REACTING TO NIKI SKY GETTING RID OF HER ENTIRE LUXURY HANDBAG COLLECTION/IS IT A LIE 

Congrats on 30 thousand!! Woohoo! So…….I am 70, soon 71 and I went and watched her video before I watched yours. I really didn’t agree with much of what she said other than bags not being an investment! For myself……I get as much joy and fun out of my handbags as I do working in my garden! So, all you young ladies out there don’t get rid if your bags unless you simply don’t like or use the bag! And that’s my advice and I’m sticking to it!!🥰

I found her video to be inauthentic in a way. In my opinion it was pretty pretentious and offensive. Just because she might not feel the need to have luxury accessories anymore, doesn’t make people who enjoy it sheep. It’s pretty contradictory. She still enjoy a luxury lifestyle in general, just without the accessories. Almost hypocritical. She talks about the accessories being a “flaunt” of her wealth, disregarding the other luxury aspects of her life. If I’m being quite honest all of the people getting rid of luxury and suddenly becoming critics of it, seems performative and has become a trend.

@nikisky -To everyone sending me these videos.. No I’m sorry, I have decided not to make a video covering it. Why you ask??… because I’m not spreading more of these disappointing RU-vid videos. Right now a young person out there is looking to purchase their first designer handbag after an exciting job promotion and then they see this title and hear some of these words…It just tarnishes the joy, It tarnishes the joy of what may seem materialistic to others 'just stuff, things' but is still joy nonetheless for them. If this is a ‘true’ transformation then why make this the title of the video, if it is a positive change for one why create complete disarray (negative feeling thumbnail) for someone else’s dream no matter if it’s a handbag a holiday, having kids or quality time with friends. One doesn’t need to out shadow the other.......so after 15 years on YT please listen and realize if you watch these 'topic' there is a lot of smoke & mirrors

I agree with you on everything! I never bought any bag or jewelry thinking that it was a good investment or to compete with someone. I buy them for me and me only! I have a real passion around luxury, less in term of rtw but bags, watches, jewelry, shoes, yes!!! I have 38 luxury bags now and even if I really don’t plan to buy many more, the door will never be completely closed. I have zero intention of getting rid of my collection ! I’m turning 50 and it’s the opposite, I feel it’s my time to enjoy it fully! I don’t have small kids anymore that can ruin my things, I don’t have to think about being hands free because of them. So no, heck no, I will get old with my beautiful things. I watched the video yesterday too and honestly, I’m all about what makes a woman happy, if it’s getting rid of everything for someone else, so be it!

To me it looks like a marketing pitch into some type of business venture, stylist for the new women who is classic without logos or she is starting a minimalist clothing line. But she definitely wants to sell something at some point to her followers. I feel that there is a next chapter/video coming with the real reason she is doing all this circus.

I found her video to be a display of “champagne problems”

To each their own, sometimes ppl pivot in a direction that doesn’t make sense to others but they are just trying to make themselves better by living their lives in a way that is simpler and more fulfilling due to experiences rather then material things. I wish her all the best in her journey to the next chapter ❤.

Congrats on 30k Melinda 🎉 I think this is a likely outcome for many people that perhaps find they indulge too hard too early in life where things are still inclined to change pretty significantly- especially phases of parenting etc. Most people doing this aren’t past parenting young children yet, are maybe 30… to mid thirty… my observation- I’m sure there’s more to it tho. That’s why I’m pleased I started later in my life as I see less significant life changes affecting my wardrobe ahead of me (touch wood) than had I started in my 20s.

I do NOT believe in those influencers anymore 🤯🤨if she suddenly hates the logo , just turn the bag around and don’t add any more 💼 instead of this extreme hypocritical action !

Congratulations on 30k!!!! I was fascinated by her video as well, my reaction will go live tomorrow, I was surprised she was selling all of her bags, I do wonder what will go in that lovely closet! I also liked that she didn’t shame.

Glad you're feeling better, Melinda! Congrats on the 30K! 💞

I think it’s fake! All these RU-vidrs thinking it’s a “ Trend” to get rid of everything. I saw what she had for sale some were from Zara! Etc 😂 Listen people keep your beautiful stuff! You’ll regret selling your items trust me. These RU-vidrs are such hypocrites after all the money they’ve spent now preaching to others . I agree some bags are impractical when you have small children. However getting rid of everything….like no Great topic Melinda.

