Phil in the Blanks: Toxic Personalities in the Real World P7 -Antisocial Personality Disorder [EP93]

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In previous installments of his podcast, “Phil in the Blanks: Toxic Personalities in the Real World,” Dr. Phil talked about Narcissistic and Borderline Personality disorders. In this week’s episode, he addresses the “granddaddy” of them all: Antisocial Personality Disorder. Listen here now: bit.ly/DrPhil_Antisocial
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@le_th_ 2 года назад

FINALLY, someone admits the statistics for personality disorders are WAY OFF and actual rates of prevalence are considerably HIGHER.

@egopathtime3273 2 года назад

He's a late adopter, there's been plenty of other Narcissism channels stating this for years.

@le_th_ 2 года назад

@@egopathtime3273 Wow, you're terribly uninformed. Shall I post the video of his show from back in 2013 where he confront a female narcissist about her deep fear of being worthless, or would that be a narcissistic injury for you?

@adrivanheerden1479 Год назад

@@egopathtime3273 I am hearing this for the first time. I am trying to save myself in my marriage. So I am listening to see where I am in my life BUT am only realizing that I am the victim in my marriage of a narcissistic husband. I hear and see, and can now understand that he has " mental " disorder and, at this stage I really can not help him. But understanding his anger, lying, stealing, exagerating etc has made it so much easier. But it is still extremely difficult and challenging each and every day. Thank you to each person who has given me info regarding this illness

@katieb2098 Год назад

Personality disorders are in every single family, and they are way way higher than just 1 percent of the population

@coreyanderson7424 Год назад

It's about 1 % of the adult population for NPD, and same for Antisocial personality disorder. But the traits that people read about are often misinterpreted. And the way these people are in day to day life is often misunderstood.

@ReneeHarris2018 2 года назад

My ex-husband was diagnosed with bipolar and narcissistic personality disorder with anti social personality disorder and an alcoholic. He was such a JOY to live with! Knew when I divorced him I would become enemy number one but it was well worth it for my sanity. Hard to share custody but children are grown now and daughter has cut of contract and son sees him about three times a year. If I hadn't left, they would have never been ok.

@sandravacca3532 2 года назад

@apeyb5606 2 года назад

How did he manage to actually get his diagnoses? I wish my ex husband would find out what’s wrong with him. I suspect he has all of the above besides alcoholic. He is an addict but he abuses adderall and opiates. I left 8 months ago… still going thru divorce. My babies are 1.5 and 6 years old… have a long time of being enemy # 1. Lol

@e_i_e_i_bro Год назад

@@apeyb5606 they usually go in for things like substance abuse or depression and get diagnosed with aspd

@user-zx9ki8tk4r 7 месяцев назад

Yep, I just recently left the "joy" of my life. I had to file a restraining order, but like that means anything to him... he loves red lines in the sand.

@user-jl3ey6hn9u 5 месяцев назад

He was full equiped! Very sorry for you and you can Be Very Proud of you

@deborahhord4460 2 года назад

Dr. Phil I need your strategy. I just keep people away because I have accepted the fact that I can not decipher the bad, cunning from the others. So I've accepted that I'm safer just staying to myself and my animals.

@samanthajoy3889 Год назад

I dated someone who had this, but it was very subtle in the beginning. I had never heard of this disorder before, and was so confused as to why he insisted on violating boundaries and trying to make people uncomfortable because he thought it was funny....when I left him after a few months and shared with my family what he had done, it all clicked. ASPD.

@somerandomyoutubechannel5816 2 года назад

Once I thanked my husband for being so kind to me during something hard that was going on (that had nothing to do with him). His response, "I know. This is how a person with empathy would act." You're right. Therapy can definitely make things worse. You'd think, oh well he's working on improving this lack of empathy. No, he got even better at masking a real deficit, and uses that to gaslight even harder.

@Vixinaful Год назад

Thats why therapy is NOT recommended for them, they learn to be even more manipulative.

@ggaz683 Год назад

I'm diagnosed ASPD, how can I improve something that doesn't exist? I assume were talking about ASPD and emotional empathy, I don't even know what empathy feels like. He is never going to be able to feel empathy. It sounds like therapy is doing what it is supposed to do for people with ASPD, teaching him cognitive empathy, and to lessen his manipulation. Though I don't know why he would say "I know. This is how a person with empathy would act." kind of seems like he wants validation for having no empathy.

@kim_yong_un Год назад

Nevermind the fact he was really kind to you in a difficult time, kind enough to make you thank him. But it’s never enough is it?

