How to Deal with Difficult Family Members | Eckhart Tolle

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Eckhart Tolle addresses the challenge of dealing with difficult emotions and pain body reactions when interacting with one's parents. He emphasizes the importance of accepting parents' limitations and understanding that their behavior stems from past conditioning beyond their control. Eckhart Tolle suggests that mental acceptance might not be complete and requires reinforcement through continuous practice. He advises recognizing that parents' actions are a manifestation of their conditioning, not their true essence, and encourages viewers to look for glimpses of their parents' true being during moments of clarity and connection.
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Eckhart Tolle is widely recognized as one of the most inspiring and visionary spiritual teachers in the world today. With his international bestsellers, The Power of Now and A New Earth-translated into more than 50 languages-he has introduced millions to the joy and freedom of living life in the present moment. The New York Times has described him as “the most popular spiritual author in the United States,” and in 2011, Watkins Review (now Watkins Mind Body Spirit) named him “the most spiritually influential person in the world.”
Eckhart’s profound yet simple teachings have helped countless people around the globe experience a state of vibrantly alive inner peace in their daily lives. His teachings focus on the significance and power of Presence, the awakened state of consciousness, which transcends ego and discursive thinking. Eckhart sees this awakening as the essential next step in human evolution.

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@susanl8478 2 месяца назад

YES, I feel sick around my parents but I am very polite to them. I need to watch this 100 times.

@randomelvis3359 2 месяца назад

Unfortunately they will make you sick. You are enough, walk away. ✨(it’s not personal to you, they need a scapegoat for their unresolved behaviour/trauma. Be free 🙏🏻

@SuperHarhoura 2 месяца назад

I'm currently on holiday with my mum and i feel like all the internal work I've been doing over the past couple of months is coming undone in only a couple of days with her. She is so domineering, stubborn and always thinks she's right. I'm trying to stay present but at times I feel an overwhelming sense of resentment and heaviness. There are moments where I notice this and re-centre myself but then she will do something to trigger me again. It's difficult because she is till my mum at the end of the day so I don't want to upset her but at the same time I need to look after my mental health.

@artifundio1 2 месяца назад

@@randomelvis3359 That is a life saving line to repeat to oneself as often as possible: it's not personal. Neither is your silence towards them, if you have to get to that point. I found out that line is very helpful in my work environment too, which is infrastructure construction. The weight that has been lifted from my shoulders is huge!

@csepke2 2 месяца назад

⁠@@SuperHarhoura The triggers poke at something within you that needs your unconditional attention. When you are by yourself, bring up that feeling by remembering the moment she upset you. Then tell the feeling(let’s say it’s shame, or anger): “you are allowed to be ashamed” or “you are allowed to be angry in my body.” And then be fully present for the feeling, without trying to disect it, explain it away etc. Just have compassion for it as if it’s your child version wanting to be heard and loved no matter how they feel.stay present through the entire process. Just the very fact that you turned your unconditional attention (meaning you are not expecting something out of listening, like for example that it will make you feel better) will result in an ease, even if it seems at first as if your inner feeling doesn’t really trust that you are truly listening. (It can happen that you will face a “pushback” from your inner child, but you must not take it personally, and offer your presence anyway.) I hope this helps a little. It’s kinda hard to explain this through text.

@lovinglyle_lovingyou 2 месяца назад

Ditto! 💜💫

@radhikaschwartz3499 2 месяца назад

As Ram Das said ,” it’s easy to be enlightened until you go visit your family ( parents etc) “.

@lisettegroot3789 2 месяца назад

This is so true! Nice video.. an older video already, he looks so young here. Maybe her parents are dead already now... hope she could have a good final Act of the play called life with them. I'm 50 now... there is a German song from the thirties "in fünfzig Jahre ist alle vorbei" "in 50 years, all will be over" and it is a funny Song but still so true... we have so little time to wake up before we close our eyes vor ever... But everything ends... ❤

@bernadettesavage4786 2 месяца назад

Lol

@christo6002 2 месяца назад

The family is the main reason for the longing for enlightenment. When you are enlightened you are able to cure your family. ❤

@mysticat7652 2 месяца назад

You can feel when energy coming toward you is loving or not loving. Your body responds to it, your nervous system is very astute & recognizes danger.

