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Why Do People Refuse To Accept The Truth About Men & Women? 

Chris Williamson
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Chris and Steve Stewart-Williams discuss the actual differences between men and women. What do most people get wrong about men and women according to Steven Stewart-Williams? How modest are the differences between sexes according to Steve Stewart-Williams?
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@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 13 дней назад
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@anatta3.14
@anatta3.14 13 дней назад
You get a new lens or camera?
@anatta3.14
@anatta3.14 13 дней назад
Looks good
@patrickm9494
@patrickm9494 12 дней назад
I saw you replied to Menno’s post on Instagram debunking the adenosine not being active in the morning and that you can have caffeine immediately in the morning. Are you going to address that and remove the LMNT plug that has proven to be false?
@joshuas2042
@joshuas2042 13 дней назад
These are so brutally obvious it is amazing that society has gotten to the place where this is challenged or worth a contentious discussion.
@Johnstone72
@Johnstone72 13 дней назад
The alphabet Spastics will hate you for saying it out loud.
@ronin4160
@ronin4160 13 дней назад
It's because liberal millenials aren't having babies and if they are it's just one. Any parent with multiple kids of each sex or has at least watched big groups of toddlers with both sexes know boys and girls are different. It's just obvious
@cargolot
@cargolot 13 дней назад
“Every high civilization decays by forgetting obvious things.” ― G.K. Chesterton
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 13 дней назад
Yeah there are very influential people that are trying to make it seem like men and women are pretty much the same .. of course there is a lot of overlap but there are several very key differences in how men and women think
@vngelsvnddemons5292
@vngelsvnddemons5292 13 дней назад
Common sense is no longer common, sadly.
@StateFlow-ns4mg
@StateFlow-ns4mg 13 дней назад
The fact that it is even a question, shows how broken we are.
@niallfitzpatrick6568
@niallfitzpatrick6568 13 дней назад
Yup 😢 The very definition of a First World problem...
@gaijinbear8949
@gaijinbear8949 13 дней назад
Don't "we' this. A large portion of society is not broken.
@niallfitzpatrick6568
@niallfitzpatrick6568 13 дней назад
@@gaijinbear8949 l agree. Unfortunately we don't have a voice in the MSM anymore. MSM is more concerned with anti-white straight male Christian racism. Frankly it stinks to high heaven.
@ScrotusMaximus666
@ScrotusMaximus666 12 дней назад
“Delusional”
@JordiMuntada
@JordiMuntada 12 дней назад
Why is it broken??
@randywise5241
@randywise5241 9 дней назад
Men and women were not made to be equal. They were made to be complementary with equal rights. We need each other to have a future for all mankind.
@benjaminholm2311
@benjaminholm2311 13 дней назад
It's time to stop pretending that they're acting in good faith.
@indeswma4904
@indeswma4904 12 дней назад
I worry that youre right.
@PhsychoSomatic
@PhsychoSomatic 11 дней назад
Who
@drockopotamus1
@drockopotamus1 11 дней назад
@@PhsychoSomatic People who think there are no differences between males and females, obviously lol. There are people who literally think the brains are the same or changing identity will change their sex. Not everything is a social construct. Facts exist.
@FlibDokky
@FlibDokky 10 дней назад
​@@PhsychoSomatic you know who
@ganjaericco
@ganjaericco 8 дней назад
@@PhsychoSomatic New aged socialists, who believe in the blank slate theory, that all outcomes are a result of societal discrimination and must be forced by the state to become equal.
@LastEarBender
@LastEarBender 13 дней назад
what blows me away is that anyone claiming otherwise holds any level of credibility - with anyone
@FutureCommentary1
@FutureCommentary1 8 дней назад
Do you have any reference to anybody claiming that? I've never heard anything like it before. If you could give me a couple of names I'll check out their content.
@EuropaPhoenix
@EuropaPhoenix 13 дней назад
The earth is round. 2+2=4. Men and women are different. In a sane world, these basic facts aren't debated.
@starkid9736
@starkid9736 12 дней назад
...how dare u...
@DrDeuteron
@DrDeuteron 12 дней назад
"round-ish", see: EGM96, for exmaple.
@user-jv2hg7fv5c
@user-jv2hg7fv5c День назад
ok but like 2+2=5 though...
@yol_n
@yol_n 13 дней назад
Crazy time we live in where saying women and men are different is a hot take
@andrewrai5752
@andrewrai5752 13 дней назад
Only in the liberal sections of the US/Canada and Northern Europe! Most of the world don’t buy the liberal western social science BS!! I was just in Italy and talking to a bunch of locals and they were aghast when I told them that there was such a term as “they” people, or all the liberal BS we hear in the US.
@DNA350ppm
@DNA350ppm 13 дней назад
It is rather a banality. What is important is when and why the differences matter. Like in the case of umpaid labor. Or in the rights of fathers. Or in customs of politeness vs harrassment. In divorce-laws, in pensions plans, in medical treatments, or bullying in schools. All individuals have rights.
@edm-london1660
@edm-london1660 12 дней назад
No it is NOT! Women go crazy after a guy who doesn't give a sh*t about feminism. He just gets on with it - being masculine, enjoying life and loving women - and if he does meet a genuine feminist (and they are rare!) he respects her and with warmth, humour and charm as opposed to bitter and defensive.
