Our First (and Last😅) Couple Q+A ❤️ ft.  

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What about Iceland for a honeymoon?

Real talk, you went on that bike trip to lose weight and impress her didn’t ya! 😆 Jokes aside I’m happy that you’re together, it’s easy to tell you liked her for quite a while now (yes this info is new to me)

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@@sharlainjapan Since you love England so much , Ask Chris to take you to the beautiful city Of York, in North Yorkshire it is amazing medieval city , it has been home to the romans and even the Vikings

oh god that's so true

In the cutest way. I think Chris is far more likeable than Chandler, lol.

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I was literally shouting at this video as they were telling the story "CHRIS PULLED A FUCKING CHANDLER?!"

Hahaha that’s what I also thought about while watching the vid hahahahaha

How could Chris not have fallen for Sharla´s Premium face? 🥰

Just randomly dating strangers is scary because you don't really know them. Romantically crossing the line with friends is terrifying because there might not be a going back. But going from friendship to relationship is so much more satisfying because the relationship is based on a solid foundation. You know them, then you get infatuated because you know them.

@@stuntmonkey00 You're correct. But most people would rather date someone they just met than someone they've been friends with for years precisely for the reason of 'there might not be a going back'. If you lose someone you've known for a short while, it'll hurt less than losing someone you've known and trusted for much longer.

Can say from experience, falling for a friend is VERY scary. It actually made me sick from the anxiety. I told her, and she didn't feel the same. But we're still great friends 🙂. You can't lose what you never had, so it didn't hurt too much.

I've been dating my best friend for 8 years, known each other for 13 years and I have to say it was the best decision I ever made. We got married last year, and have a 4 year old, and I couldn't imagine having this life with anyone else 🥰

Haha it’s so funny looking back at old videos now😂

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Omg! You watch this channel too? First i seen ya on Megan moons comment section now i see ya here! 😊 I don't why that makes me so happy but it does ♥️

@@Lonesome__Dove they are longtime friends 😅

@@Lonesome__Dove Taylor used to live in Japan and they made many videos together in the past :)

@@tangente00 It's his affable energy

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fellow british stephen here and i also knew straight away! cant trick us, we know what we're like

That means he’s also in Love with Ryotaro

Im a kiwi and I thought that thier was sparks when they cycled around Mt Fuji

TIL

@@J-Hz harem anime

I’m so sorry for your loss, but that was beautiful too.

Sorry for your lost

What a beautiful story. How amazing it is to fall in love, even if loss comes with it. It’s so amazing how you got to spend the last years of her life surrounded by love. I’ll tell my family I love them today ❤

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Your brother is Cupid?

not only that but the fact she decided to leave it in XD

Well, Chris is lighting up as well. He's pretty much glowing... Basking in delight. ☺

Favourite moment haha

Just saw too, made me sick to read how vile some people can be and take time to post things like that to anyone. They look happy together and is all that counts and its their life, no one should meddle.

People that have the need to criticize others’ personal choices need to really back off! What a pity human being to attack another like this.

That comment made me laugh so hard. "Liver spotted hands"? Lmao! Jealousy at its finest.

I hope karma gets to that person who talked to Sharla that way. I wish people wouldn’t push their narrow minded, old fashioned onto others. It’s so gross. Pretty much everyone loves Sharla. I hope she knows that.

​@@AliceElricSama yep, jealousy at it's finest. Not to mention that Chris not wanting children isn't something new that he decided on when him and sharla began dating. I remember him mentioning this years ago. But then again, the person who made the comment must be very dissatisfied with themself, and probably felt the urge to Just spout a bunch of verbal bile everywhere to feel better. Too bad Sharla had to be the target of that. She's such a sweetheart.

I don't have a partner to consult with, but I'm firmly in the not wanting children category. I enjoy kids, and holding a baby as it does baby things is cool, but I like being able to go home without them. I also have moral objections given the state of the world about making someone live with the consequences of what I could have tried harder to fight against.

Exactly! We feel the same way and it always feels like a very unconventional decision. Good to hear people speak about it. :)

My husband and I have been happily married for 8 years, no kids and don't want em. :)

As part of the Hippy Generation, "Childless by Choice" is a real thing and we chose it too.