@karenkuske5567 Год назад

Why I wouldn't go with when he mentioned "marriage counseling" THAT'S NOT THE PROBLEM. Not going to deal with anymore...too abusive...too much suffering. Way too much pain guilt and shame coming out of this type relationship..no thanks.

@ednac964 Год назад

Well he added too much information- but him having impulse control and thinking of your feelings and what you want to hear was him being considerate. I think he did a lot of effort trying to get it right and did not prepare for you thanking him and how you may not want the truth of it all. It’s virtuous to be truthful but at same time not virtuous to tell the truth. It’s very confusing and sometimes it’s gaslighting US that we should be liars. If the people we love want us to mimic empathy and we achieve it and do it -- using our manipulative powers-- why can’t that be celebrated? I feel like masking is all we do. Dr Phil was right on the comorbidity with anxiety. I have so much anxiety because I need to constantly be watching myself. Every conversation is an improvement of the previous one if i did not get what the needed result last time. It’s like a checklist of things you need to do in situations and oops! Time to add another one. I don’t feel guilty because I truly try my best and I’m so overwhelmed keeping myself in check. I’m struggling so hard to communicate with people, keep people I love happy. But same time, you have to realize we have deficit in understanding emotions. Sometimes I can’t handle all this other stuff on top of trying to keep people happy. And I will prioritize what is necessary over emotions- whether it be yours or dealing with mine. Not dealing with emotions from a young age, it’s hard to recognize any nuance between Happy, Angry and Sad.

@gic8849 2 года назад

I’m diagnosed ASPD (formerly known as sociopathy) It’s good to know, first and foremost, it’s also a spectrum disorder. Not everyone with this is unaware of self. I grew to understand how dangerous I can be with certain types of people and I stay away from them, for their own safety. My symptoms began at 15. I was a dangerous kid. I was aggressive, but I was more of a conartist than anything. I can find loopholes in anything. I used people. I hurt people. All for my own benefit. And I saw it as playing a game and they lost every time. I’ll be 41 tomorrow. With a lot of therapy under my belt. I actively try to improve who I am every day, for the sake of those I love. I hate how I used to be. I am still ASPD But I am aware and much less of a threat than I used to be. He’s right..no remorse. I didn’t feel bad for what I did. I still wouldn’t feel bad if it’s someone I’m not attached to. Again, why I stay home lol. I’m a single mother of 2. Raising them is my only focus. I think if I didn’t have children, I’d be a lot different today.. I’d most likely be in prison Edit: cruelty to animals happens mostly with psychopathy. Psychopathic people are more likely to deliberately harm/kill someone than someone with “sociopathy”

@bluevol1976 2 года назад

Praying that you’ll continue on your journey to be better. God bless you and your family.

@GnosticMindTrain 2 года назад

I done stuff in my life, I'm 26, I was never diagnosed with any personality disorder, but I have these dark traits, I still don't know what it is, maybe I'm not a sociopath and something far worse, I don't know. I was recommended DBT therapy for some odd reason but rejected it, so it's possible I was diagnosed with SOMETHING but doctors refuse to say what. I know this sounds stupid and something an edgy teenager would say, but since I have no label, maybe I'm not a sociopath or a narcissist, maybe I'm an evilist or something, not necessarily a sadist though. I've spoken with many sociopaths and my thoughts and opinions and other stuff about me isn't as messed up as theirs. I gave up therapy years ago and don't plan to go back, never any help. Oppositional Defiant Disorder was mentioned in my past but the things I've done overstepped that diagnosis, in fact, I can't even go over the stuff I've done. I don't feel bad though. I can't say. Certain places don't allow me to talk about it. I can't support such things openly. Maybe I'm just a dark mean neurotypical, who knows?

@a.m.6499 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing

@mrssmith1691 2 года назад

For me, this is the proof of a soul, and people able to freely choose good or evil. Amazing that you consciously choose good, despite it not being inherent or instinctive. I'm impressed and truly wish you the best.

@karaa7595 2 года назад

Psychopath example = Tony Fauci

@rkbllc 2 года назад

Best books: "Without Conscience" "Snakes in Suits" "The Sociopath Next Door" "The Mask of Sanity" "People of the Lie"

@AHNOYTED 2 года назад

I seriously love these new videos very informative! Keep them coming please they are helping me identify these traits, what to do and not to do.

@staciemansell3249 2 года назад

So love this thank you so much!