I watched Nikki's video yesterday too. I agree with lots of her points (these bags are not always "rare" or an "investment"). I agree that buying luxury bags are not a sign that women are competing with each other (although it may be the case sometimes) most people, I hope, watch other women because they are excited for them and what they are unboxing! Thanks for the mention too Melinda!! Have a wonderful weekend 🌺

Congrats on 30k!! Ya I saw Niki’s vid. She says she doesn’t wanna be a sheep anymore by not consuming any luxury and then more or less says no offense to y’all who buy -__-‘ not watching her anymore. Quite pretentious and gives me “white flight” vibes

I admire her for making this decision and I never have watched her channel. Personally I found myself buying some luxury items (bags, jewelry, convertible) not long after I lost my husband. It doesn't take Freud to figure that one out! After a few years, I sold nearly every item and it taught me a lesson. I love and appreciate beautiful, well made items, but I want things that are truly unique, understated, and without logos. Maybe it's my personality too because I don't like the spotlight and when I was wearing the Cartier watch and carrying the LV bag, it felt flashy to me. Again, that's just my personality and no shade to anyone who wears the logos. I know myself and the fulfillment they brought me was fleeting.

Congratulations on the 30K! I watched her video as well and honestly thought she may end up regretting a couple of her pieces, but I also believe that you should buy what you want and not worry what anyone else says. Great video by the way!

Goodness, I didn’t get a luxury hand bag until I turned 50 and I enjoy my collection so much. It is curated and every bag was bought with its purpose as well as its beauty. I do a clothing budget every year and my closet is a one in makes one go out..but not my favorites.. I wear and use and repair until they can’t be any more. I don’t resell even though I have bought a few preloved items. I have donated or gifted items that didn’t work out for me. I don’t worry about others choices ..but I do enjoy you tubers who show what works for them and brings them joy. It helps since I don’t have time to shop as I work full time an hour away from any luxury shopping.

Congratulations my gorgeous friend 😍😍😍

Good for you, yea 30,000 subscribers. Please get some slippery elm for your throat. I saw Niki's video, I thought she was "blaming" luxury for the emptiness in her life, or whatever was causing her pain. Didn't she seems to be in pain? This is just my opinion, of course I don't know Sky, but I wish her all the best. Blessing to all.

I watched her video too and I agreed with many of her points as to why SHE feels the way she does. I think it's very dramatic... drastic or extreme (not sure the right word) but if that's how she feels, then purge. I was glad that she wasn't judgmental of others in her video and recognized that not everyone is going to feel like her but... well, I don't feel in any way the same as her, so I was just like ... ok. Another luxury RU-vidr who has had an awakening. Big deal =) But I also agree with you... she shoulda held on to the Birkin hahahahah

I can’t wait for 100k subscribers…………your channel is honest and sincere and careful about sharing your life……..hoping for more cooking show in the future…. Thx

I like your videos. I have loved handbags since I was 2. So I don’t feel I am in the same category as some of the bloggers. I just like watching the handbag videos mostly to see the items and get info before I buy. I love your videos.the Vegas ones are fun because I go to Wynns and enjoy seeing the scenery. lol. For me it’s not a new love. I’ve loved handbags before RU-vid existed. Maybe that’s too much info! But thank you for the videos and congrats on 30k

Congratulations on 30 thousand!!! I hope you feel better soon. Love your chanel

🎉🎉CONGRATULATIONS MELINDA🎉🎉 30K looks Wonderful on you. As far as Niki's videos. I found it hard to concentrate with all the words and music. 😂 *Maybe Niki is trying to let everyone know, IF you wish to sell - NOW is the time to do it....BEFORE, the value of them all are lowered.* 😂 I'm keeping my things, UNLESS, "I" choose to let them go. I don't need to be Mentored to or spoken to like I'm a 🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑 😂 I'm so over all the Dramatics & Trends.😂 💛 p.s. I'm enjoying reading the comments here. Great Points.

In my opinion she already achieved something by making everyone on the net talking about it right now. Apparently many youtubers have reacted to her video and her content go viral out of no where 😂 To be honest I really think we all should continue with whatever makes us happy without being influenced by someone (in a negative way) 🤭 #loveyourselfunconditionally❤

Loved this video! I still enjoy my luxury bags; BUT I will say, sometimes I wonder if I really want anymore; I LOVE unboxings, positives, negatives about bags, and I love some of the creativeness with the bags utubers come up with; right now my handbag spending is paused simply because I need to save for the next bag! LOL! It takes a bit because I am, unfortunately, a Chanel lover 😮😅.

