I'm still grossed out about the whole story what with her wearing no underwear whilst trying on the dress, him thinking Mummy spoon feeding him is normal. All of his relationships are doomed to fail unless the therapist can make him see his mother has groomed him his whole life.
@@shendisackett I think with the no underwear thing she was doing a primitive marking her territory with her musk juices. In another comment someone says this is called Jocasta Complex, where the mother is sexually attracted to her son.
Story #2: Even if destroying the dress was an “accident”. The FMIL is still responsible for the damage and therefore the costs. Also do not marry that mama’s boy. He and she will never change. They will put up a false front for awhile, but they WILL go back to being the way they are and you will be treated like a doormat.
no way it was an accident, women are way too knowledgeable in fashion to not be aware that forcing yourself into clothing made of delicate fabric when its way too small for you will make it burst at the seams.
@@kranberry3318 Yep, it would only have been an accident if it suddenly came to life and tried to force her to wear it! It didn't, SHE PUT IT ON! So therefore! SHE violated the law they teach you when you get near a business! "You Break It, You Bought it!" (And THAT is why you do not TOUCH something unless you plan to BUY IT)
5:30 She tried on your wedding dress? The one you're supposed to wear while marrying her son? And this is after her sitting in his lap and feeding him? Run. Don't look back, just run. If you have any self-respect at all, RUN!
@Dark Wizard Not in reverse. BTW, the original Elektra complex involved the father lusting after the daughter. It pissed off so many people that Freud had to flip it.
@Dark Wizard It's also called "My Beloved Smother" only in the "Darker aspect of that Trope!" (Darker being A woman who sees her Son as a Woman sees a Man.) And a thing people forget with Oedipus is that he killed his father "by accident" and the people pretty much gave him the "old man he killed by accident's throne and wife the Queen" which only AFTER they "did the deed" did the discover they were mother and son (Good Ole Dad tried to get rid of Oedipus because "Prophecy declared he would be killed by Oedipus" and as you know! The more you try to defy fate, the worse it will defy reason to assure everything comes to past! In this case it was only bad luck that Oedipus choose to go to the kingdom of his birth that he was unaware was of his birth and accidently kill him and become King!) Creepy (Karen) is a Mother KNOWINGLY pursuing her son, and rocking the boat with his relationship with OP like a Jealous Homewrecker would do when they want the Male SO of the relationship and she's not hiding it! Hell she's taking advantage of her ! When she put that Wedding dress on! She was trying to "imagine herself in OP position" not "admiring it!" Her jealousy at OP is on overdrive because she KNOWS how gross she is for her "attachment" to her son (that NO TRUE PARENT would have to their child) but as we established with Karen's! They are PROUD idiots who never know when to quit when the getting is good! They only do so when "it's too late to quit" and the chance of learning anything from their idiocy is EXTREMELY RARE!). But Fiancée doesn't get an out either! Any one who noted this creepy "affection" from their parent directed at them would have "recognized it for what it is!" I've heard of those who QUICKLY took care of this shit before it got worse! He's a momma's boy coward who wants to ignore the issue at hand out of fear of humiliating his mother! Even if he could do it privately if he wanted to. Instead OP has seen it, and it's going to get worse before it gets better
Story 2: Mother in Law wants to marry her own son. Is it just me that got that creepy vibe from this story? It's probably just me, but I seriously think Mother in Law wants to marry her son, which is all kinds of wrong and disgusting. She should be ashamed of herself.
Given what we see in this day and age, I think it's far more nefarious and disgusting than just that. Bride needs to run, not walk, and never look back.
Heaven help us when his mommy dies and he’s out on his own. Mommy won’t be there to help him, so he’ll need to learn how to do the most simplest thing possible. But even then he can’t open a jar of peanut butter without flipping it up.
Food contamination is a felony offence. If he knew that the jar had broken and put the glass in the food anyway (which I'm sure he did because I can't see anyway he could have broken the jar and not be aware of it when he spread the jam on the scone) then he could be facing a prison sentence. Factories have gone bankrupt and shut down over issues of cross contamination and a lot of those weren't proven for malicious intent. The FDA takes this kind of sh.t seriously.
