Parental Alienation, the abuse explained, unapologetically - from an alienated parent - speech 

I Agree🎬, this Behavior COURT ASSISTED⭐️IS DISGUSTING, GROSS ABUSE FROM PICK POCKETS

We all need to meet up online. I am not a parent- the parent did this to me. Abuse, isolation, gossip, bullying & now relatives are afraid of me.

Thank you. Yes, I agree, there's an agenda - it doesn't make sense and that shows there's a pathogen and an agenda

Thank you

I think the courts only care about the money. The long drawn out custody battles are expensive. But these poor children have a higher risk of suicide. For 40 years the courts have been giving full custody of abused children TO THE ABUSER. They know what they're doing

Very well said also Gary. Thank you. Jack

You nailed it friend.

Thank you. Yes, it's enough to break a person in every way imaginable. You're all in my / our prayers also. Jack

Yes indeed. But this is not what is happening in the situation we're speaking up about, and it's not what our charity is about. Many thanks for you valued comment.

​@paawarenessuk so how does your charity distinguish between a situation like what I mentioned where an adult child rightfully seeks separation and independence from an abusive parent, and a situation where a parent has been unjustly excluded from the lives of there adult children?

@@Wrent_Free Thank you for your question. We're not here to distinguish between the two or help them get their children back - we're here to raise awareness, to help them regain some sense of reality, to teach them what's happening i.e. narcissistic abuse, to validate, help them learn what's needed for when their child returns, and to help them bring some basic quality of wellbeing back into their daily lives before they sink too low and take their own lives in many cases. That said, how does one distinguish between the two .. The child's age is a good place to start. Age 6 months. Age 3. Age 8. Age 13 .. ages too young to make the rational decision to 'estrange'. These 'parentified' children who also use adult words, the words of the gatekeeping parent, information they should not have knowledge of (like details of the breakup, or finances etc.) are not common to the child's vocabulary or context. Other ways one can distinguish are looking at the timeline, also hearing how the child has treated the parent. Also, listen to Jack Goodings, the words he's saying is not common to what happens with abusive parent / child dynamic; the abusive parent generally has others around them believing the rejected parent is the abusive one - the rejected parent finds him/herself often isolated and falling into deep depression, with others pointing fingers. Abused parents don't tend to speak up. Abused children also do not reject a parent, typically, without other influence. And at the house, a non abusive parent would not typically erase the 'other' parent. Dr Amy Baker's 17 Alienating Behaviours, that might be a good reference point in answer to your valid question; these 17 behaviours are commonplace textbook, but there are more. This is not about 'estrangement' from abusive parent. It could be 'estrangement' from the way the parent has reacted to the rejection and abuse, but it comes initially from alienation, the parent has already been rejected, where there was a prior good relationship and no safeguarding issue. Your question is a good one, and it's one that these abused parents sadly are dealing with also. There are parents out there who's adult children estrange from them out of necessity, but there's a lot of grief with that, it takes a lot, years generally (due to the trauma bonding effects) and it doesn't present itself the same way as alienation. Thank you for your comment, I hope this answer has been helpful.

Thank you. From the heart. It was an incredible conference with over 60 alienated parents and grandparents there

Thank you. The day was incredible

Thank you Georgia. Jack

In UK, each county has a PA support group, found through Facebook and info@paawareness.co.uk. These conferences you're watching here (the speech from Jack Goodings) are annually. The last one was in Somerset.

Hard to realize that, it's true though isn't it. Thank you for that comment

Parental ALIENATION is court assisted, A NATIONAL EMERGENCY />>FOR INVESTIGATION

Children need Both Parents ❤

@@georgiakritikos4955 children need healthy parents

Some parents also never should have had children

I don't know much about that Georgia. How did it go?

I'm so sorry Anna. This is a whole added load of issues on top of the first lot of the grieving, isn't it. The grief doesn't go away does it, even after my 17 years, even after your 23 years .. and even when / if they return after so many years. I think I need to do a video on this. Thank you for sharing this. Keep well. Jack

16 years. I'm over it. My heart has closed the door. I'm now free and I have no shame. I have no guilt. My life, my soul are now mine.

@@jackgoodingsyes- this would be so helpful. The grieving for the many years lost, memories missed, bonds with grandchildren never made. The grief is so real and unbearable at times. The not knowing outcomes, questioning if this will last forever, fear to get our hopes up at reconciliation, etc. And social media makes it all the more torturous if your adult child posts pics of the grandchild you’ve never met, with all of the other relatives enjoying time with her. All I can do is pray for my daughters heart to open up to seeing the truth, and for the safety of my granddaughter as she is now in the middle of it and has no idea that I exist.

Yes. It's somehow become so much worse now. I believe a lot to do with it is media, Internet, school and the ability to do so, with solicitors stirring the pot, and our legal system enabling and condoning this.

@@jackgoodings It's more about people not giving a shit what affects their children. Only caring/being able to see their own feelings/ how it affects them. It's a problem with severe insecurity. Thinking you need to fully tear someone else down in order to be viewed as valuable? Boomers fucked their kids up pretty badly.

Yes indeed. It's criminal