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Postpartum Update | This is HARD, Body Changes & New Challenges | Annie Jaffrey 

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@mollytaylor3669
@mollytaylor3669 2 года назад
This is great stuff Annie, thanks for posting! I really like your fitness journey. I was wondering if you could answer a question for me. Have you ever used any of these custom meal plan tools? I got one from Next Level Diet to help me lose some weight and I actually like their plans. Was just wondering if you've heard of or tried any of them yourself. Thank you!
@soocouture
@soocouture 2 года назад
Being a mom is the hardest job the planet you’ll ever love ❤️ with regards to breastfeeding, pumping and supplementing in the first 2-3 months has actually shown to affect breast milk production negatively. Unless baby is dropping weight or not having wet and soiled diapers, there is no need to supplement. Your body knows what baby needs. A pump is not an efficient as a baby’s latch so your body stops producing the amount needed for your little one. I would reach out to a lactation consultants for support/guidance if it’s a journey you wish to purse/continue. Don’t get discouraged. Babies also go through so many growth spurts where they don’t seem satisfied and just want to nurse found the clock. This usually lasts about 3 days and totally normal to help increase supply. It’s definitely no easy task. You got this mama
@AndreaPerres
@AndreaPerres 2 года назад
I’m glad you said you are not feeling like even working out or have the time . I feel that way and actually felt down on myself that i can’t find time to workout . Makes me feel a Bit better that I’m not the only one
@anzaalex743
@anzaalex743 2 года назад
Have been your subscriber for quite a long time, I have to say, I am inspired by your journey from an independent girl to a beautiful mother. proud of u Annie💓💞💗💖
@glarafeili8360
@glarafeili8360 2 года назад
Annie you are doing so well! Becoming a mother is so hard!! But it gets easier with time. Don’t forgot to ask for as much help as you can, remember it takes a village to raise kids. Lots of love xx
@unciaciapanca
@unciaciapanca 2 года назад
You are an amazing mum and doing your best with baby girl. Was it difficult for Monto get used to the new life?I noticed there are no pictures of him with baby
@amijoi08021502
@amijoi08021502 2 года назад
Post partum breakdowns are common ...all because of withdrawal of hormones....just keep on enjoy doing things which you love ...take help of ur partner dear!!
@karina_esthi1738
@karina_esthi1738 2 года назад
Maybe I missed it Can you share what you used on your belly through the pregnancy to prevent stretch marks ?
@kiwi096
@kiwi096 2 года назад
If you go to one of her video called “ top 10 pregnancy essentials what I used the most” she talks about what stuff she used on her bump. Hope that helps. It’s 8 videos down from this one.
@karina_esthi1738
@karina_esthi1738 2 года назад
@@kiwi096 thanks Girl it does help!! 😊
@kiwi096
@kiwi096 2 года назад
@@karina_esthi1738 No problem. :)
@anabelamendesferreira9666
@anabelamendesferreira9666 2 года назад
Ty Annie, for everything darl. Blessings your way. Love from Lisbon xxx ♥️🎀
@2eyeluvmac2
@2eyeluvmac2 2 года назад
How do you store your bras?
@RMND424
@RMND424 2 года назад
Annie, I commend you for such an honest and open video - as a fellow mama, I can so relate. I hope that when you feel alone or overwhelmed, you feel comfortable enough to ask your partner for help ❤. When I had my first, my husband initially felt kind of helpless, because newborns are so mama-dependent, especially with cluster-breastfeeding, and I ended up feeling really alone in the beginning. But, once we realized the ways he could support me (like doing the cooking and cleaning, bringing her to me in bed so I could breastfeed while sleeping, or even just being a present and stabilizing force during my intense hormonal ups and downs), then it really made me feel so much more supported, and it made him feel so much more involved, so it was a win-win. I know everyone's plan and dynamic are different, but never be afraid to explore different forms of support from those around you if you are feeling overwhelmed ❤. You are such a sweet soul and your daughter is lucky to have you ❤❤.
@erinevermay8926
@erinevermay8926 2 года назад
You speak so beautifully about this Annie and it is all so true. One thing I learnt over time was that my partner was willing to help, but I had this idea that to be a perfect Mum, I had to do it all. And if I could care for the baby, clean the house, make dinners, whilst still trying to look good, that was a successful day. It took time to let go of that idea. I had to realise that I was still a good Mum even if things weren't perfectly in place and even if I couldn't manage everything the way I did before. A new way has to be forged and it requires team work. Over time I learnt to ask my partner for help and realised that he never said no. So I think (in some cases) our partners are willing to help but perhaps don't know where to start. Since the woman spends so much time breastfeeding and settling the baby to sleep, the partner views this as her role, however it's physically and emotionally exhausting. It's great to see that you and Mo are communicating now and figuring things out. Good on you both!
