r/BadMensAnatomy - ✨Sexism Bingo✨ is Back 

I'm happy to see that the internet doesn't understand how men work either! This is true equality 👏

I remember hearing a story where a guy, who was diagnosed with breast cancer, tried to join a support group for breast cancer. The group (all women) kicked him out because “men can’t get breast cancer”

It does prove that its not about men not knowing women, but a general lack of sex education on both sides of the aisle. And thats what is truly scary.

Uncircumcised shaming is the wierdest thing to me. "Your genitals weren't mutilated as an infant? Disgusting!"

All those “men can’t be sexually assaulted” people seem like they are trying to justify something. Absolutely disgusting behaviour.

Fun fact: Men can have a "biological response" to fear, among other things. So yes, actually, it's very possible to assault a man and no one man or woman has magical parts that turn off when you don't want it. He's not always having a response because he's attracted to you. The best policy is consent.

I studied sex crimes in law school. Incredibly UNfun fact: all sexes of SA victims’ bodies can “respond” when attacked, and it’s common for the victim to feel their body had “betrayed them.” When a vulva gets “wet” or a penis becomes erect in response to sexual stimulation, it’s actually a neutral thing. It doesn’t mean that stimulation is wanted or enjoyed. Just like how, conversely, you can enjoy or want sex but find your body doesn’t respond. It happens to all genders and bodies btw, ED it’s not only a penis thing. This is an unpopular take but it’s evidence-based and honestly, people just need to suck it up: to be 100% sure, sometimes you need to COMMUNICATE with WORDS to find out if something is wanted. There have been studies about how different genders tend to communicate consent- and the results are concerning. Women generally expect consent be communicated verbally and men generally expect consent to be communicated with “body language.” The obvious issue here is that when men and women have sex with each other, they come into the interaction often with those very different expectations. It’s not uncommon, in this dynamic, for a man to essentially see what he wants to see in a woman’s body language, when she fully expects there to be a conversation; from there, a few things could happen. There could just an awkward interaction due to the miscommunication, which ends up ironed out and fine. Or, if she gets surprised by his next presumptuous move, she could freeze (a common response when someone crosses a boundary and really scares you), and it’s possible, if he’s seeing what he wants to see, it could lead to a traumatic encounter for her, that he didn’t even realise was problematic. This happens. A lot. This is still r*pe. Hear me out- I’ll give an example that effects men next. Merely “giving in” Is explicitly not consent, according to law where I live. But, in places where the law is lagging behind, it’s important to know that this is, in truth how consent works. It’s both parties’ responsibility to check in with each other and make sure they actually WANT to be there. It’s just unfortunate that traditionally this hasn’t been taken seriously… even though it is. There are rarely consequences for the inconsiderate person who doesn’t even know what they’ve done but there are always consequences for the other person. At least, mental health-wise. This is just one of many obviously dangerous ways people make assumptions and people can get hurt. It’s similar to the bs assumption that men “always want sex.” This one gets men assaulted in the same way- a woman assumes he’ll like something because man, makes an unexpected move, and he freezes. From there, she’s already jumped to conclusions. If he doesn’t freeze, he might say he’s not keen, to which, someone who thinks men always want sex will say “what kind of a man are you?” or something else humiliating. Shaming someone like that, or any effort to ware someone down until they “give in,” also ensures that if the person eventually agrees, that won’t amount to consent. Consent is FREE agreement. Free of any convincing and manipulation. Some of these tropes are known as “r*pe myths” and there are a LOT of them. They’re common misconceptions and issues which actually make r*pe more likely to take place.

I'm so sick of anyone who says men don't get abused or whatever. I'm a man. I've been abused by my own mother. I exist, and I'm sick of getting invalidated. Thank you a lot for this beautiful video, Click.

The woman who wrote the "skin like pressed olives" line explained it! Ancient Greek didn't have many colour names, and pressed olive oil is typically more bronze than green. She was writing from the perspective of a Greek person of either the Golden or Mykenean age.

As a trans man, I can confirm that as soon as Testosterone touched my body all my mental trauma went away! It’s nice living as a man, since we cannot experience mental trauma

Oh man the condom one. There was a guy in class after the teacher did the condom demonstration with her arm “if he says he’s too big, run” and he just without looking up says “just because it CAN fit doesn’t mean it’s comfortable or healthy. Ever worn socks that are too small and too tight? That is the difference between getting poked on the arm and poked in the eye.”

