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Promising Young Woman's SHOCKING Ending | Explained 

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@AmandaTheJedi
@AmandaTheJedi 3 года назад
I know this was a pretty divisive movie for some people. I tried to address some of those complaints in this video, but it’s fine if you didn’t like it! Hopefully we can all agree that Carey Mulligan’s performance was phenominal
@jacobmohr1539
@jacobmohr1539 3 года назад
She is always amazing!
@katherinealvarez9216
@katherinealvarez9216 3 года назад
Yes. Yes it was.
@blessedcocoa5729
@blessedcocoa5729 3 года назад
As a girl, who has experienced sexual assault at a young age by someone I trusted. This hits so hard. It made me sad that she and her friend weren't able to get past the pain. You can't ever get past it. It'll always be apart of you but u need to come to terms with it, accept it wasn't your fault and take pride that you survived. My mum had to come to terms with it because she too was there to stop it, it was worse cause she wasn't even in the same country as she had to work to provide food and she wasn't gone long but it was long enough. She deserved better they both did.😢😢😭😭 I have forgiven that person but now I am weary of others and I think I'm a bit more protective of my younger sisters and brothers, cousins and my niece (coming this Feb).
@wurdnurd1
@wurdnurd1 3 года назад
I've been looking forward to PYW since the trailers came out at the end of 2019/beginning of 2020, and was ABSOLUTELY sitting in the theater on Christmas day. I thought it was more about how destructive survivor's guilt is, how Cass would never be able to go back and go with Nina to the party, how the assault destroyed two innocent lives and two innocent families. That sexual assault doesn't need to be violent to be thoroughly destructive.
@wurdnurd1
@wurdnurd1 3 года назад
And, for the record, I've been in the position, involving a friendly acquaintance, alcohol and ignored denial of consent, followed two weeks later with said acquaintance being such a gentleman as to give me a lift and splitting the bill for PP services...followed a month later with the acquaintance publicly threatening me that if I ever mentioned the events to ANYONE, that I would regret it....and he was one of the nice guys, or thought he was. Not all men, of course, but a good percentage more than they will admit or acknowledge...
@MadameTamma
@MadameTamma 3 года назад
Honestly the fact that Bo Burnham's Character STILL went to the wedding even after he after putting together that in all likelihood the groom murdered Cassie speaks volumes to what kind of man he is.
@joseribamarjr5164
@joseribamarjr5164 3 года назад
You can tell he's all about image. Even when the cops show up at the wedding he doesn't care about his friends. He looks around to see if anyone caught him freaking out of the messages. He even adjust his suit during that scene.... Always about what other think of him. When he wants Cassie to forgive him it's not because he's sorry, it's because he can't stand the thought of someone out there who doesn't think he's the golden boy.
@silvertamagachi
@silvertamagachi 3 года назад
One thing I've been trying to figure out is if Madison went to the wedding. I'm pretty sure we didn't see her there -- and if she changed her mind on two of her "favorite people," that's really amazing.
@suhaparisa5425
@suhaparisa5425 3 года назад
@@joseribamarjr5164 Yeaah I caught that too he is definitely all about image
@suhaparisa5425
@suhaparisa5425 3 года назад
@@silvertamagachi Yes i did not see Maddy too maybe she learned her lesson and truly regrets her actions
@miranda13c
@miranda13c 3 года назад
@@silvertamagachi I like to think, and hope, that Madison didn’t go. It seemed like she was so freaked out she got away from all of that and everyone involved.
@radhiadeedou8286
@radhiadeedou8286 3 года назад
People who didn't see Jennifer's body: Seth cohen is gonna help her People who saw Jennifer's body: oh no
@ItsBritneyBitch1
@ItsBritneyBitch1 3 года назад
Hahahaha literally me
@DeniseDutton
@DeniseDutton 3 года назад
My post-Jennifer's Body brain was immediately on high alert!
@zombieedrea
@zombieedrea 3 года назад
The minute I saw him I was like, "GIRL, RUN"
@JozyMusic
@JozyMusic 3 года назад
I had literally JUST watched Jennifers body for the first time before I watched this tonight!! So random!
@DeniseDutton
@DeniseDutton 3 года назад
@Medjai K it'd sell OUT. And I'd see it so many times. 💗
@GoddoDoggo
@GoddoDoggo 3 года назад
"This movie HATES MEN, all the men are bad, even Best Boy Bo Burnham!" Are these people dense? The ONLY character in the film who fully acknowledged their actions and consequences, the ONLY character who received verbal forgiveness from Cassie, the ONLY character who through their redemption earned the right to _help save the day_ and get the shitheads arrested in the end... _WAS A MAN._ THE DEFENSE ATTORNEY. YOU CLODS.
@toxicsugarart2103
@toxicsugarart2103 3 года назад
Yeah!!!
@luiginastro8831
@luiginastro8831 3 года назад
Don't try to make that kind of people think reasonably. It's useless.
@toxicsugarart2103
@toxicsugarart2103 3 года назад
@@luiginastro8831 it’s never useless to at least try explaining a point, even if it doesn’t get across
@estefaniamarambio8411
@estefaniamarambio8411 3 года назад
👏👏
@caro12347
@caro12347 3 года назад
I mean, it just shows you which people you should just stay away from.
@daniellelucas9581
@daniellelucas9581 3 года назад
I loved the movie, it's the only movie that I've ever seen that focuses on sexual assault that DOESN'T EVER SHOW THE ASSAULT
@katepea4959
@katepea4959 3 года назад
YES!! There is no need to show sexual assault on screen when dealing with the topic. It feels like writers who show violence like that on screen to prove their point don’t understand how damaging that can be to an audience. You don’t have to explicitly show that kind of violence to understand its impact
@astoldbynickgerr
@astoldbynickgerr 3 года назад
@@katepea4959 it’s SO triggering!
@didostempest2966
@didostempest2966 3 года назад
Freaking outlander and their gratuitous delivery of humiliation & sexual assault every other episode it felt like. GAG
@Spicy_Spores
@Spicy_Spores 3 года назад
@@didostempest2966 holy shit this, it makes me so uncomfortable.
@weasel7491
@weasel7491 3 года назад
Yes! And it's thanks to a wise woman film director. If only the rest could learn
@elllana
@elllana 3 года назад
I think the context of this movie hits even harder as someone who is actually in med school. The characters weren’t college students, they were grown adults in their mid 20s when the initial events happened. And dropping out of med school is a much bigger deal than dropping out of college because it’s even more debt and years wasted, so it really puts into perspective the seriousness of what Cassie chose and how everything affected her.
@s11j02
@s11j02 3 года назад
Yeah definitely, and it makes the fact that they keep saying they were "just kids" hit especially hard.
@CynsCorner
@CynsCorner 3 года назад
The events took place 7 years before the story in the movie. So they would have been 23. Not quite in their full mid-20s; only a year out of regular college and about a year into med school.
@nachgeben
@nachgeben 3 года назад
I hate to tell you, but even if you're 50 and going back to school You're still a college student.
@SjofnBM1989
@SjofnBM1989 3 года назад
Yeah the average age of a first year med student is like 24.
@SjofnBM1989
@SjofnBM1989 3 года назад
@@nachgeben technically med school is university. Not college.
@yeet7043
@yeet7043 3 года назад
As a very sexually active person who had been assaulted, there aren't enough words to convey how hopeless and alone you feel when you seek support and people basically tell you that you deserved it or maybe even liked it
@Cevalip
@Cevalip 3 года назад
People suck - I'm sorry that happened. Read on a "blog" - type thing, that a young woman had taken a man home after a night out, had toldd him to stop during sex, but he kept going and HALF THE PEOPLE ON THE F*ING SITE SAID SHE HAD TO LET HIM FINISH SINCE SHE INVITED HIM HOME FOR SEX = HER FAULT/MEN'S SEXUAL NEEDS COME BEFORE YOUR COMFORT/SAFETY... After that i was seriously feeling the urge to kill people off Dexter/Lumen stylr after that..
@alyssapinon9670
@alyssapinon9670 3 года назад
@@Cevalip hey love the dexter reference! Honestly sums up how I feel when people victim blame 😡
@Cevalip
@Cevalip 3 года назад
@@alyssapinon9670 thanks - it was literally the only example of a revene story that doesn't go with the "revenge is wrong/women are crazy" ending. I'm sad they didn't let us know what happened to lumen but I get why.
@jazzspider8569
@jazzspider8569 3 года назад
I'm so sorry that happened to you dude. Someone I had considered a close friend tried hurting me like that and I still don't know how to express it. I've told my friend why I don't feel comfortable hugging them and I just don't know how to tell him it's because I can barely trust any guy thats nice to me anymore I just want to tell you that you aren't alone and that I think I understand what you're feeling. Maybe I'm completely wrong but I wish you the best my friend
@trollbridge5872
@trollbridge5872 3 года назад
I’m so so sorry you went through that. What happened to you is not and will never be your fault. I hope you have gotten or are able to get the support that you need. You are incredibly strong and I’m sending all my love to you ❤️❤️❤️
@annadau8612
@annadau8612 3 года назад
The title is a reference to Brock Turner, a Stanford University student who was convicted of sexual assault in 2016. Despite his conviction, he was referred to by some as a "Promising Young Man."
@EluraCorenBooks
@EluraCorenBooks 3 года назад
That case still angers me, how he got his sentence reduced partly due to his being an "Olympic hopeful" swimmer. The fact that he got booted from the team made me smile, although he should have gotten much worse.
@theyoutubeanalyst3731
@theyoutubeanalyst3731 3 года назад
didn't he serve like three months? And his father said something like his life shouldn't be ruined by "some seconds of pleasure", or some shit like that? Yeah, that case is deeply upsetting.
@EluraCorenBooks
@EluraCorenBooks 3 года назад
@@theyoutubeanalyst3731 Yep. A whole, whopping 3 months was it.
@TheCrayonMaster
@TheCrayonMaster 3 года назад
I'm still pissed about this case
@pastelsploosh8914
@pastelsploosh8914 3 года назад
@@theyoutubeanalyst3731 I never knew about this case, yet the quote you said really boiled me. Damn
@Allonsy305
@Allonsy305 3 года назад
I feel the ending was supposed to make us feel the anger Cassie had felt throughout the film. It was viscerally realistic and enraged me, but I have a feeling that was the point.
@TheFrdw
@TheFrdw 3 года назад
I guess it really is different when it’s someone you love. The foreshadowing there was slick
@maylee261
@maylee261 3 года назад
That was the point, great movie
@somerandompasserby477
@somerandompasserby477 3 года назад
I just finished watching the film, and boy I can't express this rage I'm feeling right now.
@olotocolo
@olotocolo 3 года назад
Yeah that would make sense. It puts the viewer in the exact same spot, loosing someone you care about, someone who was with you from the start, who you rooted for just like that. In one moment at the hands of the exact same asshole.
@luiginastro8831
@luiginastro8831 3 года назад
Yup. Loved it.
