the 13 year old thing is wild bc i know that sometimes 13 year olds can look like theyre maybe 15 or 16, but if you talk to them you can instantly tell theyre 13. also they never look like ADULTS, just slightly older teenagers
Yeah exactly, if you accept the weak ass excuse of them not knowing because the girl looked older, after about 5/10 minutes of conversation you'd realise she's either a child or at least one mentally.
I don't know, once someone I knew who was 13 at the time was mistaken for a mother. They never wore makeup or anything, they just naturally looked old. Though it should be impossible to get in any relationship without realising that they're young. Even if some are mature enough to be confused for an adult, there's also the voice, which I think would be the biggest tell, since the natural voice of a 13yo rarely sounds older than it is, for both men and women.
My vagina actually sealed itself shut while watching those tiktoks. I didn’t even know that was possible but apparently they were so foul that she was just like “sorry girl we are done here. I’m retreating til it feels safe again.”
I actually know some 14 year olds that look 20. Also some 18 year olds that look 14. Though you can really tell their age by talking to them for, like, three seconds.
oh, she _does_ care - enough to _share_ the suffering instead of allowing one person to suffer it (even if that one person happens to be herself). so kind
i’ve gotten mistaken for working at walmart when i was 11, people do look older/younger than they are but it’s obv not an excuse for predatory behavior
my younger brother is in seventh grade and sometimes he and his friends do look a few years older, but also some of the people in his grade deadass look 5 💀
After working at a summer camp full of children, it absolutely horrifies me that people like him exist. Even our 15 and 16 year olds were obviously still children. You just had to look at them for more than two seconds to figure that out. It is so disgusting that people think they can use clothes and makeup as an excuse to be predators.
@noddy honestly mate, who needs a peaceful life when you can go to the fucking drive through of KFC at 3 in the morning and get yourself 5 buckets of chicken, then proceed to eat all of it in the parking lot, drink a shit ton of cola, black out and wake up half naked in a bush right outside some weird neighbourhood youve never seen before?
While I'm not an adult, I can confirm, from the words of my 20 year old sister that talking to someone who is a teenager is *drastically* different than talking to someone in their twenties, like you can kinda tell by conversation alone when someone is young
@@nalien182 I don’t think that what’s she meant, you realize how old is someone by just talking to them, some would be more mature than others of course but you can tell the difference between an 18years old and a 13 years old
It's weird, you can't really understand just how creepy some things are when you're younger. It's only when you are around the older persons age or above that it really hits you. This seems to happen a lot with teen girls and older men, creeps.
When we were like 14, my friends went running down the trail near our school for cross country practice, where they were repeatedly hit on by adult men in a car. My friends were WALKING OUT OF A HIGH SCHOOL, it was very clear these men knew they were minors. "Kids/teens look older nowadays" is NOT an excuse.
Many of the same people who claim that "13 year olds look old these days" will also argue that "young people used to look older because they were tougher than newer generations". There is plenty of discourse from men who watch old television claiming that young people used to look and act "older". They will also see young ladies in old TV and movies and make comments about how "mature" they seemed. These creeps cant keep their stories straight.
This is the kind of TikToker that I'm afraid my younger sisters will see and get groomed by. Whether it started out as a joke doesn't matter when he is essentially saying that age doesn't matter in sexual situations, which it really does, ESSPECIALLY if a minor is involved.
@@screamingbanshee1282 was just about to say this! My little brother has been online for a long time, he's only 13 but we've (me and his mom) talked a lot about how to spot dangerous situations/adults/jokes. Just stay open with younger siblings about their internet usage :)
@@mightymeatymech I stumbled across some horrible stuff online when I was young, and I develop a p0*n addiction, luckily I no longer have it, but if one of your sibling wants to go meet someone always get you and parents to go with your sibling, they likely won't listen to you if you tell them that can't go at all, and go get them selfs kidnapped
@@Yk._briaa you've never seen someone online who you think has to be at least 18, but then you find out is actually 15? Maybe I'm just really bad at age but that's happened to me a lot so idk.
I’m 13 and at most I look 16… I was already in a bad SA experience with someone my age. Although I had a bad experience personally, I can’t imagine what it’s liked to be groomed or to experience an uncomfortable experience including pedophiles.
