Pick Me Girls™ have lost it... 🤯 

Yes 😂😂😂

That’s what I said too! Lol 😂

Tater thots!!!!

vouch

omg that's hilariousss

That's the formula for a Karen storm.

"nice guys" and the "i am not like others girls" girls should date each other negative+negative=positive after all

And do it somewhere FAR AWAY!

No no we need them to die out. can’t let them reproduce, especially with each other. Imagine the combination of a pick me girl and a nice guy…

Yes. This. They deserve each other!

I want to be you so bad. But I'm scared. Wishing you the best♥️

Yikes it’s just 🤢 was it that kinda wedding where you had to be lifted in by a crane

​@@ogkendrick6392damn you're bitter

​@@ogkendrick6392 so petty and for what 💀💀

​@@ogkendrick6392found the dweeb they were talking about

Same but with Plants vs Zombies. I appreciate that they tried to relate and let me talk about Elden Ring.

As a gamer as well I would be lying if I said i hadn't done 400 levels of bubble witch 3 lol mobile games are so addictive

I’ve become a big ttrpg nerd in my 30s. I work with middle and high schoolers and I have students of all genders who love coming and telling me about their games and dnd sessions. I love it! As a pen and paper gamer girl, I salute you

Ugh, how disgusting. Not judging people because they don't do the same things that you do and being nice and friendly with them instead if being harsh and judgemental. How dare you call yourself a gamer and refuse to suck the fun and enjoyment of others from their lives. You can't call yourself a true gamer™ until you stomp upon the joys and enthusiasm of another! (Kidding aside, that's really sweet)

Absolutely ADORED Mass Effect.

100%!

Say it louder for those in the back!! 👏

Yep.

So true! A few of these posts aren't very wrong, they're just put in a weird context or worded in a way that makes them sound like a pick-me.

Based comment

that footnote absolutely sent me.

I’m sending this to my sister because of the footnote

I can confirm that the footnote is accurate

As a male specimen who has put 1,6k hours into a glorified competitive dress up game, I agree

All footnotes may or may not be related to personal experience

yeah... its not my fault i cant use a tampon. i promise im not lying? like what do you want from me.

Sharon, I'm uncomfortable. Sharon, I have trauma, let me buy my fucking pads.

I mean i use pads because tampons are scary imo but everyone says that tampons are also comfy and not scary at all? You just have to use it correctly.

Depends on your vagina. Tampons were always uncomfortable for me and I got yeast infections every time I used them. Pads got so much better once I switched to pure cotton pads. I get allergic reactions to latex found in some pads. Can't use latex anything! Makes it hard to have sex unplanned because I have to make sure the condoms are latex free. I avoid hookups for that reason as well as the other major reasons to abstain.

I use adult diapers tbh. I havent had a leak since. I also use flex discs from time to time.

Same here. But I'm still not like most women

​@@louiseadanahow so?

@@HyperLYF3 apparently I'm weird? Idk, I think some people perceive me as a bit masculine, it might be the autism. I've rarely felt that I fit into how women are supposed to be or how we're portrayed and it seems to irritate some people, mostly other women who sometimes seems to think that I'm trying to impress men, I guess? Idk, it seems like they have a pretty narrow view on how women are supposed to be, and that's honestly just sad

oh okay. could it be that you just don't fit in with the *stereotypical* women? Because quite a large amount of women have what's considered Male interest's.@@louiseadana

Definitely, that was sort of my point; how a woman is "supposed" to be is such a narrow idea that a lot of people seem to think that everyone who doesn't fit their mold is a typical NLOG. My life choices, personality or interests are just as valid as anyone else's and as long as someone isn't hurting others they should be able to do whatever they want with their own lives. If someone wants to go for a weekend shopping trip, just go; as long as I don't have to participate I have no reason to care.

Anything who puts andrew tate and women's rights in the same sentence snorted Redstone dust.