@yol_n
@yol_n 12 дней назад
@@edm-london1660 cope harder
@edm-london1660
@edm-london1660 12 дней назад
@@yol_n ?!
@filipcza
@filipcza 13 дней назад
If someone is so out of touch with reality that they actually think men and women are the same, then just walk away. They are beyond anyone's help.
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 13 дней назад
But but all The differences are caused by social constructs!! With enough work we can all be the same 😂
@stinkystu1
@stinkystu1 11 дней назад
@@brianmeen2158 What they really mean is: "If you just completely destroy who you are, and give me all of your time and money then we can maybe work this out."
@debrawehrly6900
@debrawehrly6900 7 дней назад
They are both human beings. They are both two separate things of the same thing
@johannesdolch
@johannesdolch 13 дней назад
Is it time to accept that water is wet?
@niallfitzpatrick6568
@niallfitzpatrick6568 13 дней назад
Or that politicians are full of shite?
@alkaliwreck2474
@alkaliwreck2474 13 дней назад
But what if the water is solid :P
@albertlevins9191
@albertlevins9191 13 дней назад
I'm crying!!! 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@stxlaxPP
@stxlaxPP 13 дней назад
Are you assuming my fluidity?
@solo1014
@solo1014 13 дней назад
Define "wet." Also, if its a bose-einstein condesate, it gets weird...
@Nossieuk
@Nossieuk 13 дней назад
we did accept that - 60 years ago - this is regression, not progress.
@Anne_Onymous
@Anne_Onymous 13 дней назад
It's an objective fact that humans have accepted for millions of years. Not sure why we're even having this convo.
@osariemeenehizena8577
@osariemeenehizena8577 13 дней назад
Social politics
@mileygray7794
@mileygray7794 13 дней назад
? Slavery being a good thing is the same way? Do you wish for us to continue with it as well? Er does the position you are making to traditional beliefs only apply to the one you hold on to? Remember people it's perfectly fine to have tearable beliefs but it is never ok to be a lazy thinking hypocrite 😅
@mileygray7794
@mileygray7794 13 дней назад
@@realsatoshihashimoto na it's important to say all the stuff you believe in ^.^ well as long as you try to do so in good taste. We can't learn grow and shurt the good from the bad by hiding from what we don't like
@mileygray7794
@mileygray7794 13 дней назад
@@realsatoshihashimoto na it's important to say all the stuff you believe in ^.^ well as long as you try to do so in good taste. We can't learn grow and shurt the good from the bad by hiding from what we don't like
@realsatoshihashimoto
@realsatoshihashimoto 13 дней назад
@@mileygray7794 Yeah, not sure why my comment was deleted when I was basically agreeing with the creator of the channel & what they said in the video! RU-vid censorship is out of control.
@threatened2024
@threatened2024 13 дней назад
As Cory Clark said, people tend to accept negative things about men and positive things about women.
@busybecomingmyself
@busybecomingmyself 13 дней назад
Indeed. See "women are wonderful effect"
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
@@busybecomingmyself Glad you noticed 😂 Just kidding. I don’t think that’s true and as a married woman, Ive been ignored by say a restaurant host/hostess or at some other public place and then my physically imposing husband walks in the door and it’s, “hi, what can I do for you”? I think he has a lot of privilege out in the world. People tend to overlook the woman but if she complains nowadays she gets called a Karen.
@skylinefever
@skylinefever 13 дней назад
I like how Karen Straughan made fun of it. She joked "Man's desires bad. Women's desires good."
@busybecomingmyself
@busybecomingmyself 13 дней назад
@@kc6810 there are definitely places where men have privileges but both men and women have a general bias towards women. I made a video about this a few weeks ago in response to the "men are useless" clip from the View which went viral. That video description includes references to the research papers I mention.
@SD-mi2vc
@SD-mi2vc 12 дней назад
Well I do the opposite
@davidbellecy1709
@davidbellecy1709 10 дней назад
We have been successfully divided to be easily mentally conquered. Very glad to have logic and reason as a weapon against stupidity.
@brucejensen3081
@brucejensen3081 12 дней назад
Definitely harder to indentify real differences in this artificial world we are adapting to
@sol-hunter2332
@sol-hunter2332 13 дней назад
I used to believe men and women were largely the same (because that's what the media and internet told me). I've realized how wrong that is. Our sex is far more than just our parts. Gender and sex are intrinsically tied.
@duncanhewitt6557
@duncanhewitt6557 7 дней назад
Why did you believe that. Men and women behave nothing like each other.
@pfschuyler
@pfschuyler 13 дней назад
"Why Do People Refuse To Accept The Truth About Men & Women?" Probably because the Truth sucks. 😆
@josephthibodeau9725
@josephthibodeau9725 10 дней назад
The sexual versus emotional infidelity makes perfect sense. Sexual infidelity by a woman makes it less likely for a man's kids to be biologically his, in which case he is no longer creating or caring for his own legacy and has wasted his time, energy and resources. While emotional infidelity by a man makes it more likely that a woman will lose her source of security/resources and may no longer be able to secure a new one due to societal constraints or just being too old or unattractive in either biological or social preferences. Makes perfect sense from an evolutionary development standpoint. Keeping in mind that almost none of our emotions and instincts were developed for the world we live in. They were formed in and for a world in which we live in caves or simple hunter gatherer sttlements with extremely limited resources in many cases.