@MsEverAfterings
@MsEverAfterings 3 года назад
I love the title “Promising Young Woman”. Two promising young women’s lives were destroyed by the sexual assault.
@lokalcrow1470
@lokalcrow1470 3 года назад
Yes! It's a kind of twist on how when some men are convicted for commiting sexual assault, they are referred to as "promising young men who lost it all because of this" (this horrible conscious action they commited against someone), as a tragedy, so this movie asks "what about the promising young women who were the victims?". It's SUCH a great tittle.
@00calimon
@00calimon 3 года назад
Yes, additionally, 'promising young men's' lives were perceived as threatened/at risk, because one woman's alleged experience, and that society has historically valued mens' lives over women's personal accounts & lives.
@ysucae
@ysucae 3 года назад
it's not just about the assaulter. its about how everyone connected enables them. how little you have in term of support or understanding. how even the nicest, most tender dudes can have that spot in their past that they're unwilling to face, or have explained away. when it's someone you care about, it's different.
@animeholiczka
@animeholiczka 3 года назад
Not only dudes. Granted it is easy for men to use power over a woman, since statistically they have more strength, it is easy for them to brush it off as "oh that's how guys/men are, always wanting sex" but assault is not just punching and abusing unconscious girl, women also blackmail or pressure people into sex, they use the fact someone is drunk, sleeping or "so ugly he should be grateful" mentality. The thing is we just allow all the types of abuse happen cause as a society we still think sex is taboo and we underappreciate and completely disregard the value and importance of ACTIVE CONSENT. I am pretty sure many women knowing or thinking about abuse also have things they are ashamed. And granted, it might not be gang r*pe on a guy or attacking him in dark alley as we would like to see the assault, but these are those "small" things that ultimately diregard someone's autonomy and decision
@TheEvilOreo
@TheEvilOreo 3 года назад
I think that enablers were a big point here.. everyone in the class had video proof of what he had done to her. Not a single person took any action against him. Just because you're not an active participant in someone's assault doesn't mean you did nothing wrong.
@nataliaalfonso2662
@nataliaalfonso2662 3 года назад
@@animeholiczka 1000000000%
@kathynicholson2580
@kathynicholson2580 3 года назад
@@TheEvilOreo Def agree. Not only did they witness it and not stop it, they were entertained by it. AND they videotaped it. THEN they laughed about it and shared it, after they were sober!! Nobody regretted It? Nobody came forward and fessed up? None of them wanted to face the consequences of doing the right thing. The power of denial and rationalization is the real horror in this film.
@seabreeze4559
@seabreeze4559 3 года назад
benefit of the doubt
@deadsoon
@deadsoon 3 года назад
The ending is just realistic in my eyes. This happens every day to thousands of women and they're paid dust, their cases going cold.
@AmandaTheJedi
@AmandaTheJedi 3 года назад
Yeah Fennell said it was really important to her to maintain realism in that moment and that while the movie is existing in a slightly heightened reality to some extent, the second Cassie tried to elevate her actions it would flip
@neilvarma
@neilvarma 3 года назад
Al runs as a Dem and then everyone forgets is the real ending
@najadamu2724
@najadamu2724 3 года назад
Fuck... Reality hurts.
@faynuexunqi4042
@faynuexunqi4042 3 года назад
exactly!
@s11j02
@s11j02 3 года назад
I especially liked that the death scene took sooo long because it shows that, yeah, smothering someone to death isn't quick, and he had PLENTY of time to calm down and not kill her, so there's absolutely no brushing that off as being "in the heat of the moment" or an accident. He chose to kill her.
@imagineaworldlikethat4081
@imagineaworldlikethat4081 3 года назад
“Just because she was prepared to lose everything doesn’t mean her parents were prepared to lose her.” Damn.
@michelseibriger12
@michelseibriger12 2 года назад
I felt so bad for them, despite their flaws, they deserved to at least get a note from her or SOMETHING.
@LifeUntilLove
@LifeUntilLove 2 года назад
I also think about Nina's mom. She seemed close with Cassie and cared about her wellbeing. And now this one horrible event has cost her both her own daughter and her best friend's daughter. Plus, she is going to see that tape at the trial unless she doesn't go or participate at all. I can't imagine that pain.
@youretoopolitical8611
@youretoopolitical8611 Год назад
At least when the trial comes out they’ll know what happened but I agree she should have sent her parents a message as well
@emilyau8023
@emilyau8023 3 года назад
I thought that Cassie's death was symbolism of when someone is sexually assaulted. When a person chooses to assault someone it's like taking a pillow and suffocating them. Killing something within them and mentally changing them. While Al suffocates Cassie, he keeps saying this is your fault which deniers often say to survivors.
@seabreeze4559
@seabreeze4559 3 года назад
most women would rather be murdered than raped but men rarely believe me when I tell them this
@peacechickification
@peacechickification 3 года назад
I think she had died a long time before that.. her heart was just still beating.
@xAutumnTwilightx
@xAutumnTwilightx 3 года назад
"The kind of murder where nobody dies"
@cvltclassic893
@cvltclassic893 3 года назад
Yeah and the struggle before he began smothering her where he was on top of her is deeply reminiscent of/directly symbolizes rape
@peacechickification
@peacechickification 3 года назад
@@cvltclassic893 yeeeeeup. as a survivor it was hard to watch because what i was 'shouting' at the screen was basically what i did to get to the end of my assault.
@Patrick_Archibald
@Patrick_Archibald 3 года назад
the fact the men involved still get punished for something is what saves the ending for me. Cause it would've been easy to either do the happy ending or to do the really dark ending where they get away with it, but having everyone involved lose actually feels like a satisfying ending
@blacktigers98
@blacktigers98 3 года назад
Yes exactly! If Cassie had just died and that was that, I think I would’ve hated it, as realistic as that may be; but the fact that she did get the last word satisfies a little bit of the revenge fantasy for me personally.
@cupid3890
@cupid3890 3 года назад
honestly if the perps all got away with it I feel like it would make it just as good since it slaps everyone in the face with what would usually happen. (the possibilities are endless!)
@peacechickification
@peacechickification 3 года назад
When I still thought they would get away with it I was absolutely sick to my stomach. Probably wouldn’t have been able to sleep. It would have all been too painfully hyper-realistic to have to live through. I don’t think I’ve ever exhaled like when I heard those sirens.
@jarredah
@jarredah 3 года назад
@@peacechickification I 100% agree with you. I felt disturbed until the ending which just made me cheer. Fantastic movie
@Xxsorafan
@Xxsorafan 3 года назад
I was fuming when I thought they would get away with it
@LauraLuFilms
@LauraLuFilms 3 года назад
One of the smartest commentaries of the film was the contrast between how the general attitude towards Nina's r@pe was that it was her fault for drinking, but WITHOUT HESITATION Al is reassured that it's "not his fault" for killing Cassie...when she's literally lying dead beside him.
@LauraLuFilms
@LauraLuFilms 3 года назад
ALSO, Cassie's revenge was always psychologically manipulative, but overall harmless (other than shocking her victims into a new perspective). Her actions were always with intent, and repercussions are always thought through (which is why the impulse of smashing that guys' car felt like a mistake). Al killed her on impulse because he knew that no matter the harm he causes, there are never any real-life repercussions. This is supported by the fact that he goes so far as to hide her body, and comments on how we live in a world where women (especially sex workers!!!!) are seen as disposable.
@bronchitisbabe4047
@bronchitisbabe4047 3 года назад
This comment!!! Thank you
@toxicsugarart2103
@toxicsugarart2103 3 года назад
Ooooo very good take
@-xphobia
@-xphobia 3 года назад
I dont think the general public would hold the same sentiment, lol. Doesn't mean that them saying she may of had it coming is the right thing, however this observation is stupid, imo. If your raped, youd expect a good friend to say it isn't your fault. However they ARE speaking like HE was the one that was violated by her death. So I suppose there is something there. But it isn't like the general public would say "it wasn't your fault for smothering that girl." Lol. There are many other perfect pieces of social commentaries at play here.
@WuMyth
@WuMyth 3 года назад
to be fair... it was literally self defence lmao
@desireabrown6255
@desireabrown6255 3 года назад
This movie was such a breath of fresh air to me. It was smart, had great actors, and a twist I didn't see coming. Loved it💯
@jillybean9569
@jillybean9569 3 года назад
absolutely IT WAS AGREAT MOVIE
@your_dad_on_vacation
@your_dad_on_vacation 3 года назад
@M A R I N A spoilers if you havent finished......... At the end my cousin and I were like "No she can't die, shes faking it!" And my cousin actually looked it up because she couldn't take the suspence
@jerrygil1965
@jerrygil1965 3 года назад
Amen!
@rodolfojaviercampos2012
@rodolfojaviercampos2012 3 года назад
I just watched this movie and I loved it. As an assault survivor I felt very represented (even as a man), and the overall pastel and femenine aesthetic just added for me. Probably this movie hit way too close, but it was like it's made for me. I even felt I healed a little bit, idk
@greenbeanb
@greenbeanb 3 года назад
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. nobody deserves it
@_aconite_cj_
@_aconite_cj_ 3 года назад
Sorry you went through that, I'm so happy n proud of how much you've grown n healed, good luck for the future 🍭🦋
@AliG-fr9oj
@AliG-fr9oj 3 года назад
Well we're all glad you are still here!
@lenaeospeixinhos
@lenaeospeixinhos 3 года назад
@kaheaisaac1
@kaheaisaac1 3 года назад
Im sorry u were assaulted.. ppl are disgusting and evil :(
@EEVictory13
@EEVictory13 3 года назад
I was date raped when I was drunk and when I told my roommate she said it wasn’t rape because it wasn’t violent enough. I told him no, I told him no, I told him no. I was in pain afterwards, but somehow not rape. I was afraid because I was drinking underage that I’d get in trouble too. So nothing happened, then about 17 years later I came to terms with it all.
@shellaanjela4549
@shellaanjela4549 3 года назад
I'm sorry it happenned to you, and had to hear what your roomate said to you. I'm glad you're coming to terms with it. It's a really stupid perspective that rape or other form of sexual abuse has to be violent. Pain is pain. Whether it's physical or mental. I hope you're surrounded by more supportive people who validates your experience now.
@cunegonde4
@cunegonde4 3 года назад
I am sorry this happened to you, and that your roommate reacted that way. They were wrong.
@Gelime_
@Gelime_ 3 года назад
❤❤you're not alone
@Inurwalls02
@Inurwalls02 3 года назад
i hope ur doing better today.
@EEVictory13
@EEVictory13 3 года назад
Queen Ani much better, thank you.
@OlgaSPN
@OlgaSPN 3 года назад
So Cassie avenging a friend is "insane", but John Wick killing dozens of people for a dog is justified? Interesting. But how is Ryan not a bad guy? In his office he shows such ugliness, a gut-level reaction that can only be seen in a cornered animal. I think it shows exactly who he is at his core, even if he lies to himself that he's so great -exactly like the creeps in the bars.
