Save a clip of Grant saying he doesn't think the cutesy stuff will work on him. It'll be great to look back on when he is wrapped around miss baby's finger!
It would be so fun to re-read these around her first birthday! Everything changes so much when you become a parents and it’s so different than how you imagined (at least that was my experience) so I bet a video a year later would be fun 😊
I really appreciated your insight about how raising a child takes more than two people! I have a four month old and a husband who works a lot. I WISH I had family members or a nanny to help me with my son. I always feel so guilty for having this thought and other moms make me feel like sucking it up and suffering is just the way it is. Hearing your opinions on the subject made me feel valid and heard. I can’t wait to watch your parenting journey! You two are a great couple and will raise a beautiful family.💛
Never feel guilty for wanting help! The phrase "it takes a village" is said for a reason. We aren't meant to parent alone. The Navy took my family far from my support system. We take our baby to daycare. We're paying for our village. Although the weekend has no breaks and we don't have parents to watch him for the afternoon, it's hard but we make it work. Parenting doesn't need to be something one suffers thru. I'm sorry the people around you make it feel that way for you
I've got a 13 month old and I'm home with him while my husband works full-time (or more)! I totally get it. And our families live at least 4 hours away, if not further, so we've had zero help. (Not throwing shade at the family, just with covid and distance, that's the way it's been 🤷🏻♀️). Definitely nothing wrong with wanting help, asking for help, needing a break, TAKING an actual break (not just a quick shower or whatever). You've got a virtual village here 🖤🖤
This! I have twins and I also somehow thought I needed to do it all on my own which was hugely detrimental to my mental wellbeing. As a society we need to realize it does take many hands and there is no shame in needing help!
I went through a divorce at 23 so I went back to college, had a full time job and raised my son on my own from age 1 1/2 to 6 until I met his stepdad. He's 18 now and starting college next week to study for a degree in education. Must've done something right! Lol. It's hard but possible!😊
When Grant isn’t talking and he’s just staring at the camera while Lieghann is talking I feel like he’s my dad staring at me at the breakfast table knowing that I came home after curfew and is waiting for me to confess…
I love Grant's perspective on accepting help and nannies! The grind culture of this day and age is so toxic. I grew up with a nanny from about three until I went off to kindergarten. Both my parents had very demanding jobs, but I never felt like I wasn't being raised by them as well. My nanny was there as extra help to support our family. Not there to replace my parents which I think can sometimes be a stigma of "someone else raising your kids for you". I will forever love my nanny!
Aww this is so nice to hear as a child minder/nanny! I miss the babies/kids I used to look after 😭 once one of the dads asked me to take the baby out for few hours cause he wanted a nap due to being hungover 😂😂😂😂
@@heatherarledge2589 awww that’s so special you still keep in touch with her! And hahaha to your funny story. I still keep in touch with the parents every now and again to see how my part time kids (as I call them) are doing, hopefully one day I’ll find the right partner and have my own babies 🙂
@@leighannsays I was a nanny for someone I started out as their pet sitter.... And it was the greatest! I got to Nanny for them 2 days a week, she was nurse and gone for 12 hrs, and they needed help on those days. It was the greatest, they were amazing parents, and I wish I could have had help like that with our son. We're still close, and Mia just turned 20 and is graduating from High School now. We can't believe it!! And she gets to love on my 2 yr old now. Life is wonderful.
Thank you both (especially Grant) for acknowledging that it's ok to need help raising a baby (not just for moms but dads too) and that raising a baby can be detrimental to your physical and mental health if you are needing help but not getting it because of the stigma of being a stay at home parent
You’ve got a really great attitude about breastfeeding! I have a 6mo old that I reeeeeaaaally wanted to exclusively bf, but wasn’t able to. There were a couple of reasons why it didn’t work out in the beginning, but now we are able to do both (probably 60% bf and 40% ff), which turned out to be the best thing for our situation. It might be hard or it might be easy in the beginning, but you’ll absolutely figure out what works best for your family!
