Parenting Tips for Toddlers: Helping Toddlers Who Scream

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Parenting Tips for Toddlers: 4 Tips for Helping Toddlers Who Scream: Learn to play, be creative, and stay connected as you give your children limits but also opportunities to express themselves unhindered.
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@minservicespille2537 8 лет назад

"When your child is upset, there is not something to fix, but there is something to know". That´s brilliant. You should have all those sayings gathered in like one place, in a printable version, categorized in each topic, so we can hang it on on fridge to remind us :)

@AlliV286 5 лет назад

Agreed

@wolfm8097 3 года назад

Hey, thank you 🙏🏽 it was relatable to my toddler’s demeanor and us parents. Very open and covered multiple scenarios of when my son exclaims for joy or frustration. Asking if he’d like a hug centers our focus on one another and both attentions are neutral. He usually overcomes whatever angst of tragedy he felt and recovery response time is more immediate. Took about a day and a half to establish . It’s like that expression was I learned and forgotten with a happier us. Thanks

@pontmarelle 10 лет назад

I really needed this advice. Such a good reminder : being mindful of my own tone. Thank you!

@ericamireles8826 4 года назад

Thankyou this makes so much sense , I have twin boys 3 years old and a one year old son ..it's tough but I will use your tips thankyou ❤️

@andrewjackson3882 5 лет назад

My 3 year-old daughter has always had, and still has tantrum episodes every single day. It’s humiliating. Bedtime is so stressful EVERY DAY! And this is not the only time she is out of control. I have tried it all; routine, stories, positive reinforcement, games, etc., still, nothing works. We can't figure it out...we would appreciate your input... I'm all ears!!! Thanks!!!

@sandrachavez1731 7 лет назад

wow I'm feeling like a real bad parent! thanks for the new way of showing me good parenting!

@zoeelauren4649 Год назад

Excellent! I have a 2yo gson and it is exactly the samething. This was very helpful. Thank you.

@AmongTheLilies 8 лет назад

Just subscribed because you are amazing! I have a 2 year old and a 9 month old and I am learning so so much from you. Thank you for these videos!!!

@michaelmars1460 6 лет назад

Thanks! Will definitely share this!

@phillipsmegan7764 3 года назад

She was scared of reading at the beginning - afraid of being mistaken. Yet right after 2 months followed this reading guideline *4ChildrenReading. Com* she has started beginner novels and reads on her own! The results genuinely amazed me! Any age level could use this method.?

@mariaamezcua4180 7 лет назад

awesome tips.

@jamiebillado6472 2 года назад

Good advice ty 👏👏👏

@narinaakopova 2 года назад

This is a great video. Thank you for making this.

@andrewgibb8846 3 года назад

Gave my screaming toddler a “quiet stone”, wore it off the head 6 seconds later followed by laughter and a hospital visit. My own screaming and crying came after, I didn’t want to show her weakness, she can smell it.

@lpsoreoproductions1 3 года назад

Hahaha so sorry kids can be tough

@DanielPereira-nz4em Год назад

I just can’t anymore I am dedicating this day to look at all the videos that can be helpful. Can’t do anything around the house or just function at all .

@azeemunnisa9300 3 года назад

Brilliant 💜

@26stanfordchic Год назад

I love your video! Your advice is so edifying and exactly what I’ve been looking for. I can’t wait to try these methods. Thank you so much! ❤

@teachthroughlove Год назад

You are so welcome! I'm glad it's helpful. Thank you for watching!

@starwars615 5 лет назад

This has really helped me in communicating with my wife.

@jonathanderenburger7404 5 лет назад

O.o

@hershey3327 4 года назад

😅😅

@tonyh.anderson2658 3 года назад

Me too brother, tried this with the ball and chain, and whola success 👍

@Talibabe88 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ALVACHY 3 года назад

Jajajajajaj!!!!

@minservicespille2537 8 лет назад

I´m glad I came across you - I predict having a lot of watchin´ to do :) One thing I find so hard is to model the behaviour I want - it´s not easy to keep my cool; I sometimes feel as if my own emotions are on the same level as my childs! I guess the key is to just keep reminding myself, and take a deep breath. Easy said, not easy done, heh.