Andrew Tate hates woman's rights

I'm not sure if it's the abundance lead or something more worrying in the drinking water because no one in their right mind would say that

Tator tots come after you just for saying something that's common sense, they worship the guy

insulting people who get high smh smh

He's not like other girls.

Ikr he's ✨️gorgeous✨️

Absolutely he’s ✨perfect✨

No homo 🤑

Slay Cliqueen 💅 👑

Even better idea: Build a community of Andrew Tate follower types, host a massive meet and greet, and then hire several undercover agents to go around telling various people that someone else said that Andrew Tate’s muscles are actually Not That Big. Watch chaos ensure as they roar like Apes and tear each other apart

Another idea: Grab a mannequin that doesn't have its head attached to it. Buy a slightly oversized mr potato head and put some fake sunglasses on it and paint it with the color of a raw potato and shove a cigarette in its mouth. Grab an extra device, preferably a phone, download a voice-based AI chatbot that responds to people speaking to it and answers back with some rather horrid advice and the most confusingly obscure bullcrap, preferably in the tone of how Andrew Tate speaks. Gather a ton of no life socially rejected hardcore Andrew Tate stans and tell them that they have been selected to personally meet Andrew Tate in person because they have done well on their progress to escape the big bad matrix and become super alpha-full-release omega-giganomogaogiga chads. When they come, make them all go into an undersized white room themed after the stereotypical mental asylum rooms you see in mental hospitals. Set the mannequin in an old rusty chair and then make them all go in, and LOCK! Let the AI chaos begin. Watch as they go "wait a minute this isnt my lovely idol im meeting, where the hell am i?!" and start realizing they've been ultimately trolled as the AI laced mannequin starts throwing the most vile and confusingly obscure stuff possible at them in the classic Andrew Tate tone, making those unlucky stans go absolutely mentally insane. Also, be sure to keep them in there for a while. Keep them in there until they start going absolutely mentally insane and start lashing out in violence at each-other as the mannequin gets more and more vile with what it's saying. Only then do you release them back out once someone gets knocked out cold from the ensuing violent rage that has engulfed that blinding white room of eternal suffrage. Here's the catch.. you're taking them out onto an airplane which will fly all the way from that location to.. North Korea! You quickly eject them all out into the middle of Pyonyang with only a parachute and their confused fit of insanity and rage remaining as you quickly speed away out of North Korean airspace without getting shot down. You then fly back and pat yourself on the back, you've done quite a lot. Oh yeah.. don't forget those people are probably dead now as they have probably attempted to use their knowledge of Andrew Tate's BS to try to coerce the North Korean guards into letting them out which only results in them getting thrown into a hard labor camp and probably dying. You've.. done a bit too much trollage now, nice job. 😎👍

@@dylanisntvibing Now come on... no one's gonna believe that's Andrew Tate: Mr. Potato Head has a MUCH stronger jawline than Andrew Tate.

I mean Andrew Tate stans are pretty stupid anyways so it might pass 💀

Can't be done. They lack the capacity.

Completely agree, they're always so proud of enjoying traditionally "boy" hobbies (games, superheroes, cars, etc).

It’s not very often you’ll see an insightful comment on RU-vid. Well said.

yeah, teenage girls are seen as stupid annoyances. pick me girls are so desperate to be seen as people, and I'm sad that that's... even a thing they feel like they need to work for.

I don’t necessarily think that’s the case. Wouldn’t most girls be like that then? I think it’s just the individual feeling a need to stand out. Insecurities can make people do weird shit 🤷🏼‍♀️ I could never imagine behaving like a pick-me girl

@@astridmaack4516you just did x

😂😂😂

Do you really like dudes though?

@@sophieirsa1306 You realize how rude of a question that is, right?

@@cameronbertrand9720 for some people it is, for some people it's not. If the comment writer finds it rude, he just won't answer, that's it

Oh I'd love to see that

What's her @?

@@rben3620 grandma_droniak

*Could it be? **_A new...RIVAL?!_*

Shes the slay every day lady right?

