How Women Test Men & How To Handle It (Every Guy Needs to Watch This) 

Wham bam point&laugh at the ma'am (when she crashes into the wall)

Hahahah

True. And I thought Twitter was a toxic cesspool of garbage and scum. TikTok takes that to a whole new level.

It is

And good public service announcements of what type of women to avoid.

It seems alot of these women, and people in general, are really wounded inside, partly due to being raised in toxic environments as children, compounded by being exposed daily to our over sexualized, consumerist, narcissistic society therefore, creating alot of broken inauthentic individuals

One did that with me. I left her

Shit my ex knew how to text but make it look like it was from an anonymous number and pulled that on me pretending to be asian throwing herself at me to see if I would cheat on her....should have realized right there and then something was very off with her

Entrapment is illegal, there's no moral difference here. You should be personally offended when they pull these tests don't stand for it.

Had my ex do this to me on our vacation. She got a dudes phone number and I didn’t do shit lol just took mental note and broke up with her in my head

Explain more please. What singel woman giving advice? You mean the woman in Corteneys video or did you mean another dateing-coach that is female? I am asking, because I recently saw another video on the same topic, made by another female dateing coach. And that "coach" had a whole OTHER take on the subjekt. (A very bad one). Corteney is really good. The more I see of her videos, the more I trust her competence.

@@shastregorshonirel2598 I agree with you about Courtney. She comes from a good family, background, upbringing and obviously good gene pool.

Hence why feminism and metoo caught on so quick.

A test failed is a test passed.

then you'll never have success with women - all women test.

This is funny 😂

@@Illlium what?

@@wavygoods877 Failing is better for you in the long run. Is that clearer?

That’s right !

That's msygonist. Only women get to drill people

Take 2wks leave but tell her you lost your job. You'll soon see who she really is.

The majority of young modern women will fail all of those tests.

@@moleahy6880 They don't care. They have of a line of 20 other dudes all hoping for the chance to jump in

Very well said!

Nothing wrong with that, just learn to choose the right woman.

@@Keona2605 100%

Well said

@@causalloop2825 even though in Disney movies they always kill off the mother, sometimes both parents

Women will always test you, even after 10 years of marriage

Hes supposed to be able to read her mind, that's how it is in the fake movies and romance novels these women get their "feels" from.

It’s also unfair to his Uber driver who is there waiting for him, he had to leave.

@@johnsmith-kt7ef When women get frustrated with you for not reading their minds, call them out on it. I've done this and it shuts them up and they never do it again. Works every time. I ask them if THEY can TRULY read MY mind right there in that moment. They get flustered and usually just walk away.

Yes, just like if he ask for consent regarding sex, if she answer "yes" he's supposed to know she mean no and now you will get a r*pe-charge.

If he'd stayed, she'd be telling of how he failed her test by being domineering and overbearing. The purpose of the original video is not actually to express a consistent standard, it's a statment of status; she's declaring to other women that she's more picky than they are and therefore more desirable herself.

Only women can come with a story like this and type it out in this kind of manner...nice try who ever you are lmao!...

@@qbik911 Well, you're wrong! The story is true, and I'm a guy.

@@qbik911 What some women have to understand is there are men that say what they mean and mean what they say. However, when you tell them up front before even starting the relationship that you are NOT interested in marriage or having kids, foolish women ignore this and look at you as a challenge. Another thing is, too, how women want to constantly change their man. Another game they play is withholding sex until they get their way. When an ex did that to me, I said right to her face, " Oh, goodie! Because I have been wanting to bang the hot woman up the street. This specific woman that I'm speaking of, her name is Monica. When Monica and I first started dating, she never told me I would have to punk off and get rid of her ex-boyfriend Dan. It was like she kept quiet about that part. Dan was fresh out of jail, could bench press 450 pounds as he lifted weights like 6 hours per day. Dan was threatening me as I was in Monica's apartment, he's on the phone with his buddies making all types of threats. I kid you not, I talked bravely through the phone, but in reality I was shaking like a leaf on a tree during a wind storm. So Dan shortly afterward shot at Monica's windows with a bb gun. Guess who had to fix the window? You see, Monica mismanaged a LOT of things and threw me in harms way while doing it. So when Monica knew I wanted to start a business, all she could see was the dollars coming in and started talking her junk - "I want to get married and have a baby!" To ladies who read this. When a woman puts her man's life in jeopardy, we look at it as "That's strike 1" Monica also caused my motorcycle to get stolen! That was strike 2. Then, when Monica pulled that stunt when I was starting a business, "I want to get married, I want to have a baby!" That was strike 3! See ya! Men are way too soft with women. As for myself, I could never stand a woman who wants to control every aspect of my life and tries to make my life all about her. NOPE!!!! Hit the road!