I love your commentary on this video. I always tend to be more cautious of RU-vidrs that do a huge 180. More so regarding no more luxury. If she was the first one or has been on this road months ago, I would say interesting. But the luxury sector have so many influencers doing the minimial route and it just comes off disingenuous. RU-vid is her business so you have to think how is this new route benefiting her financially. Or was her previous content no longer providing, did she lose sponsorships? I’m just thinking out loud here.

You summarized her new pov nicely. In her first video it looked like she was just getting rid of low priced trendy clothes. In her second video it was clear she's really moving away from luxury labels. I'm sure she'll still keep some of her Hermes and Bottega. The video did make me think of slowing down consumption overall, and maybe a spring clean up. To your point as her life stage evolves she might come back to luxury in some form. I was not interested when my kids little, my interest came back now that they are almost grown.

Congrats on your 30 thousand, that is wonderful. I really liked your point of view and mine is basically the same. We should all do what makes us happy if it is not hurting anyone else or ourselves financially. I do not have an attachment to my handbags. I have favs and I have some that do not work for me and then I sell. I do have an attachment to family heirlooms and pics or antiques that my husband and I purchased together for special occasions. So to each their own. Life is too short to worry about what others think or what others do 😊

Melinda hoping you get better soon. Interesting enough before I saw this video her video came across my feed about it. We all are in different places in life as time goes and if doing this at this time will lift a heavy weight off her then so be it.

I didn’t watch her video or other videos of this type. I agree with you, I couldn’t care less and agree, I think the whole shaming thing is just laughable. I mean they literally were doing exactly that like a week ago so those who live in glass houses… lol. Google psychologist not just self diagnosing but diagnosing others. Just ridiculous! I’m happy for those who buy and I’m happy for those that are moving on. Not my business and it’s not that serious. 😊

I thought Niki said she was getting rid of bags with an obvious logo. That would be most of her bags I’m sure, but not everything. I can understand her points as well as the one’s you make here. Over time I realized that I felt uncomfortable with bags with obvious logos so I guess I gradually wound up with a more curated collection. I adore every single one of my bags though and no longer have a constant need to keep adding more. It can definitely feel more calming. I understand both opinions. At the end of the day it’s a very personal decision and no one should be judging others on what they are doing with their own money as long as they aren’t causing harm to others. Humans that are obsessed with what other humans do always puzzle me. I experienced versions of adults bullying me in a “socially acceptable way” when I was vegan for a few years. It was soooo bizarre. I would just be standing there or sitting there quietly minding my own business and randomly someone would say something rude to me. I NEVER shamed anyone and didn’t even talk about my diet. It was sooo weird! I’ll never forget that experience for as long as I live. Why are you sooo bothered by what other people do for themselves?! 😆

Congratulations Melinda!! I like your reaction as your opinions are fair and gently put. I find it interesting that some people are changing their habits, lifestyle and approach to accessories. I like to watch a variety of viewpoints and they don’t bother me if they stray into analysis or critisism of materialism etc I’m pretty secure and know where I’m at. I do get disappointed with the hostile reaction from some creators, maybe it hits a bit close to home or they take it as an attack on their approach. I’d love it if we all did our own thing and didn’t feel judged. I make sure I’m really sure before I sell or declutter these days as these things are really expensive to replace. X

Feel better soon I hope! I’m not a luxury handbag collector but I watch a few RU-vid channels on the topic. I like that you talk about clothes and jewelry and how the bags do or don’t fit your own style. I like that the beautiful bags can fit into a stylish casual look.

Congratulations 🎉🎈I saw that video and is on my watch list. But my take on this topic is just ‘do whatever makes you happy’ I personally love my luxury handbags.And will continue to buy. I don’t over analyze when it comes to a bag. If i like and it is within my budget then great i will buy it i don’t overthink if i make money in 50 years. Lol We have one life to live and at the end of the day its just a handbag and i dont rely my happiness in it. 😊

I’m on a low buy year and I am a luxury content creator. I started my low buy year because I have some big goals next year. Even though I am on a low buy year I am still allowing myself to buy 3 bags this year. I still love and will continue to create luxury content.

Great video and I hope you’re feeling better soon. It’s no fun being sick for so long.

About the Lily silk or whatever it's called, thing (and, mind you, I don't even know this other RU-vidr and you just came across my channel today), if she got the items as part of a brand deal, then it's part of the payment for her work. She has every right to sell it.

