I’m over people on the internet because these same people will get very mad at people drawing imaginary characters doing these things then they’ll turn around and make a POV Tiktok about the exact same thing
@Michael Quaid If you're talking about the 'balls out in the spa' thing, that was proven false. The lady did not record any trans folk nor did she show anyone in the spa and was just yelling and the store owner confirms that the usual trans clients weren't even there that day. There was an entire article written on this.
@Michael Quaid This is not a place for your hateful opinions about the trans women who are just trying to get through their day and use women's spaces which are safe for them. Get your TERF bullshit out of here. This is not a place for hatespeech.
Sometimes it's ok? But I think you gotta go to the nurse- I get really bad migraines alot and it doesn't help that they are also part of period simptoms :D haha please stab me
@@hellohoi7492 It's only okay if you have parents permission and even then you need to go to the nurse and get it, you can't actually get it from the teacher
@@NEOMECHANICA yeah in my school it's considered "narcotics" even if it was an over the counter pain reliever, my friend almost got expelled for having midol in her locker without a "prescription" and my lab teacher had an altercation with the school for havig advil on her desk and someone saw it and reported her but it eventually went away after they took to the superintendent and in the end they just got told to not bring them to school with them
@@spideryconcubine9055 Not in my school, if it's stuff like for asthma, like an inhaler, I think you'd still have to go to the nurse to get it still, which is weird
I love how dad's are ok with their own sons going out and messing around with girls but as soon as they think a guy wants to do that with their daughter they hate it, like dude 💀
It's like they never think past the fact that his son would be hooking up with other father's daughters, and how they might feel the same way... But of course he wouldn't think that far
Those fathers are the ones who create problems and then at the same time trying to "prevent" said problems. You let your sons mess around with girls but at the same time forbid your daughters doing the same. The reason why you forbid your daughters doing the same is because other fathers let their sons mess around with girls. But at the same time, those other fathers forbid their daughters messing around with boys, because you let your sons messing around with girls. It's like a circle that never ends because of hypocrisy and stupidity.
@@fallen_vague28 Or just that it could be dangerous for the son too. (Her getting pregnant, him needing to pay child support or to stop study to work... etc)
Women have got a weird relationship with misogyny, actually men do too, I don't know where I was going with that but we seem to be creating more of it 😢
That teacher period POV made me SO UNCOMFORTABLE. I had an amazing history teacher who was like, in his 70s, and he was very good at handling these situations and would always be strict with the boys about not degrading or disrespecting the girls. I remember I needed a pad (I bled through my pants) on my FIRST DAY IN HIS CLASS, and when everyone went to lunch, he called me to his desk, and he looked up from his stack of papers to say "hey, you've got a red stain on your pants, it's not really noticable but would you like a sweatshirt?" And I nodded my head. He pulled one out of a drawer filled with other spare clothes, and then also pulled out a plastic bag with all different types/sizes of pads & tampons. He offered me some, and I thanked him. He said "It's okay, I have 9 daughters. I've been doing this for awhile" and he smiled before returning to his papers. As I opened his door to leave, he said "and drink some water & eat something!" I felt so safe and respected, it was really nice and to this day he's still my favorite teacher I ever had. Edit: yes, 9 daughters. They were all grown at the time of this story. He had an introduction powerpoint during the first week of school where he showed us his daughters and his grandkids, and his wife, and his dogs! It was really cute! This teacher was a old fashioned family man. I always liked him because even though he was traditional, he was always very open-minded and accepting of the changing times :) I wish more older people like him existed!
I feel like the guys who make the weird icky content where they get all possessive over their daughter’s virginity are the same people who say shit like “not all men” and make fun of girls for their “daddy issues” and they don’t even see the irony
Yeah I’m the type to defined both men and women but this is the type of crap that I just can’t seem find an inch of common sense from these people. Like why are trying to be a teacher who’s basically flirting with their underaged students about their period 🤨 and then basically acting like they aren’t shaming their ‘daughters’ for expressing herself like their beloved ‘sons.’ I mean these people aren’t even parents but somehow they’re getting praised for this type of crap?…alr
Imagine having a period disaster in school and that teacher keeps smirking and winking at you while thinking he's doing a great job... I'd honestly be scared
After the period tiktok I thought "and in 3 years there's gonna be news, that this teacher sexually assaulted 6 students"... That's the vibe he's giving of...