My man!!!

@@AmericanBosch When a woman becomes money hungry, she then becomes like a blood sucking machine. Men should NEVER EVER let their women control their relationship yet so many men do. I then dated Glady, who was way worse than Monica. She warned me that she was like an apple that was all beautiful on the outside but rotten on the inside. I said, "Oh, c'mon, nobody is like that. I WAS WRONG! Long story short, I was watching a preacher on TV named Joyce Myers, and she said, "If you want to know if someone loves you for you or the money, get rid of the money and see how you are being treated." At this point in my life, I owned a landscaping business. I only had like $3,000.00 in the bank and thought "Okay I could earn this back in a short time, let's test Glady." First, we went on a shopping spree! Yea! Glady LOVED IT! Then I waited a day or two and while waking up one morning I said "Glady, I have some bad news! She said what? I said, "I'm Broke!" She said what? I said, "Yeah, I'm broke!" Then Gladly flipped out! What do you mean you're broke? I have given you the best years of my life! Why am I even with you?!!! She would constantly repeat this. I had suddenly become this HUGE LOSER in her eyes. Yet she was the one who was caught sleeping with other guys. Well, this went on for days! Like 3 days! Day 3 was enough for me! I said to her Glady, guess what? We're moving! She said really? I said yep! I'm going my way and you're going your way! Then Glady said, "Oh, so now you're leaving me too?!!!! I said YEP! Then I took the trash to the curb!!! Leaving Glady was THE BEST THING I EVER DID! Till this day I can't stand her! All this happened back in 1997. I have remained single since then. No sloppy, mean, cruel divorces ( as one would go through if married ) nope! Just open up a can of "B!tch be gone" and POOF!!! B!tch was gone!

Agreed. Courtney is very feminine and soft spoken as well.

@@zaylehman2 Here,here

I love how she hasn't hearted this comment. Wonder if that means something...

@@StarboyXL9 he is one of many zillions of comments. Its a sweet comment, but her not hearting it doesnt mean she dont care.

Man, is that the truth!

Dude! 100%. I think a man should be prepared to pay, but it's so nice when the woman offers to pay half and means it. I think nothing is more attractive than a truly independent woman who does not need you for anything, but rather wants you because they like you.

They haven’t earned it, you don’t know them they don’t know you. The entitlement is disgusting coz they have a vagina lol

Agreed. One of my biggest red flags is when girls don't even acknowledge the bill. I always offer to pay, and when a girl offers to pay her share she gets put high on my list. It completely kills the vibe i have for a girl if she doesn't even thank you/acknowledge paying for it at all. That being said I always try to pay out of how I was raised, but when someone doesn't even remotely try to pay for themselves, its a huge turn off for me and I usually end up not dating them again. Again I know nerves are sometimes on the table, and if i pay and the girl thanks me later and says she will buy next time, I can appreciate that. But when theres 0 intension of them saying thank you or paying for themselves I usually call it quits there. Because to me that sounds like I'm about to get used.

@@Kjertinge it’s a form of prostitution! Who the fuck in this equal dating world thinks they’re entitled to our money for what exactly - Turning up or being a woman lol?! If they don’t bring anything to the table proverbially then they aren’t worth it

@@urlauburlaub2222 I hear you, It's just the sentiment if you take out your wallet to pay, if she insists on paying (which I won't let her haha) that says alot about her character. That she is a potential partner and wants to be equals.

I'd add a 7th one: She's from Miami.

there is nothing attractive about her.

