I'm taking care of my husband for the past 9 years, he is in dialysis and during these years he had a lot of other health complications. Sometimes between my job, my husband and raising a teenager, I feel overwhelmed, but I noticed that watching makeup tutorials help me to relax. Thanks!
I'm glad you find this relaxing Alicia, you certainly do have a full plate! Regarding your teenager - I raised a teenage boy alone, and I have to say that he turned out to be one of the most responsible people I know, (I know you're not alone in that same sense). We cooked together, and he helped around the house, we learned to use a drill and tools together lol! I guess my point is, you don't always have to give the impression that you can do it all, let your child know what help you need. Wishing you and your family all the best! x
I have 10 children from 42 to 21 and 5 grandchildren. There are always so many needs and there are days that we need to downtime. Love for all included ourselves. Love to you dear one
Kerry-Lou, I felt as if you were speaking directly to me. First I want to say I'm so happy your Mama is feeling better! My elderly Mom fell and broke her hip in Aug. She and my dad still live independently so I've been caring for her as much as possible. Then last month, my wonderful, kind, beautiful husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. This was such DEVASTATING news, as he is my world. We have 2 boys, aged 19 & 12, and it was so hard telling them this news. My husband is going thru very aggressive chemo treatments, and I am grateful for being able to be his caregiver. But I am exhausted, physically and mentally. I love your advice about asking for help. Also, thank you for the wonderful tutorial. I've been living in sweat pants, no makeup, and hair in ponytail for too long. I feel so drab. I really needed this pick me up that you gave us. Thanks again! Your friend, Stacy ❤❤
I am so sorry to hear of what you are going through Stacy, I cannot even imagine how it is for you right now. Somehow we are given the strength we need at times like this, (from God, the universe, whatever your faith) You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Much love, Kerry-Lou x
You are so right! It seems that in my 60s & retired, my life has sped up instead of slowing down & relaxing. Helping my sister with our mom, my husband's mom is almost needing more help, my grown kids needing favors & then my beautiful granddaughters needing me more now since they are growing into young women. My poor husband, he seems to get forgotten about, lol. Besides helping with our aging parents, we need to learn how to say no more often, especially if it's not major. OK, stepping off my soap box. I relax watching your videos & learning from them. My "me" time comes 3 times a week for an hour at the gym. And funny, a trip to the grocery store, I now consider it "me" time, lol. So glad you're healthy, home & doing a new video. I love a 5 minute makeup routine.
Hi Jackie, wow you certainly are a busy lady, thanks for the wise advice. Yes to saying no sometimes! I feel the same about the grocery store, especially when I can get a conversation going while waiting for my cold cuts LOL! All the best to you and yours! xx
I know all about 5 minute makeup routines although I think yours is much better than mine. I adore your lipstick which gave an instant lift. Carer here from mid 20's for my daughter, and now I also help my mother when needed (95) and grandmother to a busy little ADHD grandson. I have only recently subscribed and am really enjoying your channel.
Thank you for another uplifting video, Kerry-Lou! It's lovely to acknowledge caregivers! Being a caregiver is one of the hardest things we can do, so quick self care that helps caregivers relax and feel more beautiful is perfect!
Thank you for the caregiver shout out. I'm a healthcare professional in a large level one trauma hospital. I go minimum on makeup at work but try to make a little effort so I don't look like I'm dragging. I wear scrubs and a mask but I still feel better with a little bit of makeup. My friends and I love you and your videos. Thank you.
You just made me feel better. I have been taking care of my bedridden 88 year old father who had heart failure last Dec. 14. I do the night shift because I am both a professor and a PhD student in a state university. I am lucky to have my aunt for the day shift. My energizers are 30 minute morning walk, once a week belly dancing class and of course make up sessions before class. Thank you
Oh, what a strong women you are, so sorry for what you're going through, you've got a lot going on! Belly dancing - LOVE IT! shake out that stress baby!! Thanks for sharing how you cope Joseny, this is really helpful. All the best to you and your family.
