Yoga & You: How to choose your Life-Partner? | Dr. Hansaji Yogendra 

Whenever I watch your videos, I feel like mother is passing her wisdom to daughter. Thank you

Very good video. In my opinion there are two aspects to a successful relationship- 1. Chemistry - This deals with emotional aspects such as do you like the person, are you attracted to them, can you trust them, do you feel comfortable around them. 2. Compatibility - This deals with logical aspects such as are your career goals compatible, are your lifestyles similar, food habits, socioeconomic standing etc. When parents choose a partner they give full importance to compatibility without considering chemistry. When someone chooses a partner himself he often bases his decision on chemistry without considering compatibility. That's why both love and arranged marriages fail. You need both the factors to be considered properly for a successful marriage.

Only a strong women will look for a strong man. So first of all make urself a strong, stable and confident person then look for a match. 😊

1. Self-sufficient 2. Health Conscious - Mentally , Physically 3. Hobbies 4 . Faith, confidence, positive For both men and women Be flexible and understanding in relationship. Give commitment only when you r ready.

Want a right person? Be the right one first.

1. whether a person is self sufficient 2. is he health conscious 3. what is he doing for free time ( social life ) 4. faith in himself - confidence , self dependent

Get to know each other before you get married is most important and being honest with yourself and each other because sometimes you don't know the person until you live with them

Dr Hansaji..... We love you and we are extremely fortunate to have you amongst us. Giving us advices which our elders did give us, however the affectionate tone of yours melts our heart. And makes us rethink of our egotistic decisions. You are a gem. Jazakallahu khairah Hansaji

Marriage Is a life time project of commitment and responsibility...love is actually a reaction when you grow bond to one other...

A conversations from two elegant ladies is thoughtful. It opens the perspective of looking at life in profound way. Appreciate your effort in making this video.

For all women. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Be strong. Be a better person each day. Work hard. Make your parents proud of you. Make yourself proud of the person you are becoming. You will attract the right person for you who is strong and amazing as you are and both of you will work equally to make the relationship work. Until then, work on yourself and enjoy each moment of your life... You don't know how long you'll live so be grateful for the life that you have. Prioritise your mental and physical health..do something that you love and just be happy from within.🙏 And do not rush to find the one for you. You will get into a marriage that's wrong for you and lose your peace of mind for life.

1.self sufficient (earning financial stable or caple 2 health concious 3pasinate about life 4confidenfence,faithfullness, practicle Adjustment,mutual bonding ,commitment,focusing on what is good for u not wht u like Think intellectually. at discpline .it is not whole its just a glimbse just see whole video☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

Every points are really practical and sensible, which completely relate to my thought process. Thanks madam, you are such a great advisor. 🙂✌

Life will have its ups and downs, so I make sure that I will find a life partner who makes me laugh.

A girl can also be self sufficient rather then depending on her husband

I'm so happy for watch this channel because I want to increase my spoken English skills and there is a channel Will be helpful my English skills. Thanks for helping our career....

I m blessed because my parents have all these qualities...and i raised by them ❤

Really loved the way she explained the things, hope everyone gets right person for a beautiful life 👍

Very true. I have seen examples of people who are completely devoted or they show they are religious and have bad thinking and darkness in them which they try to hide by showing how religious they are. I think mind and heart should be pure as well as one’s actions.

enjoying learning about Indian culture 🤎

Madam u forgot to say first main point...he/she must respect each other...Trust nd respect plays a vital role before everything....Since I saw my family where they do all this practically but inside in heart they don't respect nd love each other😕

Yes, adjustments are necessary . Both hv to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too . Expecting only from girl is unfair .

God bless you Grandma, you're great person

Amazing,life is beautifull just for those who know how to live!

Lv u Mam the way u explain everythg in such a sweet way, u have a very calm personality, stay blessed. Regards. Miss.Shafaq Malik

Marriage needs good team work to be successful. So the team has to be picked carefully with clear awareness of roles and responsibilities along with regular maintenance of the team through healthy communication between the partners.

Wow.... Her mindset is wonderful

Amazing... Really all people must listen to this before they decide to partner up

Mam You exactly explained what I expect...... I thout that I'm Overthinking about marriage but I was right☺☺☺

1. Self sufficient/earning - both parties 2. Health conscious- both parties 3. What do they do in their free time? Workaholic? Hobbies? Family time? Volunteers? 4. Faith in a higher power? In themselves? Not specifically religious. These are the 4 important things so far.

...it seems like more than 50% people on planet doesn't fit to eligibility criteria for marriage itself 😂

You're a wise woman, filled with wisdom.

You are amazing, Mam! Lots of respect and love! Thank you for sharing your insight in such an amazing way! 🙏🏻

Loved this, got this vid at the perfect time🙏

All the points mentioned in this video are extremely good and this is exactly how people should choose their partners. And this is exactly how I think. Otherwise, if the person has none of these qualities - then it is better not to be in such a bad relationship...after all it's your life - move on... And First of all be a good, confident, self-sufficient, independent, intelligent person yourself - only then marry, else before that I think it's better not to marry. And I am interested in both travelling and yoga......

