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@HarryPotter-hd7dr
@HarryPotter-hd7dr 3 года назад
*People always say “protect your daughters” but don’t say “teach your children to respect everyone.”*
@lucaniouspetrenko9404
@lucaniouspetrenko9404 3 года назад
You know there are women who pull up to elementary schools and steal young boys… what people should be saying is children should be protected regardless of their gender
@HarryPotter-hd7dr
@HarryPotter-hd7dr 3 года назад
@Lucanious Petrenko Hun you missed my entire point. I KNOW FOR A FACT that everyone steals everyone but what I’m saying that if we raise ALL of our children to respect everyone (unless they disrespect you) and just be a good person in general. We wouldn’t need to protect them from stranger danger.
@HarryPotter-hd7dr
@HarryPotter-hd7dr 3 года назад
@@DKzCoolD2 If everyone was raised right we wouldn’t have to protect them from “stranger danger.”
@prachi5303
@prachi5303 3 года назад
@@HarryPotter-hd7dr agreed!
@MicaelaContreras
@MicaelaContreras 3 года назад
Monsters are gonna be monsters and we need to.accept that people are evil and learn how to protect ourselves
@enola.sky.sss.1
@enola.sky.sss.1 3 года назад
"Trust your gut" My gut: Ayo- we should get some snacks.
@dariadaniellemusic
@dariadaniellemusic 3 года назад
Definitely trust it, then
@bethabera5893
@bethabera5893 3 года назад
@@dariadaniellemusic DIRECTIONER!?
@dariadaniellemusic
@dariadaniellemusic 3 года назад
@@bethabera5893 YES HBU
@Liz32
@Liz32 3 года назад
@@dariadaniellemusic I AM!!
@dariadaniellemusic
@dariadaniellemusic 3 года назад
@@Liz32 YES I'VE FOUND MY PEOPLE
@meganharvie9116
@meganharvie9116 2 года назад
My big one - everyone who arrives together leaves together. Don't let your girl stay behind at a party or club
@micahkinggodgodself323
@micahkinggodgodself323 2 года назад
But guys are and are way more likely to be assaulted tho
@Bella-zn8nq
@Bella-zn8nq 2 года назад
@@micahkinggodgodself323 yeah, assaulted by other guys. 🤦‍♀️ but still all of these tips work for guys too
@micahkinggodgodself323
@micahkinggodgodself323 2 года назад
@@Bella-zn8nq Not the 1st one and she literally says it's for girls
@prestonshanmendoncaclassvi746
@prestonshanmendoncaclassvi746 2 года назад
@@Bella-zn8nq No somtimes it is girls too
@pau7886
@pau7886 2 года назад
@@micahkinggodgodself323 y los hombres que y los hombres que y los hombres que y los hombres que y los hombres que y los hombres que
@lainastocktonnot
@lainastocktonnot 2 года назад
When u get in an Uber don’t ask”are u my Uber”ask “Who are you picking up?”
@ebsxnysii
@ebsxnysii 2 года назад
this is so true. ask them who the Uber is for, because if they’re not the real Uber, they won’t know your name. this is a good tip, I know this, and I wouldn’t have remembered to comment it, so I’m glad you did.
@zr123m
@zr123m 2 года назад
instead check the Car number. simple
@ebsxnysii
@ebsxnysii 2 года назад
@@zr123m the asking way is not rocket science either. it’s pretty simple too, both ways work. also sorry if I sounded rude lol. but yes - both ways work
@WeBeatMedicare6969
@WeBeatMedicare6969 2 года назад
You shouldn’t have to ask if that’s you Uber driver…you need to confirm it is yourself by looking at license plate and car type…duh
@ebsxnysii
@ebsxnysii 2 года назад
@@WeBeatMedicare6969 um?? read all the comments, not just the main one before commenting yourself.
@eldritchteletubby9319
@eldritchteletubby9319 3 года назад
Also, don't be afraid to look weird. If you're alone at night and you think someone is following you, the best thing to do is act wild. Spin in circles, giggle at nothing, sing loudly, yell gibberish. You're no longer attractive to them if they think you've lost it. If it's a situation where you're alone, then the only ones who will see you are potential creeps, and your safety is more important than a moment of embarrassment.
@lakshmithasridhar3175
@lakshmithasridhar3175 2 года назад
✨✨😍 True. Really a useful tip.
@warriormaiden9829
@warriormaiden9829 2 года назад
And carry a fork. If they're still going after you after that display, hold it up, thank the Lord for the meal you're about to receive...and then charge with a smile on your face. Works surprisingly well. If that still doesn't work, a fork still makes a surprisingly good stabbing tool if you're aiming for the face.
@xsomili5501
@xsomili5501 2 года назад
Ah just act like jinx
@rosseannepark9881
@rosseannepark9881 2 года назад
I think barking at people is the best way.
@justawlwwholikesshygirls5704
@justawlwwholikesshygirls5704 2 года назад
Pick your nose and start puking. I've done it.
@thenintendogamer1542
@thenintendogamer1542 2 года назад
As a man teenager, this is one of the saddest things ever. I try to always offer to friends (which most are girls) if they need a walk or ride home or something
@moved.channels
@moved.channels 2 года назад
That's really nice of you ! Helping them avoid some serious problems
@lovelymya.
@lovelymya. 2 года назад
God bless you
@Grave000
@Grave000 2 года назад
Your a good man. Continue on your life good sir
@monsterhanna6691
@monsterhanna6691 2 года назад
We need more men like you. 👏👏👏
@tiger_shark6984
@tiger_shark6984 2 года назад
I’m sorry man I feel u
@mehriiin
@mehriiin 2 года назад
She literally gives elder sister vibes I love her sm for this 💗
@PuevG
@PuevG 2 года назад
Yes
@soulcraft6334
@soulcraft6334 2 года назад
I don't got one I'm actually the oldest ☠️☠️☠️ I'm a guy
@mehriiin
@mehriiin 2 года назад
@@soulcraft6334 Samee I'm the oldest one and I don't have any older siblings. Sometimes we need someone to look up to but it's sad how people tell us to be mature and strong from a very young age
@zaraali8830
@zaraali8830 2 года назад
@@soulcraft6334 Same here I'm the oldest. No vibes on trouble.
@ManuelPersona24
@ManuelPersona24 Год назад
I just enjoy her content. She is not a beauty
@matthewmcdermit8744
@matthewmcdermit8744 2 года назад
I've got one that I shared with my daughter: Do not go to a party by yourself where they are drinking alcohol. Always have one or more friends, and no one should be left at the party by herself -- especially if she is drunk. . . . When I was in high school decades ago, a girl that I knew of -- she was in my Econ class -- passed out at a party where she was taken advantage of by five boys. . . . She was never the same in all the time I knew her. She went from a happy, vivacious girl to sad, sullen, and depressed -- every day.
@chandler_bing7433
@chandler_bing7433 Год назад
Yes I agree. Atleast 5 people
@3243_
@3243_ Год назад
I'm so sorry that happened to her (or anyone). May she be comforted and healed.
@matthewmcdermit8744
@matthewmcdermit8744 Год назад
@3243_ , yeah, I think about her from time to time. I hope she eventually recovered. . . . My daughter heeded my advice, she later told me. She and her friends looked after each other. No one ever got left behind.
@3243_
@3243_ Год назад
@@matthewmcdermit8744 I'm glad she heeded your advice.
@multipurpose6984
@multipurpose6984 11 месяцев назад
CAN BE LEFT ALONE BY HERSELF ,BUT NOT AT ALL IF THEY ARE DRUNK
@mlpiper11
@mlpiper11 2 года назад
My personal tips from traveling alone as a woman: 1) to not be oblivious to your surroundings by listening to loud music with your headphones. Especially if there are a whole bunch of bushes in the area. I’ve heard stories locally of women getting snagged for that unfortunately and it was a very public park. 2) Also, always know that the thumb is the weakest part of the hand. If he grabs you by the wrist just pull against it. No matter how beefy the guy is he can’t hold onto that. You may have to twist around and be creative but he’ll either lose his grip or break his own thumb if you do it right. It was one of the first things my instructor taught me in Taekwondo. 3) if you know you are being followed just walk into the nearest establishment. Does not matter the type of office/store/restaurant. Just mention the situation and anyone would understand. 4) never look lost even when you are. 5) don’t acknowledge them if they are harassing you or look them in the eye. 6) keep your pimp hand strong. Don’t be afraid to go knuckles out. Always go for the family jewels, eyes, or their respiratory system if you have to fight back. Basically anything that slows them down. 7) because I see this a lot. Do not tuck your thumb into your hand when you punch. You will break your thumb. 8) last but not least. Always be vague with giving out personal details. Don’t mention you are alone and don’t mention where you are staying at.
@mochiinuo
@mochiinuo 2 года назад
The ears are a good target too.
@mspotato4689
@mspotato4689 2 года назад
@@mochiinuo yep if they have any accessories there, pulling it quickly and forcefully will rip it off and injure their ear badly.
@mochiinuo
@mochiinuo 2 года назад
@@mspotato4689 yep! Even if they don't have accessories, though, punching it or twisting it should also stun them for a moment as ears are pretty sensitive.
@WinniePooh33
@WinniePooh33 2 года назад
@@mspotato4689 Don't be scared to be brutal scream and be loud as possible, kick them in the balls HARD when there stun always I swear it hurts alot making them drop to there knees give you time to run blind them or stab them in the eye(no matter the object use anything), rip or pull accessory out there bodies like piercings If they have one bite, scratch A chunk of flesh has deep as possible to leave mark and dna in your nails Don't put weapon in purse cause men can be ruthless and fast have it easily accessable by a swift of your hands taser, pepper spray or loud alarm has accessories in like your phone or case to make it look like a regular item and your harmless or a loud police alarm speaker Act crazy and psycho, take a lipsstick or something to draw and smear/draw all over your face scream LOUD If being followed in crowd, ask someone fast to pretend to be your boyfriend That's all I have stay save
@mspotato4689
@mspotato4689 2 года назад
@@WinniePooh33 yep thank you,, u stay safe too
@michaelmotorcycle27
@michaelmotorcycle27 2 года назад
Didn’t realize how scary it must be to be a woman sometimes. I am a large man and I walk fast. One time I was walking at night at my usual fast pace and there was a woman ahead of me who kept looking back and then just booked it. it took me a minute to realize she probably thought I was a predator. A) this is depressing that this is the vibe I put out. And B) made me realize how scary it must be to be a woman alone at night. I bought my girlfriend some pepper spray. Situational awareness is key also and If you are on a date or something tell people where you will be and with who And always trust your gut if something feels off.