@stevenelson25
@stevenelson25 12 дней назад
Also a thing in my understanding, people who take doses of hormones have a more diverse perspective of how the mind and human experience shifts over time based on feminine vs masculine hormone doses.
@PaganSkye
@PaganSkye 12 дней назад
I really like that you take on these topics that most people stay away from ❤
@RaffiDiranBassclef
@RaffiDiranBassclef 13 дней назад
Williams & Williamson. This is gonna be a good episode
@alyssaoconnor
@alyssaoconnor 12 дней назад
Its funny that he mentioned that at no time has a woman looked at their kid and wondered if that was their own because my mother was passed someone else’s baby at the hospital after giving birth to my brother - the only way she knew was that the baby had hair and she knew that my brother didn’t have hair from the look she had before they took him away 😂😂. After giving birth you’re so tired and the baby looks so squished from coming down the canal if it looks similar I can see where mistakes are made.
@tikari3987
@tikari3987 12 дней назад
Haha :)
@debrawehrly6900
@debrawehrly6900 7 дней назад
Unless they get switched at the hospital,...lol
@gregy1570
@gregy1570 12 дней назад
how about willingness/ability to accept responsibility for one's own actions/decisions? how about consideration for others? overall craziness? deceit?
@angryox3102
@angryox3102 11 дней назад
I’ve had a change in jobs recently and I’ve noticed that women in power are highly deceitful. It’s shocking.
@jimbokop4577
@jimbokop4577 13 дней назад
Thanks sherlock 👍
@Destructivepurpose
@Destructivepurpose 9 дней назад
As soon as I heard this guy's voice, I knew he was a fellow kiwi! Awesome to hear him on your podcast
@roelvinckens5553
@roelvinckens5553 13 дней назад
Not even watching. Just reading the comments to not completely lose my confidence in humanity.
@freshtoast3879
@freshtoast3879 13 дней назад
🤣
@umbrascitor2079
@umbrascitor2079 13 дней назад
Think you got it backwards, mate. No matter what side of what topic you're on, the comment sections are brain poison. I'm only here because I succumb to the addiction.
@roelvinckens5553
@roelvinckens5553 13 дней назад
@@umbrascitor2079 With you all the way, except for the opening question of this vid. It's beyond ridiculous.
@debrawehrly6900
@debrawehrly6900 7 дней назад
These observations make sense to me
@knooters
@knooters 13 дней назад
People have ALWAYS (no exceptions!) said that men and women are different. But that's not the same as pretending that the differences are huge aside from genitals. The best relationships are between people who have a lot in common (rather than this "opposites attract" nonsense - we are not goddamn magnets). The truth is that the differences between men are larger than the differences between men and women. Just think of something like height. Sure, on average, men are higher than women - but a man can be anything from 1.60m tall to 2.10m tall, without being in the extremes, whereas the average height difference between men and women is just about 13cm. You can spot similar patterns within other areas, such as sex drive, stamina (as in, say, running a 10k distance) etc. Single people would have alot better chances if they stopped guessing "what (wo)men want" and started asking themselves "what do humans want?", simply because if you find something attractive in another person - chances are that that person will find the same thing attractive in other people. Like, a fit person would typically prefer a fit mate (maybe even within similar kinds of exercise), and not a couch potato.
@Pozywny
@Pozywny 13 дней назад
dr paul conti states the single most potent indicator of a successful pairing is matching levels of generative drive. if you want to be on a farm, find a farmer partner. if you want to create music, find a partner that likes to create media. high performing ceo? find another high performing executive. etc this is why the basal advice for lonely men is to work on yourself. women take care of themselves better, they want a man who matches that energy.
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 13 дней назад
Disagree completely with your 3rd paragraph. Womens wants in a relationship are vastly different from mens wants . If I was a single guy looking to attract women I had better find out what women in general prefer as opposed to what humans prefer.
@knooters
@knooters 13 дней назад
@@brianmeen2158 Thinking of "women in general" is probably the worst thing you can do. If you follow what you like yourself, at least you will attract people with similar thoughts and views as yourself. However, if you zoom in, you need to zoom in a lot more - as you are probably not looking for "women in general" - but women with certain attributes/qualities. And that sub-group will most likely have completely different needs than other sub-groups (or the statistical average). Like, personally I prefer women who are intelligent, creative, got some "drive", a modern view on gender roles - among other things. I'd be a complete idiot if I applied the same "what do women want" logic to these women than if I wanted, say, a trad-wife (which I assume alot of Chris' male fans want). The women I want find it sexy when men oppose to gender stereotypes as it shows some character, and also communicates that she won't be expected to sacrifice her carreer to be a stay-at-home-mom. The same thing goes the other way around, too. If a woman is interested in me, she'd be completely screwed if she tried the same tricks she assumes work on most other guys who comment on this video (I know I'm in the minority in this particular place on the internet).