@joeygarcia6783 2 года назад

🧐☺️🧐

@Mirage238 2 года назад

He explains these topics in depth in his book life code. Great red pill book.

@leoniea138 2 года назад

We should also look inside to see if we have some of these toxic traits

@karendeklerk622 Год назад

I had 2 of these monsters in my workplace in 2015! Extraordinary characters who tried hard to destroy me and failed! I survived! They were both fired 🎉

@palestar828 Год назад

Can you not call people struggling with mental illness monsters! You're disgusting. Metal health issues are already a stigma, shameful and embarrassing. This is why people fail to get help because of disgusting comments like this. You're further making it a stigma. Mental health issues are a crisis. You sure sound like a real winner writing comments like this.

@alexbaird2670 11 месяцев назад

Well done, that's a big achievement 👍

@KAT-dg6el 18 дней назад

I’d like to know how you did that considering people tend to listen to whoever does the talking first which is always the narcissist. By the time the “victim” sees what’s going on and tries to defend themselves they’re called the liar because the narcs lies have already been set in stone. With my 60+ years of being a narcissist magnet sounds to me like you got two innocent people fired.

@karendeklerk622 18 дней назад

@@KAT-dg6el I didn’t play a part in the disciplinary action. They left a trail of destruction in the office that beggars belief and it has subsequently been shown that both women had narcissistic tendencies and that one of them was psychotic. I did not get innocent people fired. It was complex and as I said, I survived!!!

@Timbergal 2 года назад

Dr. Phil, I spent my entire growing up years with an extremely toxic sibling. However, my mother refused to acknowledge this….and she was always protecting them, until the day my mother died. I was on my own in dealing with the toxic sibling, and I was her target. At times, it became unbearable. I no longer speak to her, since my own well being was suffering. I love listening to your podcasts on this subject…I wish I had it available years ago….Thank you so much for sharing what you do.

@Prophezora 2 года назад

I am sorry you had to deal with that. May your life be filled with blessings and brighter days!

@snoopy420-X 2 года назад

I can totally relate. I am in a very similar situation and I too had to protect my own mental health and stop all communication.

@alejandrapoch9338 2 года назад

I’m sorry you had to go through that. I have been through the same with my sister. I had to stop contact with her for a while. Now I have developed skills to deal with her. But it means being so little with her as possible.

@deborahhord4460 2 года назад

Terri, I not only have the same sister, but my entire siblings and a narcissistic Mother. I'd Love to be on Dr. Phil's show to see if I dealt with them appropriately. I think so, I have no family now and feel like a huge burden has been removed from my whole back. I suggest you get rid of your sister, permanently!

@karaa7595 2 года назад

@KatsuEditz 🙄🙄 she means go no contact as in never have any contact ever again. Cut off all ties.

@paulavanduynhoven8951 10 месяцев назад

My oldest son is exactly like this. It makes having a relationship painful and impossible

@sheilaabrahams1322 Год назад

Just had a wake-up moment around 40:30 re: empathy. I remember, as a child, hearing that some cousins in Florida narrowly escaped a hurricane in which their house and all their possessions were destroyed. My father's response was, "They have lots of money. They'll buy a new one." I said that they must be real scared. Shouldn't we do something to help them? He said, "Na. They're rich." He was serious. No empathy whatsoever. I was watching this video because I thought my sibling might be a psychopath. Now I know where she gets it from.

@sheilaabrahams1322 Год назад

And yes, Dr. Phil, you are right on the money. My sibling bragged about how she ripped off her employer by being paid to work for him, while she was actually spending the time starting her own business. Then I gave her a job...

@victoriancrow 2 года назад

I have aspd (diagnosed as a young child. Now I am 28) it is a hard thing to live with, but there are two different aspects of how this disorder hits a person. You can either give in and let it run rampant, or watch yourself. I am happily married, with a good home. I on disability because of the aspd (along with ptsd and did) but I can honestly say I do my damndest to keep out of that self serving need. It’s a constant watch, but I want people to realize that you develop this through bad childhood. My mom has BPD, and that pain is what made me shut it all off. We are victims of another, not bad people for no reason.

@e_i_e_i_bro Год назад

You can't be diagnosed with personality disorders in childhood. Your personality isn't even formed until at least 18.

@MsMirror Год назад

In what ways do you suffer?