@rose9266x
@rose9266x 2 года назад
@Michael Roche I am not even allowed to go out alone at night. I think my parents are scared or smth even tho I am totally not
@michaelmotorcycle27
@michaelmotorcycle27 2 года назад
@@rose9266x I don’t blame your parents for being concerned. unfortunately bad people exist in the world but you gotta live your life. you just have to be aware of the people and situations around you. don’t keep your nose buried in your cell phone if you’re walking around by yourself. That is like having a big target on you even if someone is just looking to steal your purse or something. usually if you are paying enough attention you can get a sense of somebody’s body language and if someone seems like they’re watching you they may have ill intentions. Like my dad used to say there’s only two people in this world I trust. one of them is me and the other one is not you. Stay safe.
@rose9266x
@rose9266x 2 года назад
@Michael Roche okay I understand but usually I trust people easily. If someone is kind to me or a guy will say I am attractive I am like omg he is so kind. I think that's getting a problem. I can't reject people because I don't want to make others sad. Also I feel really insecure and I think I will never meet a good guy
@michaelmotorcycle27
@michaelmotorcycle27 2 года назад
@@rose9266x yeah I get it I’ve always been a people pleaser too but you have to know when to be nice and when to be not nice. if someone gives you a compliment but then starts making you uncomfortable you Gotta be assertive. you don’t owe anybody anything just because you got a compliment. It’s OK to want what you want and not what you don’t want. as for feeling insecure, everybody deep down feels insecure. I take comfort in knowing that everyone inside feels that way. The way to build confidence is to find your passion in life and what makes you happy and try to master those things. push yourself to try new things that take you out of your comfort zone. surround yourself with quality people and people that you admire that can help elevate your life. Once you find your path all the pieces just start falling into place. You start to understand who you are as a person and what you want in a partner. and usually when you’re not even looking is when you will find love. Be present and stay in the moment. I spent half my life worrying about things in the future that never came to be.
@rose9266x
@rose9266x 2 года назад
@Michael Roche yeah true I should'nt trust everyone but I am just so insecure that if I'll wait for the right guy to come, I will end up alone because I don't think I don't deserve a good guy. I believe in real love but I think I will never find my own real love because I just think I am disgusting and not worth it. I can't imagine a guy wants me as his girlfriend :(
@jackbragg1893
@jackbragg1893 3 года назад
It’s kinda sad that girls need this, few years back I was walking back from a lecture and it was dark and raining, I was in a rush to get back so I walked quickly past a girl, who I was walking behind, girl genuinely looked terrified, really kinda made me think about some of the stuff women go through
@vibes6690
@vibes6690 3 года назад
We need more people like u
@simplymooshroom157
@simplymooshroom157 3 года назад
Ikr because of these things i can't go out even in the morning 😔
@nice-rb2vp
@nice-rb2vp 3 года назад
@Busch light I understand what you mean but you do realize that you accidently called the person who wrote this comment ugly lol 😂
@messayousa9982
@messayousa9982 3 года назад
@Busch light actually personally I’m scared of guys I find attractive too. Sometimes more than ugly guys. That might just be me tho
@bigfarter3000
@bigfarter3000 3 года назад
@Busch light no i don't think that's how it works bro💀
@bqudelairee
@bqudelairee 2 года назад
tip for ubers: if youre waiting for an uber and you think someone is claiming to be your driver, *DO NOT* ask "are you my uber" if they are trying do to something bad to you, they will say yes. instead say "who are you waiting for?" stay safe everyone
@すしむし
@すしむし 2 года назад
No, ladies. Don’t tell them it’s your boyfriends apartment. Tell them it’s your Fathers apartment. Trust me, from my experience they want to ‘meet the boyfriend’, but if they think it’s your Dad, they’ll run a mile. Doesn’t matter if you don’t have a father, just say whatever you can to get these creeps away from you!
@pterocardio
@pterocardio 2 года назад
exactly. ive had guys still try to get me to ride their car even if im literally holding hands with my current partner at that time. there are really people who do not care whether youre taken or not.
@すしむし
@すしむし 2 года назад
@@pterocardio ugh, gross! Some people honestly 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
@itscharliebee2307
@itscharliebee2307 2 года назад
Bingo! Also telling them “it’s my boyfriends apartment” could cause them to get very angry. You’re already dealing with someone who thought it was “okay” to FOLLOW you home. telling them you are also seeing someone else could definitely add more tension to the situation instead of diffuse it. I agree that saying it’s your fathers place is a much safer call.
@394kezzy3
@394kezzy3 2 года назад
@@itscharliebee2307 thank u somebody that’s not brain dead
@underwater_blues8763
@underwater_blues8763 2 года назад
Thats a very smart thing cause fathers are loving but somtimes they can be the deadliest person not to mess with.
@sayuri_ehee
@sayuri_ehee 2 года назад
For anyone who might get attacked: If you're not strong enough or feel like you can't escape, aim for the attacker's eyes or nose. It'll blind them for a while or as y'all know how bad it hurts when you even slightly get hit on the nose, letting you escape. I was taught this by my cousin who learns martial arts.
@acaterpillargivingbirth
@acaterpillargivingbirth 2 года назад
My cousin taught me to "high five" (i don't really know how to explain) the nose if someone is attacking you, so they're confused and in pain and you can escape, because it's really easy to do and works everytime
@anonymouspotato3584
@anonymouspotato3584 2 года назад
Also, if the attacker is a man, you can kick their balls if you can
@dandelionbrr3801
@dandelionbrr3801 2 года назад
Going for the balls may not work since this type of atttack is easy to predict and the man could have some protective pants or sormthing like that
@sayuri_ehee
@sayuri_ehee 2 года назад
@@dandelionbrr3801 yeah but I was talking about the eyes and nose. It might work since those are some delicate parts and hurts like hell
@anonymouspotato3584
@anonymouspotato3584 2 года назад
@@dandelionbrr3801 Yes, but it can be like a back-up in case the others don't work and even just the impact can make the man suffer some pain, it doesn't need to directly hit it
@YMWitty
@YMWitty 2 года назад
I went to university in a fairly safe suburban neighborhood and I still occasionally had girls ask me to walk them home at night. The first time this happened I was like, "Sure, I guess, but this is a pretty chill neighborhood." To which the response from every girl in earshot was, "You're a guy, you wouldn't understand"
@ShawtyGrim
@ShawtyGrim 2 года назад
Uh... boys get sa too???
@trisglldld6634
@trisglldld6634 2 года назад
@@ShawtyGrim but the amount of women vs men who get SA'd is not comparable. Ofc men getting raped and harrassed is horrible and should be acknowledged as well, but women are being catcalled and assaulted way more because of sexism and teaching some young men that they have the right to do anything to women without facing any consequences.
@lemonlime6055
@lemonlime6055 2 года назад
@@trisglldld6634 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼so well said
@dani_drawzz
@dani_drawzz 2 года назад
@@trisglldld6634 true, I still think those girls are terrible people smh
@Coffee_Clown
@Coffee_Clown 2 года назад
@@dani_drawzz . - .
@SW4GGYM4DDI3
@SW4GGYM4DDI3 Год назад
*people are like “protect your daughters!” When it should be like “teach your son manners!”*
@alantennent6576
@alantennent6576 Год назад
Its should be "Protect your kids" Men are 80% more likley to be assaulted.
@lilypieeeeeee
@lilypieeeeeee 8 месяцев назад
@@alantennent6576I think you have your stats wrong tho. Sex trafficker survivors or 98% women and little girls and 2% boys and men
@aw-2130
@aw-2130 7 месяцев назад
The armed robbers in Chicago won't care 🤣 they don't even get arrested anyway. Thanks Democrats.
@Idk-qs4nr
@Idk-qs4nr 5 месяцев назад
@@lilypieeeeeeeWhat stats?💀 Little boys and men are way more assaulted
@justanotherrando8280
@justanotherrando8280 5 месяцев назад
​@@lilypieeeeeee Yeah, but those are just the boys and men that talked about it. Men are told not to share things like that because it's "not manly" I feel bad for them. Women get a lot more support for this kind of stuff.
@Marie-cs6ln
@Marie-cs6ln 2 года назад
More tips: •Being oblivious to your surroundings can get you into a dangerous situation. Don't be on your phone 24/7 in a public place! •If you believe that someone is following you, watching you, or is just making you genuinely uncomfortable, don't be afraid to act psychotic. Chances are, if you start acting crazy, they'll probably not want anything to do with you. •If you're in a new setting (such as visiting a different state alone for the first time, or traveling alone, or just staying somewhere such as a hotel alone), if someone asks "is it just you visiting", "are you new here", or any question related to being new or alone to an area, say no. Say your friends/family are meeting you there, and that you're not new to the area. What seems like small talk could lead to something terrible. •If you're on a first date with someone that's making you a bit uncomfortable, but you have to se the bathroom and don't want to leave your drink unattended, don't be afraid to ask a waiter, waitress, or even a bartender to watch your drink.
@e.6335
@e.6335 2 года назад
*i love this comment section so much, I'm learning a lot from you guys and its so wholesome to see people helping each other out!*
@lightsummer-roblox6938
@lightsummer-roblox6938 2 года назад
Idk i feel like I wouldn't get kidnapped unless its for me organs cuz I'm ugly-
@San-jx1zd
@San-jx1zd 2 года назад
@@lightsummer-roblox6938 don't worry. It's the same for most people in this comment section. But they're just trying to act as if they're living in some action movie when in reality if you're aren't actually trained to kill someone you either going to run or get a critical and run.
@yaseralkady6201
@yaseralkady6201 2 года назад
@@lightsummer-roblox6938 1.you don't know your future if u might get kidnapped or not 2. Dont call yourself ugly, like come on girl u know better and no one is ugly just the people who are mean,selfish,fake,betrayed you,bully, just these people who have ugly personalities are the people who are ugly. I don't know u and never saw ur face but your not ugly u know the song the song YOU DONT HAVE TO CHANGE A THING, THE WORLD CAN CHANGE ITS HEART NO SCARS YOUR BEAUTIFUL Keep that in your head Stay strong and im out peace
@dascreeb5205
@dascreeb5205 2 года назад
I mostly see people saying: just attack them.
@ДеЧись
@ДеЧись 2 года назад
Many tips are more dangerous than they're helpful as they'd need a good amount of luck and / or incredible skills to work but much more likely leading towards an escalation of the situation.
@lyrsoothing9325
@lyrsoothing9325 2 года назад
I love how the comment section is filled with extra tips like thankyou so much ladies you're literally saving a life rn!!!!