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
@@knooters I like your thinking and it makes more sense in the real world. After all, it comes down to being able to get along with another human being while sharing a space with them every day. These guys get all caught up in “roles” and it’s a trap. It’s so confining for people.
@jessicah3992
@jessicah3992 13 дней назад
A thousand times yes
@0_fksgvn955
@0_fksgvn955 13 дней назад
They're either delusional or lack any critical thinking skills or both.
@carllong8954
@carllong8954 13 дней назад
You forgot the 3rd option. Evil and not acting in good faith. They know they lie and don't care.
@SD-mi2vc
@SD-mi2vc 12 дней назад
You expected morality from women why?
@0_fksgvn955
@0_fksgvn955 12 дней назад
​@@carllong8954 true, but I think that's a small percentage. The amount of idiots that have no critical thinking skills that listen to those people are the overwhelming majority.
@GeneralProfessor
@GeneralProfessor 9 дней назад
Here's an additional option: Imagine that the belief that men and women are equal is the foundation. On that foundation rest other beliefs which, when combined, form the modern feminist ideology. As a result it is critical to protect the foundation because without it the whole construction will fall apart. To explain a bit further: Men and women are equal, right? Right. So you look at the world and you see unequal distribution of power / resources between the two sexes. If the sexes are equal then where does such inequality come from? The answer is the patriarchal conspiracy which systematically oppresses women on all levels. Within the context of such arguements, when certain facts are hidden and forbidden then abuse of power by those in power becomes the only remaining logical conclusion *. Now you can see why men and women MUST be equal. Why this is the required foundation in order for other ideas to hold water. The moment you start to argue for biological differences you, by extension, are arguing against the oppression narrative. Tangent: This is also why feminism is powerless against the trans ideology. In order to oppose it, feminism must agree to the fact which, once agreed on, shatters its own foundation. * This is how ideologies function in general. In a scientific process you look at the facts and infer the conclusion. In an ideological process it's the other way around. The conclusion is the starting point, and from there facts are cherry-picked based on whether they contribute or detract from it.
@Abstractpossom
@Abstractpossom 7 дней назад
@@GeneralProfessorwell said
@arian-__-
@arian-__- 13 дней назад
Perfect ❤💥🔥
@bigglyguy8429
@bigglyguy8429 10 дней назад
That biggest difference is indeed something i often consider. For example when I try to figure out my wife's behavior, I remind myself she loves me for being masculine, which makes a lot of things clearer.
@kc6810
@kc6810 9 дней назад
How can you figure out her behavior? You’re coming from your perspective and can never really know. Just the same for her. How will men and women ever really understand each other. It’s actually an insult to think you can because you’ll always be coming from the other perspective and thinking the other doesn’t make sense snd then have disrespect for it. Not picking on you, specifically but it just gets old hearing people speak on something in a sometimes dismissive way because they don’t understand.
@AverageJoeInOz
@AverageJoeInOz 13 дней назад
I'm having a 'thanks captain obvious' moment...men and women are different, really? No, surely not.
@niallfitzpatrick6568
@niallfitzpatrick6568 13 дней назад
WOW...knock me over with a feather 😂
@saullandiof5768
@saullandiof5768 13 дней назад
that's pretty brilliant to include sexual preference as one of the differences, I never even considered that. But it's clearly a massive difference between women and men
@kc6810
@kc6810 9 дней назад
But maybe men kinda are in love with other men. They like men better than women. Bromance, man crush lol
@janpetra1724
@janpetra1724 6 дней назад
Jealousy was certainly a part of our evolution, but what is more certain is that it is a pathological trait.
@sidecar7714
@sidecar7714 10 дней назад
No mention of fear
@therearenoshortcuts9868
@therearenoshortcuts9868 13 дней назад
because ............. they are have to admit they have been LIED TO SUCCESSFULLY (embrassing)
@piretbaumann2574
@piretbaumann2574 13 дней назад
So much of this just comes down to wording. Version 1: Men and women are different because men want women, women want men. Version 2: Men and women are the same because both want the opposite sex.
@aafgahfah
@aafgahfah 12 дней назад
well no. By wanting the opposite sex they are wanting completely different things.
@piretbaumann2574
@piretbaumann2574 12 дней назад
@@aafgahfah Interesting. I see it differently. The things they want are opposite, but their wants are not. If I'm B and want A, but you're A but want B, we both want what we are not. (At that I'm not trying to claim sexes are not different. They are. Just that his "most important difference" is rhetoric in my understanding. That same paternity uncertainty he talks about causes very important differences.)
@TheGeneralDisarray
@TheGeneralDisarray 12 дней назад
This is the one thing that my sister, who in almost all other respects has quite a lot of common sense, refuses to admit
@cherrylane79
@cherrylane79 12 дней назад
I think it's more what the society forces us to be, than natural differencies.
@debrawehrly6900
@debrawehrly6900 7 дней назад
I agree
@evedotcom
@evedotcom 12 дней назад
Love that within the first minute he highlighted both ends of the spectrum. Of course in a comment section like this, you’ll hear a strong yes to biological sex differences, which is fair, but it’s definitely worth noting that these differences can also be too exaggerated as well. In response to one extreme, I see too many going to the other extreme.