@stephaniegalendez7034 6 лет назад

Alunaria no it's not easy at all I'm having a hard time my self it's driving me crazy

@AlliV286 5 лет назад

Me too

@xtremegamehunters 2 года назад

So so true!!! Easier said than done momma.

@tentilol 2 года назад

i've come here cause my baby sis has been screaming nonstop for the past few days, during such tantrums my mom or dad would get angry after it goes on for about a few minutes and it gets bad to the point of smacking with a slipper, today it got so bad my mom didn't actually try and stop my baby sis from screaming so much and it's honestly real annoying, i hope i could get advice from other parents to show to mine, i want it to stop so badly

@sohaibahmed226 9 лет назад

wow awesome tips!

@adriennerinehart 3 года назад

I have a 4 year old who screams just for fun.. like high pitch, ringing in your ears screaming! I'm having such a hard time finding anything to help. If anyone reads this and has some advice please reply I'm so open for anything you guys have!

@jayill427 3 года назад

Tell him hes ear drums will blow

@tattgirl9388 5 лет назад

I have a friend that has a three-year-old but 3 yr old screaming is affecting home life while the three-year-old is screaming he will hit on his mom . The three-year-old will scream for no reason or when he wants something he'll scream at his mom and throw stuff at his mom help me help his mom plz

@acbrent5382 3 года назад

My sister has a 2 year old autistic boy.. He screeches at the loudest pitch frequently and often. This makes her get frustrated and scream back..i saw your video and think you maybe able to give advise.

@ameurhamdane 2 года назад

All things said are theorical. If it was that simple every mom and dad should be at so much ease right now

@rebeccawhite1338 2 года назад

I have a 3 and a 2 year old and most days I get so frustrated they both go to kindergarten and all das how great they are but as soon as they see me they just change and scream and cry and don’t listen. It’s really getting to me especially her screaming and stomping whenever it doesn’t go her way from the minute she’s awake till we get to kindergarten and the way home as well. I know she may not understand both speak fluently so I just am at a point I have no idea with my husband They are also so sweet

@yxinz 3 года назад

Imagine being a 1year old where you want smth but can’t verbalise. The easiest and most efficient way to get your parent’s attention is to scream to tell them heyyyyy I want thissss or I am bored! Let’s go somewhere plssss! Just have to know that they are not being brats, they just want you to get what they are thinking asap. The best response is to remain calm and delay. You don’t want them to know that once they scream, they get what they want. Else it becomes a thought and action sequence. Redirect their attention to something else and lead them instead to what YOU think or want them to concentrate on.

@kellypawspa 4 года назад

Omg BLESS YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO!!!!! Lol

@teachthroughlove 4 года назад

thank you so much for watching!

@sequoiasinclair7907 4 года назад

My 2 baby boys are nearly 2. One is developmently delayed they scream and egg each other on with excitement. I don't know what to do. The function of behavior is more sensory then demanding for things!

@izzusaamain2371 2 года назад

Hi there..my son is a 2years and 6months...but still can't tall..and he is always bubbling...can u help some advice what should I do..?🙏and this fast few days...he keep on yelling.....and yelling... Plz help🙏🥺

@gloriajean5360 4 года назад

My boys are 3, will 2 next month and a 9 month old. They all scream that murder scream. I have tried all these ideas but they stil cream when its bed time an they dont wanna go to bed nap time or anytime for that matter. Help meeee I'm about to get kicked out of my apartment during this virus. Help me everyone thinks I'm beating them all or hurting them all the time... I'm not but they record the screaming... I need a reply from anyone with some help.

@matthewlevario5266 4 года назад

All day my son he watches blippi laughing excitement espesially at. Night

@3cords_1braid 3 года назад

mine too. I turn off Blippi at night because of it

@daphnietudor2953 2 года назад

But I'm baby sitting a child with my other 2 he has this s high pitched shrill wether she wants something's ng or not. It's ear piercing

@invandrare5877 3 года назад

Can anybody help my lil brother is very worm and scream he sleep for 40 minute only and then cry it’s the very first time he do something like that he is very worm

@zion367 Месяц назад

This behaviour keeps occuring as long as parents give the child what they want when they scream. Or when they give in when they scream

@libbie8489 6 лет назад

My 4 year old screams for fun......

