PART 2! ANSWERING MORE QUESTIONS BABY GAYS ARE TOO AFRAID TO ASK

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PART 2! Straight girl crushes? Not ready to come out? Falling for ur friends?! What have you always wanted to ask an older lesbian but you’ve been too scared? I answered MORE questions from baby gays, giving advice about the lesbian experience from the other side!
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Timestamps to help you find what u need 💗
0:00 4 The Gays
1:19 My family keeps asking if I'm gay, I'm not ready!
2:11 How do I tell boys I'm not interested (without saying I'm gay)?
2:44 Advice u wished u received when u first came out?
3:16 How do I stop falling for my friends?
4:18 How long does it take to find the right person?
6:12 How do u know if it's a bad date?
7:34 Should I stay with someone who keeps us secret?
9:26 Did coming out effect your job?
10:17 How do u ask someone out on a date?
10:47 Who should make the first move?
11:31 What do u have with galpal that you'd want others to experience?
12:13 How to deal with a straight girl crush?
13:16 So u want a part 3??
(Part 1) ANSWERING QUESTIONS BABY GAYS ARE TOO AFRAID TO ASK
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@laurenelloise Месяц назад

this is what happens when ya’ll scream at me for a part 2 🫡 hearing u loud and clear lmaooo🗣 p.s only a few more days to get 10% off new merch with code “GALPALS” 🌈 shop.laurenelloise.com/

@cyrusnix Месяц назад

Part three pls

@alpha_06aad87 Месяц назад

My baby gay sister just came out to our lesbian aunt. She said, and I quote “We already knew” Her gaydar is working 100% 24/7

@factumfineideas3601 Месяц назад

Do a part 3

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

you're the first to say it ahhah 👀

@LaRosexo Месяц назад

Yess

@Justwavee Месяц назад

Yes pleaseeeeee

@livresaudiobylynn Месяц назад

I really loved this video. All your videos are really a couple minutes where I feel home, with a big sister that understands me and vibes with me, or even with parents when you and gal pal make a vid together. You two don't realise the impact your simple videos have on many gays around the world. Thank you

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

this comment has really made my day

@EggyEggPie 18 дней назад

2:58 as a baby gay (almost 2 years of knowing) this is rlly nice to hear

@dragon-born-nerd Месяц назад

I CANT BELIEVE YOU ANSWERED OUR BABY GAY PRAYERS AND GAVE US A PART TWOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! (also bonus video for 4 the gays video?!?!? lauren and galpal out here giving us the absoloute MOST this pride!!) i've sent your channel to TWO of my friends who have come out this pride and they have sent glowing reviews back to me, tysm for making these vids

@lottiehodgson2230 Месяц назад

PLEASE do a part 3, these are my favourite videos ever!! I've watched them all ❤

@Klingon2468 Месяц назад

You know Lauren I have watched both of these baby gay questions videos and I must say a lot of the advice/answers you give would work/help young straights. (is that a word) I think finding somebody to love is a universal mind bender, because weather you're straight or gay you're navigating the dating world, and that is like walking through a minefield, some steps are great and some will blow up in ya face. Well weather I am right or wrong I thought you were great, and so were your answers. ❤❤❤

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

yea 100%, love is love, some of these are questions any young person might have, its nice to know that some of my answers can be universally useful! 💜💜💜

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

Timestamps to help you find what u need 💗 0:00 4 The Gays 1:19 My family keeps asking if I'm gay, I'm not ready! 2:11 How do I tell boys I'm not interested (without saying I'm gay)? 2:44 Advice u wished u received when u first came out? 3:16 How do I stop falling for my friends? 4:18 How long does it take to find the right person? 6:12 How do u know if it's a bad date? 7:34 Should I stay with someone who keeps us secret? 9:26 Did coming out effect your job? 10:17 How do u ask someone out on a date? 10:47 Who should make the first move? 11:31 What do u have with galpal that you'd want others to experience? 12:13 How to deal with a straight girl crush? 13:16 So u want a part 3??

@MayTheSwiftie13 Месяц назад

OOOH YES PART 3 :DD

@sarahhh7377 Месяц назад

YESS PART 3! and i'm excited for the bonus video!!

@ellouisebadger849 Месяц назад

Some good advice here! I fell for a friend recently. I actually thought she was interested romantically but only wanted friendship. It was an awkward situation 😂

@user-rn3pz4iv7m Месяц назад

Part 3!! (thx for making pt 2!)

@paolagarzon5917 20 дней назад

LET´S GO FOR A PART 3 BABY!

