Questions Women Have Always Wanted to ask Men | With The Guys 

It's so refreshing to see Lornzie in charge! You should do it more often...

I love Eli’s confidence, how Oscar is so self aware and Georgie for being so articulate! Thanks for sharing your experiences. Much love to you girls- dream team🌹

LORNA is INCHARGE! I'm here for it ! 🙌

Lorna moderating the episode 💉💉 the energy >>> we need more 🥰

I’m on min 2 and I LOVE Lorna’s energy on this episode!!!!! Yaaay 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I find Koome too surface and philosophical. He says what he thinks women want to hear. His ideologies would not work in the real world and are often impractical.

Oscar is a misunderstood genius. There are so many men like him. People should stop criticizing him because he sees things different. We can't all have the same perspective about life . let the man be ffs

I feel like the episodes with men are usually the best ones, please make them more.. As a man I love seeing us being represented by sober men ..

If I was a dude, I'd aspire to be like Georgie. Dude is the definition of a quintessential modern man!

The age difference between the guys and ladies is really showing. Guys wameiva theory but kwa ground everything isn't practical

wah 🤣Jules and Ivy kept checking out. its been long since I've seen Jules this bored

When Ivy said to Lornzie "you'd be on a journey" 😂😂😂

Every time I see Ivy and hear her point of view of relationships.. it makes me know and feel that she is on a great journey of not taking bullshit!! AND I LOVE IT! whatever you are going through May you find the strength to persevere and to make it out stronger!! ❤️❤️

Oscar goes deep to quick. He is not able to stay at the superficial level in answering questions and thus throws people of a lot because the reference points are not communicated in the process of answering.

Ivy was so intense in this episode...and clearly wasn't feeling most of the responses from the guys.

I honestly find Oscar over ambitious.. Eli is just amazing he thinks before he speaks which is awesome... George is 👌👌👌always..

Ndirangu and Jules could make a great couple 🥰🥰❤️

Why do I feel like Ivy is sooooo over Oscar?

I think Eli requires specific values from his partner to be able to commit to them. and until he meets that person, he is fine being alone. which in my opinion is realistic. Praying he finds that person.

Ladies with no income have no business dating as well. Ma'am just get your ish together first! Am i the only one that caught that? 😅

Lorna's intro🔥energy🔥great conversation.And yes, nagging makes men leave the house, come late etc. For sure. Even the Bible states in proverbs that you rather as a man spend time on the rooftop or in a lion's den than with a nagging woman🤣

Oscar's compliments throw the ladies off in a good way. From last week's episode it was Jules. This week Lornzie was stunned when he mentioned the top...

35:33 Don't shame Lornzie for cursing bratha...the girls have created a fully expressive space and we love itttt!!!! No take backs.

I am curious!! What is Eli looking for?? Coz I thought I had * check boxes * but I think, HE is the SOURCE of check boxes!!! Georgie says a lot without saying much…beautiful mind, love it.

The way Eliiiii talks 😍and not just the words or the accent but the deliberate and thoughtful way he speaks... So attractive😘👌

Georgie is a national treasure!!

About cohabitation, it is no longer considered as legal marriage after a certain number of years. The matrimonial act was revised. You are either customarily married, with proof of payment of dowry and witnesses, and/or you are married under statutory law (where we sogn certificates in church or at Sheria house) If you are married and acquire property together, no party is allowed to sell without the other party's consent. That'll be null and void. So if you are cohabiting, make sure that you are well protected in terms of property acquired by both of you. Or in case someone dies intestate, and dependants appear, with proof that they were dependant on the person who died, the property is divided into per unit. If married under statutory law, where you've signed the certificate, the other woman/man is not considered as married to the dead party, so he/she will not acquire any property but children born out of this, will get something because they are considered as innocent.

Slowly seeing the disappointment growing in the girl's faces 😂😂

You can't look for traits of a stable relationship from 40 year old married couples it's a complete journey you just have to be ready to be with this individual and the 40 years should tell you that value built it took that long #mythoughts

Oscar Koome is very theoretical- says the right things- or knows the right things that need to be said, it would be interesting to see this applied in his practical life else its all just virtue signaling

The body language of the ladies when men were talking says a lot. Also research shows that men over estimate themsleves. Contributes to why they take many bad /dangerous risks

I totally like Oscar and I don't think he's trying too hard... I just think he's responding according to the phase of life that he's currently at.... it feels honest... loving all the guys tho, great episode

The male version of Ivy will go well with shikky

Gosh just listening to these gents makes me realize how much males and females actually think differently..and it takes intentional effort to make each other happy..in a friendship/relationship etc..

