Reacting To “45% Of Women Will Be Single & Childless By 2030” 

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This episode looks so interesting, can't wait, thanks Chris!

Have you interviewed Louise Perry?

(Slap!) "No SIMPing.Move alnog,sir."

By my part i think all that stuff is just semi-organic. Why push when one can direct, spend minimal effort, for maximum effect by guiding a desirable path, and silencing undesirable paths And no one will be sure if you are doing something or not. You hide in the motion while stopping counter motions. That is how you influence the path of civilization.

Hilarious

Agreed.

RIP Kevin Samuels. A great man.

Single ladies want to be in relationships and married women wish they could experience the burdenlessness of singlehood again. The grass is always greener on the other side.

Perfectly put 👌

Exactly. Women deciding to be single and child-free is the best option at times.

Smart. You are not the only man to feel this way and there are plenty of women for you out there

@Sae15w Ok and? I'm dead, so I can't use it anymore. Let the government have it.

@Sae15w There is this thing called estate planning where you direct where your assets are t go and for what purpose. A real legacy that can effect billions of people for generations. I know ZERO about Andrew Carnegie's descendant's but we all know about Carnegie Hall.

Exactly. If you wanna have kids have them, if you don't then don't. But why shit on people just cuz they want something different than you in life.

They lie to themselves. Everybody wants children, some people make it other don't. Natural selection.

That just prove the point that something ill is happening to our economy for many people to think like that.

@@kiwiking6275 its not necessarily about the economy. People who actually want to be parents will put off children untl they are better able to financially provide for them. But then you have people who are wealthy enough to afford kids and still simply do NOT wish to be parents. Every human being on earth does not desire the experience of raising children.

@@janedo-re-mi2738 I agree with you, and it is one of the reasons. What I was just saying is about the effects of economy based on a statistics showing the trajectory of our situation. We can't deny that our storage of energy is through money. Which is part of economy and every individual. It's too much info so I'm not gonna dive into into it deeply. But its just fascinating.

@@janedo-re-mi2738 It's a strange thing that we consider ourselves to be too poor to have kids in 2022. Do you think you had it worse than your grandparents, or their grandparents before that? It's not financial poverty that we face, it's the poverty of purpose.

@@kc6810To be fair, many men who talk about this are actually trying to look out for women. I’m hearing more and more of women who never intended to be single and childless as a goal, but end up as such due to the cultural push towards it. These women will live a life alone, filled with regrets about the life they wanted yet can no longer have. That’s why they’re talking about it. They don’t want women to be uninformed/misinformed about this really big decision. Most people, men and women, find the most satisfaction, purpose, and fulfillment in life with a loving partner and children. This is seen in both psychological studies as well as in neuroscience. Very very few men and women are actually fulfilled and find true purpose and meaning in their lives in the long run in their careers and friend groups alone. Something like 10% iirc. I could be a bit off on the %, but it’s around there. Women should 100% be free to choose, but they should be VERY well informed so they can make the best decision for their long term fulfillment, meaning, and purpose and not moment to moment happiness. That’s the reason it’s important. Also, population collapse is already happening, so that’s not great either lol. But that’s ancillary to the fact that you’re most likely to have the best life with a loving partner and children in a general sense.

Nah, cultures that don't reproduce did out and get replaced by those who do. It's only the white cultures that have these doubts. Others have 4-6 kids even if they can't feed them. In 30 years you'll have a bunch of old lonely white people and exploding societies of other ethnicities who dont give a f about them.

Which is stupid to me. If you can get a passport you should be in Philippines right now getting a wife. Or Thailand. The swedes are doing it, there's literally entire Thai towns in rural sweden now where all the blue collar Swedish men live lol

@@ibizawavey8630 yea, Thai women aren’t that attractive. I don’t want to travel across the world just to find a wife lmao. There’s nothing to gain from marrying someone, but you stand to lose everything, possibly.

@@ibizawavey8630 The idea is tempting but this is just passing the problem to the Philippino men. They are human too.

Nope. WWIII will happen first.

Well said. Much respect.

This is very true, often childless women can be extremely spiteful to women who are mothers in the workplace.

But if you don't have a job you can't consoom as much product as possible

It's nice that you have the luxury of being "a stay at home mom". Not everyone does. Would everything be just as "amazing" if you had to add in the 40 hour work week too?

No one that can take you place until he decides to leave you for a 20 year old and she's your babies new step mom. Any man of means always has some gals ready to see if they can get him to cheat on his wife. You just have to hope he doesn't pull a Chris Watts on you but even if he doesn't sending your babies to meet step mama so she can share in the joy that your kids bring is torture enough.

Do the majority of woman want a family or prefer being single? That’s what I’m interested in.

@@juju8470 i think the majority prefers the first one in the long run but that's just my (biased) opinion

@@Faithmay89 I believe that’s the case as well. However, modern problems such as divorce, abuse, financial, mental health, and bad quality people contribute to the low marriage and family rates. That’s my personal theory.

Really a dumb way of looking at it

That's your conclusion? There's individual differences yes, what a marvelous insight

@@rysloan my parents did everything for their kids and my sister used to hit my mom hard on her head while feeding her when my mom had dementia

Lack of child rearing skills. Not something that has been taught .

@@rysloan That's all fun and games until the bills arrive and you can't pay them because you're a stay at home parent.

@@rysloan there is a balance though. You don't want all of these single moms treating their kids as son husband's which definitely happens in my community

I have it on good authority that most people find it incredibly difficult to empathize with one's future aged self, so I am reasonably certain that the overwhelming majority of people who forego the biological imperative of reproduction aren't doing so out of a desire to issue a preemptive F.U. That same lack-of-empathy for one's future self is also responsible for poor health decisions (smoking) and poor financial decisions (no savings). Most Americans care so little about the well-being of their future selves that they don't even have $500 set aside in case their car breaks down. It's solipsism, egocentrism, self-absorption and societal validation that is driving this trend.

I love men who think, you are a gem.

Yup; you are a dime a dozen for realizing this 👌 we most definitely are not all 'boss babes', some of us are working because it's literally a human necessity and don't feel the need to fall in line, as it were.

I don't think they were being that judgemental toward the individual women. But is this going to lead to tbe greatest wellbeing for these people l9ng term? I doubt it myself

Well said, some simple and clear points that were missed. The commentary in the video gives off a bias that its almost laughably wrong for a woman to choose not to have children, and that their life will certainly be miserable if they continue on this path. Choices and the results are more nuanced as you've pointed out.