@annaburke8537
@annaburke8537 2 года назад
It's crazy that we think of it as "helping us" when the partner is taking care of the baby. It's his baby and house too!! ❤
@erinevermay8926
@erinevermay8926 2 года назад
​@@annaburke8537 That is so true!
@len4ita
@len4ita 2 года назад
Thank you for being completely honest when sharing your motherhood experience ❤️ You are such a positive, glowing human doing your best to grow a little one (she is blessed to have you as a mom 🌸
@maxsieliperales9916
@maxsieliperales9916 2 года назад
You can tell Moe is not really feeling the dad life he didn’t even posted the baby on his Instagram, & now she’s saying he’s not supportive that must suck, be careful who you choose as your Baby daddy❗️❗️
@steffc8611
@steffc8611 2 года назад
Very surprised to hear Mo didn’t help out a lot at first, if I have heard that correctly? I hope you’re getting a good level of support now, you’re doing so well Annie ❤
@alicekarin9747
@alicekarin9747 2 года назад
I don’t know why, but I have sensed that since the beginning. I hope he’s supporting her more now
@olgaszumilas1471
@olgaszumilas1471 2 года назад
I don’t like the word „help”. He is also a parent not a nanny. I think she is doing everything
@Utube322
@Utube322 2 года назад
To be fair, it is also an adjustment for dad. They will find their groove
@lisaroselouise
@lisaroselouise 2 года назад
Or maybe she meant not having her family close by to help. Im sure that is hard
@monikagrtr3649
@monikagrtr3649 2 года назад
@@lisaroselouise I don't think that this is what she meant. Because she said he is helping her at least in the morning now.
@d26s10
@d26s10 2 года назад
And with allll of this, you’ve still been working, editing and posting content. Your amazing Annie! You’re doing absolutely fantastically so don’t get yourself down. Baby girl is so lucky to have a mama who’s motivated and so focused on health and well-being.
@Nilesedge
@Nilesedge 2 года назад
You look beautiful Annie and your baby is so sweet. I hope Mo is being a supportive husband and father and helps you out ❤
@SaharaKnows
@SaharaKnows 2 года назад
Never get why woman who have access to help don’t use it. Let that man and your family help. There is absolutely no need to do it all.
@jannamosinyan4317
@jannamosinyan4317 2 года назад
Hands down you are my favorite RU-vidr 😂 have been following you since NYC days. Can’t believe you are able to keep up with your RU-vid along with other things happening ☺️ are you delegating ? I invested in house cleaning during the time of my pregnancy and thinking about hiring part time nanny ( or house help) when our baby girl is here in November. I am both thrilled and terrified 😅
@alenatorres7071
@alenatorres7071 2 года назад
I have the best hubby and dad to our 2 boys, BUT it was definitely a learning curve. Newborns always want their mama. So it's kinda like mama takes care of baby and daddy needs to take care of mama.
@graceseel7658
@graceseel7658 2 года назад
I resonate with this experience!!! Thank you for being so honest as this is what women need to hear and know before having children. As a single woman we are taught to be independent and we can do it all on our own, but raising a child truly takes a village. In western culture we seem to have lost this understanding and expect ourselves to keep house, appearance and work straight after having a baby but this is no good for baby or mum. You are doing amazing and I'm sure you will be able to fully bf again too! I'm so happy you are finding your new flow ☺️
@kellybulai
@kellybulai 2 года назад
Thank you for the honesty. You're doing an amazing job and look fabulous in process! Wishing you all the best.