@arleneg7408 2 месяца назад

@@mysticat7652 like the way you put that, very wise

@papyrophliac 19 дней назад

A nervous system is also primed by experiences, so a simple question can make someone defensive due to their own schema of the mind. NLP dives into schemas of the mind

@milam5321 16 дней назад

Yep, and if you can recognise these signs of danger, your body response, it is great. From there is easier to create a distance to observe & start taking care of your own safety.

@glowshine8102 2 месяца назад

When it comes to a narcissistic parent accepting only means letting them abuse and manipulate you ... I discovered I can only accept mother from a distance I can't show her that .. she is viciously cruel and has no remorse no guilt no empathy whatsoever I am still working on myself to heal the damage caused by that abuse... I am now my own mom and I protect me

@mayapatuel1459 2 месяца назад

I hear u! I say my love 4 my parents is unconditional but my presence is not! Toxic parents r the biggest challenge. I moved from Germany 2 South Africa 4 a safe distance 4 my sanity. But what ET says is true, 1 needs 2 seperate their being from their conditioning. And they r our greatest teachers 4 awareness ❤

@Cornelia1112 2 месяца назад

Exactly ❤ this is also my experience.

@zoharflax6363 2 месяца назад

I agree with what you said and that it also applies to any narcissiistic engagement. Acceptance is accepting that you're seeing the dynamic clearly for what it is and doing what you need to to remove yourself from what ever is unhealthy, and also that in recognizing this you learn to stop expecting these people to give you what they don't have to give. People have the right to be a p.o.s. if they want to. We have the right to not engage with them or expect them to be different. Seeing this there is a level of freedom you can receive that's not possible so long as one still expects decency from the narcissist.

@Cornelia1112 2 месяца назад

@@zoharflax6363 Yes, very clear your wordes ... but this is the point, not to expect decency. For that is really hard to believe... so this relates to the own mother exactly speaking the parents. Huge task. Good to know, that we are not alone with such an experience. Thank you all. 🧡💛

@lamar9808 2 месяца назад

@@zoharflax6363 Claro, preciso y mejor dicho, imposible. Coincido al 💯 con tu comentario!! Buen camino.

@ISEEKSPACE 2 месяца назад

I love that this doesnt just mean parents. This is true for any difficult person you're dealing with in your life.

@alepeni 2 месяца назад

I put real space and distance between myself and my parents. Now I am a new free and happy person; I hope they are too. Blessings.

@stephenflood3463 2 месяца назад

We can choose our friends but we cannot choose our family and yet we are all better off becoming independent souls as soon as we're all old enough so we do not have to depend on or be stuck with toxic family members. Thank you so much Eckhart.🙏

@nadineflow 2 месяца назад

Yes I am also allowed to choose my family ...

@tanjaosilic6641 2 месяца назад

@@Melissa12175 Come lo sai? Qualcuno te lo detto? Hai letto da qualche parte? Perché lo rappresenti come la verità?

@stephenflood3463 2 месяца назад

@@tanjaosilic6641 English please?

@tanjaosilic6641 2 месяца назад

@@stephenflood3463 You read thet think and write like One throut but that Is not reality. This Is repeat,repeat

@Marwan-Maroc 2 месяца назад

I will never become an independent soul, for I am fully dependent upon God, my life is in His Hands, He protects me from basically getting killed, by a demon, who exist, and who will suffer death for trying himself on me, like his father did. With that said, only one guy in my entire family can match me spiritually, maybe more than me too. My entire family are against me, jealous of me, having false perception of me, which is... God choose me, not them. Except my primary family, duck all of those baby boys and girls, I want nothing to do with them, I shall ignore them for as long as they do the same to me, and I don't care about any of them lol. GOD (glory be to Him) IS.

@alenalintrop 2 месяца назад

Happy practice to all of us 😁❤

@thaynamite 2 месяца назад

🤣🤣🤣😁😁😁

@pierrefiliatrault6167 2 месяца назад

Yes thank you

@lolapapa5297 2 месяца назад

Practice makes a master🫣🤓

@JK-xl7un 2 месяца назад

Reminds me of the 12 step programs. They say the hardest place to work your program is with your family. My sponsor suggested I schedule a time limit when visiting family (they don't have to know). She said give yourself two hours and say your good-byes. It was such a relief to know I could do such a thing. How freeing. Thank you Eckhart. Blessings to all.