I have been dealing with sick adult children and had to care for my grandkids. I have not worn makeup like I normally do..most of the time it’s a messy bun and no makeup. This video was so much needed! Thank you :)
I'm sorry to hear that. I know many of us are doing the bun, no makeup thing lately, but I know you'll be back on top soon like the glamour queen you are soon enough! Much love to you and your family xx
I am an RN for a retirement community. it has been hectic of late and I have been rushing and not been able to give self love that is much needed. Thank you for these tips to help me feel a bit of love for myself....we all need it :)
Wonderful your Mom is doing well and she has a family who loves her. My Mother-In-law is 94 and surrounded with much loving family. God Bless you and your family ❤️
I have been taking care of my exhusband for two months he was in a auto accident and could not be alone - in and out of hospitals!! - its exhausting - watching makeup videos has been a great diversion :)
I'm glad it helped somewhat, my heart goes out to you. There's a light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there! And like I said, try to get some help if possible. Hope he gets well soon, best wishes to you xx
Thanks so much Mary, That's why it's like a gift when you experience just a little of what these everyday heroes go through daily - only then are we are able to experience empathy. xx
I’m 74 and while both of my parents have been gone for many years, I’m now taking care of my husband who has dementia. He takes care of himself and our 2little dogs, but relies on me for being there. He doesn’t like to go out because he doesn’t want to be in a strange place even though he has been there before. I do go places on my own, but about an hour or so after being away, he calls to see if I’m on my way back. I don’t begrudge him doing this as there will come a time when he won’t remember me or “us”. Of course, caregivers do need a break and I’m glad for and hour here or there, but dread the day I’ll have all the time and no husband to share it with.
Thanks so much! I don't wear makeup every single day, but it sure does make me feel better when I do! If you want to start using makeup again, don't get complicated, perhaps start with concealer, cream blush and lip tint :-D
Kerry Lou I loved this video so much. I am 69 and my mom is 91 today. Sadly we are making arrangements for hospice due to this horrific pandemic. I never thought that this day would come…..love your mama up and thank u for a very necessary video. You are so beautiful….your hair, your makeup, and your sweater match your walls and bedding perfectly! Thank u for helping me not to cry for a few minutes. ❤️🙏❤️
Aw, Denise, I am so sorry. So many of my peers are going through similar situations. It's bad enough when our parents are on the decline naturally, but Covid has made it a hundred times worse for everyone. Praying for strength for you and your family during this tough time. Much love xox
First I didn't know, why RU-vid recommended me your channel. I'm not quite the age your subscribers seems to be in. But I'm so happy I found this channel! I love your tutorials. You do such soft and elegant looks. And you're so knowledgeable, how to use different products and brushes. Your tips are much more useable for everyday than most of the hacks younger beauty youtubers, tiktokers or insta influencers show. And you're so unbelievable beautiful!
Dear Kerry-Lou, I really like your holistic approach to self-care and good health when it comes to our appearance. Your reminders are always timely and greatly appreciated. Please continue to take good care of yourself too. Love &thanks from Sydney Australia. ❤🐨
Thanks Kerry-Lou for the chat & tutorial. Love watching you apply makeup! I’m a full-time carer and have found that walking in nature really helps me mentally & physically. And as you said, if you need a break or help ask. Great advice! Hope your mum’s doing OK now.
Thanks Maree, my mum has her ups and downs still. I was just there again a few weeks ago, but between me and my sisters we are managing. Glad you're taking care of yourself!
So glad ur mum.is improving & you could leave her in very capable hands. In 2019 I looked after my mum for 2 months while my brother who normally does most of her care, had pneumonia, & he himself was in hospital, so I along with family members were also visiting him, apart from raising four children, this was one of the hardest things I have had to do. My mum then was 84 & has heart problems, along with other health issues, I was SO worn out, my hand were so dry they cracked & bled, through washing them so often, even though I wore gloves alot of the time. I ended up in hospital with a brain infection, which put an abrupt end to my care giving. Thank goodness my brother was much improved by then & able to take over most of the care for mum, along with help from other family members. But like you Kerry Lou, it tought me a great appreciation for all the care givers out there, they really are hero's!!
Thanks for sharing your story Christine, I hope you are able to catch up on taking care of yourself now. Sounds like you have a great network of caring people around you - thank goodness! Takes a village as they say. All the best to you! x
Wow! Needed this. Hubby on disability for several years. And yes...kids moved back in, bringing 2 dogs and 2 cats. On the positive side, the chaos has livened up hubby's life. The downside is that I am exhausted and I still work full time. To say that I am tired is an understatement. But I also know that there are others who have gone thru so much more. Blessed to have a 81 year old Mama who can run circles around me...my greatest supporter! Love and prayers to all caregivers! You are not alone!
