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Watch the BBC first on iPlayer 👉 bbc.in/iPlayer... Paddy McGuinness and Paul Scholes have a very candid conversation about the highs and lows of raising children with autism.
In this raw documentary, Paddy and Christine McGuinness meet other parents, experts, and people on the autism spectrum to better understand their children.
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@alexg5513 2 года назад

So brave to talk so openly and just how hard it is on the parents. We are all just people who are just trying to muddle through and make the best decisions possible. 💜💜💜

@myaphextwin807 Год назад

It's the risk an adult takes when they decide to have children. You can have a child who doesn't have a condition but is an absolute nightmare. Choose an easier life, stay childless

@kerryholland4822 5 месяцев назад

@@myaphextwin807 they still should be able to talk openly about their struggles and raise awareness. That's how people learn and how parents can support each other to find better approaches to parenting

@gchriskonrath09 2 года назад

Kind of curious, we know what people feel about dealing with autism, but, do they know what a person with autism is feeling, our biggest problem is trying to get people to understand what we are, we think and feel like you but are unable to say it

@MrAckers75 2 года назад

Me and my wife was lucky and my son was diagnosed pretty quickly but it took me a while to get my head around it all. Since he started going to school we can’t believe how far he has come and it’s an absolute joy to see him grow and learn new things.

@Erinba Год назад

What is the treatment for autism?

@MrAckers75 Год назад

@@Erinba There’s no treatment

@Erinba Год назад

@@MrAckers75 so how far he has come is just by doing coping strategies and knowing triggers and stuff?

@MrAckers75 Год назад

@@Erinba my son wasn’t even verbal till he went to school now I can’t shut him up lol. He doesn’t like loud noises so we have ear defenders everywhere we go but the best thing to do is routine and he is very happy

@Erinba Год назад

@@MrAckers75 that is so nice to hear 🥰 wishing you all the best!

@sandramercado2691 2 года назад

I can understand my grand son 8 years old is Autistic first have to accept then learn with him so many things .

@stasysuter9939 Год назад

I have always had great respect for Paul Scholes the way he has conducted himself through his football career. That respect has just gone to another level good luck to you and your lovely family.

@teslaandhumanity7383 2 года назад

I had 2 autistic kids and they weren’t diagnosed till nearly adults , spread the awareness

@DavidManifield 4 месяца назад

My son has it and I'm glad now he's 18 he doesn't want to see me anymore

@philipwhatcott1964 Год назад

My son has autism and his friend who also has autisms mam was telling me that he has a problem with crying babies. They were on a bus and a baby was crying none stop. He was getting so worked up, that they had to leave the bus way before their stop. As they got off and passed the screaming baby, he shouted at the mother and told her the baby was ugly! His mam was was beyond mortified and apologised to the mother. People just don't understand what we go through. Bus journeys normally turn out to be a nightmare.

@DavidManifield 4 месяца назад

My son turned into a lying nasty person,I don't see him anymore and I'm glad,I've more respect for my step kids

@D50Music Год назад

As a kid with Aspergers, it felt lonely, everything can be frustrating and we don’t need to be ‘dealt with’ just listened to and understood by what we’re trying to say

@Beekind799 Год назад

DRINK 500ML VOLVIC MINERAL WATER DAILY FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS,WILL YOU LET ME KNOW HOW YOU FEEL

@b.visconti1765 2 года назад

Lordy..it was hard enough bringing up 4 children who are well with families an now are in their 30's an 40's an I believe have the full use of their fatilities (most times) to also include a child with special needs ..Bless You for showing us the Very Best Side of Human Nature..

@andyb3666 4 дня назад

I don’t think you meant it to sound that way, but children with autism aren’t not “well” nor do they not have “full use of their faculties”.

@D5DRIFT Год назад

Regardless of fame, wealth, popularity, we are all the same. Fair play to Paul for opening up, and to paddy for being caring and compassionate

@travel-center-uk 2 года назад

Very good point made 0:58 you learnt to start seeing the signals 👏

@collydub1987 Год назад

I have a son with special needs and I totally understand what the lads are saying, especially Paddy when he said he always had a knot in his stomach when he was out and about. Basically impossible to live a normal life most of the time. It's hard.

@JV-lq9gp 2 года назад

Outstanding documentary.

@curtlestown 2 года назад

Sounds like Daily hard work. I cant even imagine it. Keep up the good work.

@gerweston656 Год назад

Scholesy and Paddy thank you so much for this … the people looking at you or your child when they’re behaving a bit different than a ‘typical’ kid .. you said it best Scholesy ‘F@cK ‘em’… the lads struggle a lot because we don’t speak about our feelings thank you for this

@teslaandhumanity7383 2 года назад

Brilliant programme

@trotterhorsewatsonjr.6668 2 года назад

I am so glad that my generation and future generations, we are finally acknowledging flaws in us all!! And are not shufing them off to some nut house.....we can't go backwards.

@fenlandwildlifeclips 2 года назад

cheers for that. Us autistic folk are flawed are we?

@trotterhorsewatsonjr.6668 2 года назад

@@fenlandwildlifeclips ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@trotterhorsewatsonjr.6668 2 года назад

@@fenlandwildlifeclips please understand and yet we are ALL flawed. We can sometimes see it and sometimes it takes awhile to see it.

@StratsRUs 2 года назад

Great player.

@garciajero 2 месяца назад

i still struggling with not caring what people think , but i’m working on it

@georgemadigan4961 Год назад

There is an American lead team of people working around our country called Project Search. They teach young and older children with conditions which "normal/everyday" schools cannot or will not deal with. These people are brilliant and deserve help and support from those fortunate enough to be able to give it. Those in late teenage years are given training and help to find jobs which are paid. We under value the skills that children/young adults with difficulties can offer us.I know that some from Project Search youngsters have gone on to great positions in the workplace. Well done project search.