Love your jewelry Melinda; blue becomes you!

As an “young average person” who loves luxury. I’ve absolutely been negatively impacted by the rise of luxury creators who have managed to make me feel less than and ungrateful for what I have due to me being a more impressionable age. I also felt logos made me feel icky, I felt guilty wearing outside around people who may be struggling AND it made me feel unsafe actually. So I’m happy that these convos are happening. It’s more relatable for majority of us. + the idea of hoarding luxury bags, for what? It’s an obsession if you have a huge collection. Truly. However getting rid of EVERYTHING? I don’t get it. The sudden abrupt change. Anna also she makes me question it. Truth is, everyone is trying to sell something. Both are simply pivoting to another topic which may gather more views (and money) and it makes sense for their lifestyle.

Interesting topic! I want to thank you for recommending the l’Occitane intensive hand cream in another video. I finally got around to buying it today. I’m watching you again while I’m having a cup of tea and a snack at the mall.

Thank you for this. I haven’t watched the video and don’t intend to as I find this type of content annoying. Why Nikki has to tell the world she is selling her bags confuses me. I feel there must be an underlying purpose otherwise she could just quietly sell them and move on.

Congrats Melinda on hitting 30K subscribers!!👏🎉 I'm catching up on my RU-vid video and wanted to say that I found what Niki had to say interesting too. Everyone has a different view of luxury/goods or in Niki's case prominent logos and that can change which is alright. No one knows what their likes will be in 5, 10 or 20 years and now with parenthood and a new mindset based I believe from a book these items do not serve her anymore. I think it is wonderful that she has come to her own self realization. Thanks for sharing ❤

Hi! Congrats on 30k subs! I'm glad you're feeling better from being sick. I too was sick for couple weeks and I'm still recovering too! Health is wealth, May God bless you❤

I watched her video as well. I think I am subscribed, but don’t get a lot of her videos in my feed for whatever reason. I found it odd because how drastic it was. To make a complete 180 and remove all of her luxury branded items is pretty dramatic. But I also found it odd that she made a living for years as an “influencer” and promoted buying extremely expensive items to other women, and now she seemingly following the new trend of “quiet luxury” “curated closet” etc. She definitely makes very good points, I can’t argue that. But it seems a little like the neighborhood crack dealer who got all the kids hooked is now a clean loving yoga instructor that lectures on the dangers of drugs. 😬 Most of her points never applied to me since I didn’t buy my first luxury item until the age of 52. By that time I owned multiple homes with no mortgages, had money and investments, etc. I don’t compete with any other women as most of my friends are not into luxury. This is just pure FUN. My bff and I enjoy our epic shopping trips and the treasures we find. But I can only imagine how disastrous that kind of spending would be to younger women who are at a much different point in their financial and family lives. So I don’t doubt her sincerity. It just seems a little drastic to sell everything instead of just pumping the breaks a bit. But if that what she needs to do, then good for her. Personally, when I finally keel over from advanced old age, I will probably be wearing one of my beloved Chanel minis! 😅😂

I stopped buying luxury for a while now. Just tired of the constant buying. But I still have my bag collection and enjoy them. As of right now I’m not planning on getting rid of anything. But that can change. You’re right about passing things down. My aunt passed away and left my cousin a bunch of jewelry that isn’t her style or her daughter’s style. She doesn’t know what to do with them.

I wonder if she will regret selling her things. It dose not have to be all or nothing. I would do that type of clean out in stages.

Yah 30K you are a joy to watch 🙏🌺

I agree that our lives change as we go through seasons. I recently retired and find the bags I used to carry to work (Speedy 25 and 30 classic) aren’t working for me much anymore. I would carry them to work, sit them in my desk drawer and then carry them home. I find now I’m looking for convenience, which means I carry my smaller bags like my LV Eva, Pochette Accessories, and Gucci Soho Disco as they fit what I need and go cross body. I’m not going to get rid of the other bags I have yet as I’ve had them for years and wouldn’t want to try to replace them. They cost so much more now than what I paid for them! I really enjoyed your video and congratulations on 30,000 subscribers!

