Phil In The Blanks | Ep 173 | Navigating Narcissism pt 2: Gaslighting And The Covert Narcissist Pt2 

Omg so true I’m talking from experience and feeling like it barely survived it. I don’t think I’ll ever be the same again.

​@@virginiajames9465same here! I'll never be the same.

@@virginiajames9465one thing for sure, you’re a lot wiser now! Theres a lot of good people on RU-vid, educate yourself fully and read comments. That really helps the healing process. 🙏 Kris Reeves is one I like.

Yes very very true. Don't share anything with them for that matter.

So true

I had the same kind of relationship with my mother. She died 2 years ago and I'm only now learning how much of a narcissist she really was. I wish I'd known then what i know now about narcissism. I would have responded to her differently and i wouldn't have been so miserable.

Same. People who critize saying, " But she's your mother! How can you not have a relationship w/ your mother?" These people are ignorant. There are MANY mothers whose children should not have a relationship wirh them. HEALTHY people terminate any association with a narcissist. Unhealthy people maintain a relationship with a narcissist.

​@@paulamiller6109Isn't it the greatest gift to understand narcisism?

Our Son has gone silent for 7 weeks and has bro😮our grandchildren for a visit. All because we question ed him about where he spent money we gave him to get out of debit. What can I can do to see the children Marty

iI I’LL A KK LOL

My heart has been broken into a million pieces from the silent treatment. It's so painful.😢😢😢

The saints PROVE YOU WRONG FOREVER! Silence is GOD'S WEAPON, NOT THE NARCISSIST'S!

I just found silence this year, it is golden ✨️ true, you can never win!

I know I have to bite my tongue with my brother but as soon as I don't have to deal with him anymore the better

​@@sandragill7289I just lost 2 million dollars for saying f u to my older brother who is the executiver of mom's trust. Believe me, it's worth it!!!

Yes indeed!

Reactive abuse

100%

Oh yeah

Yes , They Also Play The Extremely Arrogant Queer Person As Well

The disrespect and evilness is all the closure one should need...their devils in disguise 🥸😔

Nope 😢

@@ninath13Amen , very toxic person , fake & gaslighting .

Just saving your soul from their evil is good enough.

Acceptance goes together with forgiveness. Forgiving, but never forgetting!

Well said. Me too

Im 60 and met him when I was 21 he was 25. , And I'm just tryin. G. 0way more credit and trust than he actually even can handle..., Let alone even ask for. So I'm just wondering why? Why me?

Same here, with a side order of distrust and suspicion.

Growing up in abuse, that is how my PTSD brain works constantly. It was programmed to from the beginning. Not a wonder I’m 36 and happily single with one real friend😅 😂

@@lynnebucher6537 that’s what looking closely at every word and action IS. That IS suspicion and distrust lol

❤ 30:17 Narcs have no balls.

Brilliant advice! Short and sweet. I’d like to add…and get far away from them.

GET AWAY FROM THEM. NEVER LOOM BACK !!!😮

keep in mind this is only for covert narcs. other narcs will use apologies to manipulate.

@@jessmason2112 yes they are cowards.

That is awful I hope you're doing better now. I have experienced gaslighting myself and it brought on the worst case of cognitive dissonance of my life. It was truly awful, and the perpetrator, a practicing therapist... Dead serious.

I understand. I didn't check into a psychiatric hospital because I had no idea how to explain my own problems or story.

@@SurvivorC always trust yourself and your intuition and never be reticent to consider foul play/lies/gaslighting it's very common.

⁠@@itzajdmting❤😢 I’m

I have similar experience

Exactly, 45 years of lies, manipulation, gaslighting, abandonment, violent out rage when you confront and expose them which comes with a great deal of panic and accuse you to deflect from themselves. It's a on going miserable life for the spouse. I'm so great ful I don't have to be exposed to the toxic air any longer. ✝️

You are not alone! I have freedom and happiness for the 1st time in two decades!! Congratulations to you!