Good for you! The most important part is that your child is fed! I tried to nurse.. but with premature twins and physical problems that I had, it was just a struggle. They did get expressed milk that I pumped while they were in the NICU for 1-1/2 months, so that was good and important but after they came home, it just became too much. I am not a huge drinker so I did not produce very much milk.. even though I tried to increase my fluid consumption. They still thrived, grew up, and will now be turning 36 in September, so I guess we did something right!!
There's a huge difference in spoiled and being a spoiled brat..my son may get things he wants sometimes, but if we say no he puts things back without fussing or whining at all. Only once did he actually cry over not getting something in a store and he didn't get it for that reason, and he's never done it since. Now I don't have to deal with tantrums and he sometimes gets rewarded just for being good while not expecting it.
This!! I spoil my kids with love and affection...not with items. My kids have great manners and are good kids even when they are being a bit more rambunctious so I feel like we really lucked out. I don't believe that cuddling your kids or being very affectionate counts as spoiling. I also hate the word "spoil" it makes me think of rotten food.
I really appreciated the conversation about nannies and help… even though I have lived on the total opposite side of that equation while raising my kids. I have been a stay at home Mom for all 5 of my kids, my husband works and owns his own business and it has always just been the 2 of us. But I can’t tell you often I get told how “lucky” I am to have a husband who works so hard so that I can just stay home. I appreciate people who see that raising kids is also a ton of work. Working Moms, stay at home Moms, Moms with lots of help and Moms with little help, it’s hard work all around 💕
Thanks for talking about the nanny stigma! I CAN watch my two boys 24/7 but my mom comes twice a week and is a life saver. Gives me time to do what I need/want to do. Every mom (and dad) needs a break!
Different adults in a kids life is a game changer, aside from the domestic help aspects. Too many kids grow up really sheltered with only one understanding of the way the world works. I bopped around a lot as a kid from various babysitters homes, spent probably an abnormal amount of time sleeping at friends houses, and very close relationships with my scouts and guide leaders and therefore spent a lot of time away from my parents camping, things like that. I also have a close step family and bopped back and forth between two divorced parents. I appreciated my parents (they're lovely) but sought out other worldviews, and adults who would do with me what they wouldn't, like going camping, and at age maybe 9 or 10 I knew the village was crucial to getting to grips with the world. I really think it made a world of difference to my ability to understand that not every family is the same, and I'm grateful for it as part of my adult worldview even now, I find i'm often flexible where people sometimes struggle to empathize or try something new
That's so true - growing up i was 'bopped' around different grandparents, great-grandparents, aunts. Was babysat by my older cousins and sister. I experienced and learned so much that by the time I got to high school I realized how fortunate I was and how sheltered other people seemed. Like when I was in 6th grade my cousin took me to have sushi for the first time. Little influences like that add up to having a colorful life.
The term "crunchy mom" makes me think of that scene in Away we go where Maggie Gyllenhaal's character scoffs at the stroller. "Why would I want to push my baby away from me?" 😂😂
Within the first 5 minutes Grant said "I just don't fall for that cutesie stuff" and I thought to myself 'neither did our good friend until he had a daughter', y'all are going to be kickass parents. Excited for this chapter!
I wouldn’t consider myself a “crunchy” mom at all, buuuut I will say making your own baby food is totally easy and normal and fun 😊 it’s literally just blending up fruits and vegetables lol. We still used store bought baby food, it was just more cost efficient to blend up fruits/veggies ourselves and freeze it! No shame either way, just telling you my experience 😊
I was one who thought Grant would be the tough one, I think I see Grant as more analytical and you as more emotional but as a girl who is very close with her dad I can also see him possibly becoming a lot softer and be wrapped around her finger. It's going to be interesting no matter what!
I loved my nanny. She was with me until first grade and she really made a positive difference in my life. I think it’s silly to expect two adults with no family nearby to not get help. Good for you for being willing to acknowledge your needs.