This is the first time I've watched your videos here I liked your commentary on Nikki skye. I've watched her for many years. I think she's totally sincere. I always wondered how she could afford so much luxury and I was glad to see that she discover what is really valuable to her and her lifestyle. Some people are commenting on her luxury bracelets that she's keeping and wearing in the videos. She didn't get rid of those because I believe they were gifts from her family. Materialism is gone too far in my opinion even though I am a jewelry collector, handbag collector, I made very savvy purchases. I see through these luxury brands that make you line up just to buy their items. I've never done that and I'm totally against it. It's a sales tactic to make us purchase more. I support Nikki Skye's decision for her life!

You are so nice, and I enjoy your videos. I enjoy collecting Yurman over many years, but my budget does not allow the expensive designer handbags. Thankfully, I am not into purses or shoes. I do enjoy Coach. That's my style. I enjoy watching RU-vid videos of people showing their luxury items. It's fun to see, and I don't have the fear of missing out.

Is she also selling the luxurious house she has? I think those influencers want to become a “coach”, no pun intended 😂

Congratulations on reaching 30k! It’s very well deserved. I have been very unwell for the past month with something that sounds very similar to what you have. There’s some nasty bugs going around the world. I hope you get better soon. I watch Nikki’s video and I thought she had some valid points. What concerns me though is that minimalism and getting rid of logos is a trend at the moment and I don’t know her well enough to know whether she is going to think like this forever, or bitterly regret getting rid of all her luxury goods when the trend turns in the opposite direction again. That’s what I am not convinced about. Are these women really committed to minimalism or are they bandwagon jumping and not realising it? I think Anna Bey’s solution was far more sensible, keeping what she has, slowing down on luxury shopping and seeing what happens and how she feels in a few years time. I think we all need to think about why we buy luxury, not for a week or a month, but over a long time and then do what is best for us because everyone is different.

Im all for doing whats right for me. I love jewelry and not bags and i continue to purchase jewelry. I would never tell someone else how to live, just do what makes you happy and let others do the same. I noticed how people nowadays just think they can dictate to others what “right and wrong is”. I think being happy is what matters. If it brings others joy and not you, respect their choice. We arent all on the same timeline. Maybe you had your “awakening”, but others didnt. And thats ok.

I never heard of Niki Sky when her video came up on my YT homepage. It feels like influencers are trying to influence, but instead buy, its now don't buy.

I enjoy watching unboxing as well. Specially if it is something I personally find nice or that could work for me. (Most of my feed is after what I’ve last watched or searched for anyways.)

Thank you. This was the first sane reaction video to Nikis video. So many were bashing her and that is so wrong. People change and peoples style and priorities change. She was explaining from her point of view and her opinion. As someone who has worked in luxury I have seen a large amount of people who certainly do buy things just for status. Yes there are some who don’t, some that genuinely love the item but the majority are. Sometimes people are just offended by the truth. Loved this reaction.

Congrats on 30 Subscribers!! 🎊 I can understand why someone would suddenly decide luxury isn't for them but selling everything overnight is a quite extreme. I would probably keep a few and add contemporary ones for low key everyday use but i still enjoy my luxury bags ❤

Congrats on 30K subscribers!🎉🥳👏🎊

I used to watch Niki. I believe there is more to her getting rid of those stuff that she isn't ready to and wouldn't want to tell us. The thing is, many of these influencers claims these bags are investments. Bags maybe a utility or made for luxury. Many of tjem buy styles and sizes of bags they don't like just because it's "classy" or the next "IT" bag. Many of these bags are also getting really expensive fueled by the influencer driven market. Some of them may not really be able to afford them. Also, their financial situations may change. They may need money for other things. Problem is after they post, some women will watch it and want to emulate her stance on luxury goods. We need to remain true ro ourselves and strive to become better

The bah for the look is kind of true. I love the bags and the symbol that comes along with it. I made it. I was 53 when I decided I had made enough and already paid my son’s school.I live in Miami Brickell area and every woman has a designer bag. My husband says that LV is like coach down here. Everyone has it

I think that she is going through hard time and she needs help and it reflects on her impulsive behavior of getting rid of the things she loves

Congratulations on your YT milestone! 🎉

I've not finished the video yet but I'm so glad you got rid of your lily silk blouses, I don't understand why they keep pushing them on us, I look terrible in a silk blouse it clings to all the wrong places. I'd be happy if Lily silk gave me a cashmere sweater put the whole silk thing is annoying. Rant over.😂😂

Hmm 🤔 Niki is definitely projecting on the topic of women wanting to compete with other 😮women. A lot of us don’t care what others think about what we have. We just like what we like! She’ll be hyping some other product or project soon to her followers watch! Someone in her circle of friends made her feel some kind of way and therefore she is projecting it on others IMO.