@myself2noone
@myself2noone 13 дней назад
Steven Stewart Williams always has interesting insights.
@chuch541
@chuch541 13 дней назад
We all have our strengths and weaknesses. I always say: “if you’re not treating someone as an individual, you’re fuckin up!” That being said, some of our S&W are inherent. E.g. men’s upper body strength and women’s lower body strength. But that scale is sliding, there are women whom would chuck a male peer; and women who would get out legged by a man.
@acmhfmggru
@acmhfmggru 13 дней назад
you are dramatically overstating the endurance advantage of women (which is different than life body strength)... the average out of shape couch potato man is stronger and had had better endurance than the average out of shape couch potato woman.
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
@@acmhfmggru Idk, women who are not “in shape” still do a lot of running around with house and kid things. There are different kinds of “being in shape”. When my kids were little, I didn’t prioritize going to the gym so my body wasn’t getting that type of toned look and I may have been carrying a few extra pounds but I definitely had the endurance to do what was necessary for the family and the house (which I know most men downplay as just pushing a button on various home appliances). Anyway, the couch potato man would be able to lift heavier things but I bet he really doesn’t have the same level of endurance. There are many variables like what job he does all day but don’t assume because he’s a man that he has more endurance automatically.
@mrknarf4438
@mrknarf4438 12 дней назад
I can't find any source claiming women have greater lower body strength than men of comparable weight, can you provide any? I always thought male body strength was greater for both higher and lower body, as world records seem to hold, but do correct me if I'm wrong.
@chuch541
@chuch541 12 дней назад
@@mrknarf4438 A ridiculous thing to say per the context of what I said. 😂
@boyyang9007
@boyyang9007 12 дней назад
​@chuch541 There was nothing wrong in his reading of what you said. If there was a problem it's your delivery.
@EnkiseEvolution
@EnkiseEvolution 13 дней назад
Just goes to show you how STUPID society has become that this needs to be ACKNOWLEDGED.
@therearenoshortcuts9868
@therearenoshortcuts9868 13 дней назад
it's done to society on purpose as a psyop... if you are under a well-calculated psychological attack, and you don't even know it's happening, you probably stand no chance
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 13 дней назад
I’d love to have my grandfather and a few others from his geveration be able to see the convos we are having in 2024 around sex and gender. They would be at a loss for words
@tuckerbugeater
@tuckerbugeater 13 дней назад
the stupidity comes from the contradictions which are partial to survival
@tuckerbugeater
@tuckerbugeater 13 дней назад
@@brianmeen2158 betabuxing makes the brain decompose faster
@kevinpyburn8843
@kevinpyburn8843 3 дня назад
Cause that isn't what they are paid to push. We need more doctors to stand up like this guy.
@someguyusa
@someguyusa 13 дней назад
People who think there are no sex differences should take a basic anatomy and physiology class. To deny the differences is to deny day and night, heads and tails, etc.
@BA-pq3uj
@BA-pq3uj 13 дней назад
Shocker...
@iBob20
@iBob20 13 дней назад
What camera does Chris use because my god he makes everyone else's camera look like a flip phone camera.
@bumpygumpson
@bumpygumpson 12 дней назад
The difference between a real camera with good lighting and a webcam with flat lighting
@PerfectHandProductions
@PerfectHandProductions 12 дней назад
Why is there no information in the description? Who is this guy? What's his book called?
@unitysprings3631
@unitysprings3631 13 дней назад
I shared a womb with a boy...... I also had kids and can unequivocally confirm that men and women are different. We aren't monoliths, dont get me wrong. My career choice took me into a very male dominated world, but i was still a woman and brought a whole new vibe with me
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
I don’t think people thought that men and women are exactly the same. Idk where that came from. I think the point from the 60s was to not discount someone from being or doing something based solely on their sex. They didn’t think women could ever fly a plane or perform surgery or become a governor. Don’t hold someone back because of their sex. Maybe most women aren’t cut out to be a firefighter but there still might be some that can. The fact that you were allowed into a male dominated field attests to what people were fighting for.
@Neoteny374
@Neoteny374 11 дней назад
By "vibe" you mean HR department?
@unitysprings3631
@unitysprings3631 11 дней назад
@@Neoteny374 No chance 😂 I was self employed and endured my fair share of portaloo rocking 😁
@Neoteny374
@Neoteny374 11 дней назад
@@unitysprings3631 😁😁😁
@user-us2jr5ym7l
@user-us2jr5ym7l 8 дней назад
@@Neoteny374 And lawsuits for being "violated" and "uncomfortable" in order to win cash and prizes. The HR department is women's divorce court in the workplace.
@arjuna153
@arjuna153 13 дней назад
In countries where traditional gender roles & expectations are minimal & not encouraged & equal education is for all such as Germany, Switzerland, etc, research indicates that women are still mostly drawn to careers like Nursing, Education, Secretarial etc & men to Engineering, Law & politics, Business, etc. Nobody is forcing them.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 11 дней назад
It's still a challenge and women are not as accepted in many male dominated fields hence there is not an influx of women there. There's plenty of female lawyers and physicians. Women tend to work in professional areas that provide part time and good pay such as nursing, other health professions, and teaching.
