100% agree with Poki about tones and mannerisms. The dude was using aggression to manipulate his following, be peaceful and loving, and it will flourish around you naturally
There are multiple ways of solving issues. For some people negative reinforcement like what he’s doing works but he is a bit overly aggressive I will agree with that.
The crazy part about this situation is that if you just listen to women, you wouldn't have these issues. We as women are literally saying just be normal and treat us like the human beings we are, yet these pick up/alpha douches keep telling men to do the complete opposite.
@Big Homie Steve The Metal Head probably because the guys that treat us like shit seem like decent people at first and manipulate and gaslight us when they show their true colors. and no bashing nice guys isn’t nonsense because all those “nice guys” are usually just as rude as those “bad boys” you think of. nice guys EXPECT something from women and view them as nothing but a sex object and blame them for not being able to get laid instead of reflecting on themselves.
@Big Homie Steve The Metal Head kinda seems like you're sourcing movies for that which is hilarious. plus if you'd talked to a woman you'd know tons of supposed "nice guys" put up a facade to get in your pants and consider anything outside of that the dreaded "friendzone" as if the women they know are targets for sexual conquest and not...like actual people
@@faeriewinggs Yeah, you're not actually a "nice guy" if you're being nice as part of a transaction to get laid. Broadly, in my experience, people who are actually decent and kind never are the ones yelling "I'm a decent and kind person! Why isn't anyone fucking me?"
@Big Homie Steve The Metal Head There's a difference between being a 'nice guy' and being a nice person. 'Nice guy' implies a guy being nice to a woman with an ulterior motive, often becoming assholes the minute they're rejected.
I had a random dude do the "sit really close" thing at 27:25 to me on a train once...so much that he was almost pushing me against the window. Not fun, huge invasion of privacy and my personal space and I could not wait to get off that train. Men, please don't do this.
I’m sorry this has happened to you, but I can tell you that advice is not pua stuff. Anybody can just make up weird stuff, put it in a clickbait video and make money on youtube. Acutal pua stuff is just teaching men how to be socially callibrated. Anything weird, akward or harrasment like, is by definition not good pua advice.
Omg I didn’t know this was advice purposefully given to men 🤦♀️. My best friend had an uncomfortable time with some dude from hs+college who had a crush on her. He asked another friend if she was single (the friend sent b.friend a screenshot of the conversation and asked how to respond). Best friend told her to obviously tell him she was taken because she’s in a relationship. Yet knowing she wasn’t single, this guy one day decided to join my friends while they were eating, sit right next to his crush (the taken b.friend) and scoot over to touch his foot with hers as well as his arm to her own 🙂. No personal space. This obviously made her uncomfortable and she asked my friends if they needed to use the restroom too (they took the hint that she wanted to get up). So after telling them she wasn’t comfortable, they leave the restroom & go back to the table and b.friend intentionally sits between the other two friends. Fast forward, and this guy still makes my best friend feel incredibly uncomfortable bc he’s asked our friends if she plans to go on certain trips to campuses (so he can book them too) or what color she’s dyed her hair (so that he can dye his the same). No boundaries or respect for the signs she’s shown that she wants space or the relationship he knows she’s in. It makes me sad to hear bc he was one of my guy friends in high school (who at that point hadn’t really interacted with my b.friend much) and pretty chill, but after all that there’s just no excuses for his behavior and I’m really disappointed :/
@c C dsds It wasn't crowded. There were plenty of open seats and nobody was standing around in close proximity. Nice try trying to change the narrative though. Why can't you just accept the fact that this dude was a creep?
Yeah I seriously can't understand why "Just having a good time together" whether its chatting or going to dates isn't the number one advice? They always search for medical remedies that somehow suppose to trick/hack women instead of idk just bonding with us like human beings.
@@justalostlocal guys that prescribe to this nonsense have low-level personalities which is why they 'seeked help' in the first place. They can't just hang out and have a good time because a genuine relationship isn't what they're looking for, they're looking for status symbols.