Yet... no response to the actual content of her cringy message.

@@therealsandraweise What kind of response does it merit? She's free to "test" anyone, but she has failed to demonstrate what actual value she provides in case a man "passes". Is she loyal? Loving? Supportive? Does she have good morals? Will she be a good wife and mother? Because if the only thing she's offering in return is her body, or her fake plastic looks, then that's a pretty shit trade. It's not even that I necessarily disagree on the things she mentions, they are things I think are correct for a man to do, and things I do for my fiancée. But a proper relationship is a give and take from both sides, with both adding up their best qualities and helping eachother overcome their worst ones, to become a better whole. All her cringy message conveys is entitlement of galactic proportions and a willingness to play stupid games, which I don't think deserves any kind of proper response, but rather scorn

@@therealsandraweise the response is in the video why repeat the same thing ?

me too. I hate games. Emotional testing..

@@charlesoni2787 the "haha all these guys want me" tactic doesn't work on me, ironically if I mention a female they really get envious, once I see that I walk away Life should be a wonderful journey not a game and when anyone devalues my life or anyone else's life on dating or sex I don't have any respect for them

i generally agree, but sometimes a person can be genuinely good and they'll stop if you tell them to. sometimes it's because of habit or social expectation, sometimes it's because they're a bit mischivioeus and want to have fun. i don't think you should be so harsh and immediately reject them after just 1 "game"

@@slkjvlkfsvnlsdfhgdght5447 I would like to respond to you in a way that potentially covers the main thoughts behind this. First of all (I'm just curious), what do you mean by "social expectation"? Now, the reasoning behind my original comment: Problem with a lot of men nowadays is that they don't often realize their value. They very often submit themselves to girls by giving them a lot of attention and time they don't deserve - they basically give them free attention for nothing. Once a girl knows she can get it from you just like that, she will lose respect for you. You're basically just another guy that gave her follow on IG. I don't say be intentionally harsh to women and intentionally ignore them. No, don't do that. What I'm saying is know your value as a man, respect yourself and put yourself first. Your own life is your highest priority. Women are not and never be in the first place in your life, as harsh as it may sound. I know it sounds very rude and harsh but in the end it actually benefits both of you (we can have a call if you want me to explain this to you on a deeper level). Now, with everything mentioned above, how does this apply to the so called "game"? Well, a girl can be the nicest girl on the Earth but if you don't set boundaries and let her do anything she wants, she immediately loses respect for you. She knows that you let her do that and she got away with it. And since she knows you already let her get away with it, guess what, she will do it again. You can say whatever you want, but ultimately, the relationship is about respect. If she doesn't respect you, you're just wasting time with her. Now, what you said about this tolerance for one game, it may work, but from my own experience, rarely does this really work. Just ask yourself this: If she's like that, if she plays games with you, why the hell would you even bother wasting your valuable time with this kind of girl? Why don't you rather find a girl that is genuinely interested in you, is straight with you and gives you clear signs that she really likes you? What the hell is wrong with you, man? Don't be delusional. Don't be a simp. She's not worth your effort. If she's playing games with you, she's wasting your time you could have otherwise spend on improving your life, just think about it. Know your value, man. Put your life first, since it's your highest priority and don't let any girl distract you from your goals, regardless of how beautiful she is or how big of a connection you feel. Dude, there are so many beautiful women that you have a strong connection with. Stop having this mindset of "Oh, I think she's the one". More likely than not, she's not. Like I said, this might be a bit too complex topic for a comment section, so if you want, we can arrange a call and I will explain it to you in a more detail. I wish you all the best and good luck on your life journey. Stay strong, man.

99% realise it, it's just that some choose to convince themselves otherwise.

Question, was that really all you texted or did you right away followed up with more nice comments like you had a great a time and would love to see her again?

You did the right thing!!!! Runnnnnnnnn. She is not worth it period!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Happy tbursday bro. Much success!!!!!!

You are def a gentleman for doing so but I am sensing that with her response, she just wasn't likely interested in a second date and that was her try at a nice let down. Don't stop being a good guy. There are ladies that will appreciate that gesture and will be interested in you enough to go on another date.

