Survival of the fittest. Shout out to ma G Darwin These delusional women will grow old and end up alone. Newer generation will hopefully fix this delusional mindset.
9:14 A few years ago I made myself a rule that if I'm attracted to someone and would want to date them, I will either take it forward or cut the ties, I decided to not tolerate friendzones It's the best decision I could've made in that regard
I give this advice to every dude. I say, the friend zone only exists if you allow it to exist. If they friend zone you then its time to go. If you REALLY made an impression they will miss you and come back. its very simple actually
@@artillary3725 Finally someone who thinks the same way I do - we are a rare breed. These men stuff things up for all - if they all adopted no friend zone and no attention, women would open their legs. Remember - male attention is a drug for women and depriving them is like taking away a drug supply from a drug addict
Never settle for friendzone Never give any validation Never show any emotion for someone who doesn't give a shit about you. Self Value Self Hustle Self Respect You are Number One...
People you spend a lot of time with are people you probably enjoy the company of. Time is a valuable factor. Why would you spend time around people you have no interest in? And if you are hetero, enjoying the company of a person of the opposite sex will more likely than not lead to some form of bonding. I don't see a way around that. But you can still be friends but maybe not close ones. Definitions, sure... I am friends with my ex, but I avoid spending time with her. I can talk to her about things, okay I mostly listen but I don't want to get back to a romantic relationship so I won't spend time with her.
Yeah that's definitely messed up. You deprive yourself of a valuable connection (a true friend is priceless) and you send her the message that you only saw her for one thing and that she's not worth anything else. Try to see people as multidimensional and you will benefit a lot.
Andrew Tate is everywhere right now, and that's his plan; The more publicity he gets, the better for him. Doesn't matter whether it's negative or positive publicity.
@Alexander Graves yeah i heard Tate say he likes Trumps book the Art of the Deal and he uses the technique of when to walk away from women/or negotiations
I have a theory and please bare with me. Leftists starting gaining ground fast after the Cold war ended cause the west was unchallenged. So they wanted a society that had docile male for the population to pose no challenge and a fragmented social structure that can’t function without government heavy regulations and control. That was when western real gdp combined was 67% of the world economy. Now it’s 42% and there are only 20 non western allied countries today having 42% and they have 5 nuclear powers between them. In the next 5 years these 20 countries would have 45% and the west would have 38% Current tensions between these non western countries would probably lead to more hardship on every front in the west and across the world. Hard times need strong men. The west can’t face that with over 90% of it’s population ranging from women to children to old people to lgbtq… So i think the algorithms are intentionally pushing tate and in the short term you would see tens of men like him gaining popularity to change the narrative and culture. Maybe i am 100% wrong but what if am right though ?
@@CourtneyRyan can u make a Video about, how to find out about the past of a Person? like how you ask/ make the transicion of aksing about past relationships for example. Thank you and best wishes!
@@timothybogle1461 guys please wake up. what the hell is happening in this world right now...what the HELL. THINK !!!!! ITS that easy to listen to bullshit as long as it come from a "calm" women ?????? She is doing something really smart (mostly thanks to her attitude and other details) and it does not benefit you my guy. Stop listening to this
@@SquallSZ Men aren't very emotional creatures and as a male I think what she's telling is logical, besides that I appreciate how she speaks in a gentle tone so its not annoying to watch.
I was friends with a girl who almost married a man that beat her, cheated on her numerous times, and never kept a job. We got along miles better than her and her ex but she still rejected me. I'm just gonna have to accept the fact that some people put WAY to much into physical attraction. Like sure that's part of it, but if that's all you have, you don't have much.
This has happened to most guys, myself included. You could be simping but often the damage was done long before you came along. Consider it a blessing not to have to clean up the mess. Another thing I have noticed is that women don't like when an ex moves on. I think the attitude of most guys is good luck to the new guy and I hope they are happy.
@@timothybogle1461 no simping I never did anything out of the way for her it's just confusing to understand that some women will put up with that bs. She even told me she was considering being with someone she was friends with first. Guess I got the wrong idea.
@@h12180 they often remember the emotional highs over the lows. That make up s*x was probably awesome (not sure that's going to make you feel better). They actually don't know what to do with a stable guy and self sabotoge it. Stems to nature and emotional traumas that you can offer help if you choose to. Often women who fall for these men had fathers that were abusive or absent. Sounds like this is a past friend so that is probably moot.
Chasing women and a high notch count sounds so emotionally draining. It’s far more important for a man to know that he CAN get beautiful women not necessarily that he actually gets them. Hookup culture is really bad for women but it’s also really bad for men too. And endless stream of bedmates is not good for the soul.
Great points. I mostly agree with you and i respect your opinion however , there can be exceptions to the rule. I can understand that it can be emotionally draining but then again there are exceptions where there are people that can handle that to some degree. i agree, It is important to know that the man can get anyone of high value women and not just randomly get with anyone to create a high notch count. Hookup culture has its negatives but it has showed several harsh realities of human nature as a whole. I'd say having several partners and experiences is fine but endless stream of bedmates does sound pretty troubling for the soul and body especially if you are pursuing a serious relationship. Some people aren't into serious relationships at all, so i understand their choices as well.
@@remekbrat Its True, although there can be several factors to that. I'd say they should they should try to be monogamous to a healthy relationship and if not, be more casual and not pursue serious relationships if it does not work for them.