Perfectly said. As a woman, I hate being told I am a certain way and I want certain things because ALL women are the same... No, everyone is different and I personally am not interested in adding motherhood to my resume. Motherhood is job that some women choose and some don't.

wise! there are so many women who make the mistake of "following the crowd" and not properly vetting their partner before having multiple kids...it only ends in disaster for everyone and the entire family loses.

It's funny how the "men" are silent on this post. The post that is most "logical" and should appeal to that aspect of who they claim they are, but no! They go around trolling on all the other nonsensical comments instead of giving you props and honorable mentions! At this rate, especially with this kind of video as confirmation, I think most men just see women and children as a means to an end; women are conquests and children are their financial-fail plan. That's the mind of a man for you; nothing logical about that. And it's wonderful you weren't trapped with any of them, for they only bring chaos and problems into the lives of women and children.

@@leaellas8400 YES! This is sad, but it is the truth for a lot of men i do believe. I thank God EVERYDAY that i never fell for that trap. Having kids with the wrong person is a LIFE sentence...i wish more ladies realized this and utilized more critical thought when it comes to family planning. I feel bad for these dudes who have that mindset...majority of them who do are going to be VERY disappointed when they are in the latter years of their life and those kids don't "take care of" them, but put them in a retirement home, take charge of their assets, and never visit. This i know because i worked many years in healthcare in nursing homes and i saw it every single day!

@@EadsB7002 Wow, that's sad & should be what they focus on instead of women. They guilt trip women because they don't want to do the inner work. For me, I'm 28 years old, and even though I desire a family, I realize that I'm not missing out on anything when I realize the true nature of men; they are absolutely selfish in every single way possible. For the very few who have a genuine tendency to love and serve others they "lead" is an rare exception, rather than a rule. I recently came to the realization that the world continue to produce and train women to be wives for a world filled with improper males - men lacking in every capacity, including being unfit to be husbands and fathers. Unfortunately, it has always been this way, for the most part, but it's just more obvious in today's society due to social media. The generally overlooked unpleasant actions of men in relational dynamics is a huge detriment to society, and I will not partake in it. Men are stubborn when it comes to relational improvement, and this is the crossroads we are at. I would rather die than be with a man unworthy of me. If a man cannot be of upstanding character, integrity, trustworthy, and intentional about his actions, I want nothing of him. I would rather not entertain any man since nothing is guaranteed. Plus, if he does the unthinkable, I don't want to go to spend life in prison over a bag of bones. A vibrator produces the same results a man may not be able to produce in a woman anyway!

@@EadsB7002 Why do you feel bad for them? They MADE A LIFETIME OF DECISIONS AND CHOSE to respond to every situation a certain way, so they are dealing with the long term consequences of their behavior. They had MANY CHANCES to turn that around and build rapport and meaningful connection with their children over a lifetime prior to their decline, but they chose not to. Why should you now feel sorry for them? Oh please! Men do not have empathy for women in their situation if they treat us the way they do ... So please don't create a pity party for them and their selfish ways.

Don't you think thats more to do with them living in extreme poverty than being stay at home moms? Also perhaps that was your own personal experience but that doesn't necessarily represent what other stay at home moms are experiencing.

And that’s exactly why single women without kids are the happiest demographic. It’s not just like that in 3rd world countries. It’s like that around the world.

@@CherryJuli does this trend continue for these women once they are past being fertile? I highly doubt it

That has to do with being in a 3rd world country, which is exactly why you wanted to come here / stay here. They are talking about the lie we try to sell women in first world countries that they’ll be miserable if they go the traditional family route. The demonization of women who do want to willingly choose that is the problem. Slave away to your job and have no family if you want that’s perfectly fine, just don’t demonize someone who wants a different life, like they’re stupid and you’re omnipotent.

You should blame the homewrecking women running around with married men.

The wall. There is going to be a lot of middle aged childless women who missed their chance to have children of their own. Which most will regret.

Gyrocentric society. It's all about women and there issues these days man. Ignore them

I mean, depending on what men you are talking about, someone will complain. If a man is rich and turns down women, you'll get articles complaining about that lol. Like how 40 year old women are complaining about Leonardo DiCaprio only dating 25 year olds

my uncle had his first kid when he was 58, I don't think a women can do that at that age

@@gibememoni that doesn’t make sense. If a woman decides to never have kids and a man decides to never have kids. Why is only the women talked about?

Better than the hassle of men

Until they realize they can't produce any children. Realty is the majority of men and women want children.

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I like cats 🐈

What men need to understand is that just being there with a paycheck is not enough. Men need to do more in relationships now, because women make thier own money now. Men have to do more.

Nonsense. Most people, single or not, are not happy with life and only fake it on social media.

@@keenanhomemovies6517 I appreciate your level of snark and cynicism.

Yes they will

The Wall is undefeated.

High doses of Copium

This idea that everything happens all by yourself in isolation is silly. Your growth depends on others as does theirs.

The "take your time" applies more to men, since we take the lesser burden of childbirth. If you're a woman who desires a high-end career chances are high you'd push yourself to infertility.

@@hamzamahmood9565 sperm quality also goes down as you enter 40s. So unless you freeze some in your early 20s there is that. Then are you a high value man with a good social network that you cultivated, generally most men do not make efforts in this area and suffer.

@@hamzamahmood9565 infertility can be at any age… I’ve had friends in their 20s who were having trouble conceiving. But I’ve also known women in my family that gave birth in their 40s. Not everyone is meant to have children, that’s gods will. Mostly poor religious 3rd world countries try to manipulate women with fear and into thinking they are invaluable without children.

@@nauxsi It's not a drastic steep I'm quality the way you think it is, quit saying it's the same as women losing their eggs because it's really not. Women are FAR more impacted than men with losing fertility. Men will produce sperm until the day they die, 60-70 year old men can have children no problem. Sure it might take a few sex sessions but it's going to happen. Women don't operate on the same rules.

i'd still hit a 40years old milf just saying, you still have enough time

Hey, a very touching story! Thank you for sharing and I hope all the best to you :)

Thank you for this very relatable post.

@@xxcrusade thank you, same to you! 🙂

@@shadowfax333 thanks for reading, was a bit of an essay 😅

Meaningless sex with women isn’t the same with dudes, dudes can’t get pregnant

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@@Saberdud So if a dude gets a girl pregnant he bares no responsibility? Should the woman then be labeled whore and be stoned in public?

@@Saberdud so you don't believe in birth control? And guys who will go out and have multiple partners are studs while women are nothing more than 15th century broodmares.