@micahkinggodgodself323
@micahkinggodgodself323 2 года назад
Not really because if someone was going to do this they'd probably put alot of research into it beforehand and easily could see this video and decide to wear eye protection when they go out effectively making this video harmful
@buckslayer5612
@buckslayer5612 2 года назад
Extra safety tip get your concealed Cary license if your in America there is no reason not to be armed
@Sonder_V.
@Sonder_V. 2 года назад
@@buckslayer5612 I think that's a bad idea. There has been so many incidents where women especially have a gun on them for safety, only for it to be used to murder them. It's a free murder weapon in the wrong hands 🤷‍♀️ that's why safer, not fatal options like pepper spray are far better
@hxtedbxby
@hxtedbxby Год назад
I had such a scary experience the other day... I went into a small phone repair store with my mom because she had dropped her phone and she had to get her screen replaced, while we were waiting in the store, I caught one of the employees first taking pictures of my face, and then of my body, at first I didn't want to say anything because I didn't know what would happen if I did, but I decided to tell my mom, she then asked the guy if he was taking pictures of me and asked to see his phone, but he deleted everything before he let her check... But even though he deleted everything, we still contacted the police and child protective services, the guy got fired, and they will be deporting him next week (he flew over from India and he lives here illegally, because he hasn't signed any papers or anything) please be careful out there and don't be afraid to use your voice❤️
@chloeeig
@chloeeig Год назад
thats a wild story
@alexeiisgonee
@alexeiisgonee 2 года назад
As a girl who lives in a pretty bad part of town, I also have a tip that has saved me countless of times at night: street lamps are your closest friends. Sometimes, you might be a bit scared to check behind your back. Don't worry about it. If you still need to check, look at the shadows. If you see any shadow other than yours, enter any type of store. Some staff might be willing to help you. Look specifically for other women. Another thing that helps with this situation, but during the day, is sunglasses. If you feel like you're being followed, pretend to wipe/clean your sunglasses and then lift them up. In the reflection, you can see if you're being followed. If someone is behind you, they'll think you're just checking to see if the smudge came off.
@elliewuzzup7689
@elliewuzzup7689 2 года назад
Thank u for this, very helpful!
@calmtunes1580
@calmtunes1580 2 года назад
Great tips thank you!
@user-f0r3shad0wingR4coon
@user-f0r3shad0wingR4coon 2 года назад
i wear glasses, dont think this will work in the dark without much reflection
@zekybg
@zekybg 2 года назад
What the fuck do Girls think of Men
@NoticeMeSenpaiii
@NoticeMeSenpaiii 2 года назад
@@zekybg that they have the potential to cause serious harm (because they do). There's no way to tell which men are predatory and which ones aren't, so women have to protect themselves the same way around all men.
@peace5745
@peace5745 3 года назад
My mom was so scared for my safety that she put me in karate since I was 5 and now I'm a black belt so my friends literally always tell me that they feel safer when I'm with all of them
@hannahholford2250
@hannahholford2250 2 года назад
I wish my parents did this that sounds like such a good idea
@peace5745
@peace5745 2 года назад
@@hannahholford2250 you can still start, it's never too late :)
@Okayyess
@Okayyess 2 года назад
Love ittt
@naveerahasan5262
@naveerahasan5262 2 года назад
My mom is scared for me soo much that she does not let me wear clothes I like (short,tight clothes) and only lets me wear stupid baggy one so guys dont stare at me:))
@nokarumochi3556
@nokarumochi3556 2 года назад
@@hannahholford2250 same here
@iloveallred-headedcharacte7809
@iloveallred-headedcharacte7809 2 года назад
For the boyfriend's apartment thing, I'd actually recommend saying it's your Dad's place. Someone will more likely be intimidated by your father than your boyfriend. As far as everything else, I absolutely agree!!! Stay safe ladies! ☺️💕
@catherineliang1891
@catherineliang1891 Год назад
but that doesn't work as well when you grow older
@greyiishness
@greyiishness Год назад
or your older brother’s
@paulafair8543
@paulafair8543 Год назад
I always remind myself to yell “fire” because more people are likely to run over and help. I also always walk with my keys between my knucles, even if I’m feeling like it’s a safe neighborhood. Bad guys can wander into a good neighborhood.
@ychansluvv
@ychansluvv 7 месяцев назад
Why would they run to the fire?..
@kiwiquu
@kiwiquu 6 месяцев назад
​@@ychansluvvno, i think their point is, when you yell "FIRE!!" more people are going to come to where they heard the voice (and the voice came from you) so they will see you in danger or smth and are most likely to help
@urlocalweeb8946
@urlocalweeb8946 2 года назад
it's such a sad thing that people can't even go out at night without the fear that something or someone will harm them. i genuinely hope that the people who did experience such terrifying acts are safe and okay
@meowneow9041
@meowneow9041 2 года назад
I'm always having this fear literally
@deadcarnivora8648
@deadcarnivora8648 2 года назад
Thats life cry about it
@thecatthatateaflyinduoling2513
@thecatthatateaflyinduoling2513 2 года назад
Bruh it's the night you want angels coming out greeting you?
@tencen7121
@tencen7121 2 года назад
@@thecatthatateaflyinduoling2513 LMAO nah I want human decency 💀
@thecatthatateaflyinduoling2513
@thecatthatateaflyinduoling2513 2 года назад
@@tencen7121 yeah probs santa will remember that next year 💀🤣
@atothetyaknow8202
@atothetyaknow8202 3 года назад
The fact that young girls need to hear this makes me very sad.
@TocaBocaTipsAndTricksWithEva
@TocaBocaTipsAndTricksWithEva 3 года назад
Thank you for these! Im in my second year of middle school, (last year was virtual) and am supposed to walk to school now, I’ve been looking for safety tips just in case!
@waterlily.93
@waterlily.93 3 года назад
can relate to this, we appreciate her.
@Blue_3987
@Blue_3987 3 года назад
I agree I'm in third year
@Midnight_Directioner
@Midnight_Directioner 3 года назад
I’m in my first year 😀
@waterlily.93
@waterlily.93 3 года назад
@Tessa Aurora SAME BESTIE
@katieriley957
@katieriley957 3 года назад
same❤️
@ladypeartree
@ladypeartree 2 года назад
Girls walking alone tend to look down or pretend to be on their phone to avoid eye contact. Don't do that! Lift your head up! Look around, make eye contact with if you have to, it's better to know EXACTLY what is happening in your immediate vicinity than to try and be as unobtrusive as possible
@lovinu4everr
@lovinu4everr 10 месяцев назад
but then i’ll get kidnapped
@Vanilla91459
@Vanilla91459 3 года назад
Thank you for these, I’m 13 and I have had some traumatizing experiences
@edenlevi5485
@edenlevi5485 3 года назад
I'm sorry 💔
@mcdream7701
@mcdream7701 3 года назад
Hold up 13 and traumatic experiences that's crazy
@Occultent
@Occultent 3 года назад
@@mcdream7701 yup just the crazy reality :(
@geraldinecuneo1570
@geraldinecuneo1570 3 года назад
@@mcdream7701 same!
@vxnnnyx
@vxnnnyx 3 года назад
Same girl 😭
@zeroviews1184
@zeroviews1184 3 года назад
As a guy, here are two: Don’t think that because you took a lesson of some self-defense class or watched a RU-vid tutorial that you’ll somehow be able to miraculously defeat some dude who is attacking you. The last thing you need is the delusion that you can take a fight or adequately defend yourself when you actually can’t. If possible, try not to keep your personal defense item (whistle, spray, firearm, etc) in your purse. If someone snatches your purse, you don’t have access to your defense item, and even worse, they now have access to it instead. Stay safe.
@posumau
@posumau 3 года назад
Yeah ty, and btw I take martial arts defence classes, so I could still defend myself if I’m on a higher belt like red/black belt and black belt, if I have more experience. And you could also use hair spray if you don’t have pepper spray to defend yourself, I heard hairspray hurts a ton more than pepper spray.
@86aidan31
@86aidan31 3 года назад
@@posumau I hope that’s a joke. Pepper spray is way worse! Have you been sprayed in the eyes with either? Obviously not pepper spray. Wayyyy worse!
@あかり-j3y6b
@あかり-j3y6b 3 года назад
This is so important
@samaaloda3520
@samaaloda3520 3 года назад
@@86aidan31 what about dry shampoo???
@niggaper4937
@niggaper4937 3 года назад
@@posumau red belt? What
@yumikotus
@yumikotus 3 года назад
the way she talks to us makes me think she’s my older cousin/sister/mom or smthn- it’s so sweet 🥺💕
@Vylo44
@Vylo44 2 года назад
Older mom
@GVB-w2g
@GVB-w2g 11 месяцев назад
As a male who was raped as a kid while walking home from school twice, I feel as though you should make it clear that this isn’t something that just girls should worry about. This is a problem that everyone can experience, not just girls.
@sara-78
@sara-78 8 месяцев назад
this is completely valid, ik she said it for women n stuff bc of the fact it’s SO much more common, but there is no doubt that it happens to men as well. i do agree w what u said and i am soo soo sorry u had to go through that
@AizaImran-q6e
@AizaImran-q6e 5 месяцев назад
See hears the thing, your feelings are completely valid, and men do unfortunately. the real problem is that 90% of women have probably been harassed or SA but not many men, but those who have, are still victims of SA even if they are men. This video was probably more so targeted to young girls because most younger girls are, on social media, AND are unfortunately more 'appealing' to predators. I am so sorry to hear that stuff like this has also happened to you, man or woman.
@Ch_xav
@Ch_xav 5 месяцев назад
Feel bad for u
@Idk-qs4nr
@Idk-qs4nr 5 месяцев назад
@@AizaImran-q6elots of men are victim of SA as well. They just dont say it and society expects them to be happy with it💀
@phinroses13
@phinroses13 5 месяцев назад
Your experience is valid and obviously any videos like this are free for you to view whether you're a woman or not. This is a woman's channel and it's geared towards women, even though anyone can take advice and inspiration from her videos.
@celestebivin1659
@celestebivin1659 2 года назад
One key thing that is always served me well. No matter where you are, no matter if you're lost always, ALWAYS look like you know exactly where you're going. Don't look like a victim that can be preyed upon.
@sarahlawrence599
@sarahlawrence599 2 года назад
and alongside this, STAY OFF YOUR PHONE while you’re walking!!!