As harsh as that sounds it’s true. No matter what happens, he will always stick up for his ‘mommy’ and defend her disgusting actions instead of doing the right thing.
@@tmntfangirl4700 That's what it seems like she's doing though right? Trying on the wedding dress to look good, feeding him in public trying to be cutesy, making a big stink about things if any other woman is around him. She's super possessive and treating him like a boyfriend or spouse and that's not okay.
@@MizuMing Oh I agree. The relationship between the mother and son is way beyond a normal loving one. It’s disturbing. I understand that parents are protective of their kids but this is waaaaaay beyond protective.
The wedding dress story. Why wasting time on couples counseling? It's clear that fiancé does not want to cut contacts with mommy. Why force him? My guess is he is already working on a back channel to mommy. Problems will keep turning up. She will turn up at the wedding and if (god forbid) kids get involved I guess all hell will break loose. Best case fiancé and mommy have secret meetings with the kids. Worst case abduction or even worse.
about story #2: that mom has most definitely formed an emotional inc*st bond between her and her son, the way she acts towards him is skin-crawling… she definitely has issues within herself that she needs to work on because her behavior is disgusting. she’s his mother, not a second wife 🤦♂️ surprisingly this isn’t even a rare occurrence.
Story 2: Its SOOOO obvious that shes in love with her own son. Which is creepy ass hell. And Hes just so brainwashed at this ppoint that he doesnt see it
*Last Story:* Yikes! That kind of behavior suggest psychosis or psychopathy. The guy either has a very distorted view of reality or absolutely no sense of right and wrong. He doesn't need a job, he needs to see a professional before he kills someone.
Not all delusions are psychosis. Psychosis and psychopathy are thrown around why too much. He doesn't lack empathy, he lacks any intelligence whatsoever Most likely he's been coddled and is basically mentally still a small child He needs professional help either way, definitely agree there
This guys is a living troll or undiagnostic ... a 5 years old in a 20 years old body. I mean, there are some syndrome/ill where you kind of never get autonomie / get graps on reality or some after some very bad head injuries. And it's ok (I mean, I don't wish anybody that, but it's life). But, the mother should know and should actually bring some paper work around and go through normal channel to provide work to her child. When you do so, you find appropriate job to some place that know with what they deal and how to deal with it. What throw me off here (and let me think it might be injury related), is the fact that normally, that kind of issue is very apparent during the interview. It let me think that he "interact" like a 20 years old, but act like a 3 years old. Very weird... and the mother don't have any idea? Wtf lady : if he is doing that kind of thing at work, I'm pretty sure he does it at home too! If not the case, I would probably said that she is the victim too. Like maybe trying to not work of his life and be stay at home. Act ok at home, get job, act stupid, get fired, get back home to act normal and play his game.
Doubt it. I've met parents who coddled their children to the point that they ended up broken, barely functional adults. I knew a lady who did this to her son. She put him on a pedestal. She practically beatified and canonized him into sainthood. Essentially, she had defied him into godhood to the point that he believed he was bulletproof because mommy dearest would always run to his rescue. Any attempt at pointing out that she was actively screwing up her own son fell on deaf ears. He's now an overgrown man-baby with no life skills, no empathy, no integrity, nothing resembling a sense of accountability and totally expects the world to bend over backwards for him while giving him everything he wants in life. In other words, he grew up to be just like his mother.
poor kitty :( I once moved into a place where the last tenants had left their little cat. She was such a pretty little girl and I named her Jenny. I had her for several years and made sure to hug her as much as possible.
Our second cat came with the apartment. She never could be a full indoor cat because of how she was abounded by her first owners. She actuactly show her love to us on mothers day with a dead crow to prove how great a hunter she is.
Our neighbors left their cat behind, outside, in January. My cousins took her in and she became a beautiful long haired baby who lived to be over twenty.
Story 2: OP needs to cut her losses and ditch this guy. It's obvious that the apron strings have not been cut. And with how insane this guy's mother is acting, I wouldn't be surprised to find out that she wishes SHE was marrying her son instead of OP. Sometimes, in order to preserve your own sanity, you have to walk away and not look back.....