@summershine9601 Год назад

@@MsMirror because you are mentally ill and misunderstood by people around u Don't think that every people suffering of personality disorder are monster

@MsMirror Год назад

@@summershine9601 I don't think every person suffering from a personality disorder is a monster. Quite the opposite actually. I have seen an incredible amount of hate and stigma towards people with PDs and I just wanted to understand aspd a little more by asking questions about it.

@palestar828 Год назад

Love what you said here. I have borderline personality disorder BPD. I also had a abusive, neglectful and traumatic childhood. You are right in what you said about being victims of another. You are also very brave to say that you have this. So many judgemental people out there. I've read some pretty nasty comments against others who have this. I get that people were hurt, but saying nasty things about someone who has this doesn't help anything. Due to rotten judgements, it's going to keep others from getting the help that they need because mental illness is a stigma and looked at as a bad thing

@lucindaturley644 2 года назад

Thank you for this series. You just helped me understand what I’ve been through and what I’m going through. You’ve helped me to identify, see and understand why people around me are behaving the way they are. For those of us who don’t have $300,000 for therapy, this has been extremely helpful.

@toniaaltis1251 2 года назад

I am so glad to have found this podcast series. I was in a 20 year relationship (17 years married) and with 3 teens children. I knew something wasn't right but had no clue until 3 years ago even what a narcassist was. After a childhood of abuse (physical, sexual and verbal) and me being an empath, it gave him the advantage he needed. As I reflect back over the years there were signs I brushed them under the rug. Or he would say he loved me in between. In the end, in Feb 2020 I was at my lowest point in all my life. He had taken everything from me. My self worth, my integrity and my kids. Even though we all lived in the same home, my children dispised me. He made me believe that I was the worst person on Earth. Not a good mom, not a good spouse nor even a good friend. And no matter what my friends and family told me, I saw no relief. I woke up one morning and just wanted to die. I could never harm myself but I wanted to naturally have something happen. But instead, God saved me. I was reminded through him how good I am. So I started going back to church and Ioved out in March 2020. At 1st he seemed "OKAY" with the idea. Like it would be fine. I was done with the relationship and wanted out and he convinced me to try therapy. We went to 2 sessions and it made it worse. He was now a wrecking ball because he had no control and I was on my own. He was raging, harassing me and making tons of accusations of me cheating when married. I finally got a camera system and he actually filed divorce April 2020 (before I could) then I was left following his parenting plan and such. In the end when the divorce was final March 2021, I gave him everything, the house (and almost all belongings) no child support, no alimony and 50/50 custody thinking it would keep him off my back or solve everything (I WAS WRONG)

@toniaaltis1251 2 года назад

The kids are still manipulated and I have learned to listen to what he is saying but not take anything serious. I know it is all a lie, although he can take me right back to the bottom and make me feel like the worst person in one sentence. He is still threatening in nature and unfortunately having joint custody we have to communicate. But what hurts is my kids. How do I save them from this situation and get them away from him when they are all teens and don't understand. I didn't see it for many years and I felt it was all me, as he made me believe I was the reason for all of our problems. Now that I have heard Part 7- Antisocial personality disorder, I wonder if he has this instead of being a narcassist. And Dr. Phil thank you SO much for your education to these types of people. I use to say I needed to go to your show and I am a HUGE fan of you and Robin.

@DonnaSmith-uh8dw 4 месяца назад

I'm glad you turned to God! We must look to Him for our self worth! I say pray your children will see the truth regarding their father. ❤

@piscea0229 2 года назад

My ex is just like this. 100%. This is such a great video Dr. Phil. I am unfortunately still living in the same household as him and we have 2 children together. He needs to go soon. It is so toxic because he 100% has this disorder.

@coreyanderson7424 2 года назад

Keep plans to self I have been down that road. May need help.

@palestar828 Год назад

You don't know unless they are diagnosed. Self diagnosing someone doesn't prove anything. Someone tried to do that to me once. They were completely wrong on their self diagnosis of me. Lol. I have a personality disorder (BPD) that I didn't tell them about age they tried to diagnose me with something else. They aren't a psychologist so they can't do that. Many disorders mimic others. For example bipolar and borderline personality disorder are very related

@chelseagreenberg6234 2 года назад

Many people with ASPD can be very successful e.g. lawyers, cops, etc. Every paralegal ever has worked for at least one attorney who more than likely had ASPD. Solution? Walk away. No abusive work environment is worth compromising your mental health.

@stephanieburgess8217 2 года назад

I know someone who is clearly this and actually could not pass a psych test and he applied for several departments.

@Minneolaos Год назад

They are mostly NPD. ...narcissists...