@rayyban1
@rayyban1 2 года назад
You are doing an amazing job. Truly from my own experience and talking with other moms - partners being equally involved is the utmost importance and creates a bond and safety net between the 3 of you so when times get tougher than the normal baseline ( a day of gas, teething, sleep regressions, first cold ) it is like you are unbreakable as long as you are together. Regardless If breastfed/ bottle fed / formula fed / the partner to the mother has to be fully sacrificial to the baby and the mother for the balance. It takes a little time to adjust but hang in there ❤ I highly recommend sleep training - takingcarababies worked wonders for us and our little angel slept thru the night with minor regressions from about 8-12 weeks old because we were extremely consistent with sleep training. Sending you all the love on your journey - you already are succeeding. Xoxo
@ClassicKina
@ClassicKina 2 года назад
So happy for you Annie! You’re doing a great job. I want to give you the recognition you deserve, giving us creative new content every week while going through new mom challenges, you’re simply inspiring. Thank you for your hard work and dedication, we appreciate everything you’re doing! ❤
@Elizaw342
@Elizaw342 2 года назад
Annie, I just love the way you discuss the deep feelings of amazement combining pregnancy, delivery, and everything after. I felt that too….the power and beauty of creating a human being! The deepest of love for our children ❤
@equivocarse85
@equivocarse85 2 года назад
I believe that being a new mum is always harder than we think while being pregnant but one has to discover on her own . It's definitely a challenging period, you learn a lot about yourself and you get to appreciate your parents so much more.
@rachaelcolman7534
@rachaelcolman7534 2 года назад
Your journey into motherhood is identical to mine! I am actually shocked to hear someone givesuch an honest account of it. I wished I'd seen this when I had my boys. They are 9 and 12 now. Take good care of yourself as well as the great job your are doing for your beautiful family xxx
@sophiamcevoy
@sophiamcevoy 2 года назад
Hi Annie, just reading between the lines a little bit here. I might be wrong but just wanted to let you know it can take Dad’s a litre bit of extra time to adjust too. As women we go through all the physical changes and so much of the physical labour especially in the early stages is forced on us. It’s not uncommon for Dads to not know what to do or how to help and feel overwhelmed by all the changes. It’s lovely for Mo to be doing the early morning feed. In hindsight I wish I’d had my husband do this more as it definitely helped him to bond earlier but the pumping is so exhausting! As I’m sure you’re figuring out one of the most exhausting parts of Motherhood is the mental load. People say don’t be afraid to ask for help, but asking involves thinking and you just want someone to figure it out and help rather than having to be instructed. I hope you and Mo find a good groove. It’s one of the toughest parts and it changes as the babies change and you have to continuously communicate and readjust. Loads of love to you all ❤️❤️❤️
@DeepaGrewal
@DeepaGrewal 2 года назад
I can relate to everything you’re saying Annie. Postpartum life is extremely tough and you definitely need support. With the sleep deprivation, learning how to care for and understand your little ones needs, figuring out breastfeeding, the bloody nipples, building up your milk supply, the roller coaster of emotions, the discomfort in your private areas. The list really and truly goes on and I’m glad you actually discussed these things because it’s EVERYTHING I experienced 2 years ago with my daughter. If you’re still feeling uncomfortable down there, I would recommend a donut and do sitz baths daily with Epsom salts. It’s very healing. With building up your milk supply, you have to be consistent with your pumping. A hospital grade pump is life changing! But keep is mind you need to be consuming enough liquids and calories in order to produce enough milk. The days I didn’t have enough time to eat a proper meal because I was busy with my daughter and didn’t have help, were the days my body couldn’t produce enough milk. Another really important tip is to warm up and massage your breasts downwards so your pushing the milk towards the nipple. Always, always warm up the breast area and massage the milk downwards when you’re ready to nurse and pump. It does make a difference. Things will get much better. Your baby girl is adapting and so are you. You can do this! ❤️
@Frescaxo
@Frescaxo 2 года назад
Sorry to say this Annie but it doesn’t get easier with time but it will be different. You will swap challenges to some different ones but you will always stay busy, parents can never switch off 😢 But look forward to little kisses and arms wrapped around you, there will be many beautiful moments ahead ❤
@RMND424
@RMND424 2 года назад
This is so wise and true. Not easier, just different
@TheAutumn1176
@TheAutumn1176 2 года назад
I think the hardest thing about being a new mom is the pressure that is on them. My daughter is in college now, but I remember how much pressure I felt, & put on myself. Annie, I think you are very wise to go with your gut & supplement! I breastfed my daughter until she weaned herself at 10 months during the day, a year for nighttime feedings. However, I also supplemented & pumped because I was EXHAUSTED. As a baby, she didn’t sleep well, & often had colic. I later discoverer (by going with my gut) that she was (and still is) allergic to milk. Bravo for your flexibility in supplementing & pumping! She is one lucky baby girl!
@MsBritabroad
@MsBritabroad 2 года назад
My preemie is now almost 16 and I pumped all the time he was in the NICU only to discover that he was allergic to milk protein. It was a hard lesson, especially with a preemie whom you work overtime to protect and nurture. Sigh. We ended up using a very expensive formula for him, and completely overfeeding him LOL! He was a chonk!