Ya get ran through by bunch of dudes or whatever why does it matter women love meaning less sex too

You miss the point. It's not damaging to the world its damaging to you. It's easy to be child free when ur young and healthy with possibly most ur extended family alive. The problem is that your third half of life will be very lonely. We're tribal animals and thrive in a tribe.

No-one said childfree women were ruining the world. People should be able to do what is best for them. What I do find unsettling, however, is the continuous propaganda pushed by mega-corporations demonizing motherhood, and celebrating semi-hedonistic, worker drone lifestyles instead.

Missed the point doll

Hey, I'm single and childfree. And, sometimes, I like to tell a man "no" just to see his face crack. And I have every intention to stay that way. I know what's best for myself. No one else can know that for me. It's part of what makes an adult responsible - to know their own limitations. And my limitation is no kids. It would be a disaster for myself and anything that came out of me. I'm just not willing to create that much trauma to satisfy a selfish desire for what many consider a clone. Kids never turn out the way you expect they will, and there's no guarantee they'll even like you, no matter how well you attempt to parent them.

Have fun being an old woman alone with no one to care for you.

Good luck with that BS! Crying at night must be normal for you! No second chance is possible! Pre-25+ is a one-time thing that you waisted!

Not true, as long as she has life in her body, her mobility, and independence there's still an opportunity to do whatever she wants. Sure it's easier when you're younger, but 40 does not equal death.

@@Lioness_Es It just = to no commitment from the men that you want, and you will most likely end up with a cat for love and crying yourself to sleep! Have fun with that pipe dream!

Not having your own kid must great when other happy women are all talking about their sons and daughters being proud of them!

​@@stevesmentkowski7789Said by an arse, lol. You. you are the nearsighted arse 😂😂😂

Similar experience here 👍

You are absolutely correct

That is very mature of you, unfortunately many men do not grow up that easily

@@MegaWeronika21 I think it's rude of you to assume it was easy. He had a child at 20. I don't think anyone would say he grew up easy, and in some senses he was lucky that the woman he knocked up wasn't a wrongun cause as we all know she could have thoroughly ruined everyone's life and been nothing but supported by the state.

@@TheAcad3mic you accuse someone of being presumptuous/rude while supporting that accusation with the presumption that ease doesn't apply and support the presumption that ease doesn't apply with a claim that he got lucky. Seems like you're confused about the point you're trying to make.

From a guy's perspective they are pretty much worthless, except for fun.

There is another difference nowadays as well: most of those fears are outdated. These days pregnancies are very safe and maternal mortality rate is less than 20 per 100,000 births in the US. In most of EU it is less than 10. So unless you have some serious illness or elevated risk factors, giving birth is perfectly safe for an average woman (in the West). Also, I think it is perfectly fine to be 26 and have no kids. There is no rush before 30. If a woman aims for 2 kids, it is enough to start around 33 to have two safe births. If you freeze eggs while 30, there is even less of a rush. If birthrates around the planet stay too low for too long, I am afraid that there will come a time when governments 'strongly encourage' women to have kids, if not outright force motherhood upon them with a penalty of heavily increased taxes. That is not a world I wish to witness.

@@tukkajumala Frozen eggs are kind of a meme, and it's not pain-free. Once thawed there is no guarantee you will actually be able to conceive with them. Some wont survive the thawing, others will have defects. If your womb is inhospitable due to age or otherwise, they won't take. A large minority can't even conceive naturally by 30.

financial reasons are the main reason whether its they want to earn more so dont want kids or dont want kids because they dont earn enough. No one is ready when they have kids.

Unfortunately there are only 2 things remaining in life that a modern, feminist, emancipated woman is still able to give to a man: 1.: sex, and 2.: kid(s). So, if a modern woman decides to remain childless, then only sex remains and nothing else. These childless women can give sex to men till they reach 30-35 years of age, and then they become invisible to men. End of story.

​@@lockbresnar6445 Sources?

@@alphathefirstone1222 Sources? I don't see the "millions of women...angry, remorseful, and bitter" on TikTok about their choices to pursue a career instead of a family. What I see here is men who appear to be very, very afraid about what it means for them that a significant percent of woman are making this choice. As an older married woman, had my kids all with my husband of 30+ years, I am grateful that men and women who don't want to have kids and men who think they are OWED a family by women who aren't interested (many still are)....will not be having children. No child deserves that fate.

@@alphathefirstone1222 Oh, no) while there's a cost to women who choose to be single, the cost is really not excessive. Let's be quite open here and admit why we are discussing this at all. the cost to society is huge, if such a large number of women stop producing new taxpayers, if not a complete collapse. Women are a valuable resource, and that's the whole idea behind why everybody's so intent on keeping them under control and with their heads sown.

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Unless you are literally 5% of women that will be the case. But you are failing to realize that it is INGRAINED into women's DNA to want to have children. Nobody can ever change that. That is the message. 95% of women want children. So yes even though it is a personal choice the question is, is it the best choice? And the answer is 95% of the time NO it isn't.

How is that a 'choice' if the factors that effect it are out of your control?

@@gonzowarburn7045 because some people still chose to have children despite the presence of these factors in their life. Many women don't want to be unfair to a child for the reasons mentioned here or just because they know they don't want kids. In both cases, it's a decision to make.

I'm disgusted by these two boys cause they're even talking about how men will win in promiscuity. Why should a woman wanna be with someone who's promiscuous and have his kids? Wouldn't I much rather keep my mind stimulated by furthering my education which leads to a good career?

Wrong

@@thomasaanderson12455 if you're not in her shoes, you're stupid for saying that

Bingo! Europe has suffered from low birthrates for decades because they have high youth unemployment and too much red tape. We're becoming the same as them.

@@TGP109 I agree it's just annoying hearing this mentally. When it demonstrates a lack of empathy or what young people are going through.

As long as they are genuinely happy, that's great. If they aren't, well, I guess they need to acknowledge that and find out how to fix it

Those men, when they get old, will probably just blow their brains out or hang themselves. They'll have a long time to get comfortable with the idea of being dead. The women will demand huge amounts of financial resources produced by an ever-shrinking population of young people so they can live to age 90 or more, having been on antidepressants for 60 years, which is completely insane. I fear that society's attitude toward them then will be the same attitude displayed toward today's elderly with respect to coronavirus: that the young should sacrifice endlessly for the old, to include complete financial destruction. This is end-stage capitalism.

So what solution do you propose? I say let the miserable stay miserable and the ones who have a positive attitude stay on the grind of finding the right partner.

@Lisa Fenwick exactly

@@1911Zoey true just these videos are so miopic, with no solutions and just blaming based on very simplistic ideas.

Ironic when women are the #1 consumers of anti depressants.

