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Reality Check: NOTHING REAL | Let's Stop Comparing! 

Solenn Heussaff (and husband)
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This video pretty light and funny, but I also want to talk about the more serious things that happen when we keep comparing ourselves with each other and when we don't keep things real. I’ve never shared this in public before, but I had my own struggles with mental health just last year. Wrote about it all in my blog: solenn.ph/journals/reality-che...
If you're watching this/reading this, I want you to know: If you are struggling with something, no matter how small you think it is, you need to talk to someone. Remember that you are important to SO MANY people around you. :)

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17 июл 2018

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@curlyterise8469
@curlyterise8469 6 лет назад
Fake reality and comparing myself to others is one of the reasons why I’m not active in social media anymore. Don’t have a twitter anymore, instagram app deleted(but not deactivated) and no fb app & also deactivated. I only kept my utube app and messenger app because I still need to talk to my parents & people for school & tbh my life has been a whole lot better 💓I don’t constantly stalk other people and then feel sorry for myself after.
@marrimar4624
@marrimar4624 6 лет назад
CurlyTerise same here... hahaha
@yassslinn3962
@yassslinn3962 6 лет назад
CurlyTerise same here!
@janellealexandracaranto3028
@janellealexandracaranto3028 6 лет назад
Omg same!!!
@ashleyscott7935
@ashleyscott7935 6 лет назад
Geeeeez wow I thought I was the only one
@emskitchen1023
@emskitchen1023 6 лет назад
CurlyTerise same here! Hahaha!
@kyemedowra
@kyemedowra 6 лет назад
Solenn is one of the realest celebrities out there. Love her. 😘❤️❤️❤️
@ezravgnza
@ezravgnza 6 лет назад
The thing I love about Solenn is that she knows she's privileged, but she doesn't shove her privilege down everyone else's throats. Keeping it real and humble and acknowledging that everyone is taking a different route. One of the hand few personalities I follow on Instagram, and I'm loving her everyday esp when she posts #SolennArt.
@eifem27
@eifem27 6 лет назад
exactly. i just love her di sya mayabang.
@aizchu2604
@aizchu2604 6 лет назад
Being real. I ❤️ it! That’s why I deleted my fb and some other social media accounts. I want to live my life as it is. Being real and being happy. Free of envy and comparison. I love you, Solenn. Nice content! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@javiermichaels3144
@javiermichaels3144 6 лет назад
Same here. Less stress. :)
@ASMv7Channel
@ASMv7Channel 6 лет назад
True. In my case, though I just deactivated them, I don't check them for a long time. 🙂 Made life easier and happier.
@eyahj4967
@eyahj4967 5 лет назад
same here! no IG, no FB for a year already. i feel that there is just too much bragging and silent competition.
@erldraws1542
@erldraws1542 6 лет назад
This video is just so good.. Many people don't realize it when they spend too much time on social media, they tend to seek validation, so instead of being true to their self, they create something that they are not.
@meandthebasic1056
@meandthebasic1056 6 лет назад
I am turning 24. And you and your whole squad inspires me to work hard to have a good life and share a bit of my blessings to everyone. Thank you! So much love 💕
@janethelejorde
@janethelejorde 6 лет назад
I don't usually admire local celebrities especially Kapuso stars, but I like you a lot! Keep spreading the good vibes to the universe!
@pauloezronestrelladotirol4227
@pauloezronestrelladotirol4227 6 лет назад
Janeth Elejorde same same :)
@LayLowize
@LayLowize 6 лет назад
What is Kapuso stars?
@wannabeportlandy2036
@wannabeportlandy2036 6 лет назад
There's a lot of amazing talents in GMA it's basically a matter of PERCEPTION
@callmemai523
@callmemai523 6 лет назад
But she’ s originally from ABSCBN Pinoy Big Brother
@gaildelacruz3474
@gaildelacruz3474 6 лет назад
A gentle reminder to all that behind those glamorous and fancy look at any social media is the unseen reality of a so called "Life-is-not-perfect". Some people didn't realize how competitive the world is most especially to all Celebrity that's why they are trying their inner efforts to be as Beautiful as they can be. Social media apps tend to be deceiving in such many ways but always be on guard and appreciate what you have. Thank you, Solenn! You spread the idea of perfectness in your own way. 💓
@sugarpopyang
@sugarpopyang 6 лет назад
This is the most worthy video I have ever seen. As a celebrity, Solenn took a stand to be a responsible human being. She's right. With access to social media, girls are often victims. They rave to be perfect in someone else's eyes. Deaths have been the result of being imperfect in their fragile world. Great job, Solenn!!! I am so touch by doing your little way of EMPOWERING women and girls!!! This is a small step of showing reality but has a huge impact in our lives. Thank you for being so courageous.