That's Greg Doucette. Never watched him but he's huge in the fitness community. I might have start watching if he's gonna be that unintentionally funny. That voice will make anything funny.
The secret to picking up women is that there is no secret. Taking advice from a pick-up artist is like learning how to play Tetris, and literally no other videogame.
Perfectly said, or if there is a trick, I guess it's that you can only have a woman that actually wants you back. Think that's where a lot of guys get hung up, superficial motivation.
It's so bad for insecure men and vulnerable women. I remember being 16 and thinking women like bad boys and I had to become one so more women would find me attractive. Luckily shortly after I met my first girlfriend and she had a big impact on me. I definitely acted weird and douchy though. If I wouldn't have had any contact to women maybe I would have started listening to advice like this... and there is only 2 ways this goes: You act weird and they avoid you OR you are manipulating the weaknesses of unstable women to have sex with you
@Emmett "don't be unattractive" is crazy advice, also even women have "unattractive" once but you don't hear from them 'saying nobody wants them' or making a podcast or tv shows on how to pull men, if you're unattractive and broke and want to pull girl who's 10 and is financially stable and you don't want to date "ugly" girls then you're delusional and you shouldn't cry about girls not wanting to date you
Hasan should do more reactions with women to PUA nonsense. Having Poki and others around is a lot of fun and you get to see real reactions. Hope we can see Amouranth do some with Hasan and Ethan soon.
@@Marco_Fabian37 The combination of what that Alpha M guy and Pokemaine was saying was correct though. Basically if you see a girl you are attracted to just make sure you're smiling with your eyes ( and a little actual smile) and try and intentientially cross eye paths, and then maybe hold it for a second, and if her eyes light up and she smiles back etc, go over and talk to her. If her eyes do light up, and she smiles back etc 99 times out of 100 she is interested. And when you're actually talking to them it's a lot easier to tell how interested they are, if their eyes are all sparkly and they are deeply looking into yours whilst their eyes are doing that ever so slightly flickering horizontally thing, they are definitely very interested.
@LG Lool, what ? Are you a guy, or a girl ? If you're a guy, you're telling me, you've never had a girl smile at you etc in a way that you felt showed she was interested, and then gone over and talked to her ? And if you're a girl, your telling me you've never smiled etc at a guy, and then he's come over and talked to you ? I'm sorry if you feel like this is a fantasy, but I can assure you it happens all the time, particularly in clubs and bars etc, but anywhere else as well, shopping malls, supermarkets, partys, gas stations, wherever.
I swear to God, like 95% of PUA bullshit is treating women like characters from dating sims instead of like normal, complicated, three-dimensional human beings. You can totally see who these dudes are targeting with this bullshit though. The idea that women are just a set of branched conversations and actions to be gamed, like a fucking Mass Effect cutscene.
A good chunk of these are about teaching super socially anxious guys a structure to help them to socialize. This has little to do with objectifying the other person.
@@FrenkieWest32 yes, that is the goal to get these guys to become more confident but as shown In the video, these PUA guys are really manipulative and misogynistic.
@@FrenkieWest32 And what kind of structure is that? A misogynistic one. What kind of socialisation? Trying to get into ppl's pants through hating that group of ppl. A socialisation pipeline which makes guys ending up like incel is self defeating at best. It has little to do with confidence when your confidence somehow depends on adhering to gender roles by seeing people a body count or bang maids.
@@sandmans5980 not all of them at all. I didnt watch the video with much attention, but as far as Ive seen there were plenty that just mention stuff like ''try to get attention by making eye contact, but dont stare like a creep'' or stuff like that. Some are batshit crazy as well, yes.
Oh God... I didn't know how messed up this male pickup artist industry is. Talk about screwing over a whole generation of insecure and desperate men. Instead of listening to these idiots, just get used to hanging out with girls. Every girl you meet doesn't need to be pursued as some potential girlfriend. You can just be friends. Hang out in a group and do some fun things. You build your social skills and confidence by actually being around people rather than watching youtube videos. If you are trying to hook up with a girl, then a female friend may actually give you the best advice. Certainly better than these "alpha" males.