@sumofo9742 2 года назад

I love this series, Dr Phil. Thank you so much. 🙏🏻 I have a masters in psychology, and you’re absolutely right - the info you’re giving here is about as good as you’re going to get in academia. Like you mentioned, the ASPD and NPD won’t come in for therapy. Why would perfection need help?!? 😆 So therapists/counselors often receive little training on this. The problem is that you WILL see many people coming in for emotional/physical abuse received from these people, or as mentioned, in couples/marriage/family therapy. So I hope that therapists start to learn/study more on the subject so that they can more readily identify the dynamics and spot these disorders. I’ve seen therapists/counselors easily manipulated by clients, with disastrous results.

@L26exxus Год назад

My mother is diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder , borderline and histrionic personality disorder so this is extremely eye opening to me to try and understand her more. Thank you

@palestar828 Год назад

Wow she has all that? Some of those things mimic others

@HH-rj4xg 2 года назад

I agree this can be very dangerous when the aspd person can learn to mimic appropriate responses learned via therapy sessions etc. Thank you for sharing Dr. Phil! Loving this series- psych enthusiast here 😊

@nasreenbari2765 2 года назад

From a neurotypical’s perspective, what exactly are we expected to do? If we lack empathy, we can at least learn to participate respectfully in society. Mimicking appropriate responses is better than being callous and hurtful. Effort counts in my books.

@yvonnetatalovich4485 2 года назад

Dr Phill please keep doing these podcasts! I love this information so we can live better lives!

@teriyakishrimp9480 2 года назад

My ex was diagnosed with this, and after he received his diagnosis he used it as an excuse to stalk and harass me for six years. In Canada, I have little to no right to defend myself and he was given a slap on the wrist each time I called the police. They didn’t actually jail him until he showed up at my house and told my mother directly that he tried to break in and was going to kill me. I hope he makes the wrong person angry.

@corrinaedwards6592 2 года назад

I live in NZ and our self defense laws are tight. Our sentencing system is weak. All we can do is pray they piss off the wrong person 🤣

@Rose-nw9mg Месяц назад

Yep. I was conned by a Psychic Gypsy. Everything you said, she took from me. And she did it little by little earning my trust. She had a reason for EVERYTHING she was needing from me and doing. She had me under her control that I almost had a nervous breakdown. She spoke with so much compassion and shared many stories with words of wisdom. It wasn’t until I lost everything that I finally opened my eyes and cut this woman off. Her mask fell off when I couldn’t offer her anything and stopped feeding into her deceitful lies. She even had her niece in on it. I was literally fooled by the devil. Fast forward, I’ve been studying up on this topic of ASPD and can spot these people a mile away.

@loganross4774 2 года назад

This is excellent! I can’t wait until Tuesday. Thank you Dr.Phil. What you’re doing here is outstanding. You’re helping us protect ourselves. You make learning exciting.

@palestar828 Год назад

Protect ourselves? Lol. How about he's helping period WITH the condition too seek help it's not all about you

@loveoneanother881 7 дней назад

This is the outline to the story I lived, exactly.

@kmax2584 2 года назад

This is the most clear and concise description of my domestically violent and abusive ex common law partner I've heard to date. Thank you Dr. Phil. This has truly helped me to validate my decision to leave and go no contact with this person.🙏

@chanizzmatizz 2 года назад

Dr Phil I've been on a bender of watching you. I've been watching you for 20 years tho and I just wanted to say it's like you've been a part of my life and I've watched you age so gracefully over these years. I didn't take notice really until I started my Dr Phil bender and couple months ago. I just absolutely love you and Robin.

@Carobarolime 2 года назад

@KatsuEditz hwhat?

@susanmctavish8347 2 года назад

I’m wondering how great a role alcohol plays in with some antisocial personalities. Over the years I’ve been surrounded by a few alcoholics …and when drunk they would do things that violated the rights of others…whether driving drunk, parking on a sidewalk, disrupting a restaurant or theater etc with no remorse after. When sober they were more subdued but still not with empathy for others. When I watched a few documentaries on Ted Bundy…I learned he usually drank before abducting the women…and also drank before representing himself during his trials. I know the alcohol doesn’t cause it…but it’s interesting to me that it sometimes seems needed for courage or to amplify their disorder for power.