@@papus615 yes!!

I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS!! THE COOOORN INTO A SCREAM HAD ME CACKLING

Lose*

@@Saranda4787 thank you, I never thought I'd be on the receiving end of a grammar check but here we are

coooOOoOOOOORN

Same I've been replaying that scream, poor click 💀

and then there's a coooǪ̸̳͔͎̝͔̳̦̑̈́͐͐̐͋̈́̏̀͜O̷͍̪̲̲͖̬̳͎̮̺̽̉͒O̴̧̮̝̟̗͇̞̝̻̤̹̺̰̲͆͝Õ̴̢̻͉͇̪̙̟̹̠͈̿̾̌Ő̸̧̟̙̘̭̜̺̩̠̠͈̦̦̩͒Ŗ̷͎͔͚͕̮̦͉̫̱̹̰͍̲̀́N̴̡͔̩͙͕̞̘̔̀̃̂̾̽̄̈́̋́̾̏͊̏̕͝

Fr it started with those vampire teenager stuff god awful era everyone became a vampire at my school 😂😂 my friend literally thought she was a reincarnation of some witch or sth sadly they ruined barbie because of this 😢 and now its the Wednesday series gosh darn

I was a "Not like other girls" girl, to the point where I thought I might actually be a robot or something. Turns out I'm an autistic trans man!

@@liam6396 turns out you were not like other girls because you are not a girl!

@@liam6396 This is my favorite character arc

Same. I tried to be so "unique" I said my favourite colour is brown Turns out I actually really love brown but also pink and purple

When you’re so not like other girls, that you actually turn out to be a guy

Oof. I just feel called out cause turns out my friends are shit, but the gender shayte might also be something that’s affecting me... :P Damn, making me think, how dare you.

“I’m not like those other girls. I’m not even a girl to begin with.”

Oh, you like bad girls? Well, I'm so bad at being a girl because I'm a boy.

Well that proves you're not like other girls because you never was one.

Other girls: -beautiful -valid -unique -worthy as human beings Me: -turns out not a girl but still all of those things!

Me - Not a girls + dont care about them anymore + all of them have inflated ego+ hate those assholes

Other girls: Amazing Have style Are all different Me Male

Me: I’m lesbian, I like other women XD

Other girls: - Usually pretty chill - People - gorgeous Me: - a guy - actually the boogy man - still gorgeous

With an extremely tiny minority of wholesome posts calling out the BS in the others.

Honestly tho-

Pick me: _I'm better than other girls_ because I don't leave the man that treats me terrible and I say whatever he wants to hear.

Shouldnt we say we are like other PEOPLE??? What does that even mean, you're like other girls? We. Are. Different. I hate that most people cant see that other most people ARE different. I always associated deeply with being a tomboy (just being ME really) and never stopped. I'm 37. Why is it so hard for so many to get their heads out of their behinds: and finally accept that stereotypes are called stereotypes for a F reason!? The best person I know have so-called "feminine" AND "masculine" traits in them! Now transitioning is erasing this: putting people back into molds again. (And we were barely out of them already, we're regressing instead of evolving....) -badass Jill

I had something similar. I didn't have the same interests (princesses, pink, etc...). I remember getting so angry when I was playing Legend of Zelda (playground RPG?) and I couldn't be Link. Lol. When I got older, I met women who do play games, like books, etc... and when you find someone who shares as much enthusiasm as you do over a thing, it's awesome. Gender is irrelevant.

Quite right, the Sims _is_ a real game. The ultimate sandbox, you can do whatever you want, from building a sprawling shanty-town hillbilly farm, to trapping as many ghosts on your property as possible, to playing out an epic inter-family feud over multiple generations! Muhahahahaha!

​@@dmgroberts5471 Not really, there's plenty of things you can't do. For example, you can't make a cult of people who eat children. Still better than sport games, tho.