That’s 200iq advice. Men with no women in their lives just need to hang out with more women. Incells are now a thing of the past thanks to your big brain!
@@gamercatsz5441 If you got no women in your life, what do you think will be easier? Get a regular women as a friend or find a hot girl to be your girlfriend? Start simple and have more patience. Develop your social skills and understanding of girls. What they like. What they don't like etc. That is all I am saying.
@@erikengheim1106 If an introvert shy guy goes to the extreme step to go to a PUA seminary, you can bet your ass they are too akward to even get a female friend. I thought that was obvious to most men who have friends. Every man with friends knows incells, I know 2 at least grown dudes who are virgins at almost 40 years old.
Bro that guy is going to be reliving that moment in front of the audience with the pickup artist for the rest of his life, shit like that never goes away
@@Marco_Fabian37 Just because something might be true that doesn't mean it cant be insulting or offensive. For example you wouldn't go up to a old person at a funeral and tell them that 'you could be next' or tell a kid that their drawing looks like garbage. Also editing to say at around 21:10 they bring up an article of said guy being a r*pist.
@@kellycowley3535 the people that go to those seminars know what to expect. Maybe that’s what they need since everyone around them seem to not care enough to actually tell them the truth. “I didn’t think she wanted to have sex AGAIN!” Doesn’t really sound like rape after you had sex with him already.
the "get caught purposefully checking them out" thing is so disgusting actually, anytime this happens i stare back until they get uncomfortable, barking also works.
If you see *me* staring it's because I'm in ADHDland and 50 thoughts about Super Mario and Black Sabbath are running through my head. So I'm not staring at you, I'm away from the proverbial keyboard.
Lol, I've zoned out staring at people and came back to the return glare. Barking would've been preferred because then I at least can tell myself they understood that I was mindlessly watching movement during an internal monologue. Anyways neat trick to reflect unwanted attention.
Step-By-Step guide on making a pickup artist guide: Step 1: Tell your audience to be as much of a douche as possible and say that's actually just being cool and masculine. Step 2: Refer to Step 1
I feel bad for the kid in black around the 20:00 mark. He’s not an unattractive guy at all. There’s far worse out there. And he’s definitely better looking than the dude hosting that crowd. The best advice that guy or anyone in that situation to get is just “go for it” you have nothing to lose by getting shot down by a stranger in a bar.
Well the host does have skills in manipulating people, but he's clearly using them on the men going to him for help. Honestly he reminded me of evangelical preachers I've seen who get physically close and loud with the people they're praying for to manipulate their emotions. This is mostly for the sake of getting them to "feel the holy spirit" or faint, since these people are essentially going to these places for a sort of natural altered consciousness experience. In return they shower those preachers with donations, which is usually the bigger drive for too many preachers.
@@fluidthought42 you’re completely right too. This dude preys on the weak. He can essentially say what he wants and make the kid next to him agree because at the end of the day, he has no confidence to say someone is wrong in front of a room of people. Say “hey look he says it works” everyone else does too. Classic evangelical manipulation
I genuinely felt uncomfortable watching that. For him in the sense that he's being belittled, but it was just really weird to watch the manner in which he physically treated him.
@@jackblasbalg7936 Hasan and me were not the hottest dude when we were younger. Lol big deal! We both live fine enough lives and don't let others tell us how we should think or feel.
Dude if that guy works out for like just like 3 months he would be set, he’s overall a pretty good looking dude and with some muscle could be in the standards of the same cringy PUA, a 9 or a 10
The need to make women fit into this box as a manipulable creature and to follow a seduction rulebook is an indication of a man's insecurity. How cowardly are you if you can't simply TALK to her as an individual?
If women were treated as human beings with their own wants/agency. Then how am I supposed to sell my weekend long "top hacks to get any woman to fall for you" course for only $2799.