Yes and usually narcissists are the agreeable type, not pronouncing their vague/illusive smarts, as many really aren’t learned. Time away from self adulation will only verify the imagination and intelligence of authors deemed better by that narcissist. Seek out the panic in them, then they will always deny their lack of intelligence but their ability to evade the truth.

🎉🎉 absolutely!! one type, uses it for good and growth come over himself and humanity. The other type uses it to see how they can get one over on people. This is the face of evil witch. They’ve been talking about for thousands of years. We finally have a name for a command, some understanding of how it happened, and the genetics!🎉🎉

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

Your screen full name can get you in trouble here.

I read your comment and thought I had posted and forgot! Bless your dear, shattered heart-I am just like you.

OMG 😳😢 I will pray for you 🙏

Much Love and strengthen your way!!! He uses PTSD from being a Marine as an excuse why he acts this way. Which is bullisht. I FINALLY realized who I’m dealing with after 8 years and two young kiddos. One late night, I went down another rabbit hole on the internet trying to figure out how to help him and our relationship, and I just so happened to read about narcissism and the covert narc. A year and half later, a beautiful baby boy, and dealing with constant negativity and misery, I am beyond a doubt, sure he’s indeed a C.N. You are spot on when you say “sucks the joy out daily”. Simply walking into the same room I’ll feel this HEAVY negative energy that will snatch any glimmer of happiness out of my being. I’m currently trying to figure out the best way to leave this toxic “relationship”, because our kids deserve better then to be around this every single day. I wish you nothing but the best

He took enough of your time, you now get to enjoy the rest of your life being in peace and making up for lost time!! You enjoy getting to know the new you!! Congratulations on your new life!! You're gonna love it!! And try to look forward instead of back! Be good to yourself

Perfectly said! Thank you. God less you

Yes,they are very good at hiding who they really are too others 😮

How true!

That is my exact situation. She has twisted my words and poisoned my children's minds against me. They think I am the bad guy because I never say anything bad about their mother to them as I think that is weak and sick. But she makes it her normal behavior. Anything I accomplish she belittles. They think she is a living God. It's sick and I am sick of it. But at least now I know what is happening.

@@benkanobe7500 Soo sorry 😔 this is VERY aggravating I feel you. Turn to the power of GOD that's what helped me get through and understand what I was up against. Pastor Kevin la Ewing is a good teacher on this he has a couple of videos on this and other things we deal with with these People 👌🏽🤗

@@happydog2191 Just saw your reply. It's just so unbelievable how evil these Narcs can be!!! I am glad you and I both made it out alive. A lot of women aren't so lucky. Take care, my Sista!

Your crying and sobbing is exactly the response he wanted. Power and control. If you would’ve said, thanks that was quite the adventure he would’ve never done anything like that again. But the bright side is that’s what it took for you to leave. Congratulations.

They also use that line to gather information so they know where to go with the ensuing argument. They get off on it.

Man....where was this advice a few weeks ago..... I dared to say I was burned out and needed help when he asked me what was wrong. HUGE MISTAKE . Fell for it again...

Agreed. So sad indeed.

Its another shock all by itself to see how messed up people truly are. 😢

People who are the nice guy are becoming like the bad guys because it’s all that works for women a lot of us have encountered narcissistic women also. The worst thing you can do is pick up the narcissistic traits though that’s what they wanted.

Same here I'm afraid to connect with people

@@Christian_Princess I understand, some folks are really not making it easy out here for others.

Me too! Been single for 7 years and its been the best time of my life. Any time I try to date, it ends up a narcissist. I no longer go there and enjoy my life as is.

Ditto! I’ve lived alone for 15 years now and have no desire to even date. I’m free and have never been happier.

We attract them. They are great to date but make terrible husbands. I married one, I picked him, and we’re married 27 years. We’ve been divorced 12 years and they have been the best, most peaceful of my life. I won’t remarry because I can’t trust myself to choose.