@jaybay5344 Месяц назад

Finna hop on this time limit

@SuperHarhoura 2 месяца назад

@akashalove 2 месяца назад

Maybe it’s ok to upset her given she’s upsetting you with her behaviour…? Maybe it would be good if she knew that?

@Morale_Booster 2 месяца назад

I know how that feels too, especially when you're on holiday and you want it to be an easy bonding experience. For me it helped when I finally realized I can't have the goal of closeness with my mom. Facing the pain of that is scary to the inner child. I'm still triggered by her but if I don't have the expectation for closeness I don't resent her as much... I'm not sure if that could help you too but it sounds like you're doing all that you can. Don't resist your feelings, you're perfectly justified for feeling everything that comes up

@MissManifest369. 2 месяца назад

I upset my dad, to protect my mental health, by telling him how he affected me and by staying away for a few years. I do see him occasionally and now he is a lot more considerate with his words. It’s not perfect but it’s much better. Put yourself first 🙏🏽

@JM11423 2 месяца назад

Watch BK Shivani's videos. You may get a different perception. One of my favorite message which I learned from her is, reacting to ppl and becoming upset when they make u upset & feeling happy when they make u happy is like giving ur remote control to others! Why not u keep it with urself?!!

@jaybay5344 Месяц назад

Right

@kuntiwibisono 2 месяца назад

This hits me hard. I am "forced" to live with my mom for 6 months now. After hear your explanation, now I can laugh and say thankful for this condition. You are right, Sir, practice, practice and practice.

@meloniestewart2940 2 месяца назад

Parents are from different era’s. Rich or poor, the best thing you can give to your kids is your love 🙏🏼💕🙏🏼

@pelmax_arg Месяц назад

Younger Tolle was so energized, it feels lovely to watch him speak

@nicolagordon1816 2 месяца назад

It's been a lifetimes work and when you think you have found inner strength and peace they do something that takes you right back. Fortunately my practice means i can recover much more quickly. Thank you Eckhart.

@jaybay5344 Месяц назад

!!!

@ZANAHEALING 2 месяца назад

Also in some cases it's okay to let the connection with parents go🙏❤

@zeph9751 2 месяца назад

Eckhart you have changed thousands’ lives and many more indirectly without meeting them. What a graceful serendipity to know your teachings and ultimately knowing the Light of the world. Thank you for showing us the way ❤

@paulking9479 2 месяца назад

The majority are sleep walking all day, oblivious to their habitual words and actions, its funny to observe although sooo repetitive.

@PaigeSquared 2 месяца назад

I am dealing with someone projecting onto me and then treating me like their projection is real. It was so confusing. I still don't know if they believed the things they were saying or not. It was hilarious to have them lay out exactly what they were doing, in such precise language! They just could not stop taddling on themselves, even after it was pointed out. 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

@AL_THOMAS_777 2 месяца назад

Thats exactly what Gurdjieff (a prominent teacher) once remarked !

@lynnmarie1943 2 месяца назад

Forgiveness...for you are not perfect either.

@PhilipBraselmann 2 месяца назад

Youngsters and younger than me call such people "NPC's" nowadays. Non player character, meaning they are not in control.

@karenmurphy6003 2 месяца назад

You come at the right time ❤

@bonniespruin6369 2 месяца назад

My mother now has severe Alzheimer's. When she speaks angrily, it brings me back to my childhood. It's really hard to deal with that. I feel like a child with her again.

@leeleemee 2 месяца назад

I feel sorry that you’re experiencing this in your life. I sure hope it can become a classroom of sorts 😞.

@bonniespruin6369 2 месяца назад

@@leeleemee Thanks.

@mayapatuel1459 2 месяца назад

The ultimate test 4 u. Yr mom is yr guru. I feel 4 u 🤗

@marianaafonso1348 2 месяца назад

I am sorry for what you’re going through. Practice acceptance when this painful event happens. Accept that you are an amazing beautiful light and that person who is your mother does not have the enlightment yet to let go of her ego. Practice do Distance yourself spiritually from that pain you feel once you’re back to your childhood. Picture yourself hugging that child that is you and telling that child you love her so deeply and she’s beautiful and amazing and gracious and that she doesn’t need to suffer anymore because now you’re an adult, now you are there to protect her from harm. 🙏 happy practice.