@MsNooneinparticular 2 года назад

I've read stats that say about 30-50% of rapes, robberies & suicides are committed under the influence of alcohol. It definitely is a mood-altering substance that removes inhibitions & impairs judgment more than people give it credit for. I get MEAN and depressed when I drink so I just don't. Look at all the outbursts on airplanes recently; guarantee those are fueled by booze.

@coreyanderson7424 2 года назад

I've only known probably three people who were sociopathic and they did not drink at all. I think its a personality disorder. And, actually being exposed to a close relationship with someone like that is rough and can cause drug abuse.

@Courtney-pn5lr 2 года назад

From what I understand, the traits must be present without alcohol or drug use. I think that applies to all personality disorders. Substance abuse is common with personality disorders.

@lynettecaballero1660 Год назад

It's like alcohol let's more demons in them and creates negative thinking and amplifies their abuse and toxic behaviors

@nancymcdade3909 Год назад

My first husband was exactly like this. He abused my chihuahua causing his eye to be put out. We were married less than a year and that was the hardest life lesson i ever earned.

@imck76 Год назад

This series is a LIFE saver!!!.. This is a comfortable and casual conversation. My psycho abuser called aggression, "justice". He was not assertive or even clear what he wanted. Treatment just makes them more covert and dangerous.

@gina6573 Год назад

Even as a non native English speaker,I understand everything because you speak so well and use language I can fallow. Thanks so much, there is nothing like you available in other languages.

@tobirodevick2365 Год назад

My mother was a huge problem. She didn't start out with being that way but she certainly has

@christycomer373 2 года назад

OMG!!!!!! This is my life for over 30 years!!! He ruined my credit 3 times …. He’s a con man & you’d never see it…. He took everything, took equity loans from our home … I never saw one cent, the money disappeared…. He has a storage unit… took all our marital assets slowly through the years while I was at work…. He was diagnosed anti social personality disorder…. I had no idea it was this serious of a disorder I thought he was a narcissist…., Most definitely hereditary…. You wouldn’t believe my story…. I’m shaking right now.

@alejandrapoch9338 2 года назад

Thank you dr Phil. I’ve been watching you all my life now (I’m 41). You give outstanding insight in behavior and mind of others. I love your guidance! Keep going! Hugs from Holland

@simbasara88 2 года назад

My ex is literally meeting all the points on the checklist. Same as his parents, especially the father

@elainecaissy6094 2 года назад

It's heeling my heart, my soul,my mind and my body,thank you very much

@notbrad4873 Год назад

You described my brother. I've already separated myself from him completely, but it still makes me sad that he's facing the world and his demons alone. I wish there were something we could do to snap them out of it. I wish we could fix them by hitting them like an old TV set.

@Make_Money_With_Kristen1 2 года назад

Wow! I didn’t realize you did a podcast! This is so great to allow your audience to ask questions! I love this! I have always loved your show but I don’t have time for TV anymore so this is amazing! Thanks for all you do!

@jlcCustom45 8 месяцев назад

I got to say this is gold, and you come across way more genuine solo setting. I also viewed your tv show on numerous occasions.

@pamharkins4601 2 года назад

This is such great information! I watch crime scene tv series where I wish some of these victims could have this type of information. There are So many vulnerable people. I plan to encourage everyone I know including my grandchildren to watch this series.

@junevandermark952 2 месяца назад

Thanks for honoring my right to state my opinions. I suggest that if our hot buttons are pushed one too many times ... we all have toxic personalities. Phil earns his money by assessing other people's toxic personalities. But my guess is ... HE has one too ... but that he wouldn't TAKE therapy from a therapist that wanted to counsel HIM. Ego is a formidable beast, as we never WANT to see ourselves ... as others see us. If you just tried insulting "doctor" Phil's wife ... you would see how fast Phil becomes "toxic."

@barbnauman705 2 года назад

Greetings from Kansas City-Overland Park❤️🎄 Thanks so much for doing this remarkable series. You’re educating and helping so many people! Thanks and God bless!

@drcorastack9861 7 месяцев назад

What a brillaint clinical psychology professor it is Professor Phil we should be calling him!

@callofdutygoddess1276 2 года назад

Can you discuss how immotional immaturity is tied in to toxic personalities? Thank you!

@karenherbert1410 2 года назад

Awesome series! Thank you!!

@unknownuser4024 2 года назад

Its sooo nice to see Dr Phil go into depths!

@strawberrylemonade7225 2 года назад

These videos are wonderful. Thanks for breaking these disorders down so well!

@lynneashley8997 2 года назад

Thank you for informing us on these topics!