Years ago I worked with a girl that I became friends with (she was married). The more I got to know her, the more I was attracted to her. It came to a point whenever she was around, all I wanted to do was pull her into my arms. Luckily, I was transferred to another position at a location across the state from her. It is hard for a man just to be friends with a woman he is physically and emotionally attracted to.
I always looked at it like this. Men don’t seek external validation from the opposite sex. Women do, they like the validation and attention that comes with a best friend with a man. That’s the real reason why men can’t remain friends, it’s not because we are calloused. It’s because a friendship with a women becomes one-sided, it’s an unbalanced relationship. You’re a noble person though, you never crossed the boundaries with the woman you speak of. I myself am put off by women that emotionally cheat on their men with me. Why? Because if they are willing to do that with me. What’s going to stop them from doing that if they are in a relationship with me.
Yeah, my girlfriend had these two guys that she thought were just friends. Then we started dating and I think the guys thought it wouldn't last. But then when we became exclusive they both got really jealous and angry becoming the over emotional male. Both guys knew her way before we got together. She didn't really understand why they became that way as she'd known then for a while but I certainly knew. She asked for my opinion. So i said that they were lying to themselves for however long she knew them and didn't want to risk rejection. I said in my opinion she dodged a bullet cause their reaction just oozed insecurity and should have risked asking you out even though they may have got lost the friendship. In the end trying to win a lady over through the friend zone route is a first class ticket to rejection in my opinion. Never accept it if your wish is date and be intimate with someone. This goes both ways. 👍🏻
Meh, I've dated a few of these women, I chuckled and told them they are not your friends, they are guys that want to get in your panties, it's me or them, they chose me, later when we were not together, they came back to me and told me stories of how the guy tried making moves on them, or the guy told them they were a D%&k tease just using them. Never ever be with a woman that refuses to give up her guy friends for you. A really simple question to ask yourself, how many happily married women do you know that have guy friends independent of their husbands friends?.....If a woman can't appropriately self-regulate 'guy friends' when you are in a LTR with her, tell her once what you expect, if she doesn't follow your expectations, its a next. The standards you set in dating are the ones you have to accept in a LTR and marriage.....Women don't love men they respect men, so make her respect you.
I agree. He says a lot of things that are true and polarizing. It really depends in the type of relationship you want. If you and your SO decide that it’s ok for you to see other people, then it’s ok for you.
You're one of the few women in the dating niche that I'd have no problem recommending her content. I don't agree with most women because they are not that aware or conscious about how social dynamics work but you nail it.
They're aware of how social dynamics work because women are extremely social creatures which explain why most teachers, nurses, social workers, event planners, flight attendants etc.....are women as well as the fact that they tend to be more successful on social media but they're not aware of how INTERSEXUAL dynamics work.
Her reaction after watching that Andrew Tate video @12:15. 🤣 She gives great advice at the end about following people who you want to be or what we strive to accomplish in life. Really enjoy watching your videos and keep up the great work. 👏🏽
I stopped watching Fresh & Fit videos because my reactions were the same, they always have the same "kind" of women on their podcasts and that is just simply another world.
@@ricardosanchez9154 oh it's worse than that. You should watch some of the videos about them that explain who there are and what they've done off their show. I stopped watching them.
It is always men desires that get demonized, anything that men do get demonized nowadays. But when it comes to women, their desires and everything else is okay and should be normalized. Think about that.
we live in a reverse reality now they have made the world feminine and women have all the power and it causes unhappiness in everyone because women dont really want that power so it confuses them
She’s not a bad person. But her advise is too feminine for men to take it 100% Obviously she’s gonna try to be fair and socially correct because women are driven more to do that by their biology. Ut seems like she the 50/50 type pf relationship that doesn’t work unless you’re a feminine man which in my opinion and the opinion of most men that’s not what we want.
In a scenario where you're dying to be in a relationship with a particular person, a friendship likely won't work out. But you can be casually attracted to someone and still be friends with them. There are plenty of romantic candidates out there, and friendships are valuable too. Also, by not being friends with people of the opposite sex, you can isolate yourself, making yourself more prone to generalizing others, also hurting your ability to talk to the other sex when you do want to find a partner.
Just wanted to say that I think you're such an important voice. In the age of everyone being offended by everything, you have a very measured, common-sense approach to these topics! Even the first clip for example, although you disagreed you focused on the message and weren't offended. Great to hear well thought out opinions and not purely driven by emotion. And you also seem to actually understand the male PoV a lot more than most women
I’ve practically never seen a guy make an effort to be “friends” with a girl who was not conventionally attractive. That says a lot about wether men and women can be friends although I think they sometimes can.
@@Ibrahimk.74 that’s interesting, it can certainly slice both ways. If you are sincere than you are a noble guy but honest men are a dime a dozen if that. Most lurk in the friend zone flirting with their female “friends” hoping to get their chance one day. Usually when a girl says they have guy friends it raises a red flag for me. Again there are guys with integrity out there but the chances that her guy friends are noble are overwhelmingly against you.
@@fitforlife3168 yeah the friends that like you usually come and go, but the ones that are real friends you wouldn’t treat them like the opposite gender you treat them like one of your guy friends (as a guy)
I have a female friend for years and i think the key here is that she has to be not physically appealing because that coupled with a decent personality will carry you easily into catching feelings.
I think male and female friendships can thrive as long as you both have no motives of sleeping with each other and interact due to some other reasons like similar hobbies or goals
That men with women friends thing is true. I literally told someone this morning that it won't work if there is attraction and romantic feelings. Especially if you were already more than friends to begin with and there's a downgrade to just "friends" Nope.