I am genuinely terrible at guessing people's age. The range of about 14-22 genuinely looks indistinguishable to me, and even above that can be tricky (Ive ID'd people in their actual late 30s when I worked in a supermarket). However, that just means I as a blanket rule assume these people are younger and treat them as such, until proven otherwise
I guy that gets confused over how v//inas and periods work I can understand but a guy that doesn’t the know what the word menopause means when it has the word menstration and pause in the word is the stupidest thing I’ve heard
I've watched so many videos like this and everytime they say "you might have heard of this person" I'm instantly like "nope. No, never have." I'm always lucky enough to find out about these ppl after their true self is revealed
@@pebbledelor Oh, he has probably has millions of them running around somewhere, and then picks his favourites by choosing every now and then to actually be involved in their lives. He probably has a few that are dead too, by inbred defects or by being brought into this world by a mother who was too young to have them. That’s how I see his future
brooo what the hell tho. like,,, even if kids "look older nowadays" they never actually look 18 or older regardless. that and their mannerisms and worldview are entirely different from anyone whos even close to 18 and it's BAFFLING to me that someone can even pretend they made the mistake of mixing that up. and even if they say they did, whoever they were harassing definitely wouldn't have looked even remotely adult enough for it to pass as anything but predatory,,, its gross
i work a job that serves alcohol and the first thing they tell you is to pay attention to how people act bc you cant rely on looks to know if someone is 21 or not. its almost as if people under the drinking age lack maturity and its like, painfully obvious when you speak to them lol.
If Justin Bieber and Jared Leto's Joker had a kid and microwaved it for 27 seconds you'd get this guy. Also thanks for the centimetre to inch conversion. Vital information that I needed with my morning coffee ☕
The idea that you can easily tell whether someone's underage is strange to me. Like, I'm autistic, so I have a lot of "childlike" interests and behaviors despite being an adult. So I end up making friends with kids and younger teens that have the same interests, only to find out later that they're underage. Obviously I never try anything weird with them, but it's uncomfy to find out that cool new person I met is actually, like, 11 :( makes me feel bad about my interests too tbh
as a fellow autistic, i definitely get that. imo the clearest indicator would be responsibilities. like asking what someone does for work can also prompt someone to say that they're a student, and from there, you could ask: what are you studying/majoring in, or what's your favorite class? alternatively, you could bring up something about your schooling (i.e. "i loved xyz class/assignment" or "i had an awful time in xyz class/year"), something about your current or past job(s) (i.e. "i have to work at x time/on x day, what's your schedule like?" or "my boss/manager/coworker did x thing, has that ever happened to you?"), orrrrrr something about a pet if you have one, maybe something about driving (here in the u.s. it's kinda the norm to start driving at age 15/16, so if someone were to say "i don't/can't drive *yet*" that could point to them being younger than that, whereas someone older than 15/16 who doesn't drive is more likely to just say "i don't drive", possibly followed by their typical method of transportation) also, as someone in my early 20s, it's fairly socially acceptable for me to complain about the mundanity of adult life bc some of it is still relatively new to me, and i have plenty of friends older than me who will do the same. like being annoyed at how much things cost, or trying to deal with health insurance, or more broadly the nightmare of the american healthcare system, or compiling a to-do list where half the items are making phone calls where we're probably gonna have to sit on hold for like 30 mins each. if that kind of complaining doesn't come naturally to you, all the more power to ya. that's just stuff that i wasn't really concerned with until becoming an independent adult. idk how much of this you would already think of/know, and i hope this doesn't come off condescending, i'm just trying to be helpful and specific bc appearance/interests/behaviors are not always clear indicators of age! if any of this doesn't make sense, i'm happy to clarify! i've spent most of my life being the youngest person in the room, so i have given a lot of thought to what differentiates people as they age :) (/gen)
it's ok. sometimes it is legit hard to tell. ive known and grown up with a lot of precocious kids too. i think the big thing is these people who are doing like this dude, lip/tongue gymnastics and mentioning 13. jezus. for the rest of us, we are just people, not creeping on anyone. and we eventually learn the ages of people and just say ok cool.
