Parenting Reality Check: Are We Meeting Our Ideals? 

"I can do anything when I'm a man" I can see he felt the kenergy.

My grandpa just told me that I couldn't be a good mother if I would raise children with another women (and other queerphobic stuff I don't want to repeat). I immediately went to your channel to feel better. Thank you so much for showing me how wrong my grandfather is❤

I once showed a picture of my cat on my phone to a toddler I hadn't realised was raised with zero screens. The little one was fascinated. Kept following me around after that asking for more kitty pictures. Not sure he realized it could be used for something else but he seemed very fond of the cat pictures machine 😂

I think the one exception to "will you force your child to do sports" is probably swimming lessons, because that's a life skill and about safety

My dads first phrase he mastered as a toddler was "sticky hands", because he despises the feeling of unclean hands. He has grown up to be a very capable, balanced person who loves being outdoors and camping (used to be a scout) and spending time in his workshop etc. He also relies on a variety of gloves, toiletries and cleaning supplies for these activities. What I'm saying is: Rupert might just find a passion for "dirty" things when he figures out what he needs to still be comfortable in such settings 😊

We flew from Australia to the UK with our daughter who was 2yr4m and we didn’t use the iPad with her or anything. Sooo many ppl said “oh yeah but it’s different coz she’s a girls so more able to sit calmly and do craft and other activities”. I resent that!! No! It’s because that’s how we’ve parented her! We’ve worked hard to foster her brain and her skills and her interaction with the world. She’s 9 now and obviously has technology and it’s fine! She’s well traveled, well adjusted, and an amazing young person. ❤ you both are doing amazing! xx

I feel like Toy Story is a good one to show to older children, as it would ve helpful to discuss feelings around jealousy or envy. I never thought the character Andy was overly rough with his toys, just very enthusiastic and really engaged with his imaginative play. ❤

We have a one year old, but our screen time rule is that its always a family activity. That way its “we’re done watching tv” not “YOU’RE done”.

I know it’s a US tv show and it’s old, but Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood is really wholesome and was purposely filmed without lots of cut scenes to keep kids from getting overstimulated. He talks a lot about feelings and social interactions. It’s feel-good tv for sure! (I will say he does cover some more difficult concepts though like divorce, gun violence, etc. but in child-friendly ways. Very early on in the show’s run he even talked about assassination after Robert Kennedy was assassinated. But mainly to explain to kids why their parents were upset.) The songs from the show are great too. “It’s You I Like” is very wholesome.

I'm 25 and my mother STILL touches me without permission so I'm bloody glad your kid doesn't have to live with that. I love this channel you're such wonderful role-models.

While I don't remember specifics, I do remember country walks being *miserable* as a small child. You're just the wrong height. You can't see the pretty views, the waterfalls are loud and everything smells of sheep poo because you're closer to the ground, and like you both said, it's cold, wet, and muddy and it's impossible to be comfortable. I'm glad there's no forcing these activities with Rupert!

I was never blessed to have children, but I have been richly blessed to have infants becoming adults in my life. (I’m 74 now.) Among them my godson who was also raised in a Montessori home where I was blessed to live with them for nearly all of the first three years of his life. Until this very day our love is powerful, constant and joyful. I am bisexual. I also have a goddaughter who is the child of two lesbians. I was there at her birth and was the first to hold her due to complications with her birth mother. Oh my. How we love each other! The most significant fact about love that I have learned in my life is that love has no biological connection. Love has no gender. Love has no sexuality. I spent 20 years in relationships with women. Now I have been married to my husband for 25 years. Although I was never blessed with my own children, I have had life-long relationships with several of them. The absolutely most SHOCKING thing I was confronted with regarding infants, toddlers, children is that they are COMPLETELY themselves!! ALWAYS. As adults we may fondly say, “Just like her mother!” Or, “She loves to swim, just like her uncle.” Those comments may be made because we selectively choose to identify them in those ways. But the harsh unrelenting truth is that every living individual is absolutely unique. Suck it up.