@thesparkleheartfamily8339 20 дней назад

PART 3 PLEASE!!!!❤️

@olivia9564 15 дней назад

I love your videos and I WANT part 3

@CharliTripii-rp5mo Месяц назад

Please do a part 3!! ❤️❤️❤️

@Alice-9898 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for this! I only came to terms with my sexuality about 10 months ago, when I read heartstopper for the first time and this is so helpful for me!

@ambersjourneysinlife Месяц назад

I love your videos so much, do a part three please!! ❤ I'm an out queer person now but seeing these videos is refreshing, my closeted or baby gay self needed this so much! You are literally saving lives! Thank you! Ily! ❤

@evaGM4 28 дней назад

Thanks for doing 4 The Gays again this year, I love watching your viedos, I think you should do a part 3.

@trekkie74656_ Месяц назад

Love your videos! Totally the highlight of Pride month for me, this is the only time I get to interact with anything even remotely gay (other than myself ;)), so I'm really grateful to you for spending so much time on them! Please, please, please make a part 3!

@nikkimelo Месяц назад

PART 3!!!!!

@darinak22 Месяц назад

I'm here again to say that your channel brings me so much joy and support and beg you for the part 3❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

@TheLT704 Месяц назад

Loved the eye shadow But a very interesting informative video...i wish i had something like this when I was in my teens 😁

@Viky_00 Месяц назад

Part 3 please 🥺❤️

@mahimaaashok792 Месяц назад

OMGGG Lauren posted AHHHH

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

yaaaasssss (even tho its totally bedtime for me rn lol)

@lassam333 Месяц назад

Great advice! Keep it up with a part 3.

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

thank you!! might have to do another 👀

@stephenpyner4156 Месяц назад

Great video Lauren, as a bi man who hasn't come out to my friends and family i can relate to a lot of the questions here as i have wondered the same things myself and at times I wish I had someone like you who i could turn to for advice or just to chat if i felt like things were getting too much but I'm too shy to try finding someone who i can turn to so as you can imagine my mind is in turmoil at times 😢

@Molly-lt5dz Месяц назад

PLZ DO A PART 3 ❤

@rubydawn9916 Месяц назад

your merch is the best thing ever

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

ahhh thank you!! and i might have to! lots of people are requesting!

@mossie7625 Месяц назад

Your merch was the best Lauren!🤩💖🌈

@laurenelloise 28 дней назад

eeee thank you once again for getting some and supporting my channel!

@ButterflyGirl-hq7zu Месяц назад

Thank you so much Lauren!! your advice always helps me so much and I'm very grateful to be able to watch these videos from like-minded people like you :) I would love a part 3

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

You are very welcome! im rlly glad it's helpful!! 🤍🤍🤍 part 3 might be on the cards 👀

@Xella.Official Месяц назад

Omg this helps soooo much! If you do a part three my question is: Why do I feel more scared about a new relationship with my friend, even more so than I do happy?

@cutzycoolgirl2742 Месяц назад

Please do a part three!!

@hollykhoo Месяц назад

thank you so much for this videos!! Sometimes I like to put ur videos on while I fall asleep lol 🫶🏼 gotta enjoy these last 2 days of pride month before July comes around!! 😭😄🌈❤

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

awww this is so sweet!

@karinenoblot7352 Месяц назад

Many Thanks Laureen, your answers are precious for everyone, xoxo ❤❤❤❤❤

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

You are so welcome!

@Robintheboss11 13 дней назад

Love you soo much

@roniredansky6341 Месяц назад

I don’t know what to do. I’m in love with you 😍

@RyuSoFine1724 Месяц назад

Part 3 please🙏

@thegingerbreadman2898 Месяц назад

Thank you for this video, some of the questions were really helpful I love your videos and I hope everyone has a great day!😁🌈💖

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

You're so welcome! and thank you!! 💜💜💜

@evaGM4 Месяц назад

Thanks for doing 4 the Gays, I love your viedos too, Thanks for having this channel. Do a Part 3. It helped me knowing I am Lesbian.

@EmArilus Месяц назад

Another video on my birthday! The best gift of all 🎉

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

Awww happy birthday!!!!!

@EmArilus Месяц назад

@@laurenelloisethank you!

@MayTheSwiftie13 Месяц назад

yayy moreee!!

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

Yeeeeehawww 😎

@MayTheSwiftie13 Месяц назад

@@laurenelloise LOL

@HarrisonDonnelly-vk5ok Месяц назад

15 seconds gang

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

i dont understand how u can be sooo fast omg

@Summersorensen12 22 дня назад

I LOVE UU❤❤

@ryanrowe1975 Месяц назад

Part 3

@ruebennomura9143 Месяц назад

Morning from Hawaii I thought you did good on part 2 on baby gay on this video

@Strawberrychapchap1 Месяц назад

Please do a part 3, you’re a godsend here. Also, what do you do if you potentially fall for someone that is questioning their sexuality but isn’t certain? Also, I myself am definitely part of the LGBTQ community because I have a sapphic attraction to women, but I don’t want to have a label. How do I know if they’re like me or just questioning??