I’ve been a homeschooling mom for 20 years, and the past 6 years of those I’ve been doing it as a single mom. I live really far from family and have never been able to afford help. All of that to say, if you have the option of having help, ABSOLUTELY UTILIZE THAT HELP! Well rested, mentally cared for parents are a gift to their children ❤️
My BFF was married and had kids very young and I always say “I did my best parenting before I had kids!” You and Grant will find your groove. I love what you said about letting your child find their independence. Letting kids make mistakes creates such great learning opportunities. You two will be fine! Relax and enjoy your new little daughter. ❤️
I can totally see both of you being on the same team as far as discipline. As far as breastfeeding I can totally see you being successful! You have that stubborn willpower that's totally needed for sticking it through! My milk just never came. I was super bummed but I was happy I had other options to feed my babies.
As a nanny it's so nice to hear a positive perspective on having one. I have so much love for all my kiddos and want nothing more for them than learning about the world and being accepting of everyone (as that person said)! We really are there to be another person in your child's corner, to have their back and support them while in your home AND for the rest of their lives. :)
I work at a daycare and I love my job. There are many parents that need help and we are able to provide for them. I think it’s great you guys realize that you will need help many people don’t think like that.
Former nanny here Nannying is great for the kids and the parents and it's a great job. Nannying is how I put myself through college! Like Grant said, it's almost impossible to do it yourself (especially if both parents work). Even if parents only get occasional non-family child care for a few hours a week so they can run errands or have a date night it's a wise investment. Frankly, I think it's ridiculous to shame anyone who chooses to hire help for their family and I'm glad to see you and Grant aren't engaging in that tomfoolery !!
I’ve been a long term/travel nanny for 10+ years! No shame in extra help. the only bad thing I can truly say is getting so attached to the little ones and having to say goodbye. Luckily, all the families I’ve worked with have been so amazing in keeping in touch as we all became so close. It really is a family dynamic when you find the right nanny!
I think parenting style changes with each child. Our youngest of 4 kids got away with a lot. He was a happy go lucky kid and pretty soon I was giving permission for things I never did with the first. 😀. All in all my husband and I were pretty equal in parenting. We were a team. Now we are grandparents and all rules go out the window. 🤣
I think that is a great attitude for breastfeeding. I went in along the same lines and am glad I did as we ended up not latching and pumping for six months, followed by formula. In the end, all that mattered was my babe was fed and happy.
She will be a daddy’s girl 100% and have grant wrapped around her finger you watch lol my husband always said I won’t spoil her but now he comes home with things for her or all she needs to do is puppy dog eyes 🥺 daddy is there with his credit card 💳 lol
As a parent and Pre k teacher. What we did was have our kids eat what we did, especially when you eat out. Exposure at a young age is so important. I know you both will do great no matter how you choose to do things.
Also wants say how amazingly refreshing it is to see other parent’s saying hey, help with your child is totally okay! I wasn’t told that and my mental health deteriorated. You guys are so ready for miss baby to come!
Longtime viewer here... I'm so happy for you and Grant. Can't wait to see her little face. :-D In Denmark, (one of the happiest countries in the world) it is "expected" that you send your child to daycare from monday to friday, from the age of one. It is considered a healthy thing (from around 3 years old) to introduce your child to other children and adults, and teach them how to function in a social setting. We have great benefits from it in our country. But, I do understand how it can seem like a big and scary thing, to trust someone else with the most precious person in your life... Your child, your heart. :-)
We’re also having a Little Miss from our first embryo transfer who is due 1 week before your Miss Baby! It’s been really cool to follow your journey since it’s been so close to what we’ve been going through. I know your blogs are a little delayed but we had our egg retrieval’s, got our generic results, did a transfer all around the same time! Then with the pregnancy we bought new mom suvs, couches, had baby showers, had sisters have babies in may, etc. all within a week or so and it’s been so fun to watch! 💖
I love that we're in this together! it's wild to think about how many people out there are basically living parallel lives going through the same stuff and you could totally be best friends but never meet! 💙 also, we're getting SO CLOSE!!! 🙌🏻
I am so so so incredibly excited for you guys. I love how grant spoke about raising kids with help. As a mom of twins who had no help other than my husband for the first 5 months i can't agree more. There is no shame in asking for and needing help!