Wtf dates are bad now? Dates are dope man. That cutesy shit of looking into each other's eyes and getting to know each other is fun. Nah man, I dont care, I'm going on dinner dates no matter what some sugma male has to say
'Don't take them to a boring dinner date' the whole point of early dates it to get to know eachother better. They are either trying to go on dates with people they are not compatible or just plain boring people. Even later in going on dinner dates is amazing because you're with someone you truly love. Their takes are ways so flawed.
Yeah I'm not a fan of the idea of dinner dates, I will agree with the dude in the beginning on the fact that it's an incredibly basic thing to do, if you want to show profound interest in someone/show them a good time perhaps plan something more involved/engaging like mini-golfing, maybe a comedy show or even just a scenic walk.
@@samtorr3947 You can still get to know people on a non-dinner date. Going to get food especially at a fancy restaurant is just so uninvolved and if you're not enjoying yourself you feel stuck.
@@alexicordeiro-beaupre2415 I like to meet up for coffee for a first date, and try to either have something planned after so I have a hard out or have the rest of the day clear. It’s better to have the rest of the day clear imo. If you vibe over coffee, maybe have a few fun activities in mind of something to do. “Hey, you want to walk around the neighborhood after we finish the coffee? Or there’s a cool mini golf place around the corner. Something fun and still casual, because this is still an interview or vibe check or whatever. Be a good listener and BE YOURSELF. It’s not a performance, it’s just hanging out. Totally cool to bring up your interests and stuff, but don’t dominate the conversation about how you just came up with the perfect dominion kingdom or something. That can turn into dinner if you want, but it doesn’t have to, and not doing so isn’t a bad sign. Also, don’t do the bullshit waiting to text after thing. When you get home, send a reference to a part of your conversation or some story they didn’t actually get into or something. Just tell them if you had a good time and that you would like to see them again. Be flexible and as chill as you can. The goal should not be to get into someone’s pants. If you get into a relationship, you’re likely going to be having regular sex, which is great, but don’t let that be the focus or goal. A body count is not and should not be a point of pride. It’s nothing to be ashamed of either, of course (though never call it a body count) but like... just have fun with a person. Explore some of their interests with them. Learn new things. The world is cool! But also, definitely be open about your politics early(ish) on. You don’t want to be dating a Nazi, and neither do they.
@@a.d.9729 but, you catch fish because you want to fillet and eat it. The fish doesn't want that. A woman might want to befriend someone, or something.
@@a.d.9729 Yea but this isn't just locker room talk. It's not a bunch of guys hangin out talkin bout girls. It's about a man giving A CLASS about treating woman as objects....
@@a.d.9729 Dude, women don't put people in a friendzone anymore than men do; you either click together or do not. If she is treating you as a friend it's because she isn't interested in you romantically and there is not much to do about it. That, or she is interested but may not know how to signal it, so you were never in a "friendzone" to begin with.
These pick-up artists are awful. Recommending no dinner dates should be the first red flag. Sharing a meal together can be the perfect setting to get to know each other. Many restaurant's are designed to be intimate with that in mind. These guys are taking advantage of so many people. If their services actually worked so well they wouldn't have so many people continuing to pay them. Guys if you use these services take everything with a grain of salt.
@@gamercatsz5441 you can, but it can potentially be more awkward thinking about if your walking pace is alright, what to do during awkward silences, and being occupied with _where_ you’re going to walk, especially if the date is with strangers who you don’t know you can trust yet. When sitting at a dinner table you can eat while there’s a silence and think of what to say + take little mental breaks while you’re figuring out if you like the person or not. It can also be considered a safer public space, and at least if the date doesn’t go well you can enjoy the food. Dates don’t have to be expensive, but certain activities can have more pros/cons than others, especially when you consider someone’s hobbies/personality.