@adalbertodiaz4555 27 дней назад

Hope u had a great pride month ❤

@laurenelloise 24 дня назад

thank you i did!!! hope you did too!

@adalbertodiaz4555 22 дня назад

@@laurenelloise i did!

@factumfineideas3601 Месяц назад

Wow 😲 I have never been so early in a video

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

yeeeehaw congrats on being super early!

@rob4canada Месяц назад

My wife (not that she was my wife at the time) had a list of 40 criteria that she wanted in a partner. I apparently met 39 of the 40 criteria (I was missing world traveller) but she felt I was open to being a world traveller. So yes I 100% agree to determine what you want in a partner especially what is non-negotiable. It does not mean you cannot explore but be true to yourself.

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

Awww I looovee this!! And yeah you’re exactly right! It’s important to know which things are a must, and what ones you can compromise a lil on.

@sarahmaria2621 Месяц назад

i NEED THAT TSHIRT

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

👀🙈 hehehe

@Brexeditss Месяц назад

Can you do some for the bisexual gals? They seem overlooked pls? 🥺 I have questions like how can I tell if I like girls more or boys more? How should I act around girls or boys? What should I do to figure out if I'm bi or gay?

@maximus0wls6415 Месяц назад

I totally feel the lack of lesbians in the dating pool esp as a christian and bc i havent been in classes lately but im hoping i can start dating soon I've never dated b4! I've felt comfy in my sexuality for a long time but the right time just hasnt come yet. Also my mom has encouraged me to find a christian gf but I don't know if christian lesbians exist! (At least ones that would be interested in me) it's hard to make a list when i have had little luck

@annalisejolly7092 Месяц назад

i’m a christian and a lesbian! we should get in touch!

@KaylaSings-bc3io Месяц назад

do a part 3, i love gay shit!

@K8_4life Месяц назад

Lol 💯

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

hahaha 🙈 seeming likely itll happen

@Strangerthingsheartstopper Месяц назад

Part 3 NOW 😃😡😁

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

ahhhh might have to happen 👀

@Yosigmacat Месяц назад

I really need your help. i’m discussing my sexuality at a young age 11 and I just am stressing right now. I’m I bisexual am I lesbian? Am I straight? Bc I don’t know because I’ve never find myself dating a man and if I did a woman that would be weird but it feels more natural can you please help me? Am I just Delulu?

@Mac_n_cheese680 Месяц назад

Do a part 3 plzz and how do I stop crushing on my friend when I know she is bi but I just had a brake up and I don't know what to do but I being 14 have no clue what to do and I love being a baby gay🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

@user-kb7cd2pj9x Месяц назад

I have a question for anyone who sees this: Well, lately I've been watching videos of people's experiences of discovering and accepting their sexuality, and they're all super complicated! I don't even remember when I discovered my sexuality, just one day in 3rd grade I said to myself "hey, maybe I'm bisexual" who knows why and here I am hahaha. The thing is, I don't know how you know that you've come out to yourself. I still have many doubts and I don't know what the signs are that I feel comfortable with my sexuality. Is it if I'm able to say it out loud or how? Right now I feel so dumb, sorry hahaha

@Max-d-s9e 29 дней назад

I have two sister both of them are lesbian I'm gonna share this video with her😊❤

@AliceThePineapple4 25 дней назад

I think I messed up! I asked out my best friend 2 days ago and she said yes. I’m pretty certain I’m actually attracted to her (that’s what made me want to be her friend in the first place) but after your advice on it I’m scared. What do you think? (I’m 14, have been out to myself for 3 years and my friends/school for 1.5, have been friends with her for 1 year)

@dragon-born-nerd 24 дня назад

hi! i've been dating my gf who was by best friend for a year and a half now- one of the best decisions i've ever made! i think that i have picked up some tips over that time period- feel free to take this advice :)! my main tip is to CONSTANTLY communicate- maybe tell her how you feel or show her this video? in my experience communication is super important as it keeps you on the same page so the friendship remains if you decide to end it romantically. my gf and i have talked over this issue and lauren's advice many times, but have both decided that we want to be in a relationship together romantically at the moment. if that changes, we can end things on a good note, but as we are still only 14 we have decided to take it slow and put the chances to the test. hope this helps/makes sense