I like to watch decluttering purse videos or collection videos.

My impression was she tired of the style of these bags and wanted to make a style change. She then gave reasons why she just didn’t hang on to them. She seemed to have become aware of the very personal style that she had matured into. Only by going through the phase of buying many of the popular conventional luxury handbags did she then become aware that they didn’t suit her style at this phase of her life. As I understood her view, she didn’t want to just hang onto what to her was very expensive clutter.

i had the same cold omg was terrible just starting to feel better

Congratulations 🎉🎉30k

No, I’ll probably never stop shopping, shopping makes me happy and I would never unload everything in my closet. I hope that she doesn’t wake up and realize that she made a huge mistake, but for now it’s too late … I wish her much happiness in her new endeavor.

Great video and beautiful jewellery 🩵I watch Nikki ( Sky) Really enjoyed her luxury content ( had a lovely handbag collection) Her channel definitely will be different.Thanks for sharing your thoughts and great points and congratulations again . Hope you are feeling better ❤

The only person who knows what I’m wearing is my SA. 😂

I don’t understand all the hate on Niki Sky, maybe she’s had some sort of awakening, or some self reflection, i think her video is very authentic. A lot of RU-vidrs either don’t want to admit or are afraid to admit that they are highly influenced to over consume by fellow RU-vidrs. I think self reflection is very important. She’s doing that, and kudos to her for taking accountability and speaking on it. I enjoyed her video 💯!

I'm frugal and practical I don't buy luxury items (prices don't make sense to me) I watch fashion videos for new inspirations or entertainment as a matter fact I decided not to buy anything for now I have plenty of clothes,shoes etc The older I get the less I need 😊

I absolutely agree with you! one person view is their opinion.we do not know what she is going through why she's doing this but I buy my things because I love them, not to show off on anyone. thanks for your honest opinion.

I loved that you tried to see things from her side and you are secure enough in who you are to not take offense. Some of these reaction videos after yours were just plain mean. If someone is so upset someone else changes their lifestyle maybe it’s time for inner reflection.

Her video annoyed me. It was full of generalizations to those of us who like these items and why we buy them. I buy for me and no one else. I hate the attention I get from having these things (even though I have a channel about them). I'm an introvert so when I'm out and someone compliments my item, I get shy and really wish they wouldn't. I liked your video. Thank you. P.S. Yeah I'm pretty sure her young daughter doesn't know the difference between Chanel and whatever else she said. She will one day.

Niki allowed herself a luxury lifestyle and all the materials her heart desired. Is not really for her to have an opinion if other people want to do so. Suddenly realizing you think fashion is shallow and that your kids bring you joy is literally the most basic mindset that has been repeated on to exhaustion on this platform. Every other minimalist with kids on RU-vid essentially.

it's kinda funny when the birkin bag itself was made for jane birkin bcos she wants a diaper bag. and here niki said it's a hassle to carry a birkin while she has a baby 😅😂

I think it's a matter of perspective. I own 7 luxury bags and that is enough for me - I have a purpose for each bag. But what is right for me might not be right for someone else. Do I get my self worth from my bags? Absolutely not, but they make me happy to use them. If Niki feels like she needed to get rid of her bags, then that's the right decision for her. I'm not going to judge her. I think it's interesting for sure. I value people over things but my bags are for me and not anyone else - not trying to impress anyone. I just enjoy what I have and I'm thankful for them.

Can I ask what organisers you use in your Louis Vuitton speedy 25??

I watch these vids on people buying less/buying more, and think of them like virtual scales. For every person who does there is someone that doesn’t, we need that balance ⚖️ 🎥 ⚖️

Interesting video and topic. I haven't watched Niki's video, but as a long time luxury purchaser and student of human behavior, I believe this type of content had more to do with a generation of people being subjected to social media amplifying trends that move at the speed of light so that these individuals never learn to develop a style of their own. When I was growing up fashion took years to change and no one other than people in the fashion business and the ultra wealthy wore the latest runway outfits. Then you could see those runway trends trickle into mainstream fashion maybe 6 months to a year later. Now, with new collections coming every couple of months, because there's capsules and collaborations on top of the standard seasonal shows, trends are changing every month or two. The people in their 20's and 30's think this is normal and now that "quiet luxury" and no logos are having their moment, the people that depend on social media to tell them what style is believe that this is the only acceptable aesthetic. It will be interesting to see what happens when maximalism comes back in a few years.