That is one weird woman. One of the most attractive things about my husband when we were datinv and even now was his concern about my safety and wellbeing. When I met him after work at a restaurant he would ask me to c!ll him when I arrived home. Every single day that I work he asks me to call or text b/c he wants to know that I've made it to work safely. Now I ask him to do the same.

Too nice meaning she wants a man who beats on her. Sadly or something like that. My first ex wife said I was a mama's boy.....I need a man. Shoeshine she ended up having a baby with her next dude..he was aggressive and abusive. Ling story. If anyone wants to know ...ask me

Bro. That's just how women are. Remember, women have the power of relationship, sex, and all things feminine since the beginning of time. This is a gold mine of info. Coach Corey Wayne and others on you tube go over this when you RU-vid their videos. You will then see oh that's why she dumped me or why this girl turned cold and ghosted me after I said X etc. Don't be mad at nurture but learn. Women test with competency, strength, and masculinity. They will change an opinion for example to see if you will change yours to match. If you do this you will be done. A woman randomly did this to me a few months ago but I was prepped and she was all over me and flirty afterwards as that was rare in her eyes. Research the material and learn from ccw and others. You will beat out rich and handsome men as women prefer those who pass these tests and are more masculine and badass and strong over richer and handsomer

Western society is flooded by oversexualization in music, moves, shows, narcissism on social media, and over consumption in shopping malls malls and Amazon. We are creating hollow, selfish, broken individuals.

@@timothygibney159 I'm an older guy and have a lot of experience with women. My goal was never to beat out any other guy if the so called prize was a toxic entitled good for nothing woman. Women like that are a dime a dozen. Always have been. The other guy was welcome to that.

With 10 cats.

You seem like a man incel and upset too ... Don’t listen to this channel for dating advice it’s a load of bollocks. They are saying to attract you need to be yourself and do what you like to do. This is definitely not true. You can be yourself and do what you like to do and women wont care because of other factors that she doesn’t explain...

There’s 758 sexes now.

Great mentality you have there.

That's the right reaction to have btw 😅

*Jealousy

@@XFS540 fixed

She got jealous

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

Because some women like to stock up on guys. Disgusting isn't it?

I don’t know what she was in about or who she thinks she is but she needs to stop reading her tik tok comments by men who want to get in her pants their making her deluded about her own value, all I see is a big man child making tik tok vidoes and she looks 30 enough said

I have a serious problem with women like her making themselves a massive target where they have no situational awareness or contingency plan in the event that a date goes south, and yet expecting the guy to be all of this that she wants. The irony is that she puts guys through tests to see if they can provide and protect, when she should be doing that herself already. She should be looking after herself first and foremost rather than basically plopping herself in a guy's arms with the expectation that he'll protect her. Unnecessarily risking her safety that will get her stranded at 4AM in a massive city... Real smart. These women are literally putting their lives in these guy's hands completely and are at his mercy because they want all the responsibilities to fall onto him. They aren't protecting themselves and would rather risk putting their lives in the wrong person's hands over a fucking test. If she's out past 12AM with a guy and not considering that maybe this guy is sketchy and that she's already backed herself into a corner, the best case scenario was that he left her in the middle of Miami at 4AM. I get it, that's a sketchy and inconsiderate thing to do and tells ME as a guy that he isn't into her like that, but she have no idea how badly it could have gone. These kinds of women are not datable for their own sake. They constantly put a massive target on their back, with no concern for their own potential safety and have next to no situational awareness or escape route in the event that a date goes south.

Totally agree

@@CourtneyRyan and to add, so many walk into dating with fear and resentment

Last girl I went on a date with literally admitted she was going to test me before hand. She told me I could come back to her place after the date IF I passed her test, which she didn't tell me what it was at first. During the date, we did go back to her place and I found out the "test" was her cousin literally spied on my personal info online to make sure I was "cool". She refused to tell me where or how he got the info, especially since she herself didn't even know my last name.

Drop her.

He “failed” her test be she also “failed” his. 🤣 love to see it

He's not wrong, here.