@Wonderfully_Wicked6664
@Wonderfully_Wicked6664 3 года назад
Hey man his dead wife got him that dog! Everyone has to die!!
@sheepishly4342
@sheepishly4342 3 года назад
Don’t forget he stole the car to.
@bhavya5692
@bhavya5692 3 года назад
@@Wonderfully_Wicked6664 yet the man who killed Cassie was told 'its not his fault' for LITERALLY killing a woman, who was lying right next to him.
@Capt.Tony00
@Capt.Tony00 3 года назад
I don't think Cassie is insane but she is no role model for young women. What she was doing was dangerous and unhealthy, I mean it got her killed eventually. John Wick was insane but he was also an assassin who had his home violated, he was beaten and his dog was killed. Killers gonna kill, it's a totally different movie. If Wick's wife was still alive, I'd say he was a dumb ass for risking his life, but he literally had nothing but revenge to live for at that point. I haven't seen this movie yet, but pretending your drunk and agreeing to be alone with a stranger is stupid and risky. You'd never go into a yard with a dog that you don't know. Having said that, I'll probably still see it. It looks like a good movie.
@auroralaruam
@auroralaruam 3 года назад
I think it's large part of that is also due to the fact that John Wick is far less grounded in realism than this movie. John Wick was basically made into an assassin as a child, had scared the mafia into calling him "the person you send to kill the boogeyman", takes down about 40 armed men at once because he's basically superhuman at this point, is basically a blank check for the writers to create deaths as stupid as killing someone with a pencil, and the cherry on the sunday is that he's doing all this because someone killed his dog (which is meant to be fairly absurd). Meanwhile, I feel like this movie is much more grounded in reality. She isn't superhuman, is doing this to try and cope with a traumatic experience that very likely hits home with the audience, is basically ruining her life in a self-destructive attempt at vengeance instead of moving forwards, and ignoring frequent pleas to just save herself insteas. Even if she *did* get vengeance at the end, it costed her any chance of returning to normalcy because she let it consume her. John Wick is a pretty thoughtless violent and fun romp that exists purely for the sake of violence and fun. Promising young woman on the other hand is a cathartic, albeit disturbing experience due to her overwhelming self destructive vengeance. I fully agree that there's a double standard, but what each movie is emphasizing is entirely different. It's like comparing the goofy silver-age comics joker to the recent gritty joker movie, you probably shouldn't be comparing them to each other in that way.
@21jd_
@21jd_ 3 года назад
I think people just prefer happy endings. When characters are in such a tough situation like this and they're rooting for them so hard, and then in the end nobody wins, their instinct is to dislike it. But it's the truth with these kinds of situations. Nobody but the lawyer showed enough remorse for her to be able to forgive and move on, so she had to deal with it some other way. Her way was revenge. It wasn't healthy and it was bound to catch up to her. She was willing to go down if it meant taking the perps down with her. They all lose. In real life you don't get a happy ending, you either learn to live with it or you don't. Nina didn't. And then Cassie didn't. These are the consequences. I'm glad this movie reflected that.
@AmandaTheJedi
@AmandaTheJedi 3 года назад
Agreed for sure!
@jamesbarksdale4116
@jamesbarksdale4116 3 года назад
I like a not happy ending. Ever watched 50 States of Fright. Every episode was not a happy ending...Good shit!
@Qwertyfg1234
@Qwertyfg1234 3 года назад
My favorite part was that the ending was not happy becuase giving a happy ending would make the movie a fantasy and discredit all the mental strain Cassie felt all these years. These men who hurt Nina were arrsted but I like that they don’t show what happens next and I feel like this important because you come out of the movie without a feeling of catharsis which makes u look at the world around instead of feeling relieved. I believe if the movie was happy we wouldn’t understand how much Cassie actions hurt her as well how she needed to do this
@jerrygil1965
@jerrygil1965 3 года назад
Amen! You never get a happy ending in life💜
@radioreader
@radioreader 3 года назад
*Spoiler* There's still some degree of happy ending, with her getting some sort of justice beyond the grave. Apparently, the first version of the script that was presented to financers ended with Al and Jo disposing of Cassie's body. They couldn't get the financing they needed with the finale being so dark and realistic. Fennel came up with the epilogue happening after Cassie's murder as a compromise. It's still daring and compelling, but it's interesting to note that the part of the film that is criticized the most is the one she had to add in order to make her story more palatable for the industry.
@kateedgar1662
@kateedgar1662 3 года назад
It's interesting that in the clip after Al strangles her, that his friend talks to him, tries to reassure and comfort him with the sort of language people should be using when someone tells them they were assaulted "this is not your fault"
@ArturGlass.C
@ArturGlass.C 3 года назад
Yeah I bitterly laughed at that. Especially because it was implied that if Al ever felt any glimpse of remorse about Nina it's probably what Joe said to him and how Al continued to internalize he wasn't guilty. Amazing contrast to the Madison storyline of her blaming Nina and saying it was Nina's fault. We know it can't be Al's fault, Al's such a nice dude who doesn't mean bad so of course by process of elimination it MUST be Nina. It really was an amazing depiction of how society compulsively needs to coddle men and that ends up severely damaging women as a side affect.
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
But they do.
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@ArturGlass.C Thats bs Society Doesn't Coddle men they accuse them of being the spawn of Satan.
@validark
@validark 2 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 brock turner, look him up
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 2 года назад
@@validark I already did years ago.
@shelbyc7285
@shelbyc7285 3 года назад
This movie was incredible, and as a woman who has experienced men taking advantage of her....I fully was disturbed by how the men thought they weren't doing anything wrong at all.
@Ameliamaemay1990
@Ameliamaemay1990 3 года назад
Yuppp I get that.
@JJ-94
@JJ-94 3 года назад
I'm sorry to hear this. No man has a right to take advantage of any women and there's no excuse for it, especially if she was drunk or what she was wearing. Any man who says " I'm a nice guy" after he tries to take advantage of any women is not a nice guy, hes a sexual predator.
@davidmayberry3190
@davidmayberry3190 3 года назад
@@JJ-94 I hear what you're saying, but is every drunk sexual experience bad? If the guy is just as intoxicated why is it all on him? I mean yeah if you're trying to have sex with a woman that's unconscious or half unconscious, are using force or violence it's a pretty clear line, but are you saying it's just wrong to hookup with a girl that's drinking at all?
@aaaaan8312
@aaaaan8312 3 года назад
@@davidmayberry3190 lol I think it depends on the degree of how drunk they are If they just have a couple cans of beer, and are talking just fine Then they give consent u’re okay As a woman, I will never try to fuck a drunk or/and unconscious man when I’m drunk If I’m interested in them, I’ll prob just bring them to THEIR own home Leave a note saying take care whatever with my contact and go home myself lol And I’ve also heard when men are really really drunk they can’t get their penis up (I’m not sure if it’s true or if it’s only for some people ) If it’s true, then a very very drunk man,who can’t think well, would prob be unable to do shit to another drunk man or woman
@letmein8075
@letmein8075 3 года назад
@@davidmayberry3190 the way the comments before you literally was talking about "taking advantage" of a drunk person specifically and not about whether its okay to have sex with anyone who has had any amount of alcohol at all really makes me questions your intentions,and yk if you cant tell the difference between the two just stay away from sexually engaging with people who are drinking.
@Pandastuck
@Pandastuck 3 года назад
you know what I really liked about the movie? we don't see nina once. we don't have any idea how she looked like. we know her so much and end up loving her so much because of how cassie loves and misses her, but she don't even have a casting actress, for a flashback scene or whatever. this movie is so deep, I love it
@Wwumzymumzy
@Wwumzymumzy 2 года назад
I hated that about the movie. It felt so unfair to me that even in death Nina’s story isn’t about her.
@lukemomsen9393
@lukemomsen9393 2 года назад
@@Wwumzymumzy that’s the point tho, even tho it’s her story, her assault, it’s all about Al hence the name being a spin on the phrase “promising young man”
@aaronpierce4443
@aaronpierce4443 Год назад
Not seeing her at all really shows the finality of death... it's a devoid space in the movie just like it's a devoid space in the protagonist's life
@Cherabreena
@Cherabreena Год назад
@@Wwumzymumzy I also really enjoy that we're not shown what Nina looks like. It was a good decision. I feel like having an actress could potentially play into some really damaging tropes, such as "white woman syndrome" (I assume she is white since her mother in the movie is white, but still). Having her be conventionally (un)attractive could also derail the point of the story or how we view her as a victim. Not seeing her prevents us judging what happened to her in relation to her physical appearance / stereotype / etc. Very good choice not to show her in the movie!
@Kristin2885
@Kristin2885 Год назад
Nina is every woman. Every faceless, nameless Jane Doe assault victim that was once a promising young woman but derailed and erased by the system. It's not really about Nina, the character - it's about all those women she represents.
@greepea6669
@greepea6669 3 года назад
I cant believe that message said, "there are no good male characters" as if all movies ever haven't avoided having good female characters 😂
@theyoutubeanalyst3731
@theyoutubeanalyst3731 3 года назад
and the lawyer! to show true remorse like that! He understood he was ruining people's lives before.
@ella12626
@ella12626 3 года назад
Literally if Ryan had shown remorse he would have been forgiven. Like the bare minimum. All he had to do was admit his fault and apologize.
@TheSarakania
@TheSarakania 3 года назад
@@ella12626 he even got a second chance with the police investigator, but he still chose to be a bystander and not help the true victim
@silvertamagachi
@silvertamagachi 3 года назад
@@ella12626 Fucking AL could've been redeemed if he'd shown remorse! The bar for these men (and women, to be fair) was so goddamn low and they tripped over it.
@laurenlewis5907
@laurenlewis5907 3 года назад
@@theyoutubeanalyst3731 well that doesn’t make him a good guy. He should’ve done that in the first place. We do need to recognize him for his actions and his attempts at changing for the better but it doesn’t make him a good man. It makes him a better one though
@abelinasabrina
@abelinasabrina 3 года назад
Coffee ✍️ spitting ✍️ is ✍️ flirting ✍️
@muse5633
@muse5633 3 года назад
r/are straight people okay
@awanordin
@awanordin 3 года назад
Gus likes it alright!
@-ana_banana-2098
@-ana_banana-2098 3 года назад
@@muse5633 r/no not really
@beaugantz4888
@beaugantz4888 3 года назад
Hey sabrina
@regionalrange3052
@regionalrange3052 3 года назад
Is an assault!
