Randy Helps Bride Who Wants To RETURN Her Kleinfeld Dress | Say Yes To The Dress 

I agree and it is the marriage that is important not the wedding and dress.

Lol so true

Absolutely. Some of the best and longest marriages came from elopement during the war, courthouse marriages etc. not all those brides spend $$$ on dresses

Agree

Absolutely true! I have been married for 15 years, and the wedding is something that I do not even remember anymore, I am just wondering why we spent the money?!

Totally caught that too! Like how horrible. I wish she didn't say it was the dress she picked.

Exactly

I think they were trying to be agreeable, since she had already expressed buyer's remorse over the dress she'd already bought.

Agree, I actually liked the mom's pick better.

I don’t think they were being agreeable with that first dress - they thought it was perfect till they learned that she and her Mom picked it up- then they went off the rails saying how bad it was! I feel very sorry for the Mom!

Not just that, they initially Loved it until they realised it was the rejected one. No balance and objectivity in the group

Exactly.

I wonder how many people keep in mind that NY has a 10% sales tax, plus the cost of alterations?

I liked her original dress the best. It was gorgeous on her.

Her original dress was beautiful!

And they’re all on the older side too, all of them look like they’re 50 plus here. That makes it even worse…they’re no longer in their 20s. They all should’ve known better.

Plus it was $2,100 over her budget. Not fair to the parents who are paying.

You don´t understand, her friends are going to help pay for the dress. It costs 5600. Her parents will probably pay 3500, so we have to divide 2100 with the number of people there, including the bride. It will be 420 each. That is manageable.

They were jerks. Are they going to chip in? They sort of say they will, but I don't see anyone pulling out their checks.

Technically she went over $2100. She originally wanted to spend $3500. But yes Friends should never do that.

that's why a bride has to be careful about who she brings with to the appiontment. If the others want to be part of the experience, they can go to like the 2nd fitting or whatever and go "ooh and ahh".

It was.

It was gorgeous.

I was thinking the same thing. Also, the hem of the original dress is so much prettier.

So did I x At the end of the day, the Dress is important, but so is the price x

Exactly!

Facts!

Antonella always do that, she is the worst consultant 🤦🏻‍♀️

I don't consider $2100 "a little" stretch. If the "friends" are making up the difference, fine. But if Mom is going to foot the bill for their desire to be on camera at SYTTD, then that's wrong.

I agree and some of these consultants are so greedy! They need to be more considerate of people’s budgets. People need to work hard for their money.

Exactly

I thought the $3100 was the most Old Hollywood. It gave me Rita Hayworth vibes. The more expensive dress was just a mermaid wedding dress. The bride also said the one she picked with her mother wasn't appropriate for the venue. Not sure if she meant style or the size of the place. If it's the size, fair enough; it's certainly possible for a dress to overpower a small venue. But if that were the case, you would think the sleeker dress would work better.

Yep!

EXACTLY

I did too. For her shape that was a great dress.

I agree. I liked it, and the one she got with her mom the best. The $3,100 dress was so elegant, and seemed perfect for a "Hollywood" wedding. They should have told her entourage that it was more expensive. I bet they'd have liked it then.

It gave me hard Marilyn Monroe vibes

It was beautiful but its more like a honeymoon slinky. Its not a wedding dress.

Yeah it seemed much more fitting to the theme.

Yes it was but they wanted more rhinestones on it

That satin shiny too tight fish tail was cheap looking it was way tooo tight it was yuk

@@Gigi0990 she could have added a jeweled belt to please them and say "sorry, this is the one i got i can add the belt for you but I am not getting a different one. If you don't like it then keep it to yourself"

The bottom is called a "balloon hem." If she doesn't like that, they just cut out the gathering and give it a standard hem.

Add some sparkle to the straps of the sleek dress and there you have it. Beautiful and in budget. Her entourage, the one woman in particular, was absolutely obnoxious.

Beautiful dress but it seemed the least Old Hollywood of the three.

googled her name and wedding and nothing showed up

It's true, I saw the dress and it was completely different, very beautiful

@@JeanRach it showed right up for me.

The reddit post picture? It doesn't seem to be her. Someone commented her name because they look alike, and that's why it indexes. The beauty mark on the chin doesn't match either.

I think Randy shamed them into it. Lol

The bottom can easily be fixed.

You must be joking 🙃 it’s vintage it’s classy it’s timeless ❤

They literally did pay the difference, what are you on about?

@@Seal_pupDoesn’t matter if they paid the difference, the bride and her Mother chose the first dress - period!!! I truly despise all these brides coming in with an entourage of negative people who thunk they know better! You can have a beautiful, memorable wedding without a many thousand dollar dress yiu will never wear again! And with some brides choosing such slinky, sexy, low-cut or whatever dresses, they will be embarrassed in years to come - maybe by their children who see the pictures, or maybe because they choose such a sleazy dress! Weddings are nit the time to be sexy! I have 48 years under my belt in this marriage and I didn’t even have a white dress - but it was appropriate for a small church in 1975!

@@sandybruce9092 Sandy, I simply stated that they paid the difference because the original comment by Sharon said that the friends did not pay the difference. (And yes, in the case of semantics, it matters because it’s false information although it’s not that deep) I have no comment on your opinions.

@@sandybruce9092booooo boo this women for shaming other women. It’s not the “golden years” anymore Sandy. Get a grip.

Yes, it's a good thing the actor friends decided to help her out. It would have been a shame if they bullied her into buying a dress way over her budget and then her mom and/or she were stuck paying thousands extra.

I always had this feeling they didn’t actually help her because they never said it outright, particularly before the bride was panicking about the price, and it does seem like her friends were bullying her.

But are they? Personally I don't believe it.

They'll start a Go Fund Me for her dress. I highly doubt they'll kick in to help pay for it

@@annebodee Agree. Something about the was she said it rang false.

I’m so sorry for your loss. You must have some amazing memories

This is why you don't bring people to your appointment! It's not their day and not their decision and they're not paying for it anyway.

The did bear the balance

Actually, whether they chipped in or not, they still are bullies.

@@laurellane1721 True

*dissing

That was also my question. Were they going to pay the extra 1500 dollars?

@@maryannhicks7829 Extra $2,600 (not extra $1,500).

​@@maryannhicks7829well, they said they'd help

They said so in the video if you watch it til the end.

It was implied but because they never said it outright, particularly before she was panicking about the price, I don’t think they ever did.

It extends to everything having a wedding motif, even to the napkins for the reception. Unless you're super rich the napkins aren't going to be fine linen, but plain old paper, but the same napkins for a birthday with Happy Birthday on them will be at most one third the price of napkins that have the word Wedding on them. Same old paper napkins, but a third of the price and more likely a fourth.

@@bunnyslippers191 I SOOO agree! I made my own wedding gown as well as that of my Matron of Honor, decades ago. Both were classic, timeless dresses that could be worn today as neither had flashy embellishments that date a dress within months! It was a church wedding, so decorum was definitely the order of the day. Not flashy, glittery or Hollywood at all! Both were classic, timeless and elegant.

Yes...they will "take care" until they offer $25, $50 or $100.00 max for the purchase. They were there for the camera. She needs to get better friends and also to make her own choices.