I hear you and am where you are after 35 years.

That is exactly what I am doing.

Did that really work?

Yet, it happens. And when it does, the unresolved wounds of a person with a sociopathic disorder brought about by past trauma is..if anything, not truly responsible. What each person needs to do is: stop jumping headlong into the sack and relationships with people. Measure who your parents are and be dicerning

I stopped holding my tongue after my ex, I got punishment Either way, so why not call the problem out. Turns out most people don't like solutions to problems. I don't like problems. Most people have/make problems. I just avoid people. But now I enjoy arguments instead of running from them

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

My father started dropping into conversation recently how he never knew where he stood with his own father (add a doting mother to this equation and we have the perfect ingredients for NPD).... I later realised that he was telling me this as an explanation for his behaviour towards me as a child. My mother told me when I was in the crib crying as an infant, my father lost his temper, went to me, picked me up, and then dropped me from shoulder height. Fortunately I survived, but I always wondered why my mother didn't just keep that to herself, instead of causing more pain for me to take throughout my entire life. My sister has married someone just like my father, unfortunately for her she can't see what will happen then years down the line when the novelty has worn off and everything must bend to his will.

True

I just learned that my niece is a covert narcissist. Interestingly so, it’s a MUST to keep the conversations with them LIMITED, And swiftly moving! When you know about them, oh, you definitely know!

maybe you yourself are the covert narc

Before I learned about this I was getting the life sucked out of me and felt terrible anytime I interacted in anyway with her, Dr Phil described her to the T

@@michaelsinclair3321 I can relate.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

That is the most outrageous truth. disgusting!

Wow Here's your sign. I hope you heal in both ways I truly do

❤

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma-Louis Gittner.

Yes mine did this always

Yep.

They’re actually extremely insecure. Putting other people down makes them feel better about themselves. That became clear, to me, because of other women in the workplace.

Keep praying she will leave and not waste her life like we did

Write a book. Even if you don't publish it. Maybe it will mean something to daughter when she finally sees the light. At the very least, it will be therapeutic to you to release all the pent up hurt.

I vote write one.

I don’t know know what to do with with my life right I wo

Write the book. A journal dedicated to just that subject... use loose leaf paper if you want to make sure things are in order... it will be healing for you and maybe offer knowledge and healing to one more person.... wow. You can do it!

Yes, they are so covert with it. They fool others... They are so manipulative. Pastor Kevin la Ewing is a great teacher on how they operate with the Jezebel spirit..... He explains it and he shows you About the word of GOD' 🙌🏽 that helps when dealing with this disease.❤

I do beat myself up for all these things. Thanks

He is doing a great job breaking it down. He earns his money❤

Yes i avoided Phil because of the silly TV shows, but just started listening today and he's just what you described. So good at explaining things i've known lots about the last couple of years more and more, but it's great to hear Phil and a few others lay it out the way they do.

I don’t like her. She is wrong on some points. HG Tudor is the man imho -

​@@Threemore650 I'm interested in what things she is wrong about? I have such high confidence in her I pretty much swallow everything she says

They’re all really good! ❤️

@@robin2319 was my assessment incorrect somehow?

@@thecarpenter2599 every one’s assessment is different but the narc is always the same

That was hilarious 😂 Enjoying my freedom from my 31 year old narc daughter who has screwed me for the last time. Thank God she found another HOST, again !!! They will suck you dry 🤣.

@@MoM-do7js How awful. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine the issue with your own daughter. For me, it's my sister, two years older so she's been in my life forever! I think my birth must've thrown off the flow of attention she was receiving (well, no doubt, it had to have), and she deeply resented me, which never ended. She told me once that she was telling a friend of hers about me and said, "She's very successful" and, then, proudly, she told me that her friend had responded with "Well, so are you!" the pride with which my sister said that broke my heart! She'd been comparing herself, unfavorable, to me for years.

