Out With The Old, In With The New: Ann Marie Adam v Rafael Rodriguez pt 1 

I have no sympathies for a woman who moves in with a man after 3 days with two young daughters. I'm not saying he's a sex offender but the risk is awfully high when you have non bio man living with a single mother and cohabiting with them

Judge Lynn would have flipped. You dont move in with no guy and you dont take your kids to move in with a stranger

her poor judgment is a danger to her children

She wasn't a successful cosmetologist if she left her business and clients behind for a man in 3 days. She was looking for a way out of something.

As an adult you come to realze that "instantly hitting it off" with someone could be a very dangerous trap. That's how people end up in toxic relationships with narcissists.

If my Kids mom moved my daughter in with a guy she knew 3 days, I would have a problem.

THESE WOMEN ARE VERY CARELESS WITH THEIR CHILDREN AND NEW MAN

I definitely think that when people are OVER protective and overbearing in a relationship, it's a RED FLAG! 🚩 it's one thing to care and another to be narcissistic and controlling!

Watching her doing prom girls hair?? NO way!!!

I dont understand why she's mad at him. She moved in with a complete stranger.

Moving her girls into a strange man's house after 3 days!! What!!

I enjoy Judge Star, but I do not believe that you have to tell a man every step that you make.....The Judge gave him leverage to believe that he was right. He is insecure and sounds dangerous... You cannot love a person more than you love yourself. I don't like the fact that she is talking about her daughters when SHE is the one who subjected her daughters to a perfect stranger. Red flags to the maximum degree.

Honestly this relationship sounds abusive and toxic!

We don't need a next time on this case. We good.

Ain’t no way I’m moving in with nobody in 3 days. Ion care how much we hit it off!! You got girls!! Smh

Judge Star was missing the mark here. If he doesn't like how she dances, leave the relationship. If he can't trust her to go to work, he should leave her. They clearly didn't set expectations on how they would operate within their relationship so going full hulk on a grown woman b/c she doesn't act how you think she should is not okay, at all. Her moving in after 3 days and staying on the phone with him while at work is crazy... They seem to enjoy their toxic relationship.

3:19 - You moved in after 3 days of knowing him with your two daughters??? Girl BYE! I REFUSE to listen to the rest of this!

Tell her Judge Star she is showing her daughter's that this is how you are supposed to allow a man to treat you, STOP THE CYCLE BEFORE MARRYING THAT MESS OF A MAN , SMH 😡 💯

Bet he cheating or has been cheated on micro managing her like that. Also she dumb running off within a man to live with him in a week, especially when she has two vulnerable girls.

3 days, 2 daughters and 100 miles away! Absolutely reckless!!!

Another bad mother. These women should not be responsible for children when they make such irrational life choices themselves.

If she stays, she's going to end up dead. Leave NOW!

If she had the ability to shut up and listen, she might be able to hear her own words and how diametrically opposed she is to a successful life. She is her own worst enemy!! EXHAUSTING!

Both of them….. need to go their separate ways…. Period, point blank!!!

I know we shouldnt compare judges but cases like this one. I can just hear Judge Toler fussing ar her foe moving in with him and telling her to run and giving her a copy of her book. Judge Star fussed at her more than she did him like she caused his behavior, smh

Judge Star was off on this one & definitely had an attitude... this couple needs to separate

You better leave that fool Alone!!!! Red flags are blowing a Warning to you!!! So embarrassing!!

The earring is KILLING ME!!! In the words of KRS 1...sort of, strike, 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5!!! Bye. They are not compatible. Plus she moved in in 3 days? What kind of Root he put on her? Smh.

I really think its child endangerment to be move your kids in with a stranger.

