Learning to find happiness within yourself can be difficult but use your time as a single Pringle to explore life and truly find what makes Dooby Dooby and then when you’re ready the right person will find you. Good luck Doobs 💚 side note: you’re getting SOO good at editing, don’t be so hard on yourself!
I agree with half of that. The other half being that nobody wants a woman over a certain age because the best years of her life are gone and she will have more of a chance to have complications with pregnancy the older she gets so being picky the older you get isn't really beneficial for women
i'm so glad this video popped up in my recommendations, bc i really needed this. i think our 20s are the hardest because there are just so many expectations and the constant pressure and feeling like we are falling behind everything in life. i'm currently figuring out my life and still learning new and very basic things everyday, and that's okay! let's live our life at our own pace, and i hope i learn to be okay with myself and find happiness within me. :] your 20s can be hard, but you are not alone.
This! Bruh if only I can tell this to my younger self that I shouldn't have rushed things and got to a relationship. You really need to build yourself focus on your goals and learn to love yourself.
She is certainly utterly proficient with the blade. Also, her inherent sensibilities will home in on Mr. right once nature’s synchronicity is initiated. 😎❤️
@@michaelpark5681 If she's like Western women then yeah she'll end up alone. Conceited overly complicated women. But she's smoking hot so she can EASILY find a guy anytime she wants. Women have it easy that way. Especially hot women - they don't have to put in aNY effort. Guys come to them.
Don't let the pressure to find someone hit you too hard, me and my wife met at 26, married by 29, and now separating at 32 after she had an affair, so meeting young doesn't always stay happily ever after as we all hope it does. There is no timeline that needs to be followed, you're already miles ahead of many if you can find happiness with yourself and have that focus on yourself. This is something I've been struggling with after our relationship ended, so all the power to you. Just stay open to finding love and keep that focus on yourself and good things will happen.
I'm a 31 years old soon to be mom of 4. Enjoy every second of your single life while you can. I understand it seems difficult and overwhelming now but you will miss it but I love your out look on life! You'll get where you want to be at the perfect time. I found that things fell into place for me once I stopped pushing them. 💕
I.e I realized the older I got the less likely I was going to find a man and have kids so I jumped outta the single independent club😂😂😂 men read double speak. No woman wants to die alone.
The comments here just says it all, really inspiring. It really feels better to know that there are some people who experience the same things as you do, you'd feel that you're not alone even if you really feel that way. anyway, I hope you continue to take care of yourself, we wish you all the best 💗
I see you replying on a few people's comments, hiding on the other side of the screen makes you feel like you can respond to people like this? It'd be better if you find somewhere else to do it.
@@ShishiSonson good point ubermensch, honestly this whole wave of lazy procrastinating manchildren is taking over the world. It went from "I have to have a 9-5 job and a wife and 2 kids to be happy" to "I want to own nothing and do nothing and be happy". Both have issues but there is a clear winner here. Humanity will just fade into oblivion if we embrace this spirit of nonchalance and jemenfoutism
@@mithras666 You are right, both have issues and they just stem from a different moral interpretation of the same human life, but the new one clearly proved to be deleterious to the continuation of human life itself - even deleterious to the formation of great individuals. They are just bland nihilists, last men.
I think we all can relate to all the feelings you shared. I’m 30 and still single with no kids so it’s easy to feel like “ what’s wrong with me” but there’s someone out there for everyone. You’re a beautiful girl, smart, funny. Everyone keeps telling me no to rush it, so I’ll pass that onto you 💕 love your content and your food always makes me so hungry!
I am in the same position as you - 30 & still single, no children and no pets. It's great living alone, but at times it becomes a bit much and I would just love to have a family. But I also realize that quality partners are quite difficult to come by, so I am being patient as much as possible hahaaha Best wishes to you~
okay, I just had the most horrendously awful day at work, and then I found your channel… your content is soothing my tired soul like nothing else, putting a smile on my grumpy face 😌 I feel like I might even have a decent night sleep now! thank you so much for your talent and sincerity 🙏 you’re amazing
This was the first video ive seen on this channel and it really cheered me up. I usually dont like vlogs but the style you are making these is awesome. I can relate to many things and im always looking forward to new content!
Thank you for making this! I’ve been feeling out of control recently and it’s been making me spiral like crazy! Knowing that you went or are currently going through this makes me realize how a lot of people are going through the same things. Loved the food in this vlog too 💞 keep it up dooby!
Having no voices and only the deafening sounds of each individual action as well as the subtitles serving as inner dialogue perfectly encapsulates how it is to be an only child, its cold and lonely, we only have our thoughts with us… And I honestly love it. I relate to dooby on a personal level because of this :)
To stand out among a massive crowd of food content creators is an achievement in itself. Thank you for turning food into such a story and sharing with us the good and bad. It helps the next person speak up. Wishing you all the very best ahead.
Dooby I can totally relate to your anxieties about being perfectly content single but also wanting to find someone to share your life with. I am 27 years old and at that age where not only do I consider that at my age, my mom was married with 3 children, but also I am now watching all my friends and the people my age around me beginning to settle down with families. Trust your timeline and enjoy life in the meantime :)
I found Dooby and her channel about 4 months ago, and have watched and loved every video released since. They inspire me to cook, and/or they show me that I'm not the only one in the world with my problems. We are all in this together!