@jasonlogan8048 Год назад

God bless both of you guys and your family

@ianhandley4116 Год назад

Much prefer this version of Paddy than the clownish one on Top Gear. Respect for both fathers. 👊

@northleedspoppa Год назад

As autistic adult i find nothing more repulsive than parents lining up for the pat on the back for being tolerant of their own autistic children

@andyb3666 4 дня назад

I think I understand what you mean, but to me it doesn’t seem like they’re doing that? Just talking about what their experiences are like. But some of the commenters here are going that way.

@d8456 6 месяцев назад

I knew this kid once who was acoustic... he was great on the guitar 🎸 😂

@daveclark3337 Год назад

Scholesy .. what a player, what a man

@Phil_Mitchell Год назад

What a legend for fondling his daughters feet and chewing her toenails!

@daveclark3337 Год назад

@@Phil_Mitchell who doesn’t do that though? Hahaha

@danbaseley5268 8 месяцев назад

I have two children with my ex partner who - ironically - runs a school for children with learning disabilities. When I suggested that our youngest was assessed she stated: "No. Autism is a label he will be stuck with for the rest of his life. I'm not allowing it"

@tysonbrown1277 6 дней назад

Where can i find this documentary

@dvrn86 Год назад

Top lad is Paul Scholes 👏

@1985JM 10 месяцев назад

Notice how it’s always my son who has autism & never my daughter 🤔 paddy’s son will have a tougher life ahead than his daughters .

@anthonymartyn5590 Год назад

My name is kate but I use my husband's account lol, I had a uncle when I was young and people used to call mad Johnnie but now as a middle aged woman I think he was autistic but people didn't know much about this year's ago,I don't think of people with autism as having something wrong with them,I just think they are different to everyday run of mill people and lots of so called normal people have odd little ways they just hid it better.

@bobblesV4.0 2 года назад

👍 top guy. X

@krugerfuchs Год назад

The haircuts could be a sensory issue

@anne-mariecallanan4290 Год назад

Legend

@kuitaranheatmorus9932 2 года назад

Interesting

@daveysgb Год назад

Is this part of a bigger documentary?

@lisagillam5785 Год назад

Yes, it’s a documentary on BBC IPlayer. Paddy and Christine McGuinness: Our Family and Autism

@daveysgb Год назад

@@lisagillam5785 really appreciate that, thank you.

@lisagillam5785 Год назад

@@daveysgb You are welcome, if you want to hear more about Paul talking about his son Aidan, search: The Overlap, with Paul Scholes and Gary Neville.

@daveysgb Год назад

@@lisagillam5785 thanks, I've seen it. Followed Utd all my life and that was the first I'd heard about his son. I wanted to hear him talking to another father like Paddy who he could relate to more about it.

@elingrome5853 Год назад

Autism was almost unheard of 50 years ago..... then something changed...

@chicotheblue 2 года назад

I knaw, I knaw, yea, yea.

@user-vo5kk8of8s 2 года назад

🤲🇵🇸ساعدوني يا اهل الخير اتمنى من الله فاعل خير يرحم اطفالي انا من فلسطين غزة حياتي وحياة اطفالي الله اعلم فيها يارب غيث يارب 🇵🇸🤲🤲🇵🇸

@user-lz5nj7ft1d 2 года назад

اخيرا وبعد طول انتظار نزلنا اغنيه اترو مناسبة وصوله الي 12 مليون اغنية نار 🔥رح تنصدمون منها شوفوها هي اخر فيديو نزلت😈😈

@seagullgaming3873 2 года назад

@krugerfuchs Год назад

Something's different Paddy not wrong

@collydub1987 Год назад

Diluting it doesn't help anyone. Clearly there is something wrong, and not just different. I have a son with special needs and I wish FOR HIM that he was ok. There is no point in beating around the bush about disability.

@thefuturist8864 Год назад

We have to look behind the words being used to what’s actually being said, and nothing about what Paddy or Paul is saying suggests that either feels that autism is ‘wrong’. People’s choice of words in everyday conversation are often indicators of meaning rather than direct signifiers.

@ez_dan9423 2 года назад

One of the first.

@jonathanrussell594 2 года назад

Probably a good documentary.. I'm not listening to Paddy McGuinness murder the word parenting. 🤔 😁

@bodybeatritual6827 Год назад

No judgement, but if you've got your kid in a headlock to cut their hair, don't cut their hair.

@DavidDavid-tr6pi 2 года назад

Boris Johnson == Richard Nixon..

@tammystratford7079 2 года назад

Something "wrong" with him. That's sad. They're differently abled.

@jimbob2057 7 месяцев назад

Jesus... he's a bloke from a working class background raised in the late 70's and kicked a bag of wind about for a living, just stop with the politically correct nonsense. If he would have said "and we knew there was something not right" would that have been more acceptable. Get a grip, we all knew what he meant

@terrypage358 6 месяцев назад

Until you've lived it I wouldn't pick at words people use to describe the hell they are going through in that moment.

@tammystratford7079 6 месяцев назад

2 time brain trauma survivor Currently listed as an Ontarian with a disability. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.@@terrypage358

@chrisburgess2398 6 месяцев назад

There’s a lot to be said for straight talking. There is something wrong with him. That doesn’t mean Scholes doesn’t love him. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t count or that he can’t be a special person.

@jessicakenny1768 6 месяцев назад

@@chrisburgess2398I'm autistic; I'm disabled but there is nothing "wrong" with me.

@user-fn4lt6mn6c Месяц назад

Used to think Paul scholes was miserable and boring but he’s just a normal fella from oldham who happens to be one of the greatest midfielders of the prem and to hear him talk about this so open I was wrong to ever think that