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Yup he was dusty af

ikr especially the way he said it, kinda rubbed me the wrong way, like imagine all the crap she would've dealt with

She is too pretty to go through that-

@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 🤣🤣🤣

Yes! I was so sad for her especially when I wantched another vid where she called her crush and he rejected her

Bet she was in the middle of something

Lmao 😂 that had me rolling

She was in bed with her mans

@@moochimichimoo she was probably in class

I doubt it because why would she answer a call from an ex while she’s with another guy physically.. Actually nvm😂

Or it could make the person who is asking look foolishy persumptive to think that their ex has not moved on.

Maybe she deserved it :P

Shut up

Not necessarily. If I asked someone that question, it would be because I would like to learn more about how they've changed since our hypothetical breakup, NOT because I want to hook up again.

i just came here purposely to see if they were still together after watching past videos.

are they?

Same! I actually almost ended up in the same situation with my man but in the end we eventually end up talking knowing that we love each other and we can past through it if we wanted and we did They probably could work out if they tried it again

@@jasmim6612 sameeee

she looks a lil like selena

came here during mid video for this comment lol

You can tell they still love each other

That one killed me!

ahhh literally!!

3:10 and she was actually more alive than ever ^^ so cute to see

Guess, she's not the only Nancy he's ever been with 😆

Lol 😂 right

Fr! At first I was like, homebody know exactly who that is but then I was like waitttt 😂

Giving serial vibes

Wth.....recent lmao no way

why does she deserve the world? What did she have done? Do you know how she behave in the relationship?

@@Blueline1221 jesus dude, why the background check, do you do this to all your friends when something bad happens to them? she didnt mean it literally, she just meant she deserves better after being cheated on. its just a way to show sympathy.

@@Blueline1221 figure of speech

@@yukilu602 i know, but i came to the point, where i think, that it's just hypocritical. Sorry for being so negative, but there are way more people (little starving children) on this world, that deserve the world. And yea, i do this to all my friends. My first you question is: Do you want comforting or help? In the end, there always information hidden in the victim role :) When you have a different perspective, than feel free to tell me, because im always open for learning. But i just can't stand superficial empty phrases, that helps no one.

@@Blueline1221 bffr what does this have to do with starving children...

I love Curtis

Nah man i found that to be sad. Just broke up today and got blocked lmao

Something I'd do lol

lmao it was the ily and then gagging right after for me

the ex clearly still had feelings for him, that was such a knife to the heart. Hope curtis has his heart broken so bad he wakes up under a brige.

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that's funny and sad😭

It's the nonchalant way he said it for me💀💀🤚🏾

Fr so funny

o_o

He’s me asffff

THAT KILLED ME

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Ily

Yup me too

tf is post partum depression? ppl come up with more fake shit everyday

Did you regret becoming a mom? Would you suggest for young people to think about not become parents now-a-days? I'm wondering for myself.

@@oponomo I do NOT regret it at all, my children are absolutely wonderful and they changed my life. I absolutely love them with my entire being. Becoming a parent is absolutely nothing to take lightly but I would never suggest anyone to not become a parent. Everyone is different and if someone suffers afterward there are many outlets and support systems that are available.

SAME! My partner was literally the person that made the call for me to see a doctor and get on anti-depressants ❤

At least he admitted

Military and long distance are the fucking worst. It’s why me and my ex didn’t work out

@@maryhoward9088 same 😟

I was talking to a military guy and I always thought he was lying when he said that he can’t be exclusive cause he’s in the military but maybe it is true

That one actually made me get teary a little lol I’m a military wife so I understand the distance thing and wanting to be there for them while they’re deployed but feeling left behind at the same time. 16 years I’ve been with my husband it was tough but I can not wait for his retirement coming up in 2022.

@@OnjelieMarie Cheating is rampant in the military.

Right, but then me call my ex’s and they say it’s all my fault😭🥴

They know the phone call is being recorded they just don’t wanna look bad all over the internet 🤣

@@anitasewell9616 probably with mine too😅

i fucking wish

“oh cause i was cheating “

Respect to him.

babe that’s bare minimum

@@anonymous-yp9he in a situation like that what would be the alternative.. ? Bc if he wants out of the relationship then its best to be honest abt it & he didnt even have to be honest abt the reason for him doing it.