@MarkMarvin1983 Год назад

Dr Phil you amaze me with all the DSM knowledge. I have an Associates Degree in Applied Sciences. I have Severe PTSD. I have trouble every day but I learned to control myself. That’s what I’ve learned about disorders is that they are something that can be fixed or controlled.

@ursuladraeger3773 Месяц назад

thank you for all your info.on so life importand issues.thanks👍🏻

@tracypotgieter 2 года назад

Dr Phil thank you for such an authentic explanation of these issues

@lindawalker5144 Год назад

This has truly been a blessing and I'm looking forward to more!

@IAMMysticaStar Год назад

Thank you so much Dr. Phil. I really appreciate this series. ❤

@MissErinChase 2 года назад

Thanks so much, Dr. Phil! What a helpful series this has been! I'm looking forward to the next episode. Thank you, again!!

@user-ec5uh3qs1f 9 месяцев назад

You're right, they only seem to understand when the handcuffs are on them

@o0aska0o 2 года назад

Hi Dr. Phil, I watch your videos now for about four years. I've watched almost all of them with note and pen to learn everything you said in the show(in this video in particular I quoted all your famous phrases). You helped me come out from alcohol addiction (I have my beloved psychologist too) and you've helped me understand a lot of things. Because of you I want to study psychology and this podcast is wonderful. So, THANK you Dr. PHIL, I love you and Robin like family :)

@denisegreen7964 Год назад

Absolutely love your videos Dr Phil. They are certainly sorting out my confusion that I have for people with personality disorders. I'm sooo grateful to you. Thankyou so much...

@sorayakay9205 2 года назад

Thank you Dr. Phil, these coping skills have been very helpful. Please continue to help your public ❤️

@joannajohnson696 2 года назад

I love this. I can watch this podcast when I am available & not worry about "missing the tv show." Thank you Dr. Phil! I really needed to hear this entire broadcast!

@suzannefisher9661 2 года назад

Thank you for this series. I have learned so much.

@AmbientAuteur 2 года назад

Outstanding series. ThankU.

@tammybardon599 Год назад

Dr Phil I want to thank you for these podcasts. I recently got out of an emotional/mental abuse relationship that ended up being violent. I watched the podcasts on narcissists and he was a complete malignant narcissist. I’m so happy to be out and free!

@swim610 Год назад

These are great. Thank you Dr. Phil!

@micheledenardo2497 2 года назад

Thank you so much Dr. Phil this has been so good and interesting to listen to. It has helped me so much in my own life and experiences with toxic people.

@pamelamiller2269 2 года назад

thank you Dr.Phil & Robin !

@peggy2808 Год назад

I am just seeing this series of videos, and they are great. But I always thought I was antisocial, because I am not good in a crowd of people I don't know, and especially if there is alcohol involved. I just stay away by myself. I was really surprised at what an antisocial personality really is. I am not that at all!! Thank you for clearing this up. I guess I am the other one you mentioned, the one that doesn't get close because of fear of failure. I have attracted disfunctional relationships in the past and just don't want to repeat it anymore. I am almost 70 and would like an easy, happy relationship, or just a friendship, but am not sure I will find that. I have always been a quiet person, too.

@midnitegraffiti5343 2 года назад

Thank You Dr Phil 🙏🏼 A+ Podcast🎯 you are brilliant!!

@sunnyday6400 2 года назад

I appreciate your work so much, thank you for all the valuable content! Greetings from Germany!

@davinaparypa1794 2 года назад

Thank you for this insightful series. This has given me a better understanding of my situation with different family members. It made me realize that how important to maintain boundaries. Also where my responsibility starts and stops. How I manage myself around these individuals. I have always felt everything negative that happened was always my fault even thou I was not present. Any way I am in counseling and working through everything and learning boundaries. I will review your earlier videos again. I am sharing this with other family members that have suffered from the abuse of toxic behaviors of these type of people in my family. You have no idea. It takes a lifetime to heal. But I also learned how important it is for me to forgive and let go in order to move on. I am going to share this with my counselor 🙂. Again thank you for putting this series together and educating people. May God Bless you.

@user-px8ug4cw2d 10 месяцев назад

Good Work Dr. ! Helpful while fascinating!

@gothic-rosenovorossiya5740 2 года назад

May I point out that manipulations could be unintended and undetected by even manipulators themselves, and also how to weigh a 'charm'? Plus, remorse is something... If a person does not do anything intentionally bad/evil, one may never experience remorse?