We went in with a parenting style: treat our kids like human beings. They're not objects, they're not "problems", they're not possessions: They're people. Small people. Who need assistance in getting to be big people, at which point our job is done. And they've grown up to be pretty decent people, who are tolerant where tolerance is appropriate, which does not include right-wing a-holes or the patriarchy. People always commented on how well behaved they were. We never used any physical punishment, it isn't necessary if you treat the child as an actual person, and give them all the experiences they need to live in society. (I certainly broke the cycle on that one...) One of the biggest jokes though, is that my wife and I never needed to discuss things to agree. Our kids soon learned that trying to get a different decision out of the other parent was impossible - we always said the same things. Oh how we laughed.

It is so beautiful and valuable that Rupert can communicate his feelings in such a concise way (at 2 1/2 no less!) I know the adults I grew up around would have found this supremely annoying because it “makes their live more difficult”. But people shouldn’t have kids with the sole intention of fitting them into their lives easily. You aren’t raising your child so that your day runs smoothly. You’re raising him so that in 10,15,20 years he can approach a friend or partner and say “I feel ____ because of _____” and that’s invaluable! There are grown adults who can’t do it now because they never learned it from the people in their lives. Exhibit A that you are great parents!❤

Ballet teacher here! Basic ballet education training starts at 3-years. If you want to teach younger you have to do early years training which is additional. Many teachers don’t take on the additional early years training as it’s a lot more anatomy & development (plus things like potty training come into play). I’m so glad Rupert is enjoying ballet!

Just a small perspective. We have been successful in limited our 2.5 years tablet use to only travel days. They are most interested in watch movies (since that is limited at home). They understand that the tablet and games are a special event for travel. All I am saying that while it might be a slipper slope you can put up barriers along the slopes.

So glad I've had you two as an example for my relationship and future parenting. I hope you know the positive impact you've made on young lesbians all around the world. ❤️

Glad that Rupert has the same media habits as me - just rewatching the same things over and over again 😂

he sounds like such a polite wee lad thats utterly adorable

Sometimes technology is good for children, such as Children with Autism. (My 6 year old has ASD.) But luckily for us, our boy LOVES reading, building lego, drawing and imaginative play, so its all balanced. There's a place for all. My boy loves learning games on his kindle fire. Thats what we use ours for.

Maybe you could do a video on "Gentle parenting" as a concept cause I think there is some confusion about what it means as a theory vs how it is depicted on tiktok and social media. I love the montessori method videos you have done and before researching more I thought gentle parenting was in the same vein but it definitely seems more directed than people are making it out to be.

The other thing with tablets etc. is that they are not just for watching programs or playing games. There are a lot of simple apps/computer programs aimed at children that you can use for other things. For instance, going through creative processes like music composition, storyboarding and executing animations, coding, editing videos etc. There are apps that can be used for everyday things such as schedule planning and communication and so forth. So when you do eventually introduce more regular or independent technology use, it won't necessarily even be for watching programs and films. Imagine sitting with him to draw a storyboard together of whatever he wants and then opening the app to turn it into an animation (and even record your own dialogue) vs sitting and watching a film. You'd be able to associate technology with creativity or function rather than passive entertainment. Well, possibly you know that already, but it's nice to think about. As a primary teacher, it's really fun seeing the students become skilled at using technology to realise their vision in various ways.

The American Academy of Pediatrics has been recommending for years "No screens before 2 years old." There are several reasons I don't remember off the top of my head, but I do recall that studies have shown that they don't learn language from the screen, only from real humans, images change too quickly and there's too much stimuli, AND the interactions with their parents are FAR more nurturing and important and THAT's what they miss out on. You are absolutely doing the right thing, and although I don't want to be judgy, either, it is such a sad state of affairs that so many parents use the screens/pad, and I shudder to think what will be the result when this generation is adults. We've already seen so many social struggles, loneliness, depression, anxiety, with the young adults now that only had TV and video games when they were little, no smart phones and pads, just a "Gameboy"--and a handheld "computer" came along when they were teens. Now that they are starting as babies . . .