​@@_extrathicc That's where the mods come in :)

Or their GrayStillPlays

@@_extrathicc Yeah, I suspected "Ultimate Sandbox" would get some push-back. You can create lots of other cults, though! Mostly if you have Supernatural, or the non-Sims-3 equivalent. You can create a loving couple, have one of them cheat, then force all three and the children of both relationships to live together in an underground bunker...not that I have, or anything...(shifty-eyes)

That's why I stay far away from k-pop, or rather the fan base. Almost more toxicity in all directions than in incel/nice guy terretory (of which I try to stay clear too). I just don't have the nerve for all that bs.

People hate on Wonyoung for everything. It's terrible and it really sucks that the loud ones have to ruin kpop for everyone.

@@tsunderemonarch4703 It's so sad

@@TarisLuna I stay away from the majority of fanbases, because so many people always have something they argue about in popular fandoms. There's a whole debate in every fandom about what characters you're allowed to like and which ones you aren't, and as someone who likes any person from a story as long as they're funny, I'm too tired to talk about how my favorite characters are 100% going to hell

@@TarisLuna Just don't do fanbase at all. None of them are worth it

So she wants her rights taken. Good luck for her. She'll regret being a slave.

Or on the autism spectrum… I would know

I think those sum it up lol so yeah either those or neurodivergent or a mix of a few

100% trans stems from misogyny. Its just another channel of "this is what I think a woman should be"

Cicikus-px2by wish that was true but unfortunately I've seen many lesbians who are pick-mes but in a different font and still just as awful (you aren't in the wrong for feeling upset over being told to stop being masc tho lmao i mean men not liking you is a) the point b) being masc wouldn't stop?? guys?? from liking a girl??? I know so many dudes who think tomboys are the shit?? So they're both wrong and rude to say that to you)

​@@autodisaster6374 wow this feminine and masculine stuffs make me mad see why cant we see as a people than being gendered things i am a woman but i dont like barbie or skirts or anything that doesn't mean i am masculine lol

I mean the whole sentence makes no sense. Because who are these other girls? Women make like half of the world's population. That is a TON of people. There is not one type of girl, but instead millions of types. No one is truly unique. And plenty of us have multiple interests. Some of them more masculine and some more feminine. "Not like other girls" is on it's own stupid because it groups women into one big group where we are all the same. It's just not even possible. We are complex beings, ya know

@@Garsnoos To be fair, it's a common feeling among autistic girls and women just because there's a whole complex mess of social interactions and unspoken shit that develops - especially during the teens - among girls. It's often super hard for autistic girls to figure it all out, and they end up feeling like... some kind of alien dropped off on the planet and trying to figure out why they don't fit in. Sometimes, being around guys can be easier, because they can sometimes be a bit more straightforward. The difference is, it's not about diminishing "the other girls" it's about trying to figure out why it seems impossible to fit in, why you're always the butt of jokes, always the one on the outside, and so on.

@@JustAnotherBuckyLoverOh man, I remember being undiagnosed back when labeling people as “Not like other girls” was all the rage and I always told myself “Your not actually weird! You’re just over-emphasizing your minute differences for attention! Come on, be better then the cringe people on the internet!” 😵‍💫 Thank god that time in my life is over.

@@Garsnoos well every person is different from the other, no humans is the same as another human... i feel like the one who invented that whole concept of "pick me girl" is someone that just wanted to stirr drama among females and take away each female uniqness...since imo, everyone is unique in their own way. we need to turn that "im not like others" into a positive thing since its the truth that one is not like the other & theres no need to look down on another (unless they did something very bad or evil)

@@JustAnotherBuckyLover I was diagnosed very early in life so that could be why I personally didn’t go through the “not like other girls”. I did spend allot on learning about different subcultures to find a community to enjoy. So many different people in this world.

Thank you

Thanks!

The smallest feline in the world; a rusty spotted cat. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-W86cTIoMv2U.html

This is a fun animal fact! Thank you.

How small are they?

I kinda do to, but it never motivated me to put the other girls down or side with the boys instead . . .mybe because I am also aroace so there was no motivation to be liked by them . . . . I plain did not participate in anything that was not my taste and did my own thing instead . . .