Ah, you are an angel - but yes, even angels need some TLC! Are you dividing up chores since your kids moved back in? Sometimes angels aren't good at cracking the whip lol! So glad that your mama is there for you. God gives strength when we need it, especially to caregivers! Love to you and your family xxx
New subscriber, 10 years younger...I too have curly greying hair. I have been struggling with feeling as though I am fading away, and noticing more skin changes and that the makeup I have is not really working for me. So this is a wonderful video for someone like me, thank you! I have also been finding fashion and style inspiration on your Instagram, healthy eating too... and in your videos so many wonderful tips for curly hair and styling it. So thank you very much. I am soaking it all up like a sponge. Best, Lynne
Hi, another fantastic video, sending love to you and your family, I hope your Mum's health improves. Reading all of the comments just makes me appreciate my parents who thankfully are in pretty good health, but having been witness to the decline of my Father in Law to dementia a few years ago I know what a sad, hard and difficult time this can be. Thank you for uniting caregivers through your lovely video and much love to all of your followers who are having a difficult time right now xxx
Thanks so much for your very thoughtful comment, and for sharing your own story too. My mum has here ups and downs, hopefully I can make a trip again soon. All the best to you and yours xxx
I’m so glad you were able to be there for your mother but I’m so glad you had the chance to recuperate and recharge at your sister’s home. As for recharging, my tried and true is a short nap 😊
Great tips on self care and I love the 5 minute makeup! I’ve never heard of Trestuwue but that Eye crayon with the brush looks awesome! Take care beautiful Kerri Lou ❤️
I had my dad who had cancer and Alz and I lost caregiver help during the pandemic. I had to take a leave of absense from work to care for him. It was a constant 24 hour thing. For a year, I stopped skincare and wearing makeup. I was too tired and didn't care anymore. That was a mistake. Even 5 minutes will at least make the person feel...less lost. We need that self-pampering. When he died, I had to start reclaiming myself. My face is mad at me for having to get used to the retinol again. :)
I can't even imagine what you went through - you really are a super-hero! I was only taking care of my mum for a week and I felt like you did - what a wimp I am! But this was enough of an experience to know what you and many women have gone through in an extreme way. It's very easy to abandon any grooming rituals during that, but I'm glad your getting back to caring for yourself. I'm sure you know this, but regarding the Retinol, start with once a week, and gradually increase over time. You can mix it with a little basic moisturizer also. All the best to you x
Thank you Kerrie-Lou. I have been watching your tutorials for some time now, without commenting - not much time! I so appreciate your gentle and kind approach - it is very endearing and helpful to a worn out soul. I am 65 years old and in a similar situation to yourself and relate to just about everything you say. I live in Sydney Australia and it does indeed feel as though you are a "friend". Thank you. Glenda
Thanks so much for introducing yourself Glenda, nice to e-meet you ;-D Almost everyone I know has something going on, which is intensified because of Covid. Hang in there! Best, KL x
Hi Kerry Lou-wonderful video! I think most of us have been caregivers so we understand. I’m glad you updated us on what’s going on with you. I missed your videos. Thank you for recognizing caregivers. Best wishes and continue to take care of yourself.❤️
You are a gorgeous and classy lady. I know how hard is to take care of a love one. I took care of my mother. She was dying of terminal cancer and it was a period of 5 sad and difficult months. Hardly any sleep and or rest. I have no regrets. God blessed me with being able to stay home and take care of her. But at times I just needed someone to share a cup of coffee and talk for a little bit. God Bless you and glad to hear your mom is doing well.
Thanks so much for sharing - hearing experiences like yours really helps people know they can get through challenging times and emerge strong. All the best to you and your family. xx
So glad your Mum is doing well, lovely that you still have her in your life. Great easy tute as always Kerry-Lou. Makeup is such an fantastic pick me up and you're right look great, feel great. Take care 'till next time xx
Hi Jen, she has he ups and downs, I am so grateful to my sisters, and will try to get over again when this latest Covid peak subsides. Glad you liked this - I hope all is well with you! xx
Thank you for recognizing caregivers. I take care of my Mom and yes the lack of sleep has wreaked havoc with my eyes and skin! The dark circles under my eyes are not attractive! Im definitely going to do this makeup look. Thanks so much!