@@maui30000 it shouldn’t have gotten to the point of him having feelings for someone..and i didn’t even say anything about things could’ve been different. i said it’s the bare minimum.

@@anonymous-yp9he But the reason behind the breakup shouldnt determine what is the bare minimum or not is what im saying. Ive seen both women and men breakup with each other for trivial reasons but secretly its because they are interested in someone else or want to live the single life.. & so the point i was trying to make was thats actually above the minimum (which means below average) considering most people are not genuinely honest about why they want to break up.

@@maui30000 my 3years of bf broke up with me bc after 3 years he found out we aren't compatible & he doesn't love me anymore. 2 days after our breakup he started posting about his new gf :) at that moment i understood he was cheating on me I'm still heartbroken about that fact i imagined my whole future with him , i fought with my parents just to be with him .. now he's regretting for what he has done and asking me to come back but i just can't trust him anymore.

People don't realize at the time only after

He said "enough"

Clarity comes with time.

@@korn3701 noticed that too! More like probably not supportive PERIOD.

brooo... I was shocked to say the least.

“are u blocking him” “yes” “laughs”

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Ilyyy 💀💀

Me af!!

That would’ve been me lmao

How u knw he's even Indian

yeah i think a lot of people would say "she felt i wasnt being supportive" instead of just admitting he wasnt being supportive

Hahahaha I was thinking the same lmaaaooo.

He actually wasn't in the wrong. This is a classic case where the guy is expected to be nothing short of a therapist when women are having mental health issues. Yet, when men suffer similarly, the overwhelming response is "go see a therapist". Men are required to do huge amounts of emotional labour that women are not expected to do. He was not in the wrong, she had a responsibility to see a professional about her issues.

@@jonathanxavier2026 you don't know what went down in their relationship so you are not in a place to comment on it with little to no information. No you cannot be a therapist but the least you can do is be there for them and give them the emotional support you'd give any loved one in tough times.

😂😂😂

Lol same

right all i was thinking about was if i called i wouldnt even get a hello just straight screaming and insults that led into an argument and if he knew i called for a video i wouldnt hear the end of it lol

All your fault, too.

Seriously lol, I know it probably wasn't intended but putting emphasis on the Maryland part makes it seem like there were several Nancy's 😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 im dead

Lmaoooooooooo

I mean, it’s a common name I guess lmfao

the funniest shit out of this vid no cap

😂

Right! So refreshing!

Right!!! Made me happy

@@cyna866 100% ❤

@@anitasewell9616 absolutely 💯 👌

Men know accountability, women don't.

He was in the military and knew his girl was getting piped up

@@AxxLAfriku ah sweet a schizo meltdown

@@ElCap1van maybe he was the one doing plumbing in the military...

@@_CL simply not true

@@ElCap1van to be honest, she admitted to cheating. Don't know if it was this one.

Chico, its misunderstood by us men . Qué Triste !

As a woman whose been through this, can confirm, it's devastating and then some. Props to you for noticing and having heart for the mamas 💜

Yes

Yes, completely wrong. It's not like there's no such thing as therapists or someone who is actually studied and licensed in the field of those such areas. 🖕

@@econ9028 If you or someone you know is dealing with or has gone through PPD and you actually love them, just shut the fuck up and hold them. That's it, that's the whole story. There are some things therapists, etc can not provide.

No doubt, some people's MO is always finding a new partner before breaking up.

i agree that it’s good to communicate, but big props for not cheating? the bar is in hell 💀

Cheating is legitimately one of the things I hate the most. Literally the only thing you have to do is communicate, and if it doesn’t work out, then so be it.

No we aren’t giving props to someone who did what your supposed to do in a relationship

absolutely not, shouldn't have entered a relationship to begin with if u have a propensity to cheat. just stay single

FOr a gay men he had such straight shoulders 04:30

@@dontdoit2207 Huh what do gay and straight shoulders look like? Are the shoulders attracted to armpits if straight or other shoulders if gay?

