@@eccremocarpusscaber5159 For many change can be found not only within oneself, but in the mindset of other people. So many people have a concrete set mindset where some things just cannot seem to be, in any capacity, able to function in any other way. Not until someone else shows them something different.
@@eccremocarpusscaber5159 You receive messages subconsciously and consciously,through bodylaguage,oral communication as well as visually,even if you know better,you may feel or carry a burden subconsciously that affect your psyche and more. So if you have a normal comprehension,emotions etc it is a sign of being prefectly human in an imperfect world ruined by inhumane people affected everything as if we were caught in a wave made by string we were attached to somewhat & moving in a motion to everything and everyone,not able to stop the negative intensions of greed & soulless people unless ppl gather together to help buildt "walls against the waves" in which ppls sacrifice,meant survival of someone's future protected or capable of drawing the wall metaphorically!
Job interviewer: What is your best skill? Me: I have the ability to answer a question not only thorough but in depth and full of information without even answering the question at all.
More like: While speaking to a person, I tend to speak with such eloquence and enlightenment in conjunction of my transfixing gaze that the subject of which we are speaking eludes them SEEMLESSLY.
She never has a problem with filling the word count in an essay. 😂😂 She does answer the questions, by the way...she just likes to give a detailed explanation of it which I quite like. It gives me insight on how she views the world.
This is my boss's super power. I've never seen someone so elegantly and efficiently and CONSISTENTLY skirt difficult questions by saying basically nothing but using fancy, sophisticated words to do so. 😑🤣🤣
"I guess they thought I was doing a peculiar exotic dance when I was looking around in distress"..... I am dead!!!!!! LMFAO 😂😂 😂 Please Hollywood give John his own tv series or PHILUM!!!!
That whole talk about femininity and masculinity was so beautiful and full of positivity. It made me feel so calm and validated (even tho I'm a traditionally feminine female). Everyone needs to hear it. If possible I would like to tattoo that whole part of the video on to my forehead.
YES! Gender indentity and gender expression are two VERY different things. They don't always coincide. You can ne a feminine boy or a masculine girl and that's ok. There is the belief, even with in the trans community that if you are a male like to dress feminine, you must really be a female or if you are a girl and like to dress more in more traditional men's attire, you must be a man. There are many men you go into mostly female-dominated careers for example, doesn't make them any less of a man. I went through a bit of a tomboy phase in 6th grade but never identified and still don't identify as a man. I had a friend in elementary school who hated wearing dress and disposed anything traditionally feminine. She was an adventurous person, very outdoorsy and still is to this day, And guess what? She's still a woman. You don't nee to change your gender to fit the way you express yourself. Gender shaming needs to stop!
“Hyenas squabbling over carrots.” What a perfect analogy. Laughing scavengers arguing over something which ultimately will never satisfy their hunger. Describes the social media world so concisely. 🖤
While watching this my 8 year old looked over and asked 'are they a boy or girl" complete child curiosity. I said " he is a boy". Child said "he is SOOOO good at makeup". I feel proud.
I had to check google like 1000000 times during this -video- film because I didn't understand a word he was saying 😂😂 (I'm so dumb ;-; my friends are my age and would understand)
I love his commentary on feminine men. People need to broaden the spectrum of what they will accept from men. His comments about the pathological and pervasive hatred of the feminine was also very insightful...it also explains a lot! In the end we are all to blame.
Yeses! I LOVE feminine men , they make the world a better place. Which is probably why there's a billion dollar industry invested in sterilising them all and turning them into lifelong medical patients. 🤔
Bethany Scherette I thought I was the only one to catch John quote Mithrandir. Only a true Lord of the Rings fan could do so! I thought I was smitten by John before but now I am truly head over heels.
@@ansukadalabehera8204 the question was "does your milkshake bring the boys to the yard" and John's response was more than a yes it was very sophisticated and in John's nature to say "no. my caviar (equivalent to milkshake) brings the lords (boys) to the court (yard)"
Honestly, as a woman I've been shamed all my life for not being "feminine". I've been called despectively "too aggressive", conflictive", "too much", " men dont like women like me", "intimidating", and so on, because I stand up for myself and dont put up with bs. I've effectively ended up believing that I'm never going to find a partner that's going to put up with all my "too much-ness".
Don't think that. You just have not met someone who balances you. With the right man you will allow him to be more dominant and it not feel like you're sacrificing who you are at all
@@josephdiab3010 It's how they pronounce film in Ireland. In his earlier videos he has a stronger Irish accent rather than this fancy English sounding one.
He must ve been that type of student who , when got asked by teacher a question he didnt know , he went around the question , gave a full answer that has nothing to do with the actual question and still convince the teacher he was 100% precise and correct
The answer to “for not being manly” question is so spot on! The best thing I heard in my life, such a powerful answer 👏🏽👏🏽 Sending some love to y’all from Sweden 🇸🇪 ❤️
*“Because my iPad has gone missing. I don’t know where. So once I have finished today, I’m going to individually contact each of my friends, -even the ones that are DEAD- and accuse each and everyone of them of THEFT. Now my iPad is probably in my bag or something, but, I might as well accuse all of them. It’ll give them something to do.”* I wasn’t ready for this 😂😂😂
John, not to say that you would, but, please never delete this. This is the only video I need to show my son as he grows into his formative years. We indeed live in rather strange times and confronting the hostility towards femininity with intellectual acuity and passion is the only way we will convey what needs to be heard. May you remain profound and prosperous now and forevermore. Happy birthday, as well xo
Absolutely. I'll be doing the same for my son as he grows older. God knows he'll need it, the way gender ideology is being force fed to kids at school.
John, I saved this video five years ago, and I come back to it every time I need to recenter myself. It always helps me achieve that goal. You address the hatred of the feminine so succinctly; when the world wears me down, your words build me back up. Your leadership is very much appreciated. Thank you.
What spf do you wear? "Haute Couture" "That great big shiny ogre is not going anywhere near me" *middle finger* WELL DAMN I STAN OUR CLASSY IMMORTAL LORD JOHN MACLEAN
13:13 This man is a treasure to all of humanity. I just can’t even with his responses to a gay bar and gay men being super fem around him. ❤❤❤❤Slay queen John we love you!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
"I have the ability to give in depth and thorough answers to questions without actually answering the question. I would make a great politician" The SHADE💅
I wish I had found John back when I was teaching sociology. I could have used this when talking about the sociology of gender expression and sexuality.
The manner of speaking takes me back to Victorian era where words are of quality and very dignified. This is very therapeutic actually, his voice is enticing like music to the ear, his wisdom and convictions are motivating❤
I have only just recently discovered you, and am in awe. You have a beautiful exterior, but even more importantly, a beautiful interior- and a delicious sense of humour! I teared up a bit when you were on about self confidence and the value of the feminine. Always be your wonderful and unusual self! Looking forward to your new posts.
"No...but my caviar brings all the Lords to the Court" is high class while "Does your milkshake bring all the boys to the yard," is ghetto? Is that right? LOL!!