The genuine scream sold it 💀

@@Asphodelic_Ellipse what was censored in teh city girls part? Been trying to find that image on reddit and image search

​@@Ainoko65 I think it says "Vibrators"

​@@Ainoko65 I immediately assumed dildo lmao

Same. I was like…well, that was quite the reaction.

They had me up in arms when they bashed stardew valley

That rant reeks of child whose not even gone through puberty yet, let alone had to buy such gear with their own money.

Plus lets be real, one shot of your "masculine" drink had less alcohol than my fruity sweet drink that tasted amazing.

@@foxinabox5103 True. Those drinks are pretty because of all the alcohol in it, and tasty to hide it.

Since when did cookies become feminine...

Worst thing is people who try to claim superiority for enjoying tasteless stuff. The one about coffee sent me, because the nlog is just feeling superior about drinking coffee that had its taste watered down with sugar

The Starbucks thing is also truly stupid...so you pay like 2-3$ at Starbucks for something that would cost you cents at home and feel SUPERIOR?

I thought it was because I was autstic

expectations u mean

Yess man I lowkey feel like most girls go through this because internally we're dying for something to set us apart and make us special and unique when most of the time even at a young age we're just objectified and our worth is determined based off of things not under our direct control.

Definitely pick me

Ya think everyone goes threw that phase sweety. Until you come to the realization of "why am I comparing myself to other girls?" Or to anyone just do you as long as you're not a hateful bitch you're beautiful. To any girls out there please stop comparing yourself to other girl just be yourself, and break shit.

I'm so sorry that happened to you and I'm glad you're on the way of getting better. Everyone should be able to wear and like what they want.

Yes girlie, let’s be our cute feminine selves we were forced to abandon as kids!🩷✨🩷

I totally relate. My mother was/is very "pick me". When I got older I said "screw it i like girly stuff" and now I buy lots of pink stuff. I don't wear makeup a lot despite liking it (because I have ADHD and can't wake up early for the life of me), but I definitely don't think there's anything wrong with looking nice. Basically a weird level of sexism for looking down on feminine things, but also judging people who aren't feminine enough. There's no winning, just like what you like. Glad to see someone else who has struggled with sexism that's so baked in to our every day lives.

I'm glad you were able to recognize it and are now doing what you like!

Good for you! But i still feel dirty on my period.

The best "not like other girls"

Hello brother Same

Just like 3/4 of other comments on here.... Nothing original.

@@FocusedFighter777 Okay? I didn't say it was intended to be original, so I don't know why you even bothered to leave a snarky passive aggressive comment other than to try to get me upset or something. No one cares. I'm allowed to make a commonly made joke if I want.

@@FocusedFighter777 who hurt you

It was very justified

That woman is either lying, or has some manner of masochistic fantasy. Either way, she may get off on the idea of being abused, but fantasy and reality aren't the same thing. No women are near Andrew Tate 'cause they want to be.

"You have a looser mindset if you don´t like him." Gorge, Andy´s idea of succes is buying overpriced crap you don´t actually like to flex on people you you care about at all ant put so much fallic shaped objects in your mouth while yelling how straight you are. That´s level of pathetic that shouldn´t be even possible.

Also he looks like the egg from dreamworks puss in the boots

​@@alzbetal1499 I can never unsee it now

@@alzbetal1499 What did Humpty Dumpty do to you?

It’s a result of the media showing ultra feminine girls and women as boring, stupid, and mean. You see it a lot in Disney Channel shows. This caused a lot of girls to get a superiority complex over the “popular” ones because they saw themselves as different. Source: was a pick me girl

I was nOt LiKe tHe oThEr GiRls back then, turns out I'm not a girl at all 😂

@@jackriver8385 I mean, it applies to queer people also.

ooh, interesting angle! I hadn't thought about it like that. That would actually be a genius move for an onlyfans account.