@allisonfields3108
@allisonfields3108 3 года назад
This isn't necessarily just related to this movie, but I have noticed a trend of male viewers watching movies with men who are antagonistic to women (whether they are villains or not) and talking about how it's cartoonish and a hollow jab at men. And then when women watch the same movie, they can relate because they've been treated like that before. It's such a blatant example of not listening to victims. Don't get me wrong, there ARE films that handle it wrong and make men into cartoonish symbols of sexism. But a theres a good chunk of the time where that's not the case and they get the same reviews anyway. Again, I don't think that's what made this movie in particular decisive and I didn't see any comments along these lines for this film. I'm just speaking on movies in general and this video made me think of that lol
@seabreeze4559
@seabreeze4559 3 года назад
american psycho is a film these guys love, and has a police shootout and exploding cop car..... that's cartooonish
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168 3 года назад
Anyone who made that complaint towards Birds of Prey is especially stupid, for many reasons but the main one being that it exists in a world (the DCEU) where heroic and decent male characters exist.
@roastingghosts1302
@roastingghosts1302 3 года назад
@@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168 Honestly my feelings towards birds of prey are more on the bit that antagonists are _just_ sexist. I can totally get black mask being a piece of shit in all regards, but without any other intimidation factors aside from his sexism and sexual abuse, it feels more like a cheap way of making the targeted audience of women feel intimidated and uncomfortable. Zsaz (I think that’s how you spell it) also doesn’t really have much intimidation either. It just comes off as kind of lazy to me, like using junpscares to scare you, yes it freaks you out, but without anything to back it up, it just becomes annoying.
@bojangles3518
@bojangles3518 3 года назад
This happens to a lot of things including men. If a piece of media depicts a man getting tricked or accused by a women which causes a problem for the men, male viewers will agree/ sympathize and bring examples of similar moments but female viewers see it as bashing women in general and will claim the men who do like the media are all women haters. The problem with my example is there is not talk or social commentary or people acknowledging that it happens.
@51stcenturygirl
@51stcenturygirl 3 года назад
If they like action films and superhero's villains they don't have the right to call bad people in more realistic films cartoonish. And seeing how popular those two genres are it's high probability that they are...
@nomadichomebody4230
@nomadichomebody4230 3 года назад
The whole time I was confused when everyone would say“we were kids” , they were in med school, it was 7 years ago. Not that long ago. As if they can’t remember anything from that time.
@CreoTan
@CreoTan 3 года назад
That's part of the point--they're trying to explain away their behavior instead of actually taking responsibility for what they did/what they were a part of. Plenty of people use the excuse "It was so long ago/we were just kids/I've changed" instead of saying "I did something wrong and I'm sorry."
@veronicapomar6010
@veronicapomar6010 3 года назад
Oh my god I know right you guys were not kids you were in college you were adults.
@grungophone1615
@grungophone1615 2 года назад
I thought the same thing
@roarkthehalf-orc6598
@roarkthehalf-orc6598 3 года назад
Honestly a movie about a women killing or at least mutilating evil rapists would've been kinda cool, like a female death wish or john wick, but the way they did it is infinitely better. It's at the very least satisfying that justice got served, unlike unfortunate cases irl
@artheaux666
@artheaux666 3 года назад
There are too many of those movies frankly I’m glad this did something different and better
@river8142
@river8142 3 года назад
Dude check out hard candy or I spit on your grave if you want that kind of movie
@jimerodriguez8332
@jimerodriguez8332 3 года назад
Have you ever watched "Baise Moi" ?by Virginie Despentes
@coffeeandhorror
@coffeeandhorror 3 года назад
Revenge I hear is a good one too, haven’t seen it
@jennafer2327
@jennafer2327 3 года назад
@@coffeeandhorror it is a good one.. the R scene is pretty graphic so trigger warning I tend to fast forward through those but the rest of the film is pretty good
@ScarlettAstor
@ScarlettAstor 3 года назад
The absurd horror at the centre of the film is that everyone except Cassie seems to be doing everything in their power to avoid acknowledging the simple truth that what happened to Nina happened, it was horrible, it was a crime. Al is the prepetrator, but to avoid acknowledging that truth, everyone goes out their way to make themselves complicit in his crime. For Cassie, to "let it go" is to become complicit. Yeah there is that brief moment of hope when at least, at LEAST, one person, the scumbag lawyer, is willing to acknowledge the the truth. And it is almost enough, maybe she can live now that someone else knows and she doesn't have to carry the truth all by herself. But then the video, and the truth is more horrible than she'd even imagined, and the complicity is even more insidious, and so all of her options disappear. As far as Cassie can see, there is no way to exist in this world without confronting the truth head on. And this world is so deeply complicit in protecting it's perpetrators that it will not allow Cassie to do so. It sucks. I hate it. But damn. I can't imagine a different ending that would do justice to the story they were telling. The only criticisms I really have it how underutilised Laverne Cox was, and how there are some issues regarding sex workers and stigma that would impact how Cassie's murder was treated by police.
@JennyIsHere
@JennyIsHere 3 года назад
That's a great observation! "Letting it go" implying Cassie would be complicit like everyone else really captivates why she couldn't turn away then. It really helps put you in her mindset at the time.
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168 3 года назад
I liked how Cox was her one true friend, but it would have cool if she had a more important part in the story. Even if Al is not arrested for Cassie's murder, he will probably get convicted for the rape. And besides, it would be worked out that Cassie was not actually a stripper and was most likely posing as one.
@kathynicholson2580
@kathynicholson2580 3 года назад
Those were my thoughts, too. Weakness of character to not do the right thing, denial and rationalization are the real horrors in this movie.
@ArturGlass.C
@ArturGlass.C 3 года назад
I really liked Laverne's role, as dumb as it is, I really appreciated that her character wasn't extremely hammered everywhere. She was just a normal regular woman living her life, being a nice and considerate friend, trying to do her best and being helpful when she can. It was a great addition in a feminist movie talking about rape to have a trans person being seen and portrayed so openly as a woman when it's a terf narrative that trans women are put in the perpetrator and predatory category. it was simple and I liked it for that especially knowing the history of terf is often rooted in irrational projection of fear based on being victim of sexual assault. It's a movie that could have attracted some terfs and it took a step no matter how small to not indulge their bullshit mindset.
@mooncherrie
@mooncherrie 3 года назад
@@ArturGlass.C "trans women are put in the perpetrator and predatory category" sounds familiar to certain female author that wrote books of wizards
@racheldeschaine
@racheldeschaine 3 года назад
I didn’t necessarily think her ventures gained notoriety-I thought the line about the woman with the scissors was Cassie planting a seed of paranoia to protect other women
@Vampgurl202
@Vampgurl202 3 года назад
That's exactly what I thought
@areswalker5647
@areswalker5647 3 года назад
I also thought the same thing. The man recognized her and so he thought to be in power but she took back control of the situation by basically responding that it's usuless to think that he just have to avoid her and everything will be fine, that he could keep behaving like that and only had to avoid her. She wants him to feel too unsafe to replay the shit he just did to her to other women
@interferenzbrille_2542
@interferenzbrille_2542 Год назад
Exactly. I'm positive she was lying, which is an amazing idea, because it actually might hinder people in doing horrible things to defenceless people.
@IraserH
@IraserH Год назад
And it worked lol. That guy was crying like some idiot
@biazacha
@biazacha 3 года назад
The "don't rock the boat" mentality sometimes is the worst offender cause invalidates the survivor's pain and shield the abuser from any form of consequence; while the revenge fantasy can be catarthic it really doesn't add to the conversation and stop at "r*pe is bad".
@katherines6322
@katherines6322 3 года назад
She's very similar to Dr Kind Schultz from Django. The character was so set on revenge they sacrificed themselves to the cause in the end.
@seabreeze4559
@seabreeze4559 3 года назад
predators are wolves in sheep's clothing
@randomguy6679
@randomguy6679 3 года назад
k S Interesting way of looking at it
@hippygirl1386
@hippygirl1386 3 года назад
The "dont rock the boat" mentality is literally why most survivor's never tell their stories to the people who need to hear them the most. Especially when it comes to the people who end up with those abusers later on. Like being so afraid to not rock the boat that u cant tell ur childhood abusers new wife that her children may be in danger because u r to scared. More people put in danger to maintain status quo.
@milvache
@milvache 3 года назад
Carey Mulligan needs to win an Oscar for Promising Young Woman
@rahbeeuh
@rahbeeuh 3 года назад
Couldn't agree more
@justanotherpat
@justanotherpat 3 года назад
Absolutely!
@michelcomenta
@michelcomenta 3 года назад
She's a Joker
@lolsous
@lolsous 3 года назад
My guess is that this movie is too "controversial" to get any Oscars, unlike Joker of course because destructive male rage and revenge is totally normal and unproblematic.
@heisen-bones
@heisen-bones 3 года назад
@@lolsous bruh wtf Joker was a LOT more controversial than this movie
@maddyG7414
@maddyG7414 3 года назад
Oh my god, the point you made about the ‘dead stripper’ scene being something you might see in a Hangover movie is SPOT ON. It’s exactly the description of what the trivialization of violence against women in media looks like.
@TheRealZyconis
@TheRealZyconis 3 года назад
Any man who looks at this and thinks it's misandrist in the slightest, needs to rethink how they look at, (and possibly treat) women.
@PsychoBatcave
@PsychoBatcave 3 года назад
that's it
@procrastinationismyspecial9162
@procrastinationismyspecial9162 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 It isn’t though. There’s a male character that has a redemption arc and two female characters that are shown in a negative light for ultimately siding against a victim. The movie isn’t just saying “men bad, women good.” The main character is a woman and it’s made clear she’s not supposed to be a good role model and that her decisions in the movie are what lead to a downfall. The movie shows gender doesn’t matter when it comes to morals and that in the end depending on where those morals lie, consequences can be inevitable for them, regardless of gender.
@seabreeze4559
@seabreeze4559 3 года назад
it's the same tone as American Psycho and they actually killed women no men died in this and men only fear prison because this exact crime might happen to them so......
@TheRealZyconis
@TheRealZyconis 3 года назад
@@procrastinationismyspecial9162 Thank you for putting it into words so well that the idiot comment is gone :]
@procrastinationismyspecial9162
@procrastinationismyspecial9162 3 года назад
@@TheRealZyconis just noticed this now lol glad I explained it well:)
@Pumpkinseed-Sunfish
@Pumpkinseed-Sunfish 2 года назад
I’m personally glad that Cassie is a kind of a self destructive character. I think it’s a lot more realistic. I know if I lost my best friend in circumstances like this, I would probably spiral just like Cassie does. I think it’s a good representation of how violence against women has ripple effects throughout our society and and how it leads us to continue to hurt each other.
@SingingSealRiana
@SingingSealRiana Год назад
exaxtly!!! Revange is always a path to self destruction, she is not moving on, she manages to contain her colateral damage and sticking to being messured with her revange, but that does not change, that she is not moving on!!!
@KarolinaWojtczak01
@KarolinaWojtczak01 3 года назад
Why does that last quote from the actress immediately spark something in me... The continuous portrayal of women in media as "insane" or "crazy" when actually their actions and words have sense and logic and intent is just so jarring to me. John Wick is literally a movie about a grieving husband going on a murderous rampage with little foresight for what was done to his dog, and no one has anything to say about insanity or mental health in that case... Anyways, great video as always, will def check out the movie!