@bonniespruin6369 2 месяца назад

@@marianaafonso1348 Thank you so much for that.

@mikaeldelta 2 месяца назад

Most of the people suffer just because they can't accept that they feel really bad for their parents. When I accepted and expressed these feelings to myself and to my therapist, my pain-body released it's emotional intensity. Since then I felt true love and empathy for them.

@punyashloka4946 2 месяца назад

I feel bad for myself, and how much nonsense I have to deal with.

@AL_THOMAS_777 2 месяца назад

Our parents are - like ourselves - just victims of our society. . . nothing to forgive . . . just plain understanding . . .

@AL_THOMAS_777 2 месяца назад

@@punyashloka4946 One certain day that nonsense will suddenly STOP ! ----> kensho !

@PeaceAndWheelies 2 месяца назад

@@punyashloka4946I don't suffer, feeling bad for my mother for being toxic. I suffer because I grew up in her house of hypocrisy, mean, terrible ways. I agree with you @punyashloka4946.

@ManifestationsOfTheLight 2 месяца назад

Can’t deal with narcissist. Never a good idea.

@nataliaskrypnyk5699 2 месяца назад

The paractie could go BOTH ways. I have the same situation on BOTH sides: as a daugther and as a mother. Unfortunately. ..Lots of lessons to learn. Thank you, Eckhart.

@Matricula404 2 месяца назад

I'm in the same situation.

@ElliWelli-sh2kx 2 месяца назад

When I read these comments I thank God for my parents and am really saddened why I did not tell them hundred times when they were alive. But I know what pain body is and wish all who have suffered the best and 'presence'. Mr Ekhart I am a fan and thank you for what you have taught me.

@elenafalgheri3263 2 месяца назад

I've been stuck, with my mum now for 6 month and probably will have to spend few more month... what a pratice😂 I ' ve survived for now even though I had a burn out... I was maybe 17 or less when I spent so much time with her ... almost 62 now hope to heal greatly my pain body🙏

@وعي_تاني 2 месяца назад

What is the pain body ? I do not understand it

@AL_THOMAS_777 2 месяца назад

@@وعي_تاني 'Eckies CD-set is a must have ! There he explains it all !

@Lightlifter13 2 месяца назад

"Being" w/ parents is like a PhD in presence! 😂

@marinabliznac2719 2 месяца назад

Ultimate test 😂😂😂

@peterfedor6058 2 месяца назад

Agreed 😂

@munkherdenesergelen9590 2 месяца назад

😂😂

@Dharmadhyaksh 2 месяца назад

Acceptance bring space. Space is transcendence of Past, Personality. Space is freedom.

@pd4887 2 месяца назад

Thank god I live in different country than my mother and in recent years I noticed that right after I speak to her on the phone my migraine attack happens. I refused to tie it to the conversations, but looks like something in body kicks in, def level of stress increased, sometimes unbeknownst to me, or if I would be pretty stressed out, my body trying so hard to hold the fort and my moms convo tips it over and I get sick. It’s really mind boggling to realize that. I don’t harbor resentment anymore but I see that some healing is still needs to be done.

@Morale_Booster 2 месяца назад

Aww sorry to hear that. I used to feel sick after every time I saw my mom as well. I have heard a metaphysical reason for migraines/headaches is an invasion of boundaries. The body's way of saying "stop". Not sure if that feels true for you in your situation

@zoharflax6363 2 месяца назад

Acceptance is super powerful!

@jeanettheimdal4905 2 месяца назад

Just when I asked this question myself, this video came to me. Thank you ❤

@terrijones1167 2 месяца назад

Isn't it great when that happens?

@AL_THOMAS_777 2 месяца назад

Pure synchronicity (C G Jung ! !)

@RoseBeef. 2 месяца назад

This is exactly what I needed. I feel this is a huge lesson I've yet to learn/practice yet to achieve. The physical emotional bodies always seem to override even when I am aware of what is to be expected. It's like a memory wipe. I must be more diligent with my presence and prepare a bit more before the interaction. Ah, thank you and good luck to all with parental wounds, it's a tough challenge to balance.