@@93Jubilee awww, thank you 😊 it is heartbreaking and probably always will be…down here! I have a brother just like your sister. Always resented me and we’re estranged as well. Been the black sheep for long time but grown accustomed. Can’t pick your family but in another life we’ll be all together, as you, with yours. But they’ll be different then 🕊🍃. I looked up black sheep one time and they were actually considered more valuable!!! How funny 😁 I was also adopted ~ go figure. Have a great night or day ☘️.

It says a whole lot that you feel safer in Russian occupied Ukraine than you did with your mother! I'm sorry you had to deal with that as a child. Prayers for you to heal & grow as a woman & many prayers for your safety & that of your countrymen. I hope the war ends soon.😢

@@Linnidoo2 thank you 🌷❤️🇺🇦🌷

😅 I'm proud of you

Me too. Greg Rock. And stay away from them.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

Good job! My Narc mom is DEAD👍Sadly I didn’t get to tell her off and stand up for myself. Glad you got too!😅

Love this! That must feel very empowering. Good for you

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

It isn’t a mental disorder. They are simply empty, evil people and there is no cure. God bless ❤

41 years !? Glad Im single & happily alone.

I went through the same thing.

@natalieo954, you keep stating a “ narc,” What’s a narc? If you mean B a narcissist person those are NOT THE SAME THING!

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

Its amazing, how you can meet one after the other. The damage it can do is beyond words. Definitely lessons learned.

31 years

A close friend of mine experienced a very similar situation to yours. He was a narcissist, gaslighter, male nacho woman hater, liar, substance abusers, gambler, porn watcher, abuser to his family. I didn't mince my words with my friend who was married to him. I said at least one, but probably more than one member of your family will not survive continued relationship with him. They divorced and the wife's freedom didn't last maybe 1 1/2 years because she passed away in her mid 50s. One of the daughters contemplated suicide and fled the house, the other daughter had an emotional breakdown also. He died a couple years after his exwife. He was a physical and emotional wreck! So sad! My own sister is a destroyer and I had to distance myself so far that I haven't talked to her since 2014 as she is super toxic. I've learned the hard way to draw healthy boundaries to protect myself and my family. What Dr. Phil says is all true and good counsel!

​@@janetdonaldson2632I strongly understand you, it's a bad demonistic energy..., Good job protecting you and your family that kind of energy is all bad, and traumatic, and unhealthy on many levels!

So glad your family got out. I am in the process of separation and will file for divorce soon. I can't believe I didn't know I was married to a covert narcissist.

@@digitalqueenbee so good you are doing the healthy thing for you. My friend who was married to the narcissist...they both went to the marriage counselor and the counselor had to "release" him (the narcissist). They ran into a wall with him and realized he would not make the changes needed to save the marriage. He had counselling for himself and no improvement there either. Regarding my toxic sibling, I had to control my response because she would not make healthy growth. My response was to break off relationship. My father warned me about her twenty seven years ago. My brother passed away age 40 and my parents both passed. So I hung onto the relationship for way too long in hopes she would mature and grow. It never happened and she absolutely wore me out and I built up too much resentment and bitterness in my heart that was destroying me and interfering in relationships with others. So I forgave her in my heart and released her from my life. After my parents passed I had to deal with all their paperwork, etc. I found letters she wrote to them. They were all loving letters and yet...she was opposite on the phone. She was an absolute mean person and emotionally abusive in big way. I concluded she is very secretive and manipulative. I don't think she wanted to be on record, a letter, her normal behavior. I think she was always trying to get her mother to continue their relationship and trying to get back into good graces. But when my mother spoke on phone with her my sister continue her emotional abuse. I think my sister didn't want me to know how truly mean she was to our mother. She was so out of touch because my mother told me all my sister was saying to my mother on the phone. How could my sister possibly think I never find out! So many of my mother's tears I mopped up! I finally consulted a family counselor for advise. The counselor said my sister should never even be alone with me in the same room. I agreed with her and thought, if this is her advise, then the best thing for me is to protect myself by stopping the relationship. If my sister, who is 13 years my senior, cannot behave responsibly in relationship, and she is in her 70s now, there is very little hope she will change. I already gave her waaaay too many chances, too much of my time. There are people who love and care about me...even friends in my life who treat me more like a sister than my own sister. With a biological sister like mine, who needs enemies? Just because we share dna does not entitle her to treat me poorly! Ditto for anybody else. If anything she should be loving, protective and offering me favor as sister...just like I have given to her, undeservingly. I also realize that I put up with way too much for so many years to attempt to "keep the peace" for the sake of my parents. I should have listened to my father's words of advice so many years ago offering me wisdom as well as permission to, in certain terms, "release" myself from relationship with my sister. I have another friend who had to do the same thing. My friend and I talk about how, though sad we had to let go of certain family members, we are both much much more peaceful and more joyful. We made more room in our lives for experiencing more loving relationships. I share this because there are many people out there who are feeling overwhelmed and stuck in toxic relationships. You can control your end of the situation and find a new level of joy!