I became friends with a girl I had met online a year ago. From experience it was...very confusing. We truly cared about one another but we were there for each other emotionally and we both found each other attractive. We would talk to each other almost everyday. To the point where my family thought we were dating. Eventually we finally meet(she lived in Greece) and we shouldn't have. She was seeing someone and I was staying with her at her place. We planned this before she was dating him. Well long story short the last day before I leave it would be the last time we would see each other. She blocks me from all social media.
What needs to be understood about Andrew Tate is that he says a lot of outrageous things for shock value because he KNOWS people will react to it, which gives him more clout and attention. I don't take him serious but sometimes he does say some meaningful things, and the reality is that while the Red Pill community does have some insightful and helpful things for men a lot of the guys in that space aren't the type of people you should take every piece of advice from because they're mainly focused on being entertaining rather than educational.
As much as Courtney Ryan bring us the illusion that most men can have success with women. She sells hope and desperate men here buy it. Everyone is trusting her. (And I keep coming to see of someone will get it ). Most men are invisible to women, especially the women of nowadays. And yes, I'm toxic for a good reason. This have to end. Stop exploiting men's suffering please.
@@brentboost2879 both. The shock value is here but he is at least more honest than most bullshits right here. (I love how she didn't pick a video capable of exposing her. I also love how Courtney is managing to validate comments that's complimenting what she's saying. With this simple trick, those comments keep coming...)
I think people like yourself need to speak up about this more. Some more impressionable minds take his words seriously and they'll find themselves in a world of trouble if they take his worldview literally.
Men can have female friends, just as they don't all want to sleep with every woman that walks. I think it's much more likely though that a guy might develop feelings for her. Even so, there are those that would respect the friendship for what it is and not pursue her to anything more if she's given no indication she's interested.
If you are an attractive man or female it just won't work! That shit works when you are both unattractive and even then you would still try it with each other.
@@nodaysoff2005 I do believe the more someone is attracted to the other the more unlikely you'd want to be friends, or should be friends, otherwise you'd be putting yourself through "self-torture" (unless you'd like to strengthen your self-control). You can always get out of the "friendzone" in the future if you find yourself wanting more and if you aren't satisfied with the friendship, you should move on like any other relationship if you can't work through it. If either is using the other as a back-up option, you probably shouldn't be friends.
I've never felt so empty after taking a summer to be with lots of women. I became charismatic and took advantage of something I thought I would never have. My ego kept me safe at the moment, but after a few months, the late-night thoughts and dread got to me. I feel better distancing myself from that mindset and more interested in having a more robust foundation with a potential significant other.
I've just grown mostly with female friends, and as a heterosexual I still find difficult to feel attraction for someone. I see my friends as what they are, friends, even if they're objectively attractive or not. I've got a lot of female friends through time and I can count with my fingers the ones that made me feel some sort of attraction, sometimes even only feeling like they're somewhat interesting. But I've got a bunch of those female friends attracted to me when I wasn't into them, and I've got to say that it made me feel (very) uncomfortable. I really hope I sometime get attracted to a girl who is also attracted to me!
@@KOSerg-vo2qb I saw your comment pop up and had a laugh, you're not the first nor the 100th that says me that, if you were trying to hurt me you really failed. Grays do actually exist, the world is not black or white. And I am just a not-with-a-d***-on-fire heterosexual.
I'm convinced that casual sex ruins sex, I'll even say that sex means a lot more if it's with one person in life long commitment. Also the guy I've known that brags about sleeping around were either lying or just had low standards. The dude saying he doesn't need female friends just sounds like he doesn't like women in general unless he's getting sex out it. But it would be complicated to a close female friend and a serious relationship at the same time.
Tate isn't wrong you know... Women themselves don't believe in platonic friends. They are friends only if 1) you have use for them (colleagues, classmates, simps who worship her etc) 2) she sees you as potential mate material. I lost almost all my female friends after they are attached. Don't believe it when women say we are "friends", it's just manipulation
I think it's fine to be friends with females the caveat is to not be attracted to them unless she is unavailable (in relationship). Having female friends can show some status. However if you are attracted to her, you might fill that emotional space with that girl. I totally agree with you Courtney
This girl is incredible guys. One of the few who actually lives in reality. She is what defines a girl/women & whole female gender together. Smart, beautiful, intelligent & knows how the world is turning into something irregular. I hope to see her on Andrew’s podcast on day.
Hit the nail on the head with every factor on this topic & never surprises me when you do ! I kept an open mind while watching everyone you mentioned on here for a while, but it never sat right with me with how or who they portrayed with their topics. They did have some key points here & there, but not many that I felt aligned with my own morals.
Can I make a suggestion? Try viewing the JustPearlyThings podcast? I like this woman who really has her finger on the pulse and gets it from a mans perspective and can hold her own when facing off against modern entitled feminist women who don't like accountability for their treatment of men and have selective application of equality when it suits them....just saying.
I was thinking that!!! I saw Red Pill and was thinking of Pearl! This dude was just an aggressive woman hater. Red Pill, I think male rights, social dynamics of modern culture, and how successful families are to rise. Red Pill and women hatters are two different buckets in my opinion.