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@M Gagua Honestly it's getting kinda Cringy.
@gabriellerose1172
@gabriellerose1172 3 года назад
i truly felt that the ending was imperfectly perfect. cassie's end was realistic and the fact that she cared about nina so much to lose everything was what stood out to me the most. i felt like giving each character flaws and making them realistic is why this movie is so divisive, since people see parts of themselves on screen that they don't typically enjoy.
@vampiredannii
@vampiredannii 3 года назад
This Movie is not about hating men, this movie is about the rape culture. And how normalized this culture is. I really hope some men realized this culture and change their mindset .
@peacekeeperbabe
@peacekeeperbabe 2 года назад
…we as people.
@paytonyoder1260
@paytonyoder1260 2 года назад
If it’s about rape culture then why are you only hoping that men realized it?
@58209
@58209 2 года назад
@@paytonyoder1260 because sexual assault, while it can happen to anyone by anyone, is an overwhelmingly gendered form of abuse.
@Femmeaesthetic
@Femmeaesthetic Год назад
Rape happens but there not normalised by society, a lot of people view rape as negative
@SingingSealRiana
@SingingSealRiana Год назад
@@Femmeaesthetic as negative, but it still gets trivialised all the time and cause the word is bad, the act often gets excused as well it was not rape, she was to drunk to consent or got herself drugged so her fault, well, she was wearing a short skirt so she wanted the attention. Girls get send home from school for showing their shoulders with the explanation, that it would distract the boys valuing the boys education over the girls and teaching the girls, that boys actions are the girls responsability!!! How about teaching the boys some selfrestraint instead or normalising sexualisation and making excuses for harrasment and worse?! So many argue, if you ever found a guy attractive, he cant rape you, rape in a marrriage only gets recognised as a crime for a shockingly short time. its a normal part of society, that women have to be afraid to be out in the dark, of having to guard their drinks, of having to give their friends their location when they go on a date in case something happens. at least 1 out of 3 women have experience with sexuall harresment like cat calling, guys in a bar not taking no for an answer, getting followed, inaproprietly touched . . . . how is something that is prevelent in every day life not "normalised"?
@Jannathejedi96
@Jannathejedi96 3 года назад
I ADORED this film. As a survivor myself I found the descriptions of “your name surrounding her” to be so true. That’s fully how it feels. And Mulligan’s acting is incredible. Her choices are so specific and clear and he intentions are always present. I can’t recommend it more.
@MissLolaRaven
@MissLolaRaven 3 года назад
I want to point out that Nina and Cassie can be read as soulmates (the necklace she wears is Nina's), and without her she wasn't going to live. She explained at the her profound admiration and love (platonic, not romantic) for the long gone friend. She suspended her life forever because Nina's death, and is so poetically cruel that Cassie dies in the hands of the man who took her Nina away, but at the same time, Al will always carry her name in the same way Nina carried his name.
@youretoopolitical8611
@youretoopolitical8611 Год назад
I think that’s great and it gives a good example for heterosexual women, that we can have a soulmate who isn’t a man. If we have a soulmate who is a man, it’s all the more likely we will be consumed with him and not be able to escape if he ends up being bad.
@bambabi15
@bambabi15 3 года назад
Y’all know her and John Wick would probably see eye to eye. If he’s not crazy, neither is she
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
She is crazy & condescending.
@ginganinjav5220
@ginganinjav5220 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 are you just going around to each comment on this video with your misogyny? cause that's seriously what it looks like.
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@ginganinjav5220 They are called Opinions you degenerate it has nothing to do with misogyny just because you dont like it, doesn't make it sexist.
@kyleandramae4488
@kyleandramae4488 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 proof that conservative have no introspection
@user-i9z
@user-i9z 3 года назад
​@M Gagua to be fair, john wick was going around murdering other murderers; guys who were part of criminal gangs. it's sorta like john wick is the badass murder-y version with killers at both ends of the gun, while promising young woman is a more grounded story with morally questionable people at both ends of the (metaphorical) gun.
@Peachypee
@Peachypee 3 года назад
During uni I had been assaulted so many times, even by friends. I don’t think I’ve ever properly met a woman who hasn’t been. Men don’t realise how much creeps their friends are, and don’t realise the impact it has on a person, so they’re just very ignorant of it. this movie seems to portray that so perfectly; It portrays the effects of assault more realistically than films are afraid to do, because films are often afraid to say that men need to be better - even the ones that don’t assault women
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
I'm a dude & I've been harassed by a girl at the age of 10 where's the story about that?? Oh yeah there will never be, just ignorant nonsense making men out to be Villains I'm tired of this shit.
@seabreeze4559
@seabreeze4559 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 predators are mostly men, that doesn't erase your experience it's simple probability
@Peachypee
@Peachypee 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 except there is. But it doesn’t change the fact there is a very high percentage of males who harass women. Women who harass men ofc exists, but it’s a tiny fraction against men. Men don’t have to wall down the street holding their keys in fear of being harassed. Men don’t get harassed left right and centre by women all the time. Yall just refuse to acknowledge that there is a problem with male privilege and entitlement and only think about yourselves, which enables sh***y men to continue their behaviour
@dishadharmraj6986
@dishadharmraj6986 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 I agree that men are assaulted or even raped my women, but it's completely derailed when you use it as a counter argument of a women sharing her personal experience of going through assault. I hope you realise how shitty this looks. And secondly it's so important to have these type of stories to show that "boys will be boys" or men are some type of sex animal that love sex because it's this type of mentality that even harm men because a lot of people don't think men can be raped.
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@Peachypee First of all this is made up, Yes men do fear Going to their car at night, wtf do you think a Psychopath or robber looks at me & says Oh you're a man I won't rob you or kill you & tilts his hat & says good day sir lmao 🤣😂 I hope to God you don't actually think that, This Narrative is just used to victmize women, & I'm really suck of it, you talk about "male privledge" what about "Female privledge"?? Because that exists more then you think 🤔
@1818Neko
@1818Neko 3 года назад
I don't know if I can see this movie. I was abused by my teacher on my 4rth year of medschool. I was not drunk, I was wearing scrubs, and after that I told my female peer that also had classes with him to be careful. She told me I was just asking for it. I was so depressed and sacred I didn't tell an authority figure (he was more important than I at the hospital so I would be the one to loose the fight and I didn't want to face the trauma again, have everyone else gang against me or telling me it was my fault) sad thing is that it happens all the time in my old college to other girls. I am ok now, I have a husband and 2 cats, I was depressed for a looong time though. Sorry for the bad English
@josereyes7465
@josereyes7465 3 года назад
I'm so sorry for you, as a boy who was abused by an elder man while at school, i send you a hug, no one deserves what you went through.
@1818Neko
@1818Neko 3 года назад
@@josereyes7465 I'm so sorry that hapened to you, I hope you're ok now
@fangirl3086
@fangirl3086 3 года назад
Trust me I understand. Currently in a battle against my ex cult leader/abuser. They want me off the list to testify because I'm an adult now and it happened through my teen years.
@erinaa9486
@erinaa9486 3 года назад
So sorry this happened to all of you and continues to happen 🙏😞 OP has great English
@1818Neko
@1818Neko 3 года назад
@@rbhatt2247 the abuse of power and harrasment is a rampant issue among medical ranks. We would be so sacred to not get on someone's bad side we would practically let ourselves be humiliated to just go unnoticed. Aside from sexual harrasment there was verbal, psychological and physical violence, inhumane punishments and ridiculous rules. I remember being forced to do a 24 hour shift on a high fever and terrible bacterian amigdalitis and later being punished for colapsing on the floor out of exhaustion
@salmacaribbean7362
@salmacaribbean7362 3 года назад
The scene were Cassie is walking back home, stops & looks nonstop straight to the guys catcalling her, was really powerful... it states her character as fearless and no bs tolerant... I enjoyed this movie even as I cried while they show us her screams at the end. The Lawyer is the only one who seems to get his soul back through regret, apologizing & making up for his previous fail. Overall, excellent movie!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
@sarahc171
@sarahc171 3 года назад
They nailed it. My friends & I had a rule that 1 would stay sober to protect the others. At a party, my BFF got drunk & a boy took her to his room & locked the door. I knocked until he opened it to say she was fine, revealing her half nude & unconscious body on the floor. He locked me out, so I climbed his balcony & using his ceramic bunny statue, I broke through his glass patio door & knocked him out. I threw her over my shoulder & ran to my car, yelling at our other drunk friend to follow. My BFF actually hated me for it, but I knew I couldn't live with myself if I didn't save her. Damn, if I hadn't I'd be just like this character, I'm sure.
@drillsargenttay3960
@drillsargenttay3960 3 года назад
Wow... you are such a good person. Good on you, girl 💖💖💖💖
@nerdycurls6253
@nerdycurls6253 3 года назад
Holy shit your amazing! You sound like an amazing friend and really strong like damn I cant even lift a bag of rice XD
@dreadlordvellan733
@dreadlordvellan733 3 года назад
This is the way.
@clarisa6511
@clarisa6511 3 года назад
hold up, you bff hated you for saving her? wtf
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168 3 года назад
I hope she eventually saw you as a hero. Cause you definitely are one.
@nate-it9xq
@nate-it9xq 3 года назад
I can see why some dislike the ending. It's pretty disturbing and unexpected, which may have led to some of the negative reactions to it. But I think it's PERFECT for what the movie's going for.
@basementdwellercosplay
@basementdwellercosplay 3 года назад
Spoilers if anyone doesn't want to have ending ruined Honestly Al getting arrested during his wedding is a beautiful ending for it. He's arrested in public in front of people who like him and a woman who thinks he's the one. Then he gets arrested in front of them all so even if he gets out they won't want to be connected to him anymore.
@iciajay6891
@iciajay6891 3 года назад
100%
@cherylwatt7347
@cherylwatt7347 3 года назад
It's the kind of ending I wish my story had.
@astoldbynickgerr
@astoldbynickgerr 3 года назад
@@cherylwatt7347 💙💙💙
@otimo144
@otimo144 3 года назад
idk Ties are hard to break even if the person is scum. Family is still family and they will probably fight for them. Hell my aunt still stuck up for he husband even after he beat her and is still a part of her life to this day. Love makes people do stupid things.
