Relationship | Whether You Should Marry or not? | Dr. Hansaji Yogendra 

Amma please make a video on hot to reduce acne scars and pits please amma🙏🙏🙏

Please make a video on whether to have kids or not as well madam....Coz., parenting has been the most challenging these days...thank you 🙏

Hansa Maa could you please make a video on making healthy boundaries? It would be very helpful

Sooo beautifully explained, Maa :)

This really help me with my decisions Amma😘and i can relate to this…Some people always asking me why I’m still single or not yet married? I answered them like this, “Getting married is not a competition, that i have my own timeline..because I don’t like to get married for the sake of having a partner in life…Our relationship will not lasts longer if I force myself to do so..I will just settle down if I’m physically,mentally, spiritually and financially prepared..I am not closing the thought of “ we need a partner “ for as long we are ready and responsible enough to fulfill our duty as partner or as husband or wife..can you enlighten me Amma if i did the right thing or Not…I need your suggestions..Thank You and May God Bless you💕😘😘🙏

Very true 👍👍

Rightly said

@shubham yes it's possible but u have to make your decision, I took my decision when I was 21 as well

@shubham bro u r just 21 I am 24 now and have no pressure to get married, bcoz I told my father..... I am not going to marry unless I am satisfied with myself. So you have to discuss this with your parents. there is no other way. Try it

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So true....😁😁😁😁

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Well said😂

Very true question

@@Zada08 wtf

You will regret later on .

@@itsmeedeepu5944 who told you.. Nobody live together till death.. May be husband or wife die... Then you r alone... After marriage also... Even children don't take care of... Then what should you do... Regret for what? Do you know...

@@juhigautam9874 don't do anything sleep tight anyway one day you are gonna die. such negative thoughts you need healing.

Your comments are really inspiring

This is beautiful to read. ❤️

Wish i could get some one like you. Im in my 20s. Relationship i was in, always made me question my value. Initial years i used to listen him talk on and on lovingly. And he hardly allowed me to sneak in. But eventually it became irritating to me. He made me feel weak in several other ways. Whatever I did just for him, was nothing for him. In short, i feel myself fool at the end. Btw im happy reading this message. I wish you good health and happiness in future :)

This is beautiful. It reminds me that there is hope in this world. There is Beauty and Humanity after all.

Wow .. You are superb sir

I am a normal man.. still I choose not to mrry and lose in the game

Me tooooooo I also don't want To get married and be a man's slave

I think our society is the worst , they ruined their life so they want ruin another life

Correct

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I was in same situation and still not buy that concept no matter how hardship I face I will not bow down until I am sure to get married 👍🤗 U r for once Never live by other rules.

Khud independent bann jao koi kuchh nahi bolega even ladies ko bhi nahi

People were always marrying because of social/peer/parental pressure. In fact the pressure was even more earlier. Atleast nowadays many people are choosing their own partners against the wishes of the society/peers/parents.

You can do both. Marry if you want a family to give back the good things given to us. Best wishes.

You can support your family better with a marriage, as your parents will be happy Your children also would support your parents.

Your parents are the past and present...Your Husband will be the present and future....choose your partner with compatibility not looks....

i support you

Sister agar unhone tumhe Aisa boll diya ki beta hum aapke sath nhi rehna chahte tum shadi krke jao or hmari khusi isi m hai ki aap ache se apna ghr bsaye...tb kya jwab dogi unko..fr kaise sacrifice krogi

Yes .

you didnt understand the context. Maa meant that a family member is generally more thoughtful than a single person which makes spiritual journey easier. Maa always talks subtle - never as "nothing" or so... she clearly said, its totally a person's decision.

@@theyogainstituteofficial thanks for the reply. But if a family person is generally more thoughtful than a single person then explain to me our PM Modi, our our Orissa CM, or anybody from any walk of life who doesn't lead a family life. Does it mean they are not spiritual or well-rounded human beings. Who decides who is spiritual and non-spiritual. Sushmita sen, she is not married but one of the most inspiring woman this country has produced. Abdul Kalam, the true father of the nation of this generation, was unmarried. Vajpayee, Lata Mangeshkar...numerous names like these. I understand your love and devotion to Hansa ma and I am sorry if I made you feel defensive but this is just about learning to accept different viewpoints in our society respectfully. I love Hansa ma and have the deepest love and respect for her. I am just sharing a different point of view, that's all. Once marital status should have nothing to do with ones personal growth. Yes, its one medium but not the only medium. And it's not the end game.There are thousands who give up family life and take larger group of people as their own like Mother Teresa. Also there are people who believe in living life on their own and live a vagabond life. They too are explorers of their own purpose and goals in life. There is not right and wrong here. That my point of view respectfully 🙏 let's be inclusive of all. Sooner or later at some point one will realise the real joy is in giving, be it to self, to people around, to community, to nation or the whole world at large. At what ever pace it might be. People who are married also why limit to just family duties? There is more right. Are they better off than others? Even they will not agree 😄 growth is specific to each individual. Let's leave it at that.

I totally agree with you. It is indeed ironical. On one hand celibacy is supposed to be one of the greatest virtues to practice spirituality and on the other hand in this video it is said that get married/stay in family for spiritual growth.