I think there is such a weird interpretation to what “high value means”. To me, high value refers to a persons character, integrity and values. A by product of that is often a man who is driven and highly motivated and so material success follows……but simply earning a high salary doesn’t make you in anyway high value as a stand alone component.
@@CodingJesus exactly my point, but in discussions on modern dating I feel this is the misconception people often make. I think it is a reflection of our cultures value system.
You can't just make up a definiton for a high vale man. Kevin Samuels defined it for all of the Red Pill community. Any other definition does not count. If you don't agree to it, then it's the wild west of making up your own crap. Then guess what? You'll always be swimming in your own crap! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xI1g3wnaLGk.html
I think that guys and girls can be friends even if they're attracted to each other as long as they're not "in love" with each other. A lot of my female friends are attractive people, but I know that our personalities wouldn't work in a relationship. The experience of being in a relationship with mismatched personalities might play a role in that, but I don't think attraction will become an obstacle to a relationship unless people allow it to be.
Depends upon how attracted you are. I can’t imagine agreeing to “just be friends” with a woman I was extremely attracted to. I would ask her out and if she didn’t want to go out it’s time to walk away. Why would I hover around her, watch her get into other relationships, and eventually wind up heartbroken?
@@countryboyred ... While I understand where you're coming from I would argue that once you know who you are (decide what your core values are) you aren't going to want to tie yourself to people who don't fit that even if you find them attractive. I have dated some incredibly beautiful women, but when our values didn't align the relationship became a hell, an cage of pain, and after experiencing that I won't let attraction overrule my better judgement about the kind of person I'm willing to allow into my life.
Tate is a persona ... a character he created. the sole purpose is to be very polarizing because that's what gets the clicks... that's what gets the subs, likes and follows... and that is what leads to the money. And as a result its becomes a self reinforcing project until the man he was is no longer and the character he created is what he truly becomes.
He ripped off his look from former PUA Neil Strauss (aka 'Style') right down to the snakeskin jacket. It feels like regressing to early 00's pick-up... 😒
I would love to see more vids like this. Obviously a lot of us men think of you as a high value leveled headed individual. We love to hear what you think about these topics.
Direction and stability are what I found to be gamechangers. I never had feelings towards a girl/woman until I was 23 working in an office. Being a late bloomer, I made all the mistakes people made and learned from in grade school: essentially my day and thoughts revolved around her and I was doing nothing for myself. I was heartbroken for years and felt pity for being such a late bloomer. Now that I’m in law school with a mission of personal growth at 28 I find relationships with women to be far more seamless and natural. I’m now secure in myself with a defined future strapped to my belt. Before I was floating through life after college and didn’t have much structure or direction. My current direction has made me almost bulletproof: I am fine with any degree of relationship a woman wants to have with me. I’ve finally experienced heartbreak and depression and it has ironically given me such an optimistic view of my future. I fell so hard that I have become tough. I fell down but I got back up. What did not kill me only made me stronger 💪 Heartbreak + personal evaluation after heartbreak + career goals = unstoppable me I don’t cling, I don’t worry, I don’t obsess, and I don’t make plans around a woman of interest like I did at 23 with my Guinea Pig of a crush. My experiences at 23 taught me how to be with women by teaching me what NOT to do. I now have lady friends I study with, go to concerts with, party with, sleep with etc. I’m doing well with women because I’m living my life for ME, not someone else like I did at 23. I do the decency of not sleeping with women in the same social group and telling them I’m not exclusive. Afterall I’m in law school in New York City. Romance of the serious type is not a priority, being the best version of myself is.
Great point on the 2nd clip. I actually fell in love with a woman I met online before I ever saw her. We met on a message board about a TV show, started to DM each other, got to know each other, our conversations became more personal, and in depth, and I soon realized that I loved (and still/will always love) her. When we finally did see each other it didn't change anything. She is beautiful, but that had/has no bearing on my feelings. Unfortunately there does need to be some initial spark of attraction, and while there was definitely a mutual spark, or curiosity/mystery/intrigue when we first started to communicate. (Playful bantering, teasing, debating about the show, etc), I completely sabotaged any possible shot I may have had by being a self-centered, selfish, narcissistic, non thinking, JERK! (Which makes me even more furious, and unforgiving of myself since I know that honestly isn't how I ever wanted to be.) We had exchanged photos, and things were fine, but it was when we decided to have our first video chat that I blew it. (This is where I wish I had, had videos like Courtney's to learn from about making first impressions, appearance, grooming, etc) I didn't give 2 thoughts about my appearance, I had dirty dishes in the background, etc; all the while she made a concerted effort to look her best. My selfish, narcissistic mindset was, "She should like me however I am " Then to make matters worse, I started acting completely differently. I started to pedestalize her, always agreeing, etc. I went from being/acting confident, to being a SIMP! She literally told me I had changed. That I had become boring. She told me, "I don't want/need a girlfriend." I apologize for the extremely long, and mostly irrelevant reply, but just wanted to say how IMHO it has to be more than just about "looks", and honestly they do play a role; but moreso it's about the complete package that you BOTH present, and bring to the table. We're still good, close, friends; but unfortunately because of MY mistakes (and not having videos like Courtney's back then lol) that's all we ever will be.
You can turn around things though, don’t be friend to her. Tell her that, and she might open the tour to something mor serious. If she declines, move on and forget her.