Anecdotal experiences. And do these "happy" single women tell you if they're on anti-depressants?

If your parents thought like that you wouldn't be here. Given the choice would you rather not have been born?

@@SCheco3 yes, absolutely.

@@SCheco3 I would rather not be here. I won't take myself out though as I know first hand how other people are affected by that action. This world on the surface seems ok but once you look deeply into the system and state of the world you will see how insidious it truly is. Future seems quite bleek so I am not worried about future generations as I don't have a stake in it. I am however quite involved in local politics and other things that affect today's issues.

@@SCheco3 this argument is so tired. Life in this planet is more negative than what people make believe. I would rather not be born.

@@SCheco3 Yes

These are all good reasons to not have children. However unfortunately that's not (from what I've seen) the reasons why most women aren't, it's because hedonism comes first for them and there are certain cultural and mutual influences that encourage them to believe that men won't reject them for it later on in life (90% do). Society is at present being explicitly geared toward disrespecting the evolutionary needs of men, conflating them with something that is either "out of date" or somehow impinging on the liberty of women. The reality is those so-called retrograde values are the ONLY reason why we have the society we have today, it's all about male pride, entirely, without the preservation of male dignity in a civilized world instead of getting the advancement of civilization, we get mogadishu from blackhawk down. It's that simple, either men have their pride respected in some generally agreed upon way, or men will take it in a very violent and destructive manner irrespective of very much around them. And the reality is women could not do what men have done, and IMO not even when automation takes place will women be able to take the place of men, I see men perceiving the dangers posed by artificial intelligence, I do not see women doing the same, because women are too inclined to take shortcuts that result in authoritarianism and disaster. Men created the american constitution, the single greatest guarantor against tyranny that has ever existed, women could never conceive of such a thing because their nature is collectivist and innately denigrates the individual.

Honestly at least children will be born in stronger families and happier. They just want repeat the same cycle and not involving with toxic men will make society safer

@@hhoneymamii lol it's always about the "toxic men" as if it's not women who almost always initiate divorces so they can take child support

Thank joe brandon

Nope, it's just a bunch of egocentric narcisists that don't want any responsability in their lives, like the majority of the last generations. Simple as that.

But not without consequences

@@dannygillmusic the consequence is happiness. Childless single women are the happiest demographic. watch?v=LCX6wr0uS7Y

​@@dannygillmusic yeah.... like every decision. Everything you do or not do has consequences, so what's your point

@@dannygillmusiceven having kids has consequences 😂

then so be it, if economics is the excuse you have for not pursuing motherhood, then so be it.

Feminists have been training women to be men, and you are obviously one of their great successes.

​@@SeattlePioneeryes, because being financially independent and not wanting to have kids is obviously her trying to be a man.

@@SeattlePioneer So men don't want marriage and children, you say?

Interesting. I see plenty of women wishing they could go back and find a good man and have children.

TikTok and social media are not the truth. The sort of person likely to make a lot of TikTok videos - and thus be popular on TikTok, more likely to have been viewed by you - is the same sort of person who is more likely to complain. She found a social media niche- everyday frustrations. I can't prove this, but I'd wager that for every one TikTok person complaining, there are 10,000 people who are genuinely happy with having a family.

Statistically women who are married and have kids are happier. Not only that, but they live longer. Keep in mind that what you see on TikTok is part of this toxic algorithm that shows the minority of people who have extreme opinions. I been on TikTok myself a couple times and wouldn’t be surprised if it’s some Chinese psyop used to usher in social collapse.

​@@johansigg3869aha its the truth. Men just want women to keep believing that marriage is the ultimate fulfilment 😂 its just endless cooking and cleaning and serving bah

@hanalala3164 The comment above has 22 likes, and the top comment has like 5k. It is not the truth that marriage is miserable, you have just convinced yourself of that to cope. Some marriages are miserable, and it's just as often the wife's fault as the husband's. Endless cooking and cleaning? I don't think you're married.

I'm so sorry for your loss, I can only imagine how painful it must be.

You weren’t heathy enough

We had a full report of why she died. I assumed that was the case but it wasn’t in fact. It didn’t make much sense to me. As for the miscarriages I don’t know.

@@Madonnalitta1 Thank you for your compassion. It’s really was and sometimes still is. The feeling are becoming much better. I feel more able to share now.

Very sorry for your loss. It must be heartbreaking. My aunt had several miscarriages, but luckily ended up having twins. I know you might not want to try again, the fear is overwhelming, but who knows, you may find the bravery to try again in the future. You're tougher than you think or feel right now. Best of luck.

can be nice when a woman doesn't see you as a breathing machine for your wallet.

Right now until young population declines and you have no one to take care of future generations

Just realize that you are training yourself to be a man and to be independent. That's not what a marriage to a woman is supposed to be for a man. Independent, masculine women are properly left on the shelf. They aren't fit for marriage.

@@revan3841well I mean you can’t feed your kids out of love.

@@SeattlePioneerbeing a women solely depending on a man never benefits a women. It leads to abuse and cheating. So calling a woman masculine because they want to be financially independent is not really a bad thing honestly.

The problem isn’t the choice, it’s the often bad information or lack of information that women use to make that choice. Choices are great. Choices made in ignorance are not. And most people, not just women, are making life long choices with very little information and very little thought about the consequences or what they actually will want for the rest of their life. For example; The choice to pursue continuous moments of happiness might sound like a great choice. Until you find out that, biologically, neuro-chemically, and psychologically, you are far more likely to find a better life through pursuit of meaning, purpose, and fulfillment. Where is the one place that almost all humans get the most amount of these feelings of meaning, purpose, and fulfillment? It’s most often from a good relationship with their spouse, and the children they bring into the world. That’s the data talking, not me. So when women make the decision to not have children, are ALL of them informed of things like this? Are ALL of them aware that waiting in til you’re 30/35/40 to try to find someone to be with or start having kids is a highly suboptimal situation to be in if that ends up becoming your goal? Have they though it through to when they’re 70 years old and have no one to take care of them, and no legacy to leave behind to go out and do great things after you’re gone? Something tells me plenty of them haven’t thought it all the way through. Most people, men and women both, seem to be not thinking all the way through their choices as of late.

Great point!

We’re literally being conned at the national level 😂😂

They don't want to sell it to us, they want to rent it. Look at the WEF.

they cant be that stupidly short sighted, itll boost profits short term but who is gonna be the customers when they hand the business off to their children and childrens children when birthrates take a nose dive

@@eKko0 That is a good question. The elite seems to genuienly buy into transhumanism so they may think that is their way out. But a lot of it surely is short sightedness. Or not, usually old money survives even big crisises so it doesn't matter even if we are heading towards a total collapse like happened in Egypt, Rome, Greece and all civilizations before us. The elites have prepared for all kinds of events and how much of it have they done in complete secrecy? I can bet a lot. Finance is the closest thing we humans have to magic.