Im still watching this, but i love that hes so emotionally aware and helps Claudia remember to ground herself 💖 thats just so sweet 💖💖💖

I love that he has the language to express his feelings at such a young age, that's so valuable.

I love this style of parenting! This is exactly how I started out my journey... but my son showed me that this does not work on every child. He can communicate his feelings and voice his opinions, he is so intelligent and also empathetic - but he doesn't feel the need to please or cooperate. He's very comfortable toeing the line and will gladly just deal with the consequences of his behavior. So I have had to parent him very differently than I was prepared to. I never wanted to believe that it was also up to the child but I have been proven wrong... Good on you for living up to your ideals!

Warning: my teen child, who also was not raised watching commercial TV now blames me for not understanding jokes or references with his friends. 😮 Didn’t see that coming! Also, he has now discovered fast food (which I had managed to keep him ignorant of). Great job with all you’re doing with Rupert, just know it may last forever.❤

Jessica's face the more films Claudia remembered she'd watched with Rupert was a picture!😅

If I ever have kids one day, I want to raise them like you've raised Rupert. It's so important for kids (and all people) to have bodily autonomy, learn to self soothe, not be forced to pursue someone else's ideas for them and instead allow them to pursue their own interests, etc. It seems like you've done an amazing job of raising a little person and I'm not British so I don't use this word really but I feel like Rupert is a very dapper lad.

I love that you’re doing the Montessori method in at least some aspects along with putting him in a Montessori school! I went to a Montessori school for many years and it was one of the most beneficial experiences I’ve ever had!

It tickles me so much that Rupert tells on one parent to the other parents 😅

I can’t talk with my parents about stuff. I’m glad you’re raising Rupert in a great way!

I work in a forest kindergarten and the children love it. You get your clothes dirty every day so it would definitely not nice for Rupert but all the children enjoy it so much. I always say the concept isn’t for everyone but I wouldn’t wanna do anything else.

I love these videos, it really solidifies, the parenting style I wish I could have had, and I will 100% try to give that to my own child! As an autistic I think Montessori sounds really good, my mom told me she wanted me to go to a school by another name (I don't remember the name but it sounded much like Montessori in some ways) and when she told about the principles I was taken aback at how nice it sounded, how much it fitted me and how sad I was to not have had that. But I hope I can raise my child different, and be able to see what kind of environment suits them when the time comes for education

Haha we are one of those forest school families 😂 Juniper goes to forest school nursery, but they do have a big inside area called the cabin full of books and toys etc, and it's a free flow with the children choosing where they want to be all day. Juniper spends 90% of the day outside, even when it was -5 degrees, and they were begging her to go in and get warm 😂 she only chooses to go in for food so they gave her 3 extra snacks those days just to get her inside at regular intervals 😂

I love this perspective on screens, it's very much the way that we approach it as well. We do have a tablet, but it's only used for watching shows when we may not have other options, like on a long car ride. We didn't get it until about 3 and there's plenty of times she'd rather be doing absolutely anything else than watching the tablet. We watch tv in the living room, but it's all of us together, it's not an individual activity. When I'm shopping for new clothes for her, I involve her in it, which is usually on the computer or my phone.

This is so amazing to watch. This seems like such a ringing endorsement of your parenting techniques. your toddler literally has more emotional intelligence than most grown ass adults

If there is something that having four children has taught me it’s that they are all individuals. You might end up with a toy basher. You never know. 😀 It’s always exciting to meet a new person.

Rupert sounds like the most adorable and interesting kid. I think is great how you embrace all his little quirks

Rupert is a beautiful example of excellent parenting. Kudos to you both, and thank you for “teaching” so many others what good parenting looks like

I played tennis from age 4/5! Tennis is very well structured for young ones, very well defined stages, and the balls and court size change as the kids develop further skills. They start off with a very soft sponge ball that’s a bit bigger than a regular tennis ball, lots of throwing and catching, games, and developing hand-eye coordination. I stopped at about 12 for a variety of reasons, but still really enjoy the sport, and it’s made me able to pick up other racket sports fairly easily. Live tennis events (excluding Wimbledon) are also often very accessible price wise. I would definitely recommend it if Rupert has expressed an interest, many clubs hold “open days” where you can meet the staff and learn about what sessions they offer, and try out some activities!