Watching this channel reminds me of myself before I got married and had kids. It’s a very interesting time in life being completely self independent and alone. You learn a lot about yourself and those rough patches you face ends up becoming important memories. I do think it’s imperative to set goals for yourself, which I didn’t do when I was young and kept getting set back as a result.
I think this is the best vlog I've ever watched. Every single setting looked like another vlog was about to start whilst all of it being so comforting and peaceful. My heart is full and I love the feeling. Thank you Dooby
Hey Dooby :D Haven't been here for long, but being the same 'no idea what to do with myself' type of person I really appreciated your learnings from 2021 video
I’m in the same situation… living alone, in early 20s, love to cook and workout (two things that calms me down), moved from my country to America to get education, failed relationships and worrying about not being able to get married and have kids“on time”😩… I feel sooooo relatable that’s why I LOVE your videos so much
Funnily enough I’ve been in a personal funk these past few days and this video really helped! I love your content with all my heart and they all fill me with so much serotonin. Love you Doobs xo
Am/was going through a bit of a sour patch of my own, but watching this oddly helped calm a lot of the nerves I was feeling. Thank you, as always, for your genuine and authentic content! Wishing you more happiness in your journey - whatever that is!
I love how everytime I finish one of your video I feel happy and optimistic. And I want to say your stayle of editing is amazing, thumbs up for the subtitled touch
I relate so much to the “after hours” portion of this. I fall in love with learning new things and the more I learn the more “flaws” I see, but I reframe it as learning opportunities. I love looking back and seeing growth though. Another awesome video ☺️
I have been so anxious recently and felt like nothing is in my control, so thank you so much for posting this. Like you, I graduated from college in 2020, and there’s just so many waves of feeling like you’re killing it and there are so many times when everything feels like everything is falling apart. It’s a little bit consoling to know that I’m not alone, and I hope that the following week turns out better for the both of us!! 💓
This is the first video I have ever watched from you and I must admit it is one amazing video. I loved every second of it, from your childish humor to your honest fears and life philosophy. I can't help but relate to you as we seem to be in similar situations. Of course I can't say much as this is the only video I have seen from you, but you can bet I will follow allong as we, like the bubbles on your bathtub, swirl our way through life. For anyone who reads my comment, don't forget to always move forwards, have dreams and goals. Even if life doesn't look good now, keep your chin up and stay hydrated because life will get better.
My Filipino heart when you pulled out that San Miguel beer. 🍺 Really love your content. Same feels about cooking giving a sense of control. Hoping to cook with you someday. Love you all the way from Philippines. 💗
gotta say i found your channel a few days ago and im about to turn 24. watching you live your life so fully and confidently and how you film it is a huge inspiration ☺️
Your videos make me feel less alone in this crazy world stuck with all the "how do I get there" and "why am I doing this" questions I keep asking. I hope you find your way on your own two feet and continue to grow. Thank you for the effort you put into creating for us and best of luck in all your endeavors 💛
You’re a straight 10/10! The right person will come into your life when it’s the right time. Singledom is a great stage to be embraced. Whoever gets you would be so lucky ❤️🙏🏾 thanks for your great content
It's so heartwarming to watch you, it feels like I'm all alone and I watch you and you inspire me in some way I'm not sure, your vlogs calm me down and I really needed that, thank you Tina
Yea I think taking your time and using all these different hobbies and avenues to express yourself as well as contemplate on dreams is a great way of making the best out of situations and finding out new things about yourself, a relationship is both underrated and overrated at the same time, more power didn't think I needed this video for myself as well.
One thing I struggled with when living alone is that when I cook, I always cook for 2-3 persons, so I always end up eating the same dish for the next 3 meals. It's hard to cook for 1 person unless you are eating instant foods
I’m 23 and should have graduated college last year if everything had gone “to plan”. But I’m transferring colleges again and changing my major... again... I also moved back to my home town to live with my grandparents so I could help them out more and went from a big university to a small community college. I feel like I am moving backwards and I struggle with the thought of how much I should have achieved by now, especially when I look at others my age. It’s hard to remember how important it is to not compare yourself to others and that going at your own pace will lead to the best result in the long run.
Needed this video, been feeling so overwhelmed and stressed about school and kinda wanting a relationship. Cooking always helps and your perspective of being fully in control of it is def why I feel so calm and happy making some good ass food because nothing else matters at that moment and I'm fully into the process. Thanks.
I'm a 23 yr old dude, soon to be 24 and I feel the same way. Haven't even had a formal relationship yet. You aren't the only one out there. It does feel good knowing there are others out there who I can relate to - and for that, I really do appreciate you opening up on it. Your content is awesome btw, keep it up.