"My young impressionable 9 y/o son has a new middle-aged girlfriend every week and lost his V card at 7? I'm so proud." "MY 20 Y/O DAUGHTER HAS A CRUSH ON SOMEONE HER AGE? JAIL."
Also the period one… teachers would get. So very fired for giving students any kind of meds, even pain ones. They act like students will go around snorting ibuprofen if they get some for their cycles
The double standards between daughters and sons, will NEVER fail to blow my mind. It’s just like, why is that so normalized? Do any of them realize how dumb that is?
my brothers are so much more social then i am even though im the oldest. i had to let my mom know 5 months prior to plan to go to the movies with my friends and she goes through my phone grounding me for any little weird photo she sees. but my brothers dont get their phones checked when they have worse things on their ik they do. it’s ridiculous my brother goes out almost everyday with his friends and im stuck home playing minecraft. not entirely bad but i wanna be social im the oldest.
What annoyed me about the period TikTok (among other things) was that the weird “teacher” offered both Tylenol and Ibuprofen for cramps. No! A teacher cannot provide medication of any kind to a student, even over the counter drugs. If he doesn’t get fired for being a creep, he will for that.
Thats what I said! Im re-watching this in the hospital and verbally expressed how weird it was. She didn't even express any cramps, and a change of pants was REALLY weird to. About me being in the hospital, not even the nurses can give me anything without my permission and my mothers permission, and of course the need for it given by a doctor. Even if these medications are normal to be given during random colds, that is not okay to be given by some random teacher!
Honestly that solidified for me that it was a fetishization instead of an honest attempt to show he cares. He knew nothing about how to handle it, he was just virtue signaling… I hope to people his own age, but I also doubt it.
the period one is making me uncomfy. I'm ok with male teachers actually caring about people on their period, yk giving them a pad, and stuff. The shorts and jacket part was a bit weird bc i'm sure they wouldn't give you that??? And the winking and the creepy smirk is just uncomfort
Yeah, teachers are supposed to be like parental figures so it’s only natural that they would want to help you out, but the winking and jacket bit is just really gross to me. Don’t sexualize helping people out with their periods.
teacher tiktok has me crying. why’d he let a student potentially bleed on his jacket? why is a teacher giving out meds to their students? wHy is a tEAcHer wINKING at a student?
The bodyguard, mafia troupes started in fanfiction and migrated to Tik Tok. It went from being written by 12 year olds to acted out by grown ass people 💀
It started in the depths of Wattpad, then crawling its way out via people who never properly grew up publishing shitty books that spread lies of _toxic bf = okay_
POV: You’re having a period in class, and your teacher starts loudly giving you tips and handing you a shit load of stuff no one would bring to class, and all the while he’s winking and smirking at you.
If my boyfriend’s dad ever called me a “pretty thing” or acted super creepy like he was gonna sit right outside the room with his ear to the door, I’d probably just throw myself out the nearest window. No way in hell I’d stay in that house. 😬
My dad does the exact thing everyone wants them to do with their boyfriend or girlfriend. Completely ignore the fact that they are in the house and only bother you to check for things like what you want for dinner or to get something from the room.
I’m sure this is me nitpicking, but as someone who’s worked with in schools, a staff member is never EVER allowed to give a student any kind of medications. It goes against so many rules, the student could have a reaction, it could interact with other meds the student is on and just it’s such a big no-no that I’m surprised a teacher would ever give a student meds, ESPECIALLY female students, the school board would go ape shit
yeah! i saw that and immediately thought that teachers aren't allowed to give out medication. hell, in some schools nurses can't, and students aren't allowed to share!
YES! this video is old but i just watched it and that was my immediate thought. Any kind of medication is like super illegal to have on campus without written permission, and that's from ANY adult not just teachers but parents and other kids too.
Yeah also really patronising like when he said 'they help with the cramps' I was like bro we literally all know that everyone that has ever lived knows that so stfu
@@colt9836 its rare to have a period in highschool, so youre more likely to be a middleschooler in the pov (10-13) which makes it WAYYY more creepy. imagine getting your period and youre scared of whats gonna happen and your teacher shows flirtatious gestures at you.