Autistic here, freaking same! It’s always uncomfy when I think I’m making a friend then they say somthing that hints at their age and I’m like 🤦🏻♀️ I just want adult friends that like anime, wine and Barbie’s like I do.
@@InsaneLaughter01 feel you, even worse one of my students who's like 13 at best, I just recently found out we play the same video games (tbh the content of those are more on the mature side, but I can't judge, I watched my first horror movie when I was twelve lmao) and I mean in this case I luckily already know his age and obviously have boundaries anyway but like, how the fuck dare he to be so cool at only 13 years of age? I thought 13 year olds are supposed to be cringey :((( no but then again I've recently started joining discords of musicians or youtubers I like and I'm like really enjoying myself in conversations when suddenly one of them says something like "ah i have to do my homework for school now also I have to be quiet, my mom is going to sleep" and I'm like "oh fuck shit fuck shit fuck I'm outta here" yeaaaah it's frustrating and honestly quite awkward as well
The fact that he has his peewee measurements on his bio and “Daddy” tatted on him 🤢 He really should of tatted “Nephew” since he has a thing for 13 yrolds
Form experience of being in the closeted lesbian dating a dude due to fear of being outed only men who put their dick measurements in their bio/bragging about it have microscopic ones
@@anunknownperson4018 it says he got suspended on this video unless he made another account I haven’t finished the video or caught if that was as said yet where I’m at
if people met a 13 year old irl, wearing grown people clothes and a full face of makeup, it would still be easy to tell that they're 13. that's literally a baby.
yes as a 7 year old i go out in public wearing a squid skirt and a dinosaur shirt with a bird helmet that has an egg on top also with some horse feet shoes
I once met a 13 yr old who I thought was 15/16 cuz she was talking about her date the night before and was wearing lots of makeup small Jean shorts with rips and a tube top
5:00 I am in need of knowing what the sad background song is so that whole going to school I can look out the bus window acting like the protagonist in a 2000 sad pop music video who just went through a brake up and just can’t seem to have a coping mechanism except looking at the rain
I love you CHAD CHAD!! You are an AMAZING WRITER and your editing is incredible!! It’s nice to see some REAL shit on here! Also thank you for the service you provide! 😂❤
they can’t say “oh she looked older” no matter how old the child appears, she will always still have characteristics, etc, that will show 100% she’s a child until she gets older and it starts slowly fading to transition to a young adult. trust me, my mom told me this and i didn’t see it until i saw it with someone else was like ?? how the hell can they not see she’s 13? it’s so obvious, no matter the clothes or the makeup! anyways, he always creeped me out. it’s stupid there’s actual people standing up for him. and the girls should not be blamed and at fault, they can’t control how they appear to others
my little sister is 13 but she looks much older, like she’s taller than me, wears makeup and just wearing more outfits that make her look mature but when it comes down to her personality she is obviously a YOUNG girl and it’s scary when me and her have walked together in town and creeps will look at her and follow us around and being her older brother I have to like glare at them and have been close to fighting them.
@@Hi-jv9jn no because i definitely feel and understand you too! my little sister is turning 12 next month but is definitely the same how you described your sister and how she does appear mature and older but the personality does show that they’re very young. being an older sibling is hard sometimes and you just wanna beat all the creeps that look at them like that. she’s very lucky to have an older brother that watches out for her! sending love to both of you!
Ok so I get confused. Does trans *guy* mean you transitioned from a guy and are now a girl, or does it mean you transitioned from a girl to a guy and you’re now a guy?
@@wedie9886 Well I'm trans masculine Non-binary technically, which just means a *masculine* person who is *Non-binary*. However the term *trans male* refers to someone going from *female* to *male*
The whole “kids look older than they did way back when” excuse never fails to piss me off. One, that’s just blaming children for your own mistakes , and two it’s an excuse to get away with disgusting acts. On multiple occasions I’ve had boys who are older than me try and guess my age, literal 17 year olds were trying to guess how old I was at 12. I’m tall for a girl, I always have been, but it was so obvious I was young, my tone of voice, my interests and the way I dressed just screamed “CHILD‼️”. I have a younger sister and I am so pissed that GROWN MEN want to do disgusting acts with LITERAL CHILDREN.
