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Relationship problems www.StrongMarri... - Having relationship problems? Marriage Counselor, Dr. Dana Fillmore, teaches the Most Important Lesson that couples need to know. She covers how to think about priorities, how to prevent an affair and how to stay deeply in love. Marriage Counseling Made Easy!
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@DevelopingFutures 13 лет назад

Great video Dana! Lots of straight talk and good info. I have experienced how consciously committing to being together alone has become a corner stone in the foundation of our marriage. Thanks for the reminder!

@lovemecom3832 7 лет назад

Problems in every couple can make their relationship stronger.

@Claybraham91 7 месяцев назад

This is true, but we shouldn't search for problems just because it makes it stronger.

@TheTweeter53 13 лет назад

@DanaFillmorePsyD There is also a class aspect to your 4 priorities in marriage. Wealthy couples can and do hire many household tasks done such as cooking, cleaning, yard work, time with kids, paying bills, etc... Also, their homes are much larger, with more privacy zones. This lends itself to more intimacy and more date nights if the couple so chooses. Average folks are much more tired at the end of the day because their life is so much harder than are affluent couples. These are facts.

@DanaFillmorePsyD 13 лет назад

Thanks for the comment. The rationale behind the spouse being ahead of the kids is that the marriage needs to be #1. Marriages that break up don't do the kids any favors. Spouses that aren't on the same page don't help the kids have healthy relationships. The best service you can give your kids is to have a strong, healthy marriage and in order to do that, your marriage and spouse needs to be #1. Hope that helps explain the rationale.

@marii_lilmonsta 9 лет назад

Thank you !

@Winchesterosteve 9 лет назад

Mary Cruz .Lady and Mr. I have a problem My name is Mohammed and I have My girlfriend from Hungary We are near three years in a relationship of love I sometimes do not feel good with it and worry Every day with me in Skype and Facebook My girlfriend always and every day images and romantic music in Facebook to this day Sometimes sad and angry I am leaving him or leave me I do not know how to open the problem My girlfriend 57-year-old I am 29 years old I want to leave him in peace and happy My family does not know about her How ?

@TheDezizzle 13 лет назад

My fiancé and I have been fighting an awful lot lately. We have a 9 month old baby in the house and I'm a stay at home mother. He seems to feel that I get to relax all day while he works. While any mother know that's not the case. I'm cleaning chasing a baby and have dinner ready. I feel very under appreciated. Not to mention ignored. He come home at night and spend a hour with the baby then bed. I want to have intimacy to get that connection. But he always seems tired. This is a real blow to

@DanaFillmorePsyD 13 лет назад

DevelopingFutures- So glad you found the video valuable! Wishing you years of love and happiness!

@DanaFillmorePsyD 13 лет назад

@lokkkness So glad this helped you! Spending time together makes an incredible difference in keeping a relationship strong.

@DanaFillmorePsyD 12 лет назад

Try listening to her. One of the things that everyone likes is to be heard and understood. If she finds that you're really into "getting" her and supporting her, perhaps she'll want to spend more time talking to you instead of your friend.

@DanaFillmorePsyD 13 лет назад

To the person who asked if the priorities applied to couples who aren't married or don't have kids, the answer is that these priorities apply to any committed relationship.

@ankitaraxwal3407 11 лет назад

Hi Dana , Your videos are very helpful with full of inspiring events which teach on how to deal the situation differently than a person would normally do .I wanted to share some misunderstanding happening between us and would like to get your advise on it .WHat's the best way to contact you .

@rubyhernandez6265 11 лет назад

Hi I need some advice in what to do me and my husband have had arguments about the same thing over and over again but he spent seem to understand can you please write back so we can talk about it?

@RazziaLowne 12 лет назад

@BlackJacketWasp No,sure i would feel dissrespected,neglected etc.But i woudnt be so down about it for to long.I have an instant turn off button for disrespectfull people,thats why.Im always comfortable cause i know that if he would cheat. It woudnt take weeks to get over him..and i feel more comfortable knowing im not goin to have depression for weeks (i been there already,and i've seen at the end that it wasnt neccesary at all .So my mind state and way of thinking are working that way to )

@DanaFillmorePsyD 11 лет назад

Hi Ruby, I am sorry to hear that you are having redundant arguments with your husband. My suggestion is to check out our program on our website Strong Marriage Now . com. We have a specific program "Effective Communication for Couples" that is very fitting for your situation. Best of luck.

@sugarlandlist 13 лет назад

@DanaFillmorePsyD : one of my friends is having problem wid marriage. husband is drug addicted and drink a lot. have no time for kid, but i told her try to save the marriage 1st b4 going for divorce option... is it a good idea?

@TheTweeter53 13 лет назад

@DanaFillmorePsyD Another thing: True, "marriages that break up don't do the kids any favors." But it's also true that marriages that stay together with much bickering and discord don't do the kids any favors either. I'm not sure which is worse. Basically, my mom told me that in marriage you may have romance, and then again you may not! But you will have BUSINESS; every day, and every day, and every day! Marriage is in essence a business agreement between people for the raising of kids.

@MBNxXx301WANT3D 12 лет назад

Me and this girl use to talk alot and now she's talking to one of my friends more than she does with me what should I do?