@@FreeAgent99 Maybe; but IMHO that would basically make me an a$$hole who is only interested in ONE thing. She means more to me than that. I'm not fixated on HER, just saying I realized too late the mistakes I made, am not do self centered that I can't admit I made them, and was just saying. I just think there is too much of a "ME ME ME" attitude/mindset these days, and everyone seems to think, or act as if their s#it doesn't stink, and that they somehow deserve the very best; when if they took a good, HONEST look in a mirror, they'd realize they really aren't "ALL THAT".
@@julianfelix7652 Thanks; have been trying for a while. Learned the hard way that you really do not get a second chance to make a first impression. I will never give up, but I am not waiting...if that makes any sense. She will always be a part of my life in some way.
Steve Harvey said it best ,if ur in a relationship you create a 2 handed circle and don't let anyone in it ,not ur guy bestfriend, girl bestfriend, no one , anything u wanna share he/she is right there!
Emotional connection is essential and unlocks the door to an amazing physical connection. I have had several very good female friends over the years. And we really were just friends and enjoyed shooting the shit, or even go out and shoot pool together, but nothing else. It is possible and it was completely platonic. At least on my part, and I think most of them as well.
technically, if we ask "can a man and woman be just friends", we just have to find one example of a man and woman being just friends to be able to answer "yes". And I think most people either are friends with someone from the other gender or know someone who is.
Can't say I've made the experience that m&f can't be friends. I've had female friends all my life, many of them very attractive, and I've never fallen for them or the other way around. That being said, that doesn't mean there isn't physical attraction from either party, but that's a long way from emotional attraction.
I think a lot of people are prone to fantasy and indulge thoughts they shouldn't and that plays a part. If internally, you have strong boundaries, what does physical attraction matter? A lot of people seem to just act based on their urges.
Same. And my life (and my personality) are much better now than 20 years ago, partly because I have male and female friends that helped me evolve in all kinds of ways. For us it just works.
Men's attraction to women is not limited to their beauty and popping out a baby. There is nurturing, supporting, caregiving. Men don't need women without those qualities.
There are some opinions of Tates that I don't particularly agree with , but I like him. He is a breath of fresh air for our generation of men to follow to be honest , and i feel men need someone so abrasive honest and confident to look up to as a role model in today's very feminist empowered society . Just keep in mind that .. he is a billionaire at this point so ofc he can say that he sleeps with multiple ladies bc he HAS other options that average man with average income don't have . Models etc It's his life style so he speaks about it . Im actually surprised that ppl haven't presented this argument to him but .. yeah . If you are an average man it's OKAY you don't need to be rich to get a good woman I live in Portugal and most men here are not even close to millionaires but we still love them and respect them Love you Courtney and the face you made made me laugh bc that was shocking to hear I agree 😂
You're completely wrong about Tate... but you do you I guess lol I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you haven't watched many of his videos because dude is borderline a psycho who promotes unhealthy relationships and promotes holding women in subjugation.
Anyone who has the balls to say whatever they want, I’ll tip my cap to. I may not agree with what’s being said but the fact that they’re not worried of the consequences is admirable.
It would be different to me if he had a jaw or at least other experience outside of the fact that money has led to his status which has helped him get to the point that he is at now but to me that only makes him half as impressive
I agree, most of the time - he’s right on the money! But he knows what he’s doing, he knows how to mess with your head, he’s got a reason for everything. Just take what you can from him to apply to your life, and throw out the ones you don’t need! Just remember, he’s at a different level than you are, he’ll get away with a lot more than you can. Cheers! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I wish you would have reacted to his video about loneliness. It's a short from the fresh and fit podcast. That hits home like nothing I've ever seen before.
touching down on the point of having female friends, i really believe it can work without having feelings. When i'm stressed out i can have a panic attack, and interesting enough almost always will a female friend calm me down. I think it is their caring character that they want to do this, and my guy friends don't really feel comfortable doing that. And no for the moment i don't have feelings for any of these girls, my eyes are set on another price hehe.
Andrew Tate is so correct half the time and so wrong half the time that he’s worth listening to since you have to actually think about if he’s correct or not and can form your own opinion.
Hmmm I'd say he's correct most of the time. However, he always give a logical explanation for the things we say he's wrong about. And the issue is that people think logical means fairness, they think unless something is fair it's not correct.
Great tips! And speaking of “Emotional Connection…” One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant. If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game. One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman. Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
High value men or rich men have a lot of options. They can pick and choose what they want. Fresh n fit and tate are still really young. sleeping with other women gets tiresome when a man reaches an older age. In the end a man just wants respect, tranquility and happiness (peace). You give that to a man you’ll always be in his world.
The entire point is men at some point in their lives want to have many s3xual partners as they can. Does it get tiresome? Yes but to ignore the general male inclination to wanting many is naive.
@@HenryDube72 Exactly what i was thinking and saying. There is a reason why alot of men when they become successful and have alot of options of women. It is biologically built into us. it can get tiresome but not for everyone. There can be exceptions.
I don’t think I’ve ever been true “friends” with a woman. I don’t talk to the girlfriends/wives of my friends outside of polite greetings when we run into each other and just don’t find them that interesting. My boys and I have similar senses of humor and make inappropriate jokes that are laughed about and then forgotten later. It’s a very simple world we live in when it’s just us and I’ll never risk it colliding with the entirely separate world of emotional connection with women, whether it’s mine or theirs.
it's true unfortunately, unless you're a low test modern man, I've only been friends with girls until I made my intentions known. Don't get it twisted ladies, the attractive desirable men are your friends because they want more eventually and itll either fizzle out or he'll gather up the courage to tell you.