@RoseBeef. 2 месяца назад

If by chance you see this reply, I thank you very much for your response. I am unsure if you meant to have more conversation personally, but I would absolutely be interested in conversing elsewhere as well if that is the case. Please do let me know where to contact if so. Otherwise, I apologize for my misunderstanding and wish you much peace

@theresamcghee8362 2 месяца назад

Just focus on our joy feelings and that will bring present joy ❤

@maluawho3732 2 месяца назад

That phrase of Ram Dass - I‘ll write it on my wall! 🙏🏻

@LeJimster Месяц назад

Extremely relateable.

@mindlovesera 2 месяца назад

선생님 감사합니다 사랑합니다 😊 선생님을 만나는 이 순간이 즐겁습니다. 🙏🩵🌎

@deanna36 2 месяца назад

Eckhart Tolle is absolutely correct, Thank you!!!!!🙌💙

@RichInspire24h 2 месяца назад

This article resonated deeply with me. I've struggled with similar issues with my parents, and Tolle's advice on accepting the present moment and creating space around emotions gives me hope. It's encouraging to know that practicing presence can lead to healing

@apembertonfowler 2 месяца назад

I had parents and I am a parent. I hope that my kids give me more grace than I was able to give my own parents when they were alive. Parents are only human. When we know better we do better. Hopefully, I did a bit better for my kids than what I got and they’ll do a bit better for their kids than what they got. I think that’s progress. ✌🏽🙏🏽

@jaybay5344 Месяц назад

I respect this❤❤

@alexandraniven5218 2 месяца назад

It's all about forgiveness acceptance and love and it frees you 😢

@maluawho3732 2 месяца назад

No, not already „all“. Please add consciousness about „what is“ (as for instance Joseph Goldstein calls it). And acceptance as you said - including your own feelings. Be true and honest with yourself. Maybe you can watch the feelings change, fine then. There is no forgiveness by „trying“ to forgive. 🙏🏻

@Cornelia1112 2 месяца назад

This isn't true in any Situation. This also can open the door for endless misuse and cruelty.

@dpmuskoka 2 месяца назад

One of the best full explanations of presence, in action and application, I’ve ever heard! Not just for Parents, but for everyday life, for approaching each and every moment, and each and every human being! A Masterclass for everyone to hear, Thank you Eckhart!

@lamar9808 2 месяца назад

Me encanta como Eckhart interpreta y enlaza la sabiduría ancestral, con circunstancias tan reales y cotidianas del mundo occidental. Con su dulzura, ❤ empatía y sencillez le da respuesta y salida a lo que en ocasiones pareciera que no la tienen. Es lindo.

@NikolaSekuloski 2 месяца назад

First the relationships when I was young thougt as something out of movies and when I grew up start thinking to be natural in communication and just say spontaneous things, but we lost ourselves in time rushing to do things and you think how things pop out, wait a minute, it's down to be more relaxed and productive and score better, so various things are necessary like diet, libido? or getting in life what you want, like jobs, items, and have better experience, not be stuck alone, get more friends, dates, and if you are better in life you can also help others be better in life, so if communication is bettered then the lifestyle is better. And it's also down to maintain emotions, the whole range, then time spent with family members will feel like something special and productive if you avoid stress and anxiety because nothing can hurt you if you follow the rules, maybe it's best to sail in life in some form knowing where you stand, and in the long run think how good life can be. I think reading helps, having hobby and obsession of the good kind to avoid the nothingness feeling when you are blocked. Those blocks to be thrown in the trash.

@seixid 25 дней назад

Thanks a lot.

@krishnamurti007 2 месяца назад

Moin moin, liebe Fragestellerin! Vielen Dank für diese Frage! Es ist genau mein Thema. Ich kam erst kürzlich mittels einer spezifischen Familienaufstellung, durch Dr. Ero Langlotz, zu mehr Kraft. Jetzt meine ich, das umsetzen zu können, was Eckart uns sagt. Es ist so hilfreich! Dir alles Gute! Liebe Grüße!

@krishnamurti007 2 месяца назад

Danke, Eckhart! Der Wert dieses Videos ist unbezahlbar. Dies ist das schwierigste Thema meines Lebens, aber Deine Erklärung ist brillant!!! Ich sehe zum ersten Mal Licht am Horizont. Danke. 🎉 Alles Gute für Dich! ❤

@Cornelia1112 2 месяца назад

At the time I cut the contact with my mother at the age of 93. She betrayed and sold me the whole life, so I have no contact to any relatives for that poison of her. She cann't stop this. Its really hard to see, but sometimes its better to leave.