@kc6810
@kc6810 9 дней назад
Ive also read that when there is more financial insecurity, women will tend to go into higher income fields like stem but when there isn’t that issue they’ll go into traditional female careers.
@TiGGowich
@TiGGowich 6 дней назад
I've always liked the way Jordan Peterson described it: "Men and women are very different, but they are still more similar than they are different" ... I thought that was always a really good way of putting it. It's basically like saying, they might be 40% different which is significant, but that also means they are 60% similar which is also significant. Just denying there are no differences to me is pure insanity. Only someone who is completely detached from reality could say such nonsense.
@SouthernIg
@SouthernIg 13 дней назад
Is this even a question?
@k.k8291
@k.k8291 6 дней назад
Or between the various human ethnicities.
@eliseohagerman5341
@eliseohagerman5341 8 дней назад
What difference is steve talking about around 3:00, chris’ laugh made it hard to hear lol
@BryJovi17
@BryJovi17 2 дня назад
I didn't actually hear what the psychologist said when he stated the biggest psychological difference. Can anyone write it here please?
@brandonbaltes6850
@brandonbaltes6850 13 дней назад
look up the differences in what direction the female brain moves neurally (left to right--lateral thinking? idk that is a genuine ?) whereas the male brain moves front to back (vertical thinking? idk just prompting good, non-emasculated questions) and those directional things are according to a female neuroscientist i heard on this same channel forgetting her name but after taking my own advice it seems the neuroscience is a little cloudy (perhaps because the findings aren't pretty? egalitarian? comfortable? and or because, I surmise, it genuinely is, to some degree, a very hazy thing to unearth with current neuroscience) therefore take this and probably all in life with something of a grain of salt, (imo one should) trust one's self and one's genetics and family more than the constantly changing, less permanent nurture side of life's absurd coin
@uprightmovement
@uprightmovement 13 дней назад
There’s refusal, due to Social Engineering and Social Contagion.
@BrookBrayman
@BrookBrayman 13 дней назад
Stories about infants being mixed up at the hospital freak women out. There's your analog for paternal uncertainty in women.
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
I thought about that too lol
@BlackFighterz
@BlackFighterz 11 дней назад
That is not caused by the male partners behaviour tho but external factors. Here specifically jealousy between partners was discussed.
@debbiecreter2005
@debbiecreter2005 13 дней назад
Of course we’re different or we’d be worms!
@tips4truckers252
@tips4truckers252 12 дней назад
Growing pains. Of changing social norms. Just like weddings, people still want a traditional wedding, when they didn't do anything traditional prior.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 11 дней назад
People? Very few people.
@eljefe8149
@eljefe8149 9 дней назад
They think if they accept that we're different that they'll be treated unequally is my guess.
@arjuna153
@arjuna153 13 дней назад
Either way, we are all humans first & all humans are basically the same few patterns of behaviour. Our females don't devour the male partner after mating.
@kc6810
@kc6810 9 дней назад
Well, sort of, not really I guess 😂
@Lakoda26
@Lakoda26 13 дней назад
The later, of over stating sex differences, is likely due to not understanding how "on average" works.
@skylinefever
@skylinefever 13 дней назад
Some people don't like to face the fact that statistical outliers exist.
@rkuhl19
@rkuhl19 10 дней назад
Appreciate the evolutionary perspective of pair binding, but I think it might not be the whole picture. What about social status? If you lose a partner of high status doesn’t that a big deal? Or the human desire to feel loved, understood and appreciated by someone we care about? Isn’t that reason enough on its own to feel jealous? So again, I think the evolutionary perspective presented makes sense, but feels short sighted and actually a disservice to the wholeness of our experience and love itself to reduce it all down to parental considerations
@Christoff8188
@Christoff8188 12 дней назад
So strange that we're even having this debate. What has the world come to? Yes, there are exceptions, there always are. That doesn't mean society needs to fold to cater to a small minority. I'm big on acceptance and tolerance, people should be able to do as they please if it harms nobody else. However, that doesn't mean every edge case should be normalised; where does that end? As an aside... I heard a really interesting theory recently, that homosexuality is an evolutionary trait to protect the parents, particularly single mothers. Really made me think. In short, one study suggests that each subsequent child you have, especially if you're a single mum, decreases the probability of them being straight. Likely due to an intentional hormonal change (lower testosterone, for example). But, that's a chicken/egg debate really. It's thought that this is to counteract overpopulation, but also to provide said mother with assistance around the family home, as gay men especially are often more feminine and emotionally intelligent than their straight counterpart (while a gay woman is less likely to have children). Essentially, our bodies know that, to support a large family, we need a secondary caring figure, and will attempt to produce one if required. I have no idea how true this is, or whether it's backed by more than one study, but it sure gave me some food for thought!
@mycoachdave
@mycoachdave 13 дней назад
Wait- we’re different?!
@nathanosterhaus
@nathanosterhaus 13 дней назад
You're just realizing this now?