@alexx_catherine
@alexx_catherine 2 года назад
My baby is 4 weeks and this video is extremely relatable! I knew having a baby would be hard and time consuming but I definitely didn’t expect it to be as hard and time consuming as it is lol. So worth it though just like you said ❤
@anisamohammed8104
@anisamohammed8104 2 года назад
Thanks for keeping it real. More women need to do this. I could never relate to those who went onto instagram and showed that they could do it all and still look like a supermodel.
@DianaCarolinaB
@DianaCarolinaB 2 года назад
Hi Annie, I am currently about to give birth to my second child and looking back, I drove myself to exhaustion and stress for wanting (and sometimes having to do it all on my own) I realized I pushed myself too hard which also affected my breastfeeding journey. This time around I am willing to seek help, I hired a cleaning and cooking lady, I spoke to my husband and daughter about my need to rest and also about the importance of our team work for this new baby. I created a post partum healing team.. Friends, therapist, etc. So don't hesitate to seek help and talk to your partner and friends. I don't have any extended family near me so I had to create my own village. Hang in there and seek support. You are doing great. 😘
@miSZdahlm
@miSZdahlm 2 года назад
Congratulations Annie! 💞 Thank you for your honesty! I hope Mo has been more helpful through out the process..
@mairav1
@mairav1 2 года назад
I felt the same way when I had my first. It does definitely get easier when they start sleeping through the night. I now have a 3 year old and a 1 year old and I work full time and go to grad school full time. It is mentally exhausting and mom guilt really gets to me however I will be graduating very soon which makes me keep pushing forward. Thank you for showing the real and raw side of birth! You look beautiful and will get through it within a blink of an eye
@marimeskas54
@marimeskas54 2 года назад
Dear Annie, bless you for your honesty. Motherhood is tough, specially with newborns. You will get past it and everything will fall into place. Love from a mother of two 🇦🇷
@claraow6620
@claraow6620 2 года назад
Annie, you are doing an amazing job as a mum. You will eventually get the hang of things, one thing u might wanna check out is 'moms on call'. It works like a charm! You look incredible 5mths pp.! Stay positive, happy and try to get as much help and rest as u can ❤️🙏
@nicoco143
@nicoco143 2 года назад
She said in the video she is 6 weeks pp 😊
@jencam2002
@jencam2002 2 года назад
I have 2 sons, 20 & 18, and the saying “ The days are long but the years are short” is so true. I don’t think anyone can be fully prepared for parenthood till it happens. I will also say my two sons were very different as newborns/ infants. My oldest was the easiest baby while my 2nd son had colic and gerd that required him to take medication to keep food down. So while I was a not a first time mom with him, he was very different from my first. All that to say that each pregnancy and baby will be different. It does get easier and once baby starts sleeping more and you get more sleep, it will make parenting easier.
@MeYou-nr6nk
@MeYou-nr6nk 2 года назад
I had to comment when I saw the thumbnail picture for this video. I was certain we wouldn’t see anything like it till you ‘bounced back’ and had your toned flat stomach again. I really appreciate this.
@annaburke8537
@annaburke8537 2 года назад
I'm at 40 weeks so I'm looking forward to this time, I hope I look half as good as you do in 6 weeks 🤗
@reneeaustin7633
@reneeaustin7633 2 года назад
Omg you look great! Enjoy your time with your new baby girl. She is so precious and this time goes by so quickly. I have been watching you since you were in college. I can’t believe you are a wife and mom now. So happy for you ❤ What did you do to prevent stretch marks? Your tummy looks fabulous. You created a whole human. You should feel proud!
@frankytalks7941
@frankytalks7941 2 года назад
Stretch marks are genetic, you either have them or you don't, obviously moisturizing helps but even the most expensive cream won't help if they in your DNA
@cococgb5389
@cococgb5389 2 года назад
Look at You Annie! Such an inspiration.. I understand the struggle .. You are bouncing right back ! Thank You for finding the time to visit with Us ! Big love to you Three ❤️❤️❤️
@xcaboodlesx
@xcaboodlesx 2 года назад
Yes moms are amazing!! And you are too. I am rooting for you and hope you can get back to fully breastfeeding soon. You are doing a great job even if it doesn’t always feel like it!!!!! Lots of love ❤❤❤
@mominachowdhury7734
@mominachowdhury7734 2 года назад
Can you please share your current everyday skincare and makeup routine as a new mom?!