That’s actually a really good point.

So it’s a “a genius or an idiot” situation

smarty party! I love it!

you can tell who never grew out of that phase, it's actually sad lmao

@@fbidumbbee I know a looooooooooot of people who never outgrew that phase... male OR female, honestly. They're still very much emotionally teenagers... at best.

I went through a “not like other girls” phrase involuntarily because the “other girls” relentlessly bullied me in school, and now I just… cherish the female friends I do have now.

When you go from "I'm not like other girls" to "I'm not --like other-- girls"

same honestly

Yo same

Fellow trans man?

Same

I used to say I hated pink and loved blue. I was lying to myself so hard lmao. My family doesn’t know I actually love pink now 🤦🏾‍♀️

Oh I had a Tomboy phase, wasn't very good at it but tried. Found put I was trans and decided to be myself. Wr all go thew Tomboy phases.

Yep. With the added bonus that I absolutely did NOT want anyone to be sexually/romantically attracted to me. Well, and dresses are uncomfortable as heck.

​@@wordforger omg same, i thought i was the only one.

same me too, i feel so ashamed but rly all i needed was to find an identity

I think you will like R/GatekeepYuri

@@DayDreamingWriters There’s a subreddit!?

It happens to the best of us lol (Also yeah OT is amazing)

Real

What does being a girl have to do with your personality or your interests? Comments like these reek of internalized misogyny

Is this a recent thing? The "not like other girls?" Because I remember growing up I only wear black cut school smoke ciggys and get into a lot of fights. And not once I was ever thinking about. "Hay am I not like other girls?" Can someone please explain to me why are you comparing yourself to girls you know nothing about? I bet if you sat and talked to other girls you'll find out no they are like you. Every time I see this pop up. "Not like other girls" gives list of how they are different and is exactly the same as the other girls... "I wear black" Great me too "I like to read" Me to. Get the point? I'm also an artist and carry a very big knife. Just be yourself and stop comparing yourself to other's. Wanna be "not like other girls?" Fine be president, be a CEO by creating your own Social Midea app.

Yes I literally went through the same phase during puberty. Now I'm a transmasc non-binary person. Suddenly being not like the other girls makes way too much sense💀💀💀

Lmao same😂

oh good it’s not just me

same

Oh yeah I had this experience haha.

Oml you're right This was so well put LMFAO

A gatekeeping/psychosis van diagram? 😮 Need that as a visual asap.

And "Taters"😂😂

YOOO SAME 😂

I heard someone say once, that the reason why a lot of girls go through the pick me phase, is because society tells us that girls are bland, stupid and basically not people. So we see ourselves as “different” but as we age and get to know other girls/women we are able to see them as whole people with interests and brains

Crappy childhood? Might be overstepping, but I’ve never met people like that who didn’t come from a broken house/didn’t get help with their school bullies.

@@StephanoTheGolden Less about crappy childhoods, more about crappy societal pressure

@@Bobbi._. Absolutely this. We are taught from an early age, implicitly if not explicitly, that the feminine is inferior, and that women are vapid, shallow creatures. So of course when a girl starts to grow up and realizes she is not like that at all, she naturally concludes that she must be different from other girls. I mean personally I ended up thinking there was something wrong with me as a woman because I could never see myself in all the representations of women in media, but it's easy to see how you might also consider yourself better because you're not like those "other inferior women".

Pick me girls are annoying. You can be different but keep it to yourself, not everyone wants to know that you a tomboy.

Exactly 👏

This!

I think that just goes for anyone lol don't force opinions

That's kinda the thing, though. They're not standing out. There isn't some large group of girls that all act the same. As a woman who has known many other women, even the girls who seem to fit the stereotype really don't on a base level, and girls who really don't can't claim to be wholly unique and different from all other girls because all of them are in various groups (rock listeners, sporty, masc-dressing, etc) that include plenty of other girls. This behavior very very rarely stems from simply feeling ostracized, and instead tends to come from unhealthy coping mechanisms like feeling wrong or inferior for being feminine or rejecting forced societal norms of femininity due to pathological demand avoidance or simply being trans. Unfortunately, we still live in a society that tries to make very young girls choose between dresses and being taken seriously.