I gave my kids anything and everything, and they loved it. Then, as each one turned 3, they would only eat yellow food (mac and cheese, nuggets, corn, etc). Every kid is different but 90% of them will go through this stage, some never do. Kids have their own minds and you will find that out real quick 😄😆 its hard but oh so worth it.
On the nanny point, I don’t necessarily think that people intentionally shame moms who have a nanny, I think it’s more so people understand that it’s an extreme privilege to be able to hire help with your baby given there are many, many moms who HAVE to do it on their own.
I hear you, having a nanny, babysitters or using daycare is absolutely a privilege but some people definitely intentionally shame mom's for taking that option.
was coming here to say this too! as a single mom that foots all the bills i wish i could afford a nanny or any help to preserve my mental health some. i think there’s way more people out there that would like help and can’t get it so it bums them out vs people who intentionally shame other moms over having help
I think people who can afford help have worked hard to afford that. Why is hard work called privilege? I couldn't afford help but I definitely didn't shame people who could afford it. Hard work and education pays off.
@@j.a513 because it is a privilege, and saying so is not meant to shame them for having that privilege, it's more so a reminder to be grateful for what you have, and to understand other's don't always have that option. Empathy is key. Parents who can not afford the help should not pass judgement on those who CAN afford the help, and parents who can afford the help, should be kind and not pass judgment on those who have to do it all on their own.
I’ve been a nanny for 10 years and want to hire my own nanny when I have kids 😂 Most people assume I want to be a stay at home mom but. I promise I’m going to be a much better mom when I’m rested and have an identity outside of being a mom. Everyone should find their own balance and I wish there wasn’t so much shame in that!
We didn't have a nanny or like a ready to go babysitter BUT if I need help and ask, there's my MIL or mom that are so happy to babysit or watch over night or on weekends and it's the best!! Moms need a break too!! And we need to work etc. No shame in that.
You’re so cool to have a flexible attitude toward both your birth plan and breastfeeding. Sometimes things just don’t work out according to plan despite your best efforts. You can’t beat yourself up for things that happen and aren’t totally within your control. I had a friend who was made to feel like a complete failure by everyone in her family because she didn’t produce much milk and the baby was frustrated unless she bottle fed and wouldn’t latch well. She became desperately depressed and it wasn’t her fault. Keeping your baby alive (fed) and happy is the ultimate goal regardless of the method.
Basically, “we’re going to be the sensible people we’ve always been to the best of our ability.” Sounds reasonable to me. 😂 She’s going to be a lucky little girl.
If you work outside the home and send your kids to daycare or have someone at the house with them that is help. If you work at home why shouldn't you also have help? Help is good for everyone. I think a lot of people didn't have help so they look down on those that do but many of those people would have wanted help if it was possible..i.e. financially possible, etc
I've been watching for years. Your both super laid back with great personalities. Your baby won't lack for anything. The vibe I get from you is you will be loving, nurturing parents who lay down healthy boundaries for your child. Y'all will make time for your child and spend quality time as a family, because you do it now. The way you balance each other i could see yall sharing the voice of reason if one is overindulgant. Grant is a great provider. Leanne is very humble on most things. Your blogs are like visiting with family. I'm really happy y'all will be parents. Your going to be excellent parents. Thanks for always including us. ❤ y'all
You guys are gonna be amazing parents and are so self aware of such important things. 100% you need help with kids. It is very mentally draining. Its honestly taken a toll on me and my husband and we dont have the help or funds for extra care so we have struggled. Even been told i shouldnt have had kids when i admitted i struggled. You guys are already setting up such a healthy family dynamic and glad you guys can share your insight on these topics.
