I can relate. I am a Pet Stylist/Groomer as well. And because my hair was breaking off in the back. I did not know what to do with it. I finally came to realize it needed to be cut for healthy new growth. I decided to try an Afro. I am African- American. I prayed and asked for guidance from God my Heavenly Father. And with the little stains of long hair I had left(relaxed hair) and 2 inches of new growth of unpermed hair he said you can shape it like you do a Poodles topknot! It turned out perfect! He reminded me I already had scissoring skills from grooming.😂