@Vshamann336 2 месяца назад

10:52 He's absolutely right too. And I know in the end, I will only be thanking my mom. As she's caused so much stress in my life being a narcissist..... But it's made me exactly who I am. And I'm sure it's the purpose. Doesn't really soften it much though.... But Ram Dass is absolutely correct. And I got news, a lot of these spiritual teachers we watch. I bet you a great deal of them. Full-on detached from the negative people like that in their life.... And If they went and spent 2 weeks, they probably would fall from grace on it.... And you might be surprised at the level of enlightened they could be but still have that happen.... It's hard to get rid of the energy that you held with your family members ever to change it. It's a tone that's very hard to set differently. It's a lot like trying to get out of the friend zone when you like a girl that has you zoned....

@JulieBassett-t6x 2 месяца назад

I believe I had the “opportunity” to begin my Spiritual Awakening awhile back. However, whether it be that I didn’t have access to tools or people to support me, I didn’t have my awakening until my parents passed. There was just too much “control” over me. I found myself reverting into my “role” of an adult child of alcoholic upbringing. The only way I knew to cope was to limit my time with them. Ie like no more than 3 hours. Even that length was difficult, but I did want to try. It was just too much for me. I also believe that’s why I had gained so much weight was that it was acting like a “shield” of protection. Very very good topic! Ty ❤

@Puuws 2 месяца назад

thank you! just what I needed to hear

@jimkovacs7 2 месяца назад

One of your best. Danke...🙏💜

@HareHare954 2 месяца назад

Wow wow wow, this helps me, acceptance creates space is so profound 🧐, thank you

@musiquepourenfants1 2 месяца назад

thank you very much, your presence and explanations are great presents for me. D'Anke

@mariacoronas3692 2 месяца назад

Gracias, gracias, gracias ❤

@Protector0ne 2 месяца назад

I like the groovy pattern on this sweater

@arleneg7408 2 месяца назад

Work on your own presence and accept yourself. It feels like a mantra. When you reach your inner clarity then can you accept your independence within in the unity that life is. This is coming from me from working on this problem. Then again there are no problems. This week family problem has dissolved. One major reason this happened because I didn't want to be the star in this bad rerun. In other words I just dropped my drama and took my name off the billboard❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊

@milam5321 16 дней назад

"I didn't want to be the star in this bad rerun. In other words I just dropped my drama and took my name off the billboard❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊" great ! I love the imagery ))

@arleneg7408 15 дней назад

@@milam5321 thanks so much. I have developed tolerance for short comings and hold my mind steady. Ploughing through life

@ginamori4970 2 месяца назад

Helpful video though and helpful relating comments for understanding. Thx

@sage8889 2 месяца назад

This was excellent. Thank you for sharing.

@nostalgia9338 2 месяца назад

This author is very underrated.

@liavanson8687 2 месяца назад

❤ loved this. Thx a million!

@frisbeeshawn5356 2 месяца назад

I can love my Dad for the nice things he has done but trying to get closer hasn't gone well. Acceptance but also i reserve to not be around the energy. Its sad but its life .. . 🛐🙏☮️

@messenger8279 2 месяца назад

The feeling between my father and myself was so painful for me that being in the same room was uncomfortable. He was very harsh and often hit me as a child and when I was old enough for it to stop I held it against him. We also found it hard to agree on many things. I feel bad now that he has passed but it was an intense feeling. I often wondered if it was a past life issue.

@princebilgrame 2 месяца назад

this is just the beginning. Read the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

@giselar.12 2 месяца назад

Sehr interessant, danke für das lehrreiche Video.🫶

@sahpraphaphorn6240 2 месяца назад

Gern geschehen.

@aleta5873 2 месяца назад

My anxiety in the pit of my solar plexus comes from my over bearing, questioning daughter. She cannot deal with me setting boundaries. She's my only way to and from my Leukemia doctor appts. She's very protective. Covid precautions. VERY anxious. Truly afraid of losing me. I try to settle myself then she starts the information dump onto me. I try to send her love. She ridicules when I talk of my condition and to back off. My blood pressure goes up. She's my only adult child. She is an "Alanon" and should do steps and an inventory...truthful. But won't hear of it. I live in my own place and am ok at a distance.