Not when they are 40+ lol.

Luckily, if you’re a woman, you can have one without a man via sperm banks or a doner

Ya they hate single mothers and tell us too choose better . Now we’re opting out and they’re still mad

@@Yomel123 exactly, they don’t know what they want

@@reddragon4482 who cares if they single and 40+? what we need to do is cut off all of the government welfare and government entitlement and subsidy programs. sure people will die but people are going to die from food riots and small scale civil wars once the money printing reaches 100%. it's already at $40% since the USA has printed 8 trillion USD in 2 years and that was 40% of the former debt of 20 trillion. now it's about 30 trillion. women's welfare state has to be abolished and the detractors have to be defeated in combat or whatever. nothing else matters. certain young people know this. others are in denial.

you'll die alone.

​@@kc6810 Okay, then die alone, with no one to mourn you, except fair weathered friends who will have their own lives rather than your own family which is your legacy that you have passed down to the ages.

​@@kwazooplayingguardsman5615That's interesting because most people do die alone. It's a singular act, unless you die with others in a crash of some sort! I'm a nurse and death alone happens very frequently.

@@ccalcote9125 Maybe in the modern age, that is normal, for the past 2000 years, it was the norm to have a family.

@@kwazooplayingguardsman5615 Its dawning on me as I read these comments that there are people who believe that without a marital or blood-familial relationship, then that means they will have nobody around them who cares about them. It's helping me to understand the fear and the anger of the (mostly men) who make these "You'll die alone because you didn't marry and/or have kids" comments. THEY must believe that they would have nobody around them if they didn't have a legal or blood relationship with those people. THEY are afraid that if they can't marry or have children they will be alone. That's why it is threatening if women in large numbers abandon the traditions of marriage and children. THEY fear that if they can't get someone to marry them or have a familial obligation to them, then THEY will be alone. I get it now.

Your husband won't call you that. Society celebrates mothers enough. Only few people will call you names for having a child and it often happens when a woman has a child out of wedlock or is trying to remarry after a divorce and she has kids. Nothing justifies such name calling. To survive in life you have to be tough enough not to let what few ignorant people say make you lose focus.

@@Noob-zi2ce husbands and society trashes mothers. I don’t blame wm for not wanting to be mothers one bit. In fact mn trash wm any time she comes into contact with a man

Its choosing to give up on family and focus only on yourself. Its sad

@@orderingfoodwgoogledoxesu3113 money makes me happy. Very.

@@orderingfoodwgoogledoxesu3113 yea, and women re to be blamed for this.

It’s not sad at all. If men want to abuse women and abuse their financial control and cheat then good luck. No one needs to put up w that.

@@AncientIntegrations 👏🏾💯👏🏾

Exactly! Being a parent is a huge life altering obligation. Your life, money and time are no longer your own. Being childless is freedom. Let the people who love to be parents enjoy their kids, and let the people who enjoy their freedom remain childless.

Yes!! Why are these people so obsessed with pressuring women to breed?? Some of us want to live for ourselves and not raise a small human.

@@mysteriousbean8413 good luck! 😂😂 . My aunt is like that! And now she's depressed! Crying when drunk! And very bitter and jealous for woman with children..

@Task Master yes, one must find meaning beyond human replication

@MsZoomification That would be brutal and it happens a lot. My biggest reason for not having is I think I'd have a really hard time raising a kid if they were mentally handicapped or ill. My family has ADHD and bipolar for some and I wouldnt risk it.

@Jojo Moa Everyone has siblings, parents and friends mostly. I've got lot's of friends and it sounds like this woman they are discussing has a lot of friends as well. As well as a lovely sister who she bought a house with.

Me, me, me. It's all about me.

You really think she's going to be honest about being unhappy?

@@davidharrow9025 Yes Dave. Clearly it is all about you

@@keenanhomemovies6517not having the responsibility of taking care of children and a grown ass man sounds very happy to me.

link your source mcnutty

No stress from childrearing == happiness

We are a reproductive species like all others. our biology drives us to reproduce. you want to believe its a personal choice, this is a delusion. this is biology and this cannot be changed. their is nothing that you cannot do in your life if you have kids. oh and 90% of these infinite options on how to spend your life you speak of has only really became possible over the last 80 years

Human beings who are able to neglect the instinct to give birth or raise children are most likely able to do so because of a psychosis. It's impossible to be truly happy about life if you neglect your instincts because they are in every way the greatest part of who you are and only an upset state of mind can be the cause of such "deliberate" decision. Peace and Love.

@@petneb 😂😂😂

@@petneb especially in the case of women, men can deal with the fact of not having children fsr easier

@@petneb Interesting perspective but I suppose to verify your theory you'd have to get into the mind of every individual who claims to not want children. Not totally sure what you mean by "truly happy" either - there is more than one way to be happy, and nobody is happy ALL the time. For me personally, maybe I could be convinced to have children if I had unlimited time and resources, but I do not, and there are other routes to happiness and fulfilment that I prioritise over having kids. Also, even if I did agree that not wanting children could only be a result of some kind of psychosis (I do not agree btw), then surely you agree that we all have mental issues to some degree (I sure as hell do 🤣). Issues that are often out of our control and that influence the way we think and see the world... but that still doesn't change the fact that many people genuinely do not want kids! ✌

> Heh, heh! There is that! The only disappointing thing about being age 73 is that someday I wont be around to laugh at the world's absurdities!

No the globalists are not pushing us to reproduce, they are doing the opposite (with success). You only know men who cheat? Yeah you don't know other men because you don't desire them. So stop generalizing

Ya most men with option will never be with one women which she will leave anyways As the saying goes she is not yours it's just your turn I think government should give money to women to reproduce and after that men and women part ways I think artificial womb is the only option

Income doesn’t matter to a guy. Just add to his live, bring him peace of mind through loyalty and trustworthiness, don’t let yourself go looks-wise, and be at least decent at personal finance. That’s most of the important stuff right there. If you want it enough, you’ll make the changes needed and dedicate the time to become the type of woman that a good man wants. I realize the pool is smaller when you’re older, but it’s not impossible if you start now. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Right now. I bet you’ll succeed if you put your mind to it.

Absolutely!

Some people want to raise their own children, it's biology

Women generally have kids for selfish reasons.....me, me, me...