PUA stuff is always so awful because there's this weird implicit notion within all of them that the point of sex and relationships is to be good at getting what you want and that's really the most important thing. Which, that is just the worst advice you could give to anybody in any context. It's just so sad that a lot of insecure people, mostly men, think that this nonsense will improve themselves and their lives. In reality, people would be much better off just learning social skills and how to make friends, or just joining a like a club or something. That's the craziest thing to me, the real point here is to just make relationships, but these psycho guys try to overcomplicate everything with misogynistic voodoo, when it's really as simple as learning to be a sociable person and pleasant company (which is not as easy as it sounds but certainly easier than whatever half these PUA guys are peddling)
Is it a coincidence that some of the advice from these pick up artists sounds like generic bratty kid behavior? Like " disagree with her on everything" you mean act like a kid that'll just say the opposite of what u said because they realize that it annoys you.
I went on one date with a guy, and every subsequent date he tried to ask me on, he didn't actually ask a question, he was just like "have dinner with me", etc. Wording it as a statement, and not a question, was such a turnoff. I said no and eventually told him to stop texting me, because of some other red flags, but the first one I noticed was the trying to tell me what to do. Also I think most servers just want to do their jobs and aren't there to be asked out by the customers.
@@GroupKillingFrenzy lmao, you know nothing about me, my current relationship status, or my "count". Or what else he said that made me decide against seeing him again. My point was that women know when you try to pull pickup artist bullshit on them. It's obvious, and it doesn't make them want to date you.
@@elli71 How do you know he was using pickup artist shit tho? I've said stuff like "come on a date with me" b4 without watching a pickup artist. Also, what's wrong with asking someone's number if they're working? Many ppl have and had great relationships after.
@@TheSm1thers it's still kinda pickup artist-y if the intent is to make it more difficult to say no, but once in a while is not a big deal, three consecutive times is indicative of a person I don't want to be with. It's hard to describe the whole situation in RU-vid comments, but I think "hey, would you like to grab dinner" is, in general, a better approach, especially if you've only gone out one time before that.
@@TheSm1thers as for the second question, I specifically meant for the guy being surprised the server wasn't into him because he asked for his food instead of commanding it. Maybe it's because she's not on a date with him, she is working. If a server is mutually flirting with a customer, that's different. I don't have a problem with asking for someone's number at work. I have a problem with assuming that if you say the right thing to any server she'll want to be with you.
I'm not super into twitch or the larger community surrounding it, and considering her rep and brand, I often forget how good of a streamer Pokimane is. Compare her here to some of hasan's dry ass guests he usually has on, its night day.
I dont understand her stream....I've tried to watch it. I'm not sure I hit the spot that makes her stream good.. EDIT: Hey, thanks guys for the additional feedback. I was just curious and didnt want to be disrespectful or dismissive towards any of her fans or anything so I appreciate your words.
@@Idolikethis i can understand that. Love her personality and she’s a fun person to listen to. Like she got mad wit and is really entertaining but the actual content of her streams really doesn’t appeal to me 😔 still follow and pop in once in a while tho
Y'know, I was kinda sceptic to watch Poki and Aria because of some other creators, who described them as cringe, but it was actually a pretty chill and lighthearted video to watch (or rather, tried to frame them as being cringe). I'm glad I gave it a chance, they ain't as bad as I was primed to think and the whole thing was overall pretty funny. Goes to show how much our biases can mislead us, huh?
Exactly, I rarely watch twitch except for like interesting vods, and I understand slightly how people dislike like Dream, Pokimane, and other creators like that, and it seems like the major reason is cause it’s popular opinion. They don’t seem like bad people, they don’t even seem annoying.
Yeah, a lot of people just hate them for nothing. I don't usually watch streamers content, but I watch Hasan, Poki and sometimes a little from Rae and Ludwig from time to time, and I've had a good time. I really don't understand some of the negativity people spread about them.
@@Marco_Fabian37 honestly I think hasan has a decent understanding of what opera sounds like. His tone was spot on, and like the vibrato?? Kinda good ngl
3:36 The annoying and sad thing is that even if you believe the story is true, he self reported that she only called because her bf was abusive and this weirdo was bare minimum. That’s it. The bar is in hell and he is the bar, and he’s bragging about that.