@aleta5873 2 месяца назад

Thank you so much for reminders of their being.

@adamcarey5321 2 месяца назад

Thank you, Eckhart ❤

@brittagavnholt5638 2 месяца назад

Toxic parents: go no or low contact!

@ginamori4970 2 месяца назад

Its said that there are hardly any comments on here in this particular especially. I guess everyone one else are eitjer claiming to be orphans are orphans are are perfect with perfect parents! WOW❤ I've watched a lot of Eckhart videos and one would think we ALL came from somewhere althoigh the stork idea sounds great about NOW. So it tells me a lot about where we are in 2024.

@punyashloka4946 2 месяца назад

I really neede to hear this.

@helixreggae 2 месяца назад

Regards, thank you.

@RedKrow 2 месяца назад

Being a parent does not come with a “how to” manual…. It’s a very hard job. I believe most parents try their best with the knowledge and skills they have. That is not to say they get it right or don’t do hurtful things. As a parent, who feels like I have not been the parent, my son needed, I am still not able to figure out how or what I need to do differently. I see a lot of information on how to survive your parents. But how as a parent do you find help to be better?! I sought therapy and read self help books but still my son struggles with social anxiety and lack of self-confidence. And his behavior reminds me of a scared rabbit. Always on edge. He’s never even been grounded. He never gets in trouble. We always praise him. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I would desperately love help my son feel safe and comfortable in his skin. I’d do anything to understand what I can do better.

@mgsBicycleO9 2 месяца назад

You watching Eckhart's videos is already a massive step....I wish my parents had access (or better, were mature enough to receive) this kind of information

@josensosen 2 месяца назад

get your son to therapy maybe

@RedKrow 2 месяца назад

@@mgsBicycleO9 Thank you for the encouragement. I like Eckharts teachings very much, though I am new to them. I found my way here from Wayne Dyer, whose work I have been following since before my son was born.

@RedKrow 2 месяца назад

@@josensosen Thank you for taking time to provide this suggestion. I did take him for a while but he doesn’t want to go anymore.

@theresaredmon6168 2 месяца назад

I think we reach a point as parents that we did and are doing the absolute best we can. It’s not your fault ❤

@mejuffrouwvandalen 2 месяца назад

Ze zeg dit komt binnen, dit komt op het goede moment ❤

@chibay99 2 месяца назад

Genius! Again suuuper helpful

@bernadettesavage4786 2 месяца назад

I did some work on my own triggers and conditioning and allowed my mother to be as she was without me wanting/trying to fix her. Some things she did were no longer triggering then and if I was triggered, I would remove myself from the particular activity we were sharing together at that moment. Eventually I started to feel safe.

@divaabudhabi 2 месяца назад

Love this ! I’ve definitely mastered it 😅

@waykee3 2 месяца назад

What if I don’t react to what they want and the other person gets more triggered? Because the story of my life is always like this. I don’t react and people would abuse me until they get a reaction out of me. (For example, answer what they asked or do what they want) Not just at home but outside as well. and so I have to cater to their needs constantly at my detriment and cannot ever be detached and calm truly.

@NehaSingh-ty2vk 2 месяца назад

Oh this is happening to me all the time...I am so frustrated 🥴😭

@waykee3 2 месяца назад

@@NehaSingh-ty2vkI can only try to believe that it’s my karma. If not then hopefully these people are creating “negative” karma to help offset and give me “positive” karmic protection. 🙏 My personal perspective.

@NoFeaRModAccount 2 месяца назад

Do only 2 things 1. Become presence of your thoughts 2. If they beat you, you are free to beat them as a defence. Thank everyone for making you presence of you thoughts.

@waykee3 2 месяца назад

@@NoFeaRModAccountMaybe you truly haven’t been in my situations for you to make this comment. 🙏

@axeniadianagheorghe5103 2 месяца назад

mmmm..try to impose limits..if they are violated, offer urself the freedom to leave. your peace of mind is just as important as anyone else's.