I see where you are coming from, but you need to open your mind up a bit and not limit yourself to only being friends with one gender, that's how one becomes close minded in my opinion. I disagree. Gender should not have a impact on friendship.
@@NFSMAN50 I'll clarify, I don't intentionally screen women out as friends, it's just how things have always sort of played out. The ones I've had zero romantic interest in, have either taken an interest in me or vanish when they find love, which is understandable. To this day there aren't any female friends I can just call up or text and pick up where we left off like I can with my boys.
Once I realised that women who should be in my ball park, and even women I’m not attracted to- brush me pretty much because I’m 5”7…I realised it was a hopeless game. To the streets with them all. At 51, I’m too old for flakey women, and going through any sort of heartache. “We are biologically wired to be gold diggers- according to science” Rrrrrrrrright 🙄
I had a female friend for 5-6 years before i met my girlfriend and i think that because od that friend i got to understand women better, what they like and what they dont like in general. But i also think that it would not be posssible if i found my best friend attractive in that way. Yeah, when we met i found her attractive at first, like you said because of her looks, but while i got to know her i just did not find her attractive in a way of wanting her to be my girlfriend, today i look at her like she is a part of my family and she and my girlfriend also respect each other. We were friends for a very long time and i dont see a point in stopping that because of my girlfriend and my girlfriend thinks the same.
Thanks for making this reaction video! I’ll take the gloves off Courtney about what goes on in young guys’ minds right now. They want to be like Andrew Tate, Dan Bilzerian, Bradley Martyn, or any other handsome guy that’s in shape + successful who brags about sleeping with numerous women. It’s very sad, and people on social media networks + RU-vidrs call these guys “Chads” or “Alphas”. The whole notion is “if you’re not sleeping with 100 guys per night you’re a loser”. That mindset isn’t just hurting young men, it’s DESTROYING them. I’ve said this to all my friends and people I know… do not give them a platform to spread poison!
I really don’t mean any harm or offense to any woman when I make this statement, but women can’t understand what men go through because they don’t go through the same things we go through. I’ve spent a lot of time trying to explain to women what it is to be a man and what we go through but ALOT of them just lose interest in the conversation cause they don’t understand “why is he so sad all the time” even though it’s explained why, it’s not that women don’t care, I’m not gonna lie alot of them don’t, they just don’t relate or understand. And I 100% agree with Tate when he talks about women not giving attention to sad men unless a man completely ignores his feelings cause most women, at this risk of getting flak for saying this, women don’t want to be stressed with your problems and sadness. Like the song says “Girls just wanna have fun”.
@Laura UK Unfortunately the reality that we live in is not all sunshine and rainbows and it’s not about who has it harder which always seems to be a response. Each sex has their own struggles somethings that women struggle with are greater than what men experience but reality is not what alot of people like to live in there’s always deflection of the topic “I have it harder no I have it harder how about we just be there for one another? Is it that hard? I would love to see these women that are not “crying” about it as well.
@Laura UK hogwash...There's tons of videos on Tiktok of women crying about Men. You just refuse to look at them or to knowledge them. There is no Gender Wage Gap, and Women today have it so good compared to your grandmothers and great grandmothers. Men have it way harder. And always have. When a women is having a problem a number of white knights will show up to save her. When a man is having a problem he's told to Man up. Why do you think suicide for men is higher then women? In the Western world, males die by suicide three to four times more often than do females. You literally don't know what you are talking about. Zip, Nada.
A female friend can provide 'social proof' to other women, introduce you to HER female friends, and communicate a few insights. That's why it's worth it.
Some of my best friends are women. But like you said, I’m not attracted to them, so I’m sure that helps. One of ‘em is attracted to me, but she lives a billion miles away and we only communicate through texts/DMs, so that’s never a problem. She’s even helped me with my love issues 😄 To be fair, it is a problem with a female (former) friend I am attracted to. Part of me still wants to be friends with her, cause there’s a reason I fell for her other than being physically attracted to her. But I think it’s very hard to do for both of us, because I’m afraid there will always be another part of me that wishes for more.
I slightly disagree regarding female friends. I have an incredible female friend who I love talking to and going on trips and spending time with her, and we both have never thought of anything else between us, and it is one of the deepest and most important friendships that I have cultivated throughout the years. I completely think that men and women can be friends, and they should. We all benefit a lot from that.
@@RickyBobby42069 Why is that automatically what you think? Is the idea of a man and a woman being friends that much of a foreign concept to you? Not trying to be offensive, just curious.
Have always had female friends. Some of them I developed a crush on, but that ran its course with no lasting problems. These are people I've liked (and like) who happen to be women - but that's not the only thing that they are. They have other things to like as well.
I got into hookups after a VERY draining breakup and I knew it wasn’t a good substitute for a genuine emotional connection but it was something. The sex stopped being as fulfilling because I knew that’s all I was there for and was never as good sex with a strong shared real emotional connection.
I have had friendships with attractive women where it was more of a Bro/Sis relationship. Especially true when we each had our own strong relationships and we know the others partners. It is a great opportunity to get a perspective on your own relationships from someone on the other side.