I love your stance on food, my mom made us eat really healthy and we never got sugar or anything junk food wise. It made me want it so bad when I was around it and once I was on my own I went a bit nuts on junk food and gained like 15 lbs. If she had exposed me more in moderation and made it not a big deal I don't think I would've had such a fascination!
I’m blown away at people’s assumptions that you will not breast feed… I’m assuming that they didn’t watch the vlog where you talked about breast feeding… I think it was in one where you had gotten new bras… maybe in May?
I could feel all the emotions coming thru when you spoke of your fertility journey!! We love how real you guys are and thank you so much for sharing your lives with us!!
I am so grateful to you Leigh Ann for sharing your journey with pcos it has helped me so much and helped me get my own pcos diagnosis and even recently I advocated for myself to get my hormones tested with my new doctor thank you for sharing your journey
I'm so glad you got the testing you needed! I wish PCOS was talked about even more because it's so common and overlooked too much. I hope you're doing well 💙
I think it’s great you’re considering getting a nanny. When I had my son I had people willing to help but I pushed everyone away because I thought I’d be a bad mom for taking a break. It so negatively impacted my mental health, I was burnt out and even more anxious than before. I accept help whenever I can now, it benefits both of us 😊 Anyways, you two are going to be great parents. I’m so happy for you both!
One of my favorite things about following your journey is that it has made me so aware of the struggle that women (and their partners) go through dealing with fertility issues. Although I never experienced any of it, I feel more prepared to offer support to anyone that I end up meeting who IS struggling… P.S. I wish I had a southern accent, my Yankee heart is so jealous. Can’t wait for the arrival of Miss Baby!!! Woohoooooo!
I really really appreciate you saying this! I feel like we all have someone in our lives dealing with fertility issues and it's so complicated for everyone but just having someone that is ready to listen is so empowering ❤️
I’m sorry, but trying not to be rude. Why do you need more than two parents to raise a child? Two parents have been raising children since time began. I don’t get it? A nanny? Do you BOTH work outside the home? Please help me understand. My husband and myself raised three children without a nanny, and two of them were only 13 months apart, yes that was hard but having multiple births is hard too, but a nanny? I truly wish you both the best of luck.
Have been watching you, Leighann, for what seems like when you were a kid. Have seen you grow into a beautiful woman, saw your gorgeous marriage to that wonderful man, went through the difficulties of pregnancy... and here ya'll are. You're nearly there. Soon you and Grant will be holding that lovely child in your arms and you'll be thrust into another exciting part of life. Couldn't be happier for ya'll. Enjoy every second!!
I agree that there should be no shame in asking for help! I think some people may think that if you hire a nanny, you won’t be as involved in your child’s life. Also, not everyone can hire someone to help, so you are in a very privileged position! I have been watching your videos since 2015 and I just had a babe in March. I was so excited that we were pregnant at the same time and I’m excited to see you become a momma. It’s the best!
Your accent definitely gets stronger when you’re with your family 🥰 I’m a daughter of filipino immigrants. I was born here. And I find myself talking to my babies in filipino accents lol. It just came natural. I turned into my parents basically lol
I did Modern Fertility back in 2019 and it was because of them I found out that I had subclinical hypothyroidism. Because we knew we wanted to try for a baby within the next 12 months, I was able to start medication and I do believe that being proactive helped us conceive when we were ready. Of course so much goes into it but being armed with information is a game changer.
I'm so happy to hear it was helpful for you! I feel like its truly be a game changer for women to take meaningful steps to take care of themselves in a way we haven't been able to before.
I love this dress Leighann * more power to you if you get a nanny. Your family doesnt live down the street from you! you should not feel bad for that. * Midwesterner here and you do both have an accent * I went to a catholic private school and I am very thankful for that. You are both going to be great parents!