please explain how your yourself diagnosed who this person is.

​@@pryzmcat She had no obligation to meet your demand.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

I'm saddened for you as I read this. Please don't make your mother's inadequacies yours. My experience is very similar. My mother passed away last year at 93. She had no relationship with any of her 4 kids.....all successful engineers and retired from the military. Clue #1. Anyway, she died last year. No one knows when, where or how. We don't even know where she is right now. We all have accepted that 'she wanted it this way.' We have all let it go. Do NOT punish yourself for the inadequacies and mean spirit of others....living or dead. Sure there are times I feel some sadness, but that sadness is for me and my own loss of something I never really had.....a mom. She did it her way and good for her. She lived mean and died mean. C'est la vie. We're all happy with families of our own, successful and ready to keep moving on. I believe her intent was to have us cry, melt and give up. NO, she has made us even stronger in her death. Why? Because we choose to. Now, isn't that a slap in a face? She tried to hurt those she left behind and we are greater! Too bad she's not here for us to tell her. She most likely wouldn't care anyway.

The same thing is happening to me. It hurts but I don’t see another way but to separate myself.

God will make a way where there seems to be no way.

Pure evil.

@@ElsieDee001 My god! There're almost no words for the despicable cruelty of that.

I'm so sad by this

Covers are so B.O.R.I.N.G. and miserable people. Keep firm boundaries, and don't waste your time arguing your truth or share your genuine thoughts and feelings. These people are dead inside. Soulless. Personality less. And if you allow them, they'll destroy your health. Don't let them. Coverts are pathetic, always the victim, sullen. So pathetic. So pitiful.

OMG... I hope that was the last straw before planning your escape. ❤

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

You need a better psychiatrist asap! Ridiculous and stupid of therapist to claim ALL doctors and lawyers are narcissistic. It's asinine and absurd.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

Staffing a narcissist is a sure fire way to gradually bring a company to it's knees...

@@sarahw7616 it sure is! A narcissist will only be loyal to himself.

They only do damage and kill steal destroy when you are unaware being awakened is a game changer 😮

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

Oh! Lightbulb moment for me! Yes.

You (we) attract them. I was married to one for 27 years and thought I was the crazy one because of his gaslighting. I’ll never marry again because I don’t trust myself now to choose a good one and I never want to be in that place again, my life is so peaceful now. Narcissists are great to date but make terrible husbands.

Good for you!

Me too…SUCH a painful process to go through. Now that we have the needed info from Dr. Phil, mental clarity, relief/peace, and control of our own lives is in our hands. Best of luck to you.

I'm proud of you❤

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

​@@wmccourtney2814this is a brilliant analysis. Thank you for taking the time to write this out. 👍💚 Sometimes I get more out of the comments than the video...