PLEASE tell me OP left her fiancé. There's no way she's going to have a happy marriage after everything that happened, especially since she's checking his messages so much due to lack of trust. You can't recover from that, and it's not worth it to endure the harassment from the FMIL. Couples' therapy is NOT going to fix that.
To the Karen mother-in-law in the second story, if you really wanted to help your son and future daughter-in-law, you could start by paying to get the dress fixed
Fixed? The seamstress said that the dress was destroyed and could not be fixed. That woman who ruined the dress needs to pay for the entire dress. Also, if I were the bride-to-be, I'd get my money from the fiance for the dress and get the heck out of the relationship. This guy won't learn until he is never able to get a partner again. But I do get that he is trying to do the right thing, but the fact that he went behind her back to make other promises to his mom would have been the last straw for any woman. I do hope he really changes and doesn't let his mother ruin any hopes of happiness for this man.
I thought so too, but then remembered (and from reading the other comments) the 3rd story and forgot that he bleed his mouth and said he "had to go to the hospital now?"So definitely cuddled.
story 3 NO YOU CALL THE COPS!! the guy PUT people at risk if anything is put into a item not ment for consumption into a Item for consumption its a Crime!What if a KID ate one of those Scones!!??
Yeah, there is no way the momma's boy is going away from her. Even if they get married, I'm pretty sure that at the first rough patch they have, he will go to his mom and complain about the lady. I can only see dark times for OP, unless the son to be husband admits that his mother is crazy and go full no contact/restraining order with her.
That woman is insane! She wants to marry her son. I can't understand why OP is still there. This is absolutely crazy and MIL doesn't need therapy, she needs to be committed.
If they do end up getting married(I really hope not) it's never gonna work out. He will feel like she's taking his mom from him and she is never gonna be number one, not even at the wedding.
Why should he put the fiancee or the mother as number one. HE should put himself as number one and the fact he has these whores around him at all is prove he puts himself last.
@@gaiuszeno1331 No, Tay O is right, you have something wrong with you. Whatever happened to you to make you react this way to things that couldn't possibly similar to whatever it was, you need to go to therapy. And stop commenting to decent people, you little herniated troll.
@@gaiuszeno1331 Are you ok buddy? The fiancee is defending herself against the mom and her soon to be husband cant tell his mother no after all the stunts she pulled and is going back on his word multiple times betraying her trust and you call her toxic? Excuse me? Is she supposed to just ignore what happened? Like seriously, what do you expect from her?
Story2: RUN. That MIL will never change, she’s shown you what that relationship is going to be like, and after a lifetime with her I doubt the fiancé will abandon his mother.. its a lost cause, just run.
Sweetie, that mother in law is NOT going to change. I've been the daughter in law of someone like that. There was nothing I could do right because I took her baby away from her. When we got pregnant, she said it was my brother's baby and not my husband. Well, when our kid turned out to look a lot like him, that went by the wayside. But she always tried to get even with me for things I never did. 10 years into the marriage, he broke up a relationship with a couple we knew. The guy was a friend of my little brother and the girlfriend was a stripper. My ex threw me out for her. I got calls from mommy asking me to come home and throw the girl (sleezy leezy) out and force him back. Oh no, not. And, when she was dying from brain cancer, she was asking for me. I did go, just because I didn't want my child to have trouble with grandma's passing. I've been married to my soulmate for 30 years this year. My ex has been married twice more and is single again, in his late 50s. He lost a lot with that and I really can't feel sorry for him. He chose the girlfriend and his mom over me. My "new" inlaws loved me until they died and knew that I adored their son. We're going on a cruise tomorrow, and our lives are so full of love. Don't marry that guy. He's a momma's boy and won't change. EDIT: The last story. OMG, that sounds like the ex. He got a job at a carpet company. All he was supposed to do was sweep the back room, turn off the lights, and come out to go home. Now, I'm pregnant with our kid and not able to work at that moment. So we're depending on him. He does the sweeping and goes to turn the light off. But he pulls the fire alarm instead. And the fire department comes and they charge for false alarms. Guess who got fired the first day. So, that last story was, again, the same guy.
That was my thought on the second story as well. The fiance only realized that his mother sitting in his lap and feeding him was weird only AFTER OP told him? In what world does he not realize that's weird and gross beforehand? OP needs to leave this mama's boy. Because once he has her locked down, her life is going to be MISERABLE.