@glennstunning
@glennstunning 6 лет назад
This makes me love myself even more... thank you for opening up my mind again about REALITY. And, btw, you're one of the most transparent and real people that i look up to, and I really really love your art. Stay true, be you. 💕
@fhloriluna3280
@fhloriluna3280 6 лет назад
One of the realest, talented and beautiful person I see in TV. You have such a beautiful relationship with your husband Nico. And I am loving you both so much!
@joisaglizellecato6438
@joisaglizellecato6438 6 лет назад
I really admire you as a person!!! You’re so transparent. I love you!
@janineuy9079
@janineuy9079 6 лет назад
That's an eye opener, Solenn. We live in a world wherein people's opinion really matters to us, where in fact we shouldn't. We should learn how to mind our own business and stop comparing our lives to others. Life changing magic of not giving a f*ck. Just be you, continue to become the best version of yourself and always ask the Lord for some guidance. Less care, less bullsh*t. God bless you, Solenn. Thank you for being YOU! 🤗
@ssanantonio518
@ssanantonio518 6 лет назад
I love the realness and the truth you have put into your videos. Being a 1st time mom it is hard to be put together all of the time.
@TheStellar16
@TheStellar16 6 лет назад
Best celeb yt content so far. I do laud your honesty and your carefree attitude towards how you look.
@gracebliss4433
@gracebliss4433 6 лет назад
Just what I needed Solenn, Thank You ❤️
@maiiibel
@maiiibel 6 лет назад
😍 love love your authenticity and good vibes. Looking forward to more videos!☀️
@francezmontemayor4117
@francezmontemayor4117 6 лет назад
I LOOOOOVED & NEEEEEDED THIS ♥️ You’re my favorite actress ever since I was a kid and indeed you’re such a beautiful person inside and out ✨
@shynealexis1132
@shynealexis1132 6 лет назад
This is why I admire you. ❤️ I hope we’ll get to know more celebs like you. There is truly nothing wrong about being real. Truth will always set us free! Thank you for this video
@rhoce2807
@rhoce2807 6 лет назад
Quality beyond compare..i just love solenn for being solenn.. #real and walang arte-arte sa katawan at very humble.. konti n lng ang mga tulad mo.
@doestech
@doestech 6 лет назад
Love this! You are awesome Solenn ❣️
@suzannedee5728
@suzannedee5728 6 лет назад
I couldn't agree with you more, Solenn! I have a good career with good pay, a nice car, travels a lot, can buy anything I want, to make it simple: I live a good life and I am aware of how blessed I am. But I still feel like I wish I had more, and that would trigger my anxiety. It's not always the material things that you are jealous of. Like I wish I was as charming as Solenn (lol), or I wish I was more athletic. These are things that I see on someone else's feed too. But really, we all just need to take a step back and appreciate what we have. The happiest people I know seem to never compare their lives to others! As they say, if you got it, flaunt it!
@luna0759
@luna0759 3 года назад
You're beautiful. 🙂
@kiaragamboa1425
@kiaragamboa1425 6 лет назад
Love it❤♥ This shows that people can glam up but still be honest on how they got there. I love it :)
@camillephp4491
@camillephp4491 6 лет назад
This really made me tear up. I realy needed this, I look up to you so much Solenn
@reverlindi23
@reverlindi23 6 лет назад
“Live life and always be true to yourself! And always have fun.” Thanks Solenn 😍😍😍👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@charizzalegisma2322
@charizzalegisma2322 6 лет назад
Solenn, thanks for this video. I do have this kind of thinking but I’m not that popular to remind everyone about that. A person like you will truly be a big help and a reminder about this issue to so many people. Thank you for being you. God bless and i love your videos!
@rheadeguzman2989
@rheadeguzman2989 6 лет назад
Thank you for this!! Exactly what I have in mind but couldn’t and wouldn’t say out there cause nobody cares about my opinion so I tend to keep it to myself, but you.. you can reach a lot of people so thank you for this! You are an inspiration to others and this is such a beautiful message to most of us who needs REALITY CHECK. P.S. im already missing your old home then you also changed the video ender the “100% Solenn” ☺️😘
@nicolecruz8670
@nicolecruz8670 6 лет назад
Great content. Thanks for this Solenn, you are the realest!!!! Continue using your influence for the greater good. ♥️
@karlpatrickdinglasa4809
@karlpatrickdinglasa4809 6 лет назад
I love this video. You have straight to the point advice that well help other people stop comparing themselves to others. TBH, your advice strucked me to the point I will start to become more confident and believe in what I can do. Thank you.