Exactly

I had a woman order a hot chocolate with 2 shots of espresso and she yelled at me cuz i tried to ring her up for a mocha. "I dont want a MOCHA! i want a HOTCHOCOLATE WITH ESPRESSO!" Its literally the same thing and the mocha is cheaper 🤦‍♀️ i explained that *very* politely, but she was having none of it. So im like okay, one hot chocolate with espresso coming up. When the barista got the order she turned to me and shes like "so do they just want a mocha?" I saw the woman on the other side of the bar just glare at us. So trying to keep a straight face i said "no, they want a hot chocolate with espresso" 😂

Ya that we tend to do shit like that especially if we have parents not very accepting of it. But glad you discovered yourself welcome to the family Lil sibling

"I'm not like other girls, I am a man"

my “i hate pink” era

@@elixir_tea YoU wiLL nEvAr bE a ReAl WoMaN

@@elixir_tea i know, isnt it amazing how normalized it has become? i cant believe it either. I never thought id see the day where trangender people were just normal people. But that day is upon us. I dont know why they couldnt accept that they were female and just liked masculine things. If everyone could just feel okay with the gender they were assigned at birth, we wouldnt have so much depression and anxiety and self loathing. Unfortunately life isnt that easy. But luckily transitioning helps a lot☺️ I dont think any of us expect to be accepted. We hope to be accepted. But theres a lot of horrible people in the world who lack empathy and dont seem to care or dont want to understand what someone who is different might be going through. Thanks to the help of my doctors and surgeons tho, youd probably accept me without even realizing it 😈

Picturing that conversation in my head cracked me up! "WRONG, BUCKO!"

Sounds like Bayonetta Jnr This is not a request, but a command: Slay, queen.

Yeah, as an autist, the disconect to both is real . . . .i just did my own thing

So being a girl = being cost efficient and valuing your safety? And that's supposed to be bad?

Same except it’s dresses and jeans for me.

Same, but I prefer pants. I just prefer them, dresses are good too.

​@@SarahAbramova for me I like skirts but I'm forced wear pants lol I don't mind pants at all 😂

I Felt like that post might have been written by a guy pretending to be a women. "Guys are awesome with personalities and brains! Women are boring gossips who make me carry their stuff"

@@jaimicottrill2831 I had the same thought! The part saying the women were wearing heels to hike? Or something, and switching shoes with them seems to stick out. No matter what gender, no one is willingly going hiking or whatever in heels.

@@LycanKai14 That is not what OP said about that girl tho. The girl going to clubs didn't see other women as "full people", not OP

Actually, she needs to stop judging people who have different interests than her. Liking clubs has nothing to do with anything she mentioned and if you think no one who goes to clubs is a full person then you've either never been to a club or you're just as bad as she is in terms of judging people. Probably both.

skill is built with time and practice, no one that knows how to do nails and cut creases got it right since first try. if you are willing, try it a few times while watching along a tutorial

Yeah, I'm older too and I also wasn't like other girls and I was so jealous of them. The first time a guy showed interest in me I was genuinely shocked and, now that I think about it, that feeling of disbelief stayed with me for years until I built up some confidence in my 20s. I struggle understanding this trend now

I think a lot of them are actually jealous and are just putting a facade to validate themselves. Same mechanism as people that are bullies (they are often veeery self-concious and riddled with insecurities)

Just like me for real, lol

@@billcipher8645 it is definitely an insecurity thing. I think a lot of the nlog content is produced by insecure teens. I met a girl who complained about her insecurities and then sent me a list of ways she was different from other girls. She even told me verbatim that she knew she was special. The list included things like having a pixie cut…I knew several other girls with pixie cuts. I understand her pain. She has been bullied but ripping others down won’t build her up.