@@bulletzzz3 she failed by testing him

That's indeed another way of looking at it - perhaps that's exactly why he left: She made him feel not-needed (maybe it happened even during or throughout the date) and by then he had already decided he was done with her. Her saying that Maybe "confirmed" it for him. Still not a "gentlemanly" thing to do on his part, but maybe she even drove him to do that.....

Well the way the woman in the TikTok video presents herself is way too manipulative and arrogant, and I agree with you re: The 'protect' test- She shouldn't have to lie to make a man read her true intentions, because some men would take her word for it and avoid being clingy or even stalkish by leaving her alone, thus getting unjustly tarred with the same brush when his true intentions were to give the woman her own space. In cases like this honest & direct communication is especially important because this will profoundly impact the way communication is done in a potential relationship!

this.

I was thinking the same thing.

Well she probably thinks that every last single mother can raise a boy into a proper man, although no woman can raise a boy into a man, so of course we always conclude at this reality that women are emotional beings and men are rational beings so she didn't think it through, so that puts the burden on him to think this through and make sure he is making a great impression because she will go off of her feelings

Why would you be ok with being friends

@@supersonic118boi8 you typically wouldn't but being friends with women open doors to other women.

@@supersonic118boi8 we have good conversations, but we both were feeding off each other's anxiety sometimes, making us incompatible without getting a lot more relaxed around each other. Also the effort of maintaining a friendship (e.g. scheduling the next get together, texting back, etc.) improves my mental health. What do I lose from being friends?

@@brainwater fax bro! Im semi the same way when an interest turns friend.... Getting to know/comfortable around women in ALL capacities has no choice but to be beneficial if the guy compartmentalizes correctly.....shit she might have a compatible friend for all we know😏

@@brainwater You don't get what you want. Which is a relationship or sex. You're basically settling for less.

What a waste of your time money and effort man she’s a disgrace

She did you a favor then

@@fromrighttoleft8328 she sure did.

I hope she left a nice tip. Stupid hoe

Amazing how we all learn bad advice. Her mom is a gold digger

Great

In this particular video, I agree with all the points that you made, and I think you should have emphasized one of your final comments earlier on: women that deliberately put men through these tests are raising red flags. In general, men are expected to be more down-to-earth, straight forward, and honest, and if men ever put their dates through tests like these, I'm sure that in most cases their dates would end the prospective relationships immediately, and then call out those men publicly or tarnish their reputations. Think of the equivalent of your example of a woman sarcastically commenting on the weakness of a man that works out at the gym everyday: the equivalent would be a man sarcastically commenting on the fatness of a woman that puts much effort into controlling her weight. How would any woman react to that? It wouldn't matter if it was just a test or a joke, and in some ways the fact that it was a test or a joke might make the comment worse.

And look at it this way, I have a serious problem with women like her making themselves a massive target where they have no situational awareness or contingency plan in the event that a date goes south, and yet expecting the guy to be all of this that she wants. The irony is that she puts guys through tests to see if they can provide and protect, when she should be doing that herself already. She should be looking after herself first and foremost rather than basically plopping herself in a guy's arms with the expectation that he'll protect her. Unnecessarily risking her safety that will get her stranded at 4AM in a massive city... Real smart. These women are literally putting their lives in these guy's hands completely and are at his mercy because they want all the responsibilities to fall onto him. They aren't protecting themselves and would rather risk putting their lives in the wrong person's hands over a fucking test. If she's out past 12AM with a guy and not considering that maybe this guy is sketchy and that she's already backed herself into a corner, the best case scenario was that he left her in the middle of Miami at 4AM. I get it, that's a sketchy and inconsiderate thing to do and tells ME as a guy that he isn't into her like that, but she have no idea how badly it could have gone. These kinds of women are not datable for their own sake. They constantly put a massive target on their back, with no concern for their own potential safety and have next to no situational awareness or escape route in the event that a date goes south.

Conversely though, my daughter went out with a young man and she called me if I could go pick her up in downtown bc there was a family emergency at her date's place and he wanted to go home as quickly as possible. When I got to the pickup spot, the young man was still standing next to her. Chivalrous young man, good on him. His father is a chaplain in the military.