Sometimes it's hard to accept things that just work better. A very good female friend I had, the last times we spoke was bragging about this guy and the other, I just had to cut her speech and say "u know what? this is just not gonna work, I think we are getting so much apart" Don't wait for the girl to leave or dump the guy they're with lol, it's so beta
On the subject of female friends...I agree with you. I couldn't be "just friends" with any woman I'm considerably attracted to. Watching this, I was thinking of one of my few, close friends. We've been friends for nearly a decade....she's an attractive 34 to my 48...but, god!...it gets tiresome when she want's to talk about her work all the time! But....perhaps because this trait doesn't appeal to me at all...I am completely honest with her, and I value her friendship quite dearly, as a result.
I feel like some of these red pill RU-vidrs just take the most wild stances to just be entertaining and get views. Don’t get me wrong, it’s SO entertaining to listen to what some of these people think, especially when it validates what we think and feel about these topics, but men need to just start trusting themselves more than they trust some of these “red pillers.”
My best friend is a girl. We are friends since 2007. If I get into a relationship I can't be friends with her anymore? I want to see a whole video about this topic. There was some attraction 10 years ago and we didn't speak for a year, but all that is resolved. I believe it can work
From what I've seen it's usually the woman who suggests it. Then the guy just pretends to go along with it, but what he's really doing is looking for another woman that he clicks with, and when he finds her he drops the hammer and it's over.
@@fdblade1529 Yes, poly couples are often woke couples. Any guy with half a brain who is operating in his own best interest should realize it's a pretty terrible deal for men. The world is full of thirsty guys wanting to sleep with his girl, meanwhile most guys have to put in some WORK to attract women. Ergo, she'll be having a lot more fun than he will. Other than that if a woman loves and respects a guy she'll be naturally monogamous. That's why it's feminist chicks with beta guy(s) who tend to fall into these relationships.
Courtney, you’re extremely classy. Your responses were so -to the point-and about the info, rather than bashing the person (which is so common these days).
My two cents on the opposite sex friends thing: If two people are emotionally mature and (most of all) are high value enough where they have many people constantly attracted to them, they can definitely be friends with people from the opposite gender. For example, I make friends with people I get along with. I don't care if they're male or female. Why would I not want to be friends with someone just because I can or can't sleep with them? That's a shitty way to view people. That's incel logic. If you're secure in yourself, you won't see people as benefits, but as people. Andrew Tate is a massively insecure man and his advise exposes him as such. He is a very fearful and paranoid (and emotional) person.
Bottom line, a high value man if he's seeking a committed relationship will seek out a high value woman and not cheat on her. Any man that calls someone his girl publicly and gives her and everyone else the impression that they are exclusive but he's also still sleeping with other women, that is not a high value man regardless of his money or looks. That's probably a narcissist. A high value man that isn't ready for a commitment won't lie to a woman.
What i find interesting Courtney is that when you said '' I'd never want to sleep with a guy that has slept with a lot of women'' but i can almost guanrtee you would not want to sleep with a guy who's no sexual experience either/very little.
1. You were not listening, she put it exactly right: it's not possible once there is sexual attraction / tension. You can be friends with the over sex easily, if there is no physical attraction to begin with. And that goes not only for looks but esp. for smell. Our bodies communicate nonverbally via pheromones. If you are not compatible genetically, you'll not find each other attractive naturally. The big problem here is, that hormonal contraception seems to mess with the female antennas in the worst way possible. So much so, that they decide for the guys who they are least compatible with. So once they want to start a family and get of the pill, they won't get pregnant AND her attraction to him subsides significantly. 2. Good relationships build on a good friendship. You can't love someone you wouldn't even be friends with. Being friends with someone gives you time to test the waters, whether you are compatible as potential partners. If not, you just stay friends. If yes, you build from there. Problems occur only if there is a disconnect: one wants, the other not. In this case it's the decision of the wanting part how to deal with the situation. Parting ways is one option. Going on w/o hard feelings and stay friends the other. This takes some emotional maturity though. But as you can fall in love, you can fall out of it. It just takes some time. Courtney said, it always ended that the guys in her friend circle wanted more and that led to the end of the friendship eventually. But she did not elaborate how exatly. I tell you how: the guys either couldn't take a hint and wouldn't stop chasing her, so she ended it. Or they left immediately after rejection because they were after her from the beginning and never platonic friends to begin with. 3. Female friends are invaluable for any guy. Women basically have an unconscious vouching culture regarding men. If a woman vouches for you, your threat potential drops a lot and you are much more approachable for women. Hence the cliché that all women suddenly show interest in you once you are taken, but show the cold shoulder while you are single. A female friend is the best wingman you can get. Next best thing is a wedding ring on your hand.
@@rainerminusunfug All I'm trying to say is friendship is fine, like on the surface level like you're on talking terms, greet each other when you meet and stuff but this best friend shit is what I don't agree to, you can't just hang out all day night long, know everything about each other, enjoy each other's company and still not get into relationship I mean that's a cap, humans in general are not wired to work that way, as a heterosexual man myself I can confirm for the average man if I girl shows interest in you and relates with you more than any other girl no matter what their intentions were initially but they are going to persue her eventually and it's a fact.