I really like your approach to digital media and how you want to keep it family focused, that it’s something you do together. I just think that’s really nice and if I had a kid I’d want to do the same. When I was little when had the one family desktop (tower and all). And I remember playing educational games on it, which I loved. My parents were very intentional about how long my brother and I were allowed to play on it. My parents definitely encouraged us to do a variety of activities (it was the late 90s and early 2000s though, so I’m sure it is a bit different today). Anyway, I think no screens before 2 is a good goal and I very much enjoyed this video🙂

You are both such wonderful, loving parents. You are fantastic role models for all parents. ❤

I'm new to your channel and love all the videos I've watched so far. I really love that you don't show your child's face on social media. I feel like thats a great tiny security barrier you have. Well done ladies.

I fully gave a hug to a stranger thinking it was my mom and asked for something

i love your parenting content so much! it's really guiding the way i want to parent in the future, so thank you both endlessly 💙

This made me feel more normal because I was wondering how you could possibly keep up zero screen time 😆 my daughter was a toddler during the lockdown so Cbeebies was an absolutely lifesaver tbh. These days she gets a bit of TV before school and a bit of TV or games after school. I worry that it's too much but it's about what I had growing up and she seems to get on well with it. She is good at stopping and sometimes will choose to do playing or crafting instead anyway. I find the real difficulty comes when she hangs out with other kids who have unlimited screen time (especially if they have unrestricted RU-vid and stuff that my kid doesn't have). My daughter will end up sitting watching with them and then become really cranky and it's hard to get her away from it. Would love to hear any tips for that situation! I've tried talking to her but with not much success, and I don't want to tell other kids what to do or make their parents think I'm judging them 😅

You are doing wonderfully and I enjoyed your video. I'm a mother of two and you will do great. The biggest thing I have learned with two you just have to readjust like you have done with your 1st. He doesn't enjoy nature so you don't you it as much and you focus on what he enjoys for example. For my two (28 months and 2 months) Im just going with the flow.😊

I really do always love watching the two of you talk and laugh together! 💜 I think y’all are doing a great job parenting Rupert in a kind and thoughtful manner!

We did screen-free until 2 but gave in on flights once kiddo was big enough to kick the screen on (at which point we gave them the flight tracker for a while, until they figured out how to do their own thing). At now 11, we went on a flight last week with items pre-loaded on an tablet for the first time. We really didn't feel the need before (or even now, but kiddo begged).

I'd love to see a video with parenting and pregnancy/baby books you read when you were expecting and as new mums that you'd recommend!

Im autistic and I like your channel to do learning of lots of new things and I like the colour yellow and deers too 🎉

We made it to 7 years old before our son got a tablet and it is totally Pandora's box! We enjoyed the films Planes and Cars as they had little to no peril. Dog Squad also very popular in our house. x

I love your genuine hi's Claudia! 😊 Also love Jessica's intros, but the main reason I watch you guys is because your so real ❤

In my home, my screen philosophy is almost the exact opposite, but it has similar results. My kids have almost “unlimited” access to screens. I say almost, as I do have everyone turn off devices a little while before bed time to reduce the impact the light can have on sleep. However, they also have toys, games, craft supplies, a yard, family they can hang out with, ect. Because screens are just one of many options and they aren’t treated as something precious that has to be earned or limited, my kids choose them sometimes, but are quite often doing something else. Rather than tracking how much screen time they engage in, I do the opposite and pay attention to everything else: are they spending time with friends, reading, playing outside, going to activities, engaging with the family, doing a variety of things that contribute to a healthy and fulfilling life? The answer is yes, so I don’t worry about how they spend the remainder of their free time. My kids are older, but we had an iPad from the time my teen was 1, and as of yet it hasn’t limited their development. That said, I respect the choice not to use screens and have a similar philosophy regarding TV on in the house, mostly because it’s noisy and distracting for me 😅. However, I think it’s interesting how wildly different approaches can be used to achieve similar outcomes. Most often my kids choose hands on activities and are regularly making something or reading. Even when I’ve noticed my kid has been on their phone for a while and inquire what they are up to, it’s often reading a novel. 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