I love how Click is finally calling BS on sexism against men. Over time, I have grown to trust Click's ability to loquate why things are problematic, so when I saw this, I was like, "This is gonna be a nice change of pace." Once I started, I realized that I legit didn't know some of this, and that I held some uneducated sexist beliefs. It was uncomfortable to be called out, but Click still tried to laugh about it and explain why things were wrong, which eased the whole process. Thank you Click, for making this video. I'm a better person for having stayed.

Funny fact. I am a trans woman and currently, my T levels are so low they are within the margin of error of the test for not existing. So, by that one person's weird 'if you have testosterone you are male' determination, I am entirely a woman! Thanks for the affirmation you weird random accidental ally!

I LOVE 'I only have sex at night when the sperm are asleep,' that is immensely entertaining 😂it makes it sound like he's keeping them as pets or something.

39:13 the thing about brains ceasing development until 25 is actually outdated information, human brains continue to change and develop throughout the course of your entire life; growing continually as you age until eventually it begins to deteriorate - and it can deteriorate or have developmental issues for an extremely vast number of reasons!

The Click intentionally traumatizing us so we'll buy his emotional support demon plush is a genius business maneuver.

Condom size is not a thing in the US. The "sizes" are like women's pants sizes. Lies that vary wildly from brand to brand. I was shocked , then "duh, makes sense" when I learned there were sizes that were measurable in other countries.

I always disliked the argument "men can't control themselves" when s/a happens. Like, bro, that is a human being. You are not only taking away their accountability for their own actions they 100% have control over, you are acting that an entire half of the populace is some weird uncontrollable animal. It's victim blaming, puts women in danger, and it has terrible implications for men. It isn't healthy for anyone.

As a trans man who has experienced women issues and men issues It sucks. Everything sucks. Why can't we all be nice to each other

"Men are incapable of experiencing mental trauma" Every heard of a little anime called "Berserk"?

I feel like every bingo card needs a "God I hope they're trolling" entry 😂

Man you should've put the "fat men are lazy" to the body shaming to make a bingoshe literally explained that men can't be fat shamed while fat shaming men 😂

48:08 as the history researchers sometimes jokingly say "if you can't figure out the purpose of an armor/weapon... its ceremonial"

Actually, it's a myth that the brain 'stops developing' at 25. That came from a study that did not involve a single 25 year old or older person. The brain actually continues to change and develop for a person's entire life, and childhood/puberty is when the most development happens.

The ‘sploosh fresh water’ thing is a clap back to the assertion that ‘clean women don’t have periods’ satire. It’s basically an art form at this point.

TW: SA I know at least two men who have been raped by women. One was asleep, the other was tied up when his partner unilaterally decided they weren't going to use protection. I can also confirm firsthand that physiological response during SA doesn't always care whether you consented or not. It's like your own body betrays you on top of what someone else is putting you through.

As a metoo person.. I can say that I've had my body "respond" to being "touched" by a stranger in a passive situation (non violent but threatening) and it still gives me nausea every time i think about it.. my brain can't reconcile these two different feelings happening at the same time but it does happen.. it's traumatic on a whole other level.

I used to think that I could get pregnant if I hugged someone of the opposite sex for too long because I thought "sleeping together" just meant sleeping in the same bed so that must mean that extended periods of proximity caused pregnancy

The fact that sexual harassment and assault against men is so normalized is sad. Most people, or at least a BIG chunk, just don't see women as creepy or weird, so women can basically just go touch men in public without their consent. If the man doesn't react in a good way he is "gay" or "insecure".

As a man, I say that no matter what gender you are, NO ONE in this world deserves to be treated like absolute shit.

The one at 12:17 should have also marked 'Victim Erasing' since they were basically saying that men can't experience sexual assault or anything like that.

the “men don’t have mental trauma” made my eyes go wide and my mouth gaping open with shock that anyone could think this wtf

The whole "Men don't know how to do insert household chore" thing always gets under my skin cause I was raised as a man and my mother actually refused to teach me stuff like doing my own laundry or doing the dishes. I lived at home during college and wanted to do my own laundry but she absolutely refused. To this day, where I have been living with my wife for 15 years, she is still shocked that I do my own laundry.

Equality! Men and women can BOTH be sexist. So can enby people. Anyone can be sexist, *regardless* of gender!

I’m so proud of that boy for getting over his anorexia! What an accomplishment!👏🏻

The idea of circumcision being more sanitary is so silly because like yeah if you amputated your little toes you'd probably have like a 20% lower chance to get toe fungus, but that doesn't mean little toes are gross and should be amputated from babies 💀

I was inspired by you and made a bingo for a family reunion. Stuff like "misgendering" "transphobia" "racism" "x fights with y", "I get jealous of x" I didn't get a bingo, it turned out to be pretty chill, I had more fun. Recommend to anyone with bad families.