One time I got my period in Elementary school. Bell ringed and everyone was going to recess, but I stayed because everything was coated in blood. Teacher came over and told me to go with the other kids outside. I stood up, she saw the blood. She asked me if I wanted to go home for the day, I nodded. She called the office who called my parents. My teacher grabbed my winter coat and handed it to me. I tied it around my waist and left as soon as my parent showed up. She then had the janitor come in and clean up the blood on my chair. My teacher didn’t make a big deal about it, she understood I was embarrassed, so didn’t talk about it. She helped me out the best she could, and apparently covered for me when my friend asked where I was by saying that I had a dentist appointment, so had to leave. That’s how you help people on their period. Also, you can’t bring medication of any kind to school (at least mine) without permission. You also can’t just give people you hardly know medicine, because you don’t know if they could have an adverse reaction to it. That’s just irresponsible.
It's actually illegal to give students pain meds unless you're a licensed nurse at schools because students may be allergic and not know about their allergy.
I'd rather get crushed by Tetris blocks than having my MALE teacher giving me meds (that he's keeping in his desk for some reasons but that's totally normal?) and giving me that whole show about periods like dude? I'm okay I know what periods are 🤨
i can relate to you. i hope you're healing well. it's truly a shame that such small things like a 15 second video can bring back days or even years worth of trauma. best of wishes to you
2:13 dont you just love how the word pad is censored here? as if the actual definition of it isnt this: a thick piece of soft material, typically used to protect or shape something, or to absorb liquid. and even when its in the meaning of a period product, it is an essential item for a person to use to keep from literally bleeding out onto this. i love our society:D
literally. by censoring it, you make people think it’s something to be ashamed of - like murder or something - not a monthly bodily function for healthy females?? sure…
My dad once grounded me for nine months for having a boyfriend and then my brother ended up getting a girlfriend and his reaction was "That's great! When can we meet her?" Insane double standards
My mom's reaction to me at sixteen having my first boyfriend that I told her about, no you can't date him because your going to get pregnant! Me at almost 20: No kids yet
My dad used to “joke” about threatening boys with shotguns when I was a kid. Yet, when I brought a boy around the house and they mentioned anything about bikes, computers, or cars, my dad was like putty in their hands. The guy wouldn’t even be someone I was interested in, but if they mentioned any of those topics my dad would hold them hostage for at least half and hour to brag about his toys. I would try to help save them from his ramblings, but there’s only so much I could do.
@@goon_ass1675 Haha good plan, but girls were not immune to my dads ramblings. I also still wasn’t sure about my sexuality at the time, so all my friends that were girls were just friends (with a possible secret crush). I will admit that it was easier to rescue girls from his story tellings vs guys because my dad couldn’t use the excuse of “we’re talking about guy stuff” in order to shoo me way.
As a dude I honestly wish my gf's dad would talk to me about bikes and cars old men always have some insane story about there first car and I just love it
5:33 my dad did this thing once. He didn’t sit at the door but outside of my room. The guy was over for DND. I remember my dads surprise when four more people showed up.
You can tell period teacher guy thinks he’s really special. He’s not like OTHER rp tiktokers, he’s a COOL rp tiktoker. He knows what periods are guys!!! He knows about ibuprofen!!! He’s so knowledgeable about women and he should be proud!
@@eloisewengerd4362 hahaha funny joke cus he apparently cheated on his partner and gave a bunch of women chlamydia so (according to other comments I might be wrong)
I'd be so uncomfortable if I told my teacher that I had my period (for whatever reason, maybe to inform them why I might not partake in lessons actively) and the teacher would go on like that like bruh I didn't ask for that i just wanted to inform you
Imagine going to school with any of these young men and having to sit next to them in a learning environment knowing that they're fantasizing about sexually oppressing their future teenage daughters.
Okay “sexually oppressing children” is not…no. The issue is with the double standard, not with them keeping them from doing things they literally cannot consent to
@@certainlysoup508 Bro, if you have a teenage kid, chances are they might be having s£x, regardless of whether you know about it or not. Making sure they’re using protection and aren’t being taken advantage of is far more important than trying to “prevent” them from doing it. Their parents’ disapproval likely won’t stop them. Not to mention, most of them were about daughters not being allowed to have a relationship, not being disallowed s£x.
I remember reading something where it’s like the reason dads are afraid of their teenage daughter being alone with a guy is because they remember how they were at that age. And it’s like. A cycle of men allowing men to get away with shit tbh.