two and a half? I remember when the twins were born how time simultaneously went slowly and disappeared instantly. Didn't expect that to happen with your kid too....

I actually had a dream recently that Rupert got his face into a video and I was very shocked 😂 I'm also surprisingly invested in Rupert becoming a ballet dancer when he grows up just because it would just be a great story

I think it's so cool that he's watching Nature shows like Save Our Wildlife! 😊 ❤ Thank you for sharing. You're awesome, inspiring parents. As an aunt, I feel it's quite a huge deal to raise a new human who (still) depends on you 24/7. I hope you can give yourselves slack when you need it. Your (body and mind) wellbeing is extremely important, also for the young growing human. Btw he sounds so polite and nice, well done... 💠

he sounds so EXTREMELY ADORABLE!!!!

Thank you! Well wishes!!!

I enjoyed your parenting stories with Rupert. 😊 Hope all of you have a fun trip to Malaysia with your family and friends. ❤️

My parents screen stuff was one thing I quite liked , I had a Nokia from yr 5, and tablet from year 5 and was only allowed that at home , then I got laptop for secondary and smartphone at 14 Also ceebies CBbc only and I love the ceebies shoes that I had (abbey and teal and octonaufhts , my sister had sharha and duck which is amazing, and also horrible histories)

Enjy the Vacation to Malaysia. Hope Rupert and y'all enjoy being with Family and Friends.

Lovely! This couple/family are lovely 💙

I’m glad you you put Barbie before ken. When we play card games it’s always jack, king, queen. The queen has top rank. Your episodes always have great content and are important to us. Thank you.

Loved that video !! So nice to see the evolution

Thank you for this video! I'd love to hear how Jessica and Rupert are getting along with BSL, if you feel like sharing 😊

I'd love an update on Rupert and Claudia learning to sign ❤

I am a bit shocked (in a good way, like very surprised) that I found like I want to start treating myself as you both treat your son! This video is oddly inspiring for me

Octonauts is pretty good, I've actually learned more than a little from it, it's so earnest

Claudia's accidentally holding hands with a stranger, and getting lost in the mall seemingly purposefully by the mom to see how one would react to it (Me and my middle sister allegedly did well: didn't panic/cry, we scoured the crowd but didn't significantly move places, etc. My youngest sister, however, bawled that we basically used the volume to locate her. And the thing is, it was a total accident and it was a small enclosed grocery store), is so relatable! I don't think it's an Asian thing because I've never heard anyone with same experience here in the Philippines.

I was also a kid who HATED being sticky or dirty, including being sweaty while doing sports. As an adult I still hate it, lol. I don't really mind getting my hands dirty while cooking or baking because I know I'm able to wash my hands any time I want. I do still dislike sports, but I'm very happy to cheer on my friends from underneath the shade of an umbrella when they invite me to a game!

We're going to disney next week (!!!) with our almost two year old and have introduced her to characters in the Little Golden Books! Highly recommend! They have them for all the disney movies and our little bookworm is OBSESSED! Your screen free family trip to disney movie definitely gave me so much reassurance we're not crazy bringing our screen free toddler to DisneyWorld!

a wonderful video as always, but i especially want to mention how lovely it is to read the comments here, with people sharing all of their thoughts and stories in such thoughtful, kind ways. i know the internet; i know there are certainly plenty of horrible comments we the audience don't see, but every video you post, i always feel so much community. everyone here genuinely cares about you and claudia and rupert, and we love these updates even if we don't personally relate to the subject because we all want happiness for your family. congratulations on meeting so many of your parenting goals, and for doing it so that rupert has the best life he possibly can. you are setting him up for success by surrounding him with love and creativity, nurturing his interests, and instilling in him a sense of bodily autonomy and respect for others, and we are so lucky to get to be on the sidelines cheering you all on!