@SD-mi2vc
@SD-mi2vc 13 дней назад
Chris is an alpha. He doesnt encounter the problems the average man faces with the modern woman
@Zanroff
@Zanroff 13 дней назад
Who?
@SD-mi2vc
@SD-mi2vc 13 дней назад
@@Zanroff person in the video. Thats his name
@AnAmerican-fm3xk
@AnAmerican-fm3xk 13 дней назад
I believe it's meant sarcastically because some 'activists' claim everything is a social construction now.
@Zanroff
@Zanroff 13 дней назад
@@SD-mi2vc He thought men and women were the same?
@lauterunvollkommenheit4344
@lauterunvollkommenheit4344 12 дней назад
"Mater semper certa est".
@singularitybound
@singularitybound 13 дней назад
Pretty sure this has been known for... hmm thousands of years? Being different and opportunities available are 2 different things of coarse.
@DJFAmenHeavy
@DJFAmenHeavy 13 дней назад
When was it not accepted?
@GlennElliottKeller
@GlennElliottKeller 13 дней назад
Screw acceptance the truth is still the truth whether you accept it or not
@zeals936
@zeals936 13 дней назад
I have since I was a child . Science not necessary 😂
@rosswatson9144
@rosswatson9144 13 дней назад
Fairy light conversation… I’d be more interested in how the differences affect voting patterns for example, who would vote for a bigger government that is wide world implications.
@t-spark
@t-spark 13 дней назад
Are identical twins different? Do they see the world the same?
@JamesJones-mg3ts
@JamesJones-mg3ts 7 дней назад
I'd venture that, on jealousy, men are often investing considerable resources so they see this as a 'potential bad investment' on their part (and don't want to take the loss they could have been investing elsewhere... dealing with the 'bad egg'). On the flip side, a lady may see this a threat to the resources a man is investing in her... that he may 'divide' or 'withdraw' his investments on what he considers a 'better investment for him' with another woman. I will note that, some men, with considerable resources can 'divide' a bit of it with other ladies and not significantly impact the investments his making in the 'primary' lady (aka: men with wealth and options... him exercising 'his options' is not as much of a 'threat' to the primary lady as long as he doesn't intend to 'withdraw' his investments to the primary lady... but most 'regular' men can't afford this scenario so it's more of a 'threat' to a lady... more reason for 'jealousy')
@JamesJones-mg3ts
@JamesJones-mg3ts 7 дней назад
Note: 'kids' are the man's 'prize'. Once they are in the picture, they are usually the primary focus of his investments (the mother is the 'cost' of having those kids... where he's now housing her and taking on her expenses to keep the family he forged for the best interests of the kids... not his as it's a sacrifice for a greater purpose). When a man perceives that is under threat by a lady's infidelity, it's a threat to his kids and the tremendously expensive arrangement he has with the mother for the sake of the kids (his primary focus). Particularly covert, when a lady defrauds a man by introducing kids conceived with another man as 'his own', that is a threat to his kids (dividing his resources from 'his' kids with 'other' kids that are not kids he should be investing in.... as only his kids are what he intends to invest in... and the 'other kids' are another man's responsibility). Men get pretty bent about that so that a motivation for jealousy. A lady can have kids with any man but she will have difficulty if she doesn't have them with 'one man' who is supporting them all (which is why defrauding that 'one man' is important to overcome that difficulty). A scenario like that can make a lady very jealous if she see's her charade under threat (all come crashing down and has to seek temporary resources from multiple men and give up her retirement plan with one man... getting cut off when the child support runs out is scary for a self-aware women... but it does seem a lot of ladies don't think about this until the child support is about to end... which can lead to a lot of jealousy when they see their former main partner recovered from her shenanigans and 'doing better' while she's taking a huge 'hair cut' financially). It's quite common for ladies to be 'jealous' of the partners they couldn't keep recovered while she's assuming the consequences of her own actions (she doesn't like seeing that man recovered while she's taking her 'delayed hits').
@Crunchy166
@Crunchy166 6 дней назад
0:17 Alright Mufasa XD
@darthseagraves
@darthseagraves 13 дней назад
Idk
@cherkovision
@cherkovision 4 дня назад
The "being attracted to the opposite sex" thing is huge. Men (and gay women) are incentivized to adopt "Masculine" traits because women find them attractive. It's not just arbitrary.
@titobenito43
@titobenito43 13 дней назад
Dude looks like the nostalgia critic, Im just waiting for him to go off about the BAT CREDIT CARD!
@EcomCarl
@EcomCarl 12 дней назад
Understanding sex differences is indeed a nuanced and multifaceted topic! 🧠 Finding that delicate balance between acknowledging innate differences and avoiding over-exaggeration is crucial for a well-rounded perspective on human behavior.
@brianbarrett8739
@brianbarrett8739 12 дней назад
It all derives from genetic reproduction. When women are born they are almost guaranteed to be successful, men have zero expectation of success. Everything extends from the problem of reproduction. All life forms on this little planet are trying to reproduce. Everything we claim to be important as sentient beings, is a promotion of strategies developed to help increase the chances of success with the basic reproduction problem.
@sofarsohi
@sofarsohi 12 дней назад
positive chatgpt answers seems the new personal branding move
@greenblue6935
@greenblue6935 13 дней назад
Lol, havent we always accept this?!