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

Thank you. 😊

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

I question myself daily… it’s terrible

It's best to walk away while you still have your strenghth. These behaviors wear on the soul. That's how they "win" and take control often just by the exhaustion of the partner. Do you find yourself altering your behavior to avoid conflict or mean texts, or to try to avoid it? This doesnt work as you probably. Arent doing the things they say! Mine used to go nuts texting me while I grocery shopped! Saying Answer your darn phone, and what's taking so long, where are you really, and I forget how scatterbrained you are, everything you do takes extra time! If I cried, he said he you're so fragile, I forget that, you have no sense of humor, I was joking( while screaming top volume " it's a freaking joke) then " you really are a miserable person! This is what is meant by altering your reality..pretty soon I thought and would say sorry, I'm so scatterbrained, I cant focus etc. I had been a pretty good real estate agent before him. I started to change behaviors, hurry at the store, never fail to answer a call, he even used the manipulation that when I didnt answer immediately , he thought something bad happened to me! No matter how I changed, it was the same from him, I'm sharing my experience so if any of this rings true or familiar dont waste 15 years feeling sorry and helping them or hoping it gets better. It wont you just end up not recognizing yourself with a ton of work to recover you! So run, run for your life and sanity!

I reccomend you to take screenshots from those texts and save them somwhere safe he doesn't have access to. If there is physical abuse, do not be afraid to call the police. They take those cases very seriously. Make sure you are in a place he can't hear you when you call. Abusers convince you over time that you are alone; they lower your self-esteem over time by insulting you, downgrading and gaslighting you. They act differently around others such as their families and friends, but let their masks (they wear many) slip up in your presence alone. They want you to believe and others to believe that you have no credibility and that you are the problem. Do not be afraid. Try to control your emotions around him because they thrive and feed on your pain. Don't give him what he wants. Make an exit plan ahead of time. Don't write this down. Save it in your mind. If you can, try to save some money in advance to prevent any possible future costs after you leave. Stop sharing information with him. When he is distant, be distant. Use that time alone to work on yourself, meditate, practice self-love, read books, planning of your future life etc. Don't let his words get to you. Remember who you are and know your worth. Put a password on your phone if you don't have one already and don't let him use your phone. When you decide to leave, it is crucial you don't even hint at it or let him know. Try to monitor your behavior around him. From past experiences, abuse never gets better. Value yourself enough to know you deserve better and leave. Only the things you truly wish for will come to you after you free yourself. Once you are single, it's important you stay single for a while to heal the trauma caused by abuse and rebuild yourself. You can do it. Only you can do itfor yourself and you deserve the best. I wish you the best life.

Get out now. It will never get better.

GET OUT. NOW. While you still have your sanity. You've been warned.

Say positive motivational words to yourself every single day. Don't allow him to take away your self esteem anymore. This is something I have to do everyday until I can get out. I will not allow him to break me again. It works❤

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

I hear you … I’m 51 … made the awful discovery earlier this year 🤷🏽‍♀️

i was older than you....she teams up with my 50 year old sister now. Both of them...SMH.

My daughter too, God bless our children, and us🙏♥️

Hoover masters...my daughter. Love Bombs. Then Gaslight. Over and Over. Let's protect ourselves!❤

Choosing justice over your son would help tremendously. Sincerely from a woman with a former MIL who made her son a narcissist. He almost put me in an early grave with the help of his mother.

You definitely just described all aspects of Megan Markles personality.

Just realized my adult daughter is a flying monkey for her dad. And she’s also a narcissist. I am in mourning.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. Louis Gittner.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

Projection. She is the jealous one.

R u a narc

I'm in the same or worse. I don't understand the "boundaries" thing because every time I explain how something is important to me or hurtful to me she weaponizes it. So what/how are people "setting boundaries"?