@@manialord1699 boi

@@evcarlos13 👦

I fucking love how hilarious Curtis is AHAHAH

🤣🤣🤣😹 Nancy drew

“From Maryland”💀💀😭

nancy from momoland

he was like which nancy ? 😃

@@strwbrrys that was cold 🤣

well these people are kind and loving but in reality most of the real life ex es are disrespectful and have zero amount of maturity

Not you tryna self- justify calling your ex

Hahaha same 🙌🏻😂 Btw, I'm just 16.....so there's hope for me

I had my first @ 22 im nearly 24. She was a tumblr femenist with no idea of how the outside world actually was. Trust me its better to be single than to settle

You’re not missing anything I swear being single and not heartbroken is better

Yeah me too 😂😪👏🏼

Who?😅😂

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I mean she dodged a bullet with and that one…I mean how nonchalantly he said “I was cheating” seems he’s still cheating and will continue to cheat it’s a lifestyle for him. 😂

Oh that hurts she was so sad

@RusaForever I'm not laughing at her pain, just thought what she said was funny lol

No cuz same. He and I message each other sometimes but hearing his voice again would be like a knife to my heart LMAO

if i called my exs we would just be vibing cuz were still bestfriends

Facts

Oh that's 'cause all of the bad ones end up on Dateline.

Like fr. I'm actually still crying lol. I have bdp 🤷🏽‍♀️.

Though, as someone who didn't have a proper closure, it did take me more than a year to finally get up but I definitely am more happier now so thanks :)

Me too

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Linup3HVJCc.html 😘😘

Hmm, many of them are basically just exploiting their ex's for a youtube video.

@@DoubleMonoLR that’s one way to look at it. 😄

nahh, that feels immature. you can still be friends with your ex unless shit happens then yeah ill nuke everything of theirs

I do that when they deserve it. Had a manipulative ex that kept trying to rope me back in cuz I was weak. Then my first ex immediately after breaking up with me starting being petty and posting pics with a new person.

@@cozypm depends from which perspective you view it. Generally speaking a break up equals to move on. Breaking up as in Breaking off of that person. If keeping text threads, pictures and so on drag you down then getting rid of them is pretty mature and reasonable. But I agree, to keep being friends with your ex is possible and awesome. Though some circumstances do not allow to make such work out and that is perfectly fine as well :).

I purge everything after a breakup also, delete numbers/block them on everything. I want nothing to do with them when it’s an official breakup. I remember people saying “that’s so immature of you to pretend he doesn’t exist!”…like ok? SORRY if I don’t want to be best friends with my ex’s?? Like wth? Mind your business because this is how some people start moving on

@@Akamai_25 I thought like that too, but if you considered your ex a best friend when you were dating them, and you had similar personalities…then why not give it a chance? Just a thought.

That's not the Definition of an introvert mate

@@sola_a introvert - a shy, reticent person. Reticent - not revealing one's thoughts or feelings readily. like I said, an introvert. I normally don’t like revealing my thoughts or feelings to someone because I always thought “no one cares, so why waste the breath” I was shy as well, i just didn’t like talking to people. I always thought I was bothering people if did or say anything. In a relationship, communicating is key. Try dating a guy who doesn’t like to talk and make conversation. It’s boring basically right?

@@hvcky not what an introvert is. Introvertiert and extroversion is all about energy. An extrovert gets his energy from being around people and feels drained when they are not. An introvert can interact with others but will feel drained over time and has to recharge by being alone. Being introverted has nothing to do with being shy or being bad at communication, there are other words for that. As an introvert, I'm just annoyed with people misusing the term for there awkwardness. About your problem: I'm going to assume you're a minor/teen (correct me if I'm wrong). Trust me, most teenagers are like this. You'll grow our of it to an extend as you grow and experience more of life. I was like that too, still am a bit. What helped me was realizing that people don't actually care. Think about it, how many times a day do you think about one specific person and analyze their behavior? You don't right? So why would others? Everyone has their own issues to face, so why would something as stupid as your awkwardness be something that bothers them? The only one who actually cares is you. Stop caring. We only live on this earth once, it's too short of a time to be shy. You are correct, you won't have a good relationship before you fix your communications problem.