Omg he sounds so sweet, y’all are doing awesome

Happy Birthday, Jessica! Enjoy Malaysia and your family and adventures! It's been fun listening to your descriptions of Rupert and it got my Myers-Briggs brain going. He sounds like right now he's an ISFJ. I obviously don't know your child and it doesn't matter at the end of the day, but it's fun to think about!

While my friend who I was nanny for (and thus beholden to the parenting style of when caring for her toddler) didn't do Montessori and we didn't know a lot of these newer ideas quite yet, there were some stimularities between her style and your style in certain regards that I think are notable in how they share intent and have similar goals and effects, and I find that fascinating. For example, where we are, we did need to be able to physically redirect her from a place or situation against her will sometimes (e.g. if a scorpion gets in the house - I used toys and pictures to teach her to tell us if she sees them and not to touch), but we still needed her to learn consent and to tell people if she didn't want to be touched and if they didn't listen to tell someone else. Since she sometimes liked tickling and sometimes didn't (and I despise being tickled) we used that as a thing to teach her with. If she said "stop" or "no" even non-seriously, we stopped, pulled our hands away, and froze in place like freeze tag. If she said "more!" or "want tickle!" we would confirm she wanted it and when she said "yes" we would tickle her again. If she was tickling us and we said to stop and she didn't, would would repeat it more firmly, we would turn away and stop reacting like we were unhappy, get up and walk away, gently move her hand away, or tell one of the other people in the house, who would come and tell her we didn't like that. Soon it became like red light green light but with tickles with yes/no or more/stop. As she got older we used that to extend to other things like touching kitty's tail ("that hiss is kitty saying "no, don't touch") This way she knew that even children and animals had to be listened to if they said to stop, and if people didn't, that was weird and mean. We did a lot more screen time, but she was a single mom working exhausting hours with a live-in nanny working in exchange for a place to stay and we were doing what we could. But we did make sure that tv shows were educational and/or used the imagination and were age-appropriate (heck, I was learning life skills from some of them). She also got to watch us / "help" us play video games but we used them in not exactly usual ways, like using mods to make Skyrim all non- hostile and going out exploring and gathering flowers and looking at dragons. Basically using it for booting imagination. I made her a fake computer out of a small cardboard box so she could practice her letters and "typing" while we used our real computer to do some essential task. If I had to sweep, she got the little broom and I got the big one. She had some noisy toys but they were put out of reach at times or only we knew how to turn them on. Her favorite for a long time was this oversized Christmas train I have, not because it made noise, but because she could put blocks and dinosaurs and crayons on/in the cars and drive it around the living room on the track. But time with mom was mostly mom-led because mom had less time to spare, but also mom knew what she loved to do at certain times so she was doing what she wanted anyhow. Time with me was mostly quasi-child-led. In other words, "here are 2-3 things we can do right now, what do you want to do?" because too many options tended to overwhelm her. I was also using play to start teaching her things sneakily younger than she might normally know them, not so much so she could know them early but so when she learned them properly she would have a basis for the information in the back of her brain. Also, we roleplayed new scenarios before facing them (like me taking her to the doctor for her 2 year shots because her mom couldn't) and they went so much more smoothly. And it sounds like while what we did worked out better than what my parents did, what you are doing sounds even better, and I love to hear how it is going, even though I will never have my own kids. 😊

I've actually heard a lot of parents say from our generation take your kids back to your TV. So little bear. Sesame Street. Little Einsteins is about 20 years old but even that. Shows that did not have excessively bright constantly moving colors. And shows it focused either on learning or just being a good person

My sister started letting my nephew watch peppa pig when he was very sick and he got super addicted. Last time I was there he was so moody and didn’t want to play with me and even said he wants me to go away Yesterday I was there to visit again and my sister said she slowly reduced peppa time to one episode a day (10? Minutes I think) and we were building a tent, playing in the ball pit, throwing balls around, climbing and jumping around his room. It was sooo different. Its so important for grownups and kids to reduce screen time. I have been sick as well and haven’t been able to go to the gym in a while so naturally I spend more time after work relaxing with some RU-vid or doomscrolling on reels or TikToks. Mentally its honestly not good and i really can’t wait to go back to the gym to feel healthier and more energised also within my mind.

