Any man that tells you “I don’t like condoms, they feel weird” instant red flag and do not have sex if him. He doesn’t care about his sexual health and probably won’t care about yours.
Tbh I don't like them either and I am a woman. It definitely feels different. I am not saying you shouldn't use them for obvious reasons, but it still feels different.
@@DT-bc3xjas long as they trust their husband's not to cheat and are using an alternative form of birth control if they don't want to get pregnant than yeah, it doesn't matter lol
Because: A 12 month old and a 22 month old are both one year old. But they are at two different stages of development. So it's important to specify the months
Pregnancy is measured by weeks, not months. Age of babies is measured by weeks for the first 3 months, then months until 2 years because of how drastically different they are from month to month.
When I was in like 5th grade, I came home and said to my mom: “DID YOU KNOWWWW teenagers get PREGNANT?!” …she said, “Yes. I had you at 17.” One of the weirdest moments of my young life. :)
I was 16 when I got pregnant with my first daughter and that was 26 years ago and when I thought back I was young and how weird it was that I was just a kid. I recently came across my own birth certificate and I really freaked out when it said my mother was 15 when she had me
@@linnerellie209 wow! Linnerellie…I am proud of you guys! I’m in my 40s and have a stepson who is 25. Your mom was a trooper. I can’t imagine having a child at 15. When my mom told her dad about ..ME :) he was watching the 49ers and just TURNED DOWN THE SOUND and kept one eye one the game. Classic because I’m the only one in my family who doesn’t like football. Hmmmmm….coincidence? I think not. I’m a baseball lady! Wow. I got off topic. ☺️
Omg reminds me of the first hs football game I ever went to. It was homecoming or something so they did a roll call of all of the players and I saw several have their gfs and babies. I was shook. I was very planned, my mom was 31, dad 35.
@@shelikestuffit’s a crime for a dude to stare at a chick for an undisclosed amount of time or hold the door open for her if she’s following you in the building behind you. Saying hi can be rape now a days.
*cough cough* std’s *cough* s3xu4l 4ss4ult *cough cough cough* If you don’t understand He’s basically gonna raise the kid to have sex with SOOO many girls without condoms, that he gets std’s ..he’s also gonna raise him to have kids at a young age, with no job! Great! He’s also gonna raise him to be a s3xu4l 4ss4ulter. Him taking off the condom *WITHOUT* her knowing, and her trusting him, is literal s3xu4l 4ss4ult. It should be illegal. Genuinely scared for if those two have a girl..
I'm surprised Layze missed that! She looked so disgusted with that idea. It seems like she is regretting her actions. If not, she probably will when he decides to become an absent father.
"If she did not know she could get pregnant by having unprotected sex .... *long pause* ....I'm scared for her baby" Lmao he took the words right out of my mouth
Not knowing they needed to use protection is not the craziest thing I’ve heard, my cousin got pregnant when we were both 16 and when it all blew up she said “I didn’t know I could get pregnant” it’s been almost 6 years I still laugh my ass off.
That's why "life classes" need to be taught in school. Remember that day in 5th grade when they separated all the boys and girls and gave us that little talk about starting your periods and that you could get pregnant once that happened. Do they still do that? This is just another man telling his woman what she can do with her body. We must stand up for Women's rights!
@@cherylcrawford5383 I totally agree! To tackle your other question, I'm 21 and to my recollection, it was taught in my school. However, I am fairly certain that most high schools don't teach health or any other class that teaches this kind of stuff because it was deemed too inappropriate. It's actually quite sad.
For those that don’t know, pregnancy is actually calculated by WEEKS during their whole pregnancy. This is done to determine if the baby is premature, full term, etc, and to track the development. A full term pregnancy is 40 weeks. So, if someone says “I’m 37 weeks”, they’re close to giving birth. But if they continue to count weeks after birth then that’s a bit unusual. But during pregnancy it’s standard.
I think people know that it’s just easier for those not needing to know the exact week to be told the month .. we use weeks in healthcare to narrow things down during the pregnancy time wise .. when lay people discuss pregnancy it’s very normal to discuss it in months
Yes we know that, but that doesn’t mean we can’t get the months. Like why do we have to know the exact week? We are not the ones tracking the pregnancy, we are not doctors.
@@jccoss5052 Well, people calculate pregnancy in months! If you gonna say it in weeks, you might just as well don't bother because no-one is going to take their calculator out or ask google
Unfortunately that’s what happens when children don’t get educated in sexual topics. Just keeping them away and telling them sex is bad won’t do anything for them and it definitely will never keep them away from it.
I mean it's the parents responsibility to either educate them on it or have some control over them I can't even comprehend how this happened like these are kids and their parents let then do whatever n here I'm not allowed to even talk to a boy
@@study_unknown7252 Yes, it is the parents responsibilities. Unfortunately many don't want to have this conversation or they only give vague information. My ex wouldn't sit down with his daughter and talk about these things or expectations or anything. She was 15 when she moved in with us. His excuse, "the school taught this stuff", but we didn't know for sure or what information she even knew. Parents should still have ongoing conversations with their kids as they get older too.