@@pratiraj9750 how did you miss gautam buddha and mahaveer who left family to contribute for mankind

@@kshemendragourav3746 But it would have been better if they were unmarried. Then they would have been more effective in their goals.

Thanks. Someone said it❤️

Ye bhi sahi baat h

To put context, when young i too, thought the same as mentioned in the comment BUT as became older, the subtlety of the message of the story became clearer. So here, both partners respect each other, if i know something doesn't make sense and my partner is normally a sensible person, then I will GIVE benefit of doubt to his wisdom and not question him in front of others, if alone with each other then may ask him but that too politely. Here my takeaway is when you know and respect your partner in the true sense of the word, you will know, when to keep silent and when and where to question. Hope it helps 🙏

Celibacy is the only way to truth. Avoid marriage at all costs. Without Brahmacharya we cannot be spiritual.

​@@plutoneptunewhat if parents are forcing and not ready to take responsibility after something goes bad

U are right

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@@madhavimadhu4824 👍

You have Brain .....🤍👍😊

Sure kata hai na Tera🤣

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It is to let go..otherwise never marry

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I would ask my husband to heat it himself :p

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@@nitikamehta9150 Loads of love and warm welcome your appreciation and support is all I need :)

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No. The example was correct. I agree it was exaggerated but it is true... Respect and trust with your partner is all we need in a marriage.

You are right when it comes to how this example glorifies absolute trust and respect without any logic behind it. Why heat the hot rice again? Why wear a scarf when it is already hot outside? Both of them should have questioned eachother because neither of their logic made any sense, that would have been considered good communication. Questioning eachother does not mean that they do not respect each other, that is how people grow. Also at some points in the video I can't deny the fact that certain patriarchal undertones does exist.

Absolutely!

I too agree with you but I have a different point of view here. My view is there is no need to be that much devoted that you oversee others mistake. This is not trust, this is foolishness. As a partner you need to grow with each other which can be done by clearing each others mistake hence just to avoid argument not telling truth about someones foolishness or mistake is utterly nonsense thing to do. There should be trust and a thought should be given when your partner points out the mistake then together each others flaws can be removed and one can grow in relation together. Also in a basic sense atleast both should be comfortable with telling each others mistake openly. I like her videos but this example made me dislike her video for the first time.

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we urge the couples to work on and have balance, trust, respect, love for happiness and peace in the family and for the ideal society

@@theyogainstituteofficial thank you 🙏❤️

Nope that's wrong Usually bdsm relations are much healthier than normal relation

Dominant attracts submissive ,submissive attracts dominant...masculine and feminine energies attract each other

Problem is that u want a ur girl friend in ur husband

Humanity is also going to disappear very soon

So true..... 10000000 agree with you . rishta ma baap ka nh nibh pata .. Toot bache jate h. Bacho ko us gunha ki saja milti h .. Jo glti unhone nhi ki .. Rishta unhka nibha vo nh pa rhe. Saja hume milti h

Exactly....we are 3 kids...and we have an extremely traumatic childhood, till date we are suffering and dilemma still lies to choose happiness or stick to our duties as kids and keep thriving to "make our parents" happy which we don't know is possible or not.

​@@InspiroreaderneetikaI have anxiety, depression, going through till now... No one can understand the pain I have gone through...if I could I would unborne myself...my parents are the first reason I don't want get married ever

​@@crazyFun129are your parents forcing you to get married?

@@roshnipraveen8901 not forcing yet , but will in the coming year For now they gave me time to make my mind already...cause they won't support my descision of being single 💔

yes...What we see is the outside world of the couple...What is going inside, we actually do not have ay single idea...And you know, these days marriages are done only by seeing bank balance...if the guy is in govt sector then there is no question about getting engaged...this is why people are suffering....without two hearts are melting with each other, no one can be happy..there will be only compromising

Get out if it, you dont deserve to he treated anything less than a queen. It’ll be hard to leave but it’ll be worth it.

It's all about our fucking luck... nothing else ☺️... stay single and be happy like me 👍

@@parukrish3518 not interested

@@rahulbhavsar5077 Not only luck, we have to be strong enough to face and take action. Its hard to leave due to bonds and connection created, but if we find a partner who truly understands and appreciates us, we truly are lucky as its rare in this generation

@@thej.asminej obviously..it's depends on Luck 🤞 mam....I'm not 🚫 abusing any girl I still respect to all ...but in my whole life I still never talked with any girl...bcoz I'm so afraid 😟 ... And I'm knowing about my luck. And I must says those are people are very lucky who's in truly relationship ...but they never ever respect each other....I saw so many examples... that's why I decided I'm happy with my single life... forever ♾️ at least baki logon ki tarah mujhe meri life ka majak nahi banana he ... 🙏🏻 Sorry 😐

That's the main point, everyone saying the same thing that u should marry the right person.. But no one is telling how .. Dating is an option but Indian society don't allow dating... Then what's the solution

Amazing.

Well said bro .. I like ur comment more than this video..

You aren't lonely., am here. 32 Unmarried.

@@bharathv499 You are unmarried but he is divorced! There is a difference.

@@bharathv499 thanks so much bro. Means a lot to me. 💕

Celibacy is the only way to truth. Avoid marriage at all costs.

U r chubby

Hate makes life meaningful

Hello , what you have decided to get married or not??

శ్రీ కావ్య రిప్లై ప్లీస్

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👍 true sister