@jaidynbrown5716
@jaidynbrown5716 2 года назад
With the “boyfriend’s apartment” one, I’ve used that multiple times and many times the driver or whoever has straight up told me “well if we kiss/hook up before you get there he’ll never know”, that’s when I get out at the next stop sign or light.
@micahkinggodgodself323
@micahkinggodgodself323 2 года назад
Say dad
@soumyabehl614
@soumyabehl614 2 года назад
I always say my father's hous
@soumyabehl614
@soumyabehl614 2 года назад
Or brother's
@jaidynbrown5716
@jaidynbrown5716 2 года назад
@@soumyabehl614 I guess I never think of those cuz I don’t have either of them 😅
@laurenmtz7014
@laurenmtz7014 2 года назад
Say it's your dad's house. Boyfriends aren't that scary to them, but dads are
@Pumpernickel5611
@Pumpernickel5611 3 года назад
Her: Ubers are more safe than walking home alone! Killer Uber driver: well yes but actually no
@llcooldrockindahouse4631
@llcooldrockindahouse4631 3 года назад
Also another big one is be very cautious of who offers you lifts late at night. If it's uber or lyft make sure the license plate in the app matches the real one and be wary of strangers who offer rides when u know they ask you to pay by cash. Esp 4 am in the morning.
@Evija3000
@Evija3000 2 года назад
@@llcooldrockindahouse4631 Especially if they offer you a beer if you'll step into their car. Had one like that, brr...
@lilyslusher
@lilyslusher 2 года назад
kurt krunkle moment
@snem9381
@snem9381 2 года назад
Also send your current live location on an app like FB Messenger, and let people know your starting point/destination
@SharonBoo0305
@SharonBoo0305 2 года назад
You know that the vast majority of Uber drivers are NOT murderers. It’s stupid when people try to negate or discourage safety tips.
@BoyWhoRead
@BoyWhoRead 2 года назад
Fun fact, not only for young girls! As a boy (who loves to wear feminine clothing) these safety tips have saved me many times (◕‿◕)♡
@tommyoliver1747
@tommyoliver1747 Год назад
cool, a femboy
@JustABoy98
@JustABoy98 Год назад
And also for boys like me who neither dress fem or wear makeup anything, yet I get targeted by men for having pretty features, I can't tell you how much I have been in trouble becouse of this it's scary , stay safe everyone
@Scythinox
@Scythinox 3 года назад
As a girl I feel extremely sad and terrified that in modern day society we need safety tips like these just to be safe from creeps amd strangers and it's so unfair...:(
@DKzCoolD2
@DKzCoolD2 3 года назад
Guys gotta learn it too though lol.
@blueweirdo719
@blueweirdo719 3 года назад
@@DKzCoolD2 Yeah but this mostly affects all girls so it’s pointed to girls. But it’s completely fine to learn things if you are a boy.
@mirroruniverse9331
@mirroruniverse9331 3 года назад
@@DKzCoolD2 Yeah ofc, but for a guy it's usually during the night times. But for a girl, creeps are active even during the day
@DKzCoolD2
@DKzCoolD2 3 года назад
@@mirroruniverse9331 nah. You are fine during the day. A catcall cant and wont hurt you.
@fbi9667
@fbi9667 2 года назад
@@DKzCoolD2 I've been molested in daylight, so was millions of other girls/women. Your point reeks of ignorance
@lHSXCRUNNERS
@lHSXCRUNNERS 3 года назад
She is going to be such a good mom 😭✋🏻❤️ Ty for the likes!!
@what9plus10_
@what9plus10_ 3 года назад
No her kids are going to be afraid of everything and are going to walk all over her
@harya28
@harya28 3 года назад
@@what9plus10_ umm no
@vxnnnyx
@vxnnnyx 3 года назад
What if she doesn’t want to be a mom?
@aya-_-3045
@aya-_-3045 3 года назад
@@what9plus10_ wtf is wrong with u. get help
@lHSXCRUNNERS
@lHSXCRUNNERS 3 года назад
@@vxnnnyx then why would she be giving out these tips and making a ton of vids my rules for when I’m GOING to BE a mom?
@pilot_abbi
@pilot_abbi 2 года назад
Also- if a girl (or guy) walks up to you and starts talking like they know you, play along! They might be in danger!
@sandybeehives
@sandybeehives 2 года назад
And if you see who is following, threaten to fing gouge their eyes out, I do do that to people sometimes to get them to leave me alone, it really works
@The-Epigramy
@The-Epigramy Год назад
​@@sandybeehives
@floraqueen156
@floraqueen156 2 года назад
Here is a tip from a 15 year old when i have to walk 20 mins to reach home at night: -Try to walk pass ANY SHOP you can find, try to stay in the light and not in dark areas. Street lights are your friend, but not as much as lights from shops. - Walk with confidence. Do NOT show that you are scared or anxious, it shows. -If someone touches you on the shoulder, especially in public, shout at them show your anger, that will get people's attention. - If they try and call you, ignore, simple ignore them. Never look back. - If you feel like you are being stalked, enter the nearest building you can find. It DOESNOT matter what it is, just enter, tell someone about it, call someone, preferably family members. -Always keep your phone on you.
@Dutchsaiyan
@Dutchsaiyan 2 года назад
Thanks but live in a save place callt the netherlands
@aihyyr
@aihyyr 2 года назад
@@Dutchsaiyan you are lucky
@athankuehl3248
@athankuehl3248 2 года назад
You are clearly from the suburbs lmaooo
@kyleb8672
@kyleb8672 2 года назад
Yes if someone runs at you show confidence and DONT LOOK BACK. You will get fucking jumped and raped but never look back
@prodbyshino
@prodbyshino 2 года назад
Or carry a knife
@kesshami
@kesshami 3 года назад
The best one I have from personal experience: make yourself be more trouble than you are worth. Fight, kick, bite. Whatever you do, fight back. Often times they are looking for an easy grab. Fighting back will likely save your life even if you don’t actually do that much damage
@scarce3336
@scarce3336 3 года назад
You sound like you have experience or something 🧐🧐
@basundharabasumatary3880
@basundharabasumatary3880 3 года назад
@@scarce3336 they literally said from their personal experience
@scarce3336
@scarce3336 3 года назад
@@basundharabasumatary3880 oh I am f*cking blind
@yossyasmey8245
@yossyasmey8245 2 года назад
I feel like it also depends though, cos sometimes you gotta run but sometimes your situation would work
@martonk8858
@martonk8858 2 года назад
Fighting back most of the times end your life and not saving you. pls stop giving stupid advices like this. You risking peoples life with this advice. Why do you want them to die?
@cottonbud1393
@cottonbud1393 2 года назад
Here’s a tip: if anyone grabs your or anything press ur finger hard on their neck, they wouldn’t be able to breath that much and it would also hurt them/cause pain.
@micahkinggodgodself323
@micahkinggodgodself323 2 года назад
Eyes are better
@user-f0r3shad0wingR4coon
@user-f0r3shad0wingR4coon 2 года назад
i saw from another comment that pulling their ear as fast as you can and put all your bodyweight into that pull you can hurt or even rip their ear off
@kamilaiskhakova7125
@kamilaiskhakova7125 2 года назад
Are we assuming the assailant will just let you do that tho? They will probably grab your hand or pull away. Just pressing your single finger against their neck, no matter how hard, would just get that finger broken tbh
@pattube
@pattube 8 месяцев назад
Controversial: 1. Carry a weapon (e.g. mace, pepper spray, knife, gun if allowed). 2. I know it can be used against you, but that's why #2 is regularly train with your weapon(s). For example, gun handling and safety classes.
@itsmekai322
@itsmekai322 3 года назад
I’m an 11 year old girl that walks home and I’m so grateful that there’s good people in the world like her💖
@frieza2235
@frieza2235 2 года назад
Key tip also is don't stop to talk to anyone
@Arif_Raziq
@Arif_Raziq 2 года назад
Are you always alone?
@Eva_1423_
@Eva_1423_ 2 года назад
Im 11 too turning soon to twelve
@nabaninandi4140
@nabaninandi4140 2 года назад
Tell your parents to accompany you....wherever you go....never let anyone gets too close to you....if you see someone walking behind you...keep some red chilli powder or pepper spray or powder....in your bag....use your phone....have fake conversation that your dad is near and you can see him....don't go to lonely places...find females around you...or any decent looking men...stay close to them....
@hoseokismyhope3351
@hoseokismyhope3351 2 года назад
Try not to look at your phone when walking alone, look at your surroundings. Stay safe, sweetheart, maybe you can have someone accompany you?
@azulochoa4846
@azulochoa4846 2 года назад
I also have one, never say “is this my Uber” instead say “who are you waiting for?” Trust me
@siennathebanana
@siennathebanana 2 года назад
thank you for this usually i’m really scared to go in ubers alone
@ItsMeAinsley55
@ItsMeAinsley55 2 года назад
Or say “where are you heading?” After you ask that question
@succulentpresence9030
@succulentpresence9030 2 года назад
Or verify the car, color of the car, license plate, uber driver using their picture using the info given on the app (for all the introverts out there)
@HippohiFIVE
@HippohiFIVE 2 года назад
Yea cause they could just be a kidnapper and be like 😐 yea
@jsettle939
@jsettle939 Год назад
Just ask the driver for some sort of ID, real employees have to identify themselves
@auggienussbaum
@auggienussbaum 2 года назад
As a trans guy it really helped me. It shouldn't be "protect girls" it should be "teach children to respect 👏EV👏ERY👏ONE👏"
@blackstarduotwins5325
@blackstarduotwins5325 2 года назад
FOR THE TRANS RIGHTS!
@sadecebiri6294
@sadecebiri6294 2 года назад
I agree, also trans men are men too🏳️‍⚧️
@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe
@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe 2 года назад
That’s stupid. That’s like saying “it shouldn’t be ‘lock your house doors’ it should be ‘teacher children to respect everyone’”. No matter what gets taught, there are always gonna be bad people.
@moachapter
@moachapter 2 года назад
@@roseeli6191 it's a great example and it gets the point across
@ikkoff4265
@ikkoff4265 2 года назад
@Taña Nii I kinda of agree everyone should respect each other but also proctect yourself because if you teach you child to respect everyone is good but the evil people does not always listen that's why they are called evil they don't litsen to other people so always try to protect yourself!
@Ashykitty
@Ashykitty 2 года назад
Another tip to add to the list: The ears are very fragile! Since they're made of cartilage and thin bones, if you are forced into a struggle, grab your attacker's ear and DROP YOUR WHOLE BODY TO THE GROUND as hard as you can. This can easily tear the ear from the head.