@icp9405 2 месяца назад

Justo a tiempo 🪷🕊️🌟🙏

@Gaurav.P0 2 месяца назад

Beautiful video ❤

@morwennaish 2 месяца назад

3:57 love this part

@KasiaKaminska-n6z 2 месяца назад

Happy practice 😅I love Eckhart

@mgsBicycleO9 2 месяца назад

I'm living with my mother due to illness. Oh god. Help me 😭🫠

@AL_THOMAS_777 2 месяца назад

Sending you hugs

@chrisnam1603 2 месяца назад

🤗

@ChristopherBeltzer 2 месяца назад

Wow, vielen Dank!! ❤

@tuvibracion 2 месяца назад

Is there any talk where Eckhart shares his perception regarding the multiverse ?

@silvermoon3486 2 месяца назад

Thanks 😊❤👍🏼

@carmenr.r.8112 2 месяца назад

Gracias, Gracias, Gracias 🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️🌈🌈🌈

@enterprises543 2 месяца назад

You are too sweet dear Eckhart sir

@NoFeaRModAccount 2 месяца назад

Much needed video...😂😂😂

@Cornelia1112 2 месяца назад

Also if it is a very difficult decision, There I found no reason to stay with people also parents who abuse and punish us. ❤

@alchemymagick Месяц назад

How to discern between presence and boundaries (ie when they play out patterns of criticism, verbal or emotional abuse)?

@rike9192 2 месяца назад

Brilliant 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@EugenioJ.Ballenger 2 месяца назад

Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@TerryN.Bologna 2 месяца назад

i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

@EugenioJ.Ballenger 2 месяца назад

wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?

@TerryN.Bologna 2 месяца назад

Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment

@TerryN.Bologna 2 месяца назад

you can look his name up online and you will find all you need.

@EugenioJ.Ballenger 2 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.

@taniamoore2764 2 месяца назад

The point of emotions is to tell you what is happening in a situation and how you should act (i.e. get out of there). Not to "accept" and stay in an unsafe situation. A relationship with boundaries such as limited contact with the person and perhaps only via email would be more helpful. Or take a friend for moral support if you must see them in person. I think it's recomended that minfulness practices are not supposed to be used around abuse beacuse it's not a healthy way to deal with it. Maybe saying "I HAVE to see my parents" is identified with thinking?? You can be THEIR gateway into presence by saying 'no' to them (from a safe distance) and letting them have their tantrums while you focus on healing yourself and your body; staying present. If your parents continue to have control over you, the way they always have, they won't gain insights or wake up themslves.

@philwyatt2176 2 месяца назад

Thanks

@Sangeetha__P 2 месяца назад

He is so cute... 🙏 ❤

@amin_abdollahi_369 2 месяца назад

Thankyou💚💚

@summerlove6787 2 месяца назад

❤❤❤😂Test for enlightment? Spend 2weeks with your parents loll

@viveksharma8698 2 месяца назад

JAI BABAJI ❤️🌹🌸💐🌺🌻🦚🪷🌺🙏JAI MAA ❤️💐🌷🌹🌸🌺🦚🪷🌻🙏

@jimkovacs7 2 месяца назад

May I suggest Oponopono practice ?? Forgiveness...

@yogahausbrilon 2 месяца назад

If you are in a situation like her, you can also ask youself where this feellings come from... From the stillness you can habe answers. ❤

@darinsmith2458 2 месяца назад

When it comes to my parents I did have Presence when I was with them but it was Presence that delivered me from them.. I have the choice whether or not to be around them.. Presence tells me that I delivered you from them... what are you doing?

@ginamori4970 2 месяца назад

😂thats so lucky you had a choice Im listening and reading the comments sounds like a lot dont have that choice . And love them but feel guilty with a conscience to leave them.

@darinsmith2458 2 месяца назад

@@ginamori4970 Thank you.. I thought that I did not have choices but I see how I did have choices.. And for me I can trace back how 1 bad choice turned into 2 then 3 then 4 and on and on..

@controllerbrain 2 месяца назад

You need to get them on your side, and then you can get them to work for you.

@controllerbrain 2 месяца назад

@EekhartTolle I charge a flat fee of $1m to provide my insights.

@exeexecutor 2 месяца назад

If You Think You’re Enlightened, Go Spend a Week With Your Family - Ram Dass My parents are divorced, so is it enough to be 3,5 days with each parent? i just spend 5 days with them, going home early tomorrow :D