@@jimbobjones9330 He needs a real therapist, not a couples' counselor because he has been gaslit, manipulated, and bullied by his mother into a severe issue. This isn't even 'mama's boy' as a lot of commenters say. This is genuine... she's trying to basically keep her son from any other women in his life because he is 'hers'. This is all about her and he needs to get the fuck up from whatever sleep he's doing and take off the rose-tinted glasses. Some of it's cracked because of his fiancee, whom should leave. I would if I found my boyfriend with such a mother. I don't do confrontation.
@@BrokensoulRider While I agree that his mother is the core part of the issue, you can't ignore personal accountability. (Which based on part of your post, I don't think you are). CLEARLY the mother did a number on him. But he doesn't seem to be willing to change that. And you're 100% right that it isn't the fiance's issue to solve. She needs to run far, far away from this.
@@jedediahcoulbourne1791 I got that vibe, too. That's a really messed up relationship. Emotionally incestuous. The man is ruined as a potential husband.
Story2: OP I I can tell you really love this guy to do the marriage counseling when you're not even slightly wrong. And you know what the mom isn't the problem here, yes she's manipulative and he's not going the change in a split second, that doesn't change the fact that he keeps lying to you to keep you both happy while trying to force you to accept her terrible behavior. He told his mom like you were the bad guy and how he was going to make you calm down while you were sitting there, and when that didn't work he planned on manipulating you on the day of the wedding behind your back. You don't even trust him anymore, and while it seems he's making process now it's probably because he knows he no that won't work after he got caught the first time, for once again waiting for you to come down so he can force his mom on you. I hope you get what you want, and I think you should get married counseling a try, just make it absolutely clear that he cannot manipulate the situation in any way.
Story #1: Karen left the cat behind because she called it a "thing" and was clearly not in love with him (she probably can't love anyone). My guess is that she saw him as a liability: eats food, poops, scratches, and he probably didn't like Karen either because... who would? The cat is the luckiest member of that story.
I know I would have fought off any attempt to reclaim him by the Karen. I half expected her to do it out of spite when she couldn't get her table back. I always have my animals microchipped (which is now a legal requirement for cats as well as dogs in the UK) I've been doing so since before it was mandatory. Nobody is stealing one of my cats.
@@shendisackett Karen didn't WANT the cat back. OP mentioned the cat because a "normal" person would've asked about the cat first instead of the table. But when OP mentioned the cat, Karen misunderstood and said something like "you can't push that thing onto me if you don't have my table". She abandoned the cat. It was a thing to her.
Forget cancelling the wedding, CANCEL THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP. HOLY FUCKING HELL. I feel so bad for OP!! That man is not in his right mind, he has been manipulated to take his mother's side. That crazy hag deliberately destroyed her dress. She's definitely one of those women who cant live without her son, in exchange for no husband. This could be emotional incest. THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP IS GROSS!
I worked for McDonalds for 7 years. I've met plenty of....bright stars during that time. The brightest star that I can think of has done plenty of things like the guy in the last story (put plastic bags in the oven, put GRILLED chicken patties in the FRYERS, etc). One of the best things I can think of was that with all seriousness, he stated that he has never left Texas....but he has been to Mexico.....My friend immediately chimed in between laughter that she has never left her house but that she has been to Walmart.....
Story 2: sorry, but when trust is gone, the relationship is over. Let mama have her baby boy back and maybe OP can meet a full grown adult with sane relatives to marry.
On story number two, I don't think that I have heard such an extreme version of emotional incest in a long time. That lady has issues and is filling them incestuously through emotional attachment to her son and that is very creepy. Hopefully she's able to get some help
Story 2: Yeah, I doubt this will last long. The MIL is a real manipulator, and it'll probably have to take MIL in the slammer (Either trespassing or harassment) to actually start turning things around for the fiancé.
Story 2: OP should have called off the engagement. If my fiance kept defending his mother, especially for destroying my wedding dress, there's no way in Hell I would want her in my life. I'd have sued her for damages if I was her too.