This is actually true. In high school I knew this literal truck loving, deer hunting, rodeo competition cowboy that said this exact thing to me. He’d juggle girlfriends for the sex and admit that he never had any actual attraction to any of them. Super weird
POV: you’re trying to look away, but you can’t, because they are so bad. So instead you search for minecraft cottagecore world tours and pretend the world doesnt exist
Woo period guy made me SO uncomfortable. I've had cool male teachers that have let me go to the nurse's office when i needed a pad or to call my mom for medicine. But if one of those male teachers kept winking at me like that i would be terrified. Also, he gave the 'student' medication for period cramps. Even schools themselves aren't allowed to pass around any kind of medication unless we bring an unopened bottle from home with a slip from our parents (which the bottle cant leave the nurse's office until either the end of the year or our primary guardian comes to pick it up), its very much illegal for any teacher to give a student medicine from their personal supply. A creep AND a lawbreaker. Goddamn.
POV: vampire boyfriend left you for the mafia boss’s son and is now pregnant, but it’s ok because he was his bodyguard Oh also when he told you he was pregnant he smirked and winked
I've heard MULTIPLE pregnant coworkers over the years saying they hope it's a boy because girls are so difficult and you have to worry so much about them in their teen years. Women. Who are pregnant. And do not know the sex of their child yet.
My boyfriend's two friends were discussing how they both wanted boys because they wouldn't know what to do if their daughters were sexually assaulted. They literally said they didn't want to worry about their daughters being weak. So much wrong there.
@@JennRighter in theory you can raise your child to not be a predator and you often can't protect someone from getting assaulted, so it's a scary thought
@@McJusti it is highly debatable to the point of being untrue that parents can prevent their child from becoming a sexual predator. Yes, there are many predators that have a history that seems to provide an explanation for how they came to be so vile. But there are many other people who are predators who do not have the backstory to explain it. Likewise, there are many people who’ve been raised by very sadistic parents and yet they have not become predators. So while there is a correlation of sorts, it does not amount to causation.
@@rachel5399 I actually had a male professor who said he was glad he had boys only because he would worry so much about daughters, not bc girls are weak, but bc he is so overprotective and he would likely smother them bc he would be so worried every time they left the house, even after they get married. I kind of agree with the sentiment, I worry for my own daughter, just hate the idea of someone hurting her in anyway. Not to say I don’t fear the same for my son but it’s different for a girl.
My first thought at this double standard is always that, even though they ALWAYS deny it - men know. They know how they treat women like shit. They know all about the terrible things they do to them, how little respect they have for them and what they think about and how they act with them. The same reason theyre offended if a bro dates their sister. It is completely fine to violate women and treat them like shit - as long as they are not related to them. These guys make me sick to my stomach.
YES! I was looking for this comment. That’s totally the root of it. These guys don’t care if their son is having sex with their girlfriend because they’re not related to that girl. If they really “cared” about all women the way they claim to “care” about their daughters, they would be waiting with a shotgun when their son brings home a girlfriend too. But apparently those women don’t matter because they’re not related to them… 😒
@@madi7001 Imo they trust their son more than they trust a random boy. Feminists are constantly saying how all men are evil but as soon as a male starts playing into it you still somehow get offended.
Well yes of course. We know not all men are bad. It's just the most annoying thing I've ever heard when people say not all men when women talk about being SA. don't ever do that PLEASE
Women: can we please just treat periods normally? Yknow.. cause they're normal... Portion of people: ew no they're gross. Other portion of people: *starts treating people on periods like a dying puppy with a weird sexualizing undertone * Women: 😐
Literally I hate this happens for everything, and the sexualizing/fetishizing portion feels like it’s ok for them to do what they do because they are “better” than the ‘hardcore’ “antis” (which being an anti of a period is just like wth u are anti a normal bodily function that people can’t help, including other things ofc) if that makes sense
I still get pissed at my dad. but I'm getting older now and I just tell him to shut up and listen. and he does. we need men and boys to stop this cycle. cuz I'm sick and tired of it. and we need to stop the damn stereotypes because everyone is not the same. tired of hearing "are you on your period" crap because I'm usually never on it. I'm actually strangely happy and cheerful when I'm on it. when I'm mad it's cuz you did something stupid. everyone is affected differently and not every time someone is mad means they are on their period. we gotta stop the cycle of invalidating people because they were born a certain way. it's not taboo, it's nature.
As a women who has a period l think they are very gross and I hate the feeling of being on my period. But I still think it should be treated like a normal thing.
@@stayouttavictoriasbusiness Chlamydia is a common STD that can infect both men and women. It can cause permanent damage to a woman's reproductive system such as her ovaries.Chlamydia can also cause a fatal ectopic pregnancy (pregnancy that occurs outside the womb).