She explained the trio in person which is looks (Health) + Education (Job etc.) + Nature (Personality & Social aspect). It's hard to find all 3 in one person, especially in girls.

She just gave a female oriented answer, same applicable for men to choose, and they should make sure they are not bringing some toxic women (Mudevi) in to your home....

Nothing is permanent. A person who is good today may change and vice versa.

Self sufficient, Health conscious, Good hobbies in free time, Confidence: A man would be really lucky if a woman is looking at only these 4 things. But unfortunately thats not the case in reality.

Relationship are business according to this video Marriage is match between imperfect peoples to make their lives perfect by helping each others Relationship should be like friendship it should not be materialistic

That felt like listening to my mom.

Wonderful Advice!

I am following these advices with great believe ...i hope i can find my right man

I hv given up on this question years ago & not interested anymore. Things r difficult but learning to manage. Given up on physical relationship & emotional attachment too. Don't want to be a beggar anymore. Masturbation & dwelling in the past, creating ur own realm is not healthy but it's far better than dealing with fake ppl in life. Money is d only thing important in my life now while actually it was of least importance once. Nobody gives a damn abt how good, honest, handsome(hritik roshan), loyal, hardworking, entertaining you r & sometimes rich (bill gates) too.

Thank you very very very much ma'am 🙏

I'm greatful to find this channel..

Amazing words,🙏🙏🙏 watching from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

Life is wonderful ❤️

Well said Madam 😊

Dr. Hanshaji, Really 100% True

Very good video. If RU-vid and phones are influenced during 2010-11 . I would have choose better one. Now there is no option.. Have to move on. Any how, it's useful for young generation. ☺ 🙏

Thank you doctor hansaji for telling and explain to me how to find right person after i finish hear you explain how to find right person and i really understand that you explain to me inside RU-vid video thank you hansaji

👏🏻🌹💚Very beautiful speech💙🌹👍

Luv this!! Thank you.❤🙏🙏

Seriously, this power is in the hands of parents,only Fantasy talks

Yes just live in reality, practically

Both must be all-around education for development ..Thank you

Awesome madam........100% practical words u said wic really make life happier.........i found this channel more informative towards life in positive way...thank u so much.....................

really beautiful piece of advice

Very good opinion mam I recognise your all points I change myself to get all this points.

Thankyou so much maam. It was so inspiring and learnt several realities in the world

Best advice ever

Beautifully described.

now i understand y it's better to be a recluse....no contact with ppl,no commitments,no adjustments and hence no scope of exploitation.

Useful...msg tq

This! Thanks you Dr. Hansaji ❤️

Chose what n whom u love..rest all can be achieved with love

Over all @9.15 made some sense!

This is very helpful now as I search for a life partner. Thank you!

Wonderful Speech 🙏🏻❤️💐

Thank u mam a priceless advice still my thoughts are cleared what i want in my life a big big thanks mam God bless you. Such a model woman u r for all women.

Last lines were very nice . Dampati.... two heads ...

Gratitude 🙏🏻🌿😇🌺

Your all words becomes the pillar of my strength... Thank you for showing a right path to all of us...

Thank you ma'am, it's very wonderful session.

best advice ever ☺️☺️☺️

Thank you so much

And I watch this on the day I am reconsidering my feelings about my breakup! This is nothing but a sign. I am sorry to say my ex does not have any of these qualities the lady mentioned. None of the above. He is 32, he is still dependent on his parents, he is a chain smoker, alcoholic and is a drug abuser, he is not health conscious in anyway , he has no interests whatsoever, he is an agnostic and also extremely irresponsible and emotionally unavailable. I still don’t know what I was thinking and what got me to this relationship.

There are no boys/girls exist anymore according to your description 😄 It’s different generation now and divorce, breakup, external affairs all are so normal theses days. Live alone and enjoy life rather than going for toxic relationship.

Thank you 👍🏻👏👏

Great points to consider when dating and considering someone for your soulmate.

The partner should be honest as well...this only builds trust and helps to create strong understanding.Fake belief will lead to disposition of relationship.

Thanks Hansaji!!!

Lovely .how true

It seems impossible to go by this formula, but it is only workable and happy formula..

Self sufficiency Health Free time Faithful These are the 4 things we need to watch in our partner.

Thankyou so much mam, it was really needed.

I believe if you have money everything will be alright

Mam good knowledge thanks ,

The points she makes are relevant and should also be desired when looking for a life partner... It is also important to be the right person before wanting the right person... Generally speaking, one can find these things in a woman far more than in a man, especially in our society...

Taking down note ladies...all will be taken care.

I liked what she said about divorce

Thanks Madam

Thank you ❤🙏mem for your valuable suggestions

Very inspiring

amazing

Gratitude. Gratitude

Super mam u r absolutely rit

Amma tell us how to convince our parents for love marriage when they oppose it for reason of inter caste

Mainly... Comittment plays a major role...