@chewbacca_saysiloveyou4758
@chewbacca_saysiloveyou4758 2 года назад
Wait what- 😀
@notraidenshogun8324
@notraidenshogun8324 2 года назад
This is..... 🤒 Edit: some comments below are wild, proceed with caution-
@Starper.
@Starper. 2 года назад
Wtf
@pretty965
@pretty965 2 года назад
Whaaaaaaaaat really?
@ShoukaKizu
@ShoukaKizu 2 года назад
Oh... Thanks for the tip but instead i'll pull their ear AND SCREAM AS LOUD AS I CAN if they dont go away... Ill just kick em in the nuts
@tignarita
@tignarita 2 года назад
my dads safety advice for me and my sister was "go for the knees and once they're down make sure they stay there" lmao
@iialexiarxse2897
@iialexiarxse2897 2 года назад
It's all about the knees
@すしむし
@すしむし 2 года назад
@@iialexiarxse2897 and balls LMAOOO
@Sinderelleelostmyglasslipper66
@Sinderelleelostmyglasslipper66 2 года назад
I went for the balls when I was a young girl. They went down hard. It takes them a while to recover so you can get away.
@tignarita
@tignarita 2 года назад
@@Sinderelleelostmyglasslipper66 that works to, on both genders actually lol
@drewcliff82
@drewcliff82 2 года назад
I'm a guy and I follow these too lol. I never bring anyone to my home until I get to know them. My personal protection is a gun, but I was in the Army for 10 years and know how to handle and use it. Always avoid dark areas at night, have access to a phone and the number 1 thing for me is always always always be aware of whats going on around you. With the walking thing I would say don't be walking alone late at night, especially in an area you aren't familiar with. Great video.
@IdkIdk-ld3sy
@IdkIdk-ld3sy Год назад
Thank you!
@definitelynotcampchikin
@definitelynotcampchikin Год назад
Thank you for your service
@JustABoy98
@JustABoy98 Год назад
I am a guy too and these advices are very useful for me too , I am not gay yet I am targeted and forced by alot of men in my life before for having pretty features . Ty for your service in army 😄
@d4na.511
@d4na.511 Год назад
What I do 😭 1: Self defense 2: Self Defense is all I Need
@eline_sandes
@eline_sandes 2 года назад
My neighborhood has a lot of creepy people and here’s a few things I learned over the years; 1) Walk confidently. Even when you have no idea where you’re going, walk like you do until you find a safe place (preferably a store) and then check your phone for guidance. This helped me navigate in cities while traveling alone 2) Try to carry something that could be used as a weapon in an emergency: an umbrella, keys, even a full water bottle will do. 3) In case you’re driving, keep the car lights off until the doors are locked and your car is ignited 4) even if you’re in a hurry, if you have to choose between a longer but safer way, and a shorter but more dangerous path, always choose the safest option
@liza003X
@liza003X 2 года назад
Why should you keep the car lights off? If it's dark, it'll be just as bad for you if you don't see anyone approaching. Or am I missing something? Edit: sentence framing
@norimori5170
@norimori5170 2 года назад
Another thing when travelling alone! Never, EVER, look like you’re unfamiliar with the place even if you are. Predators will take advantage of it and tell you to go a certain way (which probably to make u even more lost and they/ their pal can catch you), or even offer to show u the way themselves (DONT). If you need to ask for a direction, ask a security, a shop attendant, restaurant servers or people who doesn’t seem too chill. Always have your self-defense tool in your hand especially at night and don’t be afraid to hurt them.
@amberjay499
@amberjay499 2 года назад
@@liza003X nah most of the time if the lights are off there is no tell if you are man or a woman and if they are following you it's better if they don't see what's inside your car or if you are actually alone or not .
@atriyakoller136
@atriyakoller136 2 года назад
@@liza003X if your lights are off they may think the car is empty
@ren8432
@ren8432 2 года назад
I am directionally challenged person and trust me walking confidently works. Never make it obvious that you are lost or unfamiliar with the place just walk until you see a crowd or a well lighted place. Be calm but vigilant.
@izzabellehandley2782
@izzabellehandley2782 2 года назад
Spencer's like a big sister that gives tips to get you ready for life❤️
@airtiger4577
@airtiger4577 2 года назад
And the girl I met earlier this spring that lives in another country and is 2 years older than me is like the big sister I've always wanted.
@hapustatw
@hapustatw 2 года назад
Also - teach your sons as soon as possible about consent, respect and personal boundaries. It's important for future men to be better. ***So.. a lot of people jumping on my comment saying I'm "targeting men", I'm literally responding to a video about how women often have to take extra precautions in order to keep themselves safe (statistically, from men more than other women). My original comment wasn't a "dig" at men, it was an observation on how we can and should help future men to be better to others _and_ to themselves. Chill.***
@brinabeeful
@brinabeeful 2 года назад
My son is only 2.5 and I've already started saying when "someone says no, you need to respect that. If they say stop, you stop." It's usually to do with him being a rascal bum, but I'm hoping the lesson will sink into his subconscious and it'll translate into other things as he gets older.
@no_namegkjhfkashfkdshflkjdashf
@no_namegkjhfkashfkdshflkjdashf 2 года назад
This is what I'm trying to teach my son. He's only 7 months old but I've been teaching him about consent and boundaries since birth. And don't forget about teaching boys that they can consent, too. I know plenty of men and boys who have been SAd as well as women
@hattiecourt179
@hattiecourt179 2 года назад
@Eleanor Murgatroy ikr. I'm a pre-teen and there was a creepy guy in an underpass catcalling me and trying to grab my ankles. He then told my mother who was yelling at him he 'wants to marry me'
@hapustatw
@hapustatw 2 года назад
@@brinabeeful Me too ever since my son was able to talk and understand, I've been teaching about consent (no means no)
@hapustatw
@hapustatw 2 года назад
@@no_namegkjhfkashfkdshflkjdashf Yeah I'm the same with my son, he's 7 years old now but is very respectful and aware of others boundaries, as well as having strong ones of his own.
@Cate_outfitfinder
@Cate_outfitfinder Год назад
I wish they had a feature on the Uber app where you could request a female driver. I feel like that would makes me a lot more relaxed to be in an Uber with a women driver.
@hasmikjasmine26
@hasmikjasmine26 7 месяцев назад
so yk how people are telling in the comments to ask who the driver is supposed to pick up? well that could also be in case someone wanted to kidnap you. don’t forget that a woman could also kidnap u! i get what u mean but be cautious. stay safe❤
@turtle7039
@turtle7039 2 года назад
It's awful that girls need to hear this and need to know how to protect themselves because they should be safe but unfortunately there are bad people who don't agree with that so It's great that we have people like her who can help them know what to do/ how to avoid certain situations.
@croatiankpopfan7709
@croatiankpopfan7709 2 года назад
It’s awful that this happens everywhere and I’m not aware of it as much since it’s super super safe where I live.
@turtle7039
@turtle7039 2 года назад
@@Rylanha I didn't mean that men didn't experience things like that, I just wanted to emphasise the fact that women are targeted more and aren't taken as seriously when they open up about things that have happened to them.
@amacore7
@amacore7 2 года назад
@Keep calm in the other comment section, you were calling someone paranoid, but now you’re annoyed that this video doesn’t include guys? make up your mind.
@erlingnesbakken9871
@erlingnesbakken9871 2 года назад
@@turtle7039 Actually I strongly disagree with your last point there. I feel like women are taken MUCH more seriously compared to men. I mean, unproven rape accusations have ruined countless mens’ lives simply because women are always taken seriously with accusations like that. Now I ask you, would you take it as seriously if a guy told you he got raped by a woman? Probably not.
@turtle7039
@turtle7039 2 года назад
@@erlingnesbakken9871 I absolutely would take it seriously, rape is not okay on any level, to any one, no matter what the circumstances. I'm not saying that things that happen to women are worse than men or vice versa, I was simply just saying that ad things happen to people who don't necessarily deserve it ( and the video was talking about women's safety, so that's how I worded it). I agree that it isn't just women who these things happen to and that men are shut down for opening up about those types of situations they've been in, but women are still put down for these things and told that they're over reacting (which doesn't just happen to them). I did word my comment generally gender neutrally, it was just that the video was about these incidents happening to women, so that's how I started it off. I hope that makes some form of sense?
@yirgadamtew
@yirgadamtew 3 года назад
For the boys: please avoid walking behind girls/women for a long period of time at night. If you notice that you’ve been walking behind somebody for a few minutes maybe just chill at the sidewalk for 2 or 3 minutes Edit: I just want to clarify, that I’m not telling anyone what to do. I just wanted to give other men who are willing to make small sacrifices for other people another way of doing that. Maybe my wording “please avoid[…]” was a bit wrong… sorry about that
@yirgadamtew
@yirgadamtew 3 года назад
@@miketurd6497 “being treated as criminals” is a bit exaggerated isn’t it. It’s not a huge problem to stay where you are for 2 minutes if you ask me. I mean I just think it would be nice if guys would avoid scaring women. Because women are scared of being raped and rightfully so. This whole thing is not about treating men like criminals - it’s about encouraging men to be more careful and maybe making just a small compromise for other people’s well being. I hope you understand
@vikashdevanraj781
@vikashdevanraj781 3 года назад
Dude i have this fear man. I can't walk behind girls. It's just like a weird feeling. I would walk faster and go pass them or I'll walk slowly. If they're slow too, I'd just wait for a few minutes
@yirgadamtew
@yirgadamtew 3 года назад
@@bobsaget338 that’s pretty selfish but I you can do what you want. Main thing is you don’t ACTUALLY hurt someone
@yirgadamtew
@yirgadamtew 3 года назад
@@bobsaget338 I wasn’t trying to convince rapists, murderers, etc. to change, I’m just trying to raise awareness and make a little suggestion for people who are willing to do something for other people (even if it’s late at nights). “If you’re not one of them (for whatever reason) that’s also ok” is basically what I was trying to say with my last comment. As I said, it was just a suggestion.
@elinalukaziak693
@elinalukaziak693 2 года назад
@@bobsaget338 men like you clearly love making women fear you. Disgusting.
@moonmoonow4514
@moonmoonow4514 2 года назад
Actual safety tips for any girls that feel they need them. Act assertive and a little aggressive. If they grab you headbutt the nose, stomp toes or hit the balls. All are high pain inducing causing them to let go. If you act scared, you look like prey. Remember you don’t need to be scared if you’re the toughest chick you can be.