​@@benkanobe7500 Myself I just keep quiet and calm whatever she throws at me and just do my own stuff bcs if I open my mouth she will finish me off with more anger and rage. So it works for me but it takes time to get use to it as she call me bastard, idiot and she tell me that I have to die bcs I don't deserve to live. So with time I get use to keep quiet and not get that much depressed of her words. Just to add that I reported my wife to the police about the knife she point at me and after 24 hours in the jail now she no longer hurting me physically with random items in the house. So now I just need to handle her talking.

@@benkanobe7500why are you so week with your women. ? Who is the bread winner in the family? If you ARE then it’s very easy, - close credit cards, don’t give her allowance, why you didn’t kick her out after the second argument? Prepare good prenup where she gets nothing , you will see

@@user-lc5ts5fu2u Great advise! My kids will think you are a genius. Thanks again. You are The Man!!!

Did you divorce her? How is it going?

Nobody can "make" you feel anything.

@@randallsmerna384 yes, keep telling yourself that 😂

@@yagushka Ask your therapist if this is so. While you cannot control what a person does or says, you can control your response to them. After all, they are YOUR feelings. Instead of saying "You make me feel 'X'". You say "When you do 'Y' I feel 'X'". It doesn't discount their behavior OR how you feel but NOT seeing it that way cedes control of your emotions to them as well as subtly excuses you from the responsibility of owning your emotions.

@@randallsmerna384 saying is not the same as feeling, yes I know all this but it’s theory only, we humans don’t work like this, unfortunately. But thanks for the advice x

@@yagushka As shitty as it is, we all get to define our own prison. I, by no means, have arrived or perfected emotional resilience, but it doesn't mean that it's not the truth nor the goal. I truly wish you the best as I am on the same road in the search for wholeness.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

Yes,I know...they are always so deceiving in the beginning....😢 Pastor Kevin la Ewing is a great teacher he knows about the Jezebel spirit that they operate from.... He teaches the biblical parts of it. It really helps try him 🙏🏽

Proud of you. Live your truth.

I gave up my life too. My parents abused me my whole life, even as I gave up my life. Not worth it!

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma-Louis Gittner.

Communal narcissism occurs a lot in the workplace. I’ve experienced it a lot. It also means you’re probably a pretty good person.

Thanks for sharing Dr. P. I've spent 40+ years in depth Psychology, and technical game analysis.I've learned most men don't know where our primary identification [mother] leave off and where we start. Further I've learned about the family insanity titled, 'the family script'. I was it, from birth, and did inherit the family insanity from my primary identification. She inherited it from her mother. One of our Dads important jobs of work is, mother being the first love object, at the age of around 8 years to around 13 years the father becomes the 2nd love object. So, both the female and male children gain a breakage from the primary identification, and an easier wrought to break away from the 'family script'. The ugliest addiction the infant acquires from gaining some worst forms of the family script is RAGE- Ken Woods MA. RAGE is an addiction WORSE then a heroin addiction Ken Woods MA. As a matter of fact, once the addiction of rage crosses a certain line, the individual is a goner! This is the dilemma, and making of the huge explosion of the continual growing of SERIAL KILLERS, and every generation the insanity gets a little WORSE-Ken Woods MA. In their subconscious minds they're projecting the growing insanity they've acquired from birth, and saying I'M NOT THE VICTIM FEMALES ARE. We're all on this earth to learn the lessons we're meant to in this lifetime to purify what it is we are, which is energy. Dr. David R. Hawkins Phd. We're all here to work through our Karma. San Juan-Louis Gittner.

They are also narcissists, just in a different way …

They don’t get it. They can’t see the behaviors as selfish! They are flying monkeys.

My narc ex husband has a family who just kept quiet and swept everything under the carpet and never called him out..even when he offended them. Everyone just laughed at him because he's funny and charming. I did as well!!!! I did not know I was married to a narcissistic porn addicted devient..until his mask fell off and he came on to my daughter!. His family is still rallying around him. We were married 4 years. I asked for a divorce the minute I found out his true character! Thank God I'm out!