@@gauravingle Ok, thanks for clarifying. I agree at some points, but I see it a bit differently still. In the end, that's a personal thing anyway. See, I have and had close female friends and it does indeed work out for me. Mostly because I'm simply not attracted to them (and vice versa). But they are great people still. I get the notion, that you'll eventually fall for someone when you get close and emotionally intimate for a longer period of time. Humans work like this indeed. That's how set up / forced marriages still worked out back in the day (and in some places still today). What is definitely true is, that when a friendship becomes a relationship and this relationship ends, the friendship usually won't survive the breakup. I saw some people in my life, pulling this off, but I'm not one of them. So you'll always have to keep in mind, that pursuing a friend romantically, will jeopardize the friendship. That's why I don't consider FWB or any other shenanigans with my long time female friends. Maybe YOUR catch is, that you subconciously only chose women as close friends that you also deemed to be good potential partners? This would make sense, since who would consciously hang out with unattractive people anyway? On another note: even if you end up pursuing a friend and get rejected eventually. What's the problem with staying friends afterwards? The hurt ego? Lovesickness? The jealousy of seeing her getting it on with other guys later on? I get that this can be difficult, but it's not rocket science either. The question is: do you value the friendship higher than the potential relationship? If yes, that might justify the effort you are willing put in. This only works of course, if the woman truly sees you as a friend and not as a beta orbiter simp in a constant friendzone. You have to be on equal footing.
Courtney saying women are emotional while maintaining perfect composure in every single one of her videos while reacting to a man who’s being so emotional in his videos he has smoke coming out of his ears like Anger from Pixar’s Inside Out is too funny 😂. Thank you Courtney for representing women in such a respectful way and showing that 1. It is okay to be emotional and 2. Women have valid and informative insight that men can benefit from. 💕
I have female friends but I’m not attracted to any of them. I believe it’s the only way to have a genuine friendship with the opposite sex. My closest female friend is like a sister to me. She has helped me through some severe mental health struggles I’ve had. We’ve known each other for twenty years as we went to Uni (college) together.
Lol i had that "brother-sister" relationship with a female friend for like 6 years. Ended up realising that if i had a chance with her, i would take it. Ended up blocking her everywhere and never talked to her again. But in my case, i was the one always helping her with her problems. I now feel that i made the right choice.
@@WeightedCali I hear ya but I’ve never thought of her that way. Ever. She’s happily married with kids & I’m good friends with her husband now too. I say just don’t be friends with a woman you find attractive. Never ends well.
Couldn't care less. if any man tells me not to have male friends but wants to keep his female friend, I won't be listening. You either ditch yours or I will keep mine.
I can be friends with women who reject me romantically. I ask them. They say no. And I'm okay with that. I'll just find someone else. I feel for guys who get hung up on individual women, and I don't blame them for needing to remove themselves from the equation, but that's not a problem I have.
I love that everyone is so motivated to get clicks they are name dropping this dude left and right. It just makes him bigger and bigger and bigger, and people milk them trend soooo hard for views. This is good info and everything , just seems there’s a certain level of shamelessness that goes into being a RU-vidr it seems lol
tates hustle university tells kids to clip his content and start a RU-vid channel with it, pretty genius, theres 5000 tate channels because it's what he tells his followers to do. suprised nobody thought of this before him.
@@Winfinitey yeah but he doesn’t even need half of these channels to talk about it or make content revolving around his ideas or appearances, these people are milking the algorithm for all its worth using this guy’s name.
I like how you carefully break down your reaction and control your emotions in your responses. This was my first time watching your videos and I’m impressed. You just got a new subscriber ☺️.
the brutally honest truth is no men cant be true friends with women unless they are physically not attracted to them or are gay. feelings will always get in the way regardless of time. the longer it goes on the harder it will be for the man to take being just a friend.
As a guy, one of my closest and best friends is a female. We met playing video games and we just have similar interests in stuff like games, working out, etc. So we have a ton to talk about etc. Outside of that though, there's no desire to date her etc. She acts as a better wingman than a ton of my guy friends as well. It's hard to explain but if you're not trying to date them or be with them, it makes it pretty easy to be friends if you have similar interests. On the flipside. There was someone that I was seeing that wanted to be friends after we decided to break things off. That I can't maintain a friendship with because there is still some emotions there that wouldn't allow it to stay friends. Depends on how things started I guess in this situation and what you're looking for from them.
Have a Part 2 to this. I watched this guy's video a few days ago glad to see more RU-vidrs reacting to this. A exclusive relationship is only between 2 people not a third party or a 4th party. For the people who are looking for a physical, sexual or emotional affair look for a open or polyamory relationship that allows you to be with a third party while keeping your relationship. Stay away from closed exclusive relationships until you deal with temptation, lack of self-control or loyalty. l
@@zegsi364 No women show loyalty by cooking and cleaning for you! Yes, I am joking, caring is caring, being loyal is being loyal, how this could be difficult to understand... Image you provide something for your mistress, so now what, you are loyal to two women? 😂
@@renenetatm8222 Yes, its called polyamory... Men and women are different, ur making the mistake of assigning the metrics for women on men. Thats not how it works, we dont expect u to protect us or provide for us. But u expect men to do that for u. Different standards for providing, theres different standards for loyalty as well.
@@renenetatm8222 All those 10 women will be assigning their metrics of loyalty to men cuz guess what, this is what most women do, they dont understand men cuz theyre not the ones who hunt, men are... They also think theyre equal to men, were not... They also think men should be more emotional and then get turned off when he is, cuz women dont act on facts, they do so based on emotions. Emotions are unstable. Those 10 women are delusional. My standards are optimal.
He wasn’t advocating polyamory; it’s the man who gets to have sex with other women; the woman does not. Here is a question: Is it a double standard? Is it unfair? Perhaps. Here is another question, Do I give a fuck? Seriously though, men and women are different, so “double standards” are not applicable; double standards presume men and women are the same.
