about it won’t achieve anything, because as Gary said; “nobody gives a fuck”. All you do is waste your energy by complaining and end up feeling sorry for yourself. The difficulties are part of the journey and you have to face them I’m afraid. Not everyone is cut for this journey and I appreciate that. This is why I hate people going around thinking that calling themselves a CEO, entrepreneur etc is cool. It’s not! It takes years and years of hard work with blood, sweat and tears! The title may sound fancy but the journey you have to embark on, not many can handle.

@ste7en777 3 года назад

been there. done that.

@joaquinben4458 3 года назад

Yeaaaaaa!!! No more complaintssss!!!!! Get into Action!!!!

@HipHopLuVeRZ 4 года назад

"If you're a FUCKING ALIEN" hahahahah GARY VEE!!!! You should make a stand-up comedy special, I'm tellin you man :))

@user-cc4bi5kc9o 11 месяцев назад

Gary Vee is that dude. I hope he close to god while hes doing this as well. Like this dude. Real dude.

@amritkumarbehera9631 4 года назад

Thank you Gary Vee

@jjmaia 3 года назад

As a EU citizen, I was affected by Brexit. I dealt with it by leaving the UK and went travelling to Australia and never stopped :p

@senecamanu6515 5 лет назад

In this event, gary drank one cup of coffee

@gregsg01 5 лет назад

Better to use your time to move forward than to whine!

@MaJeSTiCz0 3 года назад

True

@jasonsimson3349 Год назад

I've been going through some hard times lost all my friends and i am alone and feeling like I'm going insane but i taken an promise not to complain ever again. because it makes me ugly.

@cosodesign8953 Год назад

It really does. Happy people and successful people don’t have time for it.

@peterbynoe9457 5 лет назад

You are spot on every single.what saying happenings to be

@toreymyshrall1004 5 лет назад

It just is how He said it is

@LaundryChuteLLC Год назад

So revelent

@ISpeakHTML 5 лет назад

I keep watching Gary, I feel like his words apply to me, however it’s really hard to hold strong to my passion of cannabis, I feel like I’ll disappoint everyone around me even though it’s something I want and would enjoy, if I make 40k a year I’ll be content. But I don’t wanna do what I love because I only have so many people in my life :/

@ste7en777 3 года назад

i just start with it

@lei9149 4 года назад

bruh when the camera turned and i saw all the cameras i died lel

@EthanSchwandtTheMindMapGuy 5 лет назад

Dwelling and Pondering and Prying Doesn't Do Anything.. *That's huge!*

@ste7en777 3 года назад

i do that all the time

@chrisfleming47 5 лет назад

#ThankYouGaryVee

@mariammohammad3061 4 года назад

It’s not fair that there’s an empty chairs ! I would die to be setting there 😭

@clawoosbauer 5 лет назад

Fired up!🔥🔥🔥 🔴Haiti🔵

@carpenoctem775 Год назад

If you can, try to find a solution. Next step is to reach out. But don’t give up, unless it’s a last resort. And if so, learn from it. Tomorrow’s another day.

@mechhaya 5 лет назад

You can do only one thing good at a time and they can't be opposite hence either you are solving something or sitting and complaining about it, which side are you on ? .... me always solving :)

@ste7en777 3 года назад

put a smile on your face

@ste7en777 3 года назад

i'm either happy or annoying