Adopted kids are waste of time. They look for their biological parents or family when they grow up. You just help them become someone with no strings attached!

@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 of course people are going to want to know where they came from. People can love the family they are adopted into and develop relationships with people from their family of origin. Most people are capable of that.

@@monikagolab8892 the funny thing is they always want one.

@@monikagolab8892 women dont become incels until after 40. Charlize Theron is one of the most famous incels on the planet. Enjoy having options while you're young. Men get that opportunity later in life. Men have more choice as they age reverse for women.

@@monikagolab8892 I am sorry Monika you're simply incorrect. In general women desperately want relationships with men as you said women are much more social. Look up the creator of sex and the city. She is miserable and regrets choosing career over family and she has also expressed regret in creating sex and the city which inspired a generation of young women to do the same as her. I do hope you end up happy regardless but do not fall for this crap people say when they're young and inexperienced

@@monikagolab8892 thank you, take care.

They're not marrying...that's the point

Agreed. These guys are just insecure assholes and they’re threatened that a woman could be happy all by themselves.

Those middle Eastern and Asian countries are doing far far FAR better than the west when it comes to preserving marriage, family, and subsequently social structure. Its very typical of you to assume that these countries make divorce illegal or arranged marriage is the same as forced marriage When in reality the two are very different things. And btw, divorce is forbidden in roman catholicism, not in islam. And have you lived in those countries? Visited their homes? The West loves to pretend that countries that still value marriage MUST be trapped in unhappy marriages. You might be surprised to find that the majority of thode marriages are very happy and functional, because of a number of factors in terms of how relationships in the east work. We don't have sex before marriage, we keep it in the marriage. We value our religious teachings on marriage. 99.9 per cent of children are born into a married home with a mother and a father. Family structures are stronger. The elderly are not abandoned. Women are not used for hedonistic sexual pleasures then dumped and left traumatised. Eastern communities value COMMITMENT and FAMILY because of our strong religious values Alhumdillilah.

​@@SA-rx3dv The length of a marriage is not equivalent to the success of a marriage because children were produced. There are many stories of men stepping out of their marriage and women/men being miserable in their marriage until the day they die because they sacrificed themselves and lost themselves doing so, for various reasons.

Whether the men in these comments fully understand or not but the truth is that adults fully settle into themselves, know themselves after 30 or late 20s. Marriage before then is a gamble. I am not specifying a gender here

yep, too many folks not properly vetting partners before getting married and having kids...then we continue a downward spiral in society where there are more divorces/families end up splitting up and everyone loses. but nobody wants to talk about that. it's all like it's a competition to "check off all of the boxes" or something...and the entire family eventually ends up getting hurt.

Ironically having fewer option to leave a marriage makes people WORK HARDER into making marriage a success. If the door out is always right there, then of course you end up with a society of quitters who can’t tolerate hardship.

Couldn’t agree more.

1. It doesn't have to be on the screen. It can be a cultural shift by parents who teach it by living by it. It starts from a young age, children should have good opinion of the opposite gender as someday they will need to pick a partner from them. Not the toxic stuff social media promotes. Islam is fastest growing religion and its no coincidence that the mother and well being of women is at the centre.

All men need to do to have a baby isn't just orgasm. It requires commitment, hardwork, confidence, leadership etc...no man will just walk up to a woman and deposit his sperm in her. He gets to know her, take her out on dates, commit, and provide etc... before he gets the chance to deposit his sperm in her and also her to carry their baby. Western societies tend to minimise the role of men when it comes to procreation. It isn't easy at all. Go figure!

I think the men who push this fear are worried that men tend to be worse off without marriage (life partners) or children. They always bring up divorce rates but never speak on when men marry within their social class they earn more money and are more likelier to get a promotion. The opposite is for women. Also being 30 and single is the best bet for sine women. It's not just about travel and having a expendable income it's of having the opportunity to rely on yourself, nurture your interests and not do things for the sake of doing things. And having biological children isn't they only way to be maternal. There is volunteering, adoption, mentoring, being a children's doctor/psychologist.

@@AYYOluvable Human beings naturally want to pass their genes to the next generation, we have a natural instinct to want to procreate. Adopting a child won't fulfil that desire if you have never had a child of your own. Get a child of yours if you can unless you can't make one.

Exactly, well said

This is such feminist propaganda bullshit. At least 25% of single unmarried women are on antidepressants. By every matrix, the happiness index for women have declined since the 1950s.

Statistically the amount of extra work women do in the home is offset by the extra paid work and commuting men do. Women want to marry up (hypergamy) and then complain when the higher earning men have to devote more time and effort to work. Childish and entitled.

Yet this factor is left out of many videos on this topic.

@@fiveleavesleft6521 you are absolutely delusional lmao.. Nobody is talking about higher earning men, so stop, because this comment is not about high earning men but about men who have less paying jobs, lets say middle to lower class jobs. My boyfriend doesn't do extra hours and he still is of an opinion that a woman must take care of everything at home and also bring a paycheck too. Your just shooting in the dark with this one, completely.

Not all, nobody said "all". The majority of young women are statistically shown to be doing those things. If you're interested in your career but remain a virgin or have just one partner, good for you. You surely must realise you're in the minority?

@@dududu5189 Not a minority

I am curious why it's always cats and never dogs.

As long as it stays by one cat, hate to see alawys does pictures of animal crualty

❤ love this comment. Cant wait to have my own lovely cats

@@maam-yj8ph well, it's the peace and quiet aspect. Cats are more calm and chill then dogs, and require less maintenance in taking care of them.

drones for the marx hive.

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No surprise the article is from Bloomberg.

They want women to be depressed

@@thomasphilip8916 I think it's working. I haven't met a happy woman in probably over 15 years.

You are not single by choice. The ideal man of your dreams that you wanted just doesn't want you. You are a femcel. And, speaking of being liberated from men, how about you give up using all the infrastructure created and maintained by men to help you stay comfortable? (the house? The roads? The internet? Your car? Plumbing?) I bet you won't give up any of these things. Men will always rule the world, unless Women start building infrastructure and control the means of producing goods - which will never happen! 😂

I find that hard to believe, frankly. People who are f***-ugly are almost never aware of it, for some reason. That part of their brain is missing. You aren't as ugly as you think you are - the odds of that are against you.