@asmaa_vlog_85
@asmaa_vlog_85 2 года назад
I just randomly found her channel in my recommendation now i'm obsessed with her videos She's so freaking talented.♥️🍡💗💗💕🍨🍨🥰🥰💖🍧🍭💘🥳🎡🎂💞
@Elizaw342
@Elizaw342 2 года назад
Yes, 💯 agree
@nakjon
@nakjon 2 года назад
Same for me about 1 year ago
@letsgohawaii8084
@letsgohawaii8084 2 года назад
Love her
@marinastoyanova7009
@marinastoyanova7009 2 года назад
Great! You will love her personality and content!
@geodisafadi2423
@geodisafadi2423 2 года назад
I've been following her for the past 8 years ! She's the best 👌
@poppycalliope
@poppycalliope 2 года назад
I appreciate your honesty and transparency Annie. You're such a lovely mom and incredible woman, I admire you! 💕✨️
@lauren9439
@lauren9439 2 года назад
I loved listening to you Annie! Just remember how well you are doing and how much of an inspiration you continue to be ♥️ and thank you for sharing all this with us! I can resonate with you on so many other aspects of life and listening to this really makes me excited for my future and motherhood ♥️
@pdyches
@pdyches 2 года назад
Being a mamma is rough!! You really can’t mentally prepare for it. I am a single mom and I ended up hiring a night nurse to come once a week so I could get a full 8 hours of sleep. It’s was magical. Also once you get the hang of the night time routine, the next crazy phase is the sicknesses. They get sick a good bit in the first few years and it’s soooo stressful for a new mom. You are doing great! It does get better around the 4-6 month mark as long as you sleep train.
@jbillz9034
@jbillz9034 2 года назад
Please tell me how you cope with the sickness…it’s personally the hardest thing out of all of it.
@kathleen5800
@kathleen5800 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽 I was also wondering about your body hair if it grew back with being pregnant since you did ipl? 😊 i know that hormonal changes can sometimes interfere with ipl
@semav6349
@semav6349 2 года назад
I feel you Annie! Breastfeeding was the hardest part - but keep going! I did not give up and I could breastfeed my baby 14 month even though I was only like doing it for 6 month as he was not a good ‚eater‘. I don’t know what happened but suddenly he was so into it and I was able to enjoy the breastfeeding journey :)
@filippina13
@filippina13 2 года назад
So beautiful in your transparency. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. It encourages so many to speak their truth. Versus hiding behind a façade. No one life is perfect. May God bless you and your beautiful family. Take care ❤❤❤
@beckyu8755
@beckyu8755 2 года назад
You are doing an amazing job Annie! Any breastmilk you are able to give baby girl will be nourishing her and there is nothing wrong with supplementing either. When I had my son I was breastfeeding pumping and supplementing with formula for as long as I could and when my milk never came in I was devastated! But there are pros to formula one being that other people can feed baby xx
@alexagg7640
@alexagg7640 2 года назад
Wow , to think of what us woman really go through makes me kind of sad honestly. Of course we love our babies but its not fair and that we have to endure. Pregnancy brings challenges and changes, post partum brings eveythng you talked about plus soo many other physical body changes. We woman have to deal with soo much. Thats why I think woman really need to wait until they're a bit older to deal with all of this. At least 25. I had my baby at 33 and completely identify with everything she said. I CANNOT imagine being a teen like 16 even 18 and having babies. Oh no. It takes alot of maturity to raise and handle all these new challenges as a mom. Anyway, I great video Annie..
@ranak5990
@ranak5990 2 года назад
I have a 7 month old and I’m 39 (first baby) and it’s still hard at this age! 😮
@samantha.mariam
@samantha.mariam Год назад
This makes me feel so much better honestly. I'm 28 and I've been married for 5+ years but we decided to delay starting our family because I was in Med school. I'm going into my residency years now and I wanted to wait until 30-32 to have a baby but I'm feeling a lot of pressure from all sides (except my husband thankfully) to have a baby soon. Hearing from Moms who chose to have their babies in their 30s makes me feel so much better about my decision
@mishuge100
@mishuge100 2 года назад
Dear Anie, welcome to the mothers club!:)) Eversince i become mother, i feel like so awaken, i see the world via new glasses. Before, there were pink, now i see the real world, so bright, colorfull, but dangerous and lonely. Motherhood is one of those things that is different for everysingle mother. Nobody will perfectlly be able to understand me or help me the way i need now. The most importand is to surround yourself with other mothers with simular age babies and simular parenting style, they will be the only one who will be able to HEAR you:) FEEL you. Even now, having 2year old, i remember those first few weeks like in a fog. I know i felt simular, but i cant relate anymore. And enjoy it! Every phase of baby was its +and-, it will never be easier, it will get easier in some things, but harder in other:) You are an amazing, optimistic person and i know you are a one of the greatest mothers out there. Stay strong, stay brave, be you❤️
@stephaniebates3812
@stephaniebates3812 2 года назад
Appreciate your honesty. I knew taking care of a newborn was going to be difficult but there are a lot of things people gloss over.
