What helped me the most with raising my children was the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. It is honestly a game changer
I would pay them back but it’s not like I asked to be born lmao. I’ll take care of you as you get older, but it’s not like you asked to get old either.
sometimes when the kid is being screamed at and told "stop crying" they gonna cry harder cause they afraid and dont want their mom or dad to go even more ham on them
That's actually an evolutionary thing. They didn't need it to grow up and become parents (the biggest sucess, in the eyes of evolution, is to pass on your genes on the best way possible), so they see it as unnecessary, or even a threat. There is a video from Vsauce called "Juvenoia" about this. I suggest watching it, so you can understand why your mom blamed your cellphone for a stomach ache (she actually tried to do this with me :/)
My grandma always talks to her dog like he's a person, just calmly saying things like, "You really shouldn't be on the table, you know that's not for you." and he ACTUALLY understands and gets off the table... idk how she trained him without even trying
dogs can pick up the context of your words and the tone behind them. A dog knows that words like “no” and “not” mean it’s something they shouldn’t be doing
TheFirstTime their job is to offer good service to their customers. Surprise surprise! Customers don’t want to be in a dirty environment. Service workers are not ur janitors unless they literally r
Parents who complain that their kids are on their phones too much are probably the same ones who gave their kids an ipad at a really yound age to keep them quiet.
My daughter (3) just got an iPad as a gift from a rich work client. I thought okay 30 minutes per day of educational games shouldn't do harm. Nope she started demanding the iPad all day and cried when the 30 minutes was up so it's gone until she can understand a little better.
I learned a lot from this because I keep threatening my little brother with violence when he doesn’t help when I just shouldn’t I should raise him to to appreciate what he gets
tbh i’ve always watched his videos and come out with life lessons!! even the rants,, dom always seems to have a really nice concluding script that leaves me feeling good :)
Unfortunately there are some important things in early childhood that children need to learn and positive reinforcement is the only way to help them learn. Like potty training. It's using a type of Operant Conditioning to help the child transition to use the toilet over wearing nappies by using praise and encouragement while avoiding reinforcing negative unwanted behaviours like wetting themselves. It's exhausting to be a parent, but having managed to get a kid to 20 years old, happy and healthy is an enormously rewarding experience. But sometimes you have to get creative, crafty and cunning to get your child to perform certain behaviours before they are capable for having a reasoned conversation about it. My son didn't talk clearly, or at all before he was 7 years old. We couldn't have the type of communication between us that other kids his age did with their parents. But we learned to communicate via baby sign language before they were 18 months old. It really helped!
"Mom I slipped." "WOW HOW CARELESS YOU TRIPPED ON YOUR TOYS AGAIN GO CLEAN UP SERVES YOU RIGHT." "Mom... you hid my toys because I didn't want to study."
When books were invented in ancient Greek every scholar said that kids couldn't live without books and also argued that BOOKS ARE BAD and the fact that people say we read less books than people used to is false we actually read MORE BOOKS NOT LESS Sorry
How to answer back- “I didn’t ask to be born” “That was your decision” “How am I supposed to live up to that? I’m a dude!” Or “Using I carried you for 9 months to win an argument doesn’t help prove your point. It’s just another bit of guilt that you are using to win. And using guilt is a terrible way to win an argument. An argument is meant to learn something or understand something. You have to use information to win, not guilt.”
Reasons why some kids are depressed: School/stress Traumatic experience Illness Lack of emotional support Bullying Parents: *must be the gosh darn phone*
Literally me I had an ear infection for a month and I got grownded for it. luckily I made my own home remedy to fix it which I found by using Google after pretending I was cured for a few days
Yesterday, I was in a Zoom class and I decided to get some assignments done because I had a few missing. So I get about 10 assignments done from 11-12, and feeling proud I did that much in one hour I told my dad. And most days we have to get at least 3-5 school assignments done to get internet in free time so I thought he would be proud that I did 10 and let me have some extra free time. Nope, I was wrong. Right as I told him he turned it into a lecture saying things like "You should be paying attention in class, do your assignments after" or "Why can't you do 10 every day?". ;-;
You're not paying for the life. You're paying the hospital staff's salaries and for administrative costs to keep it running. Can't expect people to work for free
Me: *explains* *youtube's* *coppa* *situation* *CALMLY* my dad: *iVe bEeN aLiVe lOnGeR tHaN yOu i kNoW wHaT iM tAlKiNg aBoUt sToP rAiSiNg yOuR vOiCe* also my dad: whats coppa
My mom would yell at me for the tiniest things, not finishing my food, being bothered when she asks for a favor that she is ENTIRELY CAPABLE OF DOING, and just my existence in general.
A Chinese saying: The first child is raised by the books The second child is raised like the pigs The third child is set free like the sheep Basically the more children you have, the less you care about the next one.
Å is for aiyo la gud, better get an A tomorrow la B is for belt C is for chainsaw D is for a ducking shark to eat you alive E is for you to be Expelled into space and never comeback F is for fish people to drag to the depths of hell and torture you forever
MahHeart MahSoul LOL! ME: How does that even wor- DAD: NO! I don't want to hear it! Your a failure! ME: -_- By that logic your a failure too. Edit: Sorry I pressed sent DAD: NO! You are! ME: dude.
My parents adopted me and I just gotta say that I am so thankful. They’ve told me it’s really hard work and it took them almost a year just to get through all the paperwork and somehow found me and adopted me a week or two after.
Me: “Hey mom I need this permission slip signed. It’s due next week.” Mom: “Ok. We’ll do it later.” *Morning before it’s due* Me: “Mom sign this right now. It’s due today!” Mom: “You really shouldn’t wait till the last minute all the time.”