In defense of the 'freshly pressed olives' woman, she actually did a *ton* of research into the setting of her novel and was using impressions of colors in the same poetic way that the ancient Greek poems she took inspiration from did. In that same setting, the word for the color 'blue' didn't exist, and the sea would have been described as wine-dark because people wouldn't have distinguished between deep blue and deep red in writing. On top of which, she actually went in person to see olives being pressed using traditional methods, which produced a natural, light brown tone. Don't get me wrong, I agree a lot of the people here are being very very silly - to be kind - but Madeline Miller was not one of them. Also, I've never seen olive oil the color of Nickelodeon slime.

The book from 11:55 is the song of Achilles, and the author has been asked about this multiple times. The picture shows olive oil pressed by a machine, she was specifically referring to a character that lived about 500 BC or something from the perspective of his boyfriend. The oil did not look like that, obviously, and also the ancient poets didn't really care about color, they described things by vibes and as far as I know she tried to do the same thing. To me this statement reads that Patroclus looked at Achilles and saw something familiar, natural, refined, comforting and partially divine.

“Male eyes emit radiation” Hm I don’t like the look of your hair *Locks in*

As an AMAB ace person who was... Forced to do naughty things by a partner in college, erasure is real all around. Stimulation can create a reaction, regardless of attraction.

Fun animal fact: Greyhounds are the fastest dogs, reaching 45 miles per hour. The average dog only runs around 19 miles per hour.

38:25 Fun fact: The German Word for nut (as in the Things that go onto screws) is Mutter, wich seems to be the same in swedish. Mutter in German means Mother🙌

"feeding the butt worm" is a euphemism I will be using from this point forward.

Those people who say men cant be assaulted makes me think what point are they're trying to prove, as well as their intentions.

I have convinced myself that the person who said, "Are you a girl?" when a man told them his birthday is in spring/summer is talking about turtles (if turtle eggs incubate in colder temperatures, the hatchlings will be male. If they incubate in warmer temperature they will be female). Yes, it's gotta be about turtles.

Woman: men with skin are unsanitary Me: ok *rips of skin revealing muscular system*

The Captain America bad buff anatomy is by an artist called Rob Leifield, and all his stuff looks like that. He basically just traced Arnold Schwarzenegger flexing... at a three quarter turn. It's not meant to be side on.

I genuinely wonder what possesses people to think Men have no emotions and women cannot control theirs. Seriously at what point do someone come to this conclusion?

I interpreted the STD testing comic as a comedic exaggeration of the real fact that men show external symptoms of STDs a lot more than women.

I went to the school sex Ed and while it might’ve been extremely awkward it was a talk that needed to happen. My mom and dad didn’t actually want me to go but I forgot to turn the paper in so they didn’t know I went. It ended up being pretty darn lucky for me cause my mom told me the “talk” in very loose terms and didn’t even end up mentioning periods, she didn’t explain it to me when it happened either, and it happened 2 minutes before I had to leave for the bus so I would’ve gone to school thinking I was dying because my mom was embarrassed.

29:21 "sploosh flesh water" so women get pregnant from fresh water? If a girl swim in a river, the river gets her pregnant?

6:25 "The mouth salivates when hungry, but also before vomiting" is something i heard once that I now constantly remind myself of, especially since I have ocd. Your body is just trying to prepare you, whether for protection or pleasure

In reference to the one about men being unable to feel remorse: not only is that blatantly false, but if someone is incapable of feeling remorse or grief, like me, it’s the result of a mental disorder, not their sex or gender.

5:50 Just because he wants it doesn’t mean he consents to it. Also, his body could want it. But he does not. Just because he’s “turned on” doesn’t mean he really wants it.

There's a french online joke about the glans and how it's similar to milk tooth. The idea is to talk about your milk glans and how painful it was when it fell off. Then you can add all the joke related to teeth stuff, so like : - I've had to wear my glans braces for 3 years now, it's so ugly tbh - I know some people remove their wisdow glans, but I just can't myself.

As someone that works at a mental health facility it always blows my mind when people think men dont get trauma from being SAed by women or dont believe that men can be SAed at all i have to listen to a 50 year old man screaming in his sleep begging the woman that assaulted him to stop to get away from him to not touch him every night he literally has ptsd from years of SA by an older female family member it still effects him and it happened when he was a young kid

5:24, 12:17, 19:39, 22:10, and 34:53 I’ve stressed this for years, men can be victims of abuse, fall for shady fitness scams, have body issues, and suffer from horrible things just like women can. As a woman and survivor of SH/SA myself, it a shame that male victims/survivors don’t get enough attention, support, and recognition as equally as female victims/survivors do. It needs to be less stigmatized and more accepting for men to show their vulnerability and strength of surviving adversity as it is for women to do the same.