@sophiag4718
@sophiag4718 2 года назад
My baby boy is nearly 4 months old and honestly it’s been a rollercoaster. One of the hardest parts for me were the days after having him via c section- feeling helpless because I couldn’t go to him straight away when I’d hear him cry, it would take me 5 mins to get off/on the bed. I think also the lack of right support from my family (my husband has been amazing he takes morning shift with our baby for a few hours so I could sleep in despite being up at night with me when baby wakes) has been tough. It’s all worth it though when I see his smile, that undiluted, pure, full of love and trust smile that’s reserved just for his mama and papa.
@lisaberg125
@lisaberg125 2 года назад
Your glow 😍 so beautiful and honestly don’t stress yourself out about your body auch closely after giving birth
@saraqasim7539
@saraqasim7539 2 года назад
You’re my favourite youtuber
@lindenmckay5846
@lindenmckay5846 2 года назад
your vulnerability is so beautiful and refreshing and needed on this superficial, virtual world. Thank you for having the courage and the bravery to be honest and real, praying over you and your recovery and all the emotions and feelings, sweet and sour, that go with that!! xx
@taylorstoltz249
@taylorstoltz249 2 года назад
I won’t be having kids for a few years still, but I love learning about it and appreciate how open & honest you are❤ I can’t wait to document this journey one day on my channel too🥲
@TheVioletLounge
@TheVioletLounge 2 года назад
Congratulations! She is beautiful. You look great too. Thank you for your honest update, really helpful for new moms!
@Kaylebfinds
@Kaylebfinds 2 года назад
Loose skin and ab separation will get better with exercise! I got an exercise bike after having two kids and it makes it so much easier to workout in the living room while watching the kids ❤️ you look beautiful either way!
@lexiebrady6036
@lexiebrady6036 2 года назад
You describe it perfectly, Annie! I have a 1 year old. Just some encouragement for breastfeeding… know that it is probably the easiest thing for the outside world to make mothers doubt themselves about. There’s all this talk about needing formula or not producing enough or needing to weigh your baby after every feed, etc. just remember what you already know - your body innately knows what to do! Just keep going and keep trusting it will sort itself out (barring real issues like oral ties, sickness, etc) there are times of less supply and it doesn’t necessarily mean anything more needs to be done. Your body and baby know what to do! You’re wonderful! Congratulations ❤
@little_dunia
@little_dunia 2 года назад
Oh my dear Annie, thank you so much for that video ❤ I already have a three year old, but loved to see your perspective and how things are going. You are doing amazing ☺️👍 Felt so touched by your deep appreciation for moms, because sometimes it’s hard to see on a daily basis what each one of us accomplishes ♥️
@sarahrostom8111
@sarahrostom8111 2 года назад
Annie, so much respect for your honesty with how much mothers go through. I appreciate your positive but real approach. 💕 Sending you prayers for this challenging time!
@victoriaswain8897
@victoriaswain8897 2 года назад
You have an amazing, balanced and wise outlook. Thanks for the video Annie.
@hanaparizkova770
@hanaparizkova770 2 года назад
Thank you Annie for being vulnerable with us. Being a new mommy is not ideal all the time, I was there too. I did not understand why my boy is crying all the time because I am soo calm person 😀. But we managed and now he is 13.5 and we have a beautiful relationship. It is amazing how you are able to appreciate other moms out there too. We embrace you. Nalia is so beautiful. It will be better, stay strong and be gentle with yourself. We are here to support you.
@IsabellaBazzara
@IsabellaBazzara 2 года назад
Hello beautiful Annie! Thank you for sharing your journey. Your experience sounds a lot like what other mothers are saying. Congratulations on everything you do, and keep doing. ps. Have you heard of Korean postpartum mother care? It is very special and I wonder why all mothers don't get this special care and treatment after childbirth. Influencer Chriselle Lim once shared a RU-vid video about it, and I thought, wow, this is much needed.