The only shame there is around having a mom's helper or nanny is that I'm not close enough to apply. I feel like you'd both be so wonderful and sweet to work with. So excited to watch you both become parents. It's getting so close I can't wait! ~Shellie
Your view on breastfeeding is awesome my close friend had such trouble with it and her mother in law and husband legit shamed her for wanting to go to formula the baby ended up in the hospital it was so sad
ugh thats so heartbreaking! I have PCOS and that can lead to trouble breastfeeding so I really have to go into it with open eyes and reject the ridiculous shaming if it happens. its so unfair that moms have to deal with people demanding their body to perform when its out of their hands AND baby's health depends on it.
@@leighannsays oh yes the mom shaming is so real personally I have breastfed two of my kiddos and the other two were formula and I can tell you I have no regrets on choosing formula it was what best for them and myself
Also SAHM here 🙋🏻♀️ I have my kids mostly by myself 24/7 and it’s HARD! My mom watches one of my daughters from time to time. And it’s so helpful! I am a wreck most days though. Parenting is ever evolving and hard. You guys will do great! 💜💙
The best part bout this is that next year you will be seeing this and laughing at all the things that you thought you will be doing and not doing... best of luck to the papis! (had to use the Spanish there, sorry)
I'm only half way through, but after hearing your answers about "junk food" and breastfeeding, you 2 are going to be her best parents, even if ALL of your plans change about parenthood ❤️
You have a great head on your shoulders already. You and Grant will find what works for your family. Being as prepared for all possibilities is so much easier on you. Being a person that only plans/ has to have things one way for anything sets you up for more stress. Breast feeding took me and baby a bit to get the hang of. I was blessed to have wonderful midwives, they advocated for me and my son at the hospital to get us home safe and sound. (did not have good nurses after my emergency c- section) I needed a nipple shield to get my son to latch on properly. The midwife also came to the house to make sure my son was getting enough milk at feedings. We weighed baby…clean diaper before feeding and then after. They really do have so many tricks to help mom and baby.😊👼🏼
You’re both already great parents! Simply stating you want the best for you child and you’re aware of your mental health and your marriage wow!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I love the part about not shaming others for asking help. Raising a child takes a lot even as an uncle, aunt, grandparents, mothers, fathers, etc.. having helps build growth for little one and new attachments
I love how realistic your perspective on the nanny/help topic is. We cannot do it all ourselves. We can’t do it all and remain sane. Suffering does not add value to maternity.
My daughter was never a picky eater until she turned 6 and was around a picky eater. Before that she’d eat pretty much anything 🙄 its been about 7 months and slowly getting back, but she’s asserting her independence, which is great, but also knows she has to have real food too. Also having sweets around has definitely made my daughter not overly into “needing it or devouring it” she likes them but will happily pick fruit over chocolate. Also remember things will change as all of you change and grow and don’t be too hard on yourself. The first year is hard on its own for so many reasons don’t put any extra pressure on yourself. She just needs to be safe, happy and loved. 🤗
Here's some parenting advice. You don't choose your parenting style, the child will choose that for you. Every child is different, and each child will have different needs. My first child didn't need me as much so helicoptering was not an issue (even though I wanted to hover) but with my second, he has very high needs and im 100% helicoptering and he thrives with it. My second also has autism and his needs are drastically more than his older brother, but his brother can do his own thing and prefers to be allowed to be more independent. I have problems with my youngest not being independent enough lol
Both of you look like such nice people,both of you looks like gentle people.Grant will be a caring dad,and he seems to me a very realistic person,being a doctor he will be. It's good to concentrate on healthy food,and moderation. You both will be great parents♥Can't think people can have such assumptions about you - every mother will want to breastfeed.
Baby wearing the first few months is AMAZING. That was the only way I could get anything done in the house until he was about 5 months old. I would 100% recommend using a fabric baby carrier.