Whatever makes you happy, I am about to have my third child and I couldn’t imagine why life without them. I have married friends that don’t Holman on having kids and it works for them. To each their own.

I’ve known I don’t want kids for a very long time. I’m only 22 but everyone keeps saying “you can change your mind.” It’s annoying how if you want kids, no one will ever say that to you though. Kinda like how Chris said, I don’t think I’d be a good parent. Me and my bf both don’t want kids and know we wouldn’t be a good fit for the job. We both prefer animals to people so we’ll just adopt some animals and give them a good life. As long as the people in a relationship know what they want, I wish more people would respect that

​@@kaitlynwalters9086 yeah and especially women are just often ask when they plan to get pregnant? It's invasive (and can be really harsh when that person is actually wanting children, but is infertile) and when you do bother to respond with saying you don't want any people always tell you you'll change your mind. It's reducing especially women to just their reproductive functions and when you're told you'll change your mind, it's taking away agency.

@@favi677 I think everyone is allowed to change their mind, but I think it's super invasive and disrespectful to ask people this and then if they tell you how they feel, people then doubling down and not excepting someone's genuine feelings at the time. And maybe some people feel the need to be so adamant about their views on not wanting children, because of societal pressure. Overall I think it's a an issue that people sort of see married with kids as the societal standard. It's quite hard to unlearn this, growing up like this I too still catch myself thinking about that sometimes e.g. when I hear someone's getting married. But I think it's sort of invalidating life when you only see this sort of "goal". People don't ask others "are you happy?" they ask "are you in a relationship yet", etc. when being on your own doesn't have to mean lonely. And it's super a super allo-centric view too. There are people that are ace and/or aro or demi and they're not unhappy. I think if people just pressure people less and don't ask invasive questions we would all have a more chill time together. Because I know people that don't really want to meet family anymore because it pulls them down psychologically to be pressured like that. And people don't even think they're pressuring others, because they're socialised to think asking these invasive questions is normal.

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@@kaitlynwalters9086 I've known I haven't wanted kids since I was probably under 10 lol!

I thought the same 😆 I can imagine Chris acting crazy like Chandler

Chris Broad = British Chandler Bing

same!!! Its so wholesome

me too! their story is the most romantic ever ❤

SAME!

Ever since I saw them together on that "Cycle across Japan" episode with the rollercoaster ride, where Sharla was dropping F-bombs at Chris I believed they were made for each other.

Same for me. It’s so odd to have started watching them both when they didn’t even know each other and now this. I absolutely love it!

Or a girl like Lorraine Warren?

@@carsonfrazier9246 Hell no. I don't want to get air yeeted out of my bed in the middle of the night.

@@icebonbon They don't really have dnb events in USA 😢

​@@CZsWorld Whaaaaa???? That's tragic. Vancouver does dnb right. Damn near something every week, especially during the summer.

@@CZsWorld yes we do what are you talking about lol

I can say, as someone who never wanted children and never did, I am perfectly happy with the decision. I was also told by a spine doctor (I have a degenerative chronic spine condition) that be in my "best interest not be pregnant". Fine with me!

Yes so true

I never wanted children either, and then one day, it just happened. My children are definitely the best part of my life now and I thank the universe every day for that funny surprise.

You should have kids

Except this is literally a Q & A.

@@donnahdunthorn5207 just bc it's a Q&A doesn't mean they owe you an explanation nor are they obligated to really answer the question. They can just say yes/no and leave it at that

​@@donnahdunthorn5207 They're allowed to reject questions that are too personal. They don't owe their audience every little detail of their lives and health.

only fictional shipping is a good ship!

@@nutrinogirl456 I’m not trying to be rude or anything , I’m genuinely curious. And maybe I’m just unclear on what the exact definition of shipping is . What’s the harm in saying something like “those two would be so cute together .” Or something along those lines. I agree it’s inappropriate to say something like “they should date!” Because it puts a weird pressure and might introduce some awkward feelings to the relationship. But I think two friends who are confident in their friendship, are probably able to handle somebody saying. “Oh are you two dating?” Or “you two are so cute together” from someone who doesn’t know all the details . Sorry I’m a little blazed and I type a lot when I’m high . TLDR in your opinion, are there limits to things you can say (in the context of shipping) , or is everything completely off limits?