@erinreamensnyder2248
@erinreamensnyder2248 2 года назад
Thank you so much for being so open and transparent about your experience! I'm about 7 months pregnant with my first and appreciate anything I can learn from other modern women going through this life-changing experience!
@taylamae3421
@taylamae3421 2 года назад
Where is the little white dress and headband from you dressed her in the start of video? Love!! ❤ such a great video Annie. Appreciate the realness xx
@whitney3585
@whitney3585 Год назад
Can you do any update on your feelings about motherhood now that Nalia is a year old?
@thiscorner102
@thiscorner102 2 года назад
Hi Annie! You’re doing amazing girl! It’s a hard change especially when your family isn’t around, this literally takes a village. If you can afford or get a night nurse when you’re having those days when you’re really struggling, get a mother’s helper to come for a couple of hours every day, Glad to hear Mos doing the morning feed! What I found super useful is that my husband would do any feeds at night before midnight and after 6am and I would do everything in between. Witchhazel did wonders for my own healing, making sure you go outside everyday, as much as you can sleep when the baby is sleeping! You’re doing such a wonderful job and you look so incredible!
@thiscorner102
@thiscorner102 2 года назад
Breastfeeding is also super hard for 99 percent of women and it’s an awful feeling. I had the same issue with my son as well. If she starts getting constipated (1 poo a week type of thing) she may be lactose intolerant, you may be able to get a blood test to find out and save yourself a bit of stress!
@alinaprisacaru7360
@alinaprisacaru7360 2 года назад
She looks like her daddy 😍😍😍
@Back2Beautynl
@Back2Beautynl 2 года назад
Thank you for your honesty about everything! Life can be beautiful and challenging at the same time 🤍💫 I am no where near about having a baby but I am learning a lot. Thanks to you I will be more prepared than ever due to your videos! You are such an inspiration for me.
@letsgohawaii8084
@letsgohawaii8084 2 года назад
Video with MO as a new dad!
@cristinamac-kay7175
@cristinamac-kay7175 2 года назад
You are an amazing mommy!! Love you so very much…… ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@Fyrinspector
@Fyrinspector 2 года назад
She is beautiful.
@ina.beauty
@ina.beauty 2 года назад
Your hair is gorgeous!!!
@A123-j9q
@A123-j9q 2 года назад
Love the honesty, so relatable xx
@amyrosev450
@amyrosev450 2 года назад
Such an honest and beautiful video. 💕 💕
@mariavelazquez7532
@mariavelazquez7532 2 года назад
Yes Annie getting help in the beginning especially as a first time mom. I just had my second son 12’days ago and my mom was able to help me these past days. It has been a huge blessing! ❤❤❤ Take care love and take it as easy as possible 😊
@jackiek4159
@jackiek4159 2 года назад
Your doing an amazing job Annie and your little princess is so adorable! 😍🙌🏻💞
@mariaclechgago7992
@mariaclechgago7992 2 года назад
You are a wonder woman ❤
@awuraabena4624
@awuraabena4624 2 года назад
Sending you all the love! ❤❤❤
@mariatrubnikova1245
@mariatrubnikova1245 2 года назад
Hi, forget about pumping, bottles, pacifiers and formulas. Just breast-feed your baby every hour or two, even at night. And check whether she sucks well enough (sometimes babies don't suck properly and therefore can't get enough milk).
@dellymarie8856
@dellymarie8856 2 года назад
Baby's go to growth spurts at 3 weeks at 6 weeks, at 3 Months and so on. Look up for signs.. Most women produce enough milk is just the baby demanding more milk, don't give up keep latching her. Don't fall for the formula industry talk to a good lactation consultan
@hopefaith1441
@hopefaith1441 2 года назад
Very informative video! Solid info and knowledge! Great job Annie!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@AB-yl3mp
@AB-yl3mp 2 года назад
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!! So refreshing to see someone speaking openly about how difficult the transition into motherhood is. It's so normal and should be discussed more often. I definitely relate to your experience. YOU'RE DOING A GREAT JOB and YOU ARE A GREAT MOM. Sending love and light to you and your baby girl!
