Randy Helps Bride With OCD Who Is Brought To Tears By Dress Appointment | Say Yes To The Dress 

No closed captions???

I'm so tired of seeing the phrase "Can we just take a minute/moment." Obviously it's popular and it gains points for the commenter.🫥

​@@IceSkater8491I disagree. I know know you probably think it sounds cliche, but life in general needs more focus on the good things in life. Mental health comes with a lot of stigma, so to be treated with such respect is likely not something she's used to. And this is one of the most important times of her life.

Amen

Seems staff is working additionally as psychologists!!!!Whats the world we living in!!!

​@@jenniferlee1410Go to the mental health specialist's, no wander this generation is called snow flakes!!!

he is gay lol.

Agreed! But he can still be a father one day, & hopefully he will be, if he wants to be.

@@coldwinter5710 It will never happen.

​@SahMai why because he's a gay man?

He's a great fur dad ❤

100% 👍😉🇵🇹

kacie chose well in the end and overcame a huge hurdle in the process. Mum was an absolute gem!!! Xx

You are a good Mom 🙂

Bambi I very much agree with you. With her issues she is way too young to get married and marriage is hard enough. What's her issues she may drive her husband crazy. I get the feeling her parents love her very much but it would be okay if she lives with her husband not in their house. If I would have come home at 20 and had not yet finished University. Now I could do what I wanted. But I understood that my parents loved me and wanted the best for me

I van relatie to that too. When jou see tour child breack down and struggling that breacks tour heart

Yeah her parents are so supportive. Her mom Karen had so much empathy.

I don’t think picking out a wedding dress is that big of a milestone. Many people make it seem like it is though.

​@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj it's a big deal for her as she has OCD and is struggling

YES! EXACTLY!

3,000 dollar dress, so hard, much struggle

I'm sorry but there is absolutely not one drop of courage.

I like this perceptive observation Reversing the process Sort of like SWOT into TOWS AMAZING SUPPORT ALL ROUND WISH HER JOY

I agree. She has allowed negativity to permeate her life. I think she could benefit from a lot of counseling to help her focus more on the positive rather the negative

Those are good points.

​@@chrislent6142That's some toxic positivity. To me she seems just very perfectionist, to the point where she's afraid of making a choice and then finding out that it wasn't the best possible choice after she's stuck with it. That's why she has no problem saying no to dresses, because you can automatically say no to any dress that's worse than at least one other dress, and realistically if you change your mind no one is going to say you can't have it because you said no once. But feeling confident that you won't find a better dress, not even in another store or online, when you can't afford to buy a second one after you buy the first one...impossible. And the culture that it seems like she comes from probably doesn't help, when having a perfect dress is considered to be a reflection of your inner purity and being a good person, and not having a "perfect dress moment" is some kind of judgement on your relationship with your significant other... I wouldn't want to make decisions, either.

That is so insightful, you made such a great point. It would be awesome if she saw your post. 😊

My mom never understood either...

I'm so sorry. I am a fellow OCD struggler and it is not you being dramatic at all. We do not choose this.

I'm sorry your parents treated you like that it's so sad. It's not your fault

You’re an amazing person, I’m glad we have people like you in the world

Yes, it’s way past time that people stop using the name Karen in such a negative, mean spirited way. People should pause for a moment and think how they’d like it if their name has almost become a swear word in today’s society. It’s immature and hateful, and equates the user as exactly that, picking on thousands and thousands of really nice women who have the name.

One of my favourite names..and the name of a very good friend. I,m not American so maybe it doesn't have the same negative connotations for us in the UK.

@jessicaellina3878 yeah, unfortunately the name Karen has come to mean an entitled pushy woman who thinks that all she has to do it complain to management to get what she wants. A Karen also has no qualms in approaching someone who they think is doing something wrong and tries to push her views on someone else. I just wish we could have a different word for it, not an actual name.

​@@jessicaellina3878 ​ I apologise if I've misunderstood your comment, but I am also a Brit & I'm very aware of the use of 'Karen' as an descriptive insult. However my son is a teenager who uses YT & Tiktok a lot, so maybe that explains it 🤷🏼‍♀️ Ps I also have a good friend called Karen, although it's spelt Karan (still sounds exactly the same though) 😏

I agree. It’s like Jerry or Dick, etc. It’s so degrading and I’m not saying that just because my mom and one of my best friends are named Karen.

They have two kids, this was over 10 years ago.

Exactly 💯

Thing is, her OCD won’t go away. Regardless of her youth. To choose to live your life, continue on and power through your disorders is what makes someone even more strong than you realize. I have ptsd, (and adhd). Regardless of my issues, I still need and want to live. I want the experiences other people have without someone thinking ‘yikes’. My husband helps me with my issues because he loves me. And it will be the same for this lovely lady in the video. And as another comment said, 10 years later she’s still married and has 2 children. Further proving she made the right choice for herself. It all worked out just like it does for everybody else. She just had to work harder for it. Her ocd will always be there but her life doesn’t have to suffer and stay stagnant because of it.

@Seal_pup Well, said. You lent some deeper understanding to this conversation...and some empathy. Thank you!

​​@@L.Spencerdamn, really? Hope she got help and medicated for her ocd because kids are messy af she'd be cleaning all day. I would think people with ocd wouldn't want kids because of how messy they can be. I certainly hate the idea of having to clean up all the time

I hear you. And I wonder how she will fair at 20 with making decisions on so many things that really matter in life like where to live, your job, compromises to make, when to stand firm. Seems like a lot to take on.

I can relate. One of my main concerns is that the dress or any clothing doesn’t keep irritating or overwhelming me in some way.

I know..like sequins on a part of the bodice that rub against arms 😭

I’m autistic too and I’m worried about that as well xx

They don’t have a choice.

Yes they do. And they chose to be supportive. Some wouldn’t.

@@ginaschelleman9011What I meant was, it is their child so they have to be supportive to some extent.

​@@ginaschelleman9011Its a fine line with anxious children. Sometimes you heed to push them a little but know when not to.

Yes, why the rush at 20? Could have used more "adult" time to find herself.

Exactly. I find sharing my space with someone else to be a nightmare when you have OCD.

I wonder how she chose a husband then? She is young too. I thought she would pick a husband way later on in her life.

Because he made the decision for her!! 🙃🙃

They have two kids, well at least. She wore the dress in 2012.

Absolutely! She showed no pressure to say they were pretty or try things she didn’t like.

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David's bridal had something like that when I got married. (Are they still in business or bankrupt?) . You'd create your avatar with your weight, height, hair, eyes etc and then "try on the gown". You could even choose a ballroom or formal garden background. It really helped me.

The gown Casey chose is very pretty and she looks spectacular. Casey trust yourself more. You’ve done great. Wishing you much happiness on your marriage.