@iamlenie
@iamlenie 6 лет назад
Good for you for being so real and raw. It's admirable how you are brave enough to show your natural beauty without makeup to inspire people.. kudos to u girl! 👍👏🏼👏🏼🔝💯
@ericksintos4643
@ericksintos4643 6 лет назад
Well, that's the dark side of social media. People may have good intentions of influence by posting stuffs that they think they know are helping. Based on what I have been observing, on instagram, on facebook or on twitter, everyone's living a happy life. Every milestone in life and every relationship situations are being shared. It's okay but it's not always okay. People today would post everything na parang kulang na lang pati pagpasok ng banyo, paggamit ng tissue at pagpunas ng dumi ipopost pa. It's always good to know that someone would tell us that we must live life outside of social media. Kase, we can't always get the good stuffs on social media. Hindi porque nakita mo yung idol mong artista, goals na. Seeing every good stuffs na pinopost ng friend o idol mo is not always positively affecting you. In the real world, mas nakakadepress minsan yung makita mo yung mga tao na parang nagyayabang ng buhay nila when you are in the stage where everything is falling apart. Although hindi naman talaga nila niyayabang ang buhay nila, it somehow becomes the intention. Kase, it's social media. If you watch the breakup videos of some famous youtube celebrity couples like Jesse and Jeana, Liza Koshy and David Dobrik, one of the deepest reason is that they have posted too much of their personal lives as a couple that it left them very little space for their privacy. And it's destructive and unhealthy for any relationship. Not every personal life must be shared. Not everything must be posted. And as a netizen, it is always withing our discretion to filter what we want to see and what we want to react with.
@shivvv326
@shivvv326 6 лет назад
Erick Sintos ..nice one bro..@solenn kindly read this
@keatsycuartz8478
@keatsycuartz8478 6 лет назад
amen🙏
@andivlogs
@andivlogs 5 лет назад
Love this comment. I agree
@anamiguel2603
@anamiguel2603 6 лет назад
I love everything about this blog Solen. The message at the end, precious. Keep it up!
@ianizewayTV
@ianizewayTV 6 лет назад
Im a fan Ms Solenn.. lets spread positivity and embracing our imperfections. thanks for this video :)
@clxra16
@clxra16 6 лет назад
Thank you for always being so real, Solenn!! ❤️
@airvilleleenmae
@airvilleleenmae 6 лет назад
Love this one Solenn! I know I’m one of those people that question my life sometimes why I am not like this and that.
@danicamozo6126
@danicamozo6126 6 лет назад
I love Solenn because she's beautiful inside and out and it doesn't even matter if she isn't outside. She's real and not shallow. I love you Solenn! Thank you for being the way you are.
@janini512
@janini512 6 лет назад
you have been my idol eversince ksi wla kang arte and I really find you natural! i will always love the bare faced solenn. so real! love you sos!
@Yogirlyannie
@Yogirlyannie 6 лет назад
Thank you solenn for this!! 💖
@frutiger_aer0
@frutiger_aer0 6 лет назад
Thank you for this, Sos! This video was really fun to watch, but still had a strong message :)
@merilyncaraca18
@merilyncaraca18 6 лет назад
I love you Solenn! Your so real inside and out!
@xmgromero
@xmgromero 6 лет назад
Love you, Sos - so real, simple, & down to earth!