@djjones7039 3 года назад

@kimberlycrowley7364 6 лет назад

My one year old thinks it's funny yelling

@tryingtobarefruitinoldage9878 4 года назад

She said make it a game, like it's ok to scream during bath time but not breakfast.. Lesson again she when kids aren't screaming 🤐😄

@gloriajean5360 4 года назад

I have two babies who think its hilarious to scream like I'm killing them. A 3yr old an almost 2yr old I have a 10 month old following suit too. So any given day I have 3 kids screaming an making each other scream. My neighbors think I'm hurting them they scream so often an loud I'm on the verge of getting put out of my apartment cuz of this. I've only been here 5 months and I'm in a brick building. Idk what to do nothing is working to get them to stop this crazy screaming.

@hollygrail2964 2 года назад

2:23 is what you came here for

@jenishaash1771 6 лет назад

Hii.. just wanted to get some tips how to handle my toddler who is being drifted deliberately from me

@tryingtobarefruitinoldage9878 4 года назад

What about throwing the towel in. Like a wet towel in the face. My aunts son would hold his breath tell he turned blue. Her doctor told her to keep a glass of water in the refrigerator and pour it on his face. He would take the deep inhale, man that's cold breath. Haven't tried that I think that is not a nice way to do it what do you think. I think it is painful to hear screaming and on the bullying behavior side and that screaming is hitting people's ear drums?

@djjones7039 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@oceanzennfamxo833 Год назад

My child screems with everything, like everything here I am saying big your big girl voice ....

@matthewlevario5266 4 года назад

Help my son screaming laughing all day and night laughing

@safepethaven 6 лет назад

Uh, no not everyone deals with screaming children or tantrums. My childhood home did not allow either of these things and neither did my household of two youngsters. And yes, all turned out well and successful.

@zion367 Месяц назад

Finally someone with sense. I dont understand why all these type of behaviours are deemed normal nowadays. I mean.. I get that kids do it, but I dont think we have to give into it by giving them acceptance

@ayselb3533 5 лет назад

Ohhhhhhh get to the bloody point.

@ksnapperrocks254 4 года назад

Seriously 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

@YanyanLun 3 года назад

dont even have a bf why im here

@MsMtwardy 2 года назад

Wtf?? Is this shit real?? 🤣😂🤣😂😂

@succulent3300 3 года назад

I'm looking this up for my baby brother because my parents seem to like hitting and screaming at children.

@edsr164 4 года назад

Just smack them in the bum

@diamondwarren1530 Год назад

Weak 😂💀

@cristinasulzener4074 4 года назад

My 3-year-old daughter has always had and still has tantrum episodes every single day. It’s humiliating. Bedtime is so stressful EVERY DAY! And this is not the only time she is out of control. I have tried it all; routine, stories, positive reinforcement, games, etc., still, nothing works. We can't figure it out...we would appreciate your input... I'm all ears!!! Thanks!!!

@djjones7039 3 года назад

How about TIME OUTS & taking away toys/playtime/playing w other kids. If you CONSISTENTLY discipline bad behavior with an appropriate time out, it WILL work I promise you!! Consistency, consistently, consistently!!!! I can't stress that part enough. Hang in there 🙃👍😜 you got this, mama!

@AmmaraSHAH773377 2 года назад

Search positive discipline instead of any rewards systems oh hahah this is an old comment still if you have children of any age this is what will help.

@ravenousravensreviews2857 2 года назад

Okay. No one wants to hear this but it’s time to get tough. Not in a mean way. But, my 2.5 year old would scream every single night sometimes for 45 min when I layered her down for bed, bc she knew I would pick her up and bring her to bed with me. Well I had to say enough was enough. Bc she is way to smart. I set a week were I had to make a commitment that I was not going to bring her to bed with me. Yes it was horrible it broke my heart but it had to be done. I let her scream it out. I would go in her room without picking her up about every 10-15 min while she was screaming and say it’s time for bed sis I love you. I made it quick and brief. After the 4th day she stopped screaming as long and her screaming after that got shorter and shorter each day. Then one day! Boom! It took about 8 days. She laid down and covered up and was just fine! Now she goes and lays in her bed by herself with no screaming. Praise the lord! It’s not easy but it can be done.