@dewycatt2112 11 лет назад

Yesterday her daughter was kicking me and slapping me in the face(all the while she is getting a thrill with her new found power over mom). Mom says it is just not going to work out because of her daughters feelings about me, and insist that its not because she is jealous.I think mom may be cheating and useing as a front to push me out.Mom has the authority but not doing anything.she doesnt know but its teaching her that its ok to treat men like this.very sickening!! to the least!!

@RazziaLowne 12 лет назад

Im with a man who just cant seem to get off my back with his jealousy, it onley shows me how insecure he is..while he is the one working at clubs day in day out, and i dont get to see him that often..i never have issue with jealousy, cause i woudnt care less if he would cheat..ive already been cheated once, and im kind of immune to it..as for him..he drives me crazy and we are engaged, what makes it harder to seperate..but its nt working and i refuse to get married this way ,any advice please!?!

@DanaFillmorePsyD 11 лет назад

Hello, we offer additional advice on our website and further contact information. Go to Strong Marriage Now . com and check out our blog too! Thanks and best of luck.

@stevekutlik626 3 года назад

I like her she leans towards equality instead of the man should say and do everything to make his wife happy women need to take more responsibility about their manipulative ways its not always the man's fault

@TheSteffidias 11 лет назад

Hey Dana, I need your advice regarding some problem... Would you please try and contact me?

@dewycatt2112 11 лет назад

My problem? Girlfriend of 2+yrs. Her daughter now 12. the father deceased few yrs ago.(she wanted a divorse from him being controling, as she told me). Her daughter was nice and lil" sweety at first,now her pre-teens she is coping attitude and use it to get mom against me.now I guess I am a mean guy because we got into mature argument over her lack of money responsibility.The other issue now is daughter is jealous when we are together. she thinks I"m taking mom away and gets very nasty rude.cont

@TheTweeter53 13 лет назад

I found it interesting how you ranked the 4 categories. Spouse ahead of kids? Are you serious? Growing up, my mom always told me that once a woman has kids, the husband must take a back seat. Given the choice of saving her kids or her husband if they were all drowning, 99% of women would save their kids first. Kids represent the future, once a guy spreads his seed, he in essence becomes a has been. Sorry guys, if you want to be #1 in a woman's life; don't have kids!

@hydrobot2003 12 лет назад

dump her! trust me you will be better in the future! just trust me! look her in the eyes and tell she will never have a happy marriage acting the way she acts. then tell her she doesn't deserve you, turn around and never talk to her again. do this now, today! so your marriage and kids don't pay in the future. Good Luck and Be Strong!!!

@dewycatt2112 11 лет назад

and will hit me and try to get me rialed up".then mom gets mad at me.I am,and have been very nice to her and would love to have/take care as a daughter. now she sleeps with mom and when tired etc..will pull mom with her and away from me.mom is not disiplining her to be respectfull toward me, and if mom gets nasty to me(for any uncalled for reason)I belive she is picking up these cue"s and thinks its ok to be nasty to me cuz mom does nothing.VERY FRUSTRATING!..continued...

@TheDezizzle 13 лет назад

My self-esteem. I guess my question is how do fit in time together? Can that time be at home, maybe just talkin in bed for a hour or more?

@BigM-k7o 12 лет назад

omg don't even get me started so my school plays basketball and I'm playing and my gf is the cheerleader... so after the game I try to put my arm around her and she's all like NO DONT TOUCH ME! then she goes to her friends hugs them and flirts with them then I feel like shit.... I say nice things and she calls me embarrasing and stupid and an idiot alot... she said she might want to break up because I'm too emotional when she makes me feel like a worthless asshole

@deewoodbury4849 10 лет назад

We have stopped communicating, He has tried to tell me on more than one occasion, I did not listen and did nothing, now he wants to divorce, we have spent next to no time together, sex is nil, which is my fault and there is no infidelity.they say the light bulb theory, when it goes of its WOW why didn't I see it, I want to work on how I can change this, and have him fall in love w/ me again.

@TheTweeter53 13 лет назад

I respect your rationale Dr. Fillmore, but I just don't agree with it! I understand what you're saying, but it's awful hard for me to unlearn a lesson my mom pounded into my head many, many, many times, and for many years. You subscribe to the Dr. Phil-Ronald and Nancy Reagan version of marriage; a kind of patriarchal and hierarchal version, a "Father Knows Best" mentality, where everything and everybody revolves around the man and woman in the marriage, and everybody else is a distant 2nd.

@sunilsai6271 11 лет назад

good advice, thanks i also found some good advice in a free android app "relationships for dummies" by lokesh

@gorlist187 12 лет назад

What i find funny, is that women have the best ideas...and also the most evil intentions. but then again i no longer really seek it...but here i am thinking i can come here and be negative.. and...i notice you are right...perhaps..BAH! maybe im just bitter, or maybe im just a male, and feel a bit inferior on this subject.. :S hmm..women seem to have the best ideas...provokes us men properly...and perhaps my bad luck is a factor

@DanaFillmorePsyD 11 лет назад

Hello Ankita, I have sent you a private message with a way to reach out for further advice. Thank you.

@floorhockygal 12 лет назад

so I know this guy and he says he likes this other girl but he always hangs with me and r we friends or love?!?!?!???!???!!!! if u want more details comment me and ask. but I can't tell u names or ages.