Growing up in a perfect family is a blessing in disguise 😂 the kind of boxes we have to tick is extensive. I feel Eli.

I swear you can just tell that Ivy is not feeling Oscar's opinions 🤣🤣🤣🤣 or I'm i over observing?

Stop looking at everyone as a potential spouse.....I am taking that with me

I've always loved How Ivy sees things,and how she interprets stuff!! Real AF!! Also, George is phenomenal!!!

Also the second question was 'Is it really hard to have a platonic relationship with women?' And they discussed it widely but didn't really answer the question...my point is, in future episodes could the moderator try to prevent this digressions? Coz I personally would love to hear their views on the questions asked directly before they go to the peripherals.

"Your job as a man is not to redirect but to observe and support"Alot of men need to understand that👏👏👏

Oscar's thought process is impeccable. 'Rediscover your partner, observe and support them', such a self aware man!!!! He is deep. Some of us appreciate such qualities. We can't all want the same thing. Let the man be.

Why do men feel uncomfortable when ladies say about them wanting sex ir refering to it as having sex.... They want it to be marrinated with sijui making love.... Guys it is coz of what you are dishing out, out here is sex...You don't want emotional connection, you don't want to be there before the next physical catching up basically sex but you still want it romanticized after that. Let me just say women stopped sugar coating things until the whole experience is leveled up to involve everything.

Lornzie did a great job moderating the episode. Also she looks so cute😍

You meet a girl, start a crazy pursuit, create certain expectations in the girl, then when she says yes, the consistency and expectations end. This is duplicitous and insincere. I'd rather you leave the girl alone from the beginning. Also, men should be more honest about their expectations in relationships instead of tagging some poor girl along for n+ years, and when asked, they act surprised when their partners ask for a ring. Communicate your intentions early so that people know what's happening and they can plan ahead.

Lornzie is a viiiiiiiiiibee

I want to ask how the 'journey' is going, but I won't 😂

I think Eli's challenge is that he is looking for what his parents have and he isnt able to pull away and allow himself to have an experience thats not similar or aligned to it.

I love you guys 😍.... keep doing what you are doing. So happy lornzie is chatty today😉

❤️❤️🥰. Just a suggestion…. How about a round table or a setting where you all are facing each other while having conversations🤪. 🥰🥰🥰

It's Lorna's fashion sense for me,it's just on another level ❤️

Lorna is always the quiet one and I love that she is in charge.

I align with Oscar's thought process. He probably shares the same ideologies with alot of forward thinking men. He's articulate. I think Eli and George mostly give "politically correct" answers.

I have enjoyed Lorna being a moderator today please give us more of her.

Lonzie Is 🔥🔥Uve Directed The Show Very Well..

Being in my late 20s and listening to women in their 30s reasoning makes me get so interested in older women.

invite Kibe,ya'll are not getting answers you are looking for

Bro said, “ yo I got a nipple piercing” and all the girls froze. I froze too. It’s clearly a boundary unmarked.

Lornzie's loctician understands their assignment 👌👌

My now wife, was super drunk, and she was dancing on a pillar at blue times, I missed that place when it closed hahaha. We were in a group and everyone was trying to find a dude to buy them drinks and grinding on everything with a crotch and this chic was just grinding on a pillar hahahahahaha and just like that I was hooked completely, she still dated some guy for two and a half years, alinikataa yawa, juu ako na mtu, and just like that I was completely and unconditionally in love with this crazy tiny person. Now over 7 years sober, tired of booze, an epic son

My monday low-key starts after watching over25 channel

I loved the last conversation with the boys and see you guys brought them back💗. I love loving you girls 😘❤️

Honestly, these guys are not realistic!

Oscar is a textbook person. Lol. It looks as though he speaks in logic and philosophy. Lool. A lawyer indeed. I still believe he's a soffttiiee at heart and he's so protective of who he will allow in his space up to a point of vulnerability. Eli knows what he wants. He knows and he doesn't want to play around or try to see. He wants to see, then commit. No unnecessary heartaches. I'm with him on this. Georgie is just phenomenal!