It really is crazy how babies having babies is normalized. I don't know who is more stupid the kids getting preggers or the parents of the kids getting preggers. And the absolute worst... gas prices!!! Love your videos Layze!!
It's not normalized by any standard at all. And honestly this wouldn't be happening of parents taught safe and responsible sex instead of teaching abstinence.
The parents are idiots. I have two teenagers, and I put both of them on birth control "to manage their periods better." They are currently 14 and 15, and it's not an issue yet, but I want them prepared for that day in advance. No babies!
Kaylen is like a 12 year old and Jason is like a 10 year old. This is when the baby should be given to stable parents. Don't name that baby after this child. Take that baby and run.
"You put it on and then took it off" sounds like she asked him to wear one & he took it off in the middle of sex. That is called stealthing & is sexual assult 100%.
When I was in highschool a friend got pregnant. She was so scared of what her dad would say (her mom had passed years earlier) she hid it from him. He found out when her water broke. Turns out he was so excited he had a nursery ready for them when they got home. It was actually precious to see how good it all worked out.
@@iidentifyasadoctoryou felt like 27 was waiting too long? 27 is still fairly early, my parents had me at 38, that’s late. 30 is the standard age for having children, no health risks yet and usually mature enough to know what you’re doing.
@@Arkyn.h yeah, my mom had me at 30 and i ended up better than my brother, who she had at 21, because my mom actually knew how to take care of a child then
I hope they get family photos where they are all wearing sweatbands.All jokes aside him saying "I'm a professional raw dogger", she's going to be lucky if she didn't get more then just pregnancy from him.
@Just_a_DHMIS_fanSame. I'm 15, and might just get fixed all together in the future, because I'm the kinda person who never plans on having kids, and not changing any time soon, and am just over all scared of it really.
@@thefandomist If you do, maybe save your eggs if possible just in case you change your mind. At least, that's what I would do if I didn't want children. Just for the just in case" thing as I'm usually the type that's rather safe than sorry when it comes to absolutes like that.
Fun fact: as someone who is currently pregnant and I didn't know until getting pregnant, but apparently pregnancy in normally counted in weeks rather than months. Typically, 40 weeks is full term. It confused me at first too, but technically pregnancy lasts 10 months 🤯
Teenage girls who got pregnant were shamed in my dad's family. He had a sister who did and every generation after and continously were told how she ruined her life by getting pregnant and dropping out of school. We had mum's tell teenagers they were not ready to ve grandmas so if you did you were on your own. Those that did were taken to abort them. Sex education should be taught not only in schools but also at home.
I will never understand as an Asian, where are the parents of these teenagers, how are they raising these children that they end up focusing more on getting involved in such matters than focusing on getting education? All throughout my teenage my parents were so strict about me only focusing on my education, building my future, all the other adult stuff can wait. I hope they are okay, but people from same culture are so vocal to the point of shaming other cultures and religions about underage marriages, but a large number of their own kids end up having kids and ruining their lives, like, it's as horrible as underage marriage, bro...
yeah i dont get teenagers that dont give a f abt their education but have sex on purpose and then ruin their lives with children they cant even take care of .. …. i dont care if people call me evil , but ykw i hate children and those zina shit so much it makes me extremly angry LIKE FOCUS ON YOUR EDUCATION AND LIVE YOUR TEENAGE LIVES LIKE NORMAL MINORS FFS
I just found you randomly and now I am addicted. You are hilarious 🤣 between gas prices, the world bringing down and world war, you give me the will to get out of bed and hope that we aren't all crazy 😅
For people wondering, a couple reasons why we use weeks. Its for the doctors and also our appointments. I had to go to the doctor so often that going by months wouldn't be specific enough. Like saying come back in a week, not 1/4 of the month. Lmao after awhile since we use weeks so often we start using it outside the doctors. We don't wanna convert it either so sometimes saying weeks is easier😂
Gestation is done in weeks, just as after a baby is born it's done in weeks until the child reaches 2 years, because the physical and mental development happens so quickly that the milestones have to be done by weeks.
And this is why we need to teach proper sex ed in either 8th grade or high school. Both, even. PROPERLY EDUCATE THE CHILDREN. Nowadays I wouldn't be surprised if 6th graders were screwing because children have seemingly forgotten how to be children. Everyone wants to grow up as fast as possible, yet we aren't giving them proper education necessary for them to know as they go from child to teen to young adult.
It's a complicated issue. Teaching them too young feels wrong, but when kids are having sex at like 12 years old, it's hard to know how young is too young to discuss it. Also, little girls are going through puberty at like 9 years old because the environment is so toxic so there's that.
Omg yes seriously that poor baby 😳🥺😬 yikes 😔 smh thanks for making me laugh as always Layze 😁 Pelicans 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know you meant stork but pelican is way funnier 🤣🤣😏
@@Layze well it worked out in your favor made it even funnier 😏🤣🤣 seriously love your videos you always put a smile on my face even when I'm having a horrible day 😁
In my country, pregnant women use months when talking to people. They might use weeks with their doctor to be more specific but with everyone else they use months. Maybe Layze is used to that as well in his country, I don't know. But saying pregnancy in weeks is not used everywhere around the world. I feel the same way as he does when i hear someone saying their pregnancy in weeks. I'm not sure if it's only in the US or other countries too.