@avengefullgirl95
@avengefullgirl95 3 года назад
Realistically the thing to happen next is that everyone would say "he would never do xy and z, we know him he's too wonderful to do any of that," ive seen situations where a woman was fighting a man in court who had tried to kill her and his family completely sided with him since he had never shown any signs of being like that before. In this fictionally realistic world his bride would think the woman was lying and she would have a very hard time believing that he had killed anyone, his family would also deny everything since as far as they are concerned he is a doctor who would never harm anyone
@afish4086
@afish4086 3 года назад
As a survivor, I noticed IMMEDIATELY how the death scene had parallels to sexual assault. It was a raw and brilliant way to discuss the violence of the act itself - the literal suffocating nature of being overpowered - and make it the longest take of the movie (the second being the foreboding march to the party). It is difficult to depict the violence of r*pe without accidentally (or intentionally) fetishizing or sensationalizing the act itself; sometimes films trying to create a meaningful and emotional impact (such as the original I Spit On Your Grave, for example) veer into exploitative territory. It's complicated. There's a long history in art of violence against women being framed erotically, so it takes thoughtful framing and breaking film conventions to navigate the blurry lines of violence, sex, and femininity - and this film excels at that. Maybe someday we'll get a film where a regular woman can have her revenge AND get to enjoy it, but I'm so glad we at least now have a film that has found ways to portray the horrors of r*pe without exploitative conventions. I think that's a big first step, and I hope it will inspire future film creators to get innovative with their own approaches to a difficult topic.
@58209
@58209 2 года назад
thank you for sharing your observations. this is the first time i've seen someone remark on how the death scene resembles sexual assault itself, and it makes perfect sense. and it's so frustrating when shows try to depict on-screen abuse but end up just making it titillating or exploitative.
@amyg8176
@amyg8176 3 года назад
The moment that she stared down the construction workers was incredible
@Druundev
@Druundev 3 года назад
I do find the ending hit so hard also because "realistically" (Due to the age of the case and how the justice system works) it's tragically unlikely that even if she had been able to prove what truly happened, those rapists would most likely still not have been brought to justice. But for murder? They would. Atleast that's something I ended up thinking about at the end.
@bw-xv2rz
@bw-xv2rz 3 года назад
me before this movie: BO BURNHAM IS THE ONLY MAN I TRUST BO BURNHAM IS THE ONLY MAN I TRUST me after this movie: I wanna die
@samanthacousland870
@samanthacousland870 3 года назад
Bo Burnham (the actor) is a good and smart dude. So I still trust Bo, just not the character he portrayed. (I don't think he would have taken the role if he didn't believe in the message and reality of the movie).
@coolbeans5911
@coolbeans5911 3 года назад
Same dude😭 i was crushing so hard on his character and i felt so betrayed by the reveal😭😭😭
@boredshrimp9425
@boredshrimp9425 3 года назад
@@samanthacousland870 why would you trust a guy you don't know ? God
@pujaharikumar
@pujaharikumar 3 года назад
That's kinda the point of the movie, isn't it?
@gentlesandladymen
@gentlesandladymen 3 года назад
@@coolbeans5911 that’s the whole point.
@KateMaddy
@KateMaddy 3 года назад
It seems like a fitting ending though. No one is fully the “good guy” and no one really wins but the bad guys get caught and there are consequences to their actions.
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
NO the sad truth is some terrible people win that's reality.
@whatsup2131
@whatsup2131 3 года назад
rarely any man gets put in jail for rape. they pretty much all get out or dont even get go trial
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@whatsup2131 Women get even more less jail time
@ariyatabassumabdullah1143
@ariyatabassumabdullah1143 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 just admit you're a woman hating incel and leave, you're replying to every single comment thread in this video saying shit like "oH buT wOmEn aRe aLWaYs viCTimIziNG thEMsElVEs whAt aBouT tHE MEn" go fuck yourself asshole
@rojczan1399
@rojczan1399 3 года назад
@@ariyatabassumabdullah1143 he's telling truth tho. In these years women just have way more space to live around. They can do everything.
@lovelyday1182
@lovelyday1182 3 года назад
I actually love the ending, not the fact that she didn't get a happy end but that it was realistic. She was a woman going into a house of men and she knew there was a good chance she wouldn't make it. I just love that it all feels genuine and I don't have to search for an explanation for any of it
@mickymcbryan4814
@mickymcbryan4814 3 года назад
Honestly, she just hit me as a woman anti-hero. Like, a real anti-hero in the sense the same way men in media get to be all the time instead of the usual redeemed put upon woman with a character arc and cathartic revenge that we usually pass off as an anti-hero when a man in her role would just be called a plain old hero in a dark situatuon.
@TehMomo_
@TehMomo_ 3 года назад
like Frank Castle
@ottoroberts5163
@ottoroberts5163 3 года назад
She is completely catwoman/selina kyle’s personality type down to the t
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
Women could be too if they stopped making predictable, Cringy Narratives of them being the Victims 24-7 & Actually told a story instead of throwing in Feminist talking points all half assed.
@idontevenknowok8159
@idontevenknowok8159 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 are you serious?
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@idontevenknowok8159 Yes 100%
@pauliedoodle1939
@pauliedoodle1939 3 года назад
I wonder if it’s the honesty of the ending that has shaken so many people. Something we learn growing up as females it’s that statistically we are overwhelmingly more likely to be the victims of a sexual assault. If that assault is carried out by a male, then physically, there is realistically f*ck all we can do to stop it. It’s a very powerful ending to the film that has left me with a lot of thoughts on how our world works and I can’t yet find the right words to express how it made me truly feel. I don’t think I have watched a film that made me think so much in a long time.
@Wow30035
@Wow30035 3 года назад
Exactly and it’s always strange how men don’t understand why most women are cautious around them.
@kittyrosefaerie7464
@kittyrosefaerie7464 3 года назад
@@Wow30035 Yes. Because if we aren't cautious it'll be our fault when we're harmed. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
@shandiana
@shandiana 3 года назад
@Thomas G. Linn Uhhh what? I'd wager dollars to donuts that the women you're responding to are all part of "this generation" and they're praising the authenticity of the ending. That's a pretty gross overgeneralization.
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@kittyrosefaerie7464 Victimhood
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@Wow30035 that's Sexist, Women can Assault a guy & hey away with it, This movie is proving to me it's just fueling a Victimhood in people if anything, I've gotten harassed by a girl when I was young, Just 10 years old she told me to pull my pants down I did, women can do this shit too & this movie insults & enrages me.
@katewilson9723
@katewilson9723 3 года назад
SPOILERS One of the things I'm still thinking about after watching this movie is mostly how I went into this expecting a revenge movie, and while it definitely clears the bar for the bare minimum of a female revenge story, it is ultimately not one, or at least I don't think it is completely. I was a bit disappointed when it turned out that she wasn't some serial killer or that her revenge plots weren't focused entirely on destroying her targets lives(apart from the lawyer who I assume she tried to have him killed before changing her mind? though I wouldn't be surprised if she had something else in mind) because that was what I was expecting to see...but in the end, the revenge isn't exactly the point. She is so consumed by grief, rage and emptiness because people absolutely ignore everything that happened. For the same reason why Cassie didn't want to kill the rapist in the end, or set the entire place on fire with the men inside, or actually have the headmistress's daughter assaulted, because she didn't want to get her revenge on them, she wanted them to see how much their actions and ignorance destroyed people's lives. The lawyer saw that, and she gave him a second chance. She let Bo's character walk, even if she could have ruined him completely, and he only suffered because of the choices he still made afterwards(lying to the police officer about her whereabouts). She doesn't hurt the nice guys who are about to assault her every week, doesn't report them, mostly because she goes out every week to remind herself about all this, because she saw the truth and she can't unsee it now like the rest of the world does. Not even Nina's mom wants to face what happened, everyone just wants to move on and get over it, but Cassie can't. In the end, her actions force the people who closed their eyes for so long to see the truth of their actions, and I think ultimately it is a movie about truth and consequences more than revenge. Justice.
@zoezultsetseg773
@zoezultsetseg773 3 года назад
I thought it was interesting how nina’s mom seemed to not be as hindered about her daughter’s absence as much as cassie was for the past years. Does that mean the mom wanted to forget what happened to her daughter or simply because she knew she couldn’t do anything about it and decided to accept the outcome?
@katewilson9723
@katewilson9723 3 года назад
@@zoezultsetseg773 I think there are a few aspects that go into this comparison. We could take it as the mom fulfilling another part of the system, she closed her eyes to the rape and suicide and simply mourned the death of her daughter, then chose to move on with her life. We can see how much Nina's absence pains her, and she is her mother, of course it would, but she wants it out of the way. There's nothing she can do more about it so she accepts it, as you said. It's also about the trauma, and how different people process it. Cassie chooses, actively chooses throughout the whole movie, to keep onto that pain and injustice by going out every week because she can't forget what happened. I would have loved to see more scenes with Nina's mother, but I think the one we got was telling enough.
@monique-octowhale
@monique-octowhale 3 года назад
Nicely said!
@prongs8888
@prongs8888 3 года назад
I think the worst part of the movie is after Joe finds Al with dead Cassie. he doesn't feel regret for killing her, he's consumed by the idea of the life he'll be losing.
@jimerodriguez8332
@jimerodriguez8332 3 года назад
I thought this was going on a 'Baise moi" direction too
@alterbria
@alterbria 3 года назад
Although really uncomfortable to watch, I also think it was important to kill Cassie to show she was not invincible so that other women don't feel 'inspired' to put their lives at risk in order to make justice with their own hands. I had a hard time believing Cassie could get away so easily with turning against those men just by throwing some harsh words and evil gaze at them, but unfortunately, by the end of the movie when her character dies, everything became more plausible. Again, I am not happy she died, I just felt it make all the risks she took throughout the story more believable.
@MsFlamingFlamer
@MsFlamingFlamer 3 года назад
I do believe there was a deleted scene where she gets a bruise by one of the men. It's a shame that it was deleted IMHO
@DarlingMissDarling
@DarlingMissDarling 2 года назад
@@MsFlamingFlamer agreed. Especially when so many women know that even if you do "everything right", just saying you're not interested can be dangerous. So yeah, I think it would have been powerful to show that you can simply hurt a man's ego or shake up his world view a bit, (like Cassie was doing with the weekly bar excursions) and end up in physical danger.
@horacegreely4396
@horacegreely4396 2 года назад
Ill even go farther. Maybe she wanted to die. The movie made it clear that she was living a miserable existence because of what happened and that she dedicated her life to confronting Al. If you look at the scene she was at the edge of the bed when she was smothered. She could had easily slid off the bed and the pressure that Al exerted with his knee would had been diverted by her sheer weight plus gravity. She more than left breadcrumbs to report what happened to people she knew would send the message along. That was before she went to the party. Then even if Al is not convicted, what hospital or clinic is going to hire him or allow him to continue his work there? Even if he's aquited he would be convicted in the court of public opinion. His life is over in his immediate community. This is why the dude panics and kills her in my opinion. He saw all this flash front of his eyes while his life suddenly was crumbling in front of his own eyes. Oh and by the way, according to the conversation with the dean, Al is somewhat of a public figure meaning famous. Every activist group would had come calling for his head. Genius and bittersweet for her at the same time. Great scene.
@guacamollie2460
@guacamollie2460 Год назад
There are a lot of movies about men going on crusades and killing people being invincible, but men don't go around trying to reproduce that. Don't pretend that women aren't rational enough to not take risks like that
@opheliaann1
@opheliaann1 Год назад
@@guacamollie2460 Lol exactly.
