Thanks for sharing so honestly mate, some of us ARE interested. Yeah, things will never be the same, that's true. All you have to do tomorrow is feed the cat, have a wash, brush your teeth & try not to sink into booze and drugs. DO NOT cash in your chips, you have to teach me some more jigs yet. Watching every day. Cheers.
Beautiful video mate, and yes, track down the carers. Keep this channel for cheap therapy. Get in the shed when you can, cry when you want, and randomly get everything off your chest. Much love Dave, you did the best she could ask for and Im sure she is looking down on you with love and admiration.
Everything you said rings true to the experience of so many others so nothing sounds strange or odd. This type of grief hits hard and although we learn to handle emotions like laughter and sadness this type of emotion is completely new and so hard to come to terms with. You need to heal and to grieve in your own way and at your own pace and the support of those who are interested is genuine and is there because of the person you are. No advice, just support and understanding.
Everything you're thinking, the way you're feeling, it's all normal and no one will think any less of you for taking time to get your mind together. You need to look after yourself though. Just little things. Have a shower, cuddle the cat, eat something. Even if it's just a cup of soup, you need to eat something. Go and see the grandkids, or get your daughter to bring them over. You shouldn't be on your own. Lastly, stay out of the workshop for now, at least until you can think straight and are able to concentrate. But once it's safe, go out there, spend some time making something to remember her by.
Hi Dave as you know I’m now going through the process with Sue she’s started with the cancer tablets hoping for time but time will tell like you I’m lost frustrating and a whole lot of anger the times I’ve felt like screaming. I understand and know your pain my friend
Dave, this is the most challenging time of your life. It’s impossible to make sense of this kind of loss. It’s a hard, cruel time. There’s no way around that. Give yourself some time to come to grips with how you are feeling. But please remember this: Your wife is with you - she’s part of you because of the happy times and hard times you shared. No matter where you go or what you’re doing or what you are thinking of, you cannot abandon her. You are part of her and she is part of you. As you begin to process your loss, try every day to remember at least one happy memory. Even something as simple as her standing at the sink or enjoying her silly house slippers or a way she had of looking at you. Try to think of some one thing not related to her illness. What you’ve experienced is harrowing, look for pieces of the joy you shared to comfort you as you heal. We are all thinking of you.
Ramble all you want, you have been through a lot you need to grieve you need time to heal and recover physically and mentally as others have said don't give up we all enjoy watching your videos,I would not have an interest in working In my shed with my tools and wood if not for your videos, bought my DeWalt 7491 & 7485 because of your use of one of these,if things get too much to handle out a short video or message on here on your & Mel's channel and we can arrange to talk on Facebook,I have had depression anxiety for years so I know what he'll you are experiencing, take care Dave,in my thoughts mate always and if you need to talk as I said give me a yell wish you all the best and stay safe mate 🙏🙏🙏