With our first we did no screen time (other than the occasional family video call) until almost 2, and then the pandemic and we gave up. Our second got a lot more screen time only because big sister got some. We did try to mostly do screen time while little sister napped, even still now that little sister is 2.5. The big one also has her own tablet, but she gets pretty strict time limits on it. We do have days where we let them both watch a lot more screen stuff than we'd like, but we also have days where there are no screens on in the house. I think that balance is really helpful for us to feel good about making sure we have other habits and other experiences, but not getting down on ourselves when we're just too tired for much else!

When I was 15 my mom said how she loves that I’m starting to develop a personality and have likes and dislikes… mam, I’ve had them for the last 14 years, you just chose to ignore them!

Rupert sounds like THE cutest kid ever! bless 😊

I think the one thing my mum forced me and my sister to do sport wise was learn to swim like pretty okay which i think was important. It was always clear that the goal was can swim well enough and after that we could stop.

I bought one montessori book to my niece, i learn with you guys about it and trying to help my little 2yo here about it

Re: the first fourty minutes of Frozen omg. My oldest daughter was really into How to Train Your Dragon, but she really couldn't sit through one movie all in one go at age 2-3 (which is reasonable), so instead we watched the movie once in multiple days, and then she discovered the "Dreamworks Holiday Specials" which contained a 40 minute special about a made-up winter holiday called... Snoggletog, I believe? And we watched that several times a week for months. It was like a movie, with all the same characters, but the entire story was over, beginning-middle-end, in 40 minutes. Amazing. She freaking LOVED that special. My wife and I were like "NOT THE SNOGGLETOG SPECIAL AGAIN" by the third month.

I LOVE Jessica's scandalized reaction to Ken before barbie -- Icon.

I (as a girl) loved doing anything that got me dirty! Re-planting potts, cooking, playing with sand, being in the woods! All of it! Oh and I tried eating everything too. One of my favourite things was to drink out of puddles! I was the opposite of a germphobe.

Gymnastics is an option for really young children! I started when i was around a year and a half.

Yes, don't open the Pandora's box of screens until you feel its time. We didn't get mt daughter own screen until she was 6 but we dont take it out or use it in the car unless the car journey is more than 2 hours. When we go out to eat we talk or just stuff to hang out as a family.

You learn to handle the weather better when you are outdoor alot. Also you learn to wear clothing that works better.

Rupert sounds extra bright and gifted. The packing could be an affinity for geometry. Has he an opinion on figure skating? Have fun in Malaysia.

Hello Jessica and Claud! May I say that you are a magnificent couple. ❤🥂

My family never had cable so we watched lots of movies as kids. My little brother watched Nemo everyday as a toddler while doing his asthma treatments

I was really happy my daughter loved the Thomas the tank engine, the videos narrated by Ringo Starr I could listen to all day

I just found your channel and I have a cold and you cheered me up. I like you and I think you are cool.

Gosh and golly Jessica's dress is pretty! 😍 Does anyone possibly know where to find it?

26:35 That is so relatable, I'm 25 and I sometimes avoid movie scenes or TV episodes with the most conflict. 😆

13:08 - 13:38 beautifully said Claudia ❤️

0:42 The gesture that Claudia made right after Jessie said "we're going to Malaysia" looks like the ASL sign for Malaysia, which I think comes from the Malaysian sign for Malaysia. How do you sign it in BSL or SSE?

For the nature part being in the scouts is great 👍.