@@teruhashiw8687 An ectopic pregnancy a.k.a pregnancy outside the womb is when a fertilised egg implants itself outside of the womb, usually in one of the fallopian tubes. If an egg gets stuck in them, it won't develop into a baby and health may be at risk if the pregnancy continues. I found this on google but I tried to make it short so taht it's easier to understand
Ohhh no wonder that creepy “period” teacher came off as someone I’ve seen somewhere before. That man was outed by another content creator to be a very slimy, gross man who was cheating on many partners and also gave these women an STI in the process and lying about being clean. Just a disgusting human being overall.
man the meanest part of my brain just said "I hope he dies" and idk how to feel about my reaction. like what he did is awful, but I feel bad if he dies since I wished death on that scum
I wanted a boyfriend when I was 18 and my parents response was to literally take my money from me, physically take my phone for me (that I paid for it with my own money) and not let me go anywhere outside of the house (including grocery stores and gas stations) without one of my brothers as a chauffeur… at 16 my brother was allowed to have a girlfriend and talk to her as much as he wanted. Grant it I pretty much grew up in a cult but there you go.
I lowkey grew up on some cult shit too, was talking to a friend I'd mentioned plenty of times before. We always stayed overnight at a mutual friends. I go Once to his place, not even overnight. Just fell asleep for few hrs too late. Rushed back home. For 2 months this bitch was screaming her head off that I was a whoring with random old men every night. It got worse daily. Even while 100 avoiding for safety I was in a way worse way. I ended up telling him about it & they were 100 like we wanna meet him for a little bit. I tried with everything for it to not happen.. but it was about to be 40+ ppl (fam) telling me what to do with my body & not believing me prolly. Regardless, I clearly was gonna be way worse off. And him very likely accused of r*pe. Mind you hes a dark black man, and only a year older than me. We were close but not even tight yet, like I ain't even get a chance to open up as a friend & now his life could possibly be ruined. We pass that now but fuck I felt so guilty.
@@AriVirtual I’m sorry you had to deal with all that - it’s insane what it does to your head, it’s taken years to not think I’m sinning against God for wearing sweatpants lol
The period one made me so uncomfortable. Like yes there's nothing wrong with periods, I would know since I have them. Don't need a cishet male explaining periods to me and acting like a saint for doing the bare minimum.
even the way he was wording everything and his body language just reminds me of those creepy teachers that try a little too hard to get close to their underage students...
He was EXPLAINING the period like he knew about it better! It made me feel like he's talking to a very young girl who has her first one... which would made the whole tiktok even more uncomfortable and wrong. lol
Cishet male? I don't think I want a gay male explain periods to me. Or even an Ace nonbinary. Who discusses periods in daily talk lol. Only my best friend and mom knows about my schedule.
@@sarabaravati5856 when I got the notification I thought you were going to say something completely different lol. But yeah you're right, I wouldn't be comfortable of anyone knowing my schedule except a selected few
The period tiktok triggered my fight or flight instinct so much. That was so uncomfortable. I’m all for male teachers being chill about periods but it was just creepy and felt like grooming. Idk it’s just soooooo weird. Anyways nice video, chad chad
Same! If he would give me these things, I'd honestly *not* accept/ take any of them, even when it was in good intent. Because only god knows what he could've done with these. If it's another woman or a very close friend- no problem. But this feels like a stranger handing you food or something like that.
And in the "Me as a dad when my son brings a girl over" video, he was EXTRA creepy with the whole boyfriend having a girlfriend over and anticipating them doing some freak shit with too much excitement. Real sus creep for sure
the period tiktok reminded me in 7th grade i bled through my pants and ALL over the plastic seat in my classroom because my teacher wouldn't let me leave for the bathroom because i "shouldve gone during the lunchbreak" but it was like literally my 4th period in my life. and the lunchbreak was 2 hrs before that class. i think teachers should just let students go to the bathroom OR go to the nurse without making a big deal about potential periods. just let the person leave the classroom for a bit jfc
The double standard thing just makes me think about how when my dad found out my sister was sexually active with her boyfriend in highschool he freaked the fuck out but then let my brothers girlfriend move in and share a bedroom and all that when he was in highschool.
The period one is creepy as hell but him giving the girl pain meds would 100% get him fired. The school nurse had to call my mom to get permission to give me ONE ibuprofen tablet....when I was 17.