The crayon one is definitely satire and I love it lmaoooo

At 49:28 I mean yes, that term is an actual term (I myself am semibisexual) but the way he described it is COMPLETELY wrong for what it actually is. Basically you are sexually and physically attracted to both genders without a particular preference towards one or the other specifically. However romantically you are more attracted to one of the genders than the other. So you are attracted in all ways to both genders, but when it comes to dating you have more of a preference towards one gender more so than the other.

The "just-pressed olive oil" is actually misleading! The author herself explained her reasoning and the historical context of that line and it was actually really neat. The color is brown, btw. Brown with a very slight green tint, WHICH IS A NORMAL SKIN COLOR!! I have this skin tone during the summer! It was based off of TRADITIONAL olive presses, and the one in that photo is a modern, machine olive press.

I saw a meme with that "gay men have a worm in their butt" thing where someone sent it to their friend and their friend replied "oh yeah, mine died because I overfed it lol"

No you see: You tell a guy is a virgin, if he has foreskin or not. As the other user said: It falls off when you get older.

When you were saying you *almost* had two bingos, you already could have had one... Telling men they are too short and should just hit the gym to get taller, while terribly irrational, falls under body-shaming.

I'm convinced that people who say "less than 25 cm is small" just never had sex

6:20 A helpful metaphor for this, "If you walk past a restaurant and smell the food, you're body might react. That doesn't make it okay for someone to come out and shove a hamburger down your throat." Similarly, if someone is forced or coerced to have sex, and their body responds, that never absolves the person who attacked them.

"How about you cure your brain" is a sentence I should definitely include in some of my daily conversations. 8:50

The truth about the body responding whether willing or not, is so so so hard to deal with. For both men, women, AND just ANYBODY that has been through an assault. Can you imagine the shame, and confusion that causes?? It is already terrible, without people, like that woman with all the opinions, telling us it doesn't QUALIFY as assault if there is a natural bodily response. This literally makes me RAGE!!!

"Men don't experience emotions!" Bro, I cried on the train to work today because there was a particularly moving post about dogs in my Facebook feed!

Even as a girl, I can say that I get way to many ads targeted at men saying “oh your not super buff like me? Well then your fat and should use this ice cube hack” I hate them and they are so harmful for any gender who happened to see it :(

as an American, "don't use freedom units" had me DYING

7:00 this is so funny, some people REALLY skipped biology classes in school, BUT fun fact (i'm not saying it is common, and men pls don't do this) my Ex did EXACTLY THAT. I asked him if he had anything, he said he'd check, and told me he was negative. After the fluffy wuffy he said something on the lines of "oh well, its nice i didn't have to do any medical exams". I never got so confused but suddenly realising and being so scared in my life. Thankfully he indeed had nothing, but damm that really pissed me off lmfao

Used to feel super mad when I watched r/badwomansanatomy. Watching this, I now understand people just don’t understand anatomy in general. The same people that think like bad women’s anatomy will most likely also think bad men’s anatomy.

"See this is why I f*** hate video games, they appeal to the male fantasy" Me mining diamonds for 6 hours straight:

That stapler comment caused a fight or flight I haven’t experienced since childhood

HEY, CLICK! My mom says "What does that have to do with the price of tea in China?" Instead of "what does that have to do with anything?"

Most stuff like this can be blamed on lack of proper sex ed.

The male version of “her booba flap autisticly” is “his balls wobble autisticly”

20:22 my science teacher gave a similar speech to boys in our class after they said that guys can't get breast cancer while my teacher tried to explain while I just yelled out from across the class "YOU STILL HAVE TITS JUST SMALLER AND STILL HAVE MEAT+CARTILAGE THERE, YOU CAN GET TITTY CANCER" which my teacher just looked at me for a second before turning back to them

9:23 Ah yes. The R-wording urges that can only be quelled by Animal Crossing and Powerwash Simulator.

12:44 "Incapable of experiencing mental trauma" If that were true, PTSD Rates would be 3/4th less, and s*icide rates would be 2/3rd times less.