I think I realized the moment I got out of the friend-zone with one girl. I was at Subway and said "I'll have the Chicken Alfredo." She was so hot for me at that moment she didn't even realize the sandwich artist was saying "Um, sir, we don't have chicken alfredo. If you'd just look at our menu..." and I shouted "NO! YOU aren't listening to me! I am a MANLY MAN and I am BEING DIRECT. I. Will. Have. The. Chicken. Alfredo!" We aren't allowed to eat at that Subway anymore, but we've been married for over 10 years now.
I love our tiny-headed himbo but Poki is legit the better entertainer per unit of time; I can see why she's so popular. Azan's got that stamina though.
Excellent use of reverse psychology if that is true! Plus the more "success" they personally have, the more money they can make by duping other desperate dudes! 🤣🤣🤣
i can't believe i ate this shit up when i was 16, for me though it was when my first ex gf broke up with me and i really wanted her back. All these "love coaches" would advise me to straight up disrespect her and show her no attention so that she comes crawling back, it didnt work. Worst part is years later me and her talked onkly for her to tell me that after we broke up she pretty much forced herself not to reach out to me and the only reason she inevitably didnt was because i wasnt showing her any care or attention after the fact. Just be you and things will happen, if you listen to these ppl youll just fk ur situation up worse.
I feel like most pre-pick up artists male “seduction” culture was mainstreamed by rich, well connected guys that acted like that to the particular type of women who would do him regardless just because it was a timeframe which women were entering the (professional) workforce and were more socially depending monetarily, and the guy wouldn’t notice or assume it and went “yeah, it’s my personality, I’m just stylish”. And later this cultural environment dissipated and those pick up artists who read 1950’s/1960’s Playboy Magazine as a Bible of Manhood tried to sell what those guys did for average losers who can’t rely on money, and that’s how you get the disconnect. It’s grifters trying to sell what rich assholes from a bygone era thought that was what made them attractive (were it was the money and social standing) to today’s broke, mostly socially awkward, dudes. Might as well start a “19th Century Dandy Seminar”.
BIGGEST ADVICE FOR SINGLE DUDES: learn to read the room and just bc you want to talk to her doesn't mean she wants to or has to talk to you. Stop acting as if we owe you something bc you took a second to try. Take the no and move the fuck on. The more you persist, the more red flags you raise and scare us off. One no, and say "okay, well have a great day". It's not that hard. ALSO, don't put your hands on ANY woman if you don't know her. You might earn yourself a bloody stub.
See, that's why I'm smart and don't try at all because I'm self-aware enough to know I offer nothing of value, and I'm nice enough not to waste any girl's time by trying to talk to them.
"This is her way of 'shooting her shot' without actually shooting her shot" Mere seconds earlier: "It can be as small as a playful punch after you tease her all the way up to a kiss" Damn this girl kissed me but I wasnt sure if it was cause she liked me or like something else, thank u for letting me know, also pleas make a part 2 on being married because our 5 year anniversary is in a week and Im not sure if its because she likes me or shes just nervous.
Looking back on this stream i think Poki is probably one of the best complementary guests for hasan because she keeps him on track and has no problem moving the convo forward herself
The line about getting tired of pasta would be hilarious if the woman he was trying to pick up actually did eat the same thing for dinner every night, which isn't that uncommon for autistic people. Like he'd go "what did you have the night before" and I'd go "pasta" and he'd think it was just a couple days of pasta in a row and then I'd tell him I ate pasta before that and his point would be ruined before he could make it
Guy in the video: "Sit as close as you can to the girl so you're touching her and show her your book/tablet" Image used as illustration: Guy sitting alone on a bench holding a baseball bat
Nice to see women's perspective being highlighted on this. It's helpful for men who maybe don't have tons of experience talking to pretty girls but who haven't already gone too far down the woman-hating path. The chicken alfredo discourse was great. I also completely agree with feeling bad for regular guys who listen to these awful "experts" because they don't know how else to learn how to talk to women.
What they really should be teaching is empathy which is really the key to unlocking understanding the other persons motive and whether or not they like you or not.