OB/Gyns globally use weeks to count gestational age because fetal development is rapid and has to be monitored closely. It is a global best practice, not just in the US. As for what pregnant women and their partners use, that depends on whichever country or culture they are from.
The reason that pregnant people measure babies by weeks instead of months is because a baby's growth is to determine whether the baby is premature, full-term or overdue. In this case, she said that she is 37 weeks pregnant. A full-term pregnancy is 40 weeks. So, she should be close to pregnancy. My mom went over those 40 weeks for both my sister and I, so she had to go to the hospital to forcefully enter labor.
you're absolutely right about how annoying it is when people say how old they're babie is in weeks past like, idk 6 weeks, BUT pregnancy is measured in weeks. When I was pregnant *I* would have to sit there and do the math to figure out how many months I was because I only knew the weeks.
Honestly, I just discovered you the other day though your reaction to the Darcey & Stacey vid, and been binge watching your vids, I LOVE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR!!! 🧡 please do more 90 day fiancé reactions, maybe Ben and Mahogany, or Mike and Ximena, or Usman and Kimbaaally?! 😁🙏🧡
@@adriana27100 yes fully support too, I've been binge-watching him and even though I'm 61yrs old I think I'm in with a chance with Layzee falling madly in love with me, be honest do you think I'm gonna get lucky with him, its his sense of humour, I fell for him hook, line & sinker? Layzee????? Give me some hope. ❤️💋❤️💋❤️💋
🤔 ummm not sure if anyone has told you yet but storks bring the babies not pelicans! 😂 Love you.. your hilarious! Found you on accident and now I'm addicted.. keep it coming! 👍☺️
One time I saw my dad's condoms and I didn't think much of it since I was a kid, so I played with the condoms,and now that I'm grown up, I finally realized why he had these condoms 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Bro same 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 I saw my moms funny pajamas that looked uncomfortable and a weird square packet when looking for something in her drawer once as a kid
I love this show sm, but NONE of the couples are together anymore. If you look into past seasons you’ll see many of the dads are in fact, in prison, some for trying to kill the mom. So yeah, even tho it’s a chaotic show, the reality is badddd
I was pregnant at 14 (miscarried) and now at 20, 14 was nonconsential and this one is with my partner. Fetishizing this is wrong. Doing this intentionally is a choice but its going to be difficult asf
Look at you being educational! These kids don't give a s*it about the babies. You look to the future and how you would be able to afford a child, but these kids are too young to have that kind of insight. I mean, this dude can't even afford a haircut! What the hell?!?! It's the same story we've heard a million times, he'll be gone in a few months making more babies, and she'll be left with a baby and no education or future. Nothing new here.
I wonder how many other chicks he's gotten pregnant or will get pregnant. Because it doesn't seem like he's going to do anything to change his behavior. And be faithful to her in any way? PLEASE!🙄
Absolutely and the cost of living is so expensive these days. It's not until you get older that you realise just how huge the responsibility is. 100% agree with you. If it's not on it's not on but so many men will try to convince you otherwise so it's then time to walk away. Absolutely love your videos.🌷🌷
I’ve seen the same couple on RU-vid in a different video. They were on TLC’s show “Unexpected”. The dad is an absolute asshole and douchebag. The dad refused to let his girlfriend to get an epidural. The girl eventually did the epidural against the boyfriend’s wishes. The girl was in labor for over 24 hours at that point. They went to a birthing center first but then went to the hospital because the girlfriend was exhausted. I also saw another video where the boyfriend got kicked out of the hospital by security after she got the epidural. The boyfriend was adamant to stick to the birth plan to not use any drugs. He called his girlfriend a drug addict for wanting an epidural because he said that an epidural contains fentanyl, which is an additive drug (I don’t know if this is true). He said if she has fentanyl once, she’ll get addicted. I don’t think women get pregnant only to have an epidural. And if an epidural would be addictive, they wouldn’t give it out to pregnant women giving birth.
unborn babies age is usually referred by weeks because every week they reach new development stages and grow so quickly (E.g 5 weeks foetus is only 2mm but 9 weeks one is 22mm). All maternity books also count in weeks. After the baby is born tho just do it in months lol
Is that kid really happy with his hair & bandana? The baby will be born with the same hair and a bandana will be put on the baby's head before it's weighed by that jerk daddy. When the mum gets older she will remember the dad as the 2 second boy. 😂
Oh yikes that’s definitely illegal😭 I’m 17 and pregnant, will be 18 a month after the baby is born, and my bf will be turning 19 this year, but I’ve been with him since I was 14😭
Just had to say people get pregnant so early. At the top of my head I can think of 6 people who got pregnant at either 13 or 14, and a lot more at 15 or 16. It's crazy
