Red Lines 💯 Takbeer Allahu Ackbar!!!! Get our acts together and live the life ordained for us Subhaanallah!! Allow the blessings of Allah in our lives. Open the doors. Switch on Green Lights Beg Allah for guidance in all matters aaneen Beautiful Kutbah ❤
SubhanAllah! 😢 An eye opening khutbah! جزاك الله خيراستاذ! YA RABB! please help us to practice/ understand this deen according to Quran/Sunnah and make us better than who we previously were in/outside of our families moving forward in our lives by YOUR mercy! 🥺 اللهم امين
Prophet Mohammad (ﷺ) FRIDAY SUNNAH'S 1. TAKE A BATH (GHUSL) 2. USE MISWAK TO CLEAN YOUR TEETH 3. WEARING CLEAN OR NEW CLOTHES 4. APPLY PERFUME/ OUD 5. CUT YOUR NAILS 6. READ SURAH AL-KAHF 7. SEND DUROOD UPON THE PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W) 8. GO TO THE MASJID AS EARLY AS YOU CAN 9. WALKING TO THE MASJID 10. LISTEN TO THE KHUTBAH OF JUMMAH 11. PRAYING 2 RAKAT (Tahiyat-Al-Masjid) BEFORE SITTING DOWN IN MASJID. Try To Follow All Sunnah Every Friday ❤ Also copy & share with others 😊
Prophet Mohammad (ﷺ) said: "The most virtuous fasting after the month of Ramadan is Allah's month Al-Muharram." (Sahih Muslim / At Tirmidhi) Don't miss fast on 9th & 10th Bcz Fasting on day of Ashura Erases 1 Year of Sins Also Fast on Mondays & Thursdays & (Ayame Beez) 13,14,15 of islamic month it's sunnah Copy & share with others 😊
so husband says do this for my parents you do it to obey your husband so in this age and time what is the benefit of getting married I want this sheikh to answer. or the husband tell you to drop the kids off to his parents or he spends all his free time with his mother then what
I had the same Q 🫠 he did mention something around 15:30. But still, this is a tough situation & not everyone will understand. People I live with understand because they see what I am put through by my own mother. No matter how much you try to bare patience, the reactive abuse, manipulation & gas lighting can be too much. Im not an expert sis but this is what I do - I stay away from her as much as I possibly can living under one roof. I do NOT mean ignore her, I just stay away when I can - for my sanity, MOST IMPORTANTLY IT IS TO AVOID SIN BY ARGUING WITH HER - but at the same time FULFIL YOUR duty as a daughter. Do your part for the sake of Allah, for the sake of your akhira. This is so important. Depending on your situation - Literally avoid eye contact, or excessive chit chat or even confrontations - which may lead to arguments. It can make it easier if you just look at her as severely mentally unwell. And see how differently you react. At the end of the day we are doing this for our akhira. Just DONT MAKE IT OBVIOUS that you are avoiding her. You don’t want to face punishment for hurting anyone’s feelings, whilst protecting yourself. Just keep yourself busy with important things. It’s tough! Remember one rule: your mum is your test. Some are tested with war torn country, some tested with poverty, or domestic violence, legal injustice, difficult children, and some are tested with a narcissistic mother. But each time you feel you’re about to snap just remind yourself of what punishment you may face for snapping at your mother. It’s so easy to snap believe me I know. Or even better, just remind yourself this dunya is temporary. Don’t think of this as a phrase. Instead picture yourself in jannah - this dunya will only feel like a couple of minutes. Sometimes it’s easier to just look at people as if they’re not really there. As in they’re just a test. Everyone around you is a test. May Allah make it easier for you sis.
Also coming from certain cultures makes it worse…. 😕🥲 I’ve honestly just come closer to my deen, moved away from the cultural traps. It really helps. I am slowly finding more and more solutions.