Hahahaha, you are such a darling...I love to hear your voice. So glad to hear your mom is fine now 💕 absolutely liked the quick makeup session. I too am a total believers in giving time to oneself. I love to dress-up make up and then i light candles with my favourite music and a glass of single malt 🥃 or beer if it's too hot... life is precious each one of us should appreciate it, no matter what... It's so so nice to see you after so long... Take care dear...stay safe 💕💕💕💕
Being a caregiver is very hard. After my husband had open heart for 3 months I had to take care of him like he was a baby cause he had many complications but I did it and never did ask for help as thats not my way.Now I'm caring for my 17 1/2 year old cat who has health issues.I'm so glad your Mom is doing better.You look fabulous and your hair is stunning. I wish I had your hair. I have to keep it very short so it looks thicker.I think I need to try that foundation.The entire look is so pretty. xoCathy
Always great to hear from you Cat - That must have been a very tough and emotional time for you and your husband. Thanks for your kind thoughts re my mother, she has her ups-and-downs. If it wasn't for COVID, I would visit again now. I have to wait until this spike goes down. Glad you liked this look, I do love the foundation - has an spf of 50 too! xxx
Hi Kerri Lou, You are beautiful and have a beautiful soul! Giving a shout out to all caregivers was wonderful! It's so hard to watch our loved ones growing older and change. I'm very happy your mum is doing better! Love this tutorial and you, too! Many Blessings! ~Sarah~💕
Just found your video. I will be 62 this year - looking to semi retire. I don't do make but had a friend who was doing their cosmetology certification and she did fake lashes on me. I loved them. I do wear glasses - can't see close up without them. I would love to see you do a video on putting on the magnet lashes. I am not confident on doing the eye liner
My husband had a stroke and needs a little more help now, so I'm the caregiver. I need to figure out how to have some ME time. Great tips for when you just need a little coverage!!! Love your hair!!!
Thanks so much - So sorry for this hard time you're going through - let someone know you need some ME time, it's surprising how little time it takes to rebound! Hope your husband gets stronger soon. All the best to you both xx
Very good video! I especially like the quick easy way we can look our best everyday. I have the L’Oreal crème and really like it. It’s just the right coverage. Thanks.
I so enjoyed this video....and I can't help but notice your hairband-hairstyle. It looks different than the "braided hair band" video you created..... Curious how/what you did there. Love, love, love...... Thanks for sharing.
I agree.. being a caregiver is incredible and hard. I took care of my dad for 2 years prior to his death and the stress was brutal. You become invisible and a blur. Now I am 75..very active and in good health, I think, but just started feeling some aches and pains I never had and it scares me to death. I think I need those self care steps more than ever now!! ..so, yes, caregiving is hard and needs to be more balanced with self care… but it works that way for the other person being cared for as well! You can’t care for others or ANYTHING if you don’t care for yourself. Why do we make this a character flaw? 🙄🤷♀️ I recently said no to a family event and The backlash was head spinning. Selfish? Wow! There has to be a way for the “giving till I drop dead” group to find some balance-and have some understanding that self care is not withholding. Life is complicated enough.
Thanks for your very thoughtful comment. I'm glad that you're taking care of yourself! I know what you mean about those aches and pains - I have to stretch before I get out of bed! Regarding setting boundaries, women especially are not so good at this typically. YOU have learned through your life experience that it is a necessity - this is an evolved way of thinking, and not everyone's there yet, hopefully your family will catch up soon! All the best to you! xx
Interesting where you placed your eye shadow. And that you didn’t use any shadow on the lid itself. Was that just to save time, or does not putting shadow on the lid help lift hooded eyelids perhaps? I am your age and have extremely small eyes, plus hooded eyelids. I therefore have a terrible time with eyeshadows making my eyes look smaller and/or too heavy/made up looking. Even light taupes make me look like my eyes are bruised! I cringe every time I start to apply eyeshadows because of these probs. So frustrating. I have dark brown hair and skin tone is a light beige color. I’m going to buy this shadow in the same color you’re using here and use your technique. Wish me luck! Thank you!
Thanks for your question Sandra - There are different ways of dealing with the age spots. I prefer to use a light textured foundation, and then choose a concealer that's an exact match for the age spots, (I like Ilea beauty's concealer, or Bobbi Brown) OR some like to use a full coverage foundation, like the one from ILMakiage I am going to be trying that one soon! All the best to you! xx
Thanks for watching! This particular L'Oreal formula is supposed to have a dewy look, and I found that it did last well. If you don't like such a shiny look I would suggest the L'Oreal True Match Super Blendable Foundation, I have also found a great loose powder by ELF which would go great with it! Good luck!
Your hair and the color is gorgeous! I am 57 and tired of blonde eyes. Is your color all your own or have you added shades? I am going for the big change and your input would be so appreciated🍷
Thanks so much! My color is natural. It will be exciting to see how your hair looks when it grows out, every head of hair is wonderfully unique! If you are on Instagram, there is a great hashtag to follow #grombre which will show you thousands of examples of women transitioning to gray! Good luck to you!
thank you! It's hard to describe - it's one of those zig-zag clear plastic things that form a circle if you know what I mean - I think I got it from the drugstore. I'll have to show it in a video one day, because it does come in handy!