They did?? Man. That's the first and prolly last time a question I asked he read and answered on stream. I thought I was fanning out too hard when I took a screenshot of that moment but now it's like...I'd never see that stream again, sadge
@@Idolikethis it pisses me off to no end and honestly makes me think this whole site is corrupt as hit what message did they read from you? I’m a huge fan of the podcast and Hasan being a part of the H3 verse is amazing
This is fucking jaw dropping. Tell me there aren't dudes falling for these videos. I feel like just be chill, open and don't treat a girl like she's a different species or an alien. There, can I get payed the big bucks now?
there are MANY MANY men falling for this. To the point, 50 year old divorced men are chasing female college law school graduates who make more money than them, and are sexually harassing these women, because PUA told them that's what needs to be done. These same men are NOT looking for marriage or a relationship, but to use a woman in her twenties or younger as a "fuck toy". When she kindly rejects the old man, shit hits the fan and he cusses her out...cause "modern women" are the problem...blah blah... He then goes home cries his eyes out, and then tells himself " I am God's gift to women" He goes out gets rejected again by women half his age, and more educated than him, and the cycle continues.
30:52 one of the most desired women on Earth nearly peed herself laughing at this dude. That wasn't fake laughing, either. That was some straight-from-the-soul mirth. His life is now over. RIP, sad little con artist.
kindness, confidence, respect, and the ability to acknowledge your faults and have a good laugh will get you way farther than any of those videos hasan, poki, and aria reacted to! also if you find yourself struggling than dont be afraid to go to therapy and work on yourself!
i hope that friendship never ends .. u guys literally so cute together as a bro sis.i can literally felt the confort and trust of her while she is in your place and your seat , she just relaxed.
ok but the first guys advice wasnt like weird or misogynist it was just kinda normal date stuff. I have fun on dates when we go to like a bookstore or the beach. Or go see turtles
But not everyone is like that. Just let people be people and do what they want including dates. I like dates like the ones you mention. I’m a book worm and I feel I would be more comfortable and talkative without food in my mouth in between talking and keeping up conversation. Dinner dates for me would be much better after having seen each a couple of times and feeling the person and wanting to do things without having to talk as much so I can enjoy my food and still be able to have a convo, but more chill and casual.
@@seanceknowles2911 I'm with you mostly, I have no problem if other people decide to go on dinner dates but if you want to be interesting and relay the intention of wanting to have a good time together a dinner date is not a good option imo. You'd want to open with something at least interesting/involved rather than just being relegated to food and conversation
this video made me relive the trauma of cringiness i lived in high school when a guy as an excuse of " teaching me how to draw in art class " when in fact I drew better than him and didn't ask for advice at all, I was just focusing on my drawing 💀 he came from above my head and took my hand and pencil and whispered bullshit like literally, he said nonsense like I am not a human with a brain who can see the wrong in what he is saying, he managed to ruin my mood and my drawing👌he also had a best friend who basically did the same things if not worse like try to sit next to me and touch my knees, hands, wait, hair depends each day he came out of nowhere ... these 2 made me HAte boys for a while and not date anyone in high school ... btw I was a quiet person and didn't talk much to them yet they found it totally normal to do these things 🙃I never knew how to react in those situations always came out of nowhere and I didn't know how to react they probably thought I like them when in fact I just wanted to run as far as possible in those situations 😭😭
The tragedy of AlphaM is that like 8 years ago he used to be a legit RU-vidr giving real style and clothing advice. IDK when he turned into a stupid dating advice guy.
Omg!! A co worker did that strat of cornering me and showing me pictures on his phone. I was so uncomfortable I kept trying to move away. I was literally falling off mu chair to get away. Gosh he was such a creep.
If some dude looking like a David Cross character vibing off a decade of coke confidence, dressing like he's still paying off the layaway on his first affliction tee, started telling me that I'd off myself in 10 years if I didn't take his dating advice...I'd fucking lose it 🤣🤣🤣
@5:53 Holy shit. If I were a woman and had a dude that jacked come talk to me with a voice that sounds like a 10 year old got kicked in the balls, I'd instantly walk away. Even worse that he has such shit takes on relationships and dating
