Question Your Childhood Experiences and Rebuke Everything So You Can be Your Authentic Self 

It's amazing when your not sad anymore,you don't care about what others including family are doing. You only care about yourself. Letting go of everyone that was toxic in my life was the most freeing feeling. My mind for the first time in my life is strong and not bombarded with tons of nonsense or irrational thoughts. I don't worry anymore. I just leave everything in God's hands. I no longer care that most people don't like me including my own child. Now that I feel this way and I no longer need anyone's approval or validation, this makes my mind strong and freeing. I no longer tolerate drama or bullying from family.

When you control your perceptions and the reality you wish to be in your mind, it allows change inside of you and it allows you to not care anymore about others ignorance or the things around you. This also happens when you listen and observe others and not react to them. This also happens when you start controlling your emotions. When you have the right mindset it allows you to focus what's within and you start learning to heal the inner child .

It's such a blessing when you break through that toxic cycle it does take you to a place of questioning your own sanity but it's worth every minute of it

I really want this to sink in.

I love this dose of healthy thinking and the reminders of what self-worth looks like in our daily lives. Thank you Lisa.

Lisa, you truly are a joy to listen too. Funny this, I have been subscribed to you for a while, have known of you for a while (through a program I did, millionaire within her!) Yet, this is the first real listening I've done, definitely meaniful right now for me, I believe this. So... because of this. Thankyou, for all you do. Namaste wise lovely soul 💞

I struggle with what I want to do..often times feeling stuck. My mother wouldn't allow me to do any extracurricular activities as a child. Anything I asked to do she would knock it down. I remember I was really, really flexible as a little kid. Maybe up to 4 years old or 5 years old. I would flip through out the house like a gymnast. My mom wouldn't put me in dance classes or anything. I think I was in one and she pulled me out. I eventually hurt myself real bad back flipping in my aunt's home. I guess that was the end of that. I love stories like Simone Biles whose grandparents said she was also full of energy and her grandparents took that energy and put her into gymnastics. Now she is one of the best. My mom wasn't supportive of me doing any childhood activities unless it was playing outside, playing with Friends etc. But wouldn't do extracurricular stuff or school activities with me. I remember the last school activity she let me participate in was a dance number and we marched in a parade. She didn't even show up to support me. At this time in my life I was being bullied severely. Children would always attack me. Always had to switch schools..I mean imagine being able to feel the hate, animosity, and dislike from other children towards you? I hated going to school because it was so stressful for me. We were poor so I often went to underfunded public schools in the hood. All these children wanted to do is fight and bully or make fun of you if you didn't have the latest pair of tennis shoes. My skin was too dark, I wasn't deemed beautiful, didn't dress cool, and I had a mother who couldn't be bothered being excited doing things for her daughter. She was however excited doing what she wanted to do for me. Never supportive of what I wanted..she was also a bully. She would nitpick with me constantly..my older cousin said she would scream at me alot..of course I was a nervous and timid child by a certain age based on the at home bullying and at school bullying. Anytime I asked for something I would be yelled at or told I didn't need it. I remember my Aunt one day yelling at my mother because I asked her for something and she had told me no..my was telling her she needed to get it because I was a good kid and never asked for anything. I even remember being bullied by certain family members who were older than me or called ugly by them..I remember wanting to do with the othe kids did and my mom constantly trying to block me by saying you don't have to do everything they do. Which is true but that's not why she was saying this. Again she wasn't supportive and as I got older this was her response to anything I did or wanted to do for myself. I hated my childhood for the longest..I have some good memories but will never forget the bullying and the feeling of not belonging, not having, not feeling good enough also not feeling protected. Because of this the little girl in me took her two kid's and moved out of that very toxic community

Thank you for speaking slowly, gently and clearly to my soul.

Social conditioning still exists, and compliance is demanded. We move from parental influence into societal control. Making our own way is limited and must conform to what civilized existence allows, no matter where we live on this planet. Except maybe a rain Forrest. And even then, the demands of survival reign.

Hopeful tears. ❤

You change my entire life years ago, some of these terms I didn't know about and you clarify everything to you I am grateful.

Thank you so much for what you share with the world! I needed this - you are right. It wasn't an accident. Thank you!!!

Thank you for sharing this, Lisa! I needed it. You have a beautiful soul ❤️! You're an angel 😇 on Earth 🌎. Your videos really help me cope. Many blessings to you and your family in the New Year! 🙏🎆❣️😊✌️🙌🍾🎇

Fantastic video, spot on. Thank you so much for channeling pure wisdom for us, Lisa. SO helpful.

Beautiful and much needed information. Thank you!

You have been such a tremendous blessing to me. You are loved Lisa. Blessings!

Gee whiz; I haven’t watched this yet though the title alone is an amazing message!! Excited to watch This video and see what’s the meat and potatoes here with your words lovely Lisa!

Thank you for saving my life

Thank you for saving me

Thank you so much Lisa! You've taught me so much and I have been practicing everything you said with respect to dealing with narcissist! It has worked like a charm! I'm back on deck and ready for the New Year! Once again, thank you for all you do and have a wonderful New Year 💝💝💝💝💝💝💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

This is such a great message! Soul freeing! I have been in the grips, seeking approval of Siblings whom I Finally understand will never give love. I have been in bondage, taking days to recover every time I see them. Lisa your messages lay it out so clearly. Thank you Dear One!!🥰

Thank you; I need to hear that!

GBU and your family

Great way to live. For the betterment in one's entire life.

sound needs to be louder... the open is too loud in comparison HANG IN THERE, FOLKS.. at the 12 minute mark (soon thereafter) it gets back to normal. Thanks, Lisa! Happy New Year!

What a beautiful meassage. Thank you, Lisa! 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you Lisa.

Namaste ❤ Thank you Lisa.

You go Joshua! I feel the same way!!! 🙏🦋😍

Beautiful hear! So true 💯! 🙏❤️

Thankyou so much ❤

Great book!!❤❤❤

Very nicely done new opening. Good job!

I appreciate you Doctor. Happy New Year!

Just keeping it real. What kind of a God would say you are here to repair all the damage from the family that I put you into. If that is what heaven is like, you can count me out; I would rather stay dead.

Thanks!

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Mind, a beautiful servant, but a terrible Master.

Sound is very low today. Checked my settings. 🤷🏼‍♀️🙏🏼❤️

I am not the same since beginning last year your classes/ i am ready fof soul school

Could you make the sound a little louder?

Change Step? 2

audio probs w this one Lisa >.

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