I think another factor of the whole "don't date my daughter" cliche is that the main reason is because they "don't want their baby to get hurt," implying that a son is wholly unaffected by getting hurt in a relationship.
as someone who has a medical condition that causes me to have intense, painful periods that can last months, i would not go near that man for help. either way, i'd be suffering.
I'd say majority of girls start their period in middle school or younger, so some of what he is saying/doing sounds extremely inappropriate to say to children. And I'm pretty sure teachers aren't allowed to give otc medication to minors.
Yep, so he's either explaining it to someone who already knows all that stuff, or winking and giving pain meds to a young child. Either way, they'd still be underage, and it'd still be weird and creepy.
That dude with the teacher POV made me feel so insanely uncomfortable and I'm concerned that young girls are going to see it and think behavior like that is normal and even romantic. Even if that guy isn't a groomer it's still a disgusting video and it's only going to make it easier for groomers and child predators out there. He shouldn't be allowed to make content.
@@blackkabosu9443 RIGHT like I dont like having my period, I dont think ANYone does, yet I’ve seen multiple examples of men sexualizing periods or acting like its some sexy, kinky thing to write a pickup line about... WHAT?? WHAT WOMAN GETS TURNED ON BY THAT? AND WHY DO MEN SEEM TO LIKE IT SO MUCH? I simply do not understand.
@@pokaay3163 Period shouldn't be a taboo subject but come on, they're still pretty disgusting, the smell, the blood clots, the pain etc. How can you think it's romantic? Do they think they're championing feminism or something? If so, then they're certainly going about it the wrong way as they still are treating women as sexual objects that only exist to be hit on or exploited for romantic or sexual interests, especially as periods can be a vulnerable time with PMS and erratic hormones.
Seriously. No teacher should act like that towards a student, especially one that's going through puberty?! The guy in the pov seems like an adult too so it's even creepier.
that teacher period one is so weird, not because hes the teacher (weird too but not what im focusing on) but its like hes mansplaining periods and hes so proud of himself for this. if he meant that this is the students FIRST period then just. give a pad and maybe some chocolate?? cool ibuprofen but im pretty sure most people dont have cramps during the first one, and also just gove them 2-3? must be expensive stocking your classroom with a big full bottle of ibuprofen and then to hand them out like that
Also, I'd be 100% concerned if my teacher gave me chocolate when I'm on my period. Like why were you carrying that around and why are you so willing to give it away. Also giving a child medicine is also weird.
One day my mom told me "If a boy goes out with a girl, 'oh yeah it's okay do whatever, just don't hurt any girls' is the only concern. If a girl is going to hang out with a boy, 'you need to be careful, always watch yourself, it's extremely dangerous, don't do drugs, don't get to close with boys"
Pretty much. With a girl it's like "OMG DON'T LET YOUR GUARD DOWN. DON'T DRINK OR FALL ASLEEP. DON'T GO ANYWHERE ALONE WITH HIM. DON'T WEAR ANYTHING THAT MIGHT GIVE HIM IDEAS. CALL ME ONCE AND HANG UP IF YOU'RE IN TROUBLE I'LL COME WITH THE POLICE DEAR GOD I HOPE WE'RE NOT TOO LATE!!!" With a boy "hey try not to rape or murder her or both if you can help it, k? k."
I think the Asian guy was canceled for knowingly spreading sti's to multiple girls, incuding the girl in the "parent hitting on my girl" video who was (at the time) his gf that he was cheating on. She canceled him lol
That's read choi and the girl is Gina darling.. he posted an "apology" but deleted it off of everything if I remember correctly 😓 I dont think she ever got her snake necklace back
To be fair(while there are male victims) females are statistically more likely to get graped by males so this could just be the dad being worried that will happen however it could also just be sexism
So glad my parents never had this double standard. When I brought my first boyfriend home, it was the same "Holy shit, she finally has a partner" moment as they had when my brother and sister brought their respective girlfriends home. That being said, while they were thrilled that we had partners, they never pushed up to have relationships. They made sure as kids that we knew we were valuable and worthwhile as individuals. They treated us getting partners as a bonus, rather than an expectation. They have no issue in my brother and I being happy single in our 20s, and are not pushing my sister to get engaged to her girlfriend or anything. So this is my reminder to anyone out there who might need to hear it. You matter. You do not need a person to complete you. You are everything you need, and your joy can light up any room.
just the fact that your parents are okay with their daughter being bi or lesbian shows they're one of the good ones...you're v lucky to not have extremely strict parents and instead have supporting ones...