@sketchjunior7072
@sketchjunior7072 3 года назад
Men get really offended when you do something like this and don’t hammer home the point of “not all men”... yet us women have to worry about everything else that goes on. Men are scared of being falsely accused, were scared of being Nina.
@drinkmilk1978
@drinkmilk1978 3 года назад
Moral of story, never hit on girls at clubs or bars. If they're intoxicated, it's not worth the time and day to have your entire life ruined over some STD riddled girl that decided to regret it the next morning.
@rapscalliwagon2983
@rapscalliwagon2983 3 года назад
@@drinkmilk1978 yeah no, that's not the moral of the story. The moral of the story is that you shouldn't be offended by this movie if you're not a rapist
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
Can you stop this Narrative please??
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@rapscalliwagon2983 im offended because the movie was complete trash & a waste of my time
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
Because movies like this Villify men so much people start to treat men as if we r all rapists, Also women can do the same shit those men do.
@ItsMeAlyssaD
@ItsMeAlyssaD 3 года назад
as i was watching the ending when Al kills her i just kept thinking no she’s smart she planned for this and she’s faking. she’ll pop up and still be alive and she’ll get her revenge. and i was right. she did plan for that to happen and she did pop up and her memory will live on in those she leaves behind, both good and bad, and she did get her revenge. she just won’t be around for it
@amiyang1
@amiyang1 3 года назад
I’ve known a horrible monster in college who hurt a lot of girls... sadly I was more angry at the school rather than that turd because they only asked him for an essay for the things he did... a f*cking piece of paper.
@kaheaisaac1
@kaheaisaac1 3 года назад
wtf!! not ok!
@amysolley4268
@amysolley4268 3 года назад
I feel like Cassie sorta accepted vengeance as the point of her life. Like as an individual, she's devoted herself to trying to satisfy her survivor's guilt for so long that she doesn't know who she might be without it. It became her life's work, her reason to keep breathing. Once it was done, she was done.
@letgo1234
@letgo1234 3 года назад
I think this movie really hits because growing my mom was very paranoid of something happening to me because she was raped in her own home and 4 out of the 5 people in her group were raped one or more times. So I’ve always kinda knew how deeply it effects the person who was assaulted even after 30 years. And it’s very frustrating how people try to by past this subject because they don’t want to hear it or “I won’t do that so why should I care” especially when most women are sexually degraded in some way by the age of 13.
@KaleLikesWaffles
@KaleLikesWaffles 3 года назад
The use of "Toxic" was epic
@oofuss
@oofuss 3 года назад
Really liked it, felt all the "Twists" including what happened to Cassie, were logical. Shocking initially, but unfortunately very realistic.
@Delihlah
@Delihlah 3 года назад
I tried to get evidence of my ex by talking to him as if I was "completely fine and still in love" and he would hint at it but would NEVER explicitly say what he did. I remember how frustrating it was that he knew what he did, referred to it, asked me not to go to the police, yet he still wouldn't full on say what he did so It ended up just being a waste of my time and just caused me more hurt than good . I really like that they had trouble getting him to admit what he did seriously. That was a good decision in the movie.
@youretoopolitical8611
@youretoopolitical8611 Год назад
That proves they know exactly what they’re doing and why it’s wrong.
@colonelweird
@colonelweird 3 года назад
Just watched it 2 days ago - it blew me away. It's the most powerful attack on rape culture I'm aware of. While I think the wedding revenge scene is a little too neat, and isn't really plausible, I'm willing to forgive it. But imagine if that scene was removed, and the film ended with Cassie simply gone, dead, forgotten. I think it would have made the message of the film even more devastating. Also, while this movie doesn't accuse ALL men, I think it does say clearly that the issue affects all men, and affects every cishet romantic relationship. That's why Bo Burnham was portrayed as literally the most perfect man imaginable - until suddenly he wasn't.
@shandiana
@shandiana 3 года назад
I would counter that there were many red flags with Bo Burnham's character before the "reveal," though. Nothing too heavy handed but enough that it made me not trust him and feel uncomfortable. Like when the says "shut up you stupid bitch" when he's trying to say he's falling for her. It's playful right? He said he loves her so that's not offensive, right? It's interesting to see what people take away from this movie, I'm glad there's a discourse around it.
@colonelweird
@colonelweird 3 года назад
@@shandiana Good point - I wanted to like him, so I overlooked the red flags. But they were there.
@monique-octowhale
@monique-octowhale 3 года назад
I agree with the wedding scene being too perfect, but I think the movie would have been too viscerally devastating without it. If Al wasn't arrested for murder at his wedding - I don't think I would have slept at night. It has the perfect balance of brutal reflections on reality (Cass being overpowered - no matter how cunning she was) and the audiences desperate desire for some form of justice.
@AA-qt1hi
@AA-qt1hi 3 года назад
This was a fantastic psychological piece. I mean so many factors in play. Sucha a mind fuck. The ending was realistic. Fucked. But realistic. Too many victims, in one way or the other don't get justice. The death of our protagonist was unexpected but brilliant in retrospect.
@athenajaxon2397
@athenajaxon2397 3 года назад
Why are men more upset by being portrayed as rapists than like actual rapists???
@MrGamecatCanaveral
@MrGamecatCanaveral 3 года назад
Who is saying that? What men are upset? Im looking in the comments and reviews, no men are upset. I only see women like you say men are getting upset. I saw this last night with two other guys. We all cheered for the girl. And hated the men. We know this happens in real life.
@athenajaxon2397
@athenajaxon2397 3 года назад
@@MrGamecatCanaveral I guess you missed the message that Amanda got lmao I've seen countless comments like that for this movie and Birds of Prey
@MrGamecatCanaveral
@MrGamecatCanaveral 3 года назад
@@athenajaxon2397 probably. Bird of prey kind of sucked though. Lol. It was too corny for me. This one was really good though. Great characters, writing and story.
@artheaux666
@artheaux666 3 года назад
@@MrGamecatCanaveral Why are you so offended? I think the shoe fits a little too well than you think.
@MrGamecatCanaveral
@MrGamecatCanaveral 3 года назад
@@artheaux666 you're just a troll. I'm not offended at all. You're just trying to get a rise out of me. I don't know if you're just sad or stupid.
@usernotfound1022
@usernotfound1022 3 года назад
That violin version of Toxic going into the end 💁🏻‍♀️ *chefs kiss*
@venomqueen5
@venomqueen5 3 года назад
Honestly the ending was one of the best parts of the movie for me, because they didn't follow a formula and give a feel-good ending. It would have been a great movie even if they did, but sometimes life isn't fair, and even if you have the best intentions, you don't always have luck on your side. I actually saw half of the video and quickly rushed to watch the movie before continuing, it truly blew me away :D
@omararevalo9320
@omararevalo9320 3 года назад
This movie wasn’t at all what I expected it to be. I thought I was going in for an avenging angel type of movie where Cassie was going to be a vigilante figure pulling elaborate schemes on her targets such as drain their bank accounts or release their sex tapes but this movie was more of a psychological thriller than anything else. I thought I was going into a Killing Eve Season 1 Phoebe Waller Bridge type of movie but it was more like a Killing Eve Season 2 type of movie. Which makes sense since Emerald Fennell WAS the showrunner of Killing Eve Season 2 where she stripped away a lot of the flashier revenge elements from season 1 to focus more on psychological warfare, twisted mind games and realistic violence. This movie really didn’t hold back with anything and I really respect the hell out of it. Especially the ending because I’ve seen a lot of movies and tv shows in my life so shocking me is about as rare as a blue moon but that ending shook me to my core, it was very ballsy and I think it worked.
@maylee261
@maylee261 3 года назад
This is a movie make for win awards not the kind of movies like Jhon wick
@KellseyAlexHipo
@KellseyAlexHipo 3 года назад
Promising Young Woman made me feel so gross at times, and I didn't always agree with the actions she took, but I loved it so much. The biggest things that I loved were her different reactions to the people who were around that tragic event in college, and how the movie made me feel as a woman. There were times when she confronted men and I got so scared and anxious seeing her body in contrast to theirs. Most were taller than her and Carey Mulligan is so slight, and she kept being antagonistic when she confronted them...I was so anxious they'd hurt her. And as a very short woman, it hit really close to home. I just hope there are men who saw SOMETHING in the film
@alyssapinon9670
@alyssapinon9670 3 года назад
Oh same. I’m built like Carey but sometimes I tend to forget that when I get into heated fights with people. I guess a Napoleon complex. This movie made me realize I need to be more cautious and that I’m lucky to be unharmed
@beab-locher6077
@beab-locher6077 3 года назад
@@alyssapinon9670 I'm very small, but I had self defense classes and worked in construction. Still not just once the only chance I got was to run. I laughed when my mom told me to take care when I was younger. As if ever something is going to happen. I'm not laughing anymore.
@feyetho9524
@feyetho9524 3 года назад
Promising Young Woman is a actually my favourite movie. From the first time I watched it, I loved how it diverted expectations and put the suffering back on those who protected the abuser. The fact that Cassie died in the end kinda proves that no matter how hard you try, abuse still happens in the world.
@saifsufian4286
@saifsufian4286 3 года назад
This movie did the impossible, make me hate a character played by Bo Burnham.
@lenusniq_9746
@lenusniq_9746 3 года назад
I finished watching the movie 40 minutes ago, so it is all pretty raw .... wow... I have been waiting for this movie for such a long time, I expected a bloodbath, I expected a different ending, and I was gutted at that one scene.... and I was watching in disbelief those final scenes... I thought that the system would win again. And I seriously stared crying when the sirens arrived. What a rollercoaster.
@iguanaco21
@iguanaco21 3 года назад
I think that if the system won, it would be an even more memorable, tragic, gutwrenching ending...
@lenusniq_9746
@lenusniq_9746 3 года назад
@@iguanaco21 To certain extent I agree, however, I remember how empty and hopeless I felt when it looked like the system would win, so that slight possibility of justice being served was very welcomed. It was like in Get Out when they also filmed that alternative version in which system would win, however Jordan Peele said that if fell too sad, like the audience had been through a lot so he wanted to provide some kind of relief/hope.
@daisymoon4004
@daisymoon4004 3 года назад
I loved this film but it broke my heart - I sat and cried for ages after watching it. Highly recommend it for anyone who wouldn't be triggered by themes of sexual assault.
@contemplativegirl21
@contemplativegirl21 3 года назад
One of the best movies I've seen in years - felt like a horror film, but no gore, no sexually explicit or exploitative scenes, and entirely due to chillingly good performances and the raw authentic treatment of the subject matter. Spent $20 to rent and will likely spend $20 to buy. Love your review, as per usual.
@mikaylasmith7600
@mikaylasmith7600 3 года назад
SPOILER The only gripe I have is if her body was set on fire, her body would still be there, extremely charred, but still there. It takes ALOT to cremate a body, and unfortunately it was the only thing that took me out of the movie. I recommend Ask a Mortician's video about Gram Parsons who's friends tried to "cremate" him in the desert and failed.