About men who say they're "too big" for protection, there's 3 responses 1. "That's too bad, then. It'd be too painful to do it at all" 2. "Ah, that's unfortunate. Protection is important to me, so i think we won't be a good fit." 3. (If AFAB) "I have some female condoms, then." Don't shame the man even if he's lying. Either double down so you're still protected, or don’t waste each others' time. If he just doesn’t like the way it feels, then perhaps you should reevaluate doing the deed with him. If you're AFAB with functioning reproductive organs, pregnancy is a risk. If you're *anybody,* then STDs are a massive risk that aren't worth the benefits. Stay safe!

I was say actually a victim of sexual abuse as a child, started when I was about ten, went on for two years, my step sister would take advantage of my overly polite nature, as well as the fact that my father rarely listened to anything I said, and I could do anything, because I was a frightened and confused child,, all this after being born into a severely neglectful family of drug addicts, then going through five foster homes before being adopted by neglectful and physically abusive people, I'd sure like to think I've got some form of trauma.

20:59 this feels like a joke- the chlorine and cold temp of the pool would kill the sploosh right? My Health teacher taught me that, this is why we need health classes

About the sa post. I spent Years being ashamed and feeling disgusting that my body reacted in that way. I still struggle with it. It's an automatic physical response. It means Nothing if it reacted that way. It doesn't mean you liked it. It's natural and it's not proof of anything. Hearing you reinforce that is so so important. Thank you.

The person who put up "The Decline of White Masculinity" with the difference between the 1940s and 1980s and 2010s, has watched too many movies of modern men, who are paid actors, playing historical events. If you see the documentary films and photos of those time: those guys were *skinny* because of the Great Depression. Not all of them of course, but a good majority of them. Even if they gain muscle, it wasn't like they were buff enough to lift the front end of a truck, they were lean. Seriously, John Wayne would tell you that *he's* the odd one out when he went to visit returning WWII veterans, and that guy played a lot of WWII movie roles.

24:00 me still screaming. body shaming, you had a bingo. I remember my head explode when we learned at school that some people are resistant or immune to repeat exposure to the virus HIV.Facts, but weird facts.

As a trans woman born in July I think that one person was onto something /j

20:50 Translation : That lady's husband came home from working abroad for 6 months and she was 3 months pregnant ..... She panicked and said all that crazy swimming pool crap and never backed down.

I'm a trans woman and this is oddly affirming. "all men have " Well, _I_ do not have crazy fact, so i must not be a man.

I love that you cover both sides and sometimes minoritys. I feel like the internet slowly parts people because people only see what their algorithmen shows them. For a long time I mostly saw creepy and misogynistic stuff against woman and like really toxic tips for men who were really eating it up in the comments, fighting with woman about.. idk woman. But watching your videos I realized it is not only one sided, there are men out there with propably the same stuff recommended to them but against men. Instagram comments are full of this gender war shit and I think it would help to try and see the other side to understand each other. Everyone gets fired up and is so against each other and it is so sad. Thank you for your work, even tho it's supposed to entertain people I think it is also very educating.

Just because I am a guy, that doesn't mean I can't get excited when I don't want to. We have all heard the story of the high school freshman who is holdimg his text books or binder in front of his pants because his wizard just got his first immovable rod, and he doesn't know how to turn it off...

"Men don't experience fatshaming!" **proceeds to fatshame men**

Great example of the body responding: If someone tickles you, you will probably laugh even if you are not enjoying being tickled. --- so any part of the body can respond to touch, even unwanted touch.

I want to say this in the least creepy way possible, but for some reason my adhd has decided that your channel is my new hyperfixation. I think it’s because you don’t do anything that makes me cringe and I like your commentary. Also, unrelated, and please don’t take this the wrong way, but my dude you are absolutely beautiful man. 10/10 will continue to watch as i crochet.

I love the thought "we use other parts of our body daily and there the "logic" of being used up doens't apply to those people" that is a good comeback if I come into that unfortunate argument again 😂 Thanks Click. You seem to be a very smart and tolerant man . I like your way of thinking.

The thing about the first condom thing. There are cases of men saying they can't use condoms, so they can just rawdog cause it's supposedly more pleasurable. Despite that being more dangerous for everyone involved (more on the woman cause of pregnancy). Yes find a condom that fits and use it. Don't use it as an excuse just to rawdog.

19:47 I love how “becoming his own superhero” fits with the captain America T-shirt. Wish this dude all the happiness, in glad he is in a better place.

32:07 fun fact about this. It would not hurt like hell for a woman but also the guy wouldn’t even be able to fit everything in 💀

The dude who had anorexia tho! Literally mind blowing as fuck! Nothing but praise for that guy, way to fucking go!🎉