@glizuy1652
@glizuy1652 6 лет назад
great to hear it coming from a real person like you ❤ HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sos! 😍😘 🎂🎉🎁
@sakii1250
@sakii1250 6 лет назад
Solenn! I really like you and your videos :) More inspiring and eye opening videos especially to those who feel hopeless in life due to constant comparing and seeing only other people's success and happy moments but not appreciating what we have in ourselves, the happy moments, achievements, beauty and the chance that we're given to live life to the fullest 😊
@jecylcumawas5285
@jecylcumawas5285 6 лет назад
I just love how you’d open up to this kind of issue nowadays. A lot can relate Esp. To the teenagers and young adults. Thank you for this kind of content. BE REAL❤️😊
@DJRockstarBee
@DJRockstarBee 6 лет назад
It feels nice to know that there are still good hearted woman like you who still exists. Thank you for being real. :)
@elizabethpapa9085
@elizabethpapa9085 6 лет назад
Thanks, Solenn! I really needed this pep talk. 🤗
@mjgarciaperez
@mjgarciaperez 6 лет назад
I Love you Solenn!! ❤️❤️❤️
@misssammie7125
@misssammie7125 2 года назад
Yes! Thankyou so much for reminding us and for me i don't have time to get jealous online people who have been uploaded their photos or videos
@misaymags
@misaymags 6 лет назад
Just love. You're amazing, Solenn. ❤️
@leapresnedi7187
@leapresnedi7187 6 лет назад
I love this video and I am sharing it! Thanks Solenn! 😘
@leslieyoung4590
@leslieyoung4590 6 лет назад
Thanks Solenn! You are my favourite local celebrity, very down to earth and very practical :) I'm a silent commenter :D like following IG stories specially those vids with your pets :D
@joycallado
@joycallado 6 лет назад
Thank you so much Solenn, a very real person
@andycrappy
@andycrappy 6 лет назад
I almost cried with the intro. Thanks ate Solenn for reminding me to keep everything real. 💕
@mommasond
@mommasond 6 лет назад
Haynaku, this is what i love about you, you are so true. Congratulations on your new home, its beautiful, cozy simple. Much love and Aloha from Hawaii.
@zorluzorlu9692
@zorluzorlu9692 6 лет назад
This is so true. I like you solleeennn, you’re simple and not pretentious!
@fredner1000
@fredner1000 6 лет назад
I don't usually admire any celebrities but you are exemption. I like you coz you are very humble person and not suplada even you are so beautiful! I love watching you, your husband (Nico) and Erwan
@veronicaaguilos1298
@veronicaaguilos1298 6 лет назад
Your videos are always fun! Love watching it.
@LippyEveTheMartins
@LippyEveTheMartins 6 лет назад
Love this vid, Solenn! Actually, I love all your videos because of how real you are. ♥️
@modestacamaganakan6834
@modestacamaganakan6834 2 года назад
very well said! Love this woman.
@DaisyDegamo-dishangdee
@DaisyDegamo-dishangdee 5 лет назад
Ur my spirit animal 😁 Truly, wen i feel too conscious, not confident, not sure of myself, ur one of those i turn to. Thanks!
@asiansecret7269
@asiansecret7269 6 лет назад
thank you Solenn! this video can help a lot of people especially to all young women out there! 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️👊👊👊
@nurseaena5035
@nurseaena5035 6 лет назад
I totally agree with you Solenn and thanks for another inspiring message and advice to all of us.
@michaelavillanueva3562
@michaelavillanueva3562 6 лет назад
Preach ! Couldn't have been said any better by anyone else! Amen!
@mersieinagan432
@mersieinagan432 6 лет назад
You moved me into tears.. i dont know why.. #weirdo Fan here! Love your soul. ❤️
@rmmcify
@rmmcify 6 лет назад
Great content Solenn! Very informative and promotes self- love! 😍🤗
@jeannnshe
@jeannnshe 6 лет назад
after reading your blog derecho naman dito sa vlog mo.. super loove this! sabi nga dun sa nabasa kong book "Comparisons can spoil your happines"... 😉😆😊 keep it real Solenn!
@kaequiambao4533
@kaequiambao4533 6 лет назад
Great video Solenn..you just gained a subscriber here.. That is something that a lot of people need to know that not all you see online is real.. I've always said to people never compare yourself to others be you & be unique.. Self love is important
@bolenggirl
@bolenggirl 6 лет назад
That was how I was feeling this morning when I was browsing my facebook account. I felt deflated after comparing myself to other people. I happen to see your video and clicked it. Your advise somehow opened my eyes. Thank you Solenn!
@caryncurtis3707
@caryncurtis3707 6 лет назад
Thank you for your honesty. This is why I really don't browse on facebook. I just used it to instant message my family. Anyway, you are very brave for getting in front of the camera without make up. I am now a subscriber.
@vannezza143
@vannezza143 6 лет назад
Just what i needed right now, thanks ate Solenn!
@allmyjoys
@allmyjoys 6 лет назад
Solenn, I love you!!!! Thanks for keepin' it real.
@myrescuefamily
@myrescuefamily 6 лет назад
This is why i love you Solenn. Really. You are so amazing, real and fckng downright humble. You are beautiful inside and out, and that's how you always glow. Nico is so lucky to have you and you guys are perfect for each other. 💜 Just wanna say ive been your fan since d1 and you are the pinay celebrity whom i look up to the most!
@catrinatayao2305
@catrinatayao2305 6 лет назад
love this video sos!!! omg your so reaaaaal 😭😍
@andrewmat7796
@andrewmat7796 6 лет назад
no wonder you are so inspiring! you are candid and beautiful inside-out! thank you Sos! Just what i need these times.. (guilty here! i keep comparing myself to others, i have tons of whys ..) thanks Sos! you rock!