Parents really do have a huge impact on a childs life when they become adults. I had an abusive dad growing up, but I also had a loving and caring mother... And my loving mom is the reason why I'm not a serial killer Lol
if its just things? I think I have paid my parents for all the years they had spent on me. (considering I just bought them a new house and paying all the bills and recently got dad a new car (2020 model) if it’s life? no I would never be able to, not in a million years.
Ugh, entitled narcissists. I’m so sorry they’re like that. Never being that way to my kids. At least I’ll admit if I do something imperfectly instead of acting like the rules don’t apply to me and do recount no one to be mad at me (like my parents).
When your parents say: " You don't learn anything from video games" or " You can't learn anything if you don't go to school" That is so not true you can learn a lot almost anywhere
@@leah8894 Play in your none native language, so there is a feel of doing something productive (And you really learn a bit, better little than nothing eh)
You can feel slightly sick and headache or something like that from not drinking enough water. Drinkink water helps against some conditions actually that you feel in the moment sometimes if they arose from that. Its not the worst argument, sometimes tea helps too, which is basically flavoured water.
Mine just says that it's because I play videogames too much and barely play outside... BUT THEY ALSO GOT SICK FROM PLAYING OUTSIDE BACK THEN SO I DON'T KNOW WHY THEY SAY THIS
Parents: You should start acting like an adult. Me: *Gives my reasonable opinion about a controversial topic .* Parents: You're too young to be talking about that, you're not an adult. Me: ???
And don’t EVER. Tell kids to stop crying. If you aren’t aware yet, it only makes things WORSE. By telling us to stop crying you are further verbally abusing us causing us to cry more. Idiots.
Parents used to complain about this a lot. So i showed my dad a bunch of apps and social media sites. Now my mom complains my dad is on the phone all the time and im off the hook👍
I absolutely hate that. I understand if your kid is just wrong but at least listen to their argument. If it’s something that you think needs correcting, explain it to them. A lot of teenagers don’t have anybody to listen to them other than their friends.
Nailed it perfectly. Explaining things to children and teaching them to cope when life isn't fair is FAR better than just behavioral conditioning through pain or consequential suffering. As that teaches them pain to someone gets them to do what you want. Which is true, but not the best solution.
This made me realize that my parents are people who deserve more love than I’m giving them. No wonder I always hated when kids pretended to hate there parents.
*You didn't bring them to this world just so you could guilt them with a debt they didn't ask for.* Now, say that again but this time in front of my parents...
@@Asad-hp3vr dude there's literally thousands of people impersonating this guy. Honestly I don't see why the original Justin Y is even popular in the first place
Phones can give you cancer, but I'm not sure about stage 4.. And That's after years of using them, the biggest threat is keeping them in your pockets so having a bag/purse already helps a lot.
@@undefinederror40404 I'm sorry? There's nothing radioactive about a cellphone. It uses radio signals and energies, just as commonly used for your televisions microwaves or the radios in your car, and are non-ionizing radiation. It's way too low of an energy to create a tumor. If you're worried about the battery, it's designed to be safe and take a certain amount of heat because companies know we take our phones literally everywhere nowadays. That's why explosive phones are shut down like any other explosive item that's not suppose to do that.
"Debate"? That would imply the other side has some merit. You pour however much cereal you want into a bowl. You then drench it in however much milk you want. If you do it another way, you're doing it wrong.
Same, what if you put in too much cereal ? In the morning I’m too lazy to go back in the fridge for some more milk, just put in the milk first so you can control the cereal to milk proportion
depression is not a joke. if you are seriously suffering get help. i’m not trying to be rude but with this comment along with your name makes me worry. don’t end your life, it isn’t worth it.
Xander 22 while depression isn’t a joke many of the people on the internet use it as means of attention or just to make a joke calm Dow jeez if @kill me is really depressed please reply
TB40 I know personally that some people struggle to directly ask for attention, so using usernames, profile pictures, or other means of gaining love and attention, is easier for them! It's good to show care like you two are doing though!! :o
It’s crazy that we have this notion of life being a ‘gift’. To kids life is where they’re thrown into a world of the unknown where they’re right at the bottom and totally reliant on someone who could already have a negative opinion of them before they’ve even met. A kids quality of life really is luck of the draw, you could be born with a trust fund and family that loves you or you could be born in poverty with no family at all 🙁
My parents used to have to keep me on a child harness, not because they were neglectful, but because I always ran away at shopping centres ect, leaving them to search for me
I had a panic attack because my mums apple pay wasn't working and she said "i'll have to book you a doctors appointment to sort out your anxiety" and in my head i was like: yay. Some help. But she said that 5 days ago and it hasn't happened so i guess i just have ro deal with
I totally 100% felt it when he said "It's easy to say to love your parents unconditionally but some are just undeserving of it" That's what I've been wanting to explain people my whole life. I hate it when people say "Well, toxic parents are still your parents." NO. Toxic parents are toxic people that need to be cut ties from for the sake of your own mental health.
Me: dad, my eyes are itchy Mah Dad: rinse them and make sure you don't scratch then to much Me: my eyes are itchy, mam Mom: *_it's because of that Damn phone_*
Dad: “SON, I WANT YOU TO PAY FOR THIS HOSPITAL BILL” Son: “Why? What’s it for?” Dad: “IT’S THE BILL FOR WHEN YOU WERE BORN!” Son: “I have tried to commit suicide seven times, and you think I WANTED to be born? You said it yourself a few years ago, I was a mistake, implying that you didn’t want me either.” Dad: “ *tastes like disrespect* “