#2 Story, Please tell me you you uninvited her to your wedding!! Unless your future husband is on board, I would think you might even want to really, really consider this marriage!! She will drive you two apart, mark it down!!
Hey DarkFluff - just a headsup, u/blindspottings is not the OP for the wedding dress story, that's just the person who compiled it on r/BestOfRedditorUpdates. The actual OP is u/AdministrativeMain7
The last story sounds more like a guy who lives at his parents house and is doing anything within his power to stay unemployed so he can live off his parents money. No one can be that stupid.
Oh I do not know. Even wanting to live off of mommy and daddy forever to the point you propsely royally mess up on an easy job is massively stupid to me
OP really needs to determine how deep the bond goes between fiance and mother. If he favors mother more than bride the relationship is doomed. OP will never be treated well in the future.
Story 2: I'm honstly surprised how op didn't even beat the stuffing out of her fiancé's mother. I know she would've been needing to eat through a straw while wearing a full body cast if that was me
My first thought was, I would have screamed for fiance to deal with his mother. Let him get her naked body out of the dress. She would also be banned from the wedding or their would be no wedding.
Knowing that psycho MIL, she would probably spin it into a "woe is me" tale about her "monster DIL" throwing her hands on her. Plus, the fiancé is such a spineless mama's boy, he will definitely take the psycho MIL's side. No-win situation for OP.
Man story 2 OP is tenacious for trying as hard as she is with that relationship. He's so deep into the fog that, even though he's currently having no contact with Mommy Dearest, it's going to take a lot to get him out of it. I wish she'd called the cops the moment the woman destroyed her wedding dress. Karen's got a creepy amount of Jocasta complex and I hope it's brought up to him because that seems to be the only topic with some hope, considering he realized his mother feeding him (in PUBLIC) was weird. eeeuugh ew ew
I would have loved to be the (invisible) fly on the wall to see the cops storm in and haul momma dearest off to jail, butt naked but for the tattered wedding gown.
#2 needs to know if she marries this man her MIL will never leave them alone. If they have kids it will be worse. If he’s serious about going no contact then move out of reach.
I had to work with a guy that was like the one in the last story. His sister was the union vice president. I worked construction. Thought he was going to kill me or a coworker. Management was afraid to do anything about it. Working underground is dangerous enough.
When mom & dad purchased their house a gazillion years ago , there was an old upright piano left by the previous owners ... three different times over several years some woman came to the house to tell my parents that previous owner told her she could have the piano. 🤯. She even told dad that she had men lined up to move it out of the basement, which would involve moving the fridge & stove out of the kitchen because of where the stairs are! Dad told her the only way it was coming out was in pieces! Mom passed, we’re selling the house, the piano is still there. I’m trying to find a loving home for it-- it needs a ton of love & repair
Story 2 is all too common, that mothers are trying to hold on to their children and going way too far. How can a new generation be born, when the past won't let go of the present? Story 3: I know scones under glass, but GLASS IN SCONES?! Damn....mental trauma worthy.
Story 2: OP is a fool!! He will never change. His mother has made him weak and unstable. I don’t think that can be fixed. He never grew up and learned how to make his own decisions and never knew who he really could be on his own. She ruined him. I can’t believe OP doesn’t realize just how broken he is and that she will be living in hell if she goes through with this marriage. Or does she think she can be his savior and that her own insane love for him will magically fix him. She should have run, not walked, away from him long before the dress incident. Red flags fly for a reason, OP. She should absolutely sue his mother for ruining her wedding dress. And if she does, he will be forced to choose sides. And I would be willing to bet his choice will be Mommie!
For the second story I can say unequivocally under no circumstances should she marry that man. If you have to religiously check his text and check his emails for whatever reason then your relationship is pretty much trash. You have no trust you have no respect and without that, you’re it’s doomed from day one. There is little to no chance of it succeeding and you’ll end up getting divorced and it’ll probably be extremely messy with mother-in-law right in the middle of it.