@@hunterbidensaidslesion1356 it’s not that difficult to realise, especially when people make rude comments about your face and body. I just lost in the genetic lottery 😅

Well as a woman u can work with that. U can go to the gym for example.. I, a short man, am doomed from the start regardless

@@lucadesanctis563 I did everything I could, surgery is the only option left. Unfortunately men don’t care about education or carrer if a woman is not pretty (and I don’t blame them for it, it’s normal that you want to be attracted physically to your partner). But there are many studies which show that for women looks aren’t the most important thing. Social status, money, job, education is more attractive than just looks. Some studies show that women care about intelligence twice as much as men. That’s why men can be very attractive without being handsome or fit.

@@maj3732 Glad you are making light of your situation. Not that you asked but I think you have a solid head on your shoulders and good heart. Best of luck to you.

SURVIVAL devised gender roles or vice versa. Reproduction for survival is what all life on earth is doing, not just humans.

@@SCheco3 Evidently survival of individuality has changed

Men and women are different. VERY DIFFERENT. That is why we have gender roles. The breaking down of these gender roles, and the denial that men and women are different has led to the society we have today.

@@thefrog4990 Men and women can be different and not have gender roles. Gender roles are a construct. You can't deny women education, autonomy and choice. Even choice not to have to marry. Women who own their own homes work and look after everything themselves. It's no big deal. Get over yourself and stop being regressive

@@wyleecoyotee4252 I'm not being regressive. I'm just not denying the obvious truth. Men and women work best together when therr are gender roles. Each role is equally as important, but still those roles themselves are VERY DIFFERENT, and for good reason. I will not get over myself. I think it is you who should get over yourself. You can continue to deny it but it's TRUE.

Also, a bit weird to discuss a particular demographic while not including them in said discussion. I like your videos usually, but I can't deny that's very strange.

It is best for the future of humanity and the world that humanity depopulates anyway to balance the effects of overpopulation.

> Interesting comment. So what DO you put your time and energy into? I made a decision at age 19 never to get married or have children. I spent 37 years, from 1981-2018, as a volunteer leader for the Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts ---the most rewarding part of my life. In other parts of my life I lived frugally, saved and invested a good part of my income and wound up with a net worth of several million dollars.

@SeattlePioneer I've spent a few years doing work in exchange for room and board, plus pet sitting and a little elderly care. I say I get to make lives better for people and their animals. It's been rewarding, but I have not set myself up financially as well as you. I'm open to and actively trying to see learning and growth opportunities as well as working to become aware of and overcome old, limiting patterns and blocks... which have gotten me to this point. I was married briefly 20 years ago and would still like to experience a great relationship and marriage.

@@chriskiesling9387 As I described in my post, from 1981-2018 I was a volunteer leader for the Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts. That gave me a useful social role in society aside from my work. I also found that single mothers were often DESPERATE for help in managing their overbooked and underfinanced lives. That was an opportunity to play a role in such families and with such children from time to time. Not on a permanent or long term basis, however. Those were both ways I could make a rewarding life as a single person for myself, while I was making a reasonable income as a blue collar tradesman. And because life as a single person can be lived very frugally, I had surplus income which could be invested in stocks and rental real estate, which paid off very well over decades. I would worry about not being able to accumulate the assets needed to take care of yourself at a future time....

To be fair, if women are supposedly outpacing men, why do I keep hearing about a wage gap? Why would a group that’s supposedly outearning another group still be talking about a wage gap? Something isn’t adding up there. That said, I don’t think it’s an issue of men needing to rise up and become better. Rather, I think the average woman’s standards have become too high, and in turn, they may not qualify for the men they want, hence they remain single. Do you really think an average woman truly deserves a good looking man who is tall and makes 6 figures?

When a gay guy tells you that high value men are on the decline then better believe it 😆

@@midatlantic09I think you are missing the point here - it’s not about that if a woman deserve this kind of man… It’s the fact that ONLY THIS KIND OF MEN CAN PROVIDE FOR A FAMILY… If you won’t find a guy like that then you won’t make any children obviously because it would be really stupid. It’s really funny how corporations and capitalism has caused demography decline - but the whole blame in media is on women 😂

Divorce rates are shit because modern women are homewreckers. It's you who is filing divorce, no wonder men don't want anything to do with you.

Lady, it's not a flippant and easy thing for men to say they want to have kids. You're only going through 9 months pregnancy and then birth once, but the man has to commit to pay for atleast next 18 years raising that child. Most women end up leaving work after marriage anyways. It's common for them to do part time work or small business while the man brings the majority of income. Most men WANT to be fathers and more than 70% if divorces are initiated by women and further removed from the home and family by the woman + courts. there are millions of men across the world denied access to their own children. Don't blame all men when you're the one who who rejected advances from good men and chased the "bad boy" and now are left alone with a child because of your poor decisions. Take accountibility. It's commit fine if you don't want to get married or have kids but don't blame all men and assume we are all future dead beat dads when fact is fathers love their kids too and many men are good want a family.

Yeah and now you can see why many of us guys just want no part of that headache .

@@brianmeen2158 and alimony etc...

Yeah you might want to look at those divorce stats a little closer especially the no-fault ones. Women clean house with divorce and men always lose even with no kids involved. Until women rally together to get those ancient laws changed to be fair it's only going to get worse for women.

This logic is bad for society because only responsible people use it. It’s something of a conundrum, but society will only get worse when people like you choose not to have kids. You’re contributing to the problem yourself.

You can see how this kind of thinking leads to a vicious cycle of the best abstaining from having kids and only the worst groups breeding, which makes the best even more reluctant to have kids.

@@devinglass9967 He doesn't owe society however. Being responsible when planning children isn't a failing. People that shouldn't have children when they aren't ready or have them unplanned and don't step up to the responsibility is a personal failing on them. And him having children doesn't necessarily fix that issue. He also can't find a partner that would be a good coparent either which is another problem.

@@devinglass9967 What's the alternative? Please give constructive criticism instead of just a blanket statement About how I'm wrong for my beliefs and assessments of my own situation. I've thought long and hard about the consequences. I am fully committed to put in the work but until there's hope that my children won't be taken from me(which is coming because countries are attempting to establish children having their own rights-which means no more parental rights), and until I marry a man who I feel safe and compatible with(because having heathy and happy parents is the best environment for a child to thrive) I won't have children. But thank you for your consideration🙏❤

@@keenonmorgan8558 thank you Keenon, just a quick correction to your comment, I'm a woman🤗 otherwise I really appreciate your comment🙏❤

They’re no different from a rotten king who wants to take power away from peasants.

Thank you for your honesty. I wish there were more sensible, wise women out there, to guide the young and foolish younger girls.

@@C12341 No, she didn't have it all, and neither did her kids. That was her point.