Like many others, this video popped out into my recommendations as well. Well a few times as I skipped the first few times due to the title and thumbnail ( I thought it was those kind of self help video that I didn't really need at that time as I was really stressed out about life). Not sure why but I clicked it when it got recommended today and I was surprised by how comforting this video is. I'm also currently trying to figure out my life, after graduating about a year ago and just nose dived straight into my first job, I felt kinda lost but recently I'm slowly gaining control, not much but its still progress! Thanks for making this video, it was really comforting.
I’m so inspired by you girl! And don’t worry bout being single, it’s when you stop looking that your new S.O. present themselves. Keep doing you and when you get lonely, visit the doggos! 🐾
Everytime you drink beer, that delicious throaty gulping and that breath of satisfaction reminds me of the beer commercials when I lived in Japan. Looks so delicious.
I was living alone (single) for six years before meeting my husband. Before that, I was married for 15 years and had my kids living with me. They are adults now living their own life. Yes, living along (single) can be lonely most of the time. But I would spend time doing things alone and for myself. Focused on me. I learned to take care of me and enjoy myself. Don’t rely on someone else (dependency) to make you happy and content. You are doing really good. Keep it up! :-)
12:58 Same Doobs same :") I've been on a really rough patch for the past few days and it literally feels like there's no end to this bullshit. Thanks for the video, I feel relaxed watching it. Sending you all my love and hugs♡
Fiancé left me at the beginning of the month, first time in 7 years I spent Valentines Day alone. It hadn’t been a week and they already moved on. Everything I’ve ever done was with someone else and for someone else. And now what I have no one I didn’t know what to do, but after watching this I’m going to start working on myself. I’m nervous about what I’ll do with my life now, but I guess I’ll have to figure it out on my way.
I feel you Tina! I just went through a breakup too and as much as I believe I’ve gotten over it, sometimes I have these moments where I feel really really sad. My parents also put an emphasis on my “timing” and it’s stressing me out even though 24 (25 next week omg) is actually still young!! Don’t worry Tina, I believe we will get through this and come out stronger than ever. Take this time to relax, focus on ourselves, we don’t need a guy to complete us. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. Sending you lots of love ❤️
Your videos never fail to make my day and I always find myself coming back to your videos to get a little peace from all the chaos in life, so I just wanted to say, thank you so much for making these videos🙆🏻♀️💖
so glad this vlog popped up in my recommendations. this was so calming to watch. i too am 24 and feel so under pressure to find someone ahhhh! thank you for making me feel not so alone❤️
Tina you're so relatable and inspiring! I've always known that I enjoyed baking and it distresses me. But I've never been able to describe the real reasons why, and today I've found my answer :) thank you ❤
I love how she didn't use any electronic devices while eating... it's so rare to find people just eating & concentrate on the food. not sure if that's her usual behaviour or for the video. but honestly people looking at me strangely while eating or drinking if I don't have my phone to look. enjoy the meal yo
Being “single” can be an absolute thriller/horror film that never ends at the credits. And the credits read: Director: me | Producer: me | stylist: me 🥸🧎🏻🤦🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🍾🎉 keep it up Doobs! I needed to watch this tonight because the monotony of day to day can become oh so dull unless you yourself create magic, and you are. So cheer up. I am making kimchi fried rice tomorrow morning with a lager to test your mood grading scale 🥸🤓🤞🏻
i am embarrassed to admit the amount of times i've watched this video strictly just to make your tomato onion meal....honestly so good. I should write it down, but watching it is so much better! Thanks for being aesthetically pleasing!
Well this hits close to home, my sanity is saved by singing and tiring my dog by talking to him all the time. Thanks for the content I wish I knew people like you
Watching doobys videos while eating homecooked meals is the best way to destress and relax. I m so greatful for these videos. I love that she mostly uses subtitles as well, helps with my autistic sensory overload
I was so addicted to the clips on YT that it took me a while to realize there was a channel but boy am I glad I found it. Easily one of my favorite episodes, everything about it was chef’s kiss.
This video was so calming to watch, I’m really falling in love with your content, Dooby! also the parallel to Emily in Paris of dooby in Seoul with a leek had me laughing so hard🤣 you’re hilarious
I can't believe how well made this was. Anybody that calls this a vlog is wrong, it felt like a mini movie. I'm very excited I came across this video, hopefully people will pick upon your style. Concise, artistic and meaningful.
Dooby, honestly you dont need to urgently like be with someone who is not ur type of a life partner .. look tina ur still young and if ur parents got married at ur age who cares people change when time change at their time it was common to marry some one at a young age and ur still young u have time .. just do it ur way that u like ... be yourself and let ur soul tell u what to do ... dont be pressurised.. doobyy.. we all love uu
Thanks for letting us in on some of the highlights of your day! I look forward to more of your cooking!I I'm also living by myself, and honestly I could relate to the anxieties too especially the "being single" part and living alone too. I get pushed on a lot from all sides to get married, my boss, my mum, they're telling me to get the deed done. Its like fighting "I want to marry too", "what if it doesnt work out", "my boss is asking me to marry too" all at the same time. Like you said, not in control. I picked cooking as a stress relief too, after eating what I managed to cooked at the end of the day, there you have that sense of control! Cheers and have a cheerful life ahead full of ridiculously tasty food!