@user-dg2pg5vh6e
@user-dg2pg5vh6e 13 дней назад
Chris you never talk about the “women are wonderful” phenomenon. Take a look at the studies. Respect.
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
If the shoe fits. Men’s reputation precedes them.
@user-dg2pg5vh6e
@user-dg2pg5vh6e 12 дней назад
@@kc6810 As does females’. Amongst men.
@vornamenachname4785
@vornamenachname4785 12 дней назад
If he says that evolution can create large differences in the human sex, and names homosexuality as an expamle. Does he say then, that there is an evolutionary marker for homosexuality?
@connorschlick3104
@connorschlick3104 12 дней назад
Only happens in species were there is an abundance of resources and no fulfilling pass-time
@gutenheim9371
@gutenheim9371 13 дней назад
Dude has the G432s lol
@prschuster
@prschuster 11 дней назад
Momma's baby... Papa's maybe...
@mstorgaardnielsen
@mstorgaardnielsen 13 дней назад
How come it’s always totally overlooked that life circumstances for men and women are different in quite central points. Men has to earn the right to become fathers and pass thresholds of acceptance. Women do not need to pass any significant threshold. Women has to protect their reproductive potential. Men do not. These boundary conditions are central in either genders adaptation to a successful life. Even with a totally gender neutral culture and gender neutral biology, these boundary conditions would require men and women to adopt different traits.
@jonathanlee6098
@jonathanlee6098 9 дней назад
If someone hands me a drop of blood I can tell you with one hundred percent certainty whether it was drawn from a man or woman. The differences exist at the cellular level.
@Bak2BasiKs
@Bak2BasiKs 13 дней назад
Some men and women already know it, some men and woman cant accept it
@gortys3929
@gortys3929 13 дней назад
I would improve the title. It should say: „Is It Time To Stop Negating That Men & Women Are Born Different?”
@tomnichols8084
@tomnichols8084 13 дней назад
Is it time to admit the earth is a sphere??? Or that water is wet?
@DNA350ppm
@DNA350ppm 13 дней назад
When people deny statistical gender differences or exaggerate them, it is almost always about the policy conclusions drawn from those differences, be it that it is legit to discriminate against one or the other sex. Like women are smaller, so need lesser pay; some fathers are less suitable parents than mothers, so father's rights are secondary; women's sports are less interesting so should be less supported; men are "less emotional" so they need less mental health resources; women's bodies are more complicated, so let's just make research on men's bodies, and pretend they are the same; men and women are equally good drivers, so let's make them pay the same insurance fees; etc etc. These are not qualified conclusions, they are all wrong in some sense. The question is how to make laws and policies just and fair, and promote quality of life in a balanced way for all members of society?
@celiacresswell6909
@celiacresswell6909 13 дней назад
You’re so right - the reason it’s such a hot topic right now is a toxic feedback loop where the conversation gets shouty, then politicians react with knee jerk policy
@DNA350ppm
@DNA350ppm 13 дней назад
@@celiacresswell6909 100% agreement from me.
@celiacresswell6909
@celiacresswell6909 13 дней назад
@@DNA350ppm and that’s the fault of women as they are much more supportive of big government 😂
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
So what are you saying? To ignore the differences or not with policies? It seems some policies do not ignore the differences and some policies do.
@celiacresswell6909
@celiacresswell6909 13 дней назад
@@kc6810 the first thing for me is that sometimes politics makes things worse and that more politics, more policies, is often the wrong answer. The irony is that there is a gender difference here: women are more likely to support big government
@maraholte2978
@maraholte2978 12 дней назад
I’d like to know how much these differences are biological vs. socially conditioned
@brianbarrett8739
@brianbarrett8739 12 дней назад
"Social conditioning" is just reinforcement of strategies to solve the basic reproduction problem. Claiming "social conditioning" is trying to eliminate the counter/competitive strategies of the opposite sex.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 11 дней назад
​@brianbarrett8739 Social conditioning is another tool to try to control women., as is religion. There's no reproduction problem according to women. It's only men that complain.
@yatesfletcher1424
@yatesfletcher1424 13 дней назад
The second paragraph is bogus. Saying that the standard DEVIATION in male height is greater than the difference in MEANS between male and female heights is a comparison of apples and oranges. If, on the other hand, I bet that the difference in height between two random men is less than the difference in height between a random man and a random woman, I'll win alot more than I'll lose.
@kc6810
@kc6810 13 дней назад
I don’t think something like height is what they’re talking about. It’s more the psychological aspect. Im a woman and im taller than the average man. Does that matter?
@NPC--666
@NPC--666 13 дней назад
Ermmm, it was time to realise it when there was the first women and first man!!!
@dakota-sessions
@dakota-sessions 13 дней назад
Gina Rippon has done so much damage.
@ChrisHops22
@ChrisHops22 13 дней назад
trying to get cancelled, are we?
@amandavieira2543
@amandavieira2543 7 дней назад
People are all diferent, sex is just one of those diferenciations.
@dariahorban2459
@dariahorban2459 7 дней назад
How to answer the question without answering the question. Omg
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