Story 2: Literally all I can think is: You can only play on one team and stick to that team. What the fiance is doing is trying to play the game on both teams, which will lead physical, emotional and mental chaos. A person like that is indecisive and tries to please everyone. The reality is you cannot please everyone, no matter what you do. The man is not mentally stable, he can’t make a concrete decision and stick with it. And with that, he thoroughly disappoints me
He's a victim in this too, he's been emotionally abused by that nutjob his entire life. If this dude keeps going to therapy he's a future case study students will learn about. It's not disappointment you should feel. It's pity.
Makes me think she "brainwashed" him from birth into believing her side as much as possible to avoid consequences when this and maybe other inevitablities happened
Story #3: He's in his Twenties and decided to give a Customer a Scone that has Cream and Jam that was from a shattered glass Jr? What the heck is wrong with him?
Lessons learned from the wedding dress story: 1. When you marry someone, you marry their whole family. 2. If your SO wants a "Princess wedding" get the ring back and run. I am aware of a case where the father of the bride told her "I will either pay for your dream wedding, or buy you and your fiance' a car and a house." She chose the wedding.
My "dream wedding" is literally a big awesome party with my friends & family where I get to wear an extra fancy dress, so I wouldn't expect anyone to pay for it but me & the person I'm marrying. Expecting someone else to pay for your party is weird to me.
I'd keep the wedding dress wearing Karen away from me and any kids we might have. And if the bf is acting like this now, it's not going to get any better & mil is *always* going to be a problem in their relationship. Unfortunately, I've seen this play out before.
I get it’s OP’s wedding and future MIL is completely insane…but good lord, I personally just could not justify spending *11 grand* on a dress you’re going to ideally wear once.
@@JuntosXlaLibertadMileyBuIIrich how is the bride a Karen she has every right to be pissed at both of them cause the FMIL destroyed her wedding dress and the Groom not taking his fiancee's side so no she isn't a Karen
My Wife wore her wedding dress twice while she was alive. Once on the wedding day, and then one more time on our 10th anniversary. After she passed away in 2019 she was then buried with it. However we never spent 11K on the freaking thing. Between my Mother, her Mother, and her they made her wedding dress. It looked amazing on her.
With Story 2: Im just wondering if there is anyone that loves OP and told her that leaving the fiance and that toxic environment is the best option actually. And that she is marring a man-child.
Man these make me so grateful for my family, girlfriend, and girlfriends family. I'm pretty sure mine likes her more than me at this point, and while her father wasn't CRAZY about me at first, he was never rude, and I think I've won him over by now. (He jokes about making sure our hotel rooms don't share a wall on family vacations, and has made it clear he expects grandkids) Her mom liked me right away. I get it, she was excited for her daughter in love, and her dad was concerned for his little girl, but over time he saw how happy I make her, and that I basically don't care about anything BUT family.
Having a job is not worse than having a prison sentence. If he wanted to get fired, there are tons of things he could have done that wouldn't have had such potentially dire consequences as feeding glass to someone. Jeez!
I’d be suing the MIL to pay for the dress ($11k? Damn right!) AND I’d rescind her invitation to the wedding. If fiancé fought me on that, the wedding would be off, end all. Full stop. She needs to be removed from OP’s life. Any argument from fiancé shows he’s a complete mama’s boy who will have unrealistic expectations in marriage. He can go to hell along with MIL-to-never-be. He either goes no contact too or he can go home to his incestuous mom.
It doesn't matter if you have a Receipt or not, if you move out of a Property and leave something behind, you forfeit ANY claim of Ownership you once had... The Police and Courts are NOT going to allow you to claim Ownership or Sue for the Value of the Abandoned Property...ESPECIALLY after 2 Years of no attempt to claim that item...
The last story: that guy is a living embodiment of the Dunning-Kruger effect. Having worked customer service for a number of years, I will tell you it brings out both the worst and the best humanity has to offer. I used to think the sitcom tropes of the really dummy character were just fiction until I started working with the public.
@@JadenYukifan28 I didn't hear or see that anywhere. From what I could understand, he's still on the fence, and he's there because the wedding is now floating in the air, waiting to see how therapy goes.