I think if someone being shipped is affected, then at least a part of them is hoping for that relationship. I've been shipped countless times to multiple friends of both sexes & it never made me uncomfortable as I had 0 romantic attraction to them. Like even if they courted me for months, I knew it would be a no from the get-go.

@@Crybaby-Media especially with internet personalities, you don't know them. To try to throw romantic or sexual connotation to their relationship is overstepping. I'd argue it's weird to say "you'd be cute together" to friends too, but at least then it can potentially come from a place of knowing the nuance of the relationship. With celebs and influencers, you don't know the nuance to their relationship. Having to hear it over and over and over from people who don't know you that you'd be "so cute with (friend)", it's like this weird expectation that people can't have close, platonic relationships with the gender they're attracted to.

@@j134679 hard disagree. I hate being paired with another person by others, it's sexualizing me when I didn't ask to be. Even if it's an innocent "you'd be a cute couple," the next statement is almost always "you'd make cute babies." If I thought I'd be cute with another person, I'd make that call. Another person's opinion is unwarranted and unwanted.

Well said. Not everyone wants children and that's fine. As you stated, it is refreshing to hear it discussed openly.

Thank you Sara!! 🫶🏻🩷🩷

Seriously here to do the same! I’ve had fur children my entire life and now I have a “not” fur child son. If you only want cats, that’s great! Don’t let some troll try to define what you can and can’t do.😂 My senior kitty just turned 17 and she is my first born. ❤ congratulations y’all and wishing you the best in your new life together. ❤

I am also childfree. I'm sickened at people getting angry at childfree folks choices. We know ourselves better and always will. We don't want to be miserable because misery loves company. We choose ourselves and have fulfilling lives. I'm really happy they know what they want. It is also exciting to know Sharla is relatable in that way as well. It makes me love her even more lol

It would probably make a good manga😂

Yes, I have 3 kids and honestly have no time for my 3 cats anymore because they're so self sufficient compared to kids. I pet them at night to make sure they get some attention though. My kids also don't really sleep well until they're older. There is no way to prepare for the absolute exhaustion that comes from years of being woken up every few hours at night. Thankfully now it's only one or twice a night since my youngest is 1.5 years old.

Yes, and with cats you can, like, leave. You have to take your children with you 😅 I will say I call my cats my babies, but my human children are the reason for my white hairs.

2 cats and 1 toddler mom here as well. I couldn't agree more.

Totally agree. I've never wanted any I have very few maternal instincts :)

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Im always surprised people still get mad at people for this choice. It's weird.

Yes, there need to be more people like us out there. Always happy to see couples I can relate to.

@@LdeV26 “need to be more people like us” ..huh

@@LdeV26 there is no “need”, only preference

@@est02 No there is need.

@@simgrmemaj8075 Yup.

What is S-Tier ?

@@chendaforest Highest spot on a tier list. It’s a ranking system that usually go: S, A, B, C, D, E, F (S tier being the highest and F being the lowest. Unless your question was rhetorical or a joke that i missed

@@kookurikapooh thanks I didn't know.

I think U forgot abt Connor lol

@@minhdo3482 Oooohh you're right, I'm sure Connor will be happy to be the mistress in the relationship

A sign of a life hahahaha love it

LMAO okay that’s funny! 😂

I had the opposite, my wife's sleep apnoea was so bad that she would stop breathing with terrifying regularity! The minute she got a CPAP machine was the minute I could sleep with any degree of peace lol.

HAHA love that

@@sharlainjapan Recover the original sprockets from Killertron and have rings made to size. Or instead of rings get knuckle-dusters that you can wear permanently.

They are a couple? no way!

If I may ask, how was your adenomyosis diagnosed? And what kinds of surgeries did you have? Did they help at all?

Aww thanks Kat!! Miss you too, hope you’ve been well🥰💕

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