@marymendiola
@marymendiola 6 лет назад
I love this! This isbone of the reasons why I admire you! ❤
@parengjoey2255
@parengjoey2255 6 лет назад
I love this video! Thank you Solenn! 😘
@jessaespinosa4478
@jessaespinosa4478 5 лет назад
Lots of Love Solenn 😘😘😘😘 Thanks for inspiring
@tarrahc4808
@tarrahc4808 5 лет назад
I love your videos Solenn! Your naturally beautiful inside and out. Spread happiness as you always do in your videos with your hubby Nico! God bless you both!
@abcdefghi894
@abcdefghi894 6 лет назад
This was truly an amazing video! This actually means a lot to me.
@mindyandres819
@mindyandres819 6 лет назад
Stop comparing your life to other people. Just appreciate all the beauty and glamorous life of the people you see online, on your social media accounts, etc.... Nobody's perfect anyway. Love yourself, workhard to achieve goals, and most importantly, Pray!❤ Mabubuang ka pagcompare ka sa life ng iba. Nice one Sos! Very true!😍
@aleynaharb1931
@aleynaharb1931 6 лет назад
Well said and I totally agree 👌👍
@ma.suteraannpagatpat2405
@ma.suteraannpagatpat2405 6 лет назад
Maojud!! Magka iba tayo ng istorya ng buhay! :-) :)
@mindyandres819
@mindyandres819 6 лет назад
MA. SUTERA ANN PAGATPAT Everybody has itS own story to tell. Diversion is the key.
@ma.suteraannpagatpat2405
@ma.suteraannpagatpat2405 6 лет назад
Mindy Andres I agree with you Ms. Mindy. Thanks!
@mindyandres819
@mindyandres819 6 лет назад
MA. SUTERA ANN PAGATPAT You're Welcome!😊
@madelrigonan07
@madelrigonan07 6 лет назад
Great to have a video with honest content such as this. Thank you. :)
@sahvinmumar1017
@sahvinmumar1017 6 лет назад
Love this video, sooo on point!
@ma.sidneyreignpagulayan8987
@ma.sidneyreignpagulayan8987 6 лет назад
So inspiring love yah gurl!❤
@jassrab7230
@jassrab7230 6 лет назад
You have the most purest intentions thank u for the message ms solen!
@ahrmanddonaldcalangi3625
@ahrmanddonaldcalangi3625 6 лет назад
Love this vid. Very timely!
@MultiKpopforever
@MultiKpopforever 6 лет назад
In this generation full of famewhores and fake people, it really takes brave and courage to stay real esp in the social media world. kudos to you Ms Solenn for making a video like this that spreads an important message.
@marygracemontalban7080
@marygracemontalban7080 6 лет назад
Best video I've watched so far. Thanks.
@emableau
@emableau 6 лет назад
I like you more this time, Sos. That's a very good reminder. ❤️
@naturelleshaker3135
@naturelleshaker3135 6 лет назад
Thank you Solenn. You are real.
@czarinajoycedizon9472
@czarinajoycedizon9472 6 лет назад
I just want to say I love youu solenn!! I admire you a lot. God bless! 💖
@FoodiePinoy
@FoodiePinoy 6 лет назад
I totally agree with Solenn. We must practice not to compare ourselves with others.
@gcgrace6038
@gcgrace6038 6 лет назад
I am a new subscriber and I think I will eagerly watch all your past vids as I enjoyed this one a lot. I like real talks 😀
@abbiec1475
@abbiec1475 6 лет назад
Thank you for sharing this, Solenn!
@goradexplorergonzalez6712
@goradexplorergonzalez6712 6 лет назад
Thank you for this Solenn!!! Mwah!
@degieherediano8056
@degieherediano8056 6 лет назад
Thanks Sos, for reminders. Love lots.
@JulesIgnacio
@JulesIgnacio 6 лет назад
Thanks for the reminder Ate Solenn!
@angeloarcilla7152
@angeloarcilla7152 6 лет назад
Awesome message, keep it real.. to each his own indeed!
@girleyborer472
@girleyborer472 6 лет назад
Thank you for sharing Ms. Solenn! Ito ang real talk! now I don't have to feel insecure.
@MrJtuso
@MrJtuso 6 лет назад
Awwwwe thank you for this! God bless you
@salazarhannajoy5783
@salazarhannajoy5783 4 года назад
the quality! i love it😻
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