@kaitemarie5404
@kaitemarie5404 2 года назад
I'm not a mom yet, but here is what I have learned in my studies over modern womanhood: the nuclear model is unharmonious for child rearing. It puts a huge load on the two adults. If both of them work, their relationship, happiness, and comfort of the home life will diminish exponentially. The husband will feel he has lost a partner, wife, and friend. The mother will feel she has lost herself, have really dynamic emotionally conflicts regarding the baby and wanting time for her self care, hobbies, health, relationship, and even just sleep. It is actually a requirement to have excess help at home to raise children because they are time consuming and demanding. It can be other family members, it can be purchased staff: nannies, maids, cooks, but you now require assistance to maintain the household unless you do plan to sacrifice a lot harmony and health to do a mediocre job of keeping up a home with children. Not all women can afford to do this, so they often have no option but to sacrifice and hope it does not destroy their life quality, but the nuclear family model is insanity if you plan to be parents. Especially the 1st 5 years of a child's life. No one should be made to feel ashamed of realizing this or realizing you cannot be a wife, CEO, friend, hit the gym, take me, raise a daughter, etc ALL BY YOURSELF. I hope you get lots of help. If you guys can afford it, at least a maid. A nanny would not hurt. These people are Sanity workers. A woman needs rest. You do not become a robot baby nurturer after birth and women were not meant to raise children completely isolated from help within their home. This will make motherhood actually enjoyable and not the job that so many women who don't have proper resources complains it is.
@haileyjones2187
@haileyjones2187 2 года назад
Try lactation cookies! They worked for me almost right away, and though I became dependent on them, they allowed me to continue breast feeding/pumping for months longer than I would have otherwise.
@becciba5515
@becciba5515 2 года назад
THANK YOU for the thumbnail!!! You Look amazing and this is so important for everyone to See. ❤️❤️❤️
@Sofiika123
@Sofiika123 2 года назад
Blessed thistle and fenugreek produced too much milk, I had to stop because my supply went crazy, too much!! With breastfeeding..you have to try not to worry because then milk dries up...I don't think they should have suggested formula unless really necessary caus that might decrease supply. When I had my babies I wasn't even aware breastfeeding issues existed...i think that helped! Also I had c sections and they nursed right after birth
@moondoggiesbaby
@moondoggiesbaby 2 года назад
Thank you for being honest, I have a lot of similar experiences as you, I think I'm a couple weeks ahead of you (baby was born just before yours I believe). Thank you for sharing this with us.
@TheShizu92
@TheShizu92 2 года назад
Hi Annie, I don't think I ever commented any of your videos but I want to say that I have been following you for many many years now, and I feel like we grew up toghether. We were pregnant the same time and I actually gave birth to my son a few weeks before you gave birth to your beautiful Nalia Rose. Please share your breastfeeding journey, I would love to hear about your story as I thought , just like you, it would come natural...I am also breastfeeding and pumping and it is one of the most difficult thing I had to do in my life, but surely worth it... Sending all my love to you and Mo from France !
@juliestewart9154
@juliestewart9154 2 года назад
The bra's look amazing but shipping is so expensive to United Kingdom. Your little lady is such a sweetie. Your doing a great job.
@mercedesrieche6067
@mercedesrieche6067 2 года назад
Sweetie, welcome to mommy-hood LOL, give it time you will find a new routine, in life there are seasons, just remember to enjoy your baby’s season step by step day by day. You of all people got this. Congratulations
@lisagarcia4857
@lisagarcia4857 2 года назад
Thank you, Annie. 4 weeks pp. agree with everything you shared about how hard and how much energy taking care of a newborn is while also being so so in love. Would love to hear more about your journey with a newborn. Breastfeeding/pumping, sleep, etc!
@carolepigeon
@carolepigeon 2 года назад
Being a good parent is so hard! It really is a selfsacrifice!!! But what you get in return is amazing!!! Having so little sleep doesn’t help…it will get better! 😊 Exercise with the stroller is a good idea….I’ve seen young women do that and I wish it was on trend when I had mine!
@hollyparsons4234
@hollyparsons4234 2 года назад
Only 10 mins in but breastfeeding was so hard for me for 10 weeks but now my little Boy is 3 and we are still going strong so it does get better but yeah you just never know how hard it is till you’re doing it!! You’re doing amazing!! Asking for help is so hard so I’m Glad you’ve communicated your needs with Mo as hard as it is to ask it’s so essential. Also my twins are almost 3 and I still don’t put myself first/have “me” back. Some weeks I manage 3 workouts others 0. It’s such a head fuck choosing between you or your kids but I am getting better it’s just so so tough so sending you lots of love!! Walking is the best, mine were young during lockdowns when we could only walk so now I walk daily that’s my non negotiable! (And ideally the kids nap in the pram so it means I get me time / exercise while also being with my kids so total win win) xxx
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