People were saying exact same thing 20 years ago. Meanwhile 13 year old boys would wear video game t shirts and long hair and girls would have pigtails and cute animal shirts while older generations would dress the same as adults. And nowadays a lot of adults are so skinny they look like kids. But maybe it's just me having strange eyes.
I’ve always looked older for my age (like from the time I was 16 people thought I was my siblings’ mother) but I never acted nor talked like an adult. The minute they heard my voice or got to know me, they could tell I was pretty young. Moral of the story is, someone looking older isn’t an excuse for anyone to not ask for their age or get to know them first to make an educated guess
I know it’s a metaphor, but the idea of the way you dress literally coming to life only to scream, “Child!!,” and then going back to being a regular set of clothes is really funny to me.
Children & teens just act like children!!! But I guess when you're a 25 year old boy who never matured emotionally it can be hard to tell when other people are actual kids tho 🤷
I can tell you that here in Europe in my country (and oftenly on tiktok too) there are 11 yo girl that can look like 17 yo by putting heavy, while cover makeup and wearing clothes that are seen as for older ppl. Also, their poses with butt too much in the back and pushing the chest excessively forward only adds the effect that they are older. Sometimes you can tell the person is younger by their voice although not always. Kids hit puberty real quick this days. Honestly I got caught off guard several times by this. I wanted to make some friends my age but then it turned out they are 5 years younger than me. I'm not talking about doing underage stuff like s*x just meeting new people. Kids are seriously covering they real age behind characterisation (bc I can't call it differently anymore) and thinking that people will know thy are 12 when thy look like young adults.
As a trans man I love meeting men like this because they act like they get women all the time but when I actually describe how periods work and stuff they respond with "well you're not a girl how do you know". You fool, you've activated my trap card.
It amazes me that only people that actually have periods are allowed to know how it works.. It's so sad that any non-period-havers can't just Google the most basic information on how the human body functions..
I remember seeing this guy from a classmate's phone and wincing as I cringed and she rolled her eyes and said "You won't understand, you're a guy" and I wanted so badly to just shout at her "I'm gay tho" but I at the time wasn't out yet. I may be gay but even my gay ass does not find that young man attractive in any way, shape or form.
Fun fact, chocolate and any kind of dairy can actually make period pains worse. I went to a seminar info thing on endometriosis because it runs in my family and uh yeah.. it's not that hard to just - opens Google-
every time chad chad gets a sponsorship I feel like a proud dad. I remember when the chadlings were a tiny club and now we're an army oh gawd im gonna cry
My sister is 16 and dresses well, so some people think she's older when looking at her, but once you talk for at least two sentences is obvious she's a teenager. This kind of people think that the problem is that they aproched a teen and not that they keep flirting even when they know
As a thirteen year old girl, I’m absolutely BEYOND disgusted he’d post soemthing like that. It makes me extremely in comfortable he exists, and I think I wanna puke. I’m so glad I’m not on straight TikTok.
I'm so sick of literally everything on social media being about sex. It makes people 10x less attractive imo.. Get a talent that's worth something. Or a hobby. Or yknow, a personality.
as a trans dude with like no sex drive or interest in sex..thank you so much for sharing my opinion. i feel like I'm crazy and something is wrong with me cause I have no interest in sex most of the time..most likely because of shitheads like the dude Chad Chad talked about LOL
Another absolutely delightful video! I don't really consume much from the "Internet Commentary Video" genre on RU-vid, but really, what more would I need than a good ChadChad video anyway! You help me know what's going on, and keep my reference level current for doing improv, without having to, y'know, watch the worst of what the internets have to offer!
tiktok is a cringe farm and everyday is the best harvest i legit have never been on tiktok but because of you and cody ko i know ive made the right decision to never get involved with that platform
I'm actually 13 years old, so the 'A lot of 13 year old girls look older nowadays' thing is very stupid to me. I doubt 13 year olds look, act, and talk like full grown adults. You should immediately leave, dont make excuses for that behavior. (Not talking about Chad Chad, talking about ths comments standing up for him) I also have been seeing this guy lately so to see him again 🤢🤮🤧
the video with the "im just sixteen" is even funnier because the lyrics literally say "I'm just sixteen, and if you try anything funny you're gonna go to jail."