@andradabondoc1888
@andradabondoc1888 Год назад
My mom won’t let me have self defense weapons or be aggressive she tells me just to ignore it
@BDuf-ud2ck
@BDuf-ud2ck 7 месяцев назад
I’m sorry to hear that. If you can, try to use anything you can find like keys, pens, books, to protect yourself. I don’t mean to be rude, but I think your mom should get educated about this and how can you possibly ignore your own safety?!? I hope you stay safe
@SecondKira-i4l
@SecondKira-i4l 2 года назад
I was planning to go out tommorow in a cosplay, knowing that there are alot of dudes that are.."into cosplay" this really helped me thanks!
@avibreak2701
@avibreak2701 2 года назад
When she said “where is your phone” I looked around for it the remembered it was in my hand 😭
@jerrybananas
@jerrybananas 2 года назад
Here’s some of mine. 1. Make a necklace with a whistle on it. That way it’s easily accessible, and guys can’t see it from the back. 2. Wear strong shoes. Doc Marten boots/shoes are my personal favorite. You can run, but since they are also steel toed, if a man tries to grab you just kick him in the balls, it will hurt. 3. If it’s a sunny day, or you’re just able to see your shadow, look at it. Others shadows will come up to, and you can potentially see if someone is behind you or running up to you so if you don’t know them you have somewhat of a head start. 4. If possible, join the band. Like seriously. And get a trombone. These things are big, potential weapon cases, weigh you down so you’re harder to carry, plus you’re in a band and it’s fun to play. 5. If the unfortunate thing happens, and you know you’re about to get kidnapped, call 911. If you cannot talk, hide your phone anywhere possible no matter what. This will ping your local cell towers, making it easy to locate you.
@iicaryin
@iicaryin 2 года назад
hello, i have a question about number 5, so like, after I call 911, I'll just leave my phone somewhere as long as it's kinda close to me and the police will still find me?
@Ananasul8
@Ananasul8 2 года назад
@@iicaryin yes
@missserenity1090
@missserenity1090 2 года назад
Also: gouge out the eyes of you can. It sounds awful but it will do the job and also make your attacker more identifiable.
@ariamoonfall4558
@ariamoonfall4558 2 года назад
@@iicaryin if you're too scared to talk just leave the phone on the lowest volume so you don't further aggravate the potential assailant and the operator can still hear a struggle and then send police to your location. You can also talk to the assailant while dropping hints about your location "so you think you can attack me in a park?" The operator can see your general location from the cell tower your phone is connected to and then they just look around for a park to get your location faster
@jerrybananas
@jerrybananas 2 года назад
@@iicaryin yes. As long as it’s near.
@anna.lewis13
@anna.lewis13 Год назад
as a 14 year old girl, i was followed with two of my friends who were also 14. this guy was probably in his 50s. he turned around after we got on my high school campus, and idek why he was there in the first place. people are so fucking creepy
@BrotatoSUSSY
@BrotatoSUSSY 3 месяца назад
That’s creepy! I hope that never happens again :(
@dontevengothere8952
@dontevengothere8952 2 года назад
I'm a female living in the Netherlands and in our culture it's normal to have a bicycle. When I'm going out I cycle and it makes me feel so safe. Most sa's happen by people we know and often times trust. So at night I feel safer cycling alone. Also with a bike you're faster, you're home quicker and you can "outrun" your enemy quicker. I absolutely love this part of our culture because it makes me feel safe at night
@Lusciol3s
@Lusciol3s 2 года назад
I Saw a film years ago and the girl was cycling to her home, some guys where in a car and run into her several times, she was rape. I was little when i Saw this and there were no warning or age limits for the program. I was afraid of bikes. Witch is weird because i should be afraid of men. Now that i was sexually assaulted in my own bed, i m struggling to feel safe. And i m afraid of men. A woman could assault me either. But i am so afraid of men because i know that most of Women are assaulted, almost Every will be. So we Can tell that most of men are sexually assaulting women.
@dontevengothere8952
@dontevengothere8952 2 года назад
@@Lusciol3s I don't know how old you are or how much you have experienced. All I can say is that it will always be a struggle but you will get through it. You will feel safe again. Be cautious about the people you hang out with, but there are good people out there. You will find faith in humanity again. You will be okay, because you've already survived. You're stronger than you think
@NormallyImKim
@NormallyImKim 2 года назад
@@Lusciol3s I'm so sorry it happened to you. Hearing stories like this breaks my young heart. Why do men want to hurt us? We didn't do anything wrong!
@wickedlove1890
@wickedlove1890 2 года назад
Je kunt makkelijk van je fiets getrokmen worden, je kunt beter niet alleen over straat gaan s nachts
@meghansullivan6812
@meghansullivan6812 2 года назад
@@Lusciol3s so sorry you’ve gone through this :( hope you’re able to heal
@skyeandicy
@skyeandicy 3 года назад
also: try to learn how to do one good front kick / weak spots to hit someone in case of emergency. Diaphragm is right under ribcage, and that can knock the wind out of someone really easily.
@howlovely1461
@howlovely1461 3 года назад
This is great advice. I do a martial arts and punches are usually under the nose and above the mouth (between the nose and mouth) it may seem to not do much but that part is super sensitive and it’ll give you time to get help or call the police!
@ruryryryry8909
@ruryryryry8909 3 года назад
Also the groin
@mrcobblepot1116
@mrcobblepot1116 3 года назад
Nooooooooooooo
@mrcobblepot1116
@mrcobblepot1116 3 года назад
Never be a fucking hero in any situation unless you want to escalate it and actually f*** up an already f**ked up situation. Just run away
@howlovely1461
@howlovely1461 3 года назад
@@mrcobblepot1116 although this is Linda good advice as well, even if you just run they will just run after you. If you at least hit them then run you’ll have a better chance of getting away.
@raniariri6695
@raniariri6695 2 года назад
I think that every situation is different and you can never be 100% prepared but the important thing is trying to make the best decision for you in that moment, my tips are : 1) Don't let people memorize your routine, always change it, if you are in school or you work don't always leave your house the same time and change road and sometimes take the bus, train, uber like don't be predictable. 2) avoid walking alone at night as much as you can, you see a group of people walking walk with them. 3) try to park close to where you are hanging out, the closer the safer and don't offer no ride to stranger even if they make you feel awkward, bcs most of the times girls don't say no bcs they are afraid of embarrassment or hurting that person's feelings, 4) don't be afraid to make a scene and if you can run just run don't look back cause you have the advantage that person doesn't know where you are running to, you can make a turn at anytime 5) my final tip is trust your gut believe me we feel it but most of the time we ignore it so be paranoid and safe better than act proper and be in hell, stay safe out there and also this happen to men too so everyone be safe out there
@nosisamaseko2825
@nosisamaseko2825 2 года назад
I cant believe we have to live like this wtf😭
@CHolmes
@CHolmes Год назад
Even as a man I do many of these things. I am constantly aware of my surroundings and always ready to defend myself. People are jerks. Do everything in your power to be prepared for the worst.
@chocolatebrownie6256
@chocolatebrownie6256 2 года назад
If someone tries to abduct you don’t be afraid to fight back, act crazy, scream it will attract peoples attention. Also use your elbow it’s the strongest part of your body.
@daashazireael6613
@daashazireael6613 2 года назад
If you have to walk home or to school work the bus station try and take a different route every day. Don't take the same route you took to get there when you go back. Even If it's a block or so longer it's worth it. I've had guys noticed when I got off the bus and the streets I take and wait for me. Also men if you see a girl walking and it's like not in the middle of nowhere don't stop and ask if they need a ride. Chances are they're not going far and it will scare them more than make them feel okay. Always carry something in your hands that you can use as a weapon. Like keys or even your phone. Better to have a smashed phone than be hurt. Walk confidently. Don't look down don't be on your phone. Take good strong strides and try not to come off as meek. Don't take shortcuts if they're on less busy roads or alleys. Stay on the main roads and where there's traffic and people. It's okay to say no to someone who needs to use your phone or whatever if you're on an empty street. Try not to stop for anyone or anything just say no and keep going. Remember your life is more important than coming off as a bitch or being embarrassed. I've did things that could have put me in danger because I didn't want to be rude. But it's better to be rude. If anyone man or woman pulls up in a car and asks you to come over instead of just talking to you where you are do not go to them. Stay away and answer their directions question or if they need a lighter or phone make them come to you away from their car. There's been several people who have went to my kids bus stop and tried to get them to come over to answer a question and thank God they said no. Talking on the phone can help but don't make it to where you are distracted. Don't ever be distracted always be aware of your surroundings. If you smoke try not to light if someone is near by do not give them a reason to ask for a smoke or a lighter. If you listen to music while walking only have one earphone in and have the music turned down so you can still hear if someone comes up on you. Try to avoid buildings on streets that have enclosures or doorways that go into the building a bit so someone can't jump out and startle you. Know your route. Know what street goes where what businesses are open and you can run to if needed. Know how close the police station is. Know your maps so if you need to go a different route you won't get lost. Act like you know where you are even if you don't. Be loud af if someone is following you.
@athankuehl3248
@athankuehl3248 2 года назад
Most of this is complete paranoia you need therapy not to be giving "advice" lmaooo
@Cosplay_Furry
@Cosplay_Furry 2 года назад
@@athankuehl3248 this info is actually very useful and has helped many times! Please don't discount it cause i will be pissed
@daashazireael6613
@daashazireael6613 2 года назад
@@athankuehl3248 it's not though. It's a sad fact of being a woman walking alone at night. I have been stopped a hundred times yelled at had my way blocked grabbed touched followed. I've seen people get snatched up. I've been mugged because I wasn't paying attention and playing on my phone with earphones in. My husband has had his grocery bags grabbed because he was fumbling and had too much to carry. He's been mugged as well for not being aware and walking down an alley. I've had men waiting for me on a route and say I've noticed you walking this way. The fact that you think it's paranoia is coming from a privileged space of not having to deal with that shit. I mean fuck I've had a guy jump in my car before. And another yell across the street thinking he could boss me around and I'd walk over to him and he threatened to pull a gun on me because I ignored him. I lived in a college town that turned ghetto and it was everywhere even in the nice part of the city.
@stephaniefrost5168
@stephaniefrost5168 2 года назад
Or if you live in a country that allows get a concealed carry permit
@daashazireael6613
@daashazireael6613 2 года назад
@@stephaniefrost5168 well that doesn't always help. And that's coming from someone who has one. And our public transit doesn't allow them. I would rather avoid a situation where I need to use it anyways. It's a last resort. Most people aren't accustomed to killing even in defense and the trauma that comes with it yes its better than being assaulted which is why I think it's smart to have a weapon
@London.officials
@London.officials 2 года назад
“Protect your daughters” no, teach your sons
@jdb9927
@jdb9927 2 года назад
Doesn’t work like that. Messed up people don’t just learn
@marshkhiangte9546
@marshkhiangte9546 2 года назад
Yes teach ur sons
@volgax2
@volgax2 2 года назад
Or both.
