Welcome to the First Episode of Shop Talk, where Adeolu Adefarasin along with guests Lynxxx and Stan Nze talk about what they are looking for in a partner as well as what they expect of themselves
The woman they are describing, are they preparing themselves for her? She will also have the type of husband/ life partner she wants. Are you that? They should not assume just because they are make they qualify. The guy in the barbers chair especially. Lynxx is already working on himself and you can tell.
PREACH LYNXX PREEEEEACH... Too many shallow minded fellas out there missing out on GOOD WOMEN because she's not a "SLAY QUEEN" ...shop talk is a good one.
Yes, please let’s talk about that submission thing. Guys are throwing around that word these days like it’s their right. Whol’ up! You be my papa? You send me go school? You give me food? So I no know you from nowhere bhet I go throw my brain and all my years of self-development in the bin because you think submission from me is your right?? Oga, you dey dream o. Submission is earned. In a marriage. And by the way, he who wants to be the first must be the last. When you’re ready to make sacrifices for your family, you can expect submission.
Looking forward to more ! , It's good to know that there are men who look beyond the physical and realize that a solid foundation with Christ should be the basic criteria for picking a partner.
This is truly amazing. However, I must say I was left wanting. Maybe 17 mins is not enough time to truly portray your thoughts but there were many times when the guys were sharing great thoughts and advice but were interrupted or cut short by the guy asking the questions. I especially wanted to hear where the gentleman in pink was coming from when he was building up his views on dating a person within the entertainment industry. All in all, this was a breath of fresh air. I was about to pour me a glass of wine when all of a sudden, it was over. 17 mins? We want more please. I'd love to use the episodes for my girls' sleepover post-discussion fun topic. God bless you all.
This was great, enjoyed watching it, tho I wish guys would also talk about 'loving' their women as that to me is an even greater responsibility than 'submission'. Great job! x
OMG!!! I was literally saying this to my friend! It's something I really need to touch on in my videos. Men need to remember that to love is a greater responsibility than for a woman to submit. Plus, if you love a woman the way Christ loves the church, she will move the earth for you (in my friend's words).
So i sent my sister this youtube video and this was her reply, ''Lynxxx sounds finally grown up The moderator too is mentally mature The one cutting hair I wouldn't touch with a pool stick''..... Which is true. #myopinion
Eye-opener!!! This for me is the best episode so far. Their realness cut through like a knife. Lynxxx, Stan and Adeolu, my kind of men, nothing beats being real, keep it up guys!!!
They all look for the flesh, all of them and when you try to tell them to be more spiritual and abstain. They all run... They all say they want more than the physical but its all crap. I may just be single for a while.. Sobs
I'm not surprised to see comments about being "submissive" I'm convinced I'm not like most women my age seeing that this word has such a negative connotation among my age group. While they abhor the idea of being submissive to a man, I actually understand it 🤷🏾♀️. I mean, being submissive actually comes naturally when you are in love or care for someone, it manifests in the little things we do, we just overlook it. Simple things like doing him a favor, performing small tasks he asks you to do, just the little things and of course the more obvious such as ironing his shirt, cooking for him etc. ( because we're at "whipped" stage). It's just innate for us women, we are nurturer, "womb"men, mothers. Maternal instincts kick in when the love bug bites. The fear and resistance, I think, comes from being submissive to the wrong type of men which is justifiable, no woman wants to submit to a dictator. I can only speak for myself, as a woman submission would be sort of like a "love language" for me personally, to Express my appreciation to a good man who has proved himself trustworthy of my vulnerability. My submissiveness would also mean that I'm not afraid to be lead by him because I see leadership qualities and God in him. (Security) Submission can be a deep and spiritual thing, which is why I believe the Bible instructs us to practice it with each other (husband and wife) so be careful in choosing your partner
But most serious lifters don't gym for gyal. It's for us. We want to look the best we can and be the strongest we can be. It might be your motivation at the start, but it typically doesn't last. The effect that weights have on your body and the positive experience of chasing and achieving goals is what keeps a lot of us going.
Thank God there is still hope! People still get sense like this...these days you can't even have an intelligent conversation. Clap for yourself y'll. Lynx anytime he talks👏👏👏 God indeed changed you.
It goes both ways chiiile..women get passed on and so do men..based on this very fact. There is are a lot of mismatches out there because too often the specs take over the substance especially in the younger years 20's and early 30's.
These guys are smart and seem well grounded and while they are all eye candies, lynxxx mehn! My kinda guy...just fyne anyhow, sabi God and con get 6packs! Choi...lol
No woman will want to be ordered around. We, women are Also looking for substance. @lynxx the submission of Stan Ike's context isn't going to work. Even if get married to a woman who is a submissive person...one day she will rebel...everyone has got to work on themselves
Any guy that mentions “submissive, submission “, there’s a high chance that he’s a narcissist!!!! Trust me I’ve been there😄😄😄 People need to know that submission isn’t a physical thing, it’s a spiritual thing....
Mm, usually mankind is quick is ignore and disobey God, but I see every culture on earth totally agrees about the submission thing... Which makes me think that the submission we talk about is totally ungodly and not God's definition. God's path has always been the narrow road that People don't want to travel on, yet all almost the entire male population want to obey God is the submissive wife department... Mm.