I'm always so jealous of the moms who had a great baby wearing experience. My little boy HATED it since he was a newborn, he didn't like being on my chest without being on the breast and would just dig and cry 😭
Highly recommend the solly baby wrap for a soft fabric wrap!! I’m definitely not a crunchy mom but carrying is a must when you need to get things done!
I think personally that Grant nailed it when he used the term moderation. I feel like that word sums up how you will parent in all areas. I find that very refreshing in a world that seems to be rooted in extremes. Not being rigid is important, because you just never know. I wanted to breastfeed but couldn't, and I felt bad. I wanted my daughter to not be a picky eater, but she struggles with Sensory Processing Disorder, and at 16 she still has a ton of food aversions. I think you both have great attitudes about it all.
Listening to these assumptions makes me think you guys will be a lot like my parents and I think my parents are the best. So excited for you both and miss baby!!
Im glad you will try breast feeding even if just for a bit. It’s an experience to remember forever, no matter how long you go with it. I’m grandma age now, and every so often I have a dream at night about breast feeding and it’s absolutely vivid. It’s amazing how my subconscious mind/body remembers it crystal clear in a way I can’t recall the same way when awake.
100% agree with yours and Grant's ideas around having a nanny or consistent babysitter because the reality is that so many people do have that help. It comes in ways of friends and family versus a hired person helping you. So much toxicity like Grant said that you if you're not exhausted and barely surviving as a parent then you're not an actual parent. Raising kids is hard and I'm just an Auntie. I am that person my sisters have and still lean on for help when I am able to help them, I am one of many that they have to lean on. If you can afford to hire someone, why not, who cares! The well being of the child is the priority and having happy, healthy and sane parents is the best thing for them. As an Auntie I also adore my niece and nephews and our bonds are so strong because of how much I am in their lives. No better feeling then a kid who adores you back, running into your arms when they see you come in the door. I've been lucky to have that as an Auntie and as a daycare worker.
It’s funny how you think things are going to go one way and then down the road, you realize it’s absolutely not how you expected it. I thought I would be the strict parent and turns out it’s my husband. 🤷🏻♀️ For the most part, we managed to stick to what we hoped to be as parents, but details like that are sorts of funny when you look back on it. And also, I’m so with you about the food thing. We did the baby led weaning approach and we loved it. We want our children to eat the same way we do and to experience a bit of everything. I think it’s good to normalize junk food once in a while as part of a normal diet. It’s easier to teach balance afterwards.
I think you both will figure it out as you go!! Whatever works for you is what works. Don't ask for advice unless you really need it is my advice. And never say never, lol!! You will do so many things that you will say I would never do this and you end up doing that. It is a hysterical reality check! Just be supportive parents. ❣️❣️❣️💕😍
You guys are so sweet and a wonderful couple and truly amazing parents for sure... I was a nanny for 10 plus yrs and then a daycare teacher. Until I had my own children it is necessary to have help even family or hired help, it is what it is....You both benefit from it. Baby and parents. You can’t pour from a empty cup...your the best, thanks for sharing...😍🐥👶
I can just tell that you guys are going to be amazing parents. I’ve been a nanny for a few years and it definitely takes a village and no shame in getting help kids are hard as hell.
Your opinion on BF is on point! My baby BF really well for like a week and then rejected it SO HARD! I was so worried he wasn’t eating so I pumped and used formula. He’s almost 3 mos now and actually has been BF at night for about a week now. So if you really want to and it doesn’t work out at first that doesn’t mean it won’t forever! But! No matter what, she’s your little one and her being fed is the best thing. Always remind yourself of that! 😊
We're in the same boat private vs public schools. Totally depends on your specific district. As of now we'll do public for elementary school, but possibly private for high school. We'll see once we get that far. You guys are going to rock this parenting thing. So glad you're keeping an open mind. It's all a learn as you go type thing! Nothing like hands on training 😁 None of us "seasoned" parents know it all or have it all together all the time. Just doing the best we can with the tools we have.