@theprehistoricpoet 23 дня назад

@@dragon-born-nerd As someone from an older generation, it is refreshing to find such a helpful site for those younger than us, sadly society often ignores them! Your answer is perfect! The key word in every relationship Is communication!!!! I would prefix that with the word honest !!!! So many relationships breakdown because we don't communicate our feelings on a regular basis with our partner. Regular communication will enable small adjustments to be made before they escalate into much larger problems! David 🦖

@oliviasaia9046 18 дней назад

i dated my bsf for 2 months it was honestly one of the best things ive ever done i am so thankful for her and being able to experience young love with her even tho it can be painful in the end in my case we symply didn’t work out due to her parents being extremely homophobic and it can be rly hard trying to keep that person as your bsf and watch them move on especially if u are still in love with this person it is still very possible to keep them as ur bsf but j keep in mind that it can be one of the hardest things to do obviously this was just my case but i can guarantee u that u did not mess up no matter what happens you ik u will be thankful for the experience she gave you i hope ur relationship goes great for you

@karinenoblot7352 Месяц назад

As an asexual woman, can i find a girl?, often sex is very important and the idea of sex is just fear, even terror, some tips to help me?

@Rensescapism Месяц назад

part 3, when?

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

ahhhhh the demand 🙈 gonna have to do it

@ally-clairebear Месяц назад

so i like fictional men -book characters-and then like a few male celebs but other than that i don’t like guys. (aka. i don’t like real men) so i don’t know if that would make me bisexual or a lesbian or what tbh

@roniredansky6341 Месяц назад

I love you so much❤ but please reach to the video music lunch by Billie eilish

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

aww sending hugs! also maybe! its really hard to do videos like that with the copyright, but ill have a see!

@roniredansky6341 Месяц назад

Thank you so much! I know that hard because the copyright, but other RU-vidrs do this so I think you can

@Just2maisie Месяц назад

2 min gang

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

bro legit so fast!!

@NotThisAnonymous Месяц назад

Random but what’s your opinion on the English or Spanish thing? Can’t make up my mind on whether it’s homophobic or just a dumb trend (or both)

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

Im sorry i have nooo idea what you're referring to! pls enlighten me ahha

@NotThisAnonymous Месяц назад

@@laurenelloise It’s a TikTok/RU-vid shorts trend thing where basically someone will ask someone “English or Spanish?” And then say “first one to move is gay”. Dunno if I’m describing it the best so you might want to look it up

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

@@NotThisAnonymous ohh okay! I’d say it’s a dumb trend that holds absolutely zero truth. I would just ignore it! With most TikTok trends, they don’t stick around for very long, and since TikTok has grown to be massive, trends are very micro / niche anyway.

@leahstumm9662 Месяц назад

👍

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

🫶🫶🫶

@Cracha1241 Месяц назад

Can I know what to do when you’re gay and your parents are homophobic bc.. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO HELP- 😭😭😭😭

@livresaudiobylynn Месяц назад

Just be smooth in the way you express yourself at home, keep your shine of gayness for when you're outdoor without your parents. I have had an undercut for 7 months now and they still don't know abt it. They don't necessarily need to know abt your sexuality. Then when you move out from under their roof you can start thinking abt coming out without risk

@barnaliadhikary2045 2 дня назад

2.25.... i think as lesbians we have full right to say NO to male advances without having to beating around the bush, that also for our safety from the man??? That's trashy...we can straightway say that "no I am not interested and I am into women".. plus generally one doesn't have to necessarily explain any reason to reject a man... Or to say no... Saying "no i am not interested" is itself enough..., women aren't answerable for their reasons.. it's just nice that they do....If "no" is by default rude to someone then that's their entitlement issue they should get cured of it... 🤷🏻‍♀️

@dipankarhalder9451 Месяц назад

When are you marrying her?

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

we've looked into wedding stuff, next year is our timeline!

@dipankarhalder9451 Месяц назад

@@laurenelloise Congratulations looking forward for Pre-wedding Vlogs..

@Bigurlie4508 Месяц назад

With your hair up you kind of look like River from Heartbreak High (1994) 😅

@SpiderDJDU Месяц назад

𝑫𝒐 𝒂 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝟑 𝒑𝒍𝒛

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

👀👀👀

@SpiderDJDU Месяц назад

𝟑 𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒂𝒏𝒈

@laurenelloise Месяц назад

ayyyyy 💜🙈

@medukameguca5071 Месяц назад

3:16 How do I stop falling for my friends Part of your advice is to find other people to crush on (like celebrities or whatnot) but what if you're demi (like me) and only develop a crush on people once you get to know them and you're friends with them on some level 🥲