We miss you girlies!!!! This was a beautiful era😍

Oscar is such a vibe!!!makes one feel some type of way😊😊

You guys are scrutinizing Eli for nothing. I totally can relate. Sometimes even finding that person you are sure of not marrying can be difficult juu unapata tu watu wa upuzi. Soft people like Eli can be taken advantage of easily in relationships. Plus there are people who fear the " Let's try and see where it goes" It could land you in trouble in future. You rather stay single than date for the sake of dating. Some people are still figuring out even their sexuality for God's sake🤣.

I F'ING LOVE IVY AND THE WAY SHE CARRIES HERSELF 😍😍 confident strong queen

Wueh! Loving the new intro🔥🔥not me rewinding to watch it again😍. Warembo always on point💯. Interesting men guests. My Monday just got brighter🌞.Nawapenda tu bure😘.

these dudes make the ladies sound taliban🤣🤣

hahaha Eli!!!! ??? do you want us to exhibit traits of a woman you want to marry or be in a 40 year long term relationship just so you can be with us now? Abeg give us a break hahaha we just want to be. Please ask your parents if they were who they are now.

This comment section is vibes😂😂💯

I am more of Jules & Ivy's personality....so when someone with Lornzie's personality is in charge .....I just love it!.... Lornzie, great job❤️👏

Human relationships are interesting because we are all not the same and we were brought up differently. How we wee raised really affects how we perceive , give and receive love and the kind of a partner we chose for ourselves. People who were brought up in love like Eli are hard to find a partner because they have an idea of what love actually is and they tend to find themselves in healthier relationships. I know someone who has resolved to never get married because her parents’ marriage is so perfect she has already decided that she can’t find someone to match it up with her. But most of us were brought up in dysfunctional families and we need to heal before entering in relationships and that’s what Oscar is big on . If I date a guy for two years and there are no marriage plans in the pipeline, I’d definitely ASK because nowadays, I personally don’t use assumptions. Let the person verbalize their intentions and expectations Also, I was super excited to meet George and Eli juzi, humble and awesome guys even kwa ground

Happy Valentine's day to Eli only..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Amazing content ladiessss, however, the first question was, 'If they were female would they date who they are right now?'...and they didn't answer that, I was looking forward to their answers. Love you guys so much

My heart skipped a beat when he said Bachata and Kizomba..

I'd like to have Georgie back. I like that he's lived some. Has been really hit by life and come back from it. I relate to him better.

I agree with Oscar. Ladies look like a billion bucks!❤️ Never heard of man talk community but now I do. Keep doing the great work Kings!

Ivy to Lorna: "you'd be on a journey" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 dead

@jules telling Eli that he won't get what he's looking for wasn't cool. There are people with fewer boxes to be ticked & yet they haven't found the one. He clearly knows exactly what he wants & in most cases the wait is worthy.

That first question set a good pace for sure, i was hooked(not that i wouldn't be). I loved how the girls answered it

I love watching this channel. I love the way you dont give people pressure of life by showing of what you have and where you are in life, but you are here to tackle and talk about thing that people go through day to day in life and i love that about you guys Your personal life is your personal life your achievements and all. Atlist you have made it clear in this channel that pressures of life is everywhere and no one lives a perfect life . It doesn't matter where you are or what you have.

Am I the only one hoping that Georgie and Jules connect? They would make such a cute couple 💖💖

I'm here revising notes!!! I can't fumble my man my man my man😅😍

It's lovely to have the 3 men on the show. However I don't think they represent the views of the average African man. They are the ideal man. I wish you could bring on more relatable everyday African man.

Lorna's look is fire!!!! Plus she did an awesome job today!!

A very calm episode.. No talking over each other like you do sometimes, thanks to lornzie for moderating . Anyways very insightful 😊

Benjamin zulu said something very nice. Having projects together makes you closer

When Ivy asked, "how would they know?" and Lornzie said "... Coz they're men" 🤣🤣

Jules and Georgie :)

😂😂😂😂Ivy and Jules. Your faces are speaking while your mouths are quiet🤫.

I liked the other set of boys better, Akina Shiv, Bien and the IT guy.

Who's here just bcz they missed over 25😭

Jules is giving us life with that face, Simple Beat for the gwadz! 😊❤️

Oscar's points👏👏👏💯

I love lornzie

That man in maroon is a red flag Jules, shame you wouldnt date a jobless woman. Knowing how hard it is to get a job

Ivy didn't like this conversation one bit. Good job director Lorna

It lornzie time.. yeeeeeeey..I love that she lead this

This was Oscars comeback after his over excitement last session