I feel like a lot of them get stuff for free from designers and have a lot.

I think what we are witnessing is just the natural evolution of a person’s journey with luxury. In the beginning, a person is excited to buy, grow their collection, have pretty things. Especially with media and movies and famous people always wearing brands. It’s joyful to feel that yes we can do that too, we can buy that too (usually 20s-30s). Then we realize we have all this stuff that’s taking up space in our closet and we are not really enjoying them anymore, we would rather travel for example. Happens to everyone to a degree. It’s just being filmed now 🤷🏻‍♀️

Very interesting topic. Since no one known Nickys backside of the story, she may be in an economical situation were she needs the cash now, from divorce, to illness to loss of job to so many reasons. same as mental issues, its so difficult to believe this whole story that suddenly was like a switch and this new persona emerged... I dont buy it, I think is a good way out to a business. she is selling some stuff but that whole collection of bags was not even in the page. and all because of a book??? really?? now she has 2 kids and so what? this phase will pass. im 53 and with a 13 and 20yo. maybe I started this hobby after they were bigger because when they were smaller I liked fashion but was too busy to care enough. but after you are so deep into it, is not a switch. its shady to say. dont buy all that. it you see Caitlin from Australia that went into same route, she mentions the debt and the mental battle with anxiety etc in her channel. when they do this at the level they were trying to reach like Tamara the influencer, not many make it there like her, so the rest what they do? well the trend. This is all my own personal opinion. love the approach you have as a mature woman that can enjoy this things and I feel connected and I identify so well with your views and your info about luxury and the way you enjoy it.

I love owning and buying luxury. However I only allow myself to buy one designer handbag per year. I’m more into household luxury. It’s pretty easy to spot the people who seem to have an addiction to shopping and those who simply enjoy nice things. Your videos are really lovely. We all have a purpose and I do agree if it’s all about shopping then that can’t be healthy.

Thank you for not trashing Niki. I watched her video and loved it. ❤

I agree about people who go minimalist and start trying to shame others. For people who give up their collections because they no longer fit their lifestyles or make them happy, much respect to them. But I think Niki was projecting about competition with other women. I actually bought my first bag because I was inspired by an elegant older woman in her 70s who walked on my street, carrying her Lady Dior. There may be aspiration involved, yes, but not jealousy. I do enjoy watching videos on minimalism but I can tell the difference between practical minimalists and aspirational minimalism. Practical minimalists (there are a lot of Japanese ones) typically wear all black and choose functional items. Aspirational minimalists seem to go for an aesthetic. I think it would be hard to maintain a minimalist wardrobe of whites and light colors, because they would show wear and tear quickly, requiring frequent replacements.

Kids do grow up fast, so the fact there might be a temporary tine when you can’t hold a bag and a toddler doesn’t make much sense to me.

I’m a bit cynical and I’m surprised not many people are talking about the fact that she heavily advertised a book in the video that seemingly influenced some of her decisions… Hhmm!

Congratulations 🎊 ❤😊

Stop giving this girl eyes and comments. She wanted the attention and now she's getting it.

Congratulations on 30 k…I saw the video..IMHO..anyone who goes from one extreme to another has mental health issues. It seems to be a trend

Kids aren't small forever. I'm not hating on anyone with high end Lux. People need not to generalize whenever they decide to make a life change. I haven't bought any in a long time, but I am not judging people who do. People just need to be themselves and stop worrying about what other folks are wearing when they make a major life change

I think Niki is doing it for attention and more views simple as that

I am 100% sure she has not sold everything. She has put most away out of sight. it's a lie. She may have sold some but i highly doubt she sold everything. She just wants to create a different audience and hop on the luxury no label classic fashion as it's trending. As a designer I have always created my own classic styles and refrained from heavy designer purchases. It's called making wise sensible choices. I own couple Chanels here and there but never hopped on creating Dior, jaquemus, Saint Laurent etc etc room filled with everything trending.

I always thinks its interesting when people sell their bags, dont they love them?? I love my handbags whether they're cheap or expensive. I've loved handbags and slgs since I was 5 years old. I think we have to realise that there are millions of handbag buyers in the world who aren't on RU-vid, just because it's a trend here doesn't mean it's a real thing.😂

Some people just are doing TOO well. 😏

Clearly, she got issues that she is dealing with… don’t have to follow her to get rid of everything…