@@sola_a well I’m not a teenager. I’m an adult but I guess misunderstood this whole time. Maybe I’m just a person who needs confidence or something. I just always think my existence bugs people. With that mindset, I just stay away from people as much as I can. Maybe “introvert” isn’t the right term to label my “problem”. I’m sorry if I upset you.

@@sola_a it is 💀?

I pray things go well between you guys. God bless 💓

Yeah it already happened, no need to deny if both people already know

The ex girlfriend was hoping for a different explanation. Why??? He's a serial cheater. He cannot commit to monogamy. Dear me

City Boys Up!

@@svilendenchev9984 tb4l😈

RIGHT!?

So that IS Ilah! She's awesome. Glad to see the past three years hasn't made her into any less sweet of a person.

yep i felt for her since my abusice ex is also so nonchalant. ive learned that some people are just givers and some are takers and a relationship with one of each will led to resentment and heartbreak. we keep making excuses for them which only makes it harder to detach and move on. Im glad she didnt marry him i could only imagine how much more toxic that relationship might have become when adding in marriage. its so hard giving up on someone and your relationship but you are giving up on yourself when you stay. I hope shes healing

The video(and some of the callers) is exploiting the ex's for a youtube video, I personally think it's a terrible example. It would be much different if they did it privately, but if people don't already know why they broke up, there was huge problems in the relationship.

True

Takes a lot of trust and effort :/ but possible

I recently broke up with my first bf after 2 years and 9 months . We had been in the long distance relationship and only last few months he moved to a place further away and he had been struggling a bit. One reason was that we dun have much memories together & We only had less than a month of staying together in our entire relationship. he is also going to move to another country so much harder to meet up. So he couldn’t keep the relationship. I couldn’t give up but he did in the end. I am grateful he did cuz I could never even when I know it’s not working out. Broke up just few days ago and I still cry myself to sleep. Long distance is a lot harder than it’s said, I got much more respect for people making LDR work.

Being satisfied with only few days of meeting together and then miles apart is not everyone’s piece of cake

I will never do a long distance relationship again. That led to the downfall of my engagement, I'm pretty certain. But stupid me, I thought our love had been strong enough to withstand the distance for one year. Two things I learned: 1) Love is not enough. You need to constantly reinforce that foundation, and when you're doing it from far away, it's not going to be as stable. 2) It can fall apart surprisingly fast. Don't take it for granted that the relationship is as strong as you think it is.

I was in Japan during the pandemic too! Were you in Tokyo?

Exactly why I did not want to get into a relationship with this guy I fell super hard for. Because I know that we wouldn’t have lasted and I care about him too much to have let that happen

It hit me hard

@@bloomthyself guess we all have the same experience lol , gotta move on though

@@norapeace6526 I feel u , god bless u

@@wsawyer350God bless you as well!

Dude just send her a screenshot of this comment. 🙌🏼 Sounds like you can communicate your feelings!

Tell her, as often as you can. I know it's hard. Things didn't work out between me and my military boo because of his lack of communication. I know some of it out was of his control, but even so I know things could have been different if we had just been able to communicate more often. Rooting for you ❤️

Communication is is fucking hard. When we have learnt to live with our emotions suppressed for a long time, we don't like feeling things and when we avoid feelings, we don't know how or what to talk about or communicate. Hope you find the root cause of the problem. All the best.

@@kalenalexisbeauty9102 I can communicate frustration better than I can what I feel in the moment… which was what our recent fight was about lmao. It’s honestly super stressful and before In my past relationships I’d get pessimistic and do things to break it off but I literally can’t allow myself to even think about doing some dumb shit like that. Which frustrates me even more. She loves me so hard I stopped self sabotaging my happiness.

@@weirdkimion damn, I’m sorry to hear that. I’m not one to typically go back but I hope you two at least remained friends. Because it honestly sucks when it doesn’t work out because of just… life. I hate knowing I might fuck up because of things that I can’t really control, but yeah I’ll try. I appreciate your words a lot