As a 13 year old girl (who looks 11) I am so uncomfortable and creeped out that people like that exist. Is it possible to file a restraining order against someone who I never interacted with in real life. edit: looking at this comment now is so.. surreal. im 15 now.. weird (funny thing is that i now look 13 lol, also how did this get 10k likes?)
I have the same problem, i'm 14 but I literally look like a 10 year old, doesen't help that i'm short either. When I go to a new school people are like "tf is this kid doing in 10th grade?" I don't really care but sometimes troll people with it. All my friends and people I know look way older, thankfully I never got some weird gut hitting on me, but shit like this makes me scared.
When people don't know what I look like, they'll ask me like "what are you majoring in?" But when people do know what I look like, they think I'm a freshman. I'm 16.
i’m thirteen but some people say i look “older” BUT it’s not older like 18-20, it’s older like 15-16, which is still underage! this guy absolutely disgusts me!
As a 17 year old who was hit on by many grown men when i was 12~14(i don't get hit on by grown men anymore) when older men say that you look older or you act older than you are or that you're mature for your age it's not in good faith most of the time, only creeps like to pretend they can't tell when a child is a child, and thats why me and many other AFAB people where hit on the most when we where children and not young adults, they absolutely know
@@funkyfresh2053 Exactly, I hate it when people defend people like this. There is no excuse because its easy to tell that they're a child, even if they look 'older'. They need to go to jail.
As a 10 yr old , some people think I’m *SIXTEEN* and in my opinion even if I look older it is absolutely disgusting about what he is doing and saying. I would rather die then meet this guy irl.
Fucking same. I just also 13 People tell me i look like im 16 or 17 and its like supposed to be a compliment, but i hate it. Ive always been a little tall for my age, its still not okay, EVER to hit on a teenager, even if they are 16. It’s absolutely disgusting.
as a girl who looked 16 at 12 and was mature for my age. hung out with guys 10+ years than me at the time, they could definitely tell I was young even if I was older looking and mature for my age. even now, at 23, I still look the same age 16-18. sometimes people mistake me for a teenager but when i tell them my age their response is, “i can see it now.” you can tell a kids age regardless of make up/maturity/old looking or not. you can tell. if you cant tell then you’re most likely a kid or feigning dumb. if one of those kids got hurt and you needed to identify them, i HIGHLY DOUBT someone would look at a teenager with make-up and go “ITS AN ADULT” …. like no, you’d say teenager maybe young adult. period. so many people in the comments sayin “they can’t tell” is just total bs. and you know what. lets say for some reason you havent seen enough adults to understand the difference between an adult n a kid… if you don’t think they’re over 18 then don’t fucking try???? it’s really not that hard to not be a pedo like ffs. so yikes.
The excuse that the child doesn't look their age or they thought they were 18 is absolute bullshit. You can tell when someone is 13 even if they look a little older. The maturity level of a child and an adult is vastly different. And If anyone ever tells you anything similar to that they are a predator and be careful.
People nowadays ask 'How old' at least in chatrooms and i think when someone is younger then expected, just leave. Or if you see someone looks uncomfortable talking to you, leave.
I cannot believe he used a CupcakKe song like that. She literally made a song on her first mixtape about being molested as a young teenager by a predator…
I’m a little late for this, but the whole “13 year olds look older now!” Is so asinine I want to break something. A 13 year old? Not only is that not true, (I live by a middle school and they look like middle schoolers) if you are in your mid-twenties, there is no 13 year old that will look that old. This is not like a 16 or 17 year old who looks 18, which is still weird, this is a THIRTEEN YEAR OLD.
They be telling on themselves with these 'Nowadays minors don't look their age' 💀 SELF REPORT AYYYYYY. 13yo are fetuses, they were born yesterday, they are a baby, you can tell when someone is a minor from their face, personality and/or how they present themselves.
“It looks like he’s grabbing for the last chip in a pringles can” 😂 omg chad chad you’re so funny! Edit: NOT BEING SARCASTIC FOR ALL THOSE WHO DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT SARCASM