As far as the MIL & son go, girl, dump him, keep the ring to sell it, & sue the MIL that was nasty enough to try on your dress without underwear on & then be nuts enough to say YOU need to lose weight to fit into it! Knowing the son told his mom he would wear you down to invite her to the wedding after what she pulled, no way is he being honest about cutting contact with her. Let her have him! 🤮
Stone table set story: Can't fit something into a new place? Last time I checked, that's why they invented rental storage units! Wedding dress story: WTF?!?!? FMIL definitely has more than a few screws loose. I'd ban her from my home, at least until after the wedding and send HER the bill for the dress repairs. And If fiancé didn't back you, I'd seriously reconsider the relationship, even at this late date. I think I would also get a deadbolt lock for my bedroom door (and any other rooms I had important stuff in) and keep the doors locked any time she's over to prevent her snooping. BTW, what's your fiancé's take on this? UPDATE: OP, I almost feel like you're in denial yourself. I hope the counseling works, but I truthfully rather doubt it will. How can you be certain that your fiancé hasn't created other accounts to communicate with his mother? If you find any hint of that having happened, you need to call it all off. I'd be certain to get that restraining order in the meantime, though. This woman is likely to turn violent. TBH, I'm not certain I could stay with anyone who showed this many red flags. I hope like all hell you don't get pregnant before all this is settled one way or another. Broken glass story: I hope OP informed the customer that he had eaten broken glass and to see a doctor immediately and contacted his insurance to foot the bill. Kevin and his mother can pay his own bill, he knew what he was eating. Good grief!
In story number three even if he was trying to get fired he must realize that if he were to feed somebody broken glass and then they die under complications of trying to pass broken glass through their system he could end up in jail. No company is going to stick their neck out to try and protect somebody from personal liability after feeding a customer glass. They would offer that dude up on a platter to whatever punishment the courts felt was appropriate.
Story #2 - OP -- Run. Just run. This relationship is beyond salvage. The son is almost as crazy as the mother. You do not need either of these people in your life for the rest of your days.
Story 2, Im sorry but no man *cough mama's boy *cough is worth this much headache. Op you can do better, the fiance will probably contact her again in some other app or a 2nd device
OP & her crazy future MIL: OP- Your fiance has lied to you about his Mom more than once. Don't be surprised if he has a burner account that he is keeping in touch with her on. As long as the two of you have a relationship, his Mom will be in your life, restraining order or not. Can you imagine what will happen when you have children, her grandchildren? Sue her for the total cost of your dress because it's trashed & all the non-refundable costs of your wedding, & in return, give her back her son, permanently.
That last story sounds a bit like someone I worked with -- for a mercifully short time -- in a major department store chain back in college. After 2 weeks in the bedding department, he was transferred to working with the loading dock crews so that at least he wouldn't constantly be screwing up floor displays, price signs, price tags, register counts, etc. No such luck... He was finally fired after at most a month in the store when, while playing around with the rolling pallets used to transport boxes (basically pushing it fast down the aisle and jumping on to take a ride),he utterly destroyed a display with a couple of thousand dollars' worth of crystal in it. To the end, his take on the situation was that he'd been messing around because it was boring to just push the pallets around on the floor and "it was an accident, I didn't mean to do it, so I shouldn't be fired for it."
Story #2 - That girl needs to RUN AS FAST AS SHE CAN from mother and son. Forget couples counseling, it won't stick after they finish. I've lived that life. If that girl actually marries her mama's boy fiancee, her life is going to be pure, unadulterated hell, with him always taking mommy's side until she divorces him. She needs to cut her losses and get out of that relationship RIGHT NOW.
I can't stand it when people leave animals behind/abandon them. It just inhumane and heart breaking. And calling it a thing instead of treating it as something that can't feel pain or is even alive is just awful! That Karen is such a materialist!
OP should SUE Future Momster-in-Law for destroying the Dress plus Legal Costs, Mental and Emotional Damages and Punitive Damages to the tune of at least $75,000.00 or more!)... I would... I'd also be banning her from the Wedding too... AND I'd be getting a Full Restraining Order against her (No Contact and Stay Away From My Property)...
To the last story. As the great Abe Simpson once said “Little from Column A, little from Column B” mother did Coddle him and she realized she f’d up and tried to get him a job to get him to grow up. Big Fail.
That relationship is over. Permanent no contact is the only choice with a person like FMIL. He’s almost certainly not going to be able to successfully cut the cord for good…pathetic