@@C12341 far from having it all! I missed a lot of school activities and family time just so I could be a boss babe

Women aren't biologically built to handle being provider while being a nurturer. They did studies and found women that go through the same day to day activities as men have much higher levels of cortisol. I think it was six times the amount as men, and women were less fulfilled at the end of the day compared to the men. When a woman enters fight or flight, which is the daily stresses of work, it wreaks havoc on her body because it's not her intended biological duty. If it was women would've evolved to have the same physical composition as men through hormonal output.

In all honestly I’m just puzzled as to why women want or feel the need to compete with men in corporate America. ? I’ve worked many 50+ hour weeks and there is nothing fun or glamorous about it. Seems these women feel they will attain power that they are so desperately needing…?

Yea same for guys 'I'm a good guy' and get passed up by girls wanting drug dealers :/

Loyal, beautiful word.

Men want young aka fertile women. The cold fact is, from the day you hit 20, if you are still single, your value as a woman decreases every year. You can't produce more healthy eggs. That being said, nowadays good men are as rare as good women and I would rather look for a good woman as a good man rather than look for a good man as a good woman. My tip is that the older you are, the lower your standards should be.

So given that woman are choosing the top guys on dating apps, like the top 20%, how about dropping the standards toward someone who will take you seriously. The guys most woman are picking are the top guys- so they have options.

That's a manosphere myth. Average age of marriage and having children is early 30's for both women and men .

There is no horrible world westerner propaganda. The world is perfect, stop listening fake news

Imagine calling one of the safest period in the history of humanity a horrible world. Women really don't have courage or spine at all.

@@karthik197 According to your statement I can conclude that you literally have no awareness and real knowledge on history or even reality itself. I could argue on this further, since I majored in history, but I won't waste my energy. It's really sad that some people have such a narrow, subjective view of the world and those are usually the ones talking as if they were superior to others.

@@zerochill6451 make a point on how 2023 is a horrible world compared to the past 800k years. I'll wait.

i didn't know men had uteruses and delivered babies. wow, learn something new every day.

If you think 100% of the men around you are "not suitable" than it's not them, it's your measure that is off.

@@d3r4g45 that's a bit exagerated assumption...nevertheless it is a valid point and we should keep a look out for it. On the other hand, you might not "click" or "connect" with the ones that are willing and available. Also it's important to remember that more and more men complain about the same issues.

@@d3r4g45 I think that men just stopped wanting to have kids. Women are probably more picky, because they are better educated and have more possibilities. We know that women look for partners at least their equal. Men seem to fall behind unfortunately

@@Orisiya most women rate themselves a 10/10, their equal being someone average is an insult to them because in their mind 5/10 is below them. All these makeup, filters and simp validation has blown the modern women ego to the high heavens. Studies show women find 80% of men unattractive

No problem you are not needed to propagate the species. Enjoy your life 🤠

Your face tells everything already

@@myhonorwasloyalty that I am hot and look hot in glasses?

@@darbrad3952 thanks!

Why despite being independent you still wish a men who would support you.

Yes because Capitalism tells us to do so :). U know, more customers..

I'm a single woman over 50. You need to get better friends and build a personal life for yourself. Get Some hobbies.

Boy stfu studies says otherwise get over it

Betty white was 99

They won't lament having a lousy husband

Most won't reach that age. Plus they will most probably have dementia or some problem

We all make mistakes in our life and honestly u should not choose what other people's priorities should be

My friend’s mother divorced her husband at 90. After over 40 years of marriage. I think it was just a statement since obviously neither was gaining anything from the divorce. But it’s something that’s always stuck with me.

Tell us more about your issues

Can a geologist not make claims about rocks if they are not a stone themselves?

Some men know women better than they know themselves 😂

One might argue guys are the only ones left to discuss the topic... we left women to their devices to pursue their happiness and now they're more drugged up/depressed than ever with fewer and fewer having children. Meanwhile, they blame men for not being "man enough" to want to get married. Most men I know want to get married, they just don't want to get divorced. Because when 4 out of every 5 divorces are initiated by the woman, a few guys are eventually going to step in and start discussing why.

@@mouwersor If women are not talking with you it does not mean that they are stones :))). It seems that they just know better :))

That's exactly the reason

Pump and Dump is the problem😂😂😂💪💪

Clown take. Women never have been the deciding party in regards to relationships; It's always been men. You are confusing women's gatekeeping of sex with men's gatekeeping of LTR/Marriage. The reason so many women are going to stay single; is because the crazies ruined it for everyone else. No man with 2 braincells to rub together would EVER enter into a legally binding financial contract with someone who is INCENTIVISED to break it. Even if every women WONT fleece you in family/divorce court, every single one COULD; And this isn't even accounting for the reality of the average women's promiscuity (gross) and universal divorce stats. Chivalry is dead, and women killed it. Invest in cat food stocks.

@@eduardofuentes4901 Why buy the cow?

It's always men trying to act like they know women better than we do 😂 how about they mind their own business first.

@@renek2913

That’s great, one less man on the child support system.

Its okay to be rejected, stay single

Yes! Great point!

Give me a break. Work in healthcare for 30 years. Compare yourself to the mothers of the boomer generation. How did everything. They are ecstatic and love their grandkids. Now you got everything. At your convenience, microwave, dishwasher. Washer and dryer. Microwaveable meals.

We must never forget the past and why feminism evolved.

You must be delusional to think ALL woman had three generations of working woman. Women haven't been working for that long and most had house wives as mothers even if work was an option.

Of course, why would we discuss the other side of this? We all know all men are perfect family material who would devote their life to the wellbeing of the family. We all know it is only the crazy cat lady's fault who wants to go "on boring trips".😒

Agreed. They never discuss this glaring fact

👏👏👏 I have worked with two women who half way through their pregnancy found out their husbands were cheating. Yay for motherhood!!

Something is not adding up then if the single childless women are all " happy" when there has never been more women on anti-depression medication in the west - up to 40%.

@@mark-sb6os sorry, I meant to say that childless and single women have been proven to be the *happiest* sub section of society. So if they’re all on anti-depressants as you say, then lord help us all :)

@@mark-sb6os do you think people with children don't get depression? Many people with children have commited suicide

@@mark-sb6os depends on the reasons why they need those meds. Its not necessarily because of not having babies

@@mark-sb6oscause most of the times these women have other health issues and wouldn’t simple survive 100-200 years ago without proper medication and help.

True and most of the times people who were born into poverty and abuse have hard times building relationship that won’t have patterns of their childhood traumas. After a couple of broken relationship which only leave you wounded and more ficked up it’s seems normal to give up dating as whole and focus on other things.