@deadsoon
@deadsoon 3 года назад
Yeah, guess they didn't want to make it too graphic. Charred remains are very visually impactful.
@iguanaco21
@iguanaco21 3 года назад
Hey there, fellow Mortician's fan, I had exactly the same remark :) As I am also an avid viewer of That Chapter, I would say they did a really bad job of disposing of the body. But this was not the main idea of the movie, and also, it seemed like the groom's friend wasn't the smartest in his class. Anyway, it is a great film. Maybe an Oscar contender...? (Though the best one from 2020 I've seen is The Devil All the Time)
@mikaylasmith7600
@mikaylasmith7600 3 года назад
@@deadsoon True true true
@mikaylasmith7600
@mikaylasmith7600 3 года назад
@@iguanaco21 Yeah I definitely say that this movie is going to be an Oscar contender as well (hopefully)! It just bugs me that the director said that she and the team kept going for realism and then something scientifically impossible happen. Most people don't know that will happen of course so I'm not going to blame the team, but it took me out, yah know?
@EluraCorenBooks
@EluraCorenBooks 3 года назад
I wondered if another Deathling would post this. I saw that pile of ashes and thought, "Nope. Scientifically inaccurate."
@ckenepah
@ckenepah 3 года назад
I loved and truly adored this movie right up until the end. I know that the director thought the ending was realistic, and I agree, but at the same time I wanted more. Decades and decades of media deifies and reinforces victimhood, and pushes the idea that victims and the people who care about them are to move on and pushed to forgive and forget their abusers. We haven't been allowed to feel our rage. We tell, and retell the old adage that revenge is a dead end path. I loved that the movie communicates in a way that isn't triggering, it doesn't use the R word, it doesn't show anything terribly graphic. At the end of the day, as a victim of sexual abuse, I just want a movie that doesn't push trauma porn AND has the ending that some of us fantasize about. From an analysis of Jennifer's Body: "no one asks to be made into a monster, but no one should be surprised when the monster of their creation invites herself over for dinner."
@seabreeze4559
@seabreeze4559 3 года назад
medusa myth, this is
@natie3322
@natie3322 3 года назад
When you go for revenge you have to dig two graves. She couldn't get justice for her friend, but she could make sure they got justice for both of them. She recognized her limitations and worked with them...
@jnanashakti6036
@jnanashakti6036 3 года назад
People always glean over that Ryan doesn't take no for an answer when he asks Cassie out. She even softens to it.
@sorapokeball
@sorapokeball 3 года назад
This movie was uncomfortable because of how real it was, like the men telling her over and over that she was so beautiful when they were taking advantage of her, and the guy turning on her and saying she was unattractive when he realized who she was. Also, I have to say, as much as I love Max Greenfield, he kinda of took me out of the movie a bit. It was hard to take his character seriously
@thealchemist5761
@thealchemist5761 3 года назад
Yeah his character was very out of place and unbelievable.
@JM-vr1br
@JM-vr1br 3 года назад
The funny thing is I think he does a great job, but I *still* can’t take him seriously? It’s the same way I feel about Natalie Portman after the Star Wars prequels. That it’s so memorable other performances have to be absolutely flawless for me to forget the original role I saw them in?
@Saint_Medusa
@Saint_Medusa 3 года назад
The best way of describing the people who think this is " men are bad " basically are saying that men need to be coddle in order for soceity to continue. That's pretty pathetic
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
Propably because Movies nowadays r continuing this trend of "men r evil" Birds of prey, Black Christmas & Charlies angels & Captain marvel.
@Marianiki2002
@Marianiki2002 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 no movies nowadays are continuing any "trend" of "men r evil". There is no trend like that. You're delusional and you need help.
@Marianiki2002
@Marianiki2002 3 года назад
@MrGAMECATCanaveral literally saw this as soon as I pressed enter on my reply to you
@elongatedmanforever1252
@elongatedmanforever1252 3 года назад
@@Marianiki2002 Dude, it's either you r ignorant or just trying to gaslight me, Just stop it, it isn't working & I'm perfectly fine.
@Marianiki2002
@Marianiki2002 3 года назад
@@elongatedmanforever1252 I'm not the one criticizing a movie I've admitted I haven't watched, by projecting my outright misogyny and ultimately embarassing myself on the internet hun. No one buys you're "fine", because people that are fine are the exact opposite of you. Give it up and like I already said... get help. (And stop replying to me under two different comments lmao, do you really need THAT much attention? I mean, I know you do, but are you really THAT open about it?)
@geekgirl_luv4262
@geekgirl_luv4262 Год назад
What I really liked was how they wrote the way Cass seeks revenge. She’s not just hurting/scaring people in random ways to get back at them, what she’s doing is forcing them to confront their own crimes and their role in rape culture. Every single revenge she enacts-from her grand revenge plot, to her weekly outings in clubs and bars, to tiny moments like when she confronted those cat callers-was deliberate and calculated. By making them confront what it is they actually did and the harm that their actions cause, she forces them to face the fact that they’re not actually as innocent or as nice as they think they are.
@wadejohnston4305
@wadejohnston4305 3 года назад
Would love a hunter hunter breakdown from ya. Talk about BRUTAL endings.
@mpGreen03
@mpGreen03 3 года назад
hunter x hunter?
@taral.7128
@taral.7128 3 года назад
I loved this movie, I loved that the movie casted predominantly comedic/like-able actors as the main antagonists of the story, makes the gut punch of their awfulness that much more powerful. The part with Molina was so visceral and emotional, honestly everyone’s performances were amazing
@Rikkilover17
@Rikkilover17 3 года назад
I studied film in college, and as you were explaining the events in the film i was able to figure out what would happen next.. UNTIL YOU GOT TO THAT ENDING HOLY CRAP THATS BALLSY FOR A CREATOR. THAT ladies and gents is how you make a twist ending. Sure the text messages is a little deus ex for my liking ( i think it could've been more powerful if they didn't know it was coming) but the guts to kill off your main character and still have runtime and even better to make it almost "comedically dark" and not so "fallen hero, what can we learn from this angel's passing". Just.. Amazing, love that.
@hillwill960
@hillwill960 2 года назад
Thank you so much for putting me on to this movie!! It was very triggering for me as someone who experienced sexual assault while bystanders didn’t help. The story was definitely hard to get through at times but I’m grateful it was made. Very compelling and thought-provoking. And the music was so good!!
@miyuu1317
@miyuu1317 3 года назад
I was numbly accepting of the ending because that's a story we've heard a million times before, BUT THEN those last 3 minutes come and HOLY SHIT I cried like a baby, the catharsis I felt was so overwhelming I couldn't compose myself for a while
@kerris1782
@kerris1782 3 года назад
When she told Al she’d get used to the cuffs! Omg the foreshadowing!
@thebeetleball
@thebeetleball 3 года назад
as infuriating as it is, the scene where al's friend comforts him after killing cassie is strangely brilliant. when someone is raped, people always try to make it about how the rapist's life is ruined, how tragic it is that his victims dare call attention to his crime, and while al never did anything like that to cassie watching him be comforted while her CORPSE is right next to him feels so symbolic of that
@l0st5oul45
@l0st5oul45 3 года назад
this film reminds me a lot of hard candy, and while there is more of a "happy" ending for the protagonist it's still gut wrenching. i'll look into watching this when i get a chance too
@JuPaschoal
@JuPaschoal 3 года назад
This is an AMAZING movie. Honestly, I think everything went as Cassie planned. ALL OF IT - I believe she left the cuffs loose on purpose. I really wish Carey had won the Oscar for this because the screenplay was phenomenal on its own (no other nominee was even remotely close imo), but it needed the right actress, someone skilled enough to pull off making Cassie feel real and not just some sort of cartoonish vengeful villain...not to mention she was completely playing against type here. I didn't even recognize her when I first saw the trailer; I honesly, truly thought it was Rachel McAdams (whom I actually like a lot, but BOY, am I glad it wasn't)
@SingingSealRiana
@SingingSealRiana Год назад
I dissagre, she did not sought out to die there, but she was bright enough to know it was a high risk so she planned for that outcome, but it ws not her goal, she was just willing to take that risk
@reeanr3365
@reeanr3365 3 года назад
I cried for my girls who had to go through this, please take care of yourselves♥️
@iciajay6891
@iciajay6891 3 года назад
When a movie makes ppl so polarizing, you know it is touching on something in the society that is a huge issues.
@lukasfinn6042
@lukasfinn6042 3 года назад
Really appreciated this analysis. Initially, I was disappointed that there were no through-and-through good male characters, but I quickly realized that would defeat some of the profound points of the movie. Problematic behavior and attitudes toward women are still included (or at least considered acceptable) within our cultural definition of "good men". This allows all men, even the nice funny ones that tend to children's health for a living, to be complicit with or guilty of misogynistic behavior. The ending was obviously bitter sweet, but honestly most of the movie was. Cassie was constantly putting herself in dangerous and self-harmful situations, and it finally didn't go her way, and she seemed prepared for something like that all along.
@drinkmilk1978
@drinkmilk1978 3 года назад
How did the doctor that care for children complicit misogynistic behaviour?
@lukasfinn6042
@lukasfinn6042 3 года назад
@@drinkmilk1978 not 100% clear on what your asking, I think this answers tho: bo burnam’s characer didn’t directly do anything to wrong Cassie or Nina, but he ended up excusing and enabling the problematic behavior and actions of his friends/acquaintances that did wrong them. Maybe there was a better word than complicit
@jaap3520
@jaap3520 3 года назад
Cassie's father
@lpphillyfan
@lpphillyfan 3 года назад
I don't think all men are complicit in rape culture nor that the movie is trying to say that. It just chooses to focus on the men (and even women) who are. The point of the Bo Burnham character, I think, is to show that some men who are otherwise good people are capable of complicity, not that they absolutely are.
@lukasfinn6042
@lukasfinn6042 3 года назад
@@lpphillyfan ya I think that's a good clarification. I meant something like: the culture excuses the average man to be complicit and tolerant of misogynistic behavior. But that doesnt mean they automatically are.
@danaintern5349
@danaintern5349 3 года назад
i was so ready for the miserable 'she dies and he goes on and lives a long and happy life and never experiences consequences' ending, and then angel of the morning starts to play. probably one of the best endings to a movie i've ever seen. I feel like I can replay it beat for beat in my head, it's so memorable
@oliviamcguire7915
@oliviamcguire7915 3 года назад
For anyone who loved the movie and likes to read, " The Female of The Species" by Mindy McGinnis has a very similar premise and is truly a phenomenal read. I read it about four years ago and still think about it and the main character Alex at least once a week
@sumo431
@sumo431 3 года назад
Thank you for explaining imprinting
@AmandaTheJedi
@AmandaTheJedi 3 года назад
You are very welcome
@shandiana
@shandiana 3 года назад
Wait wait wait, it's NOT when wolf boys groom half vampire infants?
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