@multipurpose6984
@multipurpose6984 11 месяцев назад
GIRLS SHOULD LEARN TO PROTECT THEMSELVES
@Viod753
@Viod753 11 месяцев назад
@@volgax2 Indeed! in reality the saying should be "protect your children" and "teach your children how to protect themselves".
@karengrace6890
@karengrace6890 2 года назад
I once went grocery shopping at night. Parking lot was empty except myself and another van that was parked far but when I finished my shopping and came outside, I saw the van next to my car on the driver's side. As I walked towards my car, I quickly got in my car through the passenger's side, locked all the doors right away. I climbed into the drivers side and looked to my left where the van was parked and saw two men in the van looking at me. Then I put my keys in the ignition and then drove away. I live in the States in a fairly low key suburb and those two men probably thought I was really strange for entering my car through the wrong door, but it's okay because I'll never see them again and I'm safe.
@real_smilegamez
@real_smilegamez 2 года назад
I'm guessing the guy on the right was gonna grab you put you in the back while the other guy was gonna drive away... because they don't just change parking next to someone for no reason
@censored3553
@censored3553 2 года назад
These tips except for the first one applies to literally all youngsters(for a lack of better term). I hope one day we could live in a world where our parents don't have to worry about us (Especially daughters) being out of home late. Where we can live without the fear of being attacked or kidnaped, but right now that is not the reality. So please keep your heads up
@SaggyWattle
@SaggyWattle 2 года назад
I don’t think it’s necessary to be carrying around pepper spray but everything else is a good tip
@restitution823
@restitution823 2 года назад
@@SaggyWattle sometimes it really is. A lot of women carry it around. There are plenty of bad people (especially late at night) and pepper spray hurts! It’s unfortunate that women, sometimes men can’t feel safe alone. I have seen so many self defense videos. Pepper spray is necessary and probably won’t take up much space in a purse or bag
@SaggyWattle
@SaggyWattle 2 года назад
@@restitution823 fair enough, I’m just thinking if you’re getting attacked you wouldn’t really be able to unzip your bag and I assume you’d need both hands to open it like deodorant and it would be better to just run away or avoid places like alleyways ect.
@restitution823
@restitution823 2 года назад
@@SaggyWattle sometimes those aren’t avoidable. And, out of all the self defense things you can carry pepper spray is probably the most convenient
@micahkinggodgodself323
@micahkinggodgodself323 2 года назад
@@restitution823 wdym sometimes men it's the other way around men are assaulted much more than women are
@uchiha6
@uchiha6 3 года назад
It's actually depressing to see girls have to actually take care of their safety and are worried about it. Would u really hurt a fellow human? I mean I don't understand why people do it Edit: Morons In the reply section think I mean "I dont understand why people take care of their safety, My meaning was WHY PEOPLE DO IT(DO IT AS IN DO CRIMES AND HURT WOMEN) Total shitbags
@daniels1263
@daniels1263 2 года назад
Money or something else valuable
@frieza2235
@frieza2235 2 года назад
Umm, everyone has to take care of their safety...
@Diiazy
@Diiazy 2 года назад
@@frieza2235 yes but people in general mainly target women as biologically their weaker. Yes a woman can be stronger then a man but it’s unlikely
@skyrimenjoyer
@skyrimenjoyer 2 года назад
@@Diiazy Nah children are targeted the most because they are the weakest and pretty easy do trick.
@ilikelefunymemes2828
@ilikelefunymemes2828 2 года назад
Anyone has to take care of their safety.
@gumpfy
@gumpfy 5 месяцев назад
Your honesty like a big sister like giving advice to strangers on the Internet yes 🙌
@gracebilly
@gracebilly 2 года назад
I live in Korea and whenever I’m alone shopping or eating sitting down guys always come up to me and try things with me but then I stand up and the fear and regret in their eyes as they apologize and walk away from me lol I wish I you could see it. My face does look like a baby but I’m 6’4” and it’s an interesting combination to have in Korea
@SheillaKhonada
@SheillaKhonada 2 года назад
You go girl! Stay safe always xx
@iialexiarxse2897
@iialexiarxse2897 2 года назад
@@SheillaKhonada what you said I agree
@chocopoms
@chocopoms 2 года назад
ok...?
@zhasyane
@zhasyane 2 года назад
I wish i was tall 😭
@iloveconangray7
@iloveconangray7 2 года назад
if someone says “ur mum (or anyone) said for me to me pick u up” just said ur mum is dead - If they say “ wanna see my cat/dog?” Just say ur allergic
@gwendalynpeterson5739
@gwendalynpeterson5739 2 года назад
Or have a code word to make sure you're mom actually sent them
@jellyshort3592
@jellyshort3592 2 года назад
I think your other tips are good but one has a bit of a flaw. Even though it can be dangerous to walk home alone at night, it can still be dangerous to get in a Uber, with a person you don’t know, alone. They could be a kidnapper or murderer even if they also might just be a normal Uber driver
@atriyakoller136
@atriyakoller136 2 года назад
Exactly! Like there arw the news stories of taxi drivers murdering girls. I'm always scared of both options and once happened to get into a sticky situation im the subway (some drunk guys started fighting inside the train and one of them actually sprayed pepperspray, luckily it wasn't in my direction, but it still hurt and as soon as we came to the station, everyone ran out) and that was the time I took a taxi. But the very same day, as I was entering the subway (Friday, 10:30 p.m., going home from work) a guy was in front of me who kept turning around and looking at me in a very creepy manner and that looked like he was trying to follow me, so I took the train going to the wrong direction, went one station back and there went back in the right direction. Managed to get away from that creepy dude and that fight happened. So I just left the subway, everyone was panicking, so was I, and I just called a taxi and went home. Was hella scared.
@teddystark9426
@teddystark9426 2 года назад
I’ve had to take uber to work a lot, i trust them quite a bit. They background check the drivers frequently, there are ratings for the drivers, and it gives their full name, car make/model and color, license plate, and a photo of the driver in an easily shareable way. Uber also tracks them, and you can watch the route on your phone while they drive. There’s also a few safety features built into the app where you can share your location with friends/family during the drive, and instantly alert authorities if anything goes wrong. I know bad things can always happen, but I’d trust an uber over a cab
@nemobard
@nemobard 2 года назад
Yes, that's true. When you get into an uber, always make sure to audibly (let the driver hear the first couple of phone rings on speaker, then switch to mic mode) call a reliable friend/family and tell them the number plate and name of the driver and estimated time of arrival to your destination. Seconly, share your trip to your selected contacts so they can call you when your trip ends. Let the driver hear you, and if they get visibly offended, please don't offend them further, instead tell them that two separate uber drivers made you feel very unsafe and therefore now you've started doing this even though most of them are really nice. Follow up with a 'not all men' type thing of necessary. Pisses me off that we have to take so many steps to ensure simple safety, but it is what it is.
@tailsmad8155
@tailsmad8155 2 года назад
I will literally *never* go out alone at night. My friend's mum once suggested to me that I walk home since my house was just around the corner.. it was 9pm and pitch black outside, my phone was dead. I had to convince these parents (that I barely ever interact with) and argue over it to get them to call my dad to pick me up
@WinterBreezy
@WinterBreezy 2 года назад
Another good one to use if someone’s asking where your going or following you just say your going to see your dad who just recently got out of 5 years in jail! Or a simple one is a family reunion no one wants to try something when your entire family is there and we all have at least a few crazy aunts or uncles!
@easyartshorts4993
@easyartshorts4993 2 года назад
Is it ok if we tell them we are going to the police station? 🙂
@Chicken_nuggy123
@Chicken_nuggy123 2 года назад
I feel really bad that you guys have to think about these kinds of things. I wish we could live in A world where we didn’t need it.
@hauntedaepp
@hauntedaepp 2 года назад
Tip: It’s not always a good idea to say it’s your boyfriends house. If they show interest in you, it could cause them to get mad that you are in a relationship with someone else. Say that it’s your dads house. Trust me, most of em will run away as quick as they can. If not, have your dads number on the ready incase you need him to come outside. If you don’t have a dad, your best bet is to call someone close by. Like say you uncle lives 5 mins away. Call him.
@hauntedaepp
@hauntedaepp Год назад
@jenna_xoxo heyyyyy:)
@omgimbeth
@omgimbeth 2 года назад
when i have kids when i’m older, no matter their gender, i WILL teach them to respect everybody and give help whenever needed.
@inbaconwetrust880
@inbaconwetrust880 2 года назад
It’s so sad that we actually need to know and be aware of these things
@goddes_of_autumn8376
@goddes_of_autumn8376 2 года назад
EXACTLY my thought :(
@General_shit_sound_effect
@General_shit_sound_effect 2 года назад
That is very true
@General_shit_sound_effect
@General_shit_sound_effect 2 года назад
Sadly bad people are gonna be bad people...nothing you can really do about it
@TurtlesTM
@TurtlesTM 2 года назад
If someone is following you, turn around and walk back where there are a lot of people before you call for help. If you’re not sure, tell strangers around you that you are uncomfortable. It’s always good to let others know
@Eve_Vanlo
@Eve_Vanlo 2 года назад
One thing that I love about my family is that my mum will pick me up in ANY situation even if it is something I will get in trouble for she will still pick me up. Even if it’s 2 in the morning she will pick me up no matter what.
@yoo350
@yoo350 2 года назад
Thats good but your mom wont be always with u to pick u up
@poppywilson9793
@poppywilson9793 2 года назад
This girl needs more respect
@reix.
@reix. 2 года назад
Actually in Singapore where I live, it's super safe and lesser to worry about these things happening. But I rlly appreciate those tips! Ty
@maghilisai3695
@maghilisai3695 2 года назад
Omg sameee
@Ace_Unic0rn
@Ace_Unic0rn 2 года назад
Well I've found out that cuz I act quite paranoid (I'm literally unable to walk around normally, I stare down everything) people avoid me. I also mutter and ramble, also avoided. Most people don't want to mess with someone who looks crazy and could be more of a threat, you aren't what they want no more, be crazy. For reference I live in the UK.