@jeffeagle1259 2 года назад

Hello Dr. Phil I myself have had alot of these traits. Growing older has proven that that past rebel soul has been extinguished. Thinking about my son age 10 brings my actions to a stop. Listening to you definitely brings past actions to mind.

@lorrihenkelman5145 2 года назад

Thank you for your advise

@patientnicole5198 2 года назад

I do agree that these videos are really helpful to current events 🙂

@Paradise-on-Earth 2 года назад

This all is SO helpful. Thanks a ton from Germany!!!

@chaddickerson1887 2 года назад

Sincerely, I am somewhat devastated by this material. Well, more regarding narcissistic disorder. My mom is definitely a narcissist. My recently X'd wife is a cover narcissist, I think. But I meet many of the points that make me worry that I have misjudged people I truly love and have self sabotaged my whole life! For instance, I DO believe I am isolated from the world by my abnormal understanding of the world. But I despise attention. I need help.

@TheDistancWithin 2 года назад

I've enjoyed this series it's really informative.

@brittanimoore4531 2 года назад

Love this (in a bitter/sweet way)... And the other ones I've watched before too. I feel like you are talking about my own life story.

@AttiCarius12 2 года назад

They re sorry they got caught IF BUT ONLY IF, they are willing to admit they are caught. Many will straight up continue to lie no matter how caught they are. FACTS!!!!

@electricjellyfish375 Год назад

Thank you so much for doing this.

@pajamacladangel9920 2 года назад

... and this is why I love Dr. Phil.

@markjayw666 Год назад

Irresponsibility is big with them regarding finances. Many have bad credit, and do not even open their mail / bills.

@eireannlappin2599 9 месяцев назад

Thank you Dr. Phil. I appreciate you! 🙏

@xandraxavier5831 2 года назад

Great series! Very helpful indeed.

@LittleItaly75 Год назад

This series is SO fun and interesting to listen to. I'm always so interested in the psychology of things and how to understand difficult people in my life. Thank you for these informative podcasts. You really do amazing at explaining it for the lay person. Well done!

@jessicazen2144 2 года назад

I wish they could translate all this videos so my Mom could understand them cause this one would be good for her to listen. It will answer her a lot of doubts she have with my sister. Hope it can be posible one day.

@loribeaver7534 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Dr. Phil.

@tinamccann8344 Год назад

What an awesome series Dr. Phil.

@JC-nw4km 5 месяцев назад

I listened to many different videos on narcissism and they were good. these are better...actually life changing for me. i have listened to every minute of parts 1-6 and am starting 7. thank you!!!

@nancyludlum2646 2 года назад

Can you guys produce transcripts of these? It would be very helpful. It's tough to keep up with the note taking!

@andrewthomas2388 2 года назад

So crazy...this explains alot..Im someone with pretty thick skin, but there are a few people that I know, some at work, that have always rubbed me the wrong way, and this explains why perfectly..these people have a way of making you question your own sanity. Not trying to diagnose anyone, but I just diagnosed a few people 😆

@anettenordenstrom-dz5nb 10 месяцев назад

Hi dr Phil😊 Im listening to you all the way from Sweden. I’ve been watching you’re shows throughout the years and it’s been absolutely very interesting to learn about our self’s and humanity, interesting and educational for many reasons. The human mind and heart is so interesting and mind blowing. I’m happy for this very informative channel. Best regards from Anette in Sweden ❤

@eecneihappy Год назад

I think this info is wayyy more than most therapists are taught. TY

@joyceknudsen3030 2 года назад

Doctor Phil is right. I have the same education BA Master and Ph.D. You will learn lot of things after listening to this series. I make it a point to listen to these every night and learn something every time. Thank you Dr. Phil for creating something so valuable that people can be well~informed and know how to handle their lives better.

@billylongley9580 2 года назад

Great listen “ thank you dr. Phil

@nancyludlum2646 2 года назад

Thanks! Very helpful.

@Sophies.3333 2 года назад

🙋‍♀️Luv u Dr.Phil & I watch all of ur shows on tv and some online too. I am Canadian from Ontario and appreciate all of your help since I also suffer from High Anxiety Stress, OCD and Tourettes!

@deborahhord4460 2 года назад

Dr. Phil, I have always been mesmerized by behavior of humans and animals. Have had some psychology courses. I am so looking forward to your continuing education on how to identify these sick people and obtain the skills to keep them away from me All my life I've been a magnet to them. I finally decided it was better for me to just stay away from people, since I can not detect them. I'm safer this way.