Spot on

Do you think people do the mind games and manipulation based on their own insecurities? (I'm just curious).

@@angelvargas6190 I'm not a psychologist but I believe it's a mix of insecurities from a past relationship, bad home life or influence from social media.

@@angelvargas6190 Definitely. Manipulation is about control. A person feels like they need to be in control of another person because deep down, they don't think that they deserve to get what they want, and they are scared that they won't get it, so being manipulative and controlling are ways to temporarily ease that fear. This is an insecurity that will lead to misery if we don't address these issues within ourselves.

Indeed.

these dumb tests are part of their biology. it is stupid though.

I think you're doing the smart thing so by definition you are successfully dating. Success in dating is not measured by volume. Especially if the majority of women a man goes out with are toxic and entitled.

@@moleahy6880 Exactly

How old are your dates, on average?

@@purpose6113 30-40

@@paulprice1705 thnx

It might not have been Chad. It might have been Tyrone.

>>It’s just about knowing how to walk that fine line I guess

Just tell the bitches that there's no reason for you to get jealous if she acts right.

If you are jelaous they can control you, if you are not they will be mad cuz they cant control you , but will say you dont care instead lol

“Knowing how the walk the fine line” is for circus performers

This. 100%!

That is stupid. She is not treating you like a toy. She needs to know you can protect her, will be loyal, etc…. It is natural and both men and women test each other unconsciously. So you’re either single or oblivious to your partner’s tests.

@@user-bg9oq9zo6q Or, I look at it as the manipulation that it is. I would never do that to a partner or to friends as it's a display of basic distrust. I already ended friendships because of these stupid games, for the better.

Great point about their true self coming out sooner or later!

🙌🏼

Why were they going home separately after drinking til 4am? That's my question.

Great point about women who want the best of both worlds. btw, your english is better than most that have english as their first language!

@@apexdisease6030 thank you

Despite a few mistakes, your English is better than that of most natives (US & UK), so relax.

And there it is; the final proof of this all being some self-induced madness, when even someone outside western culture notices the hypocracy going on. All the more reason to not take any of this current situation seriously. We have become so caught up in our small little lives to the point we start making it difficult for ourselves out of boredom, women especially. Keep calling it out, friend. People wont listen to us, but since we live in a non-racist "equal" culture now, where one's opinion is elevated if he is exotic enough or has the right skin colour, your opinions are unassailable.

You are absolutely right.

I like that. lol In those same situations where the outcome doesn't really matter, I enjoy giving them a look of horror, disbelief and disappointment, then saying, "You're a MONSTER." lol I feel like unless something actually makes you ill or triggers trauma (music, food, movies, etc) that most of those things are way easy to let go and not ever take too seriously.

This is a great point

Absolutely spot on my friend.

Of course, your CV needs to meet the requirements before you get asked to an interview. Sorry, did I say "asked to"? I've meant "allowed to ask for".

@@Illlium And expected to meet standards they don't live by.

@@megasoid IT doesnt matter what standards they live by it wont affect the dna of thier children

Don't kiss the female's rear ends. If they do play mind games, get up and walk away forever!!

@@Syncrotron9001 Yeah it will be tainted with their own defective genes.

In some ways i think its better for you that she talks about it, in that she is signaling she is not emotionally available to you - but if she wanted opportunity for success with you then I agree.

She told you everything you need to know about her. chicks like that are crazy - and they will only be interested in a guy that they can't have - you stayed there are was the emotional tampon for her - she will be nice and say good things - but she has zero respect for you

lol It’s all about them, dude. Most of these women will bring nothing to your life. Women do not love men the way that men love them. They are always looking for the next best thing, you should do the same.

@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 "but I let you use my vagina!"

Or imagine you noticing that she is cold and offering your jacket to her spontaneously. That would make you look like you pay attention and you care. But I guess you'd be looking at your phone ...

@@nickthequick How can you tell if she’s cold? Shivering sure, short of that, you have no way of knowing.

>>"I'm freezing, can I get your jacket, if it's no problem for you?"

Dang and I thought 8.5 years was a good minute. Been learning a lot of brutal but good info from the captain save a bro channel.