@timothyjones3410
@timothyjones3410 2 года назад
I've long thought there should be a "one click" function on phones that takes a picture and sends it instantly to a designated phone or email. No more looking at the phone and fiddling with it and sending. Everything in one click. It would be very helpful to women if guys instantly knew they had been one clicked-maybe because a certain color light appears on the phone or something. Destroying the phone would be futile; the image will have been sent. This function could ward off bad intentioned men but not frighten the good ones.
@rainclouds4346
@rainclouds4346 2 года назад
Omg this is genius
@niclas8777
@niclas8777 2 года назад
How do you prevent it from going of at random times because you accidentally clicked it?
@timothyjones3410
@timothyjones3410 2 года назад
@@niclas8777 So what if it goes off at random times and a picture gets sent? What harm if a picture of your car's domelight ends up in your Mom's computer inbox when you're plugging into your car charger? The pictures are a precautionary maneuver, not a distress call.
@manishasonvane6534
@manishasonvane6534 2 года назад
YOU ARE A GENIUS!!!
@pantalonescomenachiotes7810
@pantalonescomenachiotes7810 2 года назад
it’s so sad we actually fucking need these to survive
@eli_is_spnfan
@eli_is_spnfan 2 года назад
“Wether that is a whistle or pepper spray” Me: *grabs both of my knives* what about this
@Jeremiah90526
@Jeremiah90526 2 года назад
Better than nothing, I would feel better for you if you got a CCL and a handgun though. Knives require you to be at breath distance, and if you haven't trained specifically in knife fighting, it leaves you vulnerable to counterattack. Note: when full grown men have attacked me with knives, I came out on top. Also, if you are going to use a lethal weapon, and are put in the situation where you are forced to use it, go for a lethal shot. Better to be tried by 12 than carried by 6, or potentially worse.
@tommyoliver1747
@tommyoliver1747 Год назад
depends on the type of attacker. Some people know that to deal with others armed with knives, they have to disarm the hands so that's what they'll do first.
@tommyoliver1747
@tommyoliver1747 Год назад
@Rød sol kind of true
@d0.rA123
@d0.rA123 2 года назад
GIRLS HEAR ME OUT So you know that L’Oréal root cover up thingy that everyone is using for fake freckles? USE THAT INSTEAD OF PEPPER SPRAY. It’s actually very cold too so you can possibly blind an attacker and freeze their eyeballs at the same time 😌
@tommyoliver1747
@tommyoliver1747 Год назад
As a demi girl, I'm actually a ninja in training so, I kind of already know how to protect myself. Also, safety devices can sometimes get disarmed from you so it's always good to have hand to hand combat at your disposal.
@KarolinaPietryka
@KarolinaPietryka Год назад
If one of my managers came in after close as I was packing up my stuff……. Omg I get scared so easily😭😭😭😭😂😂 I would feel so bad
@chloeeig
@chloeeig Год назад
or just be a normal human and use pepper spray
@rinajj1909
@rinajj1909 2 года назад
Another tip: The Firm Neck Hand (this is just what I do and call specially living in a not so good slums of 3rd world country, knowing you could be stabbed anywhere) When walking, make sure that your hands are ALWAYS FIRM. Always think that you'll be entering a fight. This way people has low chance of targeting you. If they stared at you, stare them back and then make them see your firm hand and them as if your going to choke them or break their necks (I assume you know hand gesture when choking somebody, do that gesture). IF you got attacked, AIM for Eyes and Ears. Don't do the balls or nuts, it's predictable and very amature, Don't do the SCAM defense 🤦 that you see on tiktok or some random guy on the internet. Also having just a pen, will help you, (I believe you don't need such thing as pepper spray, but you do you) the tip of pens are really gonna make damage to the enemy WITHOUT having suspected unlike blades or pepper spray that just takes up space of you bag. Sorry if my english is bad, its not my first language.
@gloria9424
@gloria9424 2 года назад
Im sure 95% of the time people will not care about making an amateur move if it means they’ll make it out alive.
@rinajj1909
@rinajj1909 2 года назад
@@gloria9424 yeah that's true but just to be sure that the people who'll come at you, they're not doing it for the first time, they have experience. You're really lucky if you encounter someone not so good, anyways you do you, its fine really.
@That.Lady.withtheYarn
@That.Lady.withtheYarn 2 года назад
I didn't even realize English wasn't your first language. 💜 But good tips!
@rinajj1909
@rinajj1909 2 года назад
@Raqeeb Harun don't you have Reading Comprehension? Did I just say just stab pens around the person like a child? Read it again 9 year old. You lost your senses when something is going to your eyes and ears. And for the record, I already did that many times in my life. That's why I'm sharing this as tip. Why the hell would I share if this doesn't work. If you don't believe, read published research about body parts or try stabbing multiple times your OWN Eyes and Ears. If I were you stop going to someone's comment without reading comprehension and telling someone's experience is *wAtcHiNg a MoViE*
@MonaLisa-os1iu
@MonaLisa-os1iu 2 года назад
Yes 👏 also KEYS help also. That'll hold them and give you time to get away. Btw, Damn your english is good. Don't worry about your english, its nice.
@helena-zu8jd
@helena-zu8jd Год назад
spencer has honestly given me so much confidence in my self its amazing
@worstkiterchan9207
@worstkiterchan9207 2 года назад
If you feel like someone might be following you and you approach a crosswalk or smt like that, look like you are going forward, suddenly stop, check your purse/tie your shoes or check your time. Watch where the person goes and go away. If they walk a bit forward and stop, they might be waiting for where you go, so speed up or call someone. This works the best if you are going away from a crowd, ad in, the place you are approaching is away from people. It worked wonders for me many times, but remember, this only works if you are somewhere near people/light and you have to get to some side-street that isnt a main.
@jaydenemily64
@jaydenemily64 2 года назад
Thank you im 11 so i'll remember this when im older
@d0.rA123
@d0.rA123 2 года назад
With all honesty, remember it now. No matter how old you are people can still hurt you. (I’m not trying to scare u either I’m just saying)
@Dumb.Muffin15
@Dumb.Muffin15 2 года назад
@DL, true. I'm 12 and me and my mom got stalked by a white truck on an afternoon walk. Came by us 4 times. S l o w l y. Stopped behind us once then saw my mom holding her phone to her ear (she was pretending to be on the phone, always be on a call if your walking by yourself or if not pretend to be.) And he kept driving. When we got home she told me some gross self defense stuff. Anyway now everytime I'm near a road and hear a car coming I stop and watch it drive by and make a note of it. Sh*t like that is scary.
@d0.rA123
@d0.rA123 2 года назад
@@Dumb.Muffin15 Omg I hope ur ok
@Dumb.Muffin15
@Dumb.Muffin15 2 года назад
@@d0.rA123 yeah we're fine, dw. We called the police and it was a while ago, and if we go on a long walk we bring pepper spray
@ItsZara1239
@ItsZara1239 2 года назад
@@Dumb.Muffin15 your twelve and your saying swear words on RU-vid? Where is your mom?
@nemosio5031
@nemosio5031 2 года назад
As men, we rarely even understand how stressful it is for women to even live, especially big men (I am 6’3 and over 250 pounds so… yeah). I couldn’t even fathom how it must feel to be in CONSTANT danger and having, for something as basic as personal safety, to look at my surroundings all the time
@hankhudson8736
@hankhudson8736 2 года назад
Doesn’t matter how big anyone is. A 5’2 guy w a gun is just as dangerous as a 6’6 guy w a gun
@AnyVideo999
@AnyVideo999 2 года назад
You're just naïve if you aren't cautious walking alone at night. Men do have the luxury to handle situations with caution and not fear, that fight or flight have a non-trivial chance of working but you should hope you won't need either as much as a woman.
@nemosio5031
@nemosio5031 2 года назад
@@hankhudson8736 it is also true that as a non American I don’t consider that people can have guns
@iamperson_o3808
@iamperson_o3808 Год назад
So off topic but you’re so pretty ❤❤😊😊
@ДеЧись
@ДеЧись 2 года назад
A not so cheesy safety tip: carry an extra bright flash light with you at night. It's much safer for you to simply blind someone approaching you, flee and possibly repeat than to try stunts with stuff like pepper spray, close combat tools / techniques or whisteling for help which could go extremely wrong and highly likely will in the situation of crossing ways with a dedicated attacker.
@strawberryfella
@strawberryfella 2 года назад
Thanks you!!
@KatieBolingerofKatemadeDesigns
@KatieBolingerofKatemadeDesigns 2 года назад
You can activate the flashlight on you iPhone by saying lumous.
@aliquisxs
@aliquisxs 2 года назад
Another tip: If walking alone at night is unavoidable, video call a trustworthy friend. Talk to them while you walk (casually mention where you are and update them about your location every few minutes) and always lift the phone in a way that they can also see what's behind you. This is to 1) Let the stalker know that there is another party present so they would feel more hesitant to act up, 2) Comfort yourself and be less nervous so that you can react quickly when something happens, 3) Be able to identify/recognize the suspicious party without having to look back, 4) Make sure that someone can call the authorities right away, 5) Ensure that there is a witness in case you are planning to make charges. P.S. It's better if you and your friends can make plans on what signals to use, etc. Also, taking screenshots/recording the call is a must.
@hannahlol1376
@hannahlol1376 2 года назад
I once thought someone was following me, i had a fight with my best friend before and she wouldn’t pick up the phone. I was scared for life. It turned out that this guy didn’t follow me but still. I was so disappointed kn my best friend.
@keira6730
@keira6730 2 года назад
This advice literally saved my life. I'm not going to go into details but thank you. This is very sweet of you but, it's honestly sad that videos like this have to be posted, that girls are objectified and a man thinks he can just take us. It's honestly horrible that women have to have rules, tips and self defense. It doesn't look like it but I hope for a day where women can go out at night and don't have to be terrified, don't have to have their lives at risk.
@Appaddict01
@Appaddict01 2 года назад
If you look up the numbers men and boys are far more likely to be the victim of a violent attack.
@micahkinggodgodself323
@micahkinggodgodself323 2 года назад
@@Appaddict01 facts
@keira6730
@keira6730 2 года назад
@@Appaddict01 I didn't know that. I was just saying about women becuase it came up. But honestly, I feel the same for everyone. Anyone could have gone through that and it's just sad! Has the world really come to this? It's heart breaking to hear about anyone who has been through this. I'm sorry I didn't mention this tho
@muddywater1710
@muddywater1710 2 года назад
@@Appaddict01This is relevant to the original comment how?
@Appaddict01
@Appaddict01 2 года назад
toast Easy the original comment said it’s sad women have to have tips and tricks. etc... No one ever thinks to prepare their sons and they should. Boys are far more likely to be the victims of violence.
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