Girl, RUN, and I mean RUN fast because he is showing signs of DANGER and ABUSE

Judge Lynn would have gave her the business for moving in with a stranger with her young daughters in tow

...3 days???? I don't even wanna hear what she has to say

She doesn’t realize that, when you point a finger at somebody, there are three pointing at you. She kept accusing him for this and for that, but she instigated her own shit towards him. Also, having three children and moving in with a guy after only three days of dating, is everything but carefully planning. How could she know she was moving with a pedophile, or a violent man, or a thief, or whatever, if she moved her kids and herself with a man she didn’t even know his existence three days before they met?!?

Nah. The judge didn’t cuss him out enough for smacking that drink out her hand and pulling her out the club for me.

He's escalating, RUN. There's no way Im sitting on facètime and risking my business for anybody. So if we have to break up, BYE.

Judge Star is just wrong today!

The judge missed the mark on this one. Darling...you should leave. Run. Literally breakup, delete and block this man. He is completely controlling and the judge was not hard enough on that point. People like him usually end up killing their spouses... Im genuinely fearful for her

Man!!! Judge Lynn you should have called in on this BS.!! Judge Star Nope!, you are basically agreeing with this Foolishness!! Girl get your daughters and get Gone!!

He might be her worst nightmare in life. She better RUN

Oh the judge was way out of line! He is beyond controlling! You maybe in a relationship but you dont own her!

It irritates me that judge Star keeps diminishing his actions. His actions are not acceptable. When you're grown you're responsible for your own actions.

She's a fool to remain with him on any level. I feel he could be dangerous to her physically.

Am I reaching thinking it’s child abuse to move your kids in with a man you only knew for 3 days ?

I thought I could finish this, but the wife talks a good game but she's still out here making chickenhead moves. He is a straight control freak.

Star’s advice is dangerous to women. I miss Judge Lynn, ugh…

SHE DONT CARE ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS

I'm so disappointed she moved in with a man she only knew for three days WITH HER DAUGHTERS!!! Don't know if he's a child molester, don't know if he'd rape her daughters, don't know nothin about this man! ... SMH!!!

I thank my mom for her example

Star is full of it in this one, accusing her of grinding on woman! He’s controlling !!! She’s letting him off the hook!!

WHO ELSE WAS HE WATCHING CREEPY

Judge was wrong on this one. He was completely out of line and she should not have to update him on her whereabouts every minute of the day. Also what kind of mother just moves her and her kids in with some stranger after 3 days…?

I am curious to know if Judge Lynn is watching Judge Star episodes?

I miss Judge Lynn Toler. She was the best for the job.

HE SOUNDS PARANOID. HE FOLLOWED HER THERE.

I don't even want to watch part 2 I am finished with this BS!😂😂

She could not be bothered to pick up the phone and text that she is going to a bar after work, but can have him watching her baud teenage girls' hair? I am not excusing his behavior at all but she is silly. From moving in with him immediately with her kids and putting up with the stalking and controlling behavior.

The judge is way off on this one.

My granny always said this, “you don’t poop where you eat!!!!

Cateribg to him and paying attention to him??? Oh dear, such a huge jump into a relationship.

If stuck on stupid was a person. If zippy head Fred was front and center. Ain’t no fixing him. He is who is.

Her advice is horrible! This man is controlling, and the lady should be careful. I hope this lady listens to her heart

Upload more judge Mablean episodes please

Judge Star really missed the target this time!

Can't stand when someone said he's controlling bc he wants to know where you at if you gonna be in a relationship with someone you gotta communicate basic communication folk

Yeah she needs to leave him ASAP

He's a narcissist

He has NO right to put his hands on her.... she also needs to be more respectful of the relationship with her actions!

I feel bad for her 2 daughters, and she should have NEVER put her girls in this living situation because I just know that they have seen this male abuse their Mom.

She had every right to dance and have fun! He’s not her dad!

Sometimes when we meet someone and see red flags, we need to watch out. We need to nip it in the bud.

Trendy words. I love that part

Desperate women end up with controlling, over bearing men. He’s too much I would feel suffocated and LEAVE. But then again she got with him after 1-2-3!!! 3! 3! DAAAYYSS!!

Nope! He’s outta control! You’ll have to sleep with one eye open!

Exactly...my wife's job don't allow spouses to attend their annual Christmas parties, she's worked for the same company for nearly 20 years and I've never been to one

They are not good together. Diminishing red flag behaviors, her acting inappropriately, him being too controlling. Neither see the error of their ways either. Split up.

3 Days 🤦🏽‍♀️

One of the worst couples I've seen in Divorce Court!!

The key words he said here are “ I’m stuck in my ways”. So she either has to accept his “controlling "behavior or move on🤷🏾‍♀️, cause he ain’t changing, because he sees NOTHING wrong with his actions.

Girl run the other way!!!!

She sounds desperate. It's gross. She put herself and her children in a very dangerous situation.

This woman is irritating as hell.

DON'T MARRY HIM

Judge Star is missing the control issue. Girls do go out and have fun dancing together. His reaction is over the Top!

3:29 immediate NO 6:10 & another one. That break-up would’ve been fine by me because why would anyone want to continue their life that way

They never leave guys like this, but if you're too nice they will leave you in a heartbeat I don't get it.

Pretty Lady. She Reminds Me of a Young Angela BofiL. Esp. With That Hairstyle. 😍

Oooohhh a 2 part it's going to be gooood

This lady cannot shut up

Miss, YOU need to RUN!❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏼

Naw run woman he too much ❤ ok nvm they both off the chain 🤦🏽‍♀️

When was it said that she was on the dance floor tonguing the other female

Men always want to fix the RELATIONSHIP when they get caught CHEATING. He love bombed her HE'S CHEATING SO HE THINKS SHE IS CHEATING ALSO. SHE should leave that SITUATIONSHIP. That man sounds like a NARCISSIST he is TO CONTROLLING. He is RIDICULOUS girl get out while you can.

Left a 10 year "toxic" relationship, only to jump into another one after three days! With two DAUGHTERS!!! As parents, we don't have the right to be reckless and irresponsible with our children's safety and wellbeing. Ever! ...I can't with this case...🙄

Sis, you don’t move on with a man you knew online for 3 days!

So stupid to uproot and move 100 miles away with someone you don't know , and the bad part is you have daughters . I mean how desperate and dumb can you be ! His actions are red flags !! Your actions are just dumb . Praying for your daughters 😢

She moved in too soon.but I do understand why people dont call their partner everytime they go out for a drink after work. Many times couples disrespect each other because they dont have boundaries. Before cell phones we called each other's job or home if we were going to be late coming home. Most couples havè to establish what they are comfortable with or not. Is it normal to go out after work. Then the partner doesn't get upset.but if one deviates the norm, it arouses suspicion. Many females dance together. When they go out and they are friends and no men are there. Even if men are there females will just dance together or dance alone. This is a toxic relationships. She jumped into this relationship too soon. Culture differences.

The plantif is all about herself. She isn't thinking about her daughters. Normally office parties are only for employees unless a bigger event. He didn't want the plantif at the party. He is embarrassed by the plantif.

One time should does not explain away his stalking and obsessiveness. She didn’t tell him because he was going to Harass her the whole time. Judge is right you’re. Not gonna FaceTime S step by step while I do my teenage child . Boi Bye

Judge Lynn where are you Here is the truth 1. She move in with him within 3 days with her daughters 2. She move in with him for a come up remember he has a great Job so did she really have a Business she wouldn't have walk away so easy No 3. He is controlling he came to the bar too get her cause he knows he will never trust her so when you act controlling eventually the person will lie because you never believe anything that comes out of her mouth so she will lie to you but you will never aknknowledge that your controlling what she said how she work herself was all game looking for monetary gain she was willing to put her daughters life in danger to move in with a stranger I know he is paying all the bills what did she expect from a Man she hardly knew like I said he is comeup for Financial Gain

Her first mistake was, moving in with him in 3 days. Now anything can happen